V r so glad that an influencer like u stand up for the importance of mental health ..wen people like u come forward it will definitely change d stigma .thank u so much for dis bold decision to bring this topic public .
Girl I'm crying after watching this video. Im happy to see that you'r family took you through the right direction. My case was not the same. People used to threaten me and blame me for the things i did. And even i could not realize that there is something wrong because I was just a kid. My parents used to beat me for behaving so. To this day i face many mental health issues like anxiety, depression, ocd etc. I am 25 years old now and has gained nothing in my life rather than being afraid of everything.
I am a clinical psychology trainee.. I could feel you. This is hard and I am proud of you for the fact that you open up about the difficulties and it reflects your strength amidst these difficulties. There are so many treatment options available both online and offline even free of cost. I could assure you that you will feel far better if you could visit a psychiatrist or psychologist.
Your dedication to sharing your journey with OCD is truly inspiring! Your vlogs not only resonate with those who understand the challenges of OCD but also serve as a source of strength and encouragement for others, including myself. Keep shining a light on this important topic, and remember that your openness is making a positive impact on so many lives, mine included. Together, we can overcome and thrive❤❤❤
I could really understand what u meant. Bcoz i am going through this now. When u said in the first line itself, i can relate it easily.. Thaank you for sharing this.😊
Being an NPD victim and OCPD, i couldn't forget the days i have been through- the times I hated nights, the days i complained a lot, regretted, worried, tired and thought of self harm. Took cbt and medications for some time. Later realised self heal measures to be taken for long term on realising Medications will create a withdrawal effect same as alcohol and also have side effects in prolonged use. Find your own ways to happiness, change life style, be involved, positive affirmations, exercise helped a lot.
Thanku sooo much Aishu for sharing this with us ...waiting for the next part ....i am struggling with this for past 2 years maybe ...now i am 23 age ....sometimes my situation gets better but chila timil i am struggling a lot to control my urge to repeat things....rend moon counselling cheythu but effective ayila enik....enik surroundings clean cheyathath preshnamila valuthayit....but ente bodyil germs patuon vijarich ..daily 30 times mele hand wash cheyum....epozhum gas off anon check cheyum .....water ithra glass kudikanm alengil apakadam patum...chila numbersil ndhelum cheyth theerthal preshnamakum but chila nunbers lucky anu enoke ulla thonnal.....nadakunna vazhik chila sadanangal thottu nadane pattu ...agne pokunnu ente struggles ....Prayer helped me a lot these days ❤Hope to cure this soon ❤
Hey, I‘m a consultant psychologist. You well said and explain very authentically about your condition. It will be helpful for someone whose go through it. OCD is not only mentioning about neatness , it is a psychological condition of obsessive thoughts with compulsive repeatative bhvr. Like Aishu mentioned it cant be completely cure but you can controle ur thoughts with therapies, exercises etc. So if anyone have these like issues must be consult a therapist. Anyway Aishu good a great job. God bless uuh😊
I tried very hard but I can't 😢 . Enikk 6 months aayi parayaan pattattha tharatthil body pain undaayirunnu . Oru pad test cheythu ECG , endoscopy, scanning, blood test pala rogangalum aanonnu nokki nanjeppozhum bedil thanne athinte koode 2 years aayi oru sun allergy yum . I am in a box enikkathil ninnu puratth kadakkan Patti ennu karuthi but annonnum njan behaviour change onnum shreddichirunnilla but one month aayi phsychatrist ne kandu body pain nu marunnedukkunnu but ayaal parayunnat depression pole okkeyaanu enikk katthi kandal appo kutthan thonnum vedhanayulla bhaghattheekk , ath pole uyaratyhil ninnu chaadan , oodunna vandiyil ninn , rodiloode vahanam pokumbol athinu munpe kayari nilkkan kelkkunnavaru kaliyakakum but chila neratth thalakk vallaattha pressure aanu 6 month aayi ente education mudangiyitt degree kk athinu enikkillaattha kuttam ente ellaa bhandhukkalkkum ellaam kaivitta polee sherikkum olicch jeevikkukayaa veedinullil orikkalum maarattha oru sun allergy yum chila neratth ottayadikk ketti thoongi marikkaan thonnum aarenth motivation thannittum kaaryamilla I was not like this before .. and aa phase il ninn maariyaal enthiningane chinthicch thonnum pala neratth pala character and enikk madutthu motthatthil okke nashtta pettapolee ippo chinthicchath pinne ormayilla
Hi Aishu much appreciated for sharing ur story about OCD and how professional help at early stage helped u out, in our community talkin abt mental health is Taboo. I know now i will be more mindful of my kids bringing up and the help tey need. I myself suffer from anxiety it was nver recognised or treated...i suffered an anxiety attack n i still failed to recognise it...aftr watchin listening to lot of videos n talks on social media tat itself has made me mindful of wen my anxiety strts n i guess tat helps to kp it in control....so ur step to share this video has helped many to understand OCD ...kudos to u for making lovely feel good videos tc
Aishu, This video just took me to my childhood and I just realised I have also been facing this same without knowing what actually it is. I think my problem was less intense than yours but I still hv issues Thank you for speaking up and making me realise it’s not just me. I was thinking this is with me only and never wanted to share with anyone. Love and respect Aishu ❤❤
