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  • After moving into her new apartment, Lindsay and her entourage begin the arduous task of moving her mountain of possessions into her new home. The tension between Lindsay and her assistant, Matt, is palpable. Despite his attempts to communicate his concerns, Lindsay hasn't allowed Matt the five minutes he's requesting to clear the air. Lindsay accuses him of dropping the ball. Watch as the conversation gets heated. For more on #Lindsay, visit Oprah.com.
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  • @emmetLshavinski
    @emmetLshavinski Před 7 lety +668

    Watch they both storm off to different rooms, open a fortune cookie and switch bodies.

    • @johnsmi213
      @johnsmi213 Před 4 lety +8

      Hilarious.

    • @emmetLshavinski
      @emmetLshavinski Před 4 lety +5

      @@johnsmi213 I don't remember this video or writing this but thanks for reminding me haha

    • @johnsmi213
      @johnsmi213 Před 4 lety

      @@emmetLshavinski I knew that would be weird a notification to appear on a 3 year old comment but it was really clever.

    • @emmetLshavinski
      @emmetLshavinski Před 4 lety

      @@johnsmi213 It's awesome when that happens and I appreciate it

    • @blessedplace9257
      @blessedplace9257 Před 3 lety +1

      😂

  • @RIO0207
    @RIO0207 Před 7 lety +1626

    how did I get here?

    • @menikmati789
      @menikmati789 Před 7 lety +17

      You may find yourself, behind the wheel of a large automobile

    • @acepc2
      @acepc2 Před 7 lety

      menikmati789 all I would seriously hope not lol that's dangerous!

    • @SaucySoviet
      @SaucySoviet Před 7 lety +2

      why is this related to hobbit clips?

    • @ohwhatworld5851
      @ohwhatworld5851 Před 7 lety +13

      Same. The video I was watching before this was the Queens's Diamond Jubilee....

    • @brimyu3443
      @brimyu3443 Před 7 lety +10

      wondering the same. it started with me watching a music video

  • @Derhek
    @Derhek Před 7 lety +1315

    I've been an assistant for a super rich person. I would never have let this happen, and my boss would never have allowed me to argue. This guy is a bad assistant.

    • @theninjacat7200
      @theninjacat7200 Před 5 lety +44

      bad assistant or someone who is gifted at covering up things and doesn't want it played out on camera? he's holding back.

    • @ivideszatigny4163
      @ivideszatigny4163 Před 5 lety +8

      you are a lick shoes

    • @annabanabanana
      @annabanabanana Před 5 lety +17

      Well your boss was probably not doing a reality television show where everything is pretty much made to be dramatic and entertaining. This stuff is not real 😂.

    • @johnsmi213
      @johnsmi213 Před 4 lety +6

      @@johnivi6480 This was a documentary series funded by Oprah. Some reality shows are scripted and they list the writers during the credits. Not every single one is though. I'm sure having the cameras around incentivized people to be more aggressive than they normally would be so they could be seen as stern on the show though.

    • @ia7212
      @ia7212 Před 4 lety +2

      Kagan Roy Not everything is staged.

  • @lorir5728
    @lorir5728 Před 2 lety +208

    She is actually very patient, kind and tolerant. Having that stuff all over would drive me nuts. I agree with her. He's giving attitude

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets Před 10 lety +160

    I agree with her whole heartedly. She is trying to communicate. Regardless of what you think about her, she is trying to improve the communication between them so that such issues don't come up again in future.

  • @josephsimiele107
    @josephsimiele107 Před 9 lety +2166

    I'm actually impressed with her management capabilities. She handled that situation very professionally given the circumstances. She broke down why this was important, explained the opportunities that were available to avoid the incident from happening, and offered a solution. When she felt she was being disrespected, she explained how she felt, explained why, and explained a means to communicate with her allowing what he defined to be his problem to have a solution.
    Many people in management could take a lesson here. Even if this situation was about clothes, it applies to a wide range of problems that may arise.
    I'll probably catch slack for this, but that's okay.

    • @tacomistress
      @tacomistress Před 9 lety +83

      I absolutely agree with you completely! No matter if it was about clothes-- it was his job and she explained it in a very professional manner.

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 Před 8 lety +37

      +Joseph Simiele - It's easy to be right when you're the only person talking. Like with the keys for example. She seemed to be absolutely right about wanting more keys and that it takes 10 minutes. He only spoke for a few seconds in the confessional later and his reason was perfectly justified. It's not 10 minutes of making copies, these keys had to be ordered.

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 Před 8 lety +21

      Luisa Peraza
      The fact that time is linear is "just" an excuse? You do know that once you order something it won't magically appear next to you right?

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 Před 8 lety +28

      Luisa Peraza
      She asked for more keys. She said she asked Friday. Even if it's Thursday, many deliveries take more than a week. Doesn't matter how much time he has. If he placed the order and it's on its way, there's nothing else he can (or should) do.

    • @XavierGMusic
      @XavierGMusic Před 8 lety +21

      +Thing Thang But the driver ended up getting the keys in a matter of minutes because Matt didn't get them.

  • @butterandtoast3
    @butterandtoast3 Před 7 lety +1872

    Why is he even trying to argue with her ! She's paying you!!!

    • @aldobalderas1452
      @aldobalderas1452 Před 7 lety +82

      This is the most stupid argument ive ever heard of

    • @IrfanKhan-resistance
      @IrfanKhan-resistance Před 7 lety +60

      alicia wilson sometimes it's about self respect not just money or materialistic things..

