Career Change: The Questions You Need to Ask Yourself Now | Laura Sheehan | TEDxHanoi

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  • Having successfully navigated the challenges of finding employment in seven countries over the span of 15 years, Laura guides you through her journey and provides tips on how to find success...wherever you are. Laura E.P. Sheehan - Career Strategist and Founder of E.P. Career Strategies
    Laura is a U.S. lawyer turned expat career strategist who stumbled upon her life’s calling whilst living in Hanoi. Having decided years ago to accompany her husband in his international career moves, Laura has lived in seven countries over the span of 15 years. Mere weeks into her time in Hanoi, Laura seized upon a new opportunity to utilize her experiences to empower the wider global community of “trailing spouses.” In the two short years that she has been in Vietnam, she has successfully made a full transition into the role of a global career strategist. Laura was recently recognized by the Associates of the American Foreign Service Worldwide (AAFSW) as a top nominee for the 2017 “Champion of Career Enhancement for Eligible Family Members (CCE-EFM)” Award and was featured in the AAFSW’s January 2018 edition of Global Link. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 591

  • @diamondunicorn2421
    @diamondunicorn2421 Před 3 lety +838

    I’m changing careers after two decades at the same job. It’s like a divorce. You can’t just get out there and date again. You have to find you again. And transition into something your comfortable with and be able to grow in other directions. I often feel pressured to do what other ppl want me to do. But I’m finding my own niche and direction. Thanks for your video. It’s helpful.

    • @dm8127
      @dm8127 Před 2 lety +7

      Thanks for your comment. Similar situation here.
      Question for you - what are you finding helpful in your quest to "find you" again and also find that right next career?
      Thank you.

    • @phillipwee3631
      @phillipwee3631 Před 2 lety +12

      Diamond, I’m in the same boat. Got laid off after exactly 20 years at the same place. It’s only been a month, but I’ve only now begun to find me again, as I’d lost who I was gradually. I’m looking inward, finding my true self now.

    • @jaybivens8734
      @jaybivens8734 Před 2 lety +5

      That is exactly what I needed to read right now. Im scared to be honest!

    • @DougsTea
      @DougsTea Před 2 lety +8

      I am 38 and its daunting changing careers.

    • @imanmekni231
      @imanmekni231 Před 2 lety

      11¹¹

  • @markinson561
    @markinson561 Před rokem +44

    Graduated with a BS in criminology. Worked as. Director at Boys n Girls Club then middle school reading teacher then personal trainer then juvenile program case manager then after school program director now truck driver. Be the best at what u do, maintain a good attitude and build connections. God knows the plan… Just keep working hard n smart n stay prayed up💯

  • @lucaswaring7472
    @lucaswaring7472 Před rokem +121

    Here’s to all the career changers out there! It’s worth it to follow your passion and do what you love despite what others may think. Changing careers is never easy but if it’s a change that will make you happier and better person, then it’s always worth it!

    • @chefe2152
      @chefe2152 Před rokem +1

      I'm here in bit different situations. Presently I do.what I love,im chef,not really cooking anymore but executive chef,more managing and hr stuff than grilling a steak,but im getting to the point when im fed up with it,the type of challenges, trust me they are particular, politics ..... anyway,I'm considering my love for trade to something that will pretty much guarantee me weekend off and 8 hurs shift ,while having 2 kids and family. Not sure if im doing it for the right reasons?

    • @debbiegum2226
      @debbiegum2226 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Teacher for almost 25 years and I walked away from it. Trying to decide what to do next. A big part of me feels guilty for leaving the profession

    • @awuoromollo4010
      @awuoromollo4010 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@debbiegum2226 am counterplating, leaving finance and doing nursing course.

  • @gayatri-ydkh
    @gayatri-ydkh Před 2 lety +72

    Key points -
    Don’t sacrifice your potential for anyone or anything or it brews resentment.
    Keep asking yourself “if you could do anything what would it be” at every stage of life.
    Don’t stick to one idea of who you could be. Grow more perspectives.
    3 tips -
    1. Be open to and ready for change
    (12-15 careers per person is normal. Change is growth)
    2. Embrace the experiences ditch the title.
    (Your work as an artist portfolio. Every part and whole, complete in themselves.)
    3. Make meaningful connections.
    (85% jobs are filled by word of mouth. Tell the world what you wanna do so when a opening comes they think of you.)
    Keep asking people how did they come to be here and if they could do anything what would it be.

    • @ntildesley2071
      @ntildesley2071 Před 14 dny

      This was the worst ted talk I've ever listened to. She oozes privilege! What on earth... Speaking to Vietnamese people too urgh to much cringe

  • @eIevenG
    @eIevenG Před 5 lety +847

    Changing jobs is an asset.
    Changing jobs increases the ability to solve problems.
    It shows adaptability.
    Develop and adapt skills to solve life’s challenges.
    Make meaningful connections.
    Actual conversations.
    Find success.
    Personal connection.