I am an Ayurveda dr. I had OCD and FPP disorder right from my 8th standard...From my experience, all these begun as a habit to heal myself from my childhood trauma... I had some family problems... Nobody understood me... I used to walk certain distance as you told, even used to run😢...Everybody scolded me... I was a good student that time...I was good in academics, I had good writing skills... Slowly it reflected on my studies.. From a topscorer in the class to a person who failed in the subject,😢... That time, I never got the support I actually needed.... Even, I felt memory issues... I was unable to recollect the learnt topics.. Wasting time is the main issue, I felt with these disorders...I always feel, If I could control my thoughts earlier during my schooling, I would have attained something greater in my life...Thank you for speaking out❤
Thank you for sharing this aishu chechi . Actually i didn't know these are the symptoms of OCD .This is something that I also faced or still facing a bit . My college friends used to mock me for my over cleanliness by calling me ocdic ,its not just them I also thought ocd is just an obsession to cleaning and nothing more that requires a treatment.But when you shared your experiences I became shocked because this something that i used to do. Njan orikkalum vicharichilla ithepole ulla thoughts vere arkenku undakun njan ente or andhavishwasam anenn okkeya enta ithupolulla thoughtsine vichariche .Njanum ithupole arkenku enthelum okke pattum ennu examin fail ayi pokum ennokke vicharich oro actions ellenkil enthenku karyam cheythukond irikkum ath cheythille enthenku okke mosham ayit ellenkil njan agrahikunnathinte opposite karyam sambavikkum ennokke enik thonnu ,ithum ocd yude symptoms anenn chechide vlog kandappozha manasilaye .Enne elllarum ocd enn parayarund ath ente cleaning obsession kond mathram annu pakshe ente ullile ithupole ulla thoughts arkum arila njan arum kaanathe annu ingathe actions cheyyar pakshe veetil ullavark ariyam njan ingana action kanikkunnath ennod enthina ingana cheyunne chothichal njan tension ayittanenn parayum . chechinod paranjath pole ennodum eni angana cheyyarth enn veetin parayum. Enk ith cherthayit Start cheythath 10 th std padikkumbozhan .what you said was sooo true its more during stressful days. Ippo enk ee prashnam valare kuravan stress koodumbo veendu varuon enkarila. pinne ee video kandappo eni athupole onnu cheyyathirikkan korch kudi motivation kitti🥰. Once again thankyou soo much for sharing this
ഈ ചിന്ത എനിക്കും ഇപ്പോഴും ഉണ്ട് 27 വയസ്സായി പക്ഷെ ഞാൻ അതിനെ വല്യ കാര്യമാക്കാറില്ല എന്നു വെച്ചാ ഞാൻ പേടിക്കാറില്ല എന്തെങ്കിലും ആവർത്തിച്ചു ചെയ്തില്ലെങ്കിൽ എന്തെങ്കിലും നടക്കും എന്നുള്ള പേടി ഉണ്ട് പക്ഷെ ഞാൻ നടക്കട്ടെ എന്നു വിചാരിക്കും അപ്പൊ പ്രശ്നം തീരും. അങ്ങനാ ഞാൻ ഹാപ്പിയായി ഇരിക്കുന്നെ 😄
I admire you dear.. This video helps some of the people to understand the facts of OCD. I know this journey because I have crossed these hurdles.. God bless you dear
The best part about this whole life experience sharing was the decision that ' I have an issue and that needs to be resolved ' at the age of 10 or so! Now that is something not everyone would be able to feel at that tender age. That self awareness along with Parent's support helped you. Sometimes, even if the family or loved ones wanted to support the other, they may not be willing to help themselves and that's one of thw worst scenarios.. Anyways, you had a healthy travel in your self help journey and that's so beautiful to hear. More strength to you.
I have never related to any person or any situation as I have related to your video of this. I completely understand your condition and I am going through the same condition . Your video actually made me relaxed.
I vividly recall a childhood biking at 8 or 9 when an odd sensation on my legs sparked obsessive fears of a snake bite. Despite knowing it wasn't true, anxiety consumed me. Thankfully, seeking help from a psychologist proved transformative. While not entirely curable, I've learned OCD is manageable, and recovery is possible.
I appreciate you for sharing your experience and ottum over akathe valare detailed ayi you said it ,enik ocd full form mathrame ariyarinulu ippo oru nalla idea kitti ,thank you 😍❤
It's so happy to hear ur stories...may be it's just a story for others bt i really want to appreciate u for winning this silent battles.aishu u need to know that ur now here only bcz of ur courage to takes the steps without giving up.....I always used to believe that ''everything happens for a reason "..I think now u can realte this saying too deeply.... thankfully ur sister ❤
Hii Aishu I use to watch most of your videos, bt this was something which I have gone through n still I am in, haven’t taken any treatment yet, I wasn’t known about the fact that it was OCD n it’s a great struggle for me to live a normal life.And thq sooo much for sharing your experience LOTS OF LOVE ❤
Hi Aishu, I always playfully tease my husband saying that he has OCD , when he behaves weirdly, like every morning after he wakes up if he sees anything misplaced in the house or finds any dust on the floor, he always cleans that before even having food. Sometimes he even skips his bF and eats lunch @ 7pm. Now I understand that he may has OCD and we need to seek medical help.
I really think that you are using your social media platform as entertaining as possible and educating people , developing healthy habits… . That’s quite good to use your influence sensibly lots of love❤❤
I just watched this now. So much respect and love to you for sharing this with your audience. It takes guts and a lot of generosity to share something so personal and emotional with strangers.
I was diagnosed with HARM OCD and with the proper support of family& wife I was completely able to overcome it. I still have obsessive thought but i didn't get any anxiety, doesn't make me do any compulsion . Its not easy but its completely controllable. I don't know if i will relapse on OCD but I am confident enough to tackle it. OCD is difficult but you have the strength to overcome it. Compulsion are learned behavior and your brain have the ability to unlearn it. Whoever is going through it I want you to know that you are more stronger than your OCD and you can definitely overcome this. Thanks for sharing this story ! Glad to hear you are better with your OCD @tani_malayali.
