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  • @enola8800
    @enola8800 Před měsícem +1909

    love that raymond met someone as sweet as his girlfriend, they really look happy together!

  • @piscessister3137
    @piscessister3137 Před 22 dny +227

    raymond saying early 20s in 2005 i fully thought he was 23 at most😭😭

    • @allykanyce
      @allykanyce Před 21 dnem +6

      My thoughts EXAXTLY

    • @rubysr16
      @rubysr16 Před 6 dny

      I was so taken back when he said his early 20's. So I definitely agree.

  • @ijustneedmyself
    @ijustneedmyself Před měsícem +941

    The point of prison in this country has NEVER been to reform anyone. Once you get that in your head then it all makes sense.

    • @BrandayRose
      @BrandayRose Před měsícem

      Literally though!! This country is about putting people in there to ruin lives, not reform criminals. I wish people in this country would realize that.

    • @piececake5820
      @piececake5820 Před měsícem +53

      Its all about cheap labor

    • @music0cool
      @music0cool Před měsícem +53

      @@piececake5820 And punishment, and hoping to be scary enough to act as a crime deterrent (which studies show doesnt work because its bandaid on a deep complex issue)

    • @user-ps2sy8yg8h
      @user-ps2sy8yg8h Před měsícem +1

      I am curious are these girls or transgender, i'm confused

    • @mindfulstoic3095
      @mindfulstoic3095 Před 27 dny

      @@user-ps2sy8yg8h Me too, especially the one on the left.

  • @Greatgodofcows1111
    @Greatgodofcows1111 Před měsícem +846

    I think the blond woman is still going through a lot. It usually takes a crap ton of therapy and years of effort to get through the impact prison has, and she just got out a couple of years ago. Hopefully, she is going to get better and stronger!😊

    • @sw8547
      @sw8547 Před měsícem +28

      Agreed. People are judging but they don’t understand what went she went through. You dont come out of that situation normal

    • @cashmoney865
      @cashmoney865 Před 17 dny +1

      i was so glad to see them not cut the parts where she kinda spaces out and stuff, makes me feel a bit more normal. i’ve not been incarcerated in any way but i do deal with ptsd and people often judge you when you space out in conversation or don’t make eye contact

  • @saoirseviolet9284
    @saoirseviolet9284 Před měsícem +1318

    I just love Raymond.

  • @enola8800
    @enola8800 Před měsícem +811

    raymond's gilfriend is absolutely stunning

  • @yake222
    @yake222 Před měsícem +453

    as long as prison is a business it's never going to get better

  • @carligirrl
    @carligirrl Před měsícem +538

    I adore Raymond! Every time he is in a video, I'm gonna watch! He seems like he's really turned his life around and is such a great person, and whenever he talks about his kids, you can just tell what a deeply loving father he is. Adore him!

    • @jennifernwaneri5731
      @jennifernwaneri5731 Před 26 dny

      Has he been in any other videos??

    • @rockyrae3455
      @rockyrae3455 Před 26 dny

      ​@@jennifernwaneri5731 Several others.

    • @alyssaroxanne9084
      @alyssaroxanne9084 Před 22 dny +2

      @@jennifernwaneri5731He has been in quite a few videos! He was in either one or both of the guess who has a criminal background Lineups, he and his wife were guessers in a Lineup where they had to put the child with the right parent, and they were part of a Lineup where the guesser had to guess how many kids each person had. Those are the ones I know off the top of my head, but I know there have been more!

  • @Greatgodofcows1111
    @Greatgodofcows1111 Před měsícem +354

    2:14 That is so sad. Sorry, you had to go through that dude! You seem like a better person, and your girlfriend is so sweet for judging you for you, and not your tattoos!😊

  • @leggyegg2890
    @leggyegg2890 Před 28 dny +88

    The way the blonde woman brushed over the DV assault, then her gf said it was dumb she got in trouble for breaching the restraining order to contact her ex is… unsettling

    • @peyote.
      @peyote. Před 28 dny +23

      Literally toxic and she's takes no accountability which is not chill

    • @sierramotiee-moore9597
      @sierramotiee-moore9597 Před 28 dny +109

      I think she meant it was dumb that she called because she later said something like, "you know those calls are recorded, right?"

