social media used to drain me. - 20 something diaries 🎙️🎧

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  • čas přidán 29. 08. 2024
  • In this episode of the 20 something diaries I discuss the effects social media has had on my over the past decade as well as the changes I've had to make in my consuming habits. My favorite apps and how I use them to inspire, educate myself and visualize my dream life.
    Listen to Lisa: How to deal with the pressure of being in your early 20's and feeling like you're not achieving your goals.
    A podcast chatting to you about all the things I experience in life as a 20-something year old. Let's heal, grow & glow together bestie. 🤍
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Komentáře • 40

  • @ninaatie3259
    @ninaatie3259 Před rokem +29

    Lessons learned…
    1. Set goals and put in the work to achieve - only you have the power to create the change you want
    2. Understand what YOU want in life - comparisons are counterproductive
    3. Use social media to manifest your dream life - take advantage of resources to build your wealth of knowledge and skills
    4. Practice positive self talk - the energy you put into yourself will become your reality
    Thank you for these reminders❤️really enjoyed this one!

  • @jasabro
    @jasabro Před rokem +6

    one of my fav life quotes is "comparison is the theft of joy"

  • @brownbabecc
    @brownbabecc Před rokem +16

    I related to this podcast episode so much. I take mini social media breaks here and there but it’s hard because I do social media for a living. However, I plan to decrease my screen time during the weekend. You spoke the truth and I loved every minute of this episode!!

  • @Julisa_Monique
    @Julisa_Monique Před rokem +1

    Im 23 and i deleted my social medias like 3 years ago..i was addicted and ALWAYS comparing myself to others🚩🚩🚩 Deleting it was one of the best decisions of my life. I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. It can be an amazing space but it can also drain the hell out of you especially when you're young!

  • @CurlsWithKia
    @CurlsWithKia Před rokem +12

    you're such a gem. thanks for speaking on this. yes, focusing on your own goals and creating a plan. refocusing often helps because it's so easy to get distracted nowadays.

    • @dianatsantsarova784
      @dianatsantsarova784 Před rokem +1

      this!! we often be so distracted and that’s the reason being away from our goals

    • @Susiana.nd04
      @Susiana.nd04 Před rokem

      @@dianatsantsarova784 ❤😩

  • @MiissPetite
    @MiissPetite Před rokem +29

    “the language you speak to yourself is so powerful” NEEDED TO HEAR THAT so happy you started this pod🥹🤍

  • @gloobean
    @gloobean Před rokem +3

    Amen! I can’t even compare anymore cuz it’s such a disservice to who I am & all I’ve been through. Not everyone could have lived what I’ve lived through and vice-versa. Also, everyone has their own paths to take. Plus not everything we see on social media is as it seems y’all 👀 take care of yourselves and work for what you want or find out what you want if you don’t know🫶🏾

  • @xunny6358
    @xunny6358 Před rokem +2

    Omg lisaaaa,I’m listening your podcast on work and fucking tearing cause I’ve wanted to hear those words so much😭 thank you,you’re one of few people who are truly inspiring me

  • @roninamoon
    @roninamoon Před rokem +3

    think this ep was my favorite!! you made me feel more hopeful

  • @dianatsantsarova784
    @dianatsantsarova784 Před rokem +3

    girl fr spitting facts 😂❤ staying focused on ur goals and your routine is the most powerful thanks for the episode xx

  • @ty8915
    @ty8915 Před rokem +3

    Loving these episodes hey. You’re so good at this and I’m not a podcast person because a loooot of people are repetitive. I studied broadcasting by the way. Good job Lisa ❤

  • @cashmerehotel7398
    @cashmerehotel7398 Před rokem

    This episode is a genuine motivation. Thank you so much Lisa like always 🥰 so relative and .. just love this episode.