    • @minhyukismxskey7286
      @minhyukismxskey7286 Před 5 lety +6

      Bro, that I wrote in my dairy while listening....that is her point, by the way not everyone has this capability cause it comes under creativeness...

    • @bichlien9533
      @bichlien9533 Před 5 lety +4

      lean responses, nice moves ^^

    • @lozkokaramitev8027
      @lozkokaramitev8027 Před 5 lety +3

      Lovely Video clip! Apologies for butting in, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you researched - Chiveard Discovering Potential Framework (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is an awesome one off guide for finding your true calling and achieving success without the headache. Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my BF got cool results with it.

    • @FoodTraveleroya
      @FoodTraveleroya Před 5 lety +6

      I agree Mike. I like the way you wrote it. I recently changed my job. Just great. I began tubing food videos.

    • @sarasparacino5600
      @sarasparacino5600 Před 5 lety +3

      I needed to read this. thank you.

  • @lailaalfaddil7389
    @lailaalfaddil7389 Před 10 měsíci +217

    The greater the automated income you can build, the freer you will become. Taking the first step is the hardest, but 5 houses later living off automated income since July 6, 2016. You’ve got to start taking steps to achieve your goal.

    • @lailaalfaddil7389
      @lailaalfaddil7389 Před 10 měsíci

      Wow!!! I know *ROCH DUNGCA-SCHREIBER* and I have been growing with her since 2017. Her expertise has been the best for my financial journey. I have created a passive income over the years and life feels really better and easy for me. I feel so delighted to read these good reviews about her

  • @262.8.7
    @262.8.7 Před 3 lety +199

    If you haven't changed job not just once but a few times, you're behind the times. Changing jobs can be a strength. It can be an asset in your professional development. It can show that you're flexible, adaptable, resilient and that you have creative problem-solving abilities. Change, after all, is only another word for growth, a synonym for learning.

  • @paranoos2474
    @paranoos2474 Před 5 lety +406

    Laura the Lawyer has employed her logic to deliver a convincing speech.
    Many achieved women are like Laura who followed their husbands or partners to go to a new country where they cannot find the jobs that match their educational background or experience. They do make a sacrifice of their career and it's totally okay if they are once in a while resentful, unhappy.
    But Laura has an important advice here: be open-minded. If it is difficult to find a job that matches, explore something else (or maybe study or learn a new skill). Never stop. In fact, it is the time when people are off-trajectory they are most thoughtful or resilient. People like Laura have the privilege to land a good job, but the thing is everyone can, if you believe in yourself and keep trying.
    Once we drove through a tunnel in North Europe that's 25 km long one way. Once we entered the tunnel, it was a different world. Dark, isolated, dull. It took us what it appears to be a long, long time to get out of the tunnel. It felt good. Some time in your life you might find yourself in that tunnel - but don't give up and at the end of the tunnel there is sunshine.
    I wish everyone can live to their full potential and blossom under any conditions!

    • @coversbyrinetal7271
      @coversbyrinetal7271 Před 5 lety +2

      Very said. Thank you.

    • @MustafaKhan-gg8uo
      @MustafaKhan-gg8uo Před 4 lety +2

      Totally agree with you.

    • @priyankapakhi
      @priyankapakhi Před 4 lety +9

      Its just my story. Accompanied my husband, was thrilled to move & live in USA just to get depression, no work visa, sat at home for years n when i got my work visa, still loosing jobs since Im still a newbie. Had problems of even having kids. Totally lost in life but still holding up & will fight this & becm v successfull on my own. What doesn’t kills u make u stronger.

    • @okoverallknowledge564
      @okoverallknowledge564 Před 4 lety +2

      Before changing job
      Must watch this:
      I have made a video on my channel regarding the same topice. Can check out for more in detail steps.
      Steps that will help you take up higher responsibilities:
      • Gather Experience
      Experience counts a lot when it comes to going up in life. Learn from everyone and everything possible. Update your knowledge and gather some good skills. The more experienced you are, the better your chances of going up in life.
      • Prepare a Document
      While approaching the people who could promote you, or give you new responsibilities, always carry documents which show your successful endeavours. CVs, portfolios, certificates, press cuttings, reports of the projects you have handled - all these could be
      helpful.
      • Talk about 'Their' Benefits
      During the interview, it is very important to discuss the benefits that you can give to your organisation. Talk in terms of definite numbers. Do a little bit of research as you prepare for the interview.
      Whatever new assignment you take up, you have to leave your mark.
      Bob Dole, a former American leader who ran for the US Presidency, once said, "When it's all over, it's not who you were. It's whether you made a difference."

    • @DrJonTam
      @DrJonTam Před 3 lety +1

      thank you for this very positive message

  • @chiwiria4342
    @chiwiria4342 Před 5 lety +187

    She reminds me of Joy from Inside out

  • @bulbul6
    @bulbul6 Před 4 lety +282

    "I chased my husband." It's refreshing to see other women owning their life and going for what they want.

    • @azap9006
      @azap9006 Před 3 lety +7

      Chase for your own skills and dreams.Being a woman,married or not do not limit you.Dream Big.
      Rarely do men listen to their wives or follow them in their wildest dreams and or paths.
      Who best than you can stand up for yourself?