Am also an OCD patient.there has been alot of hardship due to this disease. I have cried a lot😔.A time that feel scary when i remember itt. Although i have not fully recovered from the illness now i can controled my mind😊
Well explained! First of all thank you aishu❤ith kettappo "padachone" enikk ocd undo nn doubt aayi. Bcz ee paranja poleyull thoughts enikkum vararund njan ath cheithillenkil narakathilavum ith cheithillenkil narakathilavum ennokkeyulla oro chinthakal. Porathathinu than paranja pole clean cheithath veendum clean cheithondirikkum😢. Any way thank youu😢
I tooo have OCD....But no one cared to correct ...Its not just excessive cleanliness....ITS GOT TOOO MANY OTHER ASSOCIATED ISSUES....terrible anxiety. Now at 51 yrs ..looking 70 plus ..i wish i had parents who cared to correct . .....even my husband and children suffering cause of my OCD Yu r so blessed that yu are surrounded by folks who love yu a lot ....
Thanks for sharing this important information.I am also on my medication journey for OCD and can relate to so many things you said.Suffered a lot last 3 years because of it .But now lots of positive changes are happening and I am slowly becoming my old self again and feeling happy.
When I was a kid I used to count the number of letters in a word and was eager to find whether the number is odd or even. I was anxious when I got an odd number, and felt there is something bad going to happen. Later on as time passed and when I grew old this habit stopped somehow.
Iam also doing this even now. When the numbers of the word or sentence are multiplication of three and two i will be superhappy. Even now whenever i notice a big sentence or whenever i read a paragraph i will do this.
Hi aishu...Good that you shared about your OCD here.People only know to boast about things like diabetes or hypertension.Just like you said health is both physical and mental health.You being a content creator is making aware of things like this.Social taboo regarding mental illness is really difficult to break but definitely worth breaking. Hope you are doing well..all the best
Your improvement is mostly age related and not because of Counselling. If it's because of Counselling it would have healed in few months, and not in many many growing years
Actually OCG grows by age . In India, many commit suicide without getting treatment. Especially because of our society. Still it is a taboo to take treatment for mental health.
I am one of them.... Ur well said.... Nobody can understand the situation until unless they experience this.....when I clean my house again and again many of my relatives and even partner makes fun of me.... Not only cleanliness..... Anxiety, depression, also comes with it...,i can say for eg if I lock the door and go out I will check atleast 10 times weather I took the key or not... (It's just a small eg)
That is very true... OCD is a nature and can be in control... Not curable fully... When u r stressed.. this pops out and may affect ur daily life too... To one extent it can be in control
I asked asla Marley to watch your video to learn about healthy lifestyles, engane aayirikanam relationships, and how to balance relationships and work in life. Ente message: delete Cheythu. epozum Enikariyilla enthina ennu najan nalla intention aayitanu paranajathu.
Thank you so much for your openness . Please be very sure that you are a incredible woman. If at all you think about career change please opt for a therapist or life coach, you have a special talent to lift people up with your incredible journey. It is not easy to make it big in Europe and you made it with sheer determination❤.keep making videos keep encouraging us. Thank you Aishwarya you are a star.
Thanks for sharing your experience as I was ignorant of this topic. Thanks for enlightening me. I was emotional at the point when you said that your parent was ready to take professional help. Kiddos to your parents for supporting you and ignoring society's norms and thoughts.
I also hve experienced OCD from my childhood.. but nobdy realized.. i still remember i used to touch a coconut before i leave my home thinking if i dnt do tht sumthing bad will happen to my family.. i made sure tht nobdy notice it. But later wen i grew up it changed to thoughts and anxiety. I was so worried tht every one will sleep before me. I used to keep on waking my mom asking did u sleep.. still i hve anxiety issues
My ex had a similar condition that significantly impacted our daily life. While she appeared normal to others, living together revealed her excessive cleanliness habits, aversion to using the kitchen, and daily routine of meticulously removing every strand of hair. She also expected me to maintain a high level of cleanliness which includes frequent body hair removal at least 2-3 times a week. This made living with her challenging, especially during intimate moments when she would refuse certain activities, which a guy wanted to have. She had a separate toilet.
Completely understood and agree with what you have said, dear. Going through the same with my husband from past ten years. We didn't know it was OCD. His strange behaviours were left unnoticed in his childhood and only came to understand after our marriage. Now we're facing it together. And the funniest part is my mother in law still says, her son didn't had any issues until he marry me 😅😢
I really love the way how your family helped you in that older period of time when counseling and all is a considered as a bad thing. Hats off to your family ❤️❤️❤️
I can understand you dear❤️God bless you, do meditation along with medication. If you are believer pray regularly with a positive mindset, also don't make spirituality an obsession. All this will strengthen the positive hormones in you. And this will weaken that negative thoughts gradually.
@@parvathyp4152 😊obsession in a positive dimension like balamanis relation with guruvayurappan🥰 in Nandanam movie is great, but their is a movie called "sadanandante samayam ". Dileeps character shows a kind of negative obsession or fear towarrds Gods. God is a best friend not someone to fear. Some people do many rituals with a thought that if i don't do this, something bad will occur... That is an OCD mindset towards god, it happence due to ignorance about God
Hello dear Thank you soo much for sharing this.Am also doing all this stuffs in ma childhood n also now.Am not took it as serious n ma family also,but now it makes my time loss .Repeating a word when am stressed and also same incident as yours. Now i can connect this.Really thank you for sharing this.The real content creator💓
😊Aishu parajath correct aan nte parents enne phycologistne kanikkan kondoyittund nte aggressive nature hyper tentn ekke kond bt aarum ariyathe aan kondoyirunnath but they take me to Dr. I Thank them..