  • @__fundo
    @__fundo Před rokem +1

    think the biggest joy about shedding & learning & not letting social media get to u walking into ur truest self🤍less echoing voices and more of ur own.
    (ps; i like that u’re also building a community of cool ass people. it’s always good vibes in the comments)

  • @Lmartinezwilliams
    @Lmartinezwilliams Před rokem +1

    Hey Lisa, loving the 20 Something Diaries 😘💛💛!!

  • @briarrington
    @briarrington Před rokem +3

    Love the motivational pod...u were spitting facts! 💞

  • @thriveflourishmotivate

    Leo queen out here being motivational af. Love you!!

  • @danielleudoh
    @danielleudoh Před rokem

    10/10 episode made so much sense!

  • @NathalyDove
    @NathalyDove Před rokem

    even before social media we would do it with magazines. I remember reading that Vanessa Hudgens didn’t eat cake so all my high school years and some college I didn’t eat cake 😶

  • @LizbethG
    @LizbethG Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this episode! I needed to hear some of this💗

  • @888_do
    @888_do Před rokem

    i love your podcas sm🥹🫶🏼

  • @brokehalo101
    @brokehalo101 Před rokem

    Loved this Lisa, I'm older than you turning 29 next week actually and fear, doubt, comparison has HELD me back tremendously. Literally in a chokehold. I'm am def gonna apply some of the things you mentioned. If you have any more tools, books, podcasts that you recommend please share!

  • @luciaborges929
    @luciaborges929 Před rokem

    Love this so much! ❤

  • @Martbs
    @Martbs Před rokem +1

    Very helpful talk❤ I erased instagram from my phone and it’s the best thing I could do to myself.

  • @elizabethnyambura925
    @elizabethnyambura925 Před rokem

    Love this! You have confirmed so much for me. This series is a blessing...stay blessed Lisa ♥️♥️

  • @daniellechambers9030
    @daniellechambers9030 Před rokem

    LOVE LOVE LOVED this episode

  • @roninamoon
    @roninamoon Před rokem

    lovee love love this!!! lisa You are killing it rn ww content

  • @minakolacek
    @minakolacek Před rokem

    THISSS WAS AWESOME ❤ love you

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 Před rokem

    very relaxing & nice podcast content, Lisa!

  • @finnyfinegane
    @finnyfinegane Před rokem

    Love this episode, very inspiring🤍

  • @ghitahacham6291
    @ghitahacham6291 Před rokem

    very needed thank you Lisa

  • @GG8p
    @GG8p Před rokem

    love this podcast!

  • @chococookie6783
    @chococookie6783 Před rokem

    I loooove this one

  • @annicutiepie121
    @annicutiepie121 Před rokem

    You just inspired me to finally Start social media. I have so much social anxiety even though i am almost a psychologist myself😂. But i feel like a wanna say so much about mental Health especially from a perspective of black people. So asume i‘m going to start🎉😂

  • @keysuniverse
    @keysuniverse Před rokem

    Maybe because I see the glass half full, but when I see others I guess I compare myself in a way but it's more motivation. Like oh that's a nice looking vehicle then I may see it around often like mmm maybe I'll get that car one day. Or if I see people taking trips I'm like it's been a while since I had a vacation or oh that looks fun let me book a flgith and reserve hotels, etc if I have the funds for it. Just like when I watch your vlogs I'm like you know this is a confimation to get my life. lol.
    I feel like the main time I compare myself to others is my age like what you stated in the video at one point. I feel like because of my age I should have this car, career, husband, family etc and I'm like well that's what I wanted but life didn't play out the way I wanted. People make you feel bad especially family for not being there and I'm like have you ever asked what makes me happy or that I'm content where my life is right now. Or that I'm trying!

  • @helenwsb9820
    @helenwsb9820 Před rokem

    Just love your content ❤

  • @magnificoinspiration4664

    As for 'this is how you make six figures in a month' i died😂😂😂
    Love your energy babe🌸 and thankyou this is truly a mouthful❤❤

  • @shalxnda
    @shalxnda Před rokem

    💕💕

  • @agathaoliobi1695
    @agathaoliobi1695 Před rokem

    I didn’t hear any drilling (: