Maybe you're NOT lazy, you're just overwhelmed (CHRISTIAN HOMEMAKING)

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  • čas přidán 31. 05. 2024
  • Come along and do some homemaking with me for a day on my homestead and in my kitchen as we talk about what leads to overwhelm and therefore laziness in homemaking and how we can overcome laziness as a housewife.
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    chapters~
    feeling overwhelmed 00:00
    bible verses for when you're overwhelmed 02:30
    reasons we struggle 03:37
    screen time and laziness 04:39
    clutter and laziness 07:54
    overworked and overwhelmed 10:10
    keepers at home 12:01
    traditional homemaking 14:09
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Komentáře • 109

  • @mrsroxibrown
    @mrsroxibrown Před 26 dny +65

    "Imagine if you picked up your Bible as many times as you pick up your phone." Man. Thank you for another incredible video. ❤

    • @peggybaker7090
      @peggybaker7090 Před 22 dny

      Now that is something to think about as I am typing to respond to your comment..And you are so correct….

    • @lesliedavis6081
      @lesliedavis6081 Před 16 dny

      Convicting!

  • @mountaingirl8124
    @mountaingirl8124 Před 20 hodinami +1

    As a homeschooling, homesteading mother to nine, I think that having a large family never gets one out of “survival mode”. Taking care of our adrenals and hormones are so important or it effects our attitudes. Our temples should be taken care of. ❤️ Put your life vest on First Ladies, then you can help your families. Comparison is also a huge killer. Not everyone has time for sourdough everything. Stop comparing and do what you can. How many of us make time for prayer and meditation daily. I prefer this over sourdough everything and the comparison factor. Let’s be Mary’s in a Martha world. Unsubscribe to channels that promote too much “Martha-ness”!!! Lovely video Tabitha!

  • @kimacker8594
    @kimacker8594 Před 25 dny +12

    Getting rid of clutter really does free the mind!

  • @Kaycee973
    @Kaycee973 Před 26 dny +19

    Myself and my family are in a difficult season. I’ve been frustrated and broken, and I have allowed laziness and overwhelm to influence how I spend my days. I really appreciate this message and reminder. Thank you, Tabitha ❤

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 25 dny +3

      You got this!

    • @ericamaki1072
      @ericamaki1072 Před 25 dny +3

      You are not alone. We are in a difficult and waiting season over here ourselves. Overwhelmed and laziness have taken me over as well. I pray for you and your family 🙏🏻

    • @Kaycee973
      @Kaycee973 Před 24 dny +1

      I appreciate your prayers. It is always nice to know I’m not alone. I will be praying for you as well!

    • @elizabethclutts573
      @elizabethclutts573 Před 24 dny +2

      I am also struggling with you guys as well! Prayers for you and your families and please pray for mine. Thank God for Tabitha and her amazing videos for us!

  • @Jettsmom98
    @Jettsmom98 Před 24 dny +9

    So much good advice. I have often called myself lazy. I think I'm really overwhelmed. Thank you for saying that. Yes, too much screen time doesn't help. I think I use the excuse of being stressed for wasting so much time. Last week I began making a detailed to do list and I'm getting more things done. Thank you so much for these wonderful videos.

  • @chantelle7275
    @chantelle7275 Před 25 dny +12

    "Imagine if you picked up your bible as much as you picked up your phone."
    Oh gosh, the conviction hit me right here. ❤ Bless you for your ministry and encouragement sister in Christ. Love your videos.

  • @naty1012
    @naty1012 Před 27 dny +15

    I hand wash all my dishes, make homemade bread by hand and cook from scratch. The weather has been so hot lately. It's just draining.

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 26 dny +3

      I do not like the hot weather either! I’m a winter girl through and through!

    • @naty1012
      @naty1012 Před 26 dny +1

      @@ThisMamasFaith well I can't escape it,I live in the Caribbean 😅

    • @mariharrik5987
      @mariharrik5987 Před dnem

      you know thers this thing called dishwasher

  • @ezekielfenjavandehei3189

    I really appreciate this video. I was getting really down on myself for not having gotten a lot done today but i resonated with each reason you gave and it made me step back and reevaluate the day and be a little more compassionate to my self proclaimed "laziness". We had a pet die today, i have six kids under the age of seven, four of them are sick, including the toddler and the baby, and we're in the process of moving and renovating our home.... it's ok to rest and let God do the renewing. Thank you for your encouragement ❤I've watched you on and off for a while, but have gleaned so much from your faith videos. Thank you!

