Adrienne Reveals Feeling Like a Fish Out of Water at a Dinner with Wives of Pastors
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I love how relaxed they have been this season. I'll miss these conversations so much!
When is their last day?
@@inspirationalempressoflove220 they have already taped the last episode. These are pre-recorded ep. That’s why jeannie was not in some of them
@@inspirationalempressoflove220 it airs June 3rd
Agree this season just feels like they been sitting back and kicking it talking like good girlfriends. They seem more happy , more comfortable
Yea bc they know it’s over, the pressure is off they backs
I will miss playing you guys on the background while I was getting ready, crying, unmotivated, and during happy moments. These conversations helped me at times where I was confused and lost. Hearing the experiences of wise women like you guys helped me grow and feel secure within myself. Thank you guys. Continue being you
Aww. This comment brought me to tears!
With comments like these, it’s truly hard to understand why this show has been canceled. Smh
@@Taikyaa I know!! 🥺
Very well said. Thank you!💖
@@TT.3123 me too lol
Adrienne baby girl you're gorgeous, your on an award winning show, you're married to an award winning talented musical artist, and you're awesome human being
Exactly exact exactly! Totally agreed! F...k the JEALOUS DISPICIBLE ... HATERS...WHO WISH...THEY HAD.... YOUR LIFE!!!
I wholeheartedly agree with Adrienne on the second topic. Not flushing the toilet, or leaving the seat dirty in a public washroom should be a crime!!! I don't understand who in their right minds leaves the toilet in such a state and walks out knowing other people have to use it. Gross nonsense!!! 😖
People have no dignity, or integrity anymore!
Girl she don't even wash her hands after she uses the toilet #1 or #2 she said it right here on national TV. Disgusting I would eat anything she cooks
Sometimes and even most of the times I get so shocked by the condition in which I find the ladies' public restroom. Comparing it to the men's restroom it looks the same thing sometimes. And I can't understand what is the reason behind it.
@@QueenLadyQ amen!
Totally
This show got me through postpartum depression, anxiety, isolation of motherhood and just general life struggles. It motivates me to get house work done and just so much more. Imma miss yall😭
Me tooooo girl
Same here!
@@sescia je pence Vivamor
This show got me through a depressive episode in college.
@@Shayvideos1 0
I just love Adrienne’s transparency 🤣
Same
I love Adrienne she’s a whole vibe 🤗
Agreed
I love this show!!! I love the topics and really enjoy Garcelle as a host in the last season! Gonna miss you guys!
@devi So true, there is something so relaxing about her & her voice, right?
Thankiu Adrienne for speaking and raising awareness about nasty public bathrooms. Id be really pissed at people who dont flush or pee all over the seats or floor etc. IT DEFINITELY SHOULD BE A CRIME 😡😤
Adrienne is so smart." Bringing awareness saves lives." She made Garcelle feel accounted for here. She maybe hadn't contributed or felt that she had in a hands on way as a doctor etc... but a year later she felt she had a place there and Ade confirmed that she has been just as contributory. This is what confidence, growth, loving yourself looks like when u discover you're important too.
Wow - galas, industry events - something about those… I recently attended my first networking all-women event and felt so out of place, all my insecurities came to the surface all at once. I’m glad to hear I’m not the only one who feels this way about events like this!!
I’m going to miss these segments 😭
Same 😪
They say the definition of class is putting others at ease. The woman who asked Garcelle what does she do could have had a few follow up questions. She could have asked how long have you been an actress? Do you do tv or movies? What has been your favorite role thus far? What would be a dream role for you to play? What actor or actress would you like to work with and why? etc.
The event wasn't about Garcelle. 🙄
@@osimeon00 this wasn’t an interview question. It sounded like a fellow attendee attempting to make conversation with Garcelle but losing interest upon hearing that she wasn’t a doctor or a scientist, etc. Thus making Garcelle feel more out of place. I still feel the classy and gracious thing to do would be to ask one or two follow up questions (I listed several just as examples for those who would claim they didn’t know how to follow up) to make her feel included in the conversation. Mind you not because she is in the entertainment business, but because as she herself put it she obviously felt out of place. Im not saying that they must do so, but the kind and classy thing to do is to attempt to put the other person at ease.
@@Amaryllis-4U You are overanalyzing and scrutinizing this situation to ridiculous heights. It's not that serious and you weren't even there to get the correct context of the conversation.
@@osimeon00I’m not saying the person should have been more attentive because it happened to be Garcelle. It’s like being in the cafeteria and everyone is talking and laughing at the table except for the new girl in the corner who doesn’t know anybody. The kind thing to do would be to strike up a conversation and try to make her feel included. No one is saying you must do it. It would just be the kind thing to do. I guess my POV comes from having been an elementary teacher for so many years and watching the children engage and trying to facilitate inclusivity and kindness. But I do understand we can agree to disagree🙂
They need all 4 ladies back!!! I've enjoyed them from the very beginning 😊. Women have a voice and that voice needs to be heard 🙌
It would be so COOL if Tamara came back for the last episode!
