Why I changed my mind on high-society & luxury

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  • čas přidán 2. 06. 2024
  • Have I got divorced? Did I change my mind on luxury because of it? Am I finished with elegance? Why am I really over high society? In todays video I answer all your questions covering my content, life and future! Start your transformation with me by taking one of my courses: levelupclass.com/
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Komentáře • 725

  • @kuramacabre
    @kuramacabre Před měsícem +826

    I was an OG hater of yours lmao. I found troublesome the slight male gaze embedded in you previous videos, I still dislike when elegance is approached from the "nail a husband" point of view. But I stayed around for the general recommendations and realized you were not the stuck up b1tch that I thought at first. You are down to earth, transparent and open about your journey and THAT earned you this follower's respect. I agree with the rest, you have warmed up and despite you saying you might not be as charismatic, that genuineness does draw people towards you. I've learned valuable lessons from you and for that I'm grateful. I may still be broke lol but I see how I've levelled up in mental health, self esteem, confidence, relationships/bonds, work, dresscode, manners and networking from MY own personality as an introvert (tip for others: you don't have to change your introversion, autenticity will make better things for you regarding to networking). So thank you, Anna, and best wishes. 💚✨

    • @justinewhite2418
      @justinewhite2418 Před měsícem +154

      Seems like that hate is still lingering cause you could have easily omitted the “b1tch” and we would have still gotten the idea

    • @manifest2203
      @manifest2203 Před měsícem +37

      @@justinewhite2418 I agree.

    • @kuramacabre
      @kuramacabre Před měsícem +67

      @@justinewhite2418 you are drawing conclusions from the lack of reading comprehension skills. I said I realized she is not absolutely like that and she agrees, she pined my comment. 🤷🏻‍♀️ That is something I share with her, we are both direct. Maybe learn to appreciate that, I don't owe you any disclaimers or explanations.

    • @kuramacabre
      @kuramacabre Před měsícem

      @@manifest2203 ídem my reply to them. ✌🏼

    • @justinewhite2418
      @justinewhite2418 Před měsícem +48

      @@kuramacabre I didn’t ask for an explanation though, the comment to me just sounded nice nasty. If you disagree no problem, we can all have our own opinions

  • @MMPutnam77
    @MMPutnam77 Před měsícem +233

    You matured. Simple as that. You left the materialistic and acquisitive season of your life and are more interested in deeper things.

    • @angelasoldner4608
      @angelasoldner4608 Před měsícem +3

      But she is still living the affluent lifestyle. People are acting as if she’s changed her life. No, she’s just grown tired of and accustomed to it.

    • @Seraphine07F
      @Seraphine07F Před 27 dny

      Well because it's over
      Like it was at the very beginning of the 90s
      & she's hardly the first

    • @keri7966
      @keri7966 Před 26 dny +1

      My thoughts exactly: it’s called maturity.

    • @LisaF777
      @LisaF777 Před 24 dny

      Rather, this type of content is generally no longer interesting. Plus, there are only some many things you can discuss. Similar to how Beauty Gurus went on to lifestyle content.

    • @portia-7946
      @portia-7946 Před 13 dny

      It is rather that she has now achieved everything she was set out to affluent wise, and now she can focus on other things.

  • @marythang1260
    @marythang1260 Před měsícem +77

    She changed because she has accomplished all her goals and now is on a journey to create and accomplish new goals. It's how someone grows. 💗

  • @TheConfidenceNetwork
    @TheConfidenceNetwork Před měsícem +264

    Anna, I have been following you from the "Jet set babe" days. What has happened to you is maturity. Once we obtain relationships, home, wardrobe etc. we enjoy and serve us, we recognize that the little things are the big things. Consumerism is a trap that causes financial insecurity and unhappiness. Intentional living based on a deeper life purpose is uplifting. I am now 56 and have a successful marriage, business, fitness routine, intentional wardrobe etc. and what makes me most happy is helping others through the social impact initiative I started using a percentage of my business profits. We provide coaching, training to support not for profits that focus on health disparity, education and career advancement in underserved communities. Happiness is an inward not an outward journey.

    • @squishysirenita
      @squishysirenita Před měsícem +8

      I couldn't agree more! I was just about to post a comment about maturity and you nailed it! 🎯💯
      I believe that one changes, evolves, grows, matures every
      5-10 years (not everyone unfortunately) 😒 That's life...as Rod Stewart sang "I wish, that, I knew what I know now, when I was younger". Sometimes I believe it's unfair but it is what it is.