    • @priscillajimenez27
      @priscillajimenez27 Před 2 lety +6

      Dang did he want her?

    • @personincognito3989
      @personincognito3989 Před 2 lety +8

      Bulbul, I really hope you don't chase your husband. I did that. The 1st couple of years were good, but it went down hill from there because if you chase him before your married you will be chasing his affection for the rest of your Marriage. I'm going to leave

    • @user-fw5qm9vu4s
      @user-fw5qm9vu4s Před rokem

      So u want husband to chase her

    • @charmedprince
      @charmedprince Před 6 měsíci

      We stan a queen who goes after who she wants ❤

  • @itsyami4880
    @itsyami4880 Před 3 lety +113

    I am about to quit my 8yr job without having anything else standing by. I am so miserable at my current job that my anxiety and stress level is killing me. I am scared to make mistake

    • @zoemonarch9680
      @zoemonarch9680 Před 3 lety +21

      Did you quit? I hope you did. No job is worth making you feel miserable, stressed, and anxious. You deserve better :)

    • @itsyami4880
      @itsyami4880 Před 3 lety +8

      They didn't let me leave but I was allowed to go on a leave of absence for 2 months. What if I am making a mistake , all I've done is this job and now I feel hopeless... Its not even an amazing job to begin with

    • @pumpkinpie7753
      @pumpkinpie7753 Před 3 lety +4

      I’m feeling the same way

    • @AJ-ls7tn
      @AJ-ls7tn Před 3 lety +22

      @@itsyami4880 I feel the exact SAME way. I spend early mornings worrying about how much I have to do...worrying of making a mistake and looking incompetent....worrying of what others are saying as I pass by. At times I feel suicidal. If I didn't have my mom's grief of my suicide to worry about...I'd have done it already

    • @soriano1996
      @soriano1996 Před 3 lety +4

      @@itsyami4880 I’ve been at my job for almost 2 years and I feel the same way. Take those 2 months and try to find something else. If you haven’t yet, watch Laura Sheehan’s TEDx talk "Career Change: The Questions You Need to Ask Yourself Now". I’m also on the path of almost quitting my job + trying to figure out what to do next. I wish you well on your journey 💕

  • @eddiej9221
    @eddiej9221 Před 3 lety +33

    Did anyone notice her keep changing her cards to the next topic without looking at it once? She is an amazing speaker

  • @priyankapakhi
    @priyankapakhi Před 4 lety +16

    Its just my story. Accompanied my husband, was thrilled to move & live in USA just to get depression, no work
    visa, sat at home for years n when i got my work visa, learnt technology, went into a new field, but still loosing jobs since Im still a newbie & have visa issues. Had problems of even having kids. Totally lost in life but still holding up & will fight this & becm v successfull on my own. What doesn’t kills u make u stronger. I regret leaving my job back then but had no options then, as i was so excited to come to USA. Life is full if challenges & it will only make me grow & learn more.

  • @SillyKoala
    @SillyKoala Před 4 lety +35

    "Ditch the titles. Embrace the experience"

  • @susantanath1461
    @susantanath1461 Před 3 lety +29

    This video might go viral in the coming years. It is indeed the direction the world is moving toward. More power everyone thinking about switching jobs. We get one shot at life. Live it fully!

  • @ayeshasiddiqui4790
    @ayeshasiddiqui4790 Před 2 lety +7

    I just totally relate this speech, as I wanna be a doctor, I struggled very hard to achieve this title "Doctor" or I can say my childhood dream! but it didn't happen, after that i switched 2 degrees, but I wasn't satisfied then I got admission in one of the best uni on scholarship then I started to find my track my direction but everytime these society standardized titles shook me very hard. Everyone asked me that after completing this degree what would you be?! What we call you an Engineer or a doctor!!
    I have passed this very painful journey of my life & after 5 years struggle people calling me a motivator, an entrepreneur, Business strategist and are happy to welcome me in every kind of work. Literally these society standardized titles made me feel like Im. nothing, I don't do anything!
    You can change ur career, u can be anything and anywhere just keep going n keep exploring. Ofcourse titles doesn't matter!

  • @towneishahoston7254
    @towneishahoston7254 Před 5 lety +38

    What are the skills that you consistently use in everything you end up doing??
    Think of your work as an artist’s portfolio. Tracks growth. Adding to your work, building skills.
    Ditch the title, embrace the opportunities.
    How to land the job: Make meaningful connections.
    **Word of mouth!!!!**
    Plug in with people not devices. Ask questions.

    • @DrJonTam
      @DrJonTam Před 3 lety

      Yep, soft skills and hard skills that are transferable makes a world of difference

  • @dianaprilia8209
    @dianaprilia8209 Před 2 lety +8

    If you could do anything, what will it be?
    Step 1: be open tp and ready for change.
    Step 2: embrace the experience and ditch the titles
    Step 3: make meaningful connections

  • @mycake1515
    @mycake1515 Před 3 lety +47

    Some questions I ask myself:
    Am I happy?
    Do I see myself doing the same thing in the next 10 years?
    Do I see myself doing that person's job?
    Am I the go-to person to ask for help?
    What else is there to learn?
    It is incredibly easy to reason out once your finances are in check and your circumstances allow it.

