Perspective Of A Man + Who comes first: Mom, daughter, or wife?
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We love to see the brothers but we need a podcast with the wife and the gf!!! 👀
Agreed ❤both beautiful ladies
RIGHT
THIS!!!! Yesss!!!
Yessss agreeeee
Yesss!!
Sebas and his brother is the real example of same parent different childhood. 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂 right
I think Karen has just done a great job with sebas lol
@@srivas20Karen raised a great man 🤣🤣
Josh looks so proud of his brother. The way he stares at him when he’s speaking throughout the podcast. Definitely a proud big brother
I noticed that too. I lost my brother and seeing this brotherly love warms up my heart ❤
I love seeing the little Brothers. They should be monthly regulars for different men prospectives
My toxic trait is I want a guy who looks like Brandon but has Markys kindness 😂
Nahh brandon look like he in the kkcartel😂 fuhhkk thattt lmaooo
Mikey looks like he can protect me 😍
Brandon is super handsome but the way he acts is not it for me lol rather get me a Mikey lol
Same 🤣🤣
@susy_ss I agree. Brandon is handsome but he is not someone you take seriously or at least it doesn't seem like it. It's also crazy how Sebas snd Brandon are so different. Same parents but different upbringing and that's fine I'm sure they are both great people.
The Bible says that you will leave your father and mother to join your partner in marriage. So the order is your wife, and by putting your wife first, you're putting your daughter first by giving her the best example of a loving marriage. Then your mom will be so proud to feel like she raised a great man. 💞
Perfectly said!!!
Yes I agree with this!! This is the order.
This is exactly what I was thinking on this topic
😂😂😂must be nice to have a Dad
Wait sorry I meant to just put that as a reg comment not in response to yours. I love your view on this.
Brandon gives sad bad boy vibes 🥺and Marky is just the sweetest soul ❤
Marky is the type you marry and brandon is either the fuhhckk or ckihlll option😂
@@Ms.Mewitdabullshit 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 why is this so truuuee
I feel like Brandon is giving sad vibes, and I feel like he doesn’t realize how capable he is, how handsome he is, and how he could have a platform to do some thing with social media, if you wanted to, and do so much more in life, and continue helping his father❤️
True but he gives “ pot head vibes” . Like his life is Cloudy
He’s also had a life and death experience. I’m sure it’s really difficult for him to try to live like everyone else when he’s had that experience. Probably sees life through a different lens. Most ppl that have experience don’t think the purpose of life is to work and become successful, it’s more about enjoying every day how he wants 🤷🏽♀️
@@thiquegirlpilates whaaat? he did? what happened
@@kayladuane7314 he was in a super bad motorcycle accident. He has a bunch of scars from it. But he keeps riding because he loves it. It be hella scared lol but he’s cut from a diff cloth 🤷🏽♀️
I was thinking in the beginning of the podcast how Marky is the classiest one in the room 😂 (he's well spoken and curses the least) then he spoke about his boujie dad and it all made sense. We love classy Marky!
The brothers should come back every 1-3 months, this feels like a podcast, 4 personalities that are different but not different. Idk how to say but besides I enjoyed it
Yassss! I love it!
yesss
Sebas is going to be a great dad!!! He understands that having a kid is not just till 18 years old, but forever.
Exactly you’ll never stop loving your children. They should always feel that family is there for you not just till you hit 18 or 21. And they wonder why they’re such high suicide rate.
I can’t wait for Karen to announce her being pregnant🫶🏼
Brandon gargling the shots and Sebas face of disgust sent me 😂😂😂
I agree with Josh about sharing too much relationship issues with family because you can forgive and forget but your family won’t!
💯 most of the time people don’t say what they did either and just talk about that their partner did so the story they tell their family is not the complete story but the family doesn’t know that… sometimes Mexican moms also think theirs boys are perfect and it’s toxic
when Sebas asks “who comes first?” & Brandon automatically says “the women” hahahaha love that answer 🤭🤣
And it’s funny how no one else caught that LOL
That was hilarious 😆
LMAO I LOVED THAT PART
Marky is for sure my fav!😂 His vibe is so welcoming. He is well spoken and I’m glad to hear his growth with taste salud👏🏼
Right, I was thinking the same. He is very well spoken and has definitely flourished. I praise Josh for believing in him. They have a lot of love for each other.