    • @leggyegg2890
      @leggyegg2890 Před 27 dny +4

      @@sierramotiee-moore9597 ohhhh that could be it

    • @javaristurner6146
      @javaristurner6146 Před 27 dny

      Yeah both them bitches crazy

    • @alyssaroxanne9084
      @alyssaroxanne9084 Před 22 dny +10

      @@leggyegg2890Yeah, at first when I heard her say it I was like “oof, bad look”. But then I realized she was calling her girlfriend dumb for calling and violating the order.

  • @peyote.
    @peyote. Před 28 dny +46

    Raymond is a genuine cool dude who you can automatically tell has a good heart and learned a lot from him experiences

  • @earthscorcher
    @earthscorcher Před 19 dny +13

    From what I can tell, Raymond got arrested for doing what needed to be done. It's a shame he was scarred the way he was there.

  • @Devin_Art
    @Devin_Art Před měsícem +72

    This is incredible, honest and humanizing. Really good entry for those unaware at how draconian the American Judicial system is.

  • @whitneystriggow2368
    @whitneystriggow2368 Před 16 dny +8

    I like the way Raymond answered that “are you reformed question”

  • @bethanywest5257
    @bethanywest5257 Před měsícem +68

    Sad thing is, prison has always been about punishment and isolation(from the rest of society). Not reform. I wish it was different, but unfortunately it will probably be a long time before it is, if it ever is.

    • @erinfennessy5332
      @erinfennessy5332 Před měsícem

      I’m confused…. Why is that “unfortunate”…. Prison IS FOR PEOPLE DANGEROUS TO SOCIETY

  • @jenniferyounger2916
    @jenniferyounger2916 Před měsícem +57

    I would love to hear more about Raymond's story. Just what we got to hear in this video is insane. Being convicted at 16yo for a crime you didn't commit? Being arrested for existing in a public space? I'm so sorry you had to live through that. A huge fear of mine is being accused of something I never did. Terrifying. 😢

  • @antvilleda95
    @antvilleda95 Před 18 dny +11

    That man giving his kids prison sweet snacks 😭😭 #Bestdadaward

  • @mariahv7549
    @mariahv7549 Před měsícem +58

    I love this and the last note that Raymond said. It’s so true. Just because some people are in prison it doesn’t make them less human and not everyone in there is the same stereotype people often think of or label them as. You realize a lot more about it when you’re curious and have family members that have been in the system. The stereotypes can sting. The prison system needs more reform in areas. Sometimes it really does set certain people back and I wonder is the “lesson” ever gotten over when you spend so much of your life after prison stilll paying for something you did a long time ago. Depends on the crime for sure though. I don’t think it’s something as simple as people try to make it and shouldn’t be treated as a blanket concept of “dealing” with it. Some people need real help and mental health advocacy.

    • @user-ps2sy8yg8h
      @user-ps2sy8yg8h Před měsícem

      I am curious are these girls or transgender, i'm confused

  • @neckbone4941
    @neckbone4941 Před 28 dny +24

    Yeah the blonde chick needs therapy. And those two dont seem like they fit each other very well.
    They remind me of the two junkies who never break up.

    • @ghostophelia2245
      @ghostophelia2245 Před 22 dny +10

      Yeah... you're not really supposed to date in rehab for this exact reason. Trauma bonding is real and can cause real damage down the road

  • @Sinbeenwinning
    @Sinbeenwinning Před 28 dny +21

    Like Raymond said most ppl are doing longer sentences because they can't afford to fight the crime, nothing about prison is about reform. It's literally modern day slavery.
    This is not to say some ppl don't belong but for the ones who can't afford to be are doomed when they get out. That needs to change.

