Matthew Hussey: Compatibility is Important in any relationship
Vložit
- čas přidán 28. 01. 2023
- Matthew Hussey: Compatibility is Important in any relationship #shorts
Sign up for my Newsletter for the best book summaries, meditations, productivity hacks, book recommendations, and much more...for FREE
Join for FREE before the price increases: bit.ly/3MxeEf2
#explore #motivation - Zábava
“Love does not consist of gazing at each other,
but in looking outward in the same direction.”
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
🤗❤️
What book is that from?
@@ARS-fn6pxThe little prince
I think it consists of both though, you can look in the same direction with a friend as well.
This is so true..and I feel it in every of my bone. Coz my 4 year relationship ended because of incompatibility while there's still so much love ..tried making it work for the past 3 years and on the 4th,it became clearer each day and that eventually led to this..completely heartbroken and I still love him and pray for him every single day .but at the same time.I never want to go back again ..All I could think about when I look back is that I'm just grateful for him to walk into my life.
crazy how priorities change as we get older...security, stability, reliability, strength, curiosity, physical attraction all play roles and its not just compatibility...I married a man from a whole different continent, language, race ... almost nothing except our faith in common. 33 years later we still together. Through all the ups and downs...marry not for love but marry the guy you respect and like so when that love fades...you still want to hang out with him. Love is an emotion like anger and no one walks around angry forever ;)♡
Generation ago, people were way more Emotionally Mature at their growth stages of life. It was easy enough to be patient with each other and LEARN one another & the compatibility grew!!! There weren’t distractions of Relationship killers (online, porn & unrealistic expectations)
I notice people frustrate themselves as much as others & wonder why they are lonely
True
So true, they can be the love of ur life but if don't get along it's a done deal for sure.
Compatibility is definitely a needed factor in a relationship. Lesson learned
Love is patience love is acceptance 💕
I admire you. I do believe love can conquer all but your right need good communication and attraction and it boils down to what one can live with. Nothing is perfect.
Yes you are spot on correct, thanks for all your great videos!
So True dear Matthew,
I do really need your help and guidance now !
Omg ! That was sound. Needed to hear it today
Compatibility needs to come first.
Perfect relationship is a myth
. Work on making it perfect
. That's the beauty
. That's the love
Google compatibility. There’s more to it that Matthew doesn’t address. You don’t know a person until you spend time with them.
One of the biggest lies we have been told by society is that "there are plenty of fish in the sea".
And there are... But very few are compatible with you, and there are many sharks male and female who will pretent to be fish just to get with you. 👍
My 4 year relationship broke due to compatibility
Sorry but happy for you at the same time
Thank you, Sir🙏
Truth!
We had admiration for each other ,chemistry, connection and we were committed but we weren't compatible, that hurts!
Then what is love?
I never knew getting into a relationship could be that complicated and tough. You have to conquer all these four stages in order to find a good relationship, but you don't find this kind of people much easily. Oh God how difficult relationship getting these days. It was way better in old times.
I know my parents stayed married for years with no compatibility’s and were miserable!
Nothing to do with compatibility. They just didn't accept each other. Compatibility is what is realized through years of hard work.
@@Alnivol666 your welcome to believe that, it’s just not true
@@stephenchapman4932 Whatever...dude. you also believe whatever you want. When you have a family, it simply is not about you anymore. Apparently, for your parents, their egos were more important.
People can really work on things if they want to. This idea of compatibility has more to do with selfishness.
Were they compatible when your dad came into your mom's pussy? They liked that, didn't they?
Damn they did it tho
Compatibility is the achievement of love.
Two people choosing for each other and making room for the other in their lives.
I really have no idea what Matthew is talking here when he means compatibility.
A relationship is a conscious choice and compatibility is reached when two people agree that they will love each other and build each other up whatever it takes.
shared values, mutual goals. moving in the same direction
Even if you have compatibility, values, a shared mission, beliefs, chemistry, attraction, mutual respect - the good news is that a mature wise person can end, heal from, and move on from a healthy relationship - as long as they are and were not engaged or married.
You are very wise!
Learned this one the hard, hard way.
Relationships fail, we don't like to admit that even if you are initially compatible, life will change that, and we change, so the predictable flag does not exist. Relationships mirror our effort. Love is a good beginning.
Wow. Never heard this before.
Thanks for sharing.
Ouch the TRUTH does 🤕 HURT
Love DOES conquer all in relationships etc, when you understand what love actually is. Love is not simply a feeling, love is a decision, it's a verb.
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." Bible 1Cor 13
God is love.
Boom!
I totally agree with this 👌🇬🇧
Absolutely.💯
We are very compatible and know it
I was just talking about this yesterday.
Exactly!!!
Stop overthinking and see good in people at least for a day. If not laughter but you will have a peaceful smile on your face. 😅
Well have been there before and he’s right ❤
I always thought that marriage involves two families coming together.
Now I realize that compatibility is not real. I don't believe compatibility really exists anymore. I think its an illusion.
If your values, character, world view and goals and align then you’re doomed. You need trust first then comes love as sex just creates the opportunity to see a persons truth connection
Yep
Compatibility is also complex. Are they a night person, but you definitely need to hit the bed early and rise early? Are they an extreme introvert, while you're an extreme extrovert who needs a lot of social interaction? Do they hate travel while you need it like sunlight? Are they so attached to their extended family that they will never move from their hometown, even if you get the job offer of your dreams somewhere else? If LGBTQ, are they so afraid they're still closeted and want you to be, while you have been out for years and prefer not to hide as if you are ashamed of loving someone?
