Hey psychologist is ocd and disorders like this does only happen to people who have comfortable living and have time to think about different things. Like only during last 10-12 years we are hearing such conditions in Kerala. For eg : people living in slums does they get ocd because all of their surroundings are very dirty so does they have different idea about what is clean or these thoughts come only when when we are not in survival mode , does people in poor African countries get ocd and walk back 100 m back due to OCD while they are travelling with water for kilometres. What is the reality?
@@albin6126 OCD is indeed a persistent condition characterized by uncontrollable, recurring thoughts (obsessions) that drive individuals to perform repetitive behaviors (compulsions). It's crucial to note that these obsessions and compulsions can extend beyond cleanliness, encompassing various aspects of life and significantly impacting daily functioning.
@@albin6126 Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition that can affect individuals from various socioeconomic backgrounds, including those living in challenging environments. The nature of OCD is complex and involves a combination of genetic, biological, and environmental factors. While the specific symptoms of OCD may vary across individuals and cultures, it's important to note that obsessions and compulsions can manifest in different ways. In resource-limited settings, the focus on survival may indeed influence the expression of OCD symptoms. The perception of cleanliness and the nature of obsessions might differ based on cultural and environmental factors. Individuals in diverse circumstances, including those in slum areas or impoverished regions, can experience OCD, but the manifestation of symptoms might be shaped by their unique surroundings and challenges. In resource-limited settings, where daily life often involves significant challenges, the focus may be more on survival, and the specific manifestations of OCD, such as walking back 100 meters due to obsessions, might be less common or expressed differently. Cultural factors can also shape how mental health issues are perceived and addressed. Understanding mental health in various cultural and socioeconomic contexts is crucial for providing effective support and care.
Ocd is not only about cleaning . Fear of contamination s just a part of it . Don't misunderstand this . And also , don't speak, unless you know about this. Please
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calm ആയിട്ട് ഇരിക്കു രാവിലെ യോഗ ഒക്കെ ചെയ്യൂ. എന്ത് തന്നെ വന്നാലും നമ്മൾ അത് ഫേസ് ചെയ്യാൻ തയ്യാറായിരിക്കണം തന്റെ മകൾ വളർന്നു വരുമ്പോൾ ഇതൊക്കെ മാറും അവൾ തനിക്ക് ഒരു റിലീഫ് ആവും തനിക്ക് കിട്ടിയ അനുഗ്രഹമാണ് തന്റെ അമ്മയും ഇത്രേം സപ്പോർറ്റീവ് ആയ ഹസ്ബൻഡ് ഉം ഒരു മോളും നിനക്ക് സന്തോഷം കണ്ടുപിടിക്കാവുന്ന ചെറിയ ചെറിയ കാര്യങ്ങൾ ചെയ്യ ബുക്സ് വായിക്കു. ഹസ്ബൻഡ് ആയിട്ട് മനസ്സ് തുറന്ന് സംസാരിക്കു തന്റെ പ്രശനം ഒട്ടും വലുത് അല്ലെന്ന് വിശ്വസിക്കു ഈ ലോകത്ത് പലതരത്തിലുള്ള മനുഷ്യർ ഉണ്ട് ഫോബിയ എന്ന് പറയുന്നത് എനിക്കും ഉണ്ടായിരുന്ന ഒന്ന് ആയിരുന്നു നമ്മൾ വർക്ക്‌ ഇലൊക്കെ കൂടുതൽ എൻഗേജ് ചെയ്യുമ്പോൾ അതൊക്കെ മാറും 😊
എനിക്കും എപ്പോഴും ഓരോ പേടിയാണ്. Husband പുറത്തേക് പോകുമ്പോ ആക്‌സിഡന്റ് പറ്റുമോ, കുട്ടികളെ ആരെങ്കിലും abuse ചെയ്യുമോ, കുട്ടികളുടെ വിരൽ കതകിന്റ ഇടയിൽ പെടുമോ, ഉമ്മ മരിച്ചു പോകുമോ, അങ്ങനെ അങ്ങനെ. അതിനു ഞാൻ തന്നെ മാർഗം കണ്ടു പിടിച്ചു. പേടി വരുന്ന ടൈം തന്നെ പേടി തോന്നിയ കാര്യം അല്ലാഹുവിനോട് കാവൽ തേടും. അപ്പൊ relax ആകും. അങ്ങനെ മുന്നോട്ട് പോകുന്നു. അള്ളാഹു ആണ് എല്ലാം നിയന്ദ്രിക്കുന്നത് എന്ന് മനസിനോട് പറഞ്ഞു മനസ്സിലാക്കും. അപ്പൊ ഓക്കേ ആകും
Aisha, you are so proud to share your life difficulties and share your thoughts and experiences due to OCD, even in this 20th century people are scared to reveal who they are what they are going through. These 2 videos will definitely help people who are suffering with similar problems but haven’t yet been diagnosed and still struggling with day today life. Who will definitely decide to seek for help some time soon, thinking that they are not alone in this situation.