    • @jolieangelic4747
      @jolieangelic4747 Před 9 měsíci

      Couldn't agree more. When financial are in check, we can do anything. Although it will take some time to be financial freedom.

  • @bipclaire
    @bipclaire Před 3 lety +23

    Sometimes the previous identity gives us too much stress and expectations because we carry that with use. We think we need to know everything and do everything; however, being overseas and traveling are the best personal development I'd ever had. It broadens your horizons completely and change the way you see about the world.

  • @LS-xx8wg
    @LS-xx8wg Před 2 lety +4

    I went to the ER and am still working today due to how difficult and stressful my job is. It’s time to change and find something better.

  • @allenc4731
    @allenc4731 Před 5 lety +21

    One of the most inspiring taiks I've seen so far on personal success or better yet, on finding who you really are.

  • @motomarrk
    @motomarrk Před 4 lety +128

    Disclaimer: Her husband was a diplomat. So financial troubles faced is solved.

    • @DrJonTam
      @DrJonTam Před 3 lety +35

      Yes, clearly she had to option to "explore" given her financial security

    • @sherielynflores8612
      @sherielynflores8612 Před 3 lety

      Hahaha.

    • @Heisrisen237
      @Heisrisen237 Před 2 lety +16

      But she still was searching to do something, she had the financial security, but she needed more and she found it with meaningful jobs that gave her purpose.

    • @suwan1986
      @suwan1986 Před 2 lety +9

      Is tough if you don't have the financial security

    • @Yourmom-cy5yv
      @Yourmom-cy5yv Před 2 lety +2

      disclaimer: you dont get chicks :(

  • @herbalmix
    @herbalmix Před 5 lety +202

    Ditch the titles and go for your skill set and interests, be open to new opportunities!

    • @FoodTraveleroya
      @FoodTraveleroya Před 5 lety +1

      Exactly

    • @mah0625
      @mah0625 Před 5 lety +2

      My wife's stuff she delt with take the cake.

    • @sil.b.c.m289
      @sil.b.c.m289 Před 4 lety +2

      if only you worked in a HR department for a big german company, it would be awesome...

    • @okoverallknowledge564
      @okoverallknowledge564 Před 4 lety +1

      Before changing job
      Must watch this:
      I have made a video on my channel regarding the same topice. Can check out for more in detail steps.
      Steps that will help you take up higher responsibilities:
      • Gather Experience
      Experience counts a lot when it comes to going up in life. Learn from everyone and everything possible. Update your knowledge and gather some good skills. The more experienced you are, the better your chances of going up in life.
      • Prepare a Document
      While approaching the people who could promote you, or give you new responsibilities, always carry documents which show your successful endeavours. CVs, portfolios, certificates, press cuttings, reports of the projects you have handled - all these could be
      helpful.
      • Talk about 'Their' Benefits
      During the interview, it is very important to discuss the benefits that you can give to your organisation. Talk in terms of definite numbers. Do a little bit of research as you prepare for the interview.
      Whatever new assignment you take up, you have to leave your mark.
      Bob Dole, a former American leader who ran for the US Presidency, once said, "When it's all over, it's not who you were. It's whether you made a difference."

    • @DrJonTam
      @DrJonTam Před 3 lety +1

      I love how she focused on transferable soft skills

  • @songpark2849
    @songpark2849 Před 4 lety +9

    "embrace the experiences and ditch the title." love it.

  • @danielchenjs
    @danielchenjs Před 2 lety +36

    Laura, THANK YOU for this. I'm in the midst of changing my career after being retrenched recently, and what you had share made a lot of sense and it is also very inspiring. I've never thought of one's career (or, CV) as a collection of an artist's portfolio. I mean the idea of thinking that each job we had is a standalone art piece, but when pooled together, it represents the artist's life work, theme and purpose in its creative expression. Wow.

  • @thunguyenle5926
    @thunguyenle5926 Před 3 lety +3

    I see myself in her story. Thanks Laura for sharing her ways to sustain and succeed.

  • @martinformato895
    @martinformato895 Před 3 lety +25

    That's great advice - figure out what you want to do and tell the world. More specifically have a conversation with those doing it so they can keep you in mind if an opportunity arises.

  • @nylg13
    @nylg13 Před 5 lety +8

    Wow. This is a really good talk. She has that certain charisma that will pull you to be attentive on what she's talking about. :) I needed those questions at this moment in my life. Thank you!

  • @Ceej75
    @Ceej75 Před rokem +5

    I had an idea to change my career path in 2019.. I never followed through. 3 years later I still haven’t made any efforts, change scares me. I’ve been in the same job for 8 years, I’m almost 30 and I really feel like I’ve left it too late. I have 2 kids, I have a husband, if I was to change my job I honestly think I’d mess our whole lives up and now I’m scared.