    • @margaritavalcheva
      @margaritavalcheva Před měsícem

      I admire you! ❤

    • @YourRichLifeMedia
      @YourRichLifeMedia Před měsícem +1

      This. Every word of this. And these people commenting just haven’t had that experience and thus aren’t accustomed to it. How someone said that she isn’t fascinated by the glamorous life anymore. And I dont think people realize that you can’t be fascinated by something that is your normal. Your normal isn’t fascinating at all lol. Anna has simply…matured

    • @atzinsalgado.4026
      @atzinsalgado.4026 Před 14 dny

      Anna you are Always so smart and honesta and I just want to thank you for share with us you're experience, we level up together with you🤩💐

  • @Jessica.Caballero
    @Jessica.Caballero Před měsícem +731

    She didn’t get divorced, she said “I have two horses that I see 3, 4 times a week, I have a dog, I have my husband” the headline was just to attract views lol

    • @russtyshacklefordjr.4429
      @russtyshacklefordjr.4429 Před měsícem +39

      That is certainly a strange choice of listing though😁

    • @SheisGraceful
      @SheisGraceful Před měsícem +12

      I thought she must have remarried 😂

    • @poisonedchalice
      @poisonedchalice Před měsícem +20

      It worked 😂

    • @angelaarnett3333
      @angelaarnett3333 Před měsícem +27

      Thanks- won’t waste more than the minute it’s been playing then

    • @kamikaze8520
      @kamikaze8520 Před měsícem +43

      Very desperate click bate, I like Anna but this is very distasteful

  • @merlindodson7562
    @merlindodson7562 Před měsícem +292

    Your goals are redundant for you because you fulfilled your goals. You married a wealthy man and are living a comfortable life of means both with his and your incomes which is exactly what you set out to do. Totally normal that you would establish new goals now that original goals have been met.

    • @iss8504
      @iss8504 Před měsícem +2

      Um, define wealthy? I didn't think mid level banker is wealthy. Is $100k salary wealthy?

    • @desouzamaria
      @desouzamaria Před měsícem +23

      @@iss8504 It is enough money to live well on with no children, and no doubt Anna is successful in her own right.

    • @thehapagirl92
      @thehapagirl92 Před měsícem

      @@iss8504$100,000 yearly is wealthy. How much do you make? $20,000? That’s right. Understand dollars before opening your Italian mouth

    • @matsecookss
      @matsecookss Před měsícem +15

      ​@iss8504 You sound so bitter and jealous. For all I care, Anna has a better life than you.

    • @JulesTomasi
      @JulesTomasi Před měsícem +4

      @@iss8504 She probably makes way more money than you. Look at this sour kitten lol

  • @marianabarrosterapeuta
    @marianabarrosterapeuta Před 18 dny +11

    The thing is: You've achieved your goals and now wants something new. Congratularions Anna 🎉

  • @TheChefSteph
    @TheChefSteph Před měsícem +387

    Good grief you guys she’s not divorced. I think people assumed she got divorced. She’s just in a new life season. Watch the whole video.

    • @ElizabethfromGreece
      @ElizabethfromGreece Před měsícem +13

      Yeah that is what i think too.I didn't hear anything about divorce.

    • @mizfrenchtwist
      @mizfrenchtwist Před měsícem +24

      well , i'm happy she is not divorced😊😊😊😊 but the way the title is worded , it is somewhat , misleading . if it were worded different , people would not have assumed it to be so🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨.......

    • @barbarahumphreys4887
      @barbarahumphreys4887 Před měsícem +21

      Maybe folks assume because, you know, the video title? Guess it's just click bait... Again...

    • @maggiejean_nahas
      @maggiejean_nahas Před měsícem +9

      Actually I have to say, it's not clickbait. On Instagram people send her questions through her stories and as you can see in the display picture there is a question that was asked by someone which was not really a question in my eyes. Ana's video title has to do with the way that person worded their "question."
      Love you Ana.❤

    • @ellieadams3598
      @ellieadams3598 Před měsícem +2

      Minimalism and quality over quantity can be extremely elegant!!

  • @angelawendt3471
    @angelawendt3471 Před měsícem +90

    I think that the new Anna is more organic. Always loved her authenticity. Whatever she does, she nails it.

