Body Language of a Narcissist (3 Minutes or Less)

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  • čas přidán 8. 06. 2022
  • In today's video Jill talks about ways to detect a Narcissist by observing their Body Language. These are tell tale signs of this pathology.
    Jill Wise, otherwise known as The Enlightened Target, is a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised by a malignant narcissist and married to a malignant narcissist, she has endured years of parental alienation, has repeatedly been targeted by narcissists throughout her life. She has an intimate understanding of all aspects of narcissistic abuse and Cptsd. She uses her experience and what she has learned to help educate others and bring awareness to narcissistic abuse. She is also a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach and works with clients all over the world heal from the trauma of narcissistic abuse, parental alienation and Complex Ptsd.
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Komentáře • 130

  • @MoPoppins
    @MoPoppins Před 2 lety +55

    Yes, the lack of eye contact is a dead giveaway! I’ve never met a narc who is PRESENT, and for anyone who’s sensitive to people’s energy, they’ll sense a perpetual “absence” and deadness to the narc’s life force-there’s no one there, as in, they’re dead inside.

    • @kevinkascolinkeithtimghera4305
      @kevinkascolinkeithtimghera4305 Před 2 lety +8

      Way OFF!
      Lack of eye contact is the trait of the VICTIM of narcissists. Anxiety/fear.
      Narcissists stare you OUT! To make you feel fear. I walk fast because I need to be somewhere and to get out of the narcissists hunting ground. I.e., the streets. Travelling slow is a waste of life.
      Funny how people think, even the uploader. She contradicted herself already. No eye contact / STARE. Make your mind up.

    • @MoPoppins
      @MoPoppins Před 2 lety +11

      @@kevinkascolinkeithtimghera4305 Depending on the context, both are correct. If a narc is in PREDATOR MODE, they’ll be making eye contact-if they’re indifferent to you because you’re not good supply, they won’t even know you’re alive.
      If an empath is just “empathing,” they’ll be perceptive to their surroundings, and will be aware of the energetic environment, as well. If the empath has been conditioned to feel threatened, then they won’t want to attract any unwanted attention, thus avoiding eye contact w/ anyone, just in case…and BTW, that only makes a narc salivate EVEN MORE, since they know you’ll be good prey, being weak & vulnerable as you are.

    • @RabbitOverlord
      @RabbitOverlord Před 2 lety +4

      I agree with Mo Poppins context is everything

    • @jessmason2112
      @jessmason2112 Před 2 lety +2

      The eyes never lie. Idk about you, that's the first thing I do, when I see the eyes 👁️ I see the whole soul. Like a piece of glass.

    • @bernitacenteno1326
      @bernitacenteno1326 Před 2 lety

      @@kevinkascolinkeithtimghera4305 This is also very 👍 true.

  • @AgendaInMind
    @AgendaInMind Před 2 lety +32

    Yes, the creepy predator non blinking stare. All predators do this to their prey.

  • @deanstrand4260
    @deanstrand4260 Před 2 lety +19

    You nailed their body language, icy cold stare and arrogance.

  • @kimhumiston2686
    @kimhumiston2686 Před 2 lety +16

    My experience was working for a narcissistic boss and with a narcissistic coworker. Horrible. I have learned so much about narcissism after I left that job. Best thing I ever did!

  • @caljets9704
    @caljets9704 Před 2 lety +22

    The stare is about intimidation. The malignant Narc is sizing up his surroundings and determining if there is competition or whether he is the dominant man in the vicinity. Most people give up their position in the dominance hierarchy by looking away. This also helps the Narc identify who is weak. I agree! If you see this, run!

    • @augamemnon
      @augamemnon Před 2 lety

      Yeah, thats how bar fights start, women will do this from all the way across the room though

    • @caljets9704
      @caljets9704 Před 2 lety

      @@augamemnon Wow crazy! Happens in prisons, too.

  • @glue-sniffer
    @glue-sniffer Před 2 lety +33

    I was in a relationship with a female narc for 11 years been away from them totally no contact whatsoever for a year now and im still recovering . You are spot on accurate with everything you said in this video

    • @jolly7728
      @jolly7728 Před 2 lety +4

      Female narcissists can do very, very serious damage. Eleven years is a long time to be together with a radio-active partner. Wish you well going forward. Is it possible to find someone else who's normal and be happy, now that you're more knowledgeable than you were eleven years ago? Having too much time (I'm assuming) on your hands to think can slow a recovery. Just a thought...as you want to heal and start being happy again ASAP. Life is short.