    • @ashleyvalley3946
      @ashleyvalley3946 Před 6 lety +47

      hes arguing because she is allowing it, I would have fired him the first time he started getting fresh.

    • @stephonmills3948
      @stephonmills3948 Před 6 lety +17

      alicia wilson i would of just walked out he’s a person do not speak to him like that employee or not

    • @RonaldWeasleysWife
      @RonaldWeasleysWife Před 6 lety +2

      Abadazad420 Weedmaster can you chill with your hateful crack comments? Go away 😒

  • @moonstruck1022
    @moonstruck1022 Před 9 lety +539

    He was not a good assistant at all. I'm sure she probably needs someone to be firm with her once in a while, but he's just dismissive and kinda rude to her.

    • @JohnKooz
      @JohnKooz Před 8 lety +4

      +Melissa Margis Yeah i agree.

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 Před 8 lety +10

      +Melissa Margis - He took the blame for her wanting specialty keys to be delivered in 10 minutes. He wasn't dismissive. She was just angry for something he had no way of solving.

    • @ericmacleod8605
      @ericmacleod8605 Před 8 lety +5

      +Thing Thang it takes 15 minns to get keys cut. maybe he should of just explained they were special keys, it would take longer etc.

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 Před 8 lety

      Eric MacLeod
      I'm not sure what your point is.

    • @bubblegumbxtchh
      @bubblegumbxtchh Před 3 lety +3

      @@thingthang2904 10 minutes? She said it’s been a week since she has asked him and there have been multiple times of her giving him the keys only for him to not deal with it in a timely manner causing her to constantly get locked out. If he actually had them ordered, why didn’t he just say that?

  • @boxboxboxtriangles3332
    @boxboxboxtriangles3332 Před 9 lety +1572

    She's actually right, and she took care of that professionally.

    • @tdk7388ify
      @tdk7388ify Před 5 lety +3

      Actually?

    • @whatsittoyaa
      @whatsittoyaa Před 3 lety +10

      Teresa Keplinger this is late but yea i mean he’s her assistant it’s his job

    • @MegaNicolemarie
      @MegaNicolemarie Před 3 lety +7

      Umm
      This is absolutely spoiled brat mentality

    • @bubblegumbxtchh
      @bubblegumbxtchh Před 3 lety +10

      @@MegaNicolemarie and on top of that, his attitude definitely wasn’t doing him any favours either. I would never talk to my boss like that. I don’t know who he thinks he is.

    • @oasispeace2722
      @oasispeace2722 Před 3 lety

      @@MegaNicolemarie stfu

  • @sagelovescoffee
    @sagelovescoffee Před 10 lety +1330

    He WORKS for her. He's not a friend doing a favor. So if she wants him to make the damn keys then he needs to make the damn keys. If she wants him to flush her toilet then he better flush the damn toilet for her. Lol he is getting paid to be her assistant. The end.

    • @dania2369
      @dania2369 Před 7 lety +32

      sage eridani i think if somone work as an assistant doesnt mean they r slaves they deserve respect . and nooo flushing toilet is not theire job . it s so mean to ask somone that .for Lindsey i think she didnt do any think wrong with him she didnt even yall or call him names it was just a boss talking to an employee .

    • @brendakeith5079
      @brendakeith5079 Před 7 lety +4

      sage eridani Amen

    • @blackiecat4984
      @blackiecat4984 Před 7 lety +3

      Well said! DO IT MATT

    • @ohwow4377
      @ohwow4377 Před 7 lety +1

      sage eridani I couldn't agree more.

    • @jetnight88
      @jetnight88 Před 7 lety +5

      sage eridani you show them respect and they will respect you back

  • @nzscruffy7171
    @nzscruffy7171 Před 7 lety +133

    In Lidsays defense, the assistant really isn't doing his job. It literally takes 10s to explain the keys are ordered... why does he need 5mins of her undivided attention to explain something so simple? He needs to find another line of work, obviously he's not cut out for the job.

    • @OMGPWNTATOECHIPZ
      @OMGPWNTATOECHIPZ Před 7 lety +7

      The issue is that he can say they're ordered, but she'll still have a fit and say, "Why didn't you just go to the store?" She'll keep finding reasons to get mad and he'll need to explain it all.

    • @user-mi6xo8ke2n
      @user-mi6xo8ke2n Před 2 lety +1

      @@OMGPWNTATOECHIPZ you sound pretty confident you know her personality type. Is that you, Lindsay's family member?

    • @realfan375
      @realfan375 Před rokem +1

      @@user-mi6xo8ke2n if you watch the whole docuseries she is very shifty with her blame and always comes up with excuses. Still love her though

  • @CarolsVideos
    @CarolsVideos Před 7 lety +250

    If I paid someone to fix my car and I brought them my car and left it at the shop and came back the next day and my car wasn't fixed, I'd be upset. If I paid a mover to move my furniture and i said I needed it done by a certain day, and they didn't do it, I'd be upset. She's in the right here.

    • @mygmailpersonalchoices2827
      @mygmailpersonalchoices2827 Před 7 lety +7

      CarolsVideos did u hear thr assistants explanation at the end? Even though the driver probably got keys the assistant was told needed special ordering. Been there. It shouldnt have been so easy to get copies of a High End place's keys

    • @miggidymark
      @miggidymark Před 7 lety +11

      +My Gmail Personal Choices Why does he need 5 minutes to say "hey, got the keys. ..but it'll take a few days because they're specialty ordered"??