Totally agree! He is so sweet 🤞🏽🩷
So respectful and kind ❤
Yes he’s a gem!
you need to bring your moms on the podcast, they both did amazing raising you guys 👏🏽
I second this! BRING THE MOMS!
Yess I would love to see the mom on the pody! Or your guys significant others 🤭
The way Josh looks at Marky when he’s talking about Salud… proud Brother moment ❣️
In every episode I get so mesmerized by Joshy poo! Besides the physical attraction, the way he portrays himself, the way he thinks. Wow tbh. No words. Not many men like him. Mom definitely did well raising him.
Josh and mark are so well spoken it’s such a turn on!
He so well outspoken! I could hear him talk for hours lol
Can we talk about how well spoken marky is and how he answered every question perfectly 👌
I love how you could see how proud Josh was when Marky started talking about Salud
all the girls looking at brandon like “i could fix him” 😍 😂
REAL AF meeeee 😭😭😂
Dude Josh’s and Markys smile is the EXACT SAME 😭
I thought the same. Their top lip disappears huh ☺️.
@@nicolevalenzuela7102lmaaaooooo yes
I love how Josh was giving Sebas a different perspective and different scenarios and Brandon kept saying “mom” in the background 😂.
😂
I found mine 💕
Marky is officially my fav 😂😂😂 he was too funny this episode!
#MondaysDontSuck 🫶🏼
and super talkative!! loved it!!
Marky, wow! He stole this episode. His confidence shines, so happy he’s become part of the salud family. Good for you!
Commenting on the shy girl topic:
From what I have witnessed, gone through, & have been told by female friends/family members, as a woman meeting her significant other's family & friends, it can be nerve wrecking. When the girlfriend is meeting other women around her for the first time, most other women can be pretty salty. If it's the mother, tias, primas, or the boyfriend's long time female friends, just by knowing you're the new face, they treat you poorly. For men, it's much easier to talk to others, IN GENERAL. This is why men make friends easier than women, or why the female family members are so intrigued with this new face coming around the family. So yes, it is difficult for a girlfriend to come out of her shell, shy or not. Check your friends and family too before bringing someone new along. Check on your girl too when leaving her alone to fed for herself. Not all family and friends are actually as they seem.
Also, this isn't just for the first time, even though I said it was but also the 3rd & 4th times.
💯💯
Yes... his grandma has cut me off in conversation, made me seem like a liar, ignored me, and has done this infront of my bf which he made sure to put me in my place and her in hers, but even his own dad have tried to kick me down MULTIPLE times. I've dealt with them all with kindness JUST because he's my boyfriend. I am extra sweetheart on purpose so they can't say anything. His mother is the only KIND sweet person and his siblings. It's really not fucking easy. excuse my French. lol but yes I agree 100%. My family is the complete opposite, super loving and welcoming and talkative. We meshed families and HIS family and family friends always ask where MY family is. Lol
Facts!!!!!
I think just being shy in general.. doesn’t have to be with meeting the parents .. I’ve had girls that are pretty attractive yet very shy, and it just gets tiring being the one making things exciting. You need someone to put in that effort, or else it becomes exhausting
100% agree w this that’s why when they were talking about it I was like damn kind of harsh but maybe they haven’t put this into perspective or they just have overall great family members!
Growing up I’ve always heard, “los hijos son prestados.” And it’s the truth! You have your kids now but once they grow up they’re going to start their own family and life. I stand by it being your wife, kids and mother. That was a really good topic and loved hearing their point of views. loved this episode ❤️.