  • @elenavalentina4608
    @elenavalentina4608 Před měsícem +237

    Guys she didn't get a divorce, she's still wearing her ring and she just addressed an assumption regarding her undergoing a major change due to something big like being broke or getting a divorce
    Edit: guys even if it was clickbait, that's ok, it's CZcams and it just works like this 😅 hate the game not the player

    • @minervag6777
      @minervag6777 Před měsícem +5

      But why would she add it in the title like that? :/

    • @buyi249
      @buyi249 Před měsícem +1

      I was confused when i saw the ring.. this makes sense

    • @linabelmonte5154
      @linabelmonte5154 Před měsícem

      It's a clickbait, used to make people click on it and watch the video to find out if the title is true or not. ​@@minervag6777

    • @elenavalentina4608
      @elenavalentina4608 Před měsícem

      ​@@minervag6777 That's the golden rule of the internet, a shock value title :) mind me I am not attacking her or anything, she knows the game and how to play it, and she's a smart business woman :) i would do the same :)

    • @monicamalk9316
      @monicamalk9316 Před měsícem +3

      Maybe click bait 😂

  • @chantellewilson9497
    @chantellewilson9497 Před měsícem +87

    As someone who has watched every video you made and been along for the ride, I always understood I had to choose the the parts of your content that applied to me. For example, I was already married, so there was a lot of things that didn’t apply to me. High Society doesn’t interest me. I’m quite a homebody that enjoys being with her animals. However, thanks to your content and free classes. I was able to level up my home, my wardrobe, my persons, as well as my business, I can honestly say following you and doing the work has changed my life🥂 thank you, Anna❤️

    • @caviartastetunabudget9037
      @caviartastetunabudget9037 Před měsícem +3

      Same for me. I’ve always found useful things in her content even when I was not necessarily her target audience.

  • @TheChefSteph
    @TheChefSteph Před měsícem +109

    Ooh girl! This video title made me nervous 😬. It’s beautiful that you are continuing to evolve. People who never change are sad. We should always be in new life seasons and learning different things. Once you get to certain milestones in your life, you focus more on experiences and protecting your peace. Cheers 🥂

    • @imaginethat2003
      @imaginethat2003 Před měsícem +7

      Wouldn't she make a great mother?! Her children would be so well rounded and brave in this world.

    • @AndreaW-ur9qm
      @AndreaW-ur9qm Před měsícem +1

      Amen🙌🏾

  • @SuzannaDiebes
    @SuzannaDiebes Před měsícem +38

    I agree it is an "age thing" at least for some of us. You get to a point where you literally do just wake up one morning and ask yourself... What am I doing? What IS really important to me? Important in my relationships?Important in the world?
    And then slowly you realize the things and people that really aren't serving you anymore, and you find yourself in this wonderful journey of actually coming to peace with yourself and life.
    I love seeing your quiet/still life and you being able to connect with yourself and this shift in your mindset. Embrace it fully. ❤

    • @mcspankie2010
      @mcspankie2010 Před měsícem

      This is what's happened with me. Im in my 30's, my husband, kids, animals extended family are so much more important to me than material things are.

    • @africanprincessmaya
      @africanprincessmaya Před měsícem

      I guess the bible is right then to preach simplicity

  • @AndreasHofmann46
    @AndreasHofmann46 Před měsícem +70

    Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @trevorkelly5036
      @trevorkelly5036 Před měsícem +2

      i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

    • @AndreasHofmann46
      @AndreasHofmann46 Před měsícem +2

      wow, please how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach him?

    • @trevorkelly5036
      @trevorkelly5036 Před měsícem +1

      Dr Ben Spell Castle is the advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment

    • @trevorkelly5036
      @trevorkelly5036 Před měsícem +1

      you can look his name up online and you will find all you need.

    • @AndreasHofmann46
      @AndreasHofmann46 Před měsícem +1

      Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for his full name and his website popped up after scrolling a bit.

  • @Catcapozzi
    @Catcapozzi Před měsícem +227

    Ooooh, girl, grade A clickbait title! Mad salute and hats off to you, the masses deserve it.

    • @amiralamb
      @amiralamb Před měsícem +7

      I haven’t clicked on a video in a while but one this got me. 😅

    • @Bunny-mw2lo
      @Bunny-mw2lo Před měsícem +2

      I knew it couldn’t be true

    • @LS-hh3mv
      @LS-hh3mv Před měsícem

      What title did u see ? It seems it may have changed?

  • @masha22092000r
    @masha22092000r Před měsícem +22

    Guys, she did not get divorced. Someone just asked if she did 😅 Watch the video before you leave your "best wishes/condolences" in the comments.

  • @rhondamiller5166
    @rhondamiller5166 Před měsícem +25

    I’ve been watching you for years and I can see your evolution.
    I think it’s elegant and self aware to continue to mature through life.
    Sometimes being an example is the best influence.
    Thank you for your openness! ❤

  • @imaginethat2003
    @imaginethat2003 Před měsícem +11

    I had a friend who couldn't accept my personal growth. I think she didn't want to let go of the past, or felt left behind.