I love Adrienne's dress. She looks amazing
Omg yes, I hate going into public bathrooms. women’s bathrooms can be very disgusting. Garcelle 👏🏾👏🏾🤣🤣🤣 and Loni.
Agree🎯🤢
This reminds me of Bridesmaids when they all had the runs
@@2sense110 🤣🤣
Yes, I am a housekeeper for work. Let me tell you, the men's room is pretty clean compared to the women's. OMG ladies get it together.
@@alexanderpacheco7428 wow, that’s crazy
Loni looks terrific today!
I love everyone reflecting on what they’ve learnt through the great conversations and love seen on this show that all affected us in the best ways when we all needed it in our special times of vulnerability and need. Thank you the real. You have gotten us all through it and taught us so much about the world, you all deserve nothing but the whole world in return 🌎 ❤️ Love from an old fan! Thank you for everything
Sending lots of love 💕 I need this girl talk on my life
wow!!! Ade cracked me up 😂😂 'my boyfriend since i was 4', 'we got married at 12'. those ladies, holier than thou & way T.M.i at a dinner table. 🍽🍷🍺
🔥✨🔥
I don't think they were being holier than thou. By the way Adrienne described it, sounds like they were all sharing life stories. And she said they all laughed and were nice - if they were being 'holier than thou' it would've probably been awkward and they wouldn't have been pleasant to her
@@lizd6886 watch it again, Ade said she didnt know them & they start in on virginity, & being only with their husband since childhood. at a dinner!? totally inappropriate conversation 😨
@@stellac.e2086 the 'together since they were 4' thing was a joke. And she said that they were sharing their stories and experiences. Also I doubt she'd defend them after what Garcelle said if she felt they were being inappropriate. Adrienne herself said "I thought it was very beautiful them sharing their stories". I've watched this video about 6 times already. I've been watching all the recent videos from this season since the show is ending.
@@lizd6886 enjoy!! 8 seasons of a GREAT tv show. 😁
I will definitively miss this show! I already miss them being able to have a live audience. I understand why, I just miss the vibe💜 Thanks for such a great show!
That’s why I’m terrified of public bathrooms and refuse to use them especially when I am on my own. As a completely blind woman, I am not able to see what lies in wait for me!
I had the opposite experience of Garcelle. I was in a group of doctors and asked someone what they did. Got a rude-ish response. Found out she thought I was a doctor too. I was only looking for company 😔.
It's the chill vibes for me! 🥰🥰🥰♥️♥️♥️ Smell something, Say something! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Can y’all have a Facebook show called something like Real Table Talk or Kitchen Table Talk? I would love to still hear you ladies!❤️
The stereotype that doctors are stuck up is true. They have an entitlement that comes from having spent all their 20s in class and they mad
😂😂😂😂....more than half of them are indoctrinated. They have no idea what's actually happening outside of the books.
@@sodvine3486 Lol, you guys need to hang with my friends and me; we're so normal and fun 😊
@Day 💯😉
Every doctor I’ve known that I went to school with were not nice girls...rich and entitled
I work for a doctor and she is amazing! So selfless and sweet.
I felt this throughout my university years. I just came from a different background to everyone else & kind of felt really small & like I didn't belong. Graduated, but I hated that time
Where are you from?
This show helped me so much during lockdown. Thank you so much ladies, love you and will miss you all ❤💕 Hope they'll be a podcast or youtube channel about different topics ❤💕
Ugh these conversations are so relatable and will be missed ! I felt like a fish out of water SO many times !
This should be a crime. People who comes to your place of business and they're running late and now they are trying to rush you
Ughh yeah annoying
I lost it when Garcelle said, “When you smell that breath!”😂😂😂😂😂
I just said out loud !! Yes Adrienne I chun lee the door! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤣🤣🤣🙋🏾♀️
That's the key Adrienne, own who you are and be yourself.
I'm gonna miss this so much! 😢
This was my favorite convo 😂
Adrienne not mentioning hand washing will always be funny to me 😂😂😂😂
I felt a culture shock when I left the south to go live in Idaho for 10 months. I was 1 of 7 black people in my WHOLE school, everyone was more closed off, & the “southern hospitality” culture we have where I’m from wasn’t really seen there. I had fun there but man…I was so happy to come back home
This public toilet conversation is so real!
I'm loving all of the outfits from the ladies here!!