എല്ലാ ocd patients ഉം surroundings neat ആക്കണം എന്ന് ഇല്ല. വളരെ ഉപകാരപ്പെടുന്ന വ്യക്തമായി പറഞ്ഞു തരുന്ന video. Thanks a lot 🙏🙏🙏
Ocpd is said to suppose to surrounding neatness
എല്ലാം ഒരു ജാടയുമില്ലാതെ തുറന്നു പറഞ്ഞ ഐഷു കുട്ടിക്ക് എന്റെ അഭിനന്ദനങ്ങൾ.
V r so glad that an influencer like u stand up for the importance of mental health ..wen people like u come forward it will definitely change d stigma .thank u so much for dis bold decision to bring this topic public .
ഇയാൾ ഭയങ്കര മോഡേൺ ആണ് but ഏറ്റവും സാധാരണ കാരിയും
I completely understand each and everything you said ❤. Thankyou for sharing.You are a great inspiration 🫰
Girl I'm crying after watching this video. Im happy to see that you'r family took you through the right direction. My case was not the same. People used to threaten me and blame me for the things i did. And even i could not realize that there is something wrong because I was just a kid. My parents used to beat me for behaving so. To this day i face many mental health issues like anxiety, depression, ocd etc. I am 25 years old now and has gained nothing in my life rather than being afraid of everything.
You should consult a psychologist as soon as possible😊
@alachullyhouse2398 i would love to. But right now it is not financially possible for me.
I am a clinical psychology trainee.. I could feel you. This is hard and I am proud of you for the fact that you open up about the difficulties and it reflects your strength amidst these difficulties. There are so many treatment options available both online and offline even free of cost. I could assure you that you will feel far better if you could visit a psychiatrist or psychologist.
@azeefaabdulkareem6450 thank you for your kind words. Your message meant a lot to me.
It's never too late to get the right help. No point in blaming the past, but the present and future is in front of you. Best wishes and prayers
Your dedication to sharing your journey with OCD is truly inspiring! Your vlogs not only resonate with those who understand the challenges of OCD but also serve as a source of strength and encouragement for others, including myself. Keep shining a light on this important topic, and remember that your openness is making a positive impact on so many lives, mine included. Together, we can overcome and thrive❤❤❤
This video is going to reach heights ❤ Thanks for addressing!
I could really understand what u meant. Bcoz i am going through this now. When u said in the first line itself, i can relate it easily.. Thaank you for sharing this.😊
Being an NPD victim and OCPD, i couldn't forget the days i have been through- the times I hated nights, the days i complained a lot, regretted, worried, tired and thought of self harm. Took cbt and medications for some time. Later realised self heal measures to be taken for long term on realising Medications will create a withdrawal effect same as alcohol and also have side effects in prolonged use.
Find your own ways to happiness, change life style, be involved, positive affirmations, exercise helped a lot.
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Thanku sooo much Aishu for sharing this with us ...waiting for the next part ....i am struggling with this for past 2 years maybe ...now i am 23 age ....sometimes my situation gets better but chila timil i am struggling a lot to control my urge to repeat things....rend moon counselling cheythu but effective ayila enik....enik surroundings clean cheyathath preshnamila valuthayit....but ente bodyil germs patuon vijarich ..daily 30 times mele hand wash cheyum....epozhum gas off anon check cheyum .....water ithra glass kudikanm alengil apakadam patum...chila numbersil ndhelum cheyth theerthal preshnamakum but chila nunbers lucky anu enoke ulla thonnal.....nadakunna vazhik chila sadanangal thottu nadane pattu ...agne pokunnu ente struggles ....Prayer helped me a lot these days ❤Hope to cure this soon ❤
The same situation is for me also🙂
@@devanunni8108 aada what to do ...overcome cheyumayirikum namloke....practice mindfulness and meditation,prayer and exercise ....it helped me😊
You are a fighter, you can.
