@@jadynabraham9915sammeee, lol. My glasses are ALWAYS dirty, and I often get comments like: “ you would probably see better without your glasses right now”
this is how my husband is with his glasses. but if i get one little smear on mine, i can’t unsee it & i will either clean it immediately, or if i can’t clean it right away like i’m driving or something, i’ll stare at the smudge until it gives me a headache😭🤣 i hate that it bothers me so much, i wish i could be like y’all😭😭
I'm always so impressed and grateful to see parents obviously tired but still very patient and actually talking with their child, seeing children being listened to heals my inner child so much. Hope everyone have a great day/night ❤️
@@-a5330 Same for my father 😅 it's like he didn't understand that I'm a functioning human with personal thoughts and emotions, having an open conversation about feelings is just impossible even now where I'm grown up and more than 20 yo Thoughts your way, I know how frustrating it can be ! ❤️
The mouthed “wow” made me feel so much better. It’s so easy to go straight to “I’m a horrible parent” instead of having some grace for yourself bc being a parent can be exhausting as well as your child dancing on your absolute last nerve. Of course you love them and will never ever quit but every once in awhile they do something that makes you want to sit in the corner and bang your head against the wall. 😂❤
Toddlers are the prime example of “the slider is low to strong emotion, not sad to happy emotion” like little man is feeling so strongly but he is able to bouncy ball between happy and sad like no-one’s business, it’s fascinating to watch.
What do you mean about the slider? I agree that it is fascinating. Feels like he is trying to cope with the negative emotions by distracting himself with something fun: beep beep!
@@mydirtyfeet the slider is the concept of how people believe that ‘good’ or ‘happy’ emotions are one end of a spectrum and that ‘bad’ or ‘sad’ emotions are on the other end, when in reality you can quite easily change from happy to sad in seconds, since they are both strong emotions. What Cooper seems to be doing here is exactly that, bouncing between happy and sad since they are both strong emotions, and the short attention span of a toddler makes it much easier to switch than when you get older! (The typical situation for adults is when they’re seemingly chilling, and then something small is said and it’s ‘zero to sixty’ crying “all of a sudden”)
@@shiboom1971 lmao how? he clearly has better communication skills than you. You must know that , I’m sure! I can sense that you also probably assume kids are born innate with all skills so anything a toddler does that you don’t like, suddenly becomes a faux sign of “letting kids run the house” when really…. all she’s doing is teaching her kid to communicate with other appropriately.
"mom move your hand!" it makes me so happy to see him communicate his wants and needs at such a young age!!! you can tell he feels safe to do so, the world is a much better place with parents like you in it!
I like how you show how parents that take care of kids with special medical needs are not perfect saints, and dont fucking need to be. your a human being struggling and your doing your best and thats the most important thing. I hear the stress in your voice, i see the frustration and your always good to that boy no matter how you feel. Your a good person with a very important duty. People judge too harshly. Your doing a great job beth. You really truly are. He wont forget any of this.
@Mysterygiggles kids don't know how to process emotions, your whole job as a parent is to teach them how to be successful emotionally controlled adults from basically nothing. They have 0 knowledge form birth and uo until they go to school, you're one of their only sources of knowledge. When children have tantrums, typically it's not because they are bad or wrongfully upset. It's because they don't understand their emotions or how to react with them. They may not understand why the thing they want can't happen. Like her explaining her daughter is in school, he may not fully understand but he can only understand hwt he knows
@@jhamm6162 in other videos she’s teaching him to respect her personal space (because kids are always up in Moms face and personal space), if anything it’s a great example of him learning this and applying it to himself.
@@shamanllama Ah yes the age old respect authority at all costs. So if a dad is SAing the kid you’re teaching them not to scream? By teaching them they have no bodily autonomy you’re teaching them it’s acceptable for people to touch him whenever they want.
Coop has such a big heart. ❤ He's filled with so much passion for life. Sounds like he's learning to cope with the painful emotions in life. It's not quite a straight shot toward healing and happiness. Sadness comes back like waves. Sometimes the activities that usually make us happy do not seem like a suitable replacement when we're missing the people we love.