Josh “must be nice to have a dad” 😂😂💀💀 literally thought the same thing when he said it 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Same. Anytime somebody says something nice their dad did I’m like must be nice to have a dad
As a mother to a toddler, us mothers need all the support from our partner to run the household. Happy mom = happy wife 🤗
The admiration that Sebas and Brandon have for their dad is so sweet
“I’m just kidding I’m not trying to make that my personality” about not having a dad has me dead 😂 same Josh, same
Im all for the dark humor around the “not having a dad” jokes. I too was raised by a single mom and enjoy throwing that joke out there. Seeing people freak out for a little 😂😂 IYKYK. Great episode guys 👏🏽 #mondaysdontsuck
same girl, i was like josh im with you mah boi! My mother taught us to laugh about everything so all the dad jokes had me rolling!! haaha gotta laugh the trauma away😂😂
YESSS! I found my people 🤣♥️ Josh had me ROTL man it was too good!
Brandon’s mom: “ ta fea” 💀💀😫😫 KILLED ME
As a wife and mommy of 2, my answer would always be marriage, kids, then mom. Kids have no room to flourish and get a good example of what love looks like if we’re not prioritizing our spouses. We will do absolutely everything for our kids but one day as Josh said they’ll be grown and living their lives and we are left with the person we started the journey with. 🤍 Loved hearing everyone’s perspectives though 😂🥰
The way Sebas stopped what he was saying to confirm that he loves his brother ❤
My heart melted 😭
It’s morphin time 😂 Brandon is giving cholo vibes and I’m here for it
He definitely gives bad boy vibes!
Yes but at some point it was too much lol a lil annoying because he kept cutting the other guys.
@@MariaHernandez-lu8gu he also sounded drunk or maybe it's just the way he talks hebdis say he mumbles.
I felt like they were cutting Brandon off
@@amandacisneros2428I think cause he was drunk and sometimes didn’t make sense what he was saying.
I cannot stop going back to 49:19 😂 hahahahaha.. “93 till’ infinity” haha
Sebas : “all faded” 💀
Brandon is cut off from drinking, slurring like a motha😂
1:07:49 I agree with Josh, you don’t always tell your mom everything that happens between you and your partner because if you guys fight your not protecting that person and then you mother will have a bad image of them and make them not like them at all. And then you’ll find yourself asking why they don’t like them.
I like how Brandon is blunt and honest without holding back and holding back because not wanting to get cancelled.
Pleaseeeee make a second part to this segment!! So many different perspectives here and they were the perfect first guests in the new Stu!! I do have to say, Marky Mark stole the show on this one for me. He has this new glow/maturity to him and yet he’s the youngest one. Can’t wait to see more😍
In the Bible it says wife, daughter, mother! When you chose to get married, your vows come first. Putting the children first demolishes the commitment and dishonors your wife! This was a good episode🔥🔥🔥🔥
The blank stares after josh says “KitKat is what Twix wants to be” 💀😂🤣
I’m with Marky on the 100 grands 🥲😂
Thank you Josh for being vulnerable with us about not having a dad, you don’t hear too many talk about it so thank you. My kiddos dad isn’t in his life either, I hope my kiddo thinks of me like you think of your mom and that his dad not being around doesn’t affect him. ♥️
I love Sebas answer to his order because only a parent would understand and he’s not even a parent yet so I know he’s gonna be a great dad. You’re kids are always first saying that in a parent perspective !!
You build your life with your spouse. The way you love and treat each other will be give your children a good life. Also kids eventually leave the nest but your spouse will still be there.
100%!!!
@@Bellajenn88 yess 👏🏼
@@Bellajenn88nah
@@Bellajenn88I agree, also if you have a healthy relationship, your children can see that and hopefully model that for them so theyre never in a bad relationship or atleast an abusive toxic one!
As a wife who has 2 boys & 2 girls. I would feel kinda bad if my husband put our daughters 1st, why because I'm his life partner, one day our kids are going to leave and start their lives. Putting me first is taking care of them too, because my children will see what real love is. As parents we will always be there for our children, but we also can't forget about our relationship. And I wouldn't want my boys to put me 1st before their wives, they have to take care of their partner and kids before me.