I am a Psychology student and Its so better to see others experience to know more about the disorder .Thankyou for sharing that.I wish you a better life.❤
Im in Depression but enik preshnam toxic parenting aanu njn aarod poyi parayanam enn ariyilla ullil othukki nadakunnu with pain, cry, loliness Psychologist ne kanan entha reethikal
Hi Aishu really appreciate that you are revealing all these.being a nurse I have looked after many people with OCD .however I never understood how they felt themselves.so your experiences are definitely a chance for me to understand them well if I come across somebody again.keep going…
Thanks for sharing Aisu …I can relate your story with someone I know so close. Now I can understand you both very well. You described very clearly. I feel very empathy to my close one who suffer like this. Much much thanks for sharing this. May God bless you with all happiness.
Chechi thank you so much for sharing this, its not something that is openly talked about in the Malayalee community (at least from my experience). You are raising mental health awareness. Thank you ❤
oh! Aishu, I can't watch it without leaving a comment here! I have gone through the same anxiety issues( fearing that I have a disease ) and OCD problems.. It was like hell.. And at last, many years of silent suffering I decided to take help from a professional.. Thank you for sharing your story.. It really means a lot..
@@LiveeeandletliveI have suffered the same and I consulted a doctor he gave me medicines with high dose that I have to have at night.after having the medicines within one hour i will sleep in a peaceful way . But socially interaction is a must . That doctor said to me always . I am under treatment for 2 years . I have recovered 90% .
This is something most of us are facing these days.. It's very difficult to convince the people around us.. much appreciate your effort in putting this into a video.. ❤
I had a very similar childhood trauma experience.. I had fear of loosing my dear ones.. But my parents didn't realized that it was a psychological issue.. Then too they too me for some pooja.. But somehow it faded but it again came back during a hard phase even more severely and still people around me takes this a shame to share and hide.. I myself reached out to a doctor.. And as Aishu said now even when a similar situation recur i know when where and how to regulate it to a better mode...
I'm commenting on an online platform first time... I'm going through the same situation like I have a disease.. Every day i'm searching on google.. Same like what you did.. Thank you for sharing.. Will seek for a professional help.. ❤
You are really a gem ❤❤❤ Aishu . Thank you for sharing the tought times you go through, that tough times made you more polished and become an amazing humble human being . Love the way you put effort to become a better person in everyday life....its motivating really Keep going .....❤❤❤❤
Thankyou so much for sharing your experiences with OCD, depression, etc... My loved one is facing a similar issue and has had the courage to start taking psychology sessions and medication despite zero support from parents.... Thanks a ton.... Stay brave... Stay the way you are... Cheers!!!
You are such a brave and strong lady and moii inspiration and role model when i started watching your video i think i am improving my character and your a gem lady❤🔥
Well done lady..❤ U overcomed a depressive phase in ur life and today stands out as a powerful personality.. And big claps to ur parents, Vishnu, and to NL family too.. 😊 Keep shining aishuu❤
thank you for sharing your struggles with us. it takes a lot of courage and we all truly appreciate it. you are a kind human and may you always have inner peace. also cheriya oru manifestation cheythotte; ente daivame oru nalla life partner'ne elavarkum kodukane. namuda jeevitham make or break cheyuna oru part aan love/dating/marriage.
Aishu soo happy that you overcame those toughh times❤ and also could you please share with us the exercises and names of some of those books that helped you to deal with anxiety..😊
It's good video aishu...u told the difficulties u faced in ur life as a story... everybody will go through like these situations but hardest,no the greatest thing is we should overcome this
Very very Useful story ..njanum ee depression stage pala time vannitudu,ethupole ulla anubhavaghal undayitudu ,but ethuvareyum treatment eduthitilla..ethu oru motivation aakatte ethupole anubhavichavarkoke😊thanks mole
Good to hear that you are right now in a state where you can balance your health. Wonderful 👏👏 Self awareness + Family's awareness + Decision to resolve it + meeting the right and efficient doctor + continous practice of techniques - All it culminated so well for you... And you are lucky in that. Not all get blessed with so. Many a times such efficient Drs are hard to find and not affordable for common people. That's a bitter reality. Keep spreading the light, i hope many are relieved listening to your life journey on this. More power to you.