Nalla teaching skills und...bore adikkathe kettirikkam ❤
Empowering minds and hearts..this video is a guide to growth and inspiration🌟Unleashing courage with every step... Soo proud of you sissy❤
Thanks for sharing this .I went through this similar experience, long time back in my life.i m happy that I overcame that now .❤
Hey, I‘m a consultant psychologist. You well said and explain very authentically about your condition. It will be helpful for someone whose go through it. OCD is not only mentioning about neatness , it is a psychological condition of obsessive thoughts with compulsive repeatative bhvr. Like Aishu mentioned it cant be completely cure but you can controle ur thoughts with therapies, exercises etc. So if anyone have these like issues must be consult a therapist. Anyway Aishu good a great job. God bless uuh😊
Yes ❤
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Hi dr plz let me know u r number
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I tried very hard but I can't 😢 . Enikk 6 months aayi parayaan pattattha tharatthil body pain undaayirunnu . Oru pad test cheythu ECG , endoscopy, scanning, blood test pala rogangalum aanonnu nokki nanjeppozhum bedil thanne athinte koode 2 years aayi oru sun allergy yum . I am in a box enikkathil ninnu puratth kadakkan Patti ennu karuthi but annonnum njan behaviour change onnum shreddichirunnilla but one month aayi phsychatrist ne kandu body pain nu marunnedukkunnu but ayaal parayunnat depression pole okkeyaanu enikk katthi kandal appo kutthan thonnum vedhanayulla bhaghattheekk , ath pole uyaratyhil ninnu chaadan , oodunna vandiyil ninn , rodiloode vahanam pokumbol athinu munpe kayari nilkkan kelkkunnavaru kaliyakakum but chila neratth thalakk vallaattha pressure aanu 6 month aayi ente education mudangiyitt degree kk athinu enikkillaattha kuttam ente ellaa bhandhukkalkkum ellaam kaivitta polee sherikkum olicch jeevikkukayaa veedinullil orikkalum maarattha oru sun allergy yum chila neratth ottayadikk ketti thoongi marikkaan thonnum aarenth motivation thannittum kaaryamilla I was not like this before .. and aa phase il ninn maariyaal enthiningane chinthicch thonnum pala neratth pala character and enikk madutthu motthatthil okke nashtta pettapolee ippo chinthicchath pinne ormayilla
Hi Aishu much appreciated for sharing ur story about OCD and how professional help at early stage helped u out, in our community talkin abt mental health is Taboo. I know now i will be more mindful of my kids bringing up and the help tey need. I myself suffer from anxiety it was nver recognised or treated...i suffered an anxiety attack n i still failed to recognise it...aftr watchin listening to lot of videos n talks on social media tat itself has made me mindful of wen my anxiety strts n i guess tat helps to kp it in control....so ur step to share this video has helped many to understand OCD ...kudos to u for making lovely feel good videos tc
Aishu, This video just took me to my childhood and I just realised I have also been facing this same without knowing what actually it is. I think my problem was less intense than yours but I still hv issues
Thank you for speaking up and making me realise it’s not just me.
I was thinking this is with me only and never wanted to share with anyone. Love and respect Aishu ❤❤
Me too
I am an Ayurveda dr. I had OCD and FPP disorder right from my 8th standard...From my experience, all these begun as a habit to heal myself from my childhood trauma... I had some family problems... Nobody understood me... I used to walk certain distance as you told, even used to run😢...Everybody scolded me... I was a good student that time...I was good in academics, I had good writing skills... Slowly it reflected on my studies.. From a topscorer in the class to a person who failed in the subject,😢... That time, I never got the support I actually needed.... Even, I felt memory issues... I was unable to recollect the learnt topics.. Wasting time is the main issue, I felt with these disorders...I always feel, If I could control my thoughts earlier during my schooling, I would have attained something greater in my life...Thank you for speaking out❤
Relatable😢
Same like me ❤
Recurring after some days..
I am trying to live Now ✨️✨️✨️
My story😢
Suicidal tendency unndavuo
Thank you for sharing this aishu chechi . Actually i didn't know these are the symptoms of OCD .This is something that I also faced or still facing a bit . My college friends used to mock me for my over cleanliness by calling me ocdic ,its not just them I also thought ocd is just an obsession to cleaning and nothing more that requires a treatment.But when you shared your experiences I became shocked because this something that i used to do.
Njan orikkalum vicharichilla ithepole ulla thoughts vere arkenku undakun njan ente or andhavishwasam anenn okkeya enta ithupolulla thoughtsine vichariche .Njanum ithupole arkenku enthelum okke pattum ennu examin fail ayi pokum ennokke vicharich oro actions ellenkil enthenku karyam cheythukond irikkum ath cheythille enthenku okke mosham ayit ellenkil njan agrahikunnathinte opposite karyam sambavikkum ennokke enik thonnu ,ithum ocd yude symptoms anenn chechide vlog kandappozha manasilaye .Enne elllarum ocd enn parayarund ath ente cleaning obsession kond mathram annu pakshe ente ullile ithupole ulla thoughts arkum arila njan arum kaanathe annu ingathe actions cheyyar pakshe veetil ullavark ariyam njan ingana action kanikkunnath ennod enthina ingana cheyunne chothichal njan tension ayittanenn parayum . chechinod paranjath pole ennodum eni angana cheyyarth enn veetin parayum. Enk ith cherthayit Start cheythath 10 th std padikkumbozhan .what you said was sooo true its more during stressful days. Ippo enk ee prashnam valare kuravan stress koodumbo veendu varuon enkarila. pinne ee video kandappo eni athupole onnu cheyyathirikkan korch kudi motivation kitti🥰. Once again thankyou soo much for sharing this
The great quality in you is sharing your feelings with us ❤😊
Njanum Ee same issue face cheythittundu cheythukondirikkunnu athu anubavichavarke athinte avastha manasilavu
ഈ ചിന്ത എനിക്കും ഇപ്പോഴും ഉണ്ട് 27 വയസ്സായി പക്ഷെ ഞാൻ അതിനെ വല്യ കാര്യമാക്കാറില്ല എന്നു വെച്ചാ ഞാൻ പേടിക്കാറില്ല എന്തെങ്കിലും ആവർത്തിച്ചു ചെയ്തില്ലെങ്കിൽ എന്തെങ്കിലും നടക്കും എന്നുള്ള പേടി ഉണ്ട് പക്ഷെ ഞാൻ നടക്കട്ടെ എന്നു വിചാരിക്കും അപ്പൊ പ്രശ്നം തീരും. അങ്ങനാ ഞാൻ ഹാപ്പിയായി ഇരിക്കുന്നെ 😄
I admire you dear.. This video helps some of the people to understand the facts of OCD. I know this journey because I have crossed these hurdles.. God bless you dear
Hi Aishu..I don't usually comment but after watching this I wanted to thank you for sharing this with us..I think I just needed this so badly..