  • @bsimms583
    @bsimms583 Před měsícem +105

    Damn I remember this guy from previous videos, this gone be good.

  • @astralfluxaf
    @astralfluxaf Před měsícem +68

    Raymond is amazing thank you for speaking up about all of the injustices and TRUTH ❤💯

    • @user-ps2sy8yg8h
      @user-ps2sy8yg8h Před měsícem +1

      I am curious are these girls or transgender, i'm confused

  • @goblinwizard735
    @goblinwizard735 Před měsícem +42

    love that yall did this one

  • @sylviazupfer4201
    @sylviazupfer4201 Před měsícem +7

    WE NEED MORE OF THESE 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @sourcherry341
    @sourcherry341 Před 25 dny +2

    raymonds n his girls smile is very similar its so sweet!

  • @estrellalujan6608
    @estrellalujan6608 Před měsícem +7

    As someone who has a partner that was formerly carcerated, I would really love to see more of these videos and this topic💜

  • @giorgiminasidi233
    @giorgiminasidi233 Před měsícem +18

    I feel so sad that people get incarcerated for having a healthcare problem - addiction! Even worse, upon release they are not able to find a job, which further exacerbates their socio-economic situation, thus their health.

    • @leggyegg2890
      @leggyegg2890 Před 28 dny +1

      I agree, but in her case it was for domestic violence

    • @giorgiminasidi233
      @giorgiminasidi233 Před 28 dny +3

      @@leggyegg2890 It is all interlinked. It's called social determinants of health.

    • @leggyegg2890
      @leggyegg2890 Před 28 dny

      @@giorgiminasidi233 I get that, I thought you were assuming she was arrested for possession or something

    • @giorgiminasidi233
      @giorgiminasidi233 Před 25 dny

      @@leggyegg2890 not her but people do get arrested for possession!

  • @ranveer10
    @ranveer10 Před měsícem +6

    Happy for Raymond. His gf is sweet just like him❤

  • @sunny5ma
    @sunny5ma Před měsícem +5

    I loved this so much. I hope to see more of all these people.❤❤ they're all such amazing humans. And that McDonald's story.... that's just fucked. It literally borough tears to my eyes. I'm rooting for them all, honestly. 😔💖

  • @Ceerads
    @Ceerads Před měsícem +102

    All former felons should be allowed to vote.

  • @dakotac180
    @dakotac180 Před měsícem

    Raymond is such a cool dude, she is lucky to have him.

  • @alxmon6478
    @alxmon6478 Před 22 dny +1

    Raymond and Clois are always so fun to see!! Hope they’re going well!!

  • @tannershanksftw
    @tannershanksftw Před měsícem +96

    1:28 "I do now" you did at the time too. It literally says "these calls are recorded" 🤦

    • @theekatspajamas
      @theekatspajamas Před měsícem +21

      I'm pretty sure it depends on the prison whether or not it tells you it's recorded, at least on both ends. They also might've just been making a joke. Many people joke to cope. Like, they obviously weren't in a good place, and even if they knew, they likely didn't care at the time. That's such a weird thing to nitpick about.

  • @cloudico
    @cloudico Před měsícem +40

    loved the couple with the man and the woman!

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid Před měsícem +12

    Any day that you can watch the sunset is a great day.
    🌅🌄

  • @Atpeacewithoneself
    @Atpeacewithoneself Před měsícem +1

    I love this episode. For anyone who has issues on finding a job. See if there is programs in your state that will help. I know a couple of people whom served 25 yrs. And gotten out and went through programs to help them get a job. Keep your head up ❤

  • @Keyairus22
    @Keyairus22 Před měsícem +5

    The slang term he taught her "dope fiend" (the cake). Next question she like why do you always gotta go to the bathroom as soon as we get somewhere 😅 hhmmm.