    • @watchingsince92
      @watchingsince92 Před 7 lety +1

      Well that's crazy a car doesn't take one day to be fixed just like her keys needed to take a certain period of time be made and arrive once ordered.

    • @BrightS0l
      @BrightS0l Před 7 lety +5

      ^^^He didn't tell her that

    • @mistymitchell2790
      @mistymitchell2790 Před 2 lety

      @@watchingsince92 a car can take a week or more depending on what's wrong with it

  • @EpoH811
    @EpoH811 Před 10 lety +153

    I like the fact that she is using "I feel" sentences! and not just flipping out! That shows she has learned something in her therapy sessions!

  • @OFFICIALDJFLASHBACK
    @OFFICIALDJFLASHBACK Před 6 lety +558

    She's employing him, she's paying him. The way she is talking to him is actually nicer than some employers speak to their employees. She is actually taking the time to explain to him the situation and why she is frustrated with him. She could've fired him on the spot with no explanation and she still would be in the right.

    • @jacobmassey3897
      @jacobmassey3897 Před 3 lety +9

      I'm pretty sure he is already fully aware of why she's pissed with him and this conversation wouldn't have been so specific and calm if the cameras weren't there.

    • @willthompson6193
      @willthompson6193 Před rokem +3

      This is the softest "talking to" I've ever seen. I got yelled at by my old boss worse than this for arriving 29 minutes early instead of 30.

    • @deannamarin318
      @deannamarin318 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@willthompson6193" Have you seen the movie Willard??? Talk about over the top being yelled at!"

  • @mixedlove1234
    @mixedlove1234 Před 5 lety +315

    She needs to write a book about her life... she's been through so much. It's a miracle she's still functioning.

    • @nryanmusic
      @nryanmusic Před 2 lety +9

      you do realize there are thousands of people dealing with the same issues.. that don't have millions of dollars and personal assistants at their disposal? this toxic of culture for feeling bad for celebrities who have 99.9% of the world's wealth when people are on the street is disgusting.

    • @megandunklin6147
      @megandunklin6147 Před 2 lety +3

      It's a miracle she's alive!

    • @jen1748
      @jen1748 Před 2 lety +1

      Look up the video of her getting punched in the face trying to grab the kids from a Syrian family she was really hoping child traffickers based on nothing. Not dysfunctional at all.

    • @mixedlove1234
      @mixedlove1234 Před 2 lety +3

      @@nryanmusic whats ur point? I'm specifically talking about her. Shes been raped, drugged, trafficked, abused, addicted to drugs and alcohol, publicly humiliated to the point where she moved out of the country, her dad told the tabloids she had Aids, grew up in an abusive home with coke addicted parents, her parents didn't raise her, friends sold her out to tabloids....the list goes on and on. This all happened when she was in her late teens early twenties. The fact that she is still alive is a miracle. Not taking away from other people's struggles. Just acknowledging hers.

    • @nryanmusic
      @nryanmusic Před 2 lety +1

      @@mixedlove1234 my point is exactly what I said. Do u know how people grow up in the same environments or worse? And they don't have millions of dollars at their disposal they usually end up dead, on the streets or in jail. So let oprah pay for her 14000 a month apt and let her hire whoever's she needs because she can afford anything (hello private club in greece) and let's focus on the rest of the world who is dying because they have no resources.

  • @7saany
    @7saany Před 7 lety +673

    hes being rude. he was hired for something and he didnt.

    • @7saany
      @7saany Před 7 lety +11

      i agree with her

    • @nikkid4890
      @nikkid4890 Před 7 lety

      7saany I do too!

    • @Nicole-em7iv
      @Nicole-em7iv Před 7 lety +28

      then he should have made that clear from the beginning, he had the opportunity to speak but he keeps saying nonsense. there is obviously a communication issue here

    • @elizabeth5614
      @elizabeth5614 Před 5 lety +1

      You need to watch it properly!

  • @miickeyzreal
    @miickeyzreal Před 5 lety +71

    None of them disrespected each other. This is probably the best argument I’ve seen in reality tv!

  • @goldengungirlz
    @goldengungirlz Před 7 lety +55

    Well, She's speaking to him like a boss speaks to an employee who messed up..
    Oh wait..
    I saw nothing wrong with this really.

    • @goldengungirlz
      @goldengungirlz Před 7 lety +2

      Closet Organizer.
      Copy of the Keys.
      Lack of communication between him and the rest of her team.
      I didn't say she was a good boss, but she is his boss.
      She's paying extremely good money to be on top of all this and (unfortunately) deal with her diva attitude.
      He knew what the job entailed, and if it's to much for him then he should move to less high maintenance.

    • @EGarrett01
      @EGarrett01 Před 7 lety +1

      Vault Tec
      He sent the keys to be copied, but they couldn't be done immediately. You can tell from what she says that she doesn't know that, she doesn't give him a chance to tell her these things, AND obviously she has an attitude that makes him reluctant to be honest with her. Those are all her problem.