  • @TitanCoach
    @TitanCoach Před 3 lety +4

    Determining what you were meant to do is a big interest to me and my guests. It’s a discovery’s process sometimes, often a life long process. Great talk Laura. 👍👏

  • @luxuryvn
    @luxuryvn Před 4 lety +5

    Incredible talk! Thank you Laura the Speaker for this motivating speech. And thanks TED for sharing countless inspiring melodies to people all around the world.

  • @ovamanda
    @ovamanda Před 5 lety +8

    - W O W - I am not often compelled to write in the comments section, but after listening to so many talks before on the same subject, finally one that really spoke to me! Thank you Laura!

  • @vivayo4588
    @vivayo4588 Před 5 lety +20

    Such a great talk. I always find shocking when somebody tells me "I cannot afford to quit my job" or the best one " you are so lucky to have a job and live in the UK". But I am the living proof with a dream and a plan you can get a lot of fulfilment in life - money does not do that. I am not "lucky", I started in live with no parents no money, I worked really hard and took the path of uncertainty while I could have much easily taken the path of easy. It was scary at time, but mostly exciting. While I studied full-time a degree abroad, I work part time to finance myself. I achieved a career in a number of different areas. I learnt new languages, many new skills, met amazing people and had fulfilling experiences while doing it. But most importantly, I got to know myself. You don't need to do what I did, my point is, is easier to make excuses for oneself instead of going out there and fighting for what you want. There is always a way forward, as long as you have done the work of knowing what ticks for you and seeing it throu. No matter if you achieve your goal, the goal changes anyway as you move toward it, as Laura (not the lawyer) says, the important is the EXPERIENCE, ditch the title. Don't label yourself into a corner, that is all she is saying in a very well articulated way! Labels and job titles are an excuse to hide and wither.

    • @DrJonTam
      @DrJonTam Před 3 lety +2

      A lot of times it is excuses that are holding us back. But I think she's focusing on the fundamental mindset shift on moving away from titles and focusing on the skills. This is the trend of the future.

    • @Rreynu
      @Rreynu Před 2 lety

      Inspiring🌻more power to you💫

  • @OneSmileAtATime.
    @OneSmileAtATime. Před 22 dny

    This was so good even years later! Thank you for sharing that you chased your husband and that we should be open to moving, change, and found your talent and skills to carry you through to where you’re meant to be. Those things really resonated with me. God bless!

  • @carolinel.6204
    @carolinel.6204 Před 5 lety +10

    So sweet woman you are Laura the Inspirer. Your talk really touched me. My best wishes on your ongoing journey. Blessings

  • @DigitalDiego
    @DigitalDiego Před 2 lety +5

    After following my true passion of producing music my happiness is at all time high! I literally just graduated med school. It's never too late! Now I'm a mindset coach to help those make the transition. :D

  • @sarahm4005
    @sarahm4005 Před 4 lety +16

    Inspiring talk and a really good reminder in step 2 to look at consistent skills over a lifetime, rather than merely the ones used in your current job-thank you Laura.

  • @jcmeducationstudioportal1994

    Job hopper here. Already worked as a writer,editor, college teacher, musuem staff as my first job, also at some point a review instructor to ielts test takers. Ive learned a lot but now that im in my mid 30s I think it is time to settle in one place

    • @lenanarla
      @lenanarla Před 5 lety +17

      I always ask myself, how do I get different jobs without the qualification?

    • @violetmoon6233
      @violetmoon6233 Před 5 lety +2

      I'm the same how did you go? Did you find your dream job? ✨

    • @coversbyrinetal7271
      @coversbyrinetal7271 Před 5 lety +3

      Ive been stuck in my career for more than 20years. With my collected fruitful experience in managing people (healthcare), I was hired a year ago to manage managers which I thought out of my comfort zone. Until last week, I was still trying to go back to my previous role but it seems that there's no result for negotiations. Well, with this video, I am accepting it now and I believe, I will have more upcoming assignments🤔😊

    • @Natalie-vd8df
      @Natalie-vd8df Před 4 lety +3

      Out of all the jobs you had worked, which one did you like the most? and why?

    • @DrJonTam
      @DrJonTam Před 3 lety

      Yep, stats show that job hopping is much less acceptable once you hit your 30s. Made a video series about jobhopping and how to overcome it recently

  • @julieparker9298
    @julieparker9298 Před 4 lety +7

    She's so cool, I love her upbeat personality

  • @Uncle_Tijikun
    @Uncle_Tijikun Před 2 lety +2

    This video changed my whole perspective of my work experience. I now see my work history in s different light...and that's awesome

  • @Ghost_D4A
    @Ghost_D4A Před 3 měsíci +2

    For those who have an assignment on this like me, the three steps are below:
    1. Be open to and be ready for change 7:14
    2. Embrace the experience, ditch the titles 8:43
    3. Make meaningful connections 10:29

    • @johnzmurko1245
      @johnzmurko1245 Před 2 měsíci

      Thank you saved me going back and re watching it multiple times!! 🙏🙏

  • @Jasc101
    @Jasc101 Před 5 lety +4

    I have been struggling with what career path to take for years. This video gave me alot of good points, but I particularly like this "What are the skills you consistently use in everything you end up doing, there in lies your strength, your story, your path to success"

  • @finepakiinemporia
    @finepakiinemporia Před 2 lety +4

    You had me in tears... I literally have felt like the "trailing spouse" for the last five years. I wanted to go to Law School, but my husband is an engineer, which means we move for work often. I had a child right after we got married and stayed in what I thought was a "dead end" job, working remotely this whole time. I hated when people asked/ask me what I do and often struggle to answer as well. Just now after the last five years am I realizing that I have had it pretty good. Even though I wasn't moving up in a vertical trajectory at my job, I was making connections with people that I needed to. I was showing up when I needed to. I am always available for my 4 year old. The pay is not great, but a local company in the same field I am in recently contacted me and I may well be on my way to making a large salary jump and working in a local office. Will I always struggle to be okay that I didn't go to law school and become THE LAWYER - maybe. But if I can spend more time with my kiddo and make a nice cushy salary, then why not? Thank you for your encouraging words Laura. I wish I could spend time with you in person over a coffee!

  • @pulppy180
    @pulppy180 Před dnem

    I was here and now watching it, unexpectedly, because I'm in a similar dillema. What a perspective and realization.

  • @daisypamela
    @daisypamela Před 2 lety +1

    Great video and really inspiring! I moved from Paraguay to the U.S. 5 years ago, and I am living exactly what you are explaining. Powerful video! THANK YOU!

  • @volare106
    @volare106 Před 3 lety +5

    Thanks for the invigorating share. To me, what you're describing in your second point "to embrace the experiences and not the job" is the definition of the gig economy, which we're currently in. As a mid-career, mid-aged professional I'm currently embarking on answering the question What do I want to do when I grow up? Your insights are much appreciated and my key takeaway are the two questions to ask your strategic connections. Of the two, the second one "If you could do anything, what would it be" is exceptionally thought-provoking. Whether or not the person authentically responds to that question can give additional perspective on the role or industry that you might be interested in joining. Keep up the great work and hopefully we'll be able to connect one day in the future.

  • @tedxhanoi2045
    @tedxhanoi2045 Před 6 lety +41

    Thanks Laura for starting off our event with an awesome talk. Great insight for us.

  • @ceciliaperez9270
    @ceciliaperez9270 Před 2 lety +9

    I came here because once again I want to change careers. I’ve worked in childcare, teacher, restaurants, marketing, PA, retail, hotel, reception, administrator and now digital marketing and graphic design looking into doing interior design 😆
    Is fun but stressful, not finding eternal passion for something, I just wish to stick to something.

    • @jg9368
      @jg9368 Před 2 lety +1

      I'm also in the same place, I've done retail, restaurants, freelancing, now I'm working in the health field, but I'm starting to get an itch to become a lawyer. It honestly makes sense, because even as a child being asked "What do you want to be when you grow up?" would always follow up with a different answer...scientist, lawyer, doctor, archeologist, anthropologist, etc. I'm starting to believe I will never have a set career, but I'm not mad at it. I used to feel so insecure that I couldn't stick to one thing. I've always wanted to master something, but eventually got too bored to do so. At 24, I finally accepted myself, I just like to learn and if I had a choice I'd try every single job the world had to offer.

    • @Bearliu
      @Bearliu Před 2 lety

      I think it's all good to try. Prob the first step is not answering those questions but to do quick research - find out what are questions matter to us in the cheapest and fastest way. Talk to people, google search, and reach out for informational interviews.

  • @rikidavis6563
    @rikidavis6563 Před 2 lety +6

    I think this is really great! It's good to know all you need is a change of perspective. All of your jobs really do interact with each other even if you don't think so right away. There is a reason why you started each one, usually with your life's purpose in mind.

  • @fluffynamedkimba
    @fluffynamedkimba Před 5 lety +2

    this is wonderful, thank you very much!

  • @fernandopratesi5378
    @fernandopratesi5378 Před rokem

    WOW I’ve never been more encouraged or impressed by a Ted talk. Thank you!

  • @byeteaching
    @byeteaching Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for addressing these mistakes head-on. It's refreshing to see someone discussing the challenges teachers face when transitioning careers. Your video provides valuable guidance and encouragement. Keep up the excellent work!

  • @deborarey448
    @deborarey448 Před 4 lety +1

    Suuuper encouraging, everything is possible and it's all about the story you tell to yourself. Thank you for this great talk!

  • @kristenzavo
    @kristenzavo Před 8 měsíci

    Love these questions to reflect before, during, and after a career change (or any major life change!).

  • @pr3bsrz
    @pr3bsrz Před 5 lety +29

    Be open and ready for change
    Changing jobs is an asset strength for your career
    Embrace the experiences .. ditch the title
    Make meaningful connections

  • @olgakukh9512
    @olgakukh9512 Před 5 lety +2

    Brilliant talk! Resonated with my views and experience so much)) Thank you!

  • @jennynguyen2272
    @jennynguyen2272 Před 9 měsíci +2

    As someone with a career change decision, this video truly resonates with me. Such an incredibly inspiring video, had I been present, I would have been the most enthusiastic audience.

  • @James-sc5hz
    @James-sc5hz Před rokem

    Great talk, very inspiring for times of uncertainty and change - thank you!

  • @violetmoon6233
    @violetmoon6233 Před 5 lety +8

    She's very engaging but tough crowd! Thanks Laura for sharing 🙏

  • @soledadgomez123
    @soledadgomez123 Před 2 lety +1

    Awesome speech . I have been in a similar career pathway as you. Moving around the World with my husband and kids and doing anything I needed to find new jobs that helped me to propel my career. This is an amazing perspective of how ready we are to do “anything” we want anywhere and how rare is the skillset that I have. As you said: like an artist portfolio. Every step I take helps me to create a meaningful outcome that supported myself and others around the World. New connections and hacking culture is the way to progress.
    Thanks for this TED talk and for being “here” today, open to speak and influence others. Congratulations

  • @lizajornales
    @lizajornales Před 5 lety

    Thank you so much Laura. You're an eye opener.

  • @shrijitasgable
    @shrijitasgable Před 2 lety

    One of the most functional empowering and real ted talks of all time.

  • @silviadifelice3307
    @silviadifelice3307 Před 4 lety

    This careers' chat.. More than others.. Really made me feel good about my path.

  • @Pinkolett
    @Pinkolett Před 3 lety

    Thank you for this encouraging speech!

  • @MightyGodofGods
    @MightyGodofGods Před 2 lety +1

    Between 8:20 to 9:10. Our career is the collage of our experiences. We chase the experience/growth we want instead of job titles. I find it much harder to do; to change job for the experiences. This is the more enaging way to live and defintely will make us more valuable; we are never at an employer mercy. I do cry each time I switch job because our job is a big part of our identity.
    Thank you for a great speech. Its definely a good outlook on life.

  • @janiceleimarie
    @janiceleimarie Před 2 lety

    My college advisor once told me to do as many internships (or jobs) as I can so I can figure out what I like and don't like. I had to work while in uni so I was only able to do 2 internships to meet graduation requirements. Since graduating in 2013, I have had 7 jobs and I'm at the point where I'm somewhat self-conscious about how long my resume is, or how I haven't stayed at a job for longer than 3 or 4 years. I was laid off this past May and also moved overseas with my boyfriend thanks to his job. I'm now taking the time to refocus and figure out what I really want. I'm so glad I stumbled on this video. Thank you for your empowering perspective!!!!!! I needed this!

  • @indrazatammina1047
    @indrazatammina1047 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much !! It's the kind of motivation I needed!

  • @sheetalsehgal3146
    @sheetalsehgal3146 Před 5 lety +1

    laura , great respect to u..u helped me out ,my mind was messed up and i was totally confused due to my career but now i got a thing in mind that embrace the experiences and ditch the titles. thank u so much.

  • @luonglevp68
    @luonglevp68 Před 6 lety +10

    Nice talk. I understand more about my wife situation as I also traveling working

  • @elsapakopoulou6759
    @elsapakopoulou6759 Před 4 lety +1

    Wow! This is such an inspiring talk! Thank you Laura!

  • @beadydani
    @beadydani Před 5 lety +5

    Great lecture, thinking of changing jobs again - had a number of job roles over the years now feel ready to move into a role I will like to be in long term.

  • @iCKEST
    @iCKEST Před 3 lety +6

    The title drew me in and I’m glad I got here. I needed this. I have been so depressed and unfulfilled with my employer for a long time and I’ve taken some time to learn about a business that I have been interested putting my own money in. But I also need to work to sustain the start of my business. So I applied for positions within my Job, positions I know I’m qualified for. Well, they decided to go for other candidates. Yes I do what higher pay but I also understand how undervalued I am even though I put in years to earn what I earn. This has to be a clear sign that with this passion I feel to start my business, has to go full throttle even if I fail forward. Yes I am upset that I didn’t get the jobs I applied for. Yes I do think I am better than the other candidates that applied, but why not put this energy into my own work, right? I do need a career change. I’ve been searching for one for awhile. Maybe instead of looking for the change through my employer, I needed to become the change and the boss instead. Idk where I’m going, but I hope after submitting this comment, my current employer will just be an added history on my resume. This was a very great Ted talk. Thank you for sharing.

    • @LG-xd2xg
      @LG-xd2xg Před 3 lety

      Good luck 🍀 I’m sure you’ll end up in the right place.

  • @arabaanderson8919
    @arabaanderson8919 Před 4 lety

    Absolutely loved this. I'm definitely inspired.

  • @Kiley1981
    @Kiley1981 Před rokem

    Thank you so much ! This TED Talk was much needed!