  • @utobots
    @utobots Před měsícem +2

    This video brings a lot of great perspective :)

  • @Lhayes113
    @Lhayes113 Před 27 dny

    This was a really great video

  • @amberrodriguez851
    @amberrodriguez851 Před měsícem +7

    Congrats to the two who got and stayed clean! One day at a time ❤

  • @vulasquez
    @vulasquez Před 22 dny +3

    Preach Raymond

  • @BaloonieFloat
    @BaloonieFloat Před měsícem +28

    He looks like James Franco

    • @speaktruth896
      @speaktruth896 Před měsícem +1

      EXACTLY doppelganger cool 127hrs mooovie lol

  • @ranveer10
    @ranveer10 Před měsícem +1

    9:03 i love oitnb too ❤

  • @alannadvorak2198
    @alannadvorak2198 Před měsícem +84

    For the record, felon voter restoration depends on the state.

  • @AH-sn9sl
    @AH-sn9sl Před 16 dny +1

    Raymond is awesome

  • @jabareywells6815
    @jabareywells6815 Před 27 dny

    This was a great video, Cut

  • @iftitamaharani6665
    @iftitamaharani6665 Před měsícem +24

    I'm very sorry what your government had put you through 😢
    That's terrible

  • @Uzyz
    @Uzyz Před měsícem +3

    Anyone know where to buy the guy's hat?

  • @catherinegrogan1343
    @catherinegrogan1343 Před 27 dny

    Really interesting!

  • @dot_t
    @dot_t Před měsícem +23

    My son's father went to jail then prison for over 13 years. He got to finally re-meet and hug his 18 year old son. Major PTSD over all of that. We live in different states. ❤️✨

  • @gibsterzz
    @gibsterzz Před 29 dny +1

    the lesbian couple is so beautiful. i wish them the best & strength through their sobriety journeys!!!

  • @MiriamA766
    @MiriamA766 Před měsícem +6

    Raymond is so likeable!

  • @EvilAnomaly
    @EvilAnomaly Před měsícem +34

    No way in hell I'd take a charge for my s.o. They decide to do something that stupid I'm not going to take that ride. Then again chances are small I'd be with such a person to begin with.

  • @user-px4eu2et7j
    @user-px4eu2et7j Před měsícem +25

    Here’s ur reminder to like the video cause Ik people be forgetting sometimes

    • @carligirrl
      @carligirrl Před měsícem +1

      I did forget. Lol. Thank you!

  • @Imdebbae
    @Imdebbae Před 4 dny

    Great video!!! 🎉

  • @jamesb8818
    @jamesb8818 Před měsícem +25

    that girl has a super deep voice lol

    • @ijustneedmyself
      @ijustneedmyself Před měsícem +1

      Makes me wonder if she de-transitioned and that's why it's like that. Or she could be trans 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @zercora
      @zercora Před měsícem +6

      I love it

    • @lanijay8782
      @lanijay8782 Před měsícem

      She may be transgender

    • @theneekolascleo
      @theneekolascleo Před měsícem +2

      @@zercorame too i literally searched for this comment

  • @mylahf5479
    @mylahf5479 Před měsícem +8

    Dr Mike with tattoos?! Okkkayy Raymond, we see youu!!

  • @philipgarcia546
    @philipgarcia546 Před 27 dny

    Okay cut maybe chill it with the music when they’re talking about their traumas

  • @mr.lincoln5154
    @mr.lincoln5154 Před 11 dny

    Grandma was wondering who stole her table cloth.😅

  • @sangosister
    @sangosister Před měsícem +10

    love this game but when playing with mutal player we became confused. Could ya'll do a video on how to play with 3+ players.

    • @thisisforvids
      @thisisforvids Před měsícem

      probably take turns asking a question to the group (like never have I ever).

    • @sangosister
      @sangosister Před měsícem

      @@thisisforvids we tried that but as we read the directions we became more confused. To be better understand i need to see it to better understand it.