Well said! 👏🏼 Couldn’t agree more!
I loved this poddy! I loved y’all’s perspective.From a daughter raised by a single mother she taught me to be independent and made sure I knew how to change my own tire and do my own oil change so I didn’t ‘need’ a man. I’m very blessed for that upbringing because it’s taught me to be very independent and strong. Shout out to all the moms who play the roll of a mom and dad ❤️
Brandon is giving middle child all the way. As a middle child you always take longer to heal from heartaches 😢 because you always put other before you. I can tell Brandon has a huge heart. Sebas and Brandon are me legit. Im a Gemini and the middle child and when im hurt and have to heal it takes me a while. Love Josh and Marky’s relationship and how open they are with each other, emotionally and as siblings. Love this poddy, it shares how as siblings you are all so unique due to your life experiences growing up.
Would love to see both Sebas and Josh’s mothers on here and would also love a poddy where Josh speaks more about how not having a father affected him and made him who he is. I believe many can relate. While I’m here we’d love to see Karen and Morelia on here ❤
I LOVED THIS EPISODE!!! I AM WITH Josh on this one...I believe it's 1.) Spouse 2.) Children and 3.) Parents. My children are going to leave me one day but my husband CHOSE me UNTIL THE DAY I DIE. I have to prioritize him because he's always going to be there. I will be there for my children until I die but there comes a time where they have to create their own lives and family so I'll be there when they need me but my husband is living with me day to day and he has to be my priority.
Marky crying at target. I feel you! That was literally me a few weeks ago. I do instacart and been going through a really bad heartbreak and legit crying and shopping for people at the stores. Its the worse. I even fell on a customers drive way💀😂
This was hilarious 😂😂 Brandon was on a sick one today 😂😂😂
Looks like Sebas won’t be letting Brandon take any shots on his next LP appearance. Great episode guys! 😊
As a mother of 2 boys I would hope that they put their wife and family before me. If they don’t I Would feel like I failed as a mother.
Honestly, I don’t like guys with face tattoos but Brandon… looks fine af making me question if I like guys with tattoos 😭 btw Mark is the guy I would love to bring home to my mom😭❤️
Marky is so cute! Personality wise, looks…. Like I just want him to give me a hug lol 🐻🥰
The way Josh looks at his brother when he is talking about working for Salud you can tell he is super proud of him and grateful for him 😊
I commend sebas for knowing his little bro is much different than him but always keeping him close! I know what it’s like to be different than your siblings and feeling put to the side
Love how sebas was like “it’s not about who’s going to die”when HE brought up that analogy for them to answer 🙃
I agree with sebas, from a woman’s perspective there’s nothing more attractive than seeing a man treat your daughter like a queen becase it sets boundaries for her on how she should be treated by men. It makes you fall in love much deeper with your husband to see that. When you have a family (it going to sound harsh but it’s not) your kids and spouse become your priority over anything then comes your parents.
When mark said “ I don’t want patas in my mouth” killed me 😂
Right 😂💀
Thank you Mark for always being so kind to me, I’m so thankful Josh & Tyler hired you to handle customer service. You’re literally the best ever! My interactions with you have always made me feel so special and it’s an additional reason to why I keep buying salud (other than the brand is amazing!) ♥️
Ohhhhhh, do we need the mom’s to come on? This topic is gold… I can listen to it all day. Let’s go. Mom’s def feel the vibes of who you are dating. Love all the brother’s together. ❤ the topic is hard depending on your life. I def agree with Sebas, daughter, wife, mom if you are married, but like Josh said, once that daughter becomes an adult, the answer def shifts.
Once u all have your kids youll know if you love them more than your significant other or anyone else. When I had my son, ny first child my perspective in life completely changed, and I can tell you that nothing matters more to me than my son.