  • @SheisGraceful
    @SheisGraceful Před měsícem +104

    I personally feel like you have gotten very warm and down to earth lately. I noticed a while ago that you seemed more genuine and empathetic in your videos. Had no idea about the divorce. Wish you all the best, and thank you for the videos you’ve provided during these years, you taught me so much. Started watching you as a 15 year old girl. Tack Anna 🩷

    • @buyi249
      @buyi249 Před měsícem +7

      Me too.. i used to watch her a while ago and as much as i enjoyed her tips she had this thing about her that didnt feel authentic. Lately though she seems different, warmer as you say and more genuine

    • @SheisGraceful
      @SheisGraceful Před měsícem +2

      @@buyi249 Very true! Not until recently I felt that she was resonant for the first time

    • @Alyona-ty4pp
      @Alyona-ty4pp Před měsícem +13

      She is not divorced, it's why you had no idea about it :)

    • @blazenkatkalcevic6374
      @blazenkatkalcevic6374 Před měsícem +11

      She is not going to divorce! Listen better!

    • @SheisGraceful
      @SheisGraceful Před měsícem +2

      @@blazenkatkalcevic6374 I replayed the video and didn’t hear anything about a divorce, thought that was the whole theme of the video between the lines. When I heard her say husband I just assumed she got remarried 😂

  • @BlossomWithDeborah
    @BlossomWithDeborah Před měsícem +38

    People should learn how to watch videos. She is still very happy and VERY MARRIED… I’m happy you made this video, it’s ok to switch up the niche and put the more shallow things aside! 🌸💫

  • @Coach_Prisca
    @Coach_Prisca Před měsícem +31

    Its called growth.

  • @hummingbirdofgumption3263

    My daughter (28() mentioned your channel to me (57) about 3 years ago. My daughter has always been a tomboy, rarely dresses up, and very sweatshirts & pants girl, and pretty much still is. I don't even know why she started watching you - you're a 180 difference from her, but she said she just liked your journey and how you transformed yourself. At first she thought you were over the top, but she got hooked and recommended the channel to me because I said I wanted to level up my style. We've both taken your experience to heart and leveled up just a wee bit. We still enjoy your channel.

  • @fauziaasim4037
    @fauziaasim4037 Před měsícem +24

    It takes courage to stand up for yourself. ❤

  • @yankeedoodledarling9232
    @yankeedoodledarling9232 Před 26 dny +4

    Communication is the basis of your job and English is your second language, yet, you communicate magnificently - and your evolution is palpable. It is my impression that you reached your former goals and you have set new ones for yourself. The maturation process in life (and inner-work) help us to question ourselves and make the right choices. Your evolution is not surprising and it is commendable. I look forward to more of your channel and your journal. I am a horsewoman as well; when I spend time at the farm where my mare boards - the rest of the world slips away. I think this is the blessing of embracing what interests us - it brings us another dimension of joy and learning - and horses are such great teachers. Ride on!

  • @kikibirb9296
    @kikibirb9296 Před měsícem +15

    Be strong, you are great!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lynnsouth5174
    @lynnsouth5174 Před měsícem +4

    I appreciate your honesty, perception, adaptability, Anna. You have a true voice to help women. Praying here for you

  • @TravelPhotoWriter
    @TravelPhotoWriter Před měsícem +5

    Anna, this is a GREAT Q&A. Your energy is looking good. Your development since 2018 is lovely. You're COURAGEOUS for continuing on social media, is rough it here!!!
    I REALLY appreciated your level-up society info, as I was working on that at an earlier time. I hit the same "wall" you did. When you can buy anything in the mall, or go to the fancy parties, you suddenly see the DREAMING & STRIVING was the most energizing part! All is a sudden it's a building full of JUST STUFF, mostly passing fulfillment.

  • @lmolarissa
    @lmolarissa Před měsícem +3

    I appreciate that you spoke about how you reached your current viewpoint of life precisely because you reached your goal of living a high class/high society life. I think that sometimes you need to actually reach your goal (get to the top of the mountain, so to speak) in order to understand that there is another angle, or more, to life. Once you are the top of the mountain, you have a bird's eye view that you didn't have before and can see things you couldn't have possibly understood before. We all evolve. It's a part of life. I've been following your for most of your journey and I love seeing how you change.

  • @valeriedioni9414
    @valeriedioni9414 Před měsícem +2

    Your the ‘best’ Anna. Keep ‘leveling up’ It’s life at its best.