    • @goldengungirlz
      @goldengungirlz Před 7 lety +2

      Yes. He did send them off the second time he was asked too. It's also mentioned that she made another assistant get the keys because like you said, she didn't know he sent it off to get copied.
      Now she's going to have to pay for extra keys, because of the miscommunication that she's unaware of at the time in this video.
      Again, I'll reiterate.
      He's getting paid A LOT of money to be on top of this stuff and get communication across.
      If he's afraid to communicate (Whether she's the problem or not), he needs a new job.
      He's not performing the job she hired him for.

    • @goldengungirlz
      @goldengungirlz Před 7 lety +1

      I'm not defending her actions.
      I'm a team leader and would never talk to my coworkers that way.
      But I didn't privately hire them to handle the stress of my personal life...
      She was born with this diva like life style, born into a rich family. It's her personality type unfortunately, and he should have known that upon being hired.

    • @EGarrett01
      @EGarrett01 Před 7 lety +2

      Vault Tec
      I don't know what he's getting paid, but in my time working in LA, most assistants weren't getting paid much at all.

  • @kreep182
    @kreep182 Před 6 lety +35

    I think she handled it perfectly. She didnt raise her voice too much, and clearly explained why she was dissapointed. Thats how a decent employer should act.

  • @danielclarke5743
    @danielclarke5743 Před 7 lety +155

    the only thing that goes through my mind now is how much pepsi paid to be in this video

  • @direfranchement
    @direfranchement Před 9 lety +496

    I could never be anyone's personal assistant. Forget that.

  • @cheery-hex
    @cheery-hex Před 9 lety +1106

    he is being disrespectful in both tone and action though. I wouldn't stand for someone who works for me talking to me like that

    • @Lizestechreviews
      @Lizestechreviews Před 6 lety +18

      theAbeElement especially since getting payed $75,000 a year from her.

    • @AandP4dummieslikeme
      @AandP4dummieslikeme Před 6 lety +20

      $75K? Did she fire him? Is the position open now? LOL

    • @passionskayandmiguel
      @passionskayandmiguel Před 6 lety +12

      He wasn’t being disrespectful or rude in my opinion. In fact it felt like he was holding a lot back that he could’ve said since she was blaming him for something that wasn’t his fault. However it was hella annoying that he didn’t convey that to her. Like did he think taking the blame would make the situation better for her? No.

    • @eliocosmos
      @eliocosmos Před 5 lety +2

      justcallme... Inquire within!

    • @luizadmochowska3600
      @luizadmochowska3600 Před 5 lety

      Mabye she likes it?

  • @jadebruce4091
    @jadebruce4091 Před 8 lety +29

    All of you people saying she os self absorbed or selfish. This is HIS JOB that's what He's getting paid for... Yes she can fold her own clothes , but she didn't want to , so she hired someone to do the job, and he didn't do it. On top of not doing his job he is giving disrespect! That's like having. Plumber come to your house to fix a leak, and he doesn't do what you asked/ paid him to do... You could do it yourself, but you hired someone to do which means you're taking money out of your pocket for someone to do something for you, and then they don't do it, and on top give you attitude...🤔

  • @DunhillX1
    @DunhillX1 Před 7 lety +76

    She's a fabulous manager. My manager used to SCREAM [and I mean scream] at me in-front of everyone if something didn't work for her. Lindsay's tone was irritated yet professional and that's what makes her a good manger. It's all in the communication.

  • @estheryema
    @estheryema Před 10 lety +764

    He is RUDE! WHOA! If he knew he ordered it, why not say it then, instead of keeping that info to himself. Smh nd Lindsay's right, the way he's talking to her, uh uh! i'd fire him!

    • @moonunit1980
      @moonunit1980 Před 10 lety +43

      Wah poor little rich girl can't fold her own clothes.

    • @beautybynajah
      @beautybynajah Před 10 lety +40

      THANK YOU ESSIE! Lindsay is too nice! He doesn't respect her! I'd fire him too for the simple reason that you're too close to me to be causing that type of tension and emotional strain! You hire a personal assistant to make your life easier NOT HARDER! I can do bad all by myself smh!

    • @ja3724
      @ja3724 Před 6 lety +2

      He's one of the best Celeb PA's in the world he gets paid $20,000 per month and works for Ariana Grande. She was being rude, how can he do his job if she won't speak to him... DIVA

    • @Apryll.
      @Apryll. Před 6 lety +14

      The best PA in the world cant mange a simple move in

    • @ASmith-jn7kf
      @ASmith-jn7kf Před 6 lety +4

      She needs a female assistant.

  • @SamSharma
    @SamSharma Před 10 lety +36

    I'm on her side.... He is incompetent.

  • @ladyghille
    @ladyghille Před 7 lety +206

    I actually agree with Lindsay . She pay him to Do a job he doesnt Do . And if he cant take that job he Should quit . Thats the life of a personal assistent

  • @XxMyLameUserNamexX
    @XxMyLameUserNamexX Před 7 lety +17

    As an executive assistant, I'm shocked he isn't immediately apologetic. I would have been fired so fast.

  • @jazzhill
    @jazzhill Před 7 lety +50

    Come on Matt you had one job

  • @dongjohnson3336
    @dongjohnson3336 Před 7 lety +38

    If they were specialty keys how was the driver able to go down and make copies so fast without ordering them?

    • @viceb7
      @viceb7 Před 4 lety +4

      Exactly. How did noone notice that? What the hell is specialty keys?