Lots of love Aishu... Truly inspiring ❤ Even in the present time also our society has not accepted the fact that consulting a psychologist or psychiatrist is a normal part of maintaining health. Even people are not able to discuss or explain what is going on inside their mind because no body understands it. Many young people are suffering from anxiety and depression now a days and no one knows how to handle it ...even the family consider it as a silly matter and keeps advising to socialize more...and folks also sarcastically says that.. what's wrong with these kids...even we have gone through tough times and we could handle it. Sadly no one understands what is the importance of mental health...and how drastically it effect the whole well being and life of a person.
I too went through this phase aishu. But I did not go for any treatment because I was afraid to say to somebody. I was so scared at that time. Don't know how it went from my life. Stay happy dear 😘 The person in youtube whom i love the most ♥️♥️♥️ i think we will meet one day 😍
Hi Aishu, Your video deeply touched me, and I found myself in tears. I've been through a similar situation, and your story resonated with me. Your courage inspired me to consider seeking help from a doctor. Thank you for sharing your journey - you're truly an inspiration.
Hi dear.. This is the first video i watched of yours & i immediately pressed the the subscribe button ❤ and the reason behind it is my daughter is a severe OCD patient & she has been under treatment for the past 6 yrs & still going on. We r originally from Calicut but an NRI in Dubai. My daughter is currently 23yrs finished her Engineering. I really wanted her to connect with you. God bless you dear
Iam very glad to hear you. Mental health department face cheyyunna ettavum veliya budhimuttaan societyil ninnulla stigma about mental health. So you did a great job to come forward. And ningade families cheythathum valare nalla kaaryam. Oru paad aalkkaar face cheyyunna kaaryaan ippo treatment edkkanann vijaarichalum adhin pattaatha avastha. Appo ningade family adhin help cheythu ennarinjappo nalla sandhosham. Idh poole oru paad aalkkaar munnoott varandiyirikkunnu.
You're really brave overcoming ocd and depression..many people in our community consider mental health to be a taboo..and most people wouldn't consider it to be important Your video might inspire people to seek help! More power to you!❤❤❤
Thank you so much for this video. This video itself is enough to understand how strong you are. Big hugs to you. It would be beneficial to everyone if you can share the books you referred to help you out.
Thank you for this video! But could you please explain the exercises and book recommendation you got from the doctor in another video? Hope it helps me in some way.
Aishu you are so good...hard working women.... physical health nekalum oru padi munnilanu mental health ne athijeevikuka ennath... because me also faced this situation...but enthilekikum engaged ayirunal pakuthi ok akum thonunu ...ningalodu ippol nalka respect snehavum thonunu love you so much ❤️❤️
i was also gone through the same situation… it was very horrible…i can understand it…. nobody can feel the intensity😢 Whenever i remembering those difficult phase am so glad becz am still living…& am so greatfull am recovered from those bulshit phase of my life….Thank u so much for sharing this it will be really helpful for those who going through such situations…. u r such a strong lady ❤ More power to u
"Blasphemous thoughts ocd". I am a Psychology Studend (M. Sc), i am very glad to see this video🙌 കാരണം, ഒരുപാട് പേർ ഇതുകൊണ്ടുള്ള ബുദ്ധിമുട്ടുകൾ അറിയാതെ ജീവിതം ജീവിച്ചു തീർക്കുകയാണ്, ocd മാത്രമല്ല! ഇതുപോലെ ഒരുപാട് psychological disorders ഉണ്ട്. Psychological disorders തരണം ചെയ്താൽ തന്നെ ഉള്ളു ജീവിതത്തിൽ സന്തോഷവും സമാധാനവും കണ്ടെത്താൻ സാധിക്കുകയുള്ളു. Don't be aware of your neighborhood, family or friends, don't be fool, go and take a consultation if u need. It will change your whole life❤ And aishu chechi did a great thing, beacuse ningale pole ulla influencers ningalde personal experience share cheyyumbhol orupad perkk, ingane ulla avasthakale kurich koodthal manasilaakkan sadhikum🙌
Me too. But nobody can understand it is depression. People around me make fun of me saying I am sick and portraying me badly in front of others including my husband for seeing the doctor.
I'm watching this a lit bit late. I do think that I'm having OCD. But I was not ready to realize what is this thing happening with me. And the thing which surprised me the most was the fact that you're not a relegious person and why you chose not to. The exact same thing happened to me as well. I felt extremely overwhelmed when you said that. I never met person who has OCD or who knows it. The urge to talk about this thing is really high in me especially with you. TY for sharing this.
Chechii you're awesome , that's all I wanna say. I dunno how to explain but this video of yours gave me peace and happiness 💗 U R A DARING WOMEN . And also both u and vishnu chettan is blessed to have each other as partners.
Aishu, thank you for sharing 😊 Ith full kettapo oru samadhanem thoni...I am still on medication for depression kurach kaalam aayi. Hope I will also get over soon🙏
മോളെ കണ്ടാൽ ഇത് പോലെ സിറ്റുവേഷൻ ഉണ്ടായിരുന്നു തോന്നിരുന്നില്ല. 😭😭😭😭ദൈവത്തിനോട്കൂടുതൽ🙏🙏ക്കുക.aishune ഒരുപാട്ഇഷ്ടമാണ്
I’m a psychologist, very happy to share your experiences. As an influencer you did a great job.
Hey psychologist is ocd and disorders like this does only happen to people who have comfortable living and have time to think about different things. Like only during last 10-12 years we are hearing such conditions in Kerala.
For eg : people living in slums does they get ocd because all of their surroundings are very dirty so does they have different idea about what is clean or these thoughts come only when when we are not in survival mode , does people in poor African countries get ocd and walk back 100 m back due to OCD while they are travelling with water for kilometres.
What is the reality?
sathyam, ocd mannankatta, gimmicks for getting views that's all@@albin6126
@@albin6126 OCD is indeed a persistent condition characterized by uncontrollable, recurring thoughts (obsessions) that drive individuals to perform repetitive behaviors (compulsions). It's crucial to note that these obsessions and compulsions can extend beyond cleanliness, encompassing various aspects of life and significantly impacting daily functioning.
@@albin6126 Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition that can affect individuals from various socioeconomic backgrounds, including those living in challenging environments. The nature of OCD is complex and involves a combination of genetic, biological, and environmental factors.
While the specific symptoms of OCD may vary across individuals and cultures, it's important to note that obsessions and compulsions can manifest in different ways. In resource-limited settings, the focus on survival may indeed influence the expression of OCD symptoms. The perception of cleanliness and the nature of obsessions might differ based on cultural and environmental factors.
Individuals in diverse circumstances, including those in slum areas or impoverished regions, can experience OCD, but the manifestation of symptoms might be shaped by their unique surroundings and challenges.
In resource-limited settings, where daily life often involves significant challenges, the focus may be more on survival, and the specific manifestations of OCD, such as walking back 100 meters due to obsessions, might be less common or expressed differently. Cultural factors can also shape how mental health issues are perceived and addressed.
Understanding mental health in various cultural and socioeconomic contexts is crucial for providing effective support and care.
Ocd is not only about cleaning . Fear of contamination s just a part of it . Don't misunderstand this . And also , don't speak, unless you know about this. Please
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calm ആയിട്ട് ഇരിക്കു രാവിലെ യോഗ ഒക്കെ ചെയ്യൂ. എന്ത് തന്നെ വന്നാലും നമ്മൾ അത് ഫേസ് ചെയ്യാൻ തയ്യാറായിരിക്കണം തന്റെ മകൾ വളർന്നു വരുമ്പോൾ ഇതൊക്കെ മാറും അവൾ തനിക്ക് ഒരു റിലീഫ് ആവും തനിക്ക് കിട്ടിയ അനുഗ്രഹമാണ് തന്റെ അമ്മയും ഇത്രേം സപ്പോർറ്റീവ് ആയ ഹസ്ബൻഡ് ഉം ഒരു മോളും നിനക്ക് സന്തോഷം കണ്ടുപിടിക്കാവുന്ന ചെറിയ ചെറിയ കാര്യങ്ങൾ ചെയ്യ ബുക്സ് വായിക്കു. ഹസ്ബൻഡ് ആയിട്ട് മനസ്സ് തുറന്ന് സംസാരിക്കു തന്റെ പ്രശനം ഒട്ടും വലുത് അല്ലെന്ന് വിശ്വസിക്കു ഈ ലോകത്ത് പലതരത്തിലുള്ള മനുഷ്യർ ഉണ്ട് ഫോബിയ എന്ന് പറയുന്നത് എനിക്കും ഉണ്ടായിരുന്ന ഒന്ന് ആയിരുന്നു നമ്മൾ വർക്ക്‌ ഇലൊക്കെ കൂടുതൽ എൻഗേജ് ചെയ്യുമ്പോൾ അതൊക്കെ മാറും 😊