    • @needabusinessloanviewourch4817
      @needabusinessloanviewourch4817 Před 2 lety +2

      It is best not to hit rock bottom to be able to view relationships from the Mountain top of their Real Perspectives and come to terms with reality, You can't fix a cheater, a psychopath, or a narcissist, it's as simple as you can't take blood from stone. these smart phone devices in people's hands have taken them away from real individuality, not until I got closure on my husband I was in the dark. We create our reality and the consciousness of the planet is accelerating. This means people have to become more aware of who they are. When one experiences abuse, you first become aware of the abuse, then realizing you are a victim, With healing and processing comes strong boundaries built by confidence in your worth.
      After this comes a realization that the experience made you stronger and more of who you are and that the narcissist was simply a vehicle for your growth. Ultimately you then realize we are all a creation of our energetic spiritual energy and the narcissist was and is a part of us. In the end, we become accepting of the experience and knowing we would never go back to the previous unawakened and unenlightened version of ourselves. It is not by any means an easy journey and is filled with pain especially when we incarnate into a family with a parent of such characteristics. There is a plan and it is ultimately to drive us. You would love an awakened version of you.
      My husband was a deceptive narcissist and sociopath, he would never apologize, I was always made to feel little on the inside, it was pure psychological warfare at its lowest, I suspected infidelity on his path, not until with the help of the developer of an app code name rat9 for accessing his device without having to physically touch it, with a functionality to view deleted chats and messages as well as call logs and in-app chats, I was completely in the dark. There was a Conversation I read on his Instagram Account where he did address me as 'beauty with no brains'. I'm finally going through a divorce with evidences too overwhelming. His device contained secrets that I could never have imagined. If in need of such help, write directly to the developer on email ' ethandavydova at gmail dot com '.

  • @antoinettegorman8833
    @antoinettegorman8833 Před 2 lety +15

    The ex narcissist always walked . 10 to 15 steps ahead

    • @alonzomosley7
      @alonzomosley7 Před 2 lety +5

      It used to drive me nuts with my ex narc .It was like she was embarrassed by my presence.

  • @debbieg1406
    @debbieg1406 Před 22 dny

    Yes, he always walked ahead of me and any females in the family! Yes, the stare, or the smirk when trying to raise an issue with them!

  • @tneville1962
    @tneville1962 Před 2 lety +4

    Intimidation and control is key. It starts off minor but slight indifference and be ignored is real.

  • @augamemnon
    @augamemnon Před 2 lety +7

    Its really funny to stare at them, and watch them squirm, thats a great way to know, but use caution, and plan your immediate exit.

  • @williamfaust5769
    @williamfaust5769 Před 2 lety +4

    Oh, my gosh. The STARE! I called it the death stare. Blank, but sharp and focused. It was so intense you could FEEL the heat and contempt within. I knew my ex wasn't really seeing me, but was projecting her loathing of me with laser accuracy. The walk, the looks, the ability to put you down, twist your words and actions to make you the bad guy and the haughtiness that would never allow her to admit fault in ANYTHING is spot on for my experience. I was married 32 years to this abuse and after 9 years of divorce I am just learning about how deep it went. I can't stand the touch of another human being, feel worthless, ugly, unwanted, and unloved. This despite having strong Christian faith, which is all that keeps me sane. Your videos describe my ex so perfectly, I can't help but wonder if you know her.

  • @chelceasurgenor598
    @chelceasurgenor598 Před 2 lety +4

    Good morning Jill. Thank you for all you do! 🥰 this is my husband!

  • @sgcsgc6974
    @sgcsgc6974 Před 2 lety +4

    Oh my goodness! Yes! The "stare" it is like dead fish eyes. They truly are looking through you, so scary.

  • @donnalehman1832
    @donnalehman1832 Před 2 lety +10

    Yes! That stare really is creepy. I got that stare from my father growing up. We would be at a gathering somewhere in public and I would be having a good time with other people , then I would notice him looking over at me in the crowd of people with that piercing stare. It made me sick. Like I shouldn't be having a good time with people. What is that stare really about?