I love this episode! ugh imma miss y'all
Garcelle looks like a painting, she looks perfect 🥰
Smell something!!!!!Tell something!!!!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣I love it
I'm always feeling off when I'm around a group of older people. Even though they are around my age group, but sometimes I can't relate. I agree Adrienne, Woman can be disgusting. Especially if they are on their period.
Adrienne was on point with the women's bathrooms. I've seen plenty of ladies not wash their hands after their done with their business 🤢
I feel like this will be helpful for high school students
Oh my gosh I can't this clip had me crying tbh literally lmaooo😭😭😂😂 especially with that whole If you smell smething say something lmaoooo😄😄😅😅🤣🤣
When I was an usher in high school, we used to dread having to stand by the women's bathroom. Once intermission was over, my good god is was horrific.
Loni, you look absolutely beautiful, wow. Inspiration 🤩
Lol, I wore birks with socks today lol. Sometimes it's still chilly, but not cold enough for closed toe shoes smh
I think that's the way to go sometimes, Loni going to the bar to loosen up 😅
I agree with Adrienne.
When loni said thongs with socks, it hit the Australian part of me lol.
I usually Love different cultures . I guess I'm a little diff like that.
I actually enjoy it.
G looks sooo beautiful here🌞🌺
Adrienne's dress is everything!
Adrienne’s outfit though❤️❤️❤️
My mind when she says thongs with socks was going somewhere else
i love you guys
Bro yes. I worked at many places where I had to clean womens bathrooms . THEY ARE FOUL. So much worse than mens restrooms
Isn't that weird you would think the women would be way cleaner.
Yes when my dad moved me from Chicago to Beaver Bay, MN wow talk about being the only one who look like you
Not we got married at 12😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂gotta love A!!
I just did my license with the photo yesterday and they let me see my photo and retake it
❤️❤️❤️
Don't worry Adrienne, we all know being a pastor is just a hustle these days. No one takes it seriously. None of those people in churches are living as they claim
Not always! There are genuine pastors out there. They are just hard to find. I have realized that it is most important to place your faith and total trust in God! When you do that, he will lead you, and you will be able to separate the real from the fake.
Garcelle’s top it super cute 🥰
Adrienne saying sandals in Spanish as if Garcelle speaks it 😂
omfg public bathrooms will be the death of me. traumatized by wtf I've seen in there. I use my feet for the doors and to flush 🤣 🤣
This was hilarious
I was surprised to hear from the local library of the town i work at that the rules now for the library have changed. Among the rule changes are, you don't have to whisper, you can talk normal. You can bring food and eat in the library. The library is now not just a place for reading but the library is offering large gatherings for teens to do activities such as nerf gun shooting. Field trips out of town are now also offered for teens this Summer.
Adrienne’s lipstick color is Chefs kiss 🤌
Ladies bring up things I didn’t know I was mad about but after hearing them say it I get heated lol
Loni’s makeup artist been doing the dang thing
It has happened to me a plethora of times while living and working abroad here in East Asia. In terms of domestic events and other situations, there are of course those white people who like to make the only black or other minority person feel "out of place." People know what I am talking about if they are in professional or academic settings.
You guys should start a podcast after the show ends
Sometimes the toilet situation is not completely the person's fault. What's really terrible if it's an automatic flush toilet and it doesn't flush. One time I tried to sit and get back up 4 times and it still didn't work and no it did not have a button to push either. What's worse it was that time of the month. I think I finally got it to work after a couple more get down and ups. Also fix the doors in the restrooms too, I'm sick of holding the doors closed while I'm trying to pee because the lock doesn't work.
Much love to you for being so considerate and going above and beyond
She must be talking about the Furticks! 😂
Loni your makeup is fyeeeeeeee
I’m glad I don’t live in LA, because I’ve rarely experienced the public bathrooms thing.
I guess I’m also too pragmatic to be bothered, because I’m always that girl that flushes it and moves on? People have mental disorders and forget things, emergencies happen. Let’s give everyone the benefit of the doubt.
Loni look too good in this ep 😍
I'm willing to bet Adrienne that all of those chicks weren't virgins when they married.
@@sbusisiweshaba1715 I don’t think the husbands were there.
Most aren't. Most ppl are reborn again later in life after they do all their fun. They just pretend for others.
Why would anybody lie about being a virgin? 😒
@@osimeon00I think it depends on their age. I've noticed on these CZcams platforms that young people don't seem to mind admitting it. However, during the late 1960's and the 1970's, there was a large counterculture movement which was a social movement throughout the United States. The counterculture challenged traditional roles of behavior related to race, religion, sexuality, gender roles and interpersonal relationships. There was a "free love" attitude about sex back then. There was an "anything goes" and "love the one you're with" environment. People were laughed at for admitting that they were a virgin. In some cases, there were people that admitted that and there were forces out there that insured they wouldn't be much longer.