എനിക്കും എപ്പോഴും ഓരോ പേടിയാണ്. Husband പുറത്തേക് പോകുമ്പോ ആക്‌സിഡന്റ് പറ്റുമോ, കുട്ടികളെ ആരെങ്കിലും abuse ചെയ്യുമോ, കുട്ടികളുടെ വിരൽ കതകിന്റ ഇടയിൽ പെടുമോ, ഉമ്മ മരിച്ചു പോകുമോ, അങ്ങനെ അങ്ങനെ. അതിനു ഞാൻ തന്നെ മാർഗം കണ്ടു പിടിച്ചു. പേടി വരുന്ന ടൈം തന്നെ പേടി തോന്നിയ കാര്യം അല്ലാഹുവിനോട് കാവൽ തേടും. അപ്പൊ relax ആകും. അങ്ങനെ മുന്നോട്ട് പോകുന്നു. അള്ളാഹു ആണ് എല്ലാം നിയന്ദ്രിക്കുന്നത് എന്ന് മനസിനോട് പറഞ്ഞു മനസ്സിലാക്കും. അപ്പൊ ഓക്കേ ആകും
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Ee comments okke kaanumbo aanu ith pole kure aalukalkk undennu manasilakunnath😢... Njan 3 months aayit ith anubhavikkunnu. Nallonam prarthikkum apo nalla aaswhasam und.
Pine ith anxiety aanennu njan thane manasilakki munnot povanu ath kond ipo kure better aayi. Daivathe vilich munnot povanu ipo
Love u Aishu , Iam lady of 39years old suffering from alot of problems like u, u r such brilliant very impressive ❤
Aisha, you are so proud to share your life difficulties and share your thoughts and experiences due to OCD, even in this 20th century people are scared to reveal who they are what they are going through. These 2 videos will definitely help people who are suffering with similar problems but haven’t yet been diagnosed and still struggling with day today life. Who will definitely decide to seek for help some time soon, thinking that they are not alone in this situation.
I am a Psychology student and Its so better to see others experience to know more about the disorder .Thankyou for sharing that.I wish you a better life.❤
Im in Depression but enik preshnam toxic parenting aanu njn aarod poyi parayanam enn ariyilla ullil othukki nadakunnu with pain, cry, loliness
Psychologist ne kanan entha reethikal
Take an appointment
Parentsine anu kanikande chelarde avastha angane anu onnum cheyan patilla pne patience keep cheyya financially independent avumbo kurachukudi rakshapedum allenki case kodka allathe than poyi psychologist kanichittu karyamilla
Hi Aishu really appreciate that you are revealing all these.being a nurse I have looked after many people with OCD .however I never understood how they felt themselves.so your experiences are definitely a chance for me to understand them well if I come across somebody again.keep going…
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Thanks for sharing Aisu …I can relate your story with someone I know so close. Now I can understand you both very well. You described very clearly. I feel very empathy to my close one who suffer like this.
Much much thanks for sharing this. May God bless you with all happiness.
Chechi thank you so much for sharing this, its not something that is openly talked about in the Malayalee community (at least from my experience). You are raising mental health awareness. Thank you ❤
oh! Aishu, I can't watch it without leaving a comment here! I have gone through the same anxiety issues( fearing that I have a disease ) and OCD problems.. It was like hell.. And at last, many years of silent suffering I decided to take help from a professional..
Thank you for sharing your story.. It really means a lot..
What was your treatment procedure? Was it just counseling or did you took medicines?
@@LiveeeandletliveI have suffered the same and I consulted a doctor he gave me medicines with high dose that I have to have at night.after having the medicines within one hour i will sleep in a peaceful way . But socially interaction is a must . That doctor said to me always . I am under treatment for 2 years . I have recovered 90% .
Really inspiring Aishu❤
Thank u for sharing
Someway or the other it would help people ❤❤❤
I also struggles with OCD. From your experience i got the courage to share my problems and consult a psychologist
Im hypochondriac . Severe health anxiety sufferer. Your video makes lots of sense . Thanks for sharing .
This is something most of us are facing these days.. It's very difficult to convince the people around us.. much appreciate your effort in putting this into a video.. ❤
Aww...🫂🫂🫂 Thank you sharing this vulnerable side..You are strong. I had tears as it is somewhat relatable to me.
I had a very similar childhood trauma experience.. I had fear of loosing my dear ones.. But my parents didn't realized that it was a psychological issue.. Then too they too me for some pooja.. But somehow it faded but it again came back during a hard phase even more severely and still people around me takes this a shame to share and hide.. I myself reached out to a doctor.. And as Aishu said now even when a similar situation recur i know when where and how to regulate it to a better mode...
Takes a lot of guts to share what you did. It will help many. Hats off to you..
I'm commenting on an online platform first time... I'm going through the same situation like I have a disease.. Every day i'm searching on google.. Same like what you did.. Thank you for sharing.. Will seek for a professional help.. ❤
More strength to you Aishu❤ Thank you for sharing your experiences. It will be helpful for many people 🫂
Truly inspiring and I am very proud of you chechii🫂🫂💗💗
You are really a gem ❤❤❤ Aishu . Thank you for sharing the tought times you go through, that tough times made you more polished and become an amazing humble human being . Love the way you put effort to become a better person in everyday life....its motivating really
Keep going .....❤❤❤❤
So much strength to you❤ thank you for such an inspiring share
Thankyou so much for sharing your experiences with OCD, depression, etc... My loved one is facing a similar issue and has had the courage to start taking psychology sessions and medication despite zero support from parents.... Thanks a ton.... Stay brave... Stay the way you are... Cheers!!!
Hi that is very brave of you to share these. May the stigma of seeing the "Head" doctor go away so all can access them freely.
You are such a brave and strong lady and moii inspiration and role model when i started watching your video i think i am improving my character and your a gem lady❤🔥
No words to say aishu.Great respect to u.Inspiring too.
Aishu so happy you shared these with us…loads of love to you❤
Really inspiring chechii...ellarum e OCD parnju kettit olu,ipazhaanuu clear ayit mnsilayath❤❤❤thanks aloottt for sharing n motiviting us ❤❤
Idhaaanu Thani malayali proud of you ❤
Well done lady..❤ U overcomed a depressive phase in ur life and today stands out as a powerful personality.. And big claps to ur parents, Vishnu, and to NL family too.. 😊
Keep shining aishuu❤
thank you for sharing your struggles with us. it takes a lot of courage and we all truly appreciate it. you are a kind human and may you always have inner peace. also cheriya oru manifestation cheythotte; ente daivame oru nalla life partner'ne elavarkum kodukane. namuda jeevitham make or break cheyuna oru part aan love/dating/marriage.
Aishu soo happy that you overcame those toughh times❤ and also could you please share with us the exercises and names of some of those books that helped you to deal with anxiety..😊
It's good video aishu...u told the difficulties u faced in ur life as a story... everybody will go through like these situations but hardest,no the greatest thing is we should overcome this
Very very Useful story ..njanum ee depression stage pala time vannitudu,ethupole ulla anubhavaghal undayitudu ,but ethuvareyum treatment eduthitilla..ethu oru motivation aakatte ethupole anubhavichavarkoke😊thanks mole
I love you Aishu.. no other words can express my feeling after these two life experience videos. ❤
Very inspiring..Thank you for sharing your experience with us ❤
Good to hear that you are right now in a state where you can balance your health. Wonderful 👏👏
Self awareness + Family's awareness + Decision to resolve it + meeting the right and efficient doctor + continous practice of techniques - All it culminated so well for you... And you are lucky in that. Not all get blessed with so.
Many a times such efficient Drs are hard to find and not affordable for common people. That's a bitter reality.
Keep spreading the light, i hope many are relieved listening to your life journey on this. More power to you.
Lots of love Aishu... Truly inspiring ❤
Even in the present time also our society has not accepted the fact that consulting a psychologist or psychiatrist is a normal part of maintaining health. Even people are not able to discuss or explain what is going on inside their mind because no body understands it. Many young people are suffering from anxiety and depression now a days and no one knows how to handle it ...even the family consider it as a silly matter and keeps advising to socialize more...and folks also sarcastically says that.. what's wrong with these kids...even we have gone through tough times and we could handle it.
Sadly no one understands what is the importance of mental health...and how drastically it effect the whole well being and life of a person.
Soo true❤
I too went through this phase aishu. But I did not go for any treatment because I was afraid to say to somebody. I was so scared at that time. Don't know how it went from my life. Stay happy dear 😘 The person in youtube whom i love the most ♥️♥️♥️ i think we will meet one day 😍
Hi Aishu, Your video deeply touched me, and I found myself in tears. I've been through a similar situation, and your story resonated with me. Your courage inspired me to consider seeking help from a doctor. Thank you for sharing your journey - you're truly an inspiration.