  • @marthasuper1801
    @marthasuper1801 Před 6 lety +48

    if i were her, i fired him right away. she is patient enough 😂

  • @jfour2zero
    @jfour2zero Před 7 lety +334

    I mean if she's paying people to do certain things for her they should get done point blank period. Like she said she's there boss. I get things done for my boss, and get paid for it. Simple. The money isn't coming out of anyone else's bank account but hers so when the jobs aren't getting done the boss gets mad right ? Simple. People expect too much in this era. Do your job and shut up don't like it change it

    • @iamhere0101
      @iamhere0101 Před 7 lety +3

      as far as I know, these were particular keys. I worked in a locksmith's shop and I know that it takes some time to make those keys for sure. So if you want a copy, you definitely need to be patient. Hence, it is not his fault but at least he could have explained himself.

    • @jfour2zero
      @jfour2zero Před 7 lety +10

      little sunshine idk. It seemed easy enough for her driver to go get copy's than her own assistant which was asked of him 5 days ago and he's too concerned with having his 5 minutes

    • @iamhere0101
      @iamhere0101 Před 7 lety +2

      Jfour2zero sometimes there are companies who are solely repsonsible to make copies, so it does take longer... maybe it applies to this case, too? All I want to say is that since I've worked there I can understand where the assistant is coming from.

    • @jfour2zero
      @jfour2zero Před 7 lety +9

      little sunshine I understand the assistant too I get that he ordered them and it can take a few days. But then she said her driver went and got them no problem

    • @charlescooperderose8872
      @charlescooperderose8872 Před 6 lety

      JFour2zero it’s their not there.

  • @1990iRock
    @1990iRock Před 8 lety +57

    How can you have an argument with your assistant? Fire him and take one that can communicate normally, no matter how difficult the boss is.

    • @EGarrett01
      @EGarrett01 Před 7 lety +2

      No assistant you hire will be perfect when you are a bad boss. That's why she's having an argument. I guarantee it's the same with whoever she hires.

  • @joshuamegill646
    @joshuamegill646 Před 10 lety +98

    She wasn't being rude or nasty to him. He continued to talk back to her when he could have just said "Yes, mam." and the conversation couldn't have over a lot sooner.

    • @Townie7177
      @Townie7177 Před 5 lety +1

      Maam?maam is said usually to someone you dont know and am trying to be nice. I'm aware that this comment is 4 years old as well

    • @disneydarling
      @disneydarling Před 3 lety +6

      @@Townie7177 it's actually a short for "Madame" which was the proper way to address your employer in a home/service setting. Saying "yes, mam," is a shortened version of this and sign of respect. The tradition is still very prevalent in the south.

  • @GFINHK
    @GFINHK Před 8 lety +565

    He needs to be fired. With that attitude & disrespect, he needs to find another line of work. If you're working for me, you do as I say. If you're not comfortable, quit. Simple as that. I pay you to work, not to talk.

    • @609InYourCoffeeMaker
      @609InYourCoffeeMaker Před 8 lety +8

      GFINHK As edgy as they come, I see.

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 Před 8 lety +18

      +GFINHK - "Do as I say"? What if what you are saying is to travel through time to make a delivery go faster. She got upset without letting him talk and then insulted him by saying he is taking his own personal issues and projecting them on her.

    • @Diana-mo6mg
      @Diana-mo6mg Před 8 lety +28

      +Thing Thang Yea she's getting annoyed because he didn't get the keys, but in actual fact he had ordered them and they were on the way. Except she wouldn't let him get a word in edgeways to say that. Her whole mental breakdown could have been avoided if she had just asked where the keys were and let him answer.

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 Před 8 lety +2

      Diana Winslow
      exactly

    • @RBrown-xd9nc
      @RBrown-xd9nc Před 8 lety +18

      +Thing Thang He looked like he was going to cry. I felt bad for him. He is a human being, not a slave.

  • @darrianowens4579
    @darrianowens4579 Před 3 lety +37

    I love that she tells him “ let me get angry for a second” yes GIRL BOSS!!

  • @Woeismyhoe
    @Woeismyhoe Před 8 lety +54

    It's funny how people are saying she needs to wear a bra... When they don't even wear one at home lol she's in her own house, so why does she need to wear them? Same reason as you all girls who don't

    • @miidysama9908
      @miidysama9908 Před 8 lety +8

      Well, I would definitely wear a bra if someone were to hold a camera at me.

    • @jamescutter212
      @jamescutter212 Před 8 lety +6

      she's just at home? lol and in front of the world at the same time huh

    • @miidysama9908
      @miidysama9908 Před 8 lety +2

      Blahblah Blah Honestly, I didn't even realize she wasn't wearing a bra so there's that.
      I wish she wasn't broke and drug addicted now (or is she clean again?), I really loved her movies.

    • @lionredoux7231
      @lionredoux7231 Před 7 lety +2

      I don't think this video would have nearly as many views if it wasn't for the fact that she wasn't wearing a bra.

    • @mykioto
      @mykioto Před 7 lety

      They all uncomfortable with someone else's beauty.

  • @mlady6564
    @mlady6564 Před 4 lety +3

    I mean, he's not asking for something ridiculous. Just 10 minutes worth of pow wows every day.

  • @bilalahmed2123
    @bilalahmed2123 Před 7 lety +31

    When you pay someone to do a job and they don't do it and then show attitude. I would fire them, right at the spot. Lindsay is actually being quite professional about it and going out of control like some celebrities would !

