Is Physical Attraction Important in Marriage? Here's the TRUTH

Is physical attraction essential for a lasting marriage? The answer might surprise you! In this video, viewers will explore the role of physical attraction alongside the four areas of attraction from Marriage Helper: physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual (PIES).
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While physical attraction often sparks initial interest, it's the other forms of attraction that truly sustain a marriage. This video discusses:
- How to become the most attractive version of yourself
- The importance of shared interests, emotional connection, and aligned values
- What to do if you're currently not physically attracted to your spouse
- Strategies for focusing on the other aspects of attraction
Remember, becoming our best selves benefits not only our marriage but all our relationships.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - PIES of Attraction.
2:10 - Physical attraction.
4:11 - Physical attraction in marriage.
7:33 - Supporting spouses in self-care and household responsibilities.
8:56 - Improving physical attraction in marriage through personal growth.
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Is physical attraction vital in marriage? Explore the four types of attraction (PIES), including physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual. Learn how to revitalize your relationship, strengthen emotional connection, and rekindle physical attraction. Discover strategies on the "It Starts with Attraction" podcast and Kimberly Beam Holmes' CZcams channel for a happier, more fulfilling marriage
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[@PJHEATERMAN]

My wife was a stunning beauty. Green eyes, blonde hair, and Choctaw Indian blood. After 35 years of marriage she doesn't look the same but i love her even more today than ever. Key word "Love"

[@Gentilejedi]

Lot's of people let themselves go, pull the ripcord. Self inflicted.

[@georgewashington5366]

Yep!!!! Both parties need to keep themselves physically fit and available for one another.Because once you enter into a marriage covenant, you no longer have a Tylenol over your body.Your body belongs to her and her body belongs to you and it's your responsibility to keep it in shape and keep it appealing to one another.

[@ElimEx1]

You're joking, right? This isn't the Handmaiden's Tale... Women and men in 2024 are their own, complete individuals who happen to get together for a merging of resources and procreation (if and only if both parties want to) and a shared future (more or less long term, depending on variable conditions). Your body belongs to yourself and you can do whatever you want to it and your partner doesn't have one darn thing to say about it.

[@jedaiahkramer1204]

@@ElimEx1 your response reflects the self-centered way of thinking that leads to high percentages of divorce.

[@ElimEx1]

@@jedaiahkramer1204 I am describing the general conscensus and not generally my own beliefs and feelings. I do not believe in marriage at all. I think it's an obsolete concept not fit for the modern world at all. But I watch A LOT of videos and read A LOT of analysis on the topic and it seems to me that this is what most people see as a way of approaching this topic.

[@klebervieira4234]

Watching from Brazil 🇧🇷

[@unpackstudios]

Yes exactly! Lead by example

[@brightpage1020]

I think attraction wanes as respect for one another does… even if your eyes like a person, if their attitude or behavior toward you stinks, then you’d rather steer clear of than cozy up to porcupine farts.

[@knowinghistruth7227]

When someone says “my significant other” who then are their insignificant others?

[@phillipjones611]

Question: What if Mental Health Issues are added into the mix?

[@deborahrouse5644]

There are some things regarding physical attraction that may be beyond one's control.
For example, steroids which someone with Multiple Sclerosis must use to control the symptoms, ruins their skin from the shoulders down............

[@kerrymillar1267]

Or getting older

[@deborahrouse5644]

@@kerrymillar1267
ALL become inevitably older............
Steroids can destroy one's skin at ANY age. They also thin the supportive internal mesentery tissue that supports ones organs.