  • @crystallambeth2801
    @crystallambeth2801 Před 25 dny +9

    U said something that could be holding a person back from getting things done is a broken marriage. I am struggling with that right now. We still live in the same house but I just don't care to do anything. I start thinking about what is going on between my husband and I and it feels like all the energy is sucked out of me and I just can't make myself clean. Just wanted to share

    • @YuliyaKozhevnikov
      @YuliyaKozhevnikov Před 22 dny

      I’m going through the same😢❤️‍🩹 May God bless you with strength in this hard time

    • @user-js2sp3in2o
      @user-js2sp3in2o Před 20 dny +5

      Ladies, remember that the enemy hates marriage and will attack relentlessly. But what the enemy means for evil, God turns around for good. Your hope is not in a restored marriage but in the One who brought you together and will restore you two in His perfect way and timing. Focus on Him, so He can mend your heart and bring all else into alignment. Our Lord is faithful. 🙏🏽

    • @sadiejune.
      @sadiejune. Před 20 dny +6

      I had a time in my marriage that almost tore us apart. I felt numb and in pain. In the midst of my valley, God started to work on me. As I poured my pain to Him, I started to feel God pull on things I needed to work on. God had me focus on the areas of my life that I need to work on. As I started to lean on God, I noticed my husband change. We are still working on things. However do not feel ashamed to get counseling even if he doesn’t go. God will see your efforts. Trust in Him and he will provide a way. Pray for your husband. I do this with everyone that I start having negative thoughts about, start blessings them. This is a spiritual battle so it’s not easy but keep your chin up and fight! Ask God to reveal what you need to do. I love y’all sisters!

    • @YuliyaKozhevnikov
      @YuliyaKozhevnikov Před 19 dny

      @@sadiejune. thank you for these encouraging words! 🙏🏼

    • @YuliyaKozhevnikov
      @YuliyaKozhevnikov Před 19 dny

      @@user-js2sp3in2o thank you!

  • @socorah2
    @socorah2 Před 24 dny +3

    I’m new to your channel and just wanted you to know what a breath of fresh air it’s been to me. I needed to hear this today! From one homemaker to another…thank you!

  • @angelicagd
    @angelicagd Před 15 dny

    I needed to hear/watch this this morning as I work on baking homemade cinnamon rolls for my little family of 3! I love your videos and you are so inspiring! I have been a fan for years now! I am a fellow Catholic, homeschool Mama and I almost teared up at the end of this video for whatever reason! 😂 I also watch your other channel too! We don't obv know eachother in real life, but you are a blessing! Thank you for being you!

  • @Deezeelove
    @Deezeelove Před 25 dny +2

    Tabitha, thank you for your understanding in your videos. You described me... I felt you made this video for me! But, I don't feel judged AT all, just guided. You are a blessing. Thanks for being here.❤

  • @jennfehr8585
    @jennfehr8585 Před 2 dny

    You are such a blessing and inspiration!! It feels like you are speaking directly to me. Thank you for your hard work and dedication to these videos. I am truly blessed!

  • @MagdalenaIsaiah431
    @MagdalenaIsaiah431 Před 9 dny

    My first video to watch from your channel, on the recommendation of Heather of "A Catholic Mom's Life!" Heather did say she loves your content, but I'm still blown away by how *good" it was!❤️
    Definitely have subscribed and will be coming back for more
    I'll have to get back to Heather's channel to let her know how great a recommendation this was.❤
    She did mention she loves thst you are very "Christ-Centered" and those were the magic words that sent me running here. So glad I did!❣️ I think JESUS would agree that It's time wellspent✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏💛💛💛

  • @Jessica_Jones
    @Jessica_Jones Před 21 dnem +2

    "...overstimulated with too much information" 💯
    All three of the reasons you listed are applicable, but I think this one burdens me most of all. Even as I limit what comes in, marketing and all forms of news are _everywhere_ and it is exhausting. Over the past few years I have decluttered and simplified my home to the point where I am finally beginning to feel more a sense of ease in maintaining our space. Not only is there far less to manage (and to clean around), but it also elevates my sense of control over life's circumstances.
    Simplifying my home has increased my free time, quieted my mind, and broadened my capacity to serve and spend time with others -- I highly recommend it! ❤️🙏🏻

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 21 dnem +1

      Too much information is totally what affects me the most too.