  • @uwu4695
    @uwu4695 Před měsícem +3

    Ana as your followers in CZcams since 2018-present
    I love your level up journey over the time and I see you as a good friend that start change my well being, Thank you so much
    and I will continue to support you and your CZcams channel for many years to come

  • @as_hb
    @as_hb Před měsícem +3

    Anna, thank you for sharing with us all the changes you've been through! I love your sincerity. 💓

  • @SuzannaDiebes
    @SuzannaDiebes Před měsícem +21

    She's not divorced!! 😂 She responded to what someone said, watch the whole video!

    • @kad6810
      @kad6810 Před měsícem +1

      Omg thank God. I was starting to get sad, I'm still listening

  • @NajwaHamed-e9j
    @NajwaHamed-e9j Před 6 dny

    Impressed! Looking back and evaluating oneself is part of leveling up

  • @psyche8187
    @psyche8187 Před měsícem

    I appreciate this shift so much. I’ve also shifted my focus and have found much more joy in the process. I am focusing more on my health, character, and vision for my children and it has felt much more in line with my values than having handbag goals.

  • @knittingdoula
    @knittingdoula Před 26 dny +3

    Like her or hate her, it's impossible to deny that Anna has HUSTLED and worked hard to achieve her social media and personal goals. The constancy and stability and ambition required for this takes a lot of courage, and given her roots, those motivations were completely understandable. I applaud any woman with ambition and brains, and Anna has both. Cheers, friend! May you continue to hit every goal and serve the world at your highest level.

  • @patti9415
    @patti9415 Před měsícem

    Your self reflection is refreshing! Love personal evolution...so inspiring.

  • @mimismithson5372
    @mimismithson5372 Před měsícem

    It’s that age old thing of you get the materialistic things and you still end up looking for more in life! You’ve matured, you’ve reached your material goals which is amazing and now you want to experience the deeper layers of life, I love that for you. I’ve been watching you for a while and I love this evolution for you.

  • @TravelPhotoWriter
    @TravelPhotoWriter Před měsícem +9

    PS - THANK YOU for all of your style content, and classes. Over the last few years, you have REALLY helped me clarify and simplify what my style is, and how to create a "casual elegance" look that is Me. YOU have been my #1 teacher on this! I still see things and think "Nope" because I channel my inner Anna... 😘

  • @losperez41
    @losperez41 Před měsícem

    Anna, I am so happy and proud of you! I totally get you and I myself have been through that change of mind when you come to realize that there is so much to life than what the world wants you to believe! Enjoy yourself, yourself, there is beauty in a simple slower way of living. You are as beautiful and elegant as ever! ❤️

  • @idaliarice4773
    @idaliarice4773 Před měsícem +1

    I absolutely love this change for you.. there is a peace that is seen in you . Thank you for all you do!❤

  • @Sungirl88
    @Sungirl88 Před měsícem +2

    I think Anna, that you achieved your goal. You are still the same inspiration you’ve always been to me and it’s sort of like you’ve climbed this mountain and are onto the next 🎉

  • @pulpostr123
    @pulpostr123 Před měsícem

    i honestly appreciated this change and honesty so much

  • @sv4peace
    @sv4peace Před 11 dny

    Cheers to growth 🥂I’m an OG follower that has enjoyed your old content as well as new 💛 Keep doing your thing and what feels right for you ✨

  • @loriannvastine-kridner2556
    @loriannvastine-kridner2556 Před měsícem

    I love the changes! You’re much more approachable and warm! 🤗🤗💕

  • @marianina8
    @marianina8 Před měsícem

    I'm happy for you and appreciate your authenticity, Anna!

  • @vahidazamani8084
    @vahidazamani8084 Před měsícem +1

    I admire your consistency in the path to living like an affluent, first externally and now inwardly. Your courage to allow your wisdom to redefine "affluence" is inspiring. Thank you for sharing your journey!

  • @shubhangisharma7975
    @shubhangisharma7975 Před 7 dny

    Hi Anna! Let me just start by saying that I’m loving this new version of you! I think I relate more to this Anna. I have been following you since 2018-2019 and have noticed a gradual change. Your content has definitely become more nuanced and I feel like it’s become kinder too. I have learnt so much from you and I’d like to thank you for being a part of my levelling up journey. Lots of love, can’t wait for your next videos!

  • @heatherfranco5810
    @heatherfranco5810 Před měsícem +1

    Speaking from experience. I noticed a shift in myself around this age where I started to slow down and minimize the noise and clutter in my life. I was never someone who bought into the hype of social media or fashion trends so I didn’t require a massive change. I’ve always had great self control throughout my life so making little changes over time has taken a huge weight off my mind and allowed me to focus on things that are truly important to me. We can’t take our things with us but we can think about how we want to be remembered or the impact we had on others.

