I'm Ghosting My Girlfriend and I Don't Care if I'm Wrong for it Anymore. I'm Just Done.
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- čas přidán 27. 06. 2024
- I'm ghosting my girlfriend and I don't care if I'm wrong for it anymore. I'm just done.
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Someone who takes pleasure in your pain really isn't relationship material
It's the hypocrisy and boundary stomping. Good reasons for him to break up and stay away.
"JOEY DOESN'T SHARE FOOD!!!!!"
Girly was 1000000000% doing that on purpose. She must know about OP's food insecurity issues. This was a power play. Well, FAFO and you lost, chicky. 🤷
Yeah, after the text claiming "violence", I'd be done with that. She likely sent that text to start a paper trail to accuse him of abuse when he leaves her.
I broke off an engagement because of the same crap. It didn't matter if she ordered the same thing as me or not. The server would not even have their hands off my plate before she would take something off it. With her, it was a contest to have the most food.
Interestingly, my wife takes things off my plate, but she asks, and only after I get to try it first.
She's just being disrespectful, bit of toxic also and both alone are valid reasons to leave relationship or to stop contacting her. I would have given her a full on ultimatum that if she does it once more its over.
Nah. If she’s got it in her to blow up and scream at you about pizza, then she’s trash.
Even if it is a “weird boundary”, I think this issue can easily be applied to bigger problems that y’all will have down the line. So it may be small this time, but she would definitely do something worse so it’s good you left
One last meal with her and trinidad scorpion pepper powder sprinkled on your meal would hammer a point across.
Its called boundaries and respect. She doesn't give you any then its a dead relationship. Its her not you.
I broke.
Off our relationship, because the guy would eat and when his plate was empty, he would put it in front of me.Basically what he would do would be to move it out of his way, which would mean that it would be in front of me.
I found that very distasteful and very disrespectful.
I was thinking this was one of thosr test games, but she's just crazy. Honestly, NTA on the ghosting.
I don't blame him at all. Eating someone's food is not cute!
My Father. RIP, would drive me crazy. He would always say save me a bite when I started eating my meal. I could never enjoy the meal having to keep that in mind. So can see what it does here. And it will continue.
Get out now. 🚩🚩🚩This is not something you can live with for a lifetime run for the hills.
If you see something, you can't live with get out.🚩🚩🚩🚩
Equivalent of fork in hand 🤣. But this seems kinda childish especially if you didn't talk about it. If you did and she keeps doing it, than f. It. But she was being disrespectful like wtf everyone has their own meal. If not. Fork in hand for you. I kinda hate it too, because when I was younger my mum consistently did it and I don't know even why I always cooked plenty, I had to learn to cook around 10 sooo like.... Will not going to applying it on bigger things, because that is little bit more complicated ... It is not like you are giving the food to her and her politnes makes you think she wants more, but she kinda already likes you or stuff you did, but she is incredibly stressed out about how she will give you back, or you talking about side dish and she has no idea what is going on and is kinda confused. But THIS story?he'll nah.
Wtf are food insecurities.
It means that while growing up, his family was too poor to afford enough food and he would often have to go hungry.
Or someone made negative remarks while they were eating, all the time („are you sure you wanna eat that? It’ll make you fat“)
Or someone stealing their food, kinda like in this story
@@TheGosgosh That sounds more like an eating disorder.
Food insecurity is a political and social term that means you aren't 100% when your next meal will be. It may be in 3hs, it may be in 3 days.
It is barely 1 step above just plain hunger.
They don't love each other, at least HE doesn't really love her
Not now, certainly, and with good reason. She's a massive red flag.
I wouldn’t either if this happened to me for two months straight and everything I’ve done to stop it isn’t working
@@otonyeoruambo1522 Agreed. She doesn't respect boundaries at all. I shudder to think what else she's capable of, tbh.