You know what's so funny & crazy tbh is that if Adrienne broke the mole and the ice and said what those wives at the dinner table just said in the privacy of everyone and if they were the holier than thou saint one she probably would have gotten judged for it given he career status etc tbh😕😕👀👀🙄
Eddie Steeples is the person that Loni was trying to remember.
Adrianne appears to work against God's word for the sake of kudos from the secular community. SMH
I agree with you about the Women bathrooms, they are the nastiest in a public business speaking as a manager of a pharmacy. I wouldn't have believed it was possible that the mens bathroom was for the most part clean.
Loni's make up looks phenomenal today
I dont kwn about y'all , bit i think garsson is a pro with the Real i really like her approches on thinks
Fish out of water
Growing up and living most of my life in segregated Wisconsin, I have been at countless events and situations where I was the only Black person. I rarely (can't think of one example) felt like a fish out of water. Because I love meeting people and am comfortable talking to strangers.
I have a theory about shy people being conceited. At their core, IMO it comes from them being nervous about how others will perceive them. I am the opposite. I can walk into any room and my thought is immediately not on what others think of me, but on what I think of them.😉
Adrienne I feel you sista!🤣😂😁 I always say if men really knew how nasty womens restrooms are....they can be gross in ways that are nauseating. Especially when talking about the "little metal box" at the side of the toilet....🤮🤮🤮
Your fairy tales are so narcissistic at times. They're entertaining, though, I'll give you that. I always make sure to check to see "Hmm.. What's Belinda Joy gonna lie about on this video? 😁" I'm definitely a fan of your fiction.
@@OneLoveRSR does she comment often?
@@OneLoveRSR 😅😅 that’s kinda mean
@@OneLoveRSR Right! 😅 this chick stay lying!
@@osimeon00 Really, I stay lying? My family, friends, jobs, men, dates, opinions on topics, food, drinks, travel....the mere fact that people like you perceive my comments as lies confirms you don't know me. Of THAT I'm positive.😀
You my dear are a troll. Named as such because like a troll that lives under a bridge and only peeks your head out to cause havoc. Online you hide behind fake usernames and graphics. Never your real image because you're too afraid to be real.
So you scour the comment sections on social media looking for those you envy and are jealous of because they are real. Real photos. Real names. Real lives.
While you are....fake. I won't say I pity you but I will say this. I pray that you work on yourself. Take care of your skin and hair. Lose weight if you have to, to feel better about yourself. Find a better job or get one, that pays well so you can move to a better place.
Then you too will one day have true self confidence to show yourself online. And join in on conversations about yourself instead of seeking out others that trigger you.
Because now you, and people like you are just sad and pathetic. Living and acting in a negative way. Because it is a reflection of your life.
By tearing others down, it makes you feel good. What an empty dark life you lead. Choose to be positive and see how your life will change for the better.🙏🏾
I'm gonna miss this show a lot, i've been watching sinds the beginning. I don't get why they are canceling it. I know it's because of low rating but they aren't they only one. This past few season has been hard on a lot of talk shows, i don't see them canceling there shows.
Ellen warped up her show the real wrapping their show wtffff is going on They’ve been my friends for years in my mind lol
I just had the same thought.😔
😢
That’s my life in Germany 🇩🇪 if out of place was a person.
Not Loni saying “cause these niggas…” 😂☠️
I feel like lonis jokes don’t hit like they used to. I think she tries too hard to be funny sometimes
Lol yes somtimes I wish she would just tell the story without tryna be funny.
Gosh… I’m a the only one that doesn’t find her funny at all?? I have been watching the show since the beginning and I still don’t think she’s funny
Thought i was the only one🤦🏾♀️
...😅😅😅😅...am actress...oh..
There is a time I just want to see Adrienne only in all videos
Where has Jeannie been?!
Damn I'm going to miss this show. I for real have not found a show that I enjoyed so much, learned SO much from, and grew as a human being and as a woman. These ladies are talented beautiful, insightful, thoughtful, inspiring and hilarious. I love them as an ensemble and the only regret I have about this show is that Garcelle was not there from the beginning 😊
So if garcelle was there from the beginning who would she replace
@@2sense110 🤔 umm as much as I LOVE Tamera, if I had to choose I think I would replace her..
So any video with her I can take it
Going into the woman’s bathroom I sometimes wonder if it’s really women using them 🤢
Well you should come to Singapore!! You would get fined for not flushing or if it’s dirty !! But it was stricter when PM Lee Kaun Yew was alive !!! 😊
I’m with Adrianne on this ☝️. If you SMELL Something, SAY something!
But why don’t people flush? Please a non flusher let us know I beg
Believe it or not some people are spiteful they go other there way to make others miserable. Like a guy pissing all over the toilet seat on purpose