First and foremost a huge appreciation for your family❤
I'm so happy that you could overcome it, and your efforts to make yourself a better person is truly inspiring. Have the best life ahead❤
The best part about this whole life experience sharing was the decision that ' I have an issue and that needs to be resolved ' at the age of 10 or so! Now that is something not everyone would be able to feel at that tender age. That self awareness along with Parent's support helped you. Sometimes, even if the family or loved ones wanted to support the other, they may not be willing to help themselves and that's one of thw worst scenarios.. Anyways, you had a healthy travel in your self help journey and that's so beautiful to hear. More strength to you.
I have never related to any person or any situation as I have related to your video of this. I completely understand your condition and I am going through the same condition . Your video actually made me relaxed.
I vividly recall a childhood biking at 8 or 9 when an odd sensation on my legs sparked obsessive fears of a snake bite. Despite knowing it wasn't true, anxiety consumed me. Thankfully, seeking help from a psychologist proved transformative. While not entirely curable, I've learned OCD is manageable, and recovery is possible.
LOL. You wasted money.
Thank u for sharing this.Njn OCD aayit struggle cheyth thudagitt kurach naal aavum.Orupaad naal anxiety,panic oke nthanu sambavikunnath enne polum ariyathe sahikendi vannitund.Etharam avasthakalil koode kadanu pokunna alkaarku matrame aa oru struggle manassilakku .After diagnosing my OCD psychologist counselling & pinnedu psychiatrist ine consult cheyendi vanu.then counselling ,therapies & medicines start cheythapol valare better aayi varunnudu.
God bless you it ll completely leave,,
I appreciate you for sharing your experience and ottum over akathe valare detailed ayi you said it ,enik ocd full form mathrame ariyarinulu ippo oru nalla idea kitti ,thank you 😍❤
U r powli girl..a real inspiration.. i am planning to start a youtube channel only because of ur inspiration.. i really love ur videos
Appreciate you shared this. This would help many of us.
I am a psychology students
Excellent explanation
And thank you for differentiation of psychologist and psychiatrist
Well explained Aishu,going thru the same...can understand well
It's so happy to hear ur stories...may be it's just a story for others bt i really want to appreciate u for winning this silent battles.aishu u need to know that ur now here only bcz of ur courage to takes the steps without giving up.....I always used to believe that ''everything happens for a reason "..I think now u can realte this saying too deeply.... thankfully ur sister ❤
You always inspired me in your way.. Thank you .. I owe you today🎉
So now i realise that i also have OCD . 12 th last ayappola enikkm ith thudngiye .10 thlm 12 thlm ellam nalla percentage mark vangi pne oru point thott padikkan ntho oru anxiety . Onnum akanda enna oru feeling. Kahstappett dgree edth athm nalla grade undrnn but ath kznj enne kond ini padikkn pattillennayi same anxiety hits .PG edth munnott pokmnna vtkarde dharana avde ninnu . Kore nirbandichu Pg chyyn but evdo ntho pattatha oru feeling . Koode kdann vrnna depression nm . ANGNE Psc lekk thirinj vijarichathilm korach mattam vnn .Main listl und ❤jobn vndi waiting ahn ippo . Ippolm pg chyyathathil oru regret thonnunnilla . Karanam edthal njn complete depression pokmnna avastha aarnn . Ithonnm njn aarodm share chythittilla .But ingnoru vdo vannappo ntho ithelam onn manassinn purath parayan thonni 😊❤
Tight tights hugs aishu ... thank you for sharing this
Hii Aishu I use to watch most of your videos, bt this was something which I have gone through n still I am in, haven’t taken any treatment yet, I wasn’t known about the fact that it was OCD n it’s a great struggle for me to live a normal life.And thq sooo much for sharing your experience LOTS OF LOVE ❤
Hi Aishu, I always playfully tease my husband saying that he has OCD , when he behaves weirdly, like every morning after he wakes up if he sees anything misplaced in the house or finds any dust on the floor, he always cleans that before even having food. Sometimes he even skips his bF and eats lunch @ 7pm. Now I understand that he may has OCD and we need to seek medical help.
Yes da
No he might wants to do intermittent fasting or something. Ask him clearly what he wants
truly informative. I'm sure this video will be a blessing for some
Thank you so much for sharing this chechi... Ee same avasthyayilude kadannupokunna ale ayond enik ith kore related cheyyan patum
I really think that you are using your social media platform as entertaining as possible and educating people , developing healthy habits… . That’s quite good to use your influence sensibly lots of love❤❤
Your genuineness is what comes through your talks ❤
And Vishnus open mindedness and spirit of “ lets live it together” is highly commendable.
I just watched this now. So much respect and love to you for sharing this with your audience. It takes guts and a lot of generosity to share something so personal and emotional with strangers.
You have a beautiful glow on your face now..❤❤ Stay blessed.
Chechi oru life motivation vedio chyyamo..how to get through anything in life with a good mindset ❤
I was diagnosed with HARM OCD and with the proper support of family& wife I was completely able to overcome it. I still have obsessive thought but i didn't get any anxiety, doesn't make me do any compulsion . Its not easy but its completely controllable. I don't know if i will relapse on OCD but I am confident enough to tackle it. OCD is difficult but you have the strength to overcome it. Compulsion are learned behavior and your brain have the ability to unlearn it. Whoever is going through it I want you to know that you are more stronger than your OCD and you can definitely overcome this. Thanks for sharing this story ! Glad to hear you are better with your OCD @tani_malayali.
Am also an OCD patient.there has been alot of hardship due to this disease. I have cried a lot😔.A time that feel scary when i remember itt. Although i have not fully recovered from the illness now i can controled my mind😊
U r a unique person.loves u❤❤❤❤❤❤...keep going 😊😊😊
You are truely blessed to have such a supportive family ❤
Well explained! First of all thank you aishu❤ith kettappo "padachone" enikk ocd undo nn doubt aayi. Bcz ee paranja poleyull thoughts enikkum vararund njan ath cheithillenkil narakathilavum ith cheithillenkil narakathilavum ennokkeyulla oro chinthakal. Porathathinu than paranja pole clean cheithath veendum clean cheithondirikkum😢. Any way thank youu😢
Satyam
I tooo have OCD....But no one cared to correct ...Its not just excessive cleanliness....ITS GOT TOOO MANY OTHER ASSOCIATED ISSUES....terrible anxiety. Now at 51 yrs ..looking 70 plus ..i wish i had parents who cared to correct . .....even my husband and children suffering cause of my OCD Yu r so blessed that yu are surrounded by folks who love yu a lot ....
Better take medical support. It grows with age. Start at right time. For every disease, there is a stage when medicines can help. Don't delay.
Yes,,ente ammayum familyum enne eppolum cheethavikiyum family issuesum aanu,,bcz of my ocd
Thanks for sharing this important information.I am also on my medication journey for OCD and can relate to so many things you said.Suffered a lot last 3 years because of it .But now lots of positive changes are happening and I am slowly becoming my old self again and feeling happy.
When I was a kid I used to count the number of letters in a word and was eager to find whether the number is odd or even. I was anxious when I got an odd number, and felt there is something bad going to happen. Later on as time passed and when I grew old this habit stopped somehow.
Iam also doing this even now. When the numbers of the word or sentence are multiplication of three and two i will be superhappy. Even now whenever i notice a big sentence or whenever i read a paragraph i will do this.
Hi aishu...Good that you shared about your OCD here.People only know to boast about things like diabetes or hypertension.Just like you said health is both physical and mental health.You being a content creator is making aware of things like this.Social taboo regarding mental illness is really difficult to break but definitely worth breaking.
Hope you are doing well..all the best
Your improvement is mostly age related and not because of Counselling. If it's because of Counselling it would have healed in few months, and not in many many growing years
Actually OCG grows by age . In India, many commit suicide without getting treatment. Especially because of our society. Still it is a taboo to take treatment for mental health.
Thankyou for sharing this❤ Enikm similar situation ahn, oru 5,6 vattom daily veed thookum , kitchen oke chechi cheyne pole thanne last nte kai chennille manassammadhanm illa😢 pinne stress nn oke paranja kayyin control povunne avsthaya🥲 athpole periods oke avunnen munne mood swings varum , oru karyom illathe nthelm oke orth irun rathri oke kuthyirun karayum athpole chumma deshym varum😅 ithonnm paranja ellarm onnm manassilakkathum illa 🥲 chechide sobhavam oke crct nte pole nn thonniyakonda ipzhum mudangathe videos oke kanane😆 sathyam paranja oru ashwasam ahn❤ Thankyou so much
Njnum und koott..endoravasthaya
Oh my god , you are such purely gem heart ❤
Hats off you
Hi Aishu
I love your spirit. Just keep going confidently. ❤❤❤
Sharing is caring Aishu.
So relatable
It sucks really
I'm 20 and I need to consult a doctor
You explained well chechi
Do it.that would be the best decision you have ever made
I can't thank you any more for this video!!! For some reason, i was in tears and emotional, while watching this, I know how it feels!!
Thank you so much for sharing. You are not a mere social media influencer, much more than that. Stay happy and continue making videos....😊
I am one of them.... Ur well said.... Nobody can understand the situation until unless they experience this.....when I clean my house again and again many of my relatives and even partner makes fun of me.... Not only cleanliness..... Anxiety, depression, also comes with it...,i can say for eg if I lock the door and go out I will check atleast 10 times weather I took the key or not... (It's just a small eg)
5:52 OMG
I feel the same thing in my school days but i cant recognise its OCD
Appreciate you ❤️
For being original
Thank you for sharing …Similar situation ❤
She’s a lovely innocent girl ..I really like her attitude.
Mental health is a Serious matter that need to be discussed of. Most people hide these things from others.
That is very true... OCD is a nature and can be in control... Not curable fully... When u r stressed.. this pops out and may affect ur daily life too... To one extent it can be in control
I asked asla Marley to watch your video to learn about healthy lifestyles, engane aayirikanam relationships, and how to balance relationships and work in life. Ente message: delete Cheythu. epozum Enikariyilla enthina ennu najan nalla intention aayitanu paranajathu.
@@snehamuralidharanഇപ്പോഴെങ്കിലും അത് തോന്നിയല്ലോ... അസ്ല വളരെ over ആണ്
Asla dont know anything she google it and say everything everything is not useful i unsubscribed her
Avalk allelum nallathu paranju kodukkan poya mingale venm thallaan
@@sruthiraj9009 thanne ???
Bayangara modern lookum, thani malayali behaviour um polii aishuu
Superr.. Yes really happy for your family support and very gold video as an influencer
I’m 50 had terribly gone through it from the age of 10 even now too.. stress anxiety at one point it gets into nerves
നിങ്ങൾക്കു കൊണ്ടല്ലേ ഇത് എനിക്കുമുണ്ട് അനാവശ്യ ചിന്തകൾ ഞാൻ വിചാരിച്ചു എനിക്ക് മാത്രം 😢😊 മാറ്റാൻ ശ്രമിച്ചാൽ മാറി പിന്നെ വല്ല ഡ്രാമ കാണും
Thank you so much for your openness . Please be very sure that you are a incredible woman. If at all you think about career change please opt for a therapist or life coach, you have a special talent to lift people up with your incredible journey. It is not easy to make it big in Europe and you made it with sheer determination❤.keep making videos keep encouraging us. Thank you Aishwarya you are a star.
Super💜വീഡിയോ 🌟 വളരെയധികം പ്രയോജനം ഉള്ള വീഡിയോ. 🌟💜താങ്ക്സ് 💜
To be honest with you this is an eye-opener for me...thankyou🥰🥰
Thanks for sharing your experience as I was ignorant of this topic. Thanks for enlightening me. I was emotional at the point when you said that your parent was ready to take professional help. Kiddos to your parents for supporting you and ignoring society's norms and thoughts.
Aishu enikum , OCD ude cheriya symptoms thonniyitund over thinking,koode ullavark accident pattum enni thonnuka,baviye kurichu chindhikuka, ithu OCD anno ariyilla, yoga cheyyan thudangi , krishna baktha ayya enik bagavante nammam jappikum,mind control akkan padichu positive ayyi chindhikkan thudangi, ellam thonnal annu manasilayi 😊👍
Eda same here (✿ ♥‿♥) njnum krishnabhakthayum aanu 😍😍😍
Aishvi ningal oru jentil woman ane ellam thurannu parayanulla manasundallo atha ningalude ettavum nalla qualitty vishnu nalla bagyavan ane 👍🏻
I also hve experienced OCD from my childhood.. but nobdy realized.. i still remember i used to touch a coconut before i leave my home thinking if i dnt do tht sumthing bad will happen to my family.. i made sure tht nobdy notice it. But later wen i grew up it changed to thoughts and anxiety. I was so worried tht every one will sleep before me. I used to keep on waking my mom asking did u sleep.. still i hve anxiety issues
എനിക്കി ഇണ്ട് ഇത്. ഞാൻ മാറ്റാൻ ശ്രമിക്കുന്നുണ്ട്. എപ്പോഴാണ് മനസിലായത് ഇത് ocd ആണെന്ന്. Thank u❤
നമ്മുടെ മനസിനെ നമുക്കെതിരെ തന്നെ മറ്റാരോ നിയന്ത്രിക്കുന്ന പോലെ.. ഞാനും ocd ക്കെതിരെ പൊരുതിക്കൊണ്ടിരിക്കുന്നു.
My ex had a similar condition that significantly impacted our daily life. While she appeared normal to others, living together revealed her excessive cleanliness habits, aversion to using the kitchen, and daily routine of meticulously removing every strand of hair. She also expected me to maintain a high level of cleanliness which includes frequent body hair removal at least 2-3 times a week. This made living with her challenging, especially during intimate moments when she would refuse certain activities, which a guy wanted to have. She had a separate toilet.
Completely understood and agree with what you have said, dear. Going through the same with my husband from past ten years. We didn't know it was OCD. His strange behaviours were left unnoticed in his childhood and only came to understand after our marriage. Now we're facing it together.
And the funniest part is my mother in law still says, her son didn't had any issues until he marry me 😅😢
The situation is exactly the same for me...
its true. He had no issues, until he married you. The biggest issue is when women create problems and victimize their husbands.
OCD endhan enn paranj thannadhil Thanks Aishu ❤
Thnq chechy...❤ Ith thurannu paranjallo. I think chechyde family valare nallathanu. Njanokke parayunnath atleast kelkkan polum veettkaru nilkkilla. Show aanu, allel branthanennu paranj kaliyakki vidum..😔🥺
It is high time for our society to understand that mental is to be considered as any other treatment . It can save many lives.
I really love the way how your family helped you in that older period of time when counseling and all is a considered as a bad thing. Hats off to your family ❤️❤️❤️
nalla parents ullathondu rakshappettu... ithu disorder aney... treatable.. iniyum idakkide listen cheyyanotto aishu
Aishu, I really appreciate ur openess in sharing this. This video will inspire a lot and its going to make a sensation❤
Thank you for this information, I think I'm also going through this situation I don't know what I do.
Nice outfit Aishu... U look more beautiful with short hair🥰
I can understand you dear❤️God bless you, do meditation along with medication. If you are believer
pray regularly with a positive mindset, also don't make spirituality an obsession. All this will strengthen the positive hormones in you. And this will weaken that negative thoughts gradually.
Why spirituality should not be obsessed?
@@parvathyp4152 😊obsession in a positive dimension like balamanis relation with guruvayurappan🥰 in Nandanam movie is great, but their is a movie called "sadanandante samayam ". Dileeps character shows a kind of negative obsession or fear towarrds Gods. God is a best friend not someone to fear. Some people do many rituals with a thought that if i don't do this, something bad will occur... That is an OCD mindset towards god, it happence due to ignorance about God
Hello dear
Thank you soo much for sharing this.Am also doing all this stuffs in ma childhood n also now.Am not took it as serious n ma family also,but now it makes my time loss .Repeating a word when am stressed and also same incident as yours. Now i can connect this.Really thank you for sharing this.The real content creator💓
😊Aishu parajath correct aan nte parents enne phycologistne kanikkan kondoyittund nte aggressive nature hyper tentn ekke kond bt aarum ariyathe aan kondoyirunnath but they take me to Dr. I Thank them..
The quality of life we maintain in the future is shown in this video...Thanks🥰🥰🥰Ayishu
Iam very much impressed by u aishu... God bless u ❤❤❤