Josh is so understanding & relatable. He also needs his own podcast😩💙
I’m in my 40’s And I really respect how all of you think when it came to this topic, older men (50’s) and up will always put their mom first over their wife and kids which to me is sad because I’m actually in that situation. As for me it’s my kids, my husband then my parents and anybody else after that. Glad the younger generation has you guys and this podcast, we as Latinos have to break many cycles and I know La plática will help a lot with that. Stay blessed guys and happy holidays 🙏🏽
Im 30 years old born 1993 and unfortunately my dad born 1969 had that mentality. My parents were together til i was 15 years old and all throughout my childhood i heard and experienced my dad putting my mom and us last. His toxic mom came first to him because he said “esposa y hijos donde sea puedo hacer,madre solo una” 🥺 he eventually left my mom and us and never looked for me or my siblings. Now as a married woman and my own child im breaking that generational curse!! Your spouse is your life partner!! So choose wisely. To me its my husband my son then my mom.
hahahaha I’m dead at everyone’s pondering faces when Josh is explaining how Kit Kat wants to be Twix 💀
ME! I was like what 😂
I was looking for this comment 😅. It was so funny 😂
Wow this episode knocked out the water! Everyone was so comfortable in the discussions and I loooved it!! It would be awesome to bring other members in the family! Great job on these conversations especially within our Latin community! My favorite podcast! Congratulations guys!🎉
Brandon had me cracking up today! His revenge answer made me spit out my drink
Josh, I am happy you talk about growing up without a father. My dear cousin did not grow up with a dad but now he is the best/ coolest dad to his 3 sons. He is 33! Successfully with a career, house and beautiful wife. You will be an amazing dad one day and will help heal your in er child! Proud of you Josh, I know it is not easy but thanks for talking about it and helping many people
Brandon is emotionally immature…might be an unpopular opinion
Brandon is hilarious 😂😂😂 that amount of times I actually laughed out loud! I enjoyed this whole podcast the perfect 4 personalites 😂 hope the little brothers be on the podcast more often 😂🔥😁
Brandon is not the brightest bulb in the room but definitely entertaining LOL he has some growing up to do but that’s why we are here on earth Brandon to grown and evolve 😇
This was an unnecessary comment
Fact
You can def see the way the sets of brothers are… josh and mark are very outspoken & prideful lol and sebas and his brother are very observant, sit back and listen to everything. Good duo.
Sebas, your wife should always come first. When you married her, you became one. As long as you and her are good, caring for your daughter and family will be a breeze. Daughter will eventually leave the nest and then it’ll be just you two. That’s why it’s so important to put wife first, maintain that relationship and connection so that you aren’t miserable in your golden years. You want things to talk about and great memories to look back at. Nurture that relationship first! Your kids and mom will thank you for it! ♥️
Feliz Lunes La Plática Fam Bam !
Thanks Giving week is starting off right !!!
Love the new studio !
Bendiciones ! 🙏
Marky after every question “wow.. that’s a great question” 🤣💕 I love having both Marky & Brandon! Enjoyed this one.
the whole not having a dad, thoughts that don’t go through our heads (us kids with no dads) & how calling your brother “half-brother” hurts - was so real & hit close to home.
I THINK THE BROTHERS NEED TO BE WEEKLY GUESTS! MAYBE EVEN BRING THEM ON FULL TIME!!
I hope I can be a mom like josh and Markys personally. And I agree with the order of wife, kids, mom. Your spouse is your partner for life
I can say I’m actually super emotional hitting 1:16:49
Sebas’s take on this is beautiful.
My dad I see as a Man’s Man and he’ll
Personally always take us ( his daughters ) in back home whenever we struggle out here whether it be financially, if we had a bf a it didn’t work out, or if we just need to go back for whatever reason.. my dad always chooses us.
Going to the cliff scenario ( which I thought was funny cus lmao it really didn’t have to go there but IT DID and I liked that you guys still gave answers ) I believe that your mom and wife would look at you and tell you there only one obvious answer here. And it’s your daughter.
The kids are the future.
Bringing up that he‘ll always bring us back home, was for that no matter what, we’ll always be his babies. No matter what age.
And me as a mother, my son & daughter will always be my babies. As in whenever they need me, I’m there. Not saying ima be a toxic mom and ima be all up in there business, I’m just always putting their needs first.
PERSONALLY
Very well said I was getting a bit in my feelings when Josh was saying he’ll only worry about his kids up until they turn 18 you really don’t know until you have kids your whole perspective on life just changes I’m sure he will no longer think that way once he gets the chance to experience fatherhood especially if he were to have a daughter she will be his whole world.
I love Marky and Brandon! This episode had me crying 😂 so much realness. Please have your brothers on a regular!!
Sebas talking about his future kids 🥺 you can just tell he is going to be a great father ❤
My face when Brandon said, “she’s doing the job of a mom and a dad”
: OHH 😳😳😮😮
Shooooook. We’re shoook and I agree with him.
The fact that I’m rewinding to laugh again is incredibly! I love these 4
I love how Sebas is always “for the viewers back at home” he’s always making sure there are clear explanations so we can understand some conversations 🤣🫶🏼
The relationship all these brothers have with eachother is so cool, I love the vibe good times & laughs 😂
Bring them back all the time..
Buenos días La Plática Fam 💕🥳
Monday's dont suck!!! You guys had me laughing at work... this pod made my day sm better haha
Love to see more pods with the little brothers !!
Brandon on this episode is a whole vibe 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I can’t when Josh asks him, if somebody hurts you what would you do😂😂
I love how even though the each set of brothers is really close they are unique in their own way and all of you guys in the podcast makes the 2hrs so enjoyable. You guys have me cracking up and also applauding some of the things you say. Can't wait for round 3! 🤍🙌🏼
Love seeing different perspectives.
I believe that in order for children to be ok, Mom and Dad need to be ok first. So significant other will always come first.
My favorite podcast and Mondays don't suck!! ☺️ I'm gonna watch it later with my coffee ☕️
I love long podcasts. I love LA PLÁTICA SO MUCH! Would like to see a wide angle all 4 ppl in the same frame like if I’m watching a tv show. So many great topics can’t wait for the next episode happy thanksgiving everyone!!!
I love Marky he’s so sweet, funny & genuine. && You guys def need to bring in your moms to the podcast 😁
LMAOOO Josh’s “it’s the way you act” caught me off guard he’s such a Pookie bear!!! 😂😂😂
My favorite episode was the one with your brothers ! Now I have a second favorite ,you all are hilarious ❤🎉😂
The way Josh sees his bro talking about Salud. 👏🏽 a proud big bro.
I’m more than half way in omg this is one of the best episodes and Marky Mark so real for getting his get back, I was dying when he was like “that’s called maturity” I was like yeah couldn’t be me either if I was heartbroken like that😂 great episode b
On the topic of mom, daughter, wife: In my perspective (young 40-year-old lady, 2x married, mother of 2 adults and 1 minor child), I agree 100 percent with Sebas.
Children, Spouse, Parents.
Your children are your children forever, regardless of their age. Your children should rejoice knowing you have their back until your last breath (after that, I'm sure you can watch them from heaven).
Your spouse is essential, but the reality is that there is no guarantee that your spouse will be the person you married and had all these hopes for. I'm not saying that it won't last, but the reality is that, unfortunately, many marriages don't last forever. If you are lucky to have a good spouse, they should and will love your children as much as you do and understand you are putting them first because your kids should be #1 on their list, too.
A mother's love is unconditional. This includes loving you even if she is last on your list. She will love you forever because you are #1 on her list. And like Sebastian says, "She will understand and will want it that way."
A new episode of the #1 Latino Podcast!!! You guys never said that though, I did 🤌🏽 love to see the brothers on again with you guys🙌🏽
I know I can’t be the only but I would love to see an episode with Josh & Sebas Mom! Perspective of a Mother or even talk about their upbringing! 😍🙌🏻
I love how they’re all so different! So fun to watch different personalities in a room. You guys are all wise and hilarious 🫶🏼
This was an awesome podcast. My favorite Indeed! I would of loved to see that Sebas and Brandon called there mom and asked If mom had to be first and get her perspective.