  • @spicyspaghetti5627
    @spicyspaghetti5627 Před 7 lety +145

    Why did Oprah post this

  • @lourie966
    @lourie966 Před 9 lety +41

    Wow he is so disrespectful. You work FOR her, you are getting paid to work for her.

  • @user-lq9es6wm9s
    @user-lq9es6wm9s Před rokem +10

    I cannot get over how rude and disrespectful her assistant is. He’s trying to make her look bad😢

  • @woodczarful
    @woodczarful Před 7 lety +30

    Bottom line, he didn't show results.

  • @eliocosmos
    @eliocosmos Před 7 lety +54

    I could have folded the clothes for them (for free) in the time it took them to argue over it. 😒

  • @stephaniejones6341
    @stephaniejones6341 Před 10 lety +39

    I am an assistant too. If my boss sends me a list of stuff to do then I likely need time to ask a lot of questions because it seems easy for the boss to fire off a bunch of nonsensical information in an email. The problem is that leads to questions. Intelligent questions that need to be answered by the boss person. When you go to the boss person they think it is a real imposition that you are there, but truth is you are there to solve all their problems but you need clarification. 5 min. in the morning and 5 min. in the evening is brilliant!! Bosses take note!!! 5 min. 5 minutes. You cannot give 5 minutes to your support staff so they get clarification!!!??? That is like shooting yourself in the foot.

  • @vanessavay
    @vanessavay Před 7 lety +18

    ohmygod he talks back to everything, dude she's your boss just do what she wants

  • @annielove8603
    @annielove8603 Před rokem +4

    Fire him

  • @personoutsidemywindow6417
    @personoutsidemywindow6417 Před 8 lety +22

    If she's his boss, he doesnt need 5 morning in the minutes and 5 at night. An emailed list of things needed should be done annnnd accomplished. I've worked and managed several crews, I couldnt imagine dealing with this in the hollywood world, even if he were only a minimum wage worker. crazy.

    • @KayKay114
      @KayKay114 Před 7 lety +6

      He actually told her this before she hired him. This is what I need to do my job, 10 minutes to talk to you, 5 in the morning and 5 in the evening. She agreed and hired him. That was the deal when he was hired and once again Lindsay is not coming through on her part.

  • @_Mr.D
    @_Mr.D Před 8 lety +36

    Despite the stuff that may have been out of his control, the actual blow up was totally on HIM. She was understanding that things happen, BUT then he goes on to say :55 and that's when it went south! If he had just said a :55 "I am sorry Lindsay I will get it all taken care of" then stop talking

    • @brainwashed2390
      @brainwashed2390 Před 6 lety

      0:55

    • @barritoothy
      @barritoothy Před 4 lety

      Dan Farrar nope. The keys were on the way. Can you see. Or you saw the comments

  • @sophiesgem
    @sophiesgem Před 10 lety +17

    What she got to worry about..having a breakdown,staying off drugs, not going to the latest club/party.....Badgering...Get a grip...

  • @markwheeler8041
    @markwheeler8041 Před 9 lety +114

    Celebrities are high maintenance...this guy is not suited to be working for her!

    • @ford2219
      @ford2219 Před 8 lety

      Loved your comment dude haha

    • @thingthang2904
      @thingthang2904 Před 8 lety +1

      +Mark Wheeler - Why? What did he do wrong?

    • @GodsDe
      @GodsDe Před 7 lety +3

      * Thing Thang --He didn't really do anything wrong, he's just not willing to take her crap!

    • @barritoothy
      @barritoothy Před 4 lety

      Inspiration Station cuz there are no copies of a key

  • @candicemcneil5854
    @candicemcneil5854 Před 5 lety +6

    God I wish I could yell at someone else for MY mess

    • @Parisroam
      @Parisroam Před 5 lety +1

      It's different if you pay somebody to take care of it for you and they dont do it. Im sure you'd be upset as well

    • @MegaNicolemarie
      @MegaNicolemarie Před 3 lety

      @@Parisroam hahahah
      Really?
      She's acting like a tyrant

    • @mxhsvn_b7866
      @mxhsvn_b7866 Před 3 lety +1

      @@MegaNicolemarie tyrant? Do you live in the sky or sumn

  • @emilymccormack4
    @emilymccormack4 Před 10 lety +5

    Instead of wasting her damn time arguing she could go organize the clothes herself.

    • @chugcee
      @chugcee Před 10 lety +1

      Why should she have to? she is paying them

    • @MegaNicolemarie
      @MegaNicolemarie Před 3 lety

      @@chugcee it's disgustingly privileged

  • @james5460
    @james5460 Před 9 lety +6

    She's not communicating, she's ranting. She's not trying to understand, she's convicting and berating him.
    If you think this is cute, you never worked for someone like that.

  • @charlottefisher2150
    @charlottefisher2150 Před 8 lety +56

    I love Lindsay in freaky Friday:)

  • @optimisticgrl
    @optimisticgrl Před 9 lety +10

    I know non-famous people who would have exploded and fired that assistant. I did not expect Lindsay to be this nice.

  • @MsMeowBaby
    @MsMeowBaby Před rokem +28

    She handled that very well. She is a great comminicator and, she looks really good now. She's come a long way. She shares Zendaya's stylist now, so her comeback is gonna be wonderful. She married now and seems like she's in a very good place. I'm happy for her.

  • @newfoundlandjb35
    @newfoundlandjb35 Před 8 lety +20

    she being kind.she not rude.man rude need be fired

    • @6969Nicole
      @6969Nicole Před 7 lety +2

      Jonathan Jesso I make fire.. You sit

    • @nikkid4890
      @nikkid4890 Před 7 lety

      Jonathan Jesso Amen!

  • @ash_emu
    @ash_emu Před 3 lety +6

    As someone who works for a ridiculously busy boss whose attention I can't get to ask him things and clarify things, I do understand where he's coming from.

  • @Giggidygiggidy12
    @Giggidygiggidy12 Před 7 lety +9

    Kids the lesson here is organize your own life, put your own things away and you won't have to rely on anyone else to do your tasks. If you can't do it yourself why should someone else

  • @MoshPitKiss
    @MoshPitKiss Před 10 lety +7

    With all those clothes, you'd think she could afford A DAMN BRA.

  • @josephstoney5735
    @josephstoney5735 Před 7 lety +7

    I'll never get my 5 minutes back. Awful.

    • @mikejones2405
      @mikejones2405 Před 7 lety +2

      you could have stopped watching at literally any moment

  • @LolaClo
    @LolaClo Před 7 lety +10

    I hope the assistant got another job. What an abusive work relationship!

  • @jamesdolan4042
    @jamesdolan4042 Před 8 měsíci +2

    How is this private discourse being recorded for our public consumption?

  • @hertin57
    @hertin57 Před 10 lety +12

    Its understandable that she act this way, she pays these guys with her own money.

  • @Caroljq410
    @Caroljq410 Před 10 lety +13

    If he was my assistant he would've been long gone.

    • @TimelineProvision
      @TimelineProvision Před 10 lety +1

      it's not easy to just get rid of an assistant. the person has to be somebody you can trust. there are so many wierdo assistants out there. some are undercover who work for the media and before you know it. your exposed as hell.

  • @mearip6116
    @mearip6116 Před 7 lety +14

    Lol. ..over a key

  • @ava2099
    @ava2099 Před 7 lety +4

    he just had to listen and recognize his fails thats it...

  • @informationyes
    @informationyes Před 9 lety +197

    This is not something that need to be recorded nor anything to do with a person trying to get better.

  • @acepc2
    @acepc2 Před 7 lety +4

    Lol why was this recommended? Idk but it was still hilarious

  • @Ruby-sw8hh
    @Ruby-sw8hh Před 6 lety

    I can't believe we had to analyse this for our English language spoken language essay 😂

  • @priscillanottelling9698
    @priscillanottelling9698 Před 8 lety +10

    She was very professional about this and he should feel lucky she didn't fire him on the spot.

  • @Ultradude604
    @Ultradude604 Před 7 lety +70

    She gets an incompetent assistant because she doesn't have the money to pay a good one nowadays.

  • @qwertyu147
    @qwertyu147 Před 7 lety +5

    the guy has no idea to be a personal assistant, his job is to be there so she doesnt have to think. He needs to be spoon fed every time something needs doing

  • @Onmysheet
    @Onmysheet Před 9 lety +33

    Sponsored by Evian and Pespi.

  • @Kiiddy
    @Kiiddy Před 4 lety

    Where can I watch the entire full series? I can't find it anywhere and it doesn't let you watch it on Oprah's site in the UK. If anyone knows a place to watch it, please let me know!

  • @NisaLavigne93
    @NisaLavigne93 Před 10 lety +13

    I really respect Lindsay for her confidence. I think she is right because the guy supposed to make things easy for her and she is the one who give the paycheck. So the guy must do his job, whatever reason he has!!! If I'm a celebrity who has money and hire people to organize, I would definitely do that too! That's what closet stylist, organizer for!

    • @barbaracaroll
      @barbaracaroll Před rokem

      Right he's employed by her and boy does this girl have a chest whew

  • @sadiecherish9509
    @sadiecherish9509 Před 7 lety +9

    It seems like they have crappy communication with each other in general. Her saying she doesn't have time for him doesn't make sense. How is he supposed to do all of these things FOR HER without HER input? It just doesn't make sense. He should have also interjected that the keys were something that required a special order. Also, her calling someone out like that in front of other people, much less cameras, is not going to help him be more productive. There are different ways to get through to someone.

    • @hot4fi
      @hot4fi Před 3 lety

      THIS. All of it.

  • @johnyvanrhedcastro2203
    @johnyvanrhedcastro2203 Před 7 lety +3

    "but this way friday matt! this was friday!"
    freaky friiiidayyyy!!!

  • @fayevalentine1598
    @fayevalentine1598 Před 5 lety

    Lol they argue like a married couple hahaha

  • @riskdanny3710
    @riskdanny3710 Před 10 lety +15

    He should get fired

    • @eugt378
      @eugt378 Před 10 lety +2

      agreed, shes the boss.
      he shld get the facts right

    • @anwarrazali2832
      @anwarrazali2832 Před 5 lety

      He just made the list

  • @msyasmine25
    @msyasmine25 Před 10 lety +9

    Lindsey is right though! He works for Lindsey not the other way around. He should have told her about having to get special keys made when she first brought it up. He sitting there with an attitude the whole time while she is speaking. He was wrong. As an assistant you are to do whatever she wants you to do. If you don't want to do it then quit.

  • @MikhailKalashnikovMiG
    @MikhailKalashnikovMiG Před 8 lety +5

    I don't think Lindsay was unreasonable at all. But being a personal assistant, you need to get your attitude in check. Talking back and being dismissive of what your boss is saying is completely unprofessional and you should quit if you're not happy with your job. You may be equals as humans but never forget that you're still the employee and ranked below your boss. I would've fired the man on the spot.

  • @r1pp3dx
    @r1pp3dx Před 7 lety +10

    Ohh, I get it now. To celebrities, something as simple as moving is like rocket science.

  • @fian1286
    @fian1286 Před 10 lety +6

    That conversation shouldn't have happened with an audience

  • @deaditeera
    @deaditeera Před 7 lety +5

    She seems really calm and professional here I did not expect that 👏

  • @EvieMatavelli
    @EvieMatavelli Před 7 lety +9

    Assistant is lying he didn't get the keys. During the conversation he said give me time and then during his face to face interview he said he had done and he needed to get them picked up. If that was the case why he didn't bring up during the conversation. I don't like how he talks back. He acts like he is the boss.

    • @WintersArcher
      @WintersArcher Před 7 lety +4

      He did not get the keys because they were not ready. Special made keys are ordered. She needs to listen and she doesnt. He is standing his ground and letting her know to give him at least 10 minutes in 24 hours for her to shut up.

  • @CharleneNicole
    @CharleneNicole Před 2 lety +1

    These aren't arguments you should be having with someone that you're paying to be your ASSISTANT!!!

  • @rkent06
    @rkent06 Před 7 lety +554

    Loads of clothes but couldn't find a bra to put on

    • @B5s4
      @B5s4 Před 7 lety +83

      rkent06 your saying this like that's a bad thing!!

    • @aghost9614
      @aghost9614 Před 7 lety +7

      Jack StylesX not me

    • @diamond852
      @diamond852 Před 7 lety +70

      She gets to wear what she wants.

    • @KatanaPrincess
      @KatanaPrincess Před 7 lety +92

      rkent06 ur obviously not a girl. She's in her own house 100% of women take off their bra when we get home it's relaxing.

    • @sangtalkidsangtalkid1976
      @sangtalkidsangtalkid1976 Před 7 lety +10

      But why complain!!

  • @dannilevil
    @dannilevil Před 6 lety +8

    I absolutely get that he needs time with his boss to know what is expected, if I don’t get directions of what my boss wants then I can’t do my job. She has no ownership of anything, yes! She’s paying him, Yes! She’s his boss but she doesn’t seem to communicate with her assistant and when that happens then he can’t do his job

    • @pg-jq7ws
      @pg-jq7ws Před 6 lety +1

      Yup! This.

    • @AW-rv8nm
      @AW-rv8nm Před rokem

      But also like… I feel a personal assistant should have the skill of anticipating needs? He can see all of her clothes out in disarray. Making sure she lives in a clean and organized space seems like a basic expectation that doesn’t really need explanation. Whether he outsources that task or does it himself, that’s his job to handle it. She’s got other, bigger things to worry about, such as her projects and ventures that keep her team paid. I would’ve found a new assistant personally.

  • @KyraSchaeffer
    @KyraSchaeffer Před rokem +1

    Why doesn't she organize her own damn clothes like the rest of us have to. lol

  • @ericstranz1819
    @ericstranz1819 Před rokem +1

    Hes lucky she wasn't drunk and chucked a bottle of jack daniels at him

  • @anjih5297
    @anjih5297 Před 2 lety +3

    Poor Matt. He's literally begging for 5 minutes in the morning for LINDSAY'S benefit, so that she knows things are getting done and doesn't need to stress about it.

  • @nadzio0o
    @nadzio0o Před 9 lety +3

    I'm actually enjoying this argument! So entertaining. 😄

  • @jimmies327
    @jimmies327 Před 3 lety +1

    He just doesn’t look like he can be very productive in that 3 piece suit.

  • @gibbygoober2864
    @gibbygoober2864 Před 3 měsíci +3

    To be fair she’s not really going crazy she’s trying her best to be articulate and mature and it looks hard for her. I relate

  • @bryonyhigginson7247
    @bryonyhigginson7247 Před 9 lety +95

    Can someone please tell me how I watch the whole of the documentary of her???? Thankyou

    • @bryonyhigginson7247
      @bryonyhigginson7247 Před 9 lety +2

      ***** wow thank you very much ! :)

    • @raselapotae7810
      @raselapotae7810 Před 9 lety

      True

    • @hmk5936
      @hmk5936 Před 9 lety +17

      ***** your website navigation makes no sense. I tried to watch and it just sent me to all the videos from the own network.

    • @TheMeh2011
      @TheMeh2011 Před 8 lety +9

      +OWN Literally no way to watch the show in full at all is there - so why didnt you just say that.

    • @NiGHTMAREiN3D
      @NiGHTMAREiN3D Před 8 lety +1

      +GR Burke Sorry Lindsay...We'll Take The Hit... Anything Else We Can't Do For You??

  • @TheTruthiest
    @TheTruthiest Před 7 lety +5

    Sounds like someone who's done too much therapy without learning anything and is now trying to therapize the people in her life.

  • @CalThePlantWitch92
    @CalThePlantWitch92 Před 2 lety +1

    She HAAAAATES confrontation, the shake, the fast speaking.

  • @PenguinsGalore55d1
    @PenguinsGalore55d1 Před 8 lety +3

    how many times is the word "keys" repeated