  • @AyaSmith-rb2hp
    @AyaSmith-rb2hp Před 20 dny

    You have come a long way. I am 65 and have tuned into your work off and on over the years. You are still beautiful but more so from the inner work and depth you have created within yourself. Personal development was my work before retirement and I love to see your growth and development of your persona. ❤

  • @innettecambridge6461
    @innettecambridge6461 Před měsícem +1

    Anna, Thanks for your honest sharing on life changes. All the best for your future.

  • @milliondollarbee
    @milliondollarbee Před měsícem +1

    Love how honest Anna is ❤

  • @RoyalTeaNation
    @RoyalTeaNation Před 19 dny

    I’ve been watching you for years & learned so much! You’ve matured and I also believe there’s so much content out now that has devalued the topic. Love your work, Anna! Excited to see what the future holds for you! ❤

  • @Mochalolo1928
    @Mochalolo1928 Před měsícem +1

    Your new content is going to be so perfect for me! Once you get to a point where you have what the old you wanted, you get a chance to look around and see the holes, to see what needs attention NOW. Anyone who is still building to that point wouldn’t be able to understand and will probably keep thinking the change has to do with money, but it really is just the natural order of things ❤

  • @Thejoyofdecorating
    @Thejoyofdecorating Před měsícem +3

    You look so much happier. I’m happy for you, your animals and husband. Not many people have a change for the better in life but you did. Congratulations! Love this content.

  • @janiceda8644
    @janiceda8644 Před 25 dny

    Excellent video and transparent. One thing that stood out to me was you speaking on getting to where you wanted to be and maybe becoming "bored" if you will...But the great part of this, we need to become "bored" to move to OUR next level of life. No way around it. It's like saying, Ok I'm here, now what ? I found you some years ago and every now and again you pop in my head (via email ) to see what you are up to or teaching. Glad I opened this email to remind me you are a human being like us all. Much Love :)

  • @EsmeLillian
    @EsmeLillian Před měsícem

    I absolutely love the shift in your content and I love what you teach and how it helped me with my personal development.

  • @lalavande1891
    @lalavande1891 Před měsícem +1

    I feel completely at peace with your departure from the high society aspiration. Life and circumstances once took me into those circles and some of my most unkind and most unpleasant social interactions happened then and there. Elegance and personal development and aspiration can be peacefully separated from the toxicity high society quite often brings into your life.

  • @donnapecoraro3126
    @donnapecoraro3126 Před měsícem

    I've been watching you forever. I love the way you've evolved. No one can change for the better "too much" ! You've said SO many valuable things to me as a much older woman. The idea of elegance has no age restriction. And that to me was so uplifting. Your realizations are beautiful. You're so inclusive, so encouraging and so brave to state how you've changed.

  • @lindaholm9801
    @lindaholm9801 Před měsícem

    You say you’re not so good at communicating Anna, however may I say I find you to be so naturally articulate and well expressed. Even your speaking voice is a joy to listen to. I really enjoyed this video and you’ve encouraged me to reflect on my own values and reassess what is truly important to me, and that will always appear different for everyone. Best wishes from Melbourne Australia xx 💖

  • @TeenaBourque
    @TeenaBourque Před měsícem

    Loving your new content. I have been following you for years, we all grow and mature.

  • @michellew.b.446
    @michellew.b.446 Před 23 dny

    Anna I like your admitting that you’ve changed your perspective. It makes you real & genuine, and it's very humbling. I’m your fan although I’m not a fashionista. I’m an academic lecturer who is more interested in collecting knowledge, information & wisdom for my job. That gives me satisfaction. This year I’m spending most of my free time in my garden, planting & tending flowers, herbs & veggies. It's great when you find an activity that humbles you & brings you joy. All the best Anna, I’ll continue to watch this space ❤❤❤

  • @lauriekane
    @lauriekane Před měsícem

    Anna is evolving as we all do (hopefully). Love the new updated lady.

  • @HollyRoseBeecham
    @HollyRoseBeecham Před měsícem

    You are experiencing a period of growth Anna, good for you! 🧡

  • @lienaisaula9877
    @lienaisaula9877 Před měsícem +2

    Dear Anna, thank you for your wisdom!♥️✨

  • @ebishrimpy9366
    @ebishrimpy9366 Před měsícem

    Anna's change inspires me to change too. I find she now talks more about deeper, intangible, moral things, and I trust her more because of that. More growth to her and her platform!

  • @samira_k9
    @samira_k9 Před měsícem

    We love you Anna Bey! I feel the same way! I was also in your elegance school 🥹 sending you love and light.

  • @tiffanywashington2599
    @tiffanywashington2599 Před měsícem +3

    Love love love this! Your previous vids have been great sources of luxe fashion tips and etiquette. While I appreciate this kind of content, I am very happy to see content from a more evolved Anna. Thank you for being honest and allowing us to journey with you. Change is inevitable and to be welcomed. Looking forward to seeing where this takes us!

  • @jtaylor6241
    @jtaylor6241 Před měsícem +4

    I love this evolved you. You're more relatable. Change is necessary for growth.

  • @eyayatouji4323
    @eyayatouji4323 Před 8 dny

    It takes courage to question publicly the core of what you do. Thank you for your integrity Anna ❤️❤️ I can still find your old videos insightful because they center around the big picture of leveling up and be a better version of yourself

  • @PerfectlyxSplendid
    @PerfectlyxSplendid Před měsícem

    Loving the new content! Balance is a good goal

  • @maryjoyrobles7200
    @maryjoyrobles7200 Před měsícem +3

    I thought you’re almost perfect, successful and living you best life. I look up to you Anna!❤

  • @eexexxxexee883
    @eexexxxexee883 Před 11 dny

    Anna, you've evolved so much, it's amazing! Thank you for being so honest and inspiring! :)

  • @sandram6068
    @sandram6068 Před 27 dny

    I really liked your change Ana. You are a blessing 🥰🙏🏻
    We are constantly changing

  • @chelseabunker2391
    @chelseabunker2391 Před 22 dny

    Anna, your evolution has been beautiful and authentic. I think your authenticity is scary to people. I have evolved in line with you and am 39, so everything you are sharing truly does parallel possibly our age & maturity? But also to evolve emotionally through psychological deep work certainly creates a very different deeper perspective on life. Regardless of the why, I appreciate your growth. I have outgrown & stopped following most content creators I followed in 2018 or earlier, as my goals and perspectives shift in life. ❤❤❤❤

  • @amazingredox
    @amazingredox Před měsícem +1

    This is a beautiful journey and thank you for sharing it with us. I see your evolution from your days of superficial goals to what you are today - authentic, more in-depth, you clearly have done a lot of inner work. I value the things I have learnt from watching your journey, and I'm taking and applying the ones that work for me in my personal journey.

  • @HelenVaughn-un6de
    @HelenVaughn-un6de Před měsícem

    Great video and thanks for sharing.

  • @melyourheart
    @melyourheart Před měsícem

    I'm soooo glad your journey took this turn, not that the previous was bad or something, but in a way of what truly is real, closer to our nature, not placing way too much importance on luxuries but what feels like ourselves, what fulfills our heart. Also I loooove the fact that you are a mother of lovely dog

  • @user-tx1ge1jb6t
    @user-tx1ge1jb6t Před 24 dny

    Hi Anna, I've been following you since 2019 using another account. And what I want to say now is that it's good to see a personal side of you. I think whatever that came up to you is very normal. I am same age as you and I resonate with this video.

  • @nikka5986
    @nikka5986 Před 2 dny

    New season of your life. Congratulations Anna.

  • @nancygriffith851
    @nancygriffith851 Před 28 dny

    I e been a follower for about two years. I think you're wonderful. You are always growing and evolving, as does your advice. That's the right way. If you (anyone) never changed your mind, your focus, your perspective, you turn stagnant. No need to always stay the same & say the same things. It's human and healthy to grow. I love you Anna. You've helped me have faith and hope in myself, and that was HUGE! You've helped me improve and change my life. I wish you all blessings.❤❤❤❤ You've been a blessing to me.

  • @christinakaiser4869
    @christinakaiser4869 Před měsícem +1

    I just turned 38 three days ago, and I will say there has been a dramatic shift in my perspective, goals, and personal feelings very recently. If you are not making changes throughout your life, you are remaining stagnant and cannot grow as a person. It gives "leveling up" a whole new meaning.

  • @Suzannemcn
    @Suzannemcn Před měsícem

    I love your change and growth. I will always see you as my example Anna. We are meant to grow and change. People who don't understand that, well that is their problem. I hope they will realize eventually that change is good and it doesn't make you inauthentic, but just a person who is growing.

  • @se-lene
    @se-lene Před měsícem +3

    I adore the way you speak and present yourself now so so much!! The personal and spiritual work that you have done is highly noticeable in you, and the new Anna is indeed an "updated version".
    I recently started to watch your videos again, since I had a break from social media and content consuming, and went through my own personal development, so I was impressed with the new content you've put out. Inner growth can be seen in you, and I never thought this happened because you are 'poor', or something bad happened to you.
    I wish you lots of luck and success in your future endeavours 🩷✨️🫶🏻

  • @Satori_69
    @Satori_69 Před 18 dny +1

    Dear Anna, I enjoy your channel now even more. You emanate class from the inside out. Something that I aspire to do.

  • @Chinasa585
    @Chinasa585 Před měsícem

    I came across your channel 2021, especially the how to dress as an elegant lady, how to speak, how to level up and many others. That was a turning point in my life in a positive way, today I live a calm simple life and when I buy clothes I buy them because it’s functional for me not because of trend. Thank you @Anna Bey

  • @kidrn4u
    @kidrn4u Před měsícem

    Loving your journey so much!❤

  • @LaurenJ777
    @LaurenJ777 Před měsícem +14

    This doesn’t seem like a “transformation”. It just seems like a more in-depth viewpoint from an intelligent woman who has many talents, interests, and a beautiful inside as well as outside. She is more than just one-dimensional, and that’s a very good thing. Life is about balance. 💗😊

  • @RoseBooksAndLearning
    @RoseBooksAndLearning Před měsícem

    Sending you love! Happy to see you thriving:)

  • @simran6521
    @simran6521 Před měsícem +2

    Madam ! Well needed video ❤

  • @billybee9659
    @billybee9659 Před měsícem

    I have so much respect for you. It takes a lot of intelligence and maturity to sit and reflect in the way that you do about your own goals and behaviour, and it's great that you're dedicated to teaching others how to do just that without any judgement about what their goals might be. You're helping people reach their fullest potential in life, and that's such a great impact and legacy to have.

  • @rougenoir1990
    @rougenoir1990 Před měsícem +4

    Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable with us. It's not just personal things; with Pluto entering Aquarius, the next 20 years will be about power to the people. Boastful displays of wealth, being out of touch with today's climate is a surefire way to struggle. I'm seeing lots of personal development creators switch towards a more approachable philosophy, and I think the mental level up is the absolute foundation that CANNOT be bypassed with a classy way of dress.

  • @maryruales1319
    @maryruales1319 Před 26 dny

    I am very happy for you Anna!!!... Keep the inner work.

  • @interlocution6619
    @interlocution6619 Před měsícem +2

    As someone who has also had a very middle class life-style with a corporate career, AND who has had a luxury lifestyle with a home in an affluent neighborhood with house-keepers, maintenance, and assistants I can honestly say this: I would rather have inner peace and be debt-free than drive a lulxury car. I do still like quality clothing and cosmetics, but they are for ME - not for showing off to others. I still love you and support your public transformation. Some times we just have to change our priorities. No matter what neighborhood I live in, or where I shop, what is most important to me about the people I spend my time with, is that they are genuine, compassionate, and have integrity - no matter what their job is... no matter what kind of house they live in or what they drive... no matter what their hobbies are. Keep living your best life Anna, whatever that means to you. One more thing I 100% agree that

  • @Lisa-wu1vz
    @Lisa-wu1vz Před měsícem

    Hi Anna, I've been your follower for years and I have seen you changing through the years and always thought you are a brave, heartly woman. I sincerely admire you and I'm glad you are discovering other pleasures in life.
    Keep goin' 🙌

  • @txpatriotgirl
    @txpatriotgirl Před měsícem +1

    I love how you embrace the changes in you life and reinvent yourself to satisfy your needs ans not the opinions of others❤

  • @AbbeyClint
    @AbbeyClint Před měsícem +45

    What? When did this happen?

  • @siseongyuri
    @siseongyuri Před měsícem

    excited to see this new chapter of your content ❤❤

  • @Kallissaissa
    @Kallissaissa Před měsícem

    Thank you for everything, Anna!
    You are a real inspiration for me❤️

  • @Katiediddance
    @Katiediddance Před měsícem

    You are simply growing, maturing and changing as you go through your experiences, having learned from them. This is normal in life as we age, what we liked or were interested in changes.

  • @caribbean9829
    @caribbean9829 Před měsícem +2

    I love this new life stage, because I have been feeling in the same way. In my case 43 years old, with a 3 years old boy, and an amazing husband that i found because of my level up.
    Now looking elegancy, wealth, and good life with other eyes, but ones that give me more peace and happiness.
    Good for you Anna! If you are happy, we are happy for you🎉