Thank you for your information ❤
So many reasons are there for me to like you ❤one of the genuine CZcams personalities ❤very informative
Soo genuine ❤ Good that you shared it.....
Thankyou thankyou thankyou so much chechiiii for sharing ❤❤
Applauding your raw honesty and willingness to share your journey in the hopes of helping another person.
you have no idea how much this video helped me
Your presentation is vere level❤❤ Highly appreciated 👏😍
Thankyou for your valuable words ❤
Thanks for sharing your experience. I'm going through same. Will try to see a therapist soon
Thanks for the video aishu..❤
You are an amazing person chechi❤❤❤
Hi dear.. This is the first video i watched of yours & i immediately pressed the the subscribe button ❤ and the reason behind it is my daughter is a severe OCD patient & she has been under treatment for the past 6 yrs & still going on. We r originally from Calicut but an NRI in Dubai. My daughter is currently 23yrs finished her Engineering. I really wanted her to connect with you. God bless you dear
You should read Dale Carnegie's books. They helped a lot to kick myself out of depression.
You are a powerful women. Kudos for sharing❤.
Im also a ocd patient, its very difficut to get rid of this problems😐but your experiences are comforting me🥰
Iam very glad to hear you. Mental health department face cheyyunna ettavum veliya budhimuttaan societyil ninnulla stigma about mental health. So you did a great job to come forward. And ningade families cheythathum valare nalla kaaryam. Oru paad aalkkaar face cheyyunna kaaryaan ippo treatment edkkanann vijaarichalum adhin pattaatha avastha. Appo ningade family adhin help cheythu ennarinjappo nalla sandhosham. Idh poole oru paad aalkkaar munnoott varandiyirikkunnu.
All the best for your future. Blessings and Prayers.
Really inspiring aishu .because.njan anxiety disorder loode കടന്നുപോകുന്ന ആൾ ആണ് കൂടെ obcession thoughts ഉം.I can related to you.❤
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Liked it very much
U did a good job especially to malayalees
As an influencer this is a great attempt
You're really brave overcoming ocd and depression..many people in our community consider mental health to be a taboo..and most people wouldn't consider it to be important
Your video might inspire people to seek help!
More power to you!❤❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing your experience 🙏❤
Thank you so much for this video. This video itself is enough to understand how strong you are. Big hugs to you. It would be beneficial to everyone if you can share the books you referred to help you out.
Thank you so much for this video❤
Thank you for this video! But could you please explain the exercises and book recommendation you got from the doctor in another video? Hope it helps me in some way.
Thank you sister ❤....I am facing the same problem......u r video helped me a lot.....
Hi chechi
Nyan more than 3 years ayi tanimalayalide ela videosum kanarind
First time ahn message cheyunathu
Chechi iduna ela videosum bhayakara inspiring ahn
It really makes me motivated
Last week upload cheytha video kandapo sherikum enk ente life ayi connect cheyan pati nyanum ee same situationsiloode kadanu poya oral ahn
Ipolum anxiety issues karanam struggling ahn
Nyan ipo 3 years ayi ukl ahn
Ivadathe life ayit enk ipolum adjust cheyan patanila
Elathinodum ula pediyum tensionum oke ahn
Natil ayirunapo nyan igane onum alarnu
Ivade vana shesham enk onum cheyan patatha pole ahn
Chechide videos kanumbo nyagalk bhayakara relief ahn
Ee 4 years kond chechi lifil kondvana matagal kanumbol Enk bhayakara respect 🫡 ahn thonunathu
Keep going NL family ula elavareyum enk ishtam ahn Elavarodum anweshanam parayane
Deepa chechi veedum youtube channel thudagiyathil happy ahn
Epolekilum nerit meet cheyam enu predikshikunu
Ee vedio enik relatable annu....orupad karriyagall orthu poyyi.. financial freedom..athu important annu..
Nammuk swentham ayyit enthelum cheyanamengil....job venam cash venam.....
Chechi you are my inspiration
Enikum cheriya ocd undaayirunnu njan myself aayi control cheyunnu ❤
Thank you aisu for sharing this...😭😭😭ee same stage il koodeya njnm pone...enkum death anxiety aanu...enk nthokeyo asukam undennulla thonal
Aishuchachi... You are very positive....
very brave and very useful for many of us. thank you!