  • @juliusadeola1704
    @juliusadeola1704 Před 7 měsíci

    This is what I need to hear at this stage. Thank you!

  • @nivrams4fairmedia
    @nivrams4fairmedia Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you, as a mom confused with what to do with career, I needed to hear this. :)

  • @tkh1001
    @tkh1001 Před 4 lety +7

    Felt more like a humble brag. Highlights of problems with no solutions

    • @DaddyTheRipper
      @DaddyTheRipper Před 4 lety +2

      Agreed

    • @max_rove
      @max_rove Před 3 lety +2

      Pretty much half of these Ted talks, rambling about their life story no one cares about, and offering no real solutions

    • @kelkabot
      @kelkabot Před 2 lety

      for real

  • @marwan.ux1
    @marwan.ux1 Před měsícem

    I totally needed this.. Thank you!

  • @RizuClearThinking.
    @RizuClearThinking. Před rokem +1

    Laura Sheehan..You were excellent...throughout this talk..I was thinking about a career change issues..but you coverted my thought and now I am thinking about oppourtunties when some one change careers. Wao..What change I have got...You have very different and unique way of expressing your thoughts...I feel very exciting...Thanks for you valueable thoughts & Experience sharings...

  • @SportSphere360_
    @SportSphere360_ Před 5 lety +76

    interesting talk, and interesting advise to connect with people instead of devices. And 85% of jobs are filled with word of mouth.

    • @FoodTraveleroya
      @FoodTraveleroya Před 5 lety +2

      Unfoŕtunately todays world is totally different

    • @Mrs.T305
      @Mrs.T305 Před 5 lety +1

      Advice*****

    • @azap9006
      @azap9006 Před 3 lety

      You make my day:connect to people instead of devices...

  • @luyandosichula3265
    @luyandosichula3265 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow! Totally awesome and inspirational and reassuring! My combination of different jobs actually adds up to an amazing career path! Thank you so much 🥰🙌

  • @violetagood9051
    @violetagood9051 Před 4 lety +25

    I truly appreciate your wisdom! I needed to hear this! I feel lost at 48 having moved to another state and sacrificed a job but now realize I get to write the other half of my life- by looking at my experiences!

    • @letslia213
      @letslia213 Před 9 měsíci +1

      I am now 48 and feeling like you!!!!! How are you doing 3 years later??????? I am in the list and chaos stage

    • @letslia213
      @letslia213 Před 9 měsíci

      Lost*

  • @yes2yolo949
    @yes2yolo949 Před 2 lety

    Such an inspirational & effective presentation that really resonated with me. You've also provided some very practical tips. Thank you for sharing!

  • @ungaarham25
    @ungaarham25 Před 4 lety

    One of my favourite tedx talk

  • @bellabella1670
    @bellabella1670 Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you, needed to hear this

  • @tejukalla7834
    @tejukalla7834 Před 2 lety

    Hands down. Best career advice ever.

  • @throopasahdew2477
    @throopasahdew2477 Před rokem

    so relatable- so needed to hear this

  • @itishree8360
    @itishree8360 Před 2 lety

    Heyy!!!! Thank youuuuuu soooo muchh laura.. You don't know your this talk of 11:56 mins has blasted my mind up... Nd I'm on the same track of career transition that stumbled me upon this video...I've seen a few ted talks but nothing I've seen like this before... So you're doing greatest not by being laura "the lawyer" but by being laura "the motivator" who passes on the bestest gift that she's got❤️💪

  • @stephengoh5456
    @stephengoh5456 Před 3 lety

    Perfect! Love it. Thank you.

  • @user-yl2vj2mp9z
    @user-yl2vj2mp9z Před měsícem

    great speech, it's now the moment I need to learn about career change.

  • @Maxfli82
    @Maxfli82 Před 2 lety

    Great talk. Great questions to ask someone you want to get to know better

  • @marycyril8988
    @marycyril8988 Před 5 lety +3

    Ur talk is amazing ! And ur expierences even better !

  • @kimslone5185
    @kimslone5185 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for this!

  • @oliunderappletre
    @oliunderappletre Před 4 lety

    Loved this talked! thank you

  • @aprilc.3697
    @aprilc.3697 Před 4 lety

    Thanks now I can see the common thread 🧵 in my entire work experience. Excellent talk!

  • @DDtwerty
    @DDtwerty Před 3 lety

    Lovely! ❤️ Love her way of presenting ❤️

  • @Matt_Tizzard
    @Matt_Tizzard Před rokem

    Good luck to everyone looking to change roles, some excellent advice! Thank you

  • @jimeladorakialo8083
    @jimeladorakialo8083 Před 5 lety +5

    Changing jobs helps one to learn the ropes in different organizations

  • @Nekochi99
    @Nekochi99 Před 5 lety

    It is really interesting how I've looked for a Ted talk about change just the day before looking for a new job and I found something I wasn't looking for but what's helping a lot. Now I can see I've been doing the right thing for these 4 past years by changing jobs, by talking to people about jobs which might've interested me. And now I'm crying because I'm so damn sensitive