THIS! i was trying to think of a way to describe him w|o sounding offensive or mad + this is basically perfect minus the girl* part. LOL [*only way anyone thinks it's just "teenage girls" is if they've never been around actual teens. 😂 it's alllll of them. emotional rollercoasters do not discriminate, esp. when the hormones start moving in + taking over. emotional whiplash for all! 🤣)]
I love these moments their so sweet and show how much the life of a toddler can change. It’s crazy to think what is going inside their head! Love you guys stay strong!❤😊
that split second look at the end that says "I was hangry and about to meltdown on a nuclear scale but mom and a cake pop changed my mind. carry on." 😂😂😂😂
Hats off to you mam... Seriously... I'm a pretty patient person, but raising a kid like yours(i dont intend to berate him,ik he has his needs) would take such a toll on me... I want to have patience like yours... And this is just a minute of whole day... Blessings to cooper and mostly to you
Thank you from all of us who no longer have toddlers & are now truly appreciative of that fact. Cute n all…but generally requiring of the patience of a saint. I love having hulking, grunting teenagers :)
He is SOOO the main character and I just love that. I mean....girl you're an amazing mom, a beautiful woman and a fellow Minnesotan....but he is most definitely the star of the show and I LOVE it.
Really??? All I here this kid say is I want, I want. What about pleases n thank you, no manners what so ever, n you think this is sweet n cute? I have a child more disabled then cooper, n he barely speaks but when he asks for something he says please n when given something he says thank you, n when told no he doesn't crack it at me. This kid has no manners what so ever n cracks it till he gets it. How cute n sweet he's going to be when his older.
Not all disabled children, or children in general, reach the same milestones at the same time. This is called the “learning emotional regulation” stage. Disability can affect emotional processing, too. Your comment is degrading a young child - that’s just weird. Especially coming from a parent who says they also have a disabled child.
Well, I haven’t seen this video in a while… and even in a year coop man’s speech has gotten even better!! I mean he speaks so well it’s incredible!! I really hope that friends and family are giving you, Beth, the kudos that you 100% deserve. I know that Cooper gets the kudos in the love and all that he deserves for being such a brilliant child he is reminded of that 75 times a day but I hope That the people around you are reminding you what a phenomenal job you are doing!! That child is a direct reflection of the mother you are!
@@shiboom1971EXACTLY!!! She feeds in to it & he plays her like a fiddle. She treats him like a victim & HE doesn't even realize he is "different". It's like people who carry around their blind dog. You have to treat them like they are perfectly able for them to truly thrive. I have a blind Dad who is an attorney & a Deaf brother who is a MECHANIC.
@@Bubblegum-xm5cg Villainizing toddlers is weird. This is a baby human who hasn’t been alive long enough to learn how to process and express his emotions…
I personally don't think I like children that much . I have always struggled with the idea of kids . But here I am coming back to these videos because your journey with coop is just so heartwarming.. he is such a sweetheart 🥺💜 bless you all
Just because he has difficulties doesn't mean you can't teach him, please n thank you. All I hear this kid say I WANT, I WANT, try teaching him some manners, as soon as my kids could speak, please n thank you were the top words we used when asking for something n b4 you all come down on me, 2 of my 3 children have disabilities aswell. Your raising a brat.
He's asking questions obviously she's gonna answer him. I'm pretty sure of she just stops answering him he would get even more frustrated. You might get anxious if someone did this to you but it's different for other people.
It isn't our place to tell this mother how to parent her child. If this gives you anxiety maybe you should watch something else. Beth is doing a wonderful job with her special needs child. Kudos to Beth!