    • @Yesica1993
      @Yesica1993 Před 6 dny

      @@ThisMamasFaith I'm not a wife/mother. (NOT by any choice or desire of my own.) But I enjoy channels like these. I have not looked up any stats, but I have become convinced that our phones are making us all crazy and sick. As you said, it's just too much information, nonstop. Our minds were not made to function that way. I cannot imagine what this is doing to children who, not only don't know anything else, but whose brains are still developing.

  • @KatherineJoe
    @KatherineJoe Před dnem

    Currently living in a trailer and I still feel overwhelmed and can’t keep it tidy for long. Don’t know why

  • @user-xp9ri5bu3g
    @user-xp9ri5bu3g Před 26 dny +5

    I really love your content...as a mother of 4 young children in the UK and currently working full time... I find your videos help me to bind my home chores with my worship as well as giving me the time to be mindful... you're an absolute blessing...thank you x

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 25 dny

      You are so welcome!

    • @debralavine6243
      @debralavine6243 Před 24 dny

      Wow. Apart from having 3 rather than 4 children, I could have written your comment! I really do empathise and agree that these videos offer a pause to think and reflect.

  • @Dana-mb1hd
    @Dana-mb1hd Před 27 dny +4

    Thank you this was so encouraging❤️❤️❤️❤️ I find myself overwhelmed a lot lately so this video was a blessing 🙏

  • @jodiejames5019
    @jodiejames5019 Před 16 dny

    You are becoming a spiritual mentor for me. Thank you for such a strong, biblical message. Stating that my husband, children and home are first priority stopped me in my tracks. I knew this but my actions were not lining up. Thank you for reminding me.

  • @angelamarie75
    @angelamarie75 Před 26 dny +1

    I love seeing your backyard! The animals, creek, flowers, trees….it’s like therapy. 😊 God sure makes the most beautiful things for us to enjoy! ❤ God bless you and your family, Tabitha, and God bless all of YOU! Have a happy new week. 🥰🤗😘

  • @Thatdoggirl77
    @Thatdoggirl77 Před 18 dny

    Thank you! ❤Have a blessed day!🌺

  • @karengibson1758
    @karengibson1758 Před 26 dny +4

    Glad to see you are back
    I hope everyone is well again
    God bless all of you

  • @cathybooth5883
    @cathybooth5883 Před 15 dny

    Oh I found you, l am so happy your just inspiration

  • @nasimasultana8360
    @nasimasultana8360 Před 11 dny

    your Vlog give me a so much joy . many thanks ...❤❤

  • @Faith.Butterfly
    @Faith.Butterfly Před 14 dny

    This video is so refreshing and inspiring. Thank you.

  • @theraptureisnearbelieveinj448

    Yes, make sure your kids do chores every day, or else they’ll become narcissists and just expect you to be their maid. Prayers for you. 🙏

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 26 dny +4

      I agree completely! My children do so much around the house. So thankful for them.

  • @leticiafernandes8804
    @leticiafernandes8804 Před 20 dny

    Social media detox is really necessary in fact. Loved this video. ❤

  • @valeriaisabel1398
    @valeriaisabel1398 Před 17 dny

    I love this video! Thank you so much for uploading a video with words that are encouraging to me and sooo comforting!!! I needed this much love ❤️

  • @jessicam2792
    @jessicam2792 Před 26 dny

    Thank you for this on time message.

  • @Pocketlint143
    @Pocketlint143 Před 26 dny

    New video, yesss! 😊❤

  • @amybeasley7388
    @amybeasley7388 Před 27 dny +3

    Thank you, Tabitha! You always make so many good points for me to ponder in your videos 🩷

  • @abyfuller
    @abyfuller Před 26 dny

    Oh this timely message 🙌🏻🩷 thank you sweet sister 🙏🏻

  • @susanhoward5046
    @susanhoward5046 Před 26 dny

    So much truth in this video. ❤

  • @isabellaspiteri7216
    @isabellaspiteri7216 Před 26 dny

    Your vlogs give me so much joy. Many thanks 🙏

  • @justjessica7744
    @justjessica7744 Před 23 dny

    Thank you. ❤

  • @Jolly.Joy_Rose
    @Jolly.Joy_Rose Před 24 dny

    Wow ❤ I really needed to hear these words right now, thank you! 🙏🏼

  • @daughterofmyabba
    @daughterofmyabba Před 18 dny

    Great advice!

  • @lovebug8720
    @lovebug8720 Před 26 dny

    I truly enjoy your videos. Thank you so much for sharing. You don't know how much you help

  • @sonyabroughbanales6523

    Thank you for this! I always love your videos, I'm so thanful that I found your channel. Bless you for sharing our faith and your thoughts with us! (Cradle Catholic here)

  • @pampotier4100
    @pampotier4100 Před 26 dny

    Thank you for this one! I needed to hear that!

  • @angelahall-sheisstriving4082

    Hi I find your channel very calming and I am also a woman of God who loves the Lord. Nice impactful video.

  • @rebeccabailey8469
    @rebeccabailey8469 Před 27 dny +1

    I needed to hear this message, thank you.

  • @weston8076
    @weston8076 Před 26 dny

    So happy to see a video of yours again, was just thinking about you the other day and checked for recent videos! Thank you for this today!

  • @shaynaTh
    @shaynaTh Před 22 dny

    Thank you for this video ❤️✨

  • @carolwhisenhunt7504
    @carolwhisenhunt7504 Před 26 dny

    Loved this Tabitha. Ty so much. Great Godly advice. I pray you and your family are doing well and blessed.

  • @valeriaalvarez1896
    @valeriaalvarez1896 Před 24 dny

    Thank you for your videos.

  • @mantleatrest
    @mantleatrest Před 26 dny +1

    Love this mama's faith. I am learning alot from your channel. God bless you my sister and continue the good work❤

  • @eliezer6937
    @eliezer6937 Před 26 dny

    Thankyou sister you life in courage me May our Lord bless our family too.

  • @Eva-xe5cz
    @Eva-xe5cz Před 25 dny

    Thank you a lot for this meaningful video! It helped me overthinking some behaviours 💛
    And I love the beautiful music you use. 🌺🌼🌸

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 25 dny +1

      I’m glad you like the music! It’s really hard to pick sometimes!

  • @BulldoggingBaker
    @BulldoggingBaker Před 25 dny

    Thank you so much, you are helping women all over the world! We need this. I Need this. Thank you so much

  • @amberr737
    @amberr737 Před 25 dny

    This was such a blessing! God is so great! Thank you this was very eye opening and filled with words of truth!

  • @faithfulacresfarmhouse

    Only 3 minutes and 30 seconds in and👌 the Holy Spirit has spoken! Just as though say, this video was at the perfect time for me. ❤

  • @rachelcaster6201
    @rachelcaster6201 Před 22 dny

    Whats your theme song at the end of the video? I loved this message also! ❤ inspiring for me as a mom of 2 boys under 2.

  • @Blockishbookhead
    @Blockishbookhead Před 26 dny

    Felt the Holy Spirit through this video. Thank you so much ❤️

  • @sharonc8613
    @sharonc8613 Před 27 dny +1

    Blessed Sunday. ✝️🙏🏻❤️
    Jn 14:23
    R. Alleluia, alleluia.
    Whoever loves me will keep my word, says the Lord,
    and my Father will love him and we will come to him.
    R. Alleluia, alleluia.

  • @faithfulacresfarmhouse

    Here I am with a second comment 😂🙌 loved this video. ❤That is all.

  • @katiel3457
    @katiel3457 Před 24 dny

  • @faithfashionist
    @faithfashionist Před 10 dny

    ❤❤❤

  • @alexiacastillo1581
    @alexiacastillo1581 Před 22 dny

    ❤❤

  • @katieyungen1647
    @katieyungen1647 Před 26 dny

    I see you are gathering herbs at about 9:30 ... what are you doing with the purple dead nettle?

  • @jenniferromero571
    @jenniferromero571 Před 7 dny

    May i ask which bible you read?

  • @punjabseth260
    @punjabseth260 Před 26 dny

    👍👌

  • @ayazghazal945
    @ayazghazal945 Před 27 dny

    ❤❤🎉

  • @cerwelt
    @cerwelt Před 23 dny +2

    As a Christian woman of 66 years I see so many women work seven days a week. No one takes a true Sabbath. I believe that if you work to get your tasks done the day before the Sabbath, and rest and seek the Lord on the Sabbath He will redeem your time and strength. Just as a tithe of our increase causes the remainder to be blessed, keeping a Sabbath causes the remainder of our t8me to be increased and blessed.

    • @ThisMamasFaith
      @ThisMamasFaith  Před 23 dny +2

      I totally agree! I should make a whole video about that!

    • @mariharrik5987
      @mariharrik5987 Před dnem

      because not everyone is Christian and not everyone follows sabbath

  • @user-io9lc5tg4o
    @user-io9lc5tg4o Před 26 dny