    • @zwijdenes1376
      @zwijdenes1376 Před 10 měsíci

      Its the stare of the crocodille, saying how dare you wrinkle my waters!

  • @RioJudy
    @RioJudy Před 2 lety +11

    JW: these short subject videos are excellent. Right to the point and always spot on.

  • @fondoftheduh
    @fondoftheduh Před 2 lety +7

    I feel like you described busy people who mind their own business.
    Woman like me who avoid eye contact because people see it as an opening.
    You are describing abuse victims.

    • @octoberwoods
      @octoberwoods Před 2 lety +5

      Me too! I'm a fast walker specially in public I get major anxiety and want to get in amd out of whatever I'm doing as fast as possible. Even if I'm going for a walk with my dog I'm a speed walker. Definitely not because I'm thinking I'm superior to anyone.

    • @fondoftheduh
      @fondoftheduh Před 2 lety +6

      @@octoberwoods yeah, and when lines are long and hot or places are crowded and strangers are close enough to smell or touch and bump, my head starts to spin and I have to get out.
      Maybe a lil autistic. Maybe a lil empathetic. Maybe asthmatic. .
      And I was litterly trained to never look people in the eye and hold my attention and focus on the person speaking without moving by a narcissist who thought all children must have their spirit broken.
      Yeah people.
      You get vibes from narcissist.
      Probably good vibes.
      Like, damn, he's sexy! He's funny. He's outgoing, funny, charming, adorable and everyone thinks he's THE catch but he's only focused on quiet lil ole me.
      What a great guy. So nice. So giving.
      So protective keeping all the other guy's away from me in clever lil ways and dominating my time and space like he's afraid I'll disappear.
      Just run.

    • @augamemnon
      @augamemnon Před 2 lety +1

      @@fondoftheduh its taking that moment to think "this ones awefully charming, maybe too much so".

    • @augamemnon
      @augamemnon Před 2 lety +2

      I walk fast as well, I just have a natural 'clip I worked in restaurants for years, and lots of empaths in the hospitality business

    • @octoberwoods
      @octoberwoods Před 2 lety

      @@augamemnon lol same, waitress bartender and oh Boi you have to be able to hustle it just sticks with ya.

  • @RioJudy
    @RioJudy Před 2 lety +6

    NO EYE CONTACT in 54 total years. HANDS DEEP IN POCKETS which is the behavior of a consummate liar with something to hide i.e. SECRETS. AND FINALLY, WALKING OFF ON YOU. It’s the best way to show you and what you’re saying, DOES NOT MATTER. Just walking off and later claiming they did so because they thought you were done speaking. Some real abuse is the only way they can deal and then when called out on it, blaming you.

    • @dixiegardner6207
      @dixiegardner6207 Před 2 lety +1

      Have experienced this many times over 30 years of marriage. it is very devaluing to be sure.

    • @novelist99
      @novelist99 Před rokem

      @@dixiegardner6207 Me too!

  • @Kelly-sl6vz
    @Kelly-sl6vz Před rokem +2

    I’m a professional pet sitter and when a client came home early and I was still in her home taking care of her kitty, she walked in and said “OK, Kelly, you can leave now. I’m going to talk to my son on the phone.” Soooo dismissive, rude and arrogant. There was no, “Thank you” or “Good night”Needless to say, I don’t work for her anymore!

  • @katherinebravo4872
    @katherinebravo4872 Před 2 lety +4

    I walk fast and I'm not a narcissist

  • @sheilajac
    @sheilajac Před 2 lety +12

    True, but I also find - imposing or overstepping personal space - the one I am thinking of (my brother) displays all of these, but he also gets way too CLOSE, to the point it's uncomfortable because it's beyond what's normal or necessary. IN MY FACE, in my space, no respect - no boundaries. Also, when you confront them and turn it around so you're mirroring their hostile/intimidating posture/positioning, they will run and hide like the actual little babies they really are.

  • @m.f.richardson1602
    @m.f.richardson1602 Před 2 lety +6

    Please include the smirk.
    Thank you, Jill.