Not if one is make the other better and that person wants to try everything so is happy to do anything. But it no longer matters sadly
Compatibility is worldly. Opposites attract for reason we are not meant to agree on everything nor was your counterpart created to be like you. The internet is ruining humans minds.
Compatible doesn't mean same
Exactly
HOW CAN YOU SAY THAT IN A SENTENCE SIR. LOVE DOES CONQUER ALL AND ITS THE GREATEST. LOVE GOT YOU THERE, LOVE WHERE YOUR AT, AND ITS LOVE THATS GONNA MOTIVATE YOU TO EVEN CARE ENOUGH TO GET YOU TO MOVE FORWARD TO FALL IN LOVE AND THEN LOVES GONNA GETCHA FORWARD TOGETHER IN A LOVING COMPATIBLE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR COMPANION. (LOVED ONE) LOVE ❤LOVE ❤LOVE❤ IT TAKES TWO TO AGREE ON THE LONG TERM JOURNEY. THAT MEANS, "TWO PEOPLE SAYING YES TO EACH OTHER" FINDING OUT IF YOU'RE COMPATIBLE TAKES LOVES ATTRIBUTES. AND THATS BIBLICAL. Love suffers long and is kind love does not envy love does not parade itself is not puffed-up does not behave rudely does not seek its own is not provoked thinks no evil does not rejoice in iniquity but rejoices in the truth bears all things believes all things hopes all things endures all things love never fails. 1st Corinthians 13:4 through 8. The new king James version or NKJV
Love overcomes compatibility, love being said in the Bible, love is patient and kind, being kind is acceptance...you dont understand the essence of Love, love is the greatest among all
It’s hard to have both sides at the same time willing to work on it when they are so much in live
Love can't and won't be perfect. True love is to have all these qualities. But, If they don't, are both partners, who truly love and care about each other, willing to overlook or supersede in areas where they're not compatible? That is the question; the hurdle.
@@freddysarmiento8287
I hate the some of the ideas the media is filling our heads with,,,,,what is patient,,,this are two pple trying to be one and ofcourse they are difderent
@@sharonmogambi7574 Yes, they'll be different, but that is key. We want people who are different than us so we don't fall into a state of monotony or less colorful. Remember, there's that saying: "we want what we can't have". If a man and a woman can desire each other and value each other for their differences that would be so divine. This is how it really should be. Not chasing after someone because of qualities you think are special without the reciprocation of the other person. At that point, sadly, you have to let them go. Or show them that you weren't fazed. They'll see the value they lost in you. And it was within their grasp.
Elon and I -we are compatibile 100% and we love each other million%and our love is to eternity-I am sure alsou million%
But he did not come to take me or organize I come to him.
We need to be together in reality.
Words doesn't mean anything anymore
💞
You have compatibility, you can see that with strangers but as jack said in titianic she met a girl confused " do you love him?
Exactamente 😊
You have to know yourself and the other person well and talk about what makes you compatible, and what you may or may not be able to adjust to. You have to spend time with a person to know their likes and dislikes, temperament, truthfulness, how much affection they need and want, attitudes and beliefs and, well, whatever else comes up.
What's compatability look like
May be: best of friends beyond gender.
People with similar mindset, energy level, interests, yet fill in for eachother's shortcomings.
🎯
Not necessarily true u can heal each other u said respect each other’s values and differences no u can not change another but u can help them to become self aware and then maybe they will heal of course if they have no interest in healing u r right
we are looking for perfection? compatibility: the ability to get along, agree to disagree...
You don’t know Jesus Christ if you say that love does not conquer all!
One of the the twelve mysteries of God is becoming one in your marriage! You can not truly fall in love without God in it. A strand of three is not easily broken!!!
We need to be compatible in order to have a HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. And yes, LOVE is just as important. Love does not conquer all...just as, being compatible does not conquer all. He simply explaining the healthy balance.
I SNR agree because different cultures or race get married to each other on a daily basis and from your view that’s not compatible like a black and white person in the 50s or 60s for example. A successful relationship is not about compatibility it’s about how their adored each other and respect each other, that, is love, not compatibility!!!! You’re wrong, wrong, wrong!!!
So if you think love conquers all...does mean our partner can emotionally and or physically abuse us? Can you tell me what the hell that conquers!!!
I don't think God is saying to stay with a person who is emotionally and or physically abusing the shit out of you.
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
I disagree. Love never fails.
Im not sure about this Matthew. If you read the bible Love is patient , Love is kind
For me love is more powerful than compatibility
Why? You can be very compatible and get along but theres no love. so when time comes that things get difficult or fall out of love, you will still get along but there no love so you end up breaking.
when you both love each other, theres respect , theres kindness, you both work on the relationship and the imperfections because of love.
Just saying but again I think we are overthinking things. There is no formula relationships.
But what is compatibility really?
There are simple forms of compatibility: alignment on life goals and morals, chemistry in bed, lifestyle choices, mutual interests. There are more complex forms of compatibility: emotional compatibility, the ability to make each other feel secure in the relationship. There is also abstract compatibility, which sometimes we never entirely understand: sometimes a relationship just feels *wrong* and you don't know why.
No love doesn't
What is his name?
Matthew Hussey
Women marry the guy who wants not the one u want,,,,these guys are talking frustration
Bs.
This guy is ridiculously annoying...yes...everything he say is great and logical...but it's all easier said than done ! Instead of criticism on what we're consistently doing wrong...why don't you give us ways to stop our behavior...yes, step by step instructions friend