“Beep beep the car”😭❤️he is too cute
noo, a REAL beep beep 😂 hes so adorable i swear he gives me baby fever
That quick switch makes it seems like he is really trying to learn to cope with his emotions. Let’s do something fun! Beautiful 😍
My little cousin says the same thing
OH, I THOUGHT IT WAS A GIRL😭😭
@@taraxplayz3461 SAME💀
As someone whose glasses are perpetually dirty. The smudges more than likely bother you more than him. 😂
I sure relate to not being without my glasses, even for how long it takes to clean them.
same lol my mom is so irritated that my glasses are dirty and i just look past it
@@jadynabraham9915sammeee, lol. My glasses are ALWAYS dirty, and I often get comments like: “ you would probably see better without your glasses right now”
this is how my husband is with his glasses. but if i get one little smear on mine, i can’t unsee it & i will either clean it immediately, or if i can’t clean it right away like i’m driving or something, i’ll stare at the smudge until it gives me a headache😭🤣 i hate that it bothers me so much, i wish i could be like y’all😭😭
Same
“Can you wipe your boogers?” *No, while crying* an absolute mood
I'm always so impressed and grateful to see parents obviously tired but still very patient and actually talking with their child, seeing children being listened to heals my inner child so much. Hope everyone have a great day/night ❤️
❤
My mom won’t even listen to me to this day, she’ll pretend she’s deaf but somehow she’ll hear everyone else lol
@@-a5330 Same for my father 😅 it's like he didn't understand that I'm a functioning human with personal thoughts and emotions, having an open conversation about feelings is just impossible even now where I'm grown up and more than 20 yo
Thoughts your way, I know how frustrating it can be ! ❤️
Its so much more of a relief to see instead of hollering at them 😢
@@Alex-rain9 I'm sorry you both had to go through that.
When you're grumpy and someone asks if you've had a hard day..."No.😠" I felt that in my soul. You two are such a great duo! 💙
Except he said yeah
He & the captions said, “yeeeauhh”. Ariana Grande x Coop style.🤭😂 But I know u felt it either way.❤️
He said yuh tho
Be honest like coop
How can a toddler have a hard day lol 😂
*has the worst day of their life*
"Did you have a bad day?"
(Out of stubbornness) "No".
He said yeah wtf lol
he said yeah...
Are you guys blind?? There's literally captions saying "yeah" 🤦🏻♀️
Lmfaoo
@@madera648
Coop shook his head but said "yeah" 😂 adorable
The mouthed “wow” made me feel so much better. It’s so easy to go straight to “I’m a horrible parent” instead of having some grace for yourself bc being a parent can be exhausting as well as your child dancing on your absolute last nerve. Of course you love them and will never ever quit but every once in awhile they do something that makes you want to sit in the corner and bang your head against the wall. 😂❤
If your spouse and pet exasperate you then there's no reason that your kid can't either. Of course you love them but they do be whiny af sometimes
As long as you don't take it out on the kid it's perfectly fine 😅 we all get frustrated
No one can say he doesn't express himself. 😂❤ He's so adorable.
Toddlers are the prime example of “the slider is low to strong emotion, not sad to happy emotion” like little man is feeling so strongly but he is able to bouncy ball between happy and sad like no-one’s business, it’s fascinating to watch.
What do you mean about the slider? I agree that it is fascinating. Feels like he is trying to cope with the negative emotions by distracting himself with something fun: beep beep!
@@mydirtyfeet the slider is the concept of how people believe that ‘good’ or ‘happy’ emotions are one end of a spectrum and that ‘bad’ or ‘sad’ emotions are on the other end, when in reality you can quite easily change from happy to sad in seconds, since they are both strong emotions. What Cooper seems to be doing here is exactly that, bouncing between happy and sad since they are both strong emotions, and the short attention span of a toddler makes it much easier to switch than when you get older! (The typical situation for adults is when they’re seemingly chilling, and then something small is said and it’s ‘zero to sixty’ crying “all of a sudden”)
Learning to regulate their emotions
He is manipulating her. it's obvious.
@@kelliintexas3575 it's a child
“You’re kinda grumpy.” 🤣😭😭😭 I love how real you and Coop’s convo’s are 🥰😭
Except that he is completely in charge….!!
@@shiboom1971 lmao how? he clearly has better communication skills than you. You must know that , I’m sure! I can sense that you also probably assume kids are born innate with all skills so anything a toddler does that you don’t like, suddenly becomes a faux sign of “letting kids run the house” when really…. all she’s doing is teaching her kid to communicate with other appropriately.
@@pillowtalk1925 what are you going off at? that reply didn’t say anything bad
Dude shes clearly enabling him
@@pillowtalk1925 Jesus almighty Christ, they were just making a cutesy comment 😳 Chillaaaax 🧘
why is he the cutest kid i’ve ever seen. literally.
“You can’t eat the dog treat”
😂
Omg his lil pouty/frowny face ahhh he’s so cute 🥺
IKKR
"mom move your hand!" it makes me so happy to see him communicate his wants and needs at such a young age!!! you can tell he feels safe to do so, the world is a much better place with parents like you in it!
agreed 🥹
He is such a lucky boy to have you as his Mom :) he is so cute!!! But i can imagine is not easy :) love you for that :)
This child is cleaver and knows how to play his mother!
This kid is so cute. His love for his aunt and grandma is so adorable.
I love how, in typical toddler form, he refused to share his bad day with you. Okay lil dude, you can keep it! 😂🥰 Cooper is the best.
😂😂😂 The amount of patience it takes to have a child always astounds me.
Asking your child if they had a bad day is so sweet.
This is a beautiful interaction. Shows your love and patience and compassion for your child. I love it. ❤
"are you refreshed?" *Holds cakepop*
My nephew is the same way with french fries
Im a grown adult and tbh I can be that way with french fries 😅
Coops emotions during this video ⬇️⬆️⬇️⬆️⬇️⬆️⬇️⬆️
He is the cutest Minnesotan kid I have ever seen
He’s so cute 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
It always fascinates me just WHAT can set off a toddler’s mood. He was just told to wipe his boogers and he was so very offended.
It’s the ‘you can’t eat the dog treat’ for me that makes me chuckle
he is adorable little guy!
I like how you show how parents that take care of kids with special medical needs are not perfect saints, and dont fucking need to be. your a human being struggling and your doing your best and thats the most important thing. I hear the stress in your voice, i see the frustration and your always good to that boy no matter how you feel. Your a good person with a very important duty. People judge too harshly. Your doing a great job beth. You really truly are. He wont forget any of this.
He is speaking a lot and clearer. Go Coop!!!💖💕
The cake pop fixes just about everything.
He is beyond cute ❤🥰😍
Omg he’s too cute,his little glasses are adorable 😊
Mama is a saint with the patience of an angel. I don’t have any children so I don’t have that motherly patience for tantrums. Maybe one day I will !
Um, that wasn't a tantrum. Absolutely nothing like it That was just a kid talking to their parent.
@@joannehocking4121 oh! So maybe kids are harder to deal with than I thought
@@joannehocking4121 she was trying to be nice plus on other videos he has tantrums and the mother is patient maybe they were referring to other videos
I want to learn to have her patience w my kids in the future. He’s getting so talkative even if it’s everywhere 😂 good job momma!
@Mysterygiggles kids don't know how to process emotions, your whole job as a parent is to teach them how to be successful emotionally controlled adults from basically nothing. They have 0 knowledge form birth and uo until they go to school, you're one of their only sources of knowledge. When children have tantrums, typically it's not because they are bad or wrongfully upset. It's because they don't understand their emotions or how to react with them. They may not understand why the thing they want can't happen. Like her explaining her daughter is in school, he may not fully understand but he can only understand hwt he knows
The image was blurry on my phone and was wondering it if was party balloons. Nope, just a dog getting back from the doctor and being very patient
I THOUGHT THEY WERE BALLOONS TOO
SAME
Balloons was definitely my first thought too, died laughing when the pup moved
"Beep beep the car" ❤❤❤ he's so precious
bro the patience you have.. it’s outstanding, respect
i LOVE that he knows that he can tell you to move your hand. yessss teach him to advocate for himself!!
Yea to his momma, that would be a no. He has complete control and that’s scary
@@jhamm6162So you’re saying it’s scary he has bodily autonomy? Weird take to have
@@jhamm6162 in other videos she’s teaching him to respect her personal space (because kids are always up in Moms face and personal space), if anything it’s a great example of him learning this and applying it to himself.
@@rebeccas2801 no, he's saying a child should also not scream at their parents.