  • @Bambitz
    @Bambitz Před měsícem +3

    Hi

  • @doliyolanda9903
    @doliyolanda9903 Před měsícem

    Reserved

  • @mimijuarez8981
    @mimijuarez8981 Před 27 dny

    I wnna do this with my man ! We are pretty funny 😂 & we get to drink lol

  • @lildevil3105
    @lildevil3105 Před 29 dny +3

    I got a felony because a cop put me in a headlock when i had cuffs on till the point i was light headed nd almost passed out when i came back to reality i headbutted his arm BUT I GOT CHARGED 7 cops came and the reason they were there was because my mom called them for a welfare check because i just lost a few friends and i was homeless so i was depressed i never committed a crime before that either. And because i couldn't afford a lawyer my public pretender told me because Wisconsin is a cop state the judge was gonna take there side nd it also dont help im black ( mixed) right then my( white) mom realized my life was gonna be alot harder even tho i didnt even do anything

  • @Nina-xk9sq
    @Nina-xk9sq Před měsícem +5

    You can get truth or drink in Germany in the mayersche!!!

  • @Ytmetzc
    @Ytmetzc Před měsícem +7

    Fyi, you don’t get a felony for assault 4 DV and order violation.

  • @SANGLORENSMITH
    @SANGLORENSMITH Před měsícem

    LOVE!!

  • @1lAnimel1
    @1lAnimel1 Před měsícem +5

    Ever done a video for truth or smoke? It exactly like this but weed 🤣.

  • @user-of8qw8bh3h
    @user-of8qw8bh3h Před 27 dny

    @6:27 it’s a vicious cycle. We need to help other humans.

  • @everythingslive
    @everythingslive Před měsícem +7

    Damn Raymond, I’d take the fall for you 👀

  • @Casper15CTRP
    @Casper15CTRP Před měsícem +85

    That blonde girl comes off as mad weird to me

    • @Queerbookwitch
      @Queerbookwitch Před měsícem +52

      Frrr she seemed very flippant about the DV :/ The other couple was really sweet though

    • @ShizukaRose
      @ShizukaRose Před měsícem +1

      Why

    • @Casper15CTRP
      @Casper15CTRP Před měsícem +19

      @@ShizukaRoselike another commenter said, you are aware that calls are recorded. Then when asked what qualities or traits she has that are felon like she got super defensive and was like yeah don’t answer that

    • @fabuleuxlyfe2333
      @fabuleuxlyfe2333 Před měsícem +30

      It’s probably the years of trauma and addiction

    • @sw8547
      @sw8547 Před měsícem +1

      DV will result in a lot of trauma

  • @Tenseiken_
    @Tenseiken_ Před měsícem +1

    gah damn the neck game is insane

  • @staceyshere
    @staceyshere Před měsícem +1

    Like America, prison is strictly a business

  • @DogBread1
    @DogBread1 Před 14 dny

    If you cant do the time dont do the crime

  • @FabulousIcky
    @FabulousIcky Před měsícem +23

    I wonder what will take for majority of the world to be less prejudiced against people with criminal record. I'm tired of judgmental and small-minded people.

  • @LeoArcie
    @LeoArcie Před měsícem +2

    Raymond is so hot I can’t 🤧

  • @keannawilson6036
    @keannawilson6036 Před měsícem +1

    I think it depends on what state you live in when it comes to voting. my husband’s a felon & still can’t vote.

  • @Jimmyjim3641
    @Jimmyjim3641 Před měsícem +3

    Raymond is cool👍🏻👍🏻

  • @alexlachapelle9065
    @alexlachapelle9065 Před měsícem

    🥺❤️

  • @astilounlewise9784
    @astilounlewise9784 Před měsícem

    This man's shirt is dope. Anyone know where that's from?