♥️♥️feels so good that u share the next part very fast
..still waiting
I feel so proud of you chechi ❤Ethraokke overcome cheythu analo epo njnkade front il erunnu samsarikunne.....Thanks for sharing this ❤
Aishu you are so good...hard working women.... physical health nekalum oru padi munnilanu mental health ne athijeevikuka ennath... because me also faced this situation...but enthilekikum engaged ayirunal pakuthi ok akum thonunu ...ningalodu ippol nalka respect snehavum thonunu love you so much ❤️❤️
Such a helpful video ❤ Stay happy and blessed
Thank you Aishwarya❤.... Innu aadyayittanu nhan childhood thott face cheythondirikkunna condition OCD aanenn thiricharinjath...
Oh dear Aishuu....❤❤❤ u are such a gem of person❤❤
This is so right thank you as I got clarity on my situation
Great job 👏🏼 truly motivating and relaxing ❤❤❤Thank you sister
Beautiful video....very informative and helpful...
Thanks Aiyshu❤
All the best and keep up the good work..love you❤
Glad you shared your experience ❤
i was also gone through the same situation… it was very horrible…i can understand it…. nobody can feel the intensity😢 Whenever i remembering those difficult phase am so glad becz am still living…& am so greatfull am recovered from those bulshit phase of my life….Thank u so much for sharing this it will be really helpful for those who going through such situations…. u r such a strong lady ❤ More power to u
"Blasphemous thoughts ocd".
I am a Psychology Studend (M. Sc), i am very glad to see this video🙌
കാരണം, ഒരുപാട് പേർ ഇതുകൊണ്ടുള്ള ബുദ്ധിമുട്ടുകൾ അറിയാതെ ജീവിതം ജീവിച്ചു തീർക്കുകയാണ്, ocd മാത്രമല്ല! ഇതുപോലെ ഒരുപാട് psychological disorders ഉണ്ട്. Psychological disorders തരണം ചെയ്താൽ തന്നെ ഉള്ളു ജീവിതത്തിൽ സന്തോഷവും സമാധാനവും കണ്ടെത്താൻ സാധിക്കുകയുള്ളു. Don't be aware of your neighborhood, family or friends, don't be fool, go and take a consultation if u need. It will change your whole life❤
And aishu chechi did a great thing, beacuse ningale pole ulla influencers ningalde personal experience share cheyyumbhol orupad perkk, ingane ulla avasthakale kurich koodthal manasilaakkan sadhikum🙌
Eganey issues phycologistney psychiatristiney kaanikaa gentsinum venda council vendi Vero??
@@krishnap12gents and ladies n psychologist consult cheyyamm....👍psychology clinic il poyi... Psychologist kanikam...
Hy sis ith pryr cheyyumbo varum😢bad thoughts
@@Aju734 undkum ath ocd religious aayi varm
Glad to know that u hve overcomed the tuff phase and back to normal.❤ U. I will keep u in my prayers dear.
Hii
Happy that you shared your experience
Nice knowing you more
Keep going🎉🎉
I feel you❤️
Love you ❤Thank u for all ur videos ❤
This same situation currently I'm passing through.. thankyou for sharing...now I'm feeling much better after watching your video ❤️
Me too. But nobody can understand it is depression. People around me make fun of me saying I am sick and portraying me badly in front of others including my husband for seeing the doctor.
I'm watching this a lit bit late. I do think that I'm having OCD. But I was not ready to realize what is this thing happening with me. And the thing which surprised me the most was the fact that you're not a relegious person and why you chose not to. The exact same thing happened to me as well. I felt extremely overwhelmed when you said that. I never met person who has OCD or who knows it. The urge to talk about this thing is really high in me especially with you. TY for sharing this.
Chechii you're awesome , that's all I wanna say. I dunno how to explain but this video of yours gave me peace and happiness 💗 U R A DARING WOMEN . And also both u and vishnu chettan is blessed to have each other as partners.
Thank you 😊for your message ❤❤❤❤👨👩👧👧
Ithuvarai ullathil ishtppetta video
Thankyou Aishu for sharing this
Thank you for sharing the experience… it was really really helpful… ❤❤
Somuch love to you ❤️truly an inspiration 💯
Aishu, thank you for sharing 😊 Ith full kettapo oru samadhanem thoni...I am still on medication for depression kurach kaalam aayi.
Hope I will also get over soon🙏
U did a great job, thankyou for sharing your experience
Thank uu chechii🥰🥰 love uu.. U are a good influencer and u are so proud to share ur life difficulties😍
Hi aishu, thanks for sharing. njn oru stressful situation ilude pokuayirunu enik helpful ayi ee video
I am realising that I am an OCD patient.....Thank you 😮❤❤
Thanks for this video chechi ❤