@@shamanllama Ah yes the age old respect authority at all costs. So if a dad is SAing the kid you’re teaching them not to scream? By teaching them they have no bodily autonomy you’re teaching them it’s acceptable for people to touch him whenever they want.
Coop has such a big heart. ❤ He's filled with so much passion for life. Sounds like he's learning to cope with the painful emotions in life. It's not quite a straight shot toward healing and happiness. Sadness comes back like waves. Sometimes the activities that usually make us happy do not seem like a suitable replacement when we're missing the people we love.
The fact he's a toddler and is deaf but is learning English pretty good is amazing ❤
I can't handle how cute he is!!!
You’re such a sweet mama. We can feel the love ❤
This kid is so sweet and funny but he really does remind me of a teenage girl going through puberty with those emotional roller coasters
THIS! i was trying to think of a way to describe him w|o sounding offensive or mad + this is basically perfect minus the girl* part. LOL
[*only way anyone thinks it's just "teenage girls" is if they've never been around actual teens. 😂 it's alllll of them.
emotional rollercoasters do not discriminate, esp. when the hormones start moving in + taking over.
emotional whiplash for all! 🤣)]
She's so patient and understanding with her child❤️
His pouty face is adorable omg
I love these moments their so sweet and show how much the life of a toddler can change. It’s crazy to think what is going inside their head! Love you guys stay strong!❤😊
I love his personality and how he can change so quickly. He makes me smile every time.
Why is he so cute 😔
Mom's are simply the best.
The sad look on his face as soon as the conversation starts 😂 it's like it was frozen that way till you responded. He's so adorable 😍🥰
EXACTLY. He manipulates her!
that split second look at the end that says "I was hangry and about to meltdown on a nuclear scale but mom and a cake pop changed my mind. carry on." 😂😂😂😂
His pouty face is so adorably heartbreaking. Phew he'd be hard not to spoil
“BEEP BEEP the car” HE IS SO CUTE
I've been there too little man. Sometimes you just don't know what you want.
Hats off to you mam... Seriously... I'm a pretty patient person, but raising a kid like yours(i dont intend to berate him,ik he has his needs) would take such a toll on me... I want to have patience like yours... And this is just a minute of whole day... Blessings to cooper and mostly to you
He plays her like a fiddle & she feeds into it. 🤦♂️
@@kelliintexas3575 You spank kids don’t you.
@@kelliintexas3575 Villainizing a child who quite literally has not been alive long enough to learn to regulate his emotions yet is weird.
Even kinda grumpy he's freaking adorable!
I don’t like when he cry’s it makes me sad 😢🤍🤍 he’s such a handsome little boy 🤍🤍
This little boy is beyond precious!
Aw he’s so freaking adorable. But as a babysitter, I understand a little bit 😅
I freaking LOVE him!
EMOTIONAL WHIPLASH should be in the medical dictionaries, Beth. It's a perfect identifier for what toddlers cause their moms .
“You cant beep beep with car I cant wipe my boogers”
Thank you from all of us who no longer have toddlers & are now truly appreciative of that fact. Cute n all…but generally requiring of the patience of a saint. I love having hulking, grunting teenagers :)
I would have a toddler any day compared to a teenager. Toddlers are fun.
He's a cutie, but I've gotta praise your patience! Dealing with toddler mood-swings is no easy task.
He's a friggin treasure 🥺
Blood sugar & hydration are so important with little bodies. Yep, he had a hard day
The whole time I thought it was balloons in the back.. I’m crying finding out it is your dog with a cone 😂😂
“Real beep beep the car” my heart melted 🥺🥺🥺
You’re doing it. Bless you and thank you for inspiring this tired twin momma.
I mean this in the nicest way possible. He reminds me of chicken little. And I love chicken little so much. Coop is the cutest kid I’ve ever seen 🥺
the devastation in his face about her having to go to school
His little sad face ❤😭 awe my heart!
She is Absolutely Precious
THAT FAAAAAACE 🥺😫💕💕💕
Is it weird that I'm an adult with no children and I still want to buy myself this Childrens book?? 🥺
No, you are allowed to buy a children's book if you want, at the end of the day it's your money
Cooper is so funny and cute plus the mum needs an Oscar she handles parenting so well even with Coopers disabilities
He is SOOO the main character and I just love that. I mean....girl you're an amazing mom, a beautiful woman and a fellow Minnesotan....but he is most definitely the star of the show and I LOVE it.
He is just so sweet and cute 😢❤
Really??? All I here this kid say is I want, I want. What about pleases n thank you, no manners what so ever, n you think this is sweet n cute? I have a child more disabled then cooper, n he barely speaks but when he asks for something he says please n when given something he says thank you, n when told no he doesn't crack it at me. This kid has no manners what so ever n cracks it till he gets it. How cute n sweet he's going to be when his older.
Not all disabled children, or children in general, reach the same milestones at the same time. This is called the “learning emotional regulation” stage. Disability can affect emotional processing, too. Your comment is degrading a young child - that’s just weird. Especially coming from a parent who says they also have a disabled child.
He is the cutest thing I have ever seen ❤
Well, I haven’t seen this video in a while… and even in a year coop man’s speech has gotten even better!! I mean he speaks so well it’s incredible!! I really hope that friends and family are giving you, Beth, the kudos that you 100% deserve. I know that Cooper gets the kudos in the love and all that he deserves for being such a brilliant child he is reminded of that 75 times a day but I hope That the people around you are reminding you what a phenomenal job you are doing!! That child is a direct reflection of the mother you are!
Wow, you are raising such a wonderful, feeding, assertive human being 🩷
It may seem like I'm being mean but, there is something so adorable about when he pouts and cries. I just want to squeeze him! He's so cute it hurts.
I love how patient you are with Cooper !
Eek. Too patient!! I couldn’t tolerate that….
@@shiboom1971EXACTLY!!! She feeds in to it & he plays her like a fiddle. She treats him like a victim & HE doesn't even realize he is "different". It's like people who carry around their blind dog. You have to treat them like they are perfectly able for them to truly thrive. I have a blind Dad who is an attorney & a Deaf brother who is a MECHANIC.
@@kelliintexas3575 Dude, he's a TODDLER. He's showing regular emotions, and communicating his best. Stop demonizing children.
@@Bubblegum-xm5cg Villainizing toddlers is weird. This is a baby human who hasn’t been alive long enough to learn how to process and express his emotions…
Why is his frown is the cutest thing 🫠
I personally don't think I like children that much . I have always struggled with the idea of kids . But here I am coming back to these videos because your journey with coop is just so heartwarming.. he is such a sweetheart 🥺💜 bless you all
Just because he has difficulties doesn't mean you can't teach him, please n thank you. All I hear this kid say I WANT, I WANT, try teaching him some manners, as soon as my kids could speak, please n thank you were the top words we used when asking for something n b4 you all come down on me, 2 of my 3 children have disabilities aswell. Your raising a brat.
He's spoiled
@@CAPTINjacksparrow spoilt kids grow up to be brats.
@@melianoonan9885 duh
What is Caribou??
It is a coffee chain that is especially popular in MN, which is where Beth and Coop are from (I am too!!)
If you’re west coast it’s like Peet’s or Coffee Bean!
He is so adorable even when grumpy!!❤😂❤😂❤😂
he just adorable he could say anything he's just so adorable okie dokie he's just adorable✌️
Oh my god that gives me anxiety You've got to stop answering his every question and let him be with his own thoughts
He's asking questions obviously she's gonna answer him. I'm pretty sure of she just stops answering him he would get even more frustrated. You might get anxious if someone did this to you but it's different for other people.
It isn't our place to tell this mother how to parent her child. If this gives you anxiety maybe you should watch something else. Beth is doing a wonderful job with her special needs child. Kudos to Beth!
I pray that my baby isn’t a whiner…lord please, Noooo
He is so precious and handsome.
I freaking love this kid he is so adorable
“You can’t eat the dog treat” got me dead
I can’t imagine how hard it is for her to tell him no with that face! 😭
He is so sassy and adorable!!😘
Awww... what a moment, Momma. ❤
He is so cute 😭
He’s really bossy😂 and cute❤
They are definitely very confident in their opinions 😂 so cute
He's sooo sweet he's adorable 😍