  • @BeeSunshine-vf2im
    @BeeSunshine-vf2im Před 24 dny +3

    Um...this is...something. I know everyone in the video grown..it's just..definitely not relationship goals. A women with no children tied herself the a ex-convict with 5 kids and a woman is with an ex-convict that committed domestic violence on an ex. Not saying neither aren't changed people for the better, it would have been nice to hear the ex-convicts talk about the mental help they received since being released. The man with 5 children should not have been ok with getting with a young woman with no kids and watching her change her life for him. Hopefully the other learned how her way of thinking and changed for the better.😐

    • @ghostophelia2245
      @ghostophelia2245 Před 22 dny +1

      It's incredibly doubtful that he sees them much anyway. I'm sure his baby mama(s) have full custody given his history. I doubt she's had to change much in that regard

  • @moomoo6998
    @moomoo6998 Před měsícem +14

    The lesbians hate eachother or just got in a fight right before getting there

    • @begforstar
      @begforstar Před měsícem +2

      why do u say that? i feel like the pixie cut is still getting over her time inside

    • @peyote.
      @peyote. Před 28 dny +1

      Yeah no chemistry at all

  • @fabuleuxlyfe2333
    @fabuleuxlyfe2333 Před měsícem +12

    Prison Abolition ✊✊✊

  • @cloudico
    @cloudico Před měsícem +13

    idk why, but that one couple with the blonde gave me interesting vibes. came off as a little standoffish

  • @tabathastaples7884
    @tabathastaples7884 Před 26 dny

    Shepherd's Chapel Network !!!!!!! Do you know where America is mentioned in the Bible ???????

  • @mattyp6908
    @mattyp6908 Před měsícem

    That dude has harsh Main Character syndrome.

  • @ilhuicatlamatini
    @ilhuicatlamatini Před 19 dny

    Hmm…

  • @GeriDoesASMR
    @GeriDoesASMR Před měsícem

    3:05 the girl on the right with the short hair (not the one with the beanie) is hot 🥵🔥

  • @TheOnlyTaps
    @TheOnlyTaps Před měsícem

    🙏🏿💜

  • @miaaaaa9744
    @miaaaaa9744 Před měsícem +1

    So happy to not live in the US honestly

  • @ShizukaRose
    @ShizukaRose Před měsícem +3

    The blond pixie cut woman has very millennial mannerisms.

  • @AyoCarina
    @AyoCarina Před 29 dny +1

    Unpopular opinion. Raymond played the victim the whole time . Rewatch and see he took no accountability in any sentence he said

  • @julieta9913
    @julieta9913 Před 27 dny

    can someone explain to me why people get teardrop tattoos? i understand that it means they served time, were in a gang or killed somebody but i don't understand why anyone would want a sign of that permanently on their face? why would you want everyone to know you went to prison/are in a gang/killed somebody? it's like you're singlehandedly outing yourself

    • @shintososotrill5122
      @shintososotrill5122 Před 23 dny +2

      It's like a badge of honor for criminals or a reminder they did some they can't take back

    • @froze2778
      @froze2778 Před 22 dny +2

      most people in the prison system are repeat offenders and stay and a sign on your face that you have killed multiple people is a dominance sort of thing in prison

    • @julieta9913
      @julieta9913 Před 21 dnem

      @@froze2778 ohh that makes sense thank you

  • @XtraOrdinariness
    @XtraOrdinariness Před měsícem +64

    I love u but I shall not ride nor die…. Go with God❤️‍🩹

  • @louiss1625
    @louiss1625 Před měsícem +14

    he needs to let his girlfriend talk a bit more, he's interrupting a lot

  • @waalex11
    @waalex11 Před měsícem

    Dull couples...

  • @hafidhwijaya3820
    @hafidhwijaya3820 Před měsícem

    Leave the commend down bellow, so if someone like the commend I will back here again

  • @melymantsenda9470
    @melymantsenda9470 Před měsícem +5

    I would not trust the guy. Way too vague on what he did

    • @CORNHEADX
      @CORNHEADX Před měsícem +20

      No one needs a 4 part documentary to figure out what he went to prison for. Glad he's out of prison and around great people like his GF

    • @Louisiana666
      @Louisiana666 Před měsícem

      I think he mentions in another video

  • @GJH3735
    @GJH3735 Před měsícem +2

    What’s wrong with the brunettes voice?

  • @marcusgomez1372
    @marcusgomez1372 Před měsícem +1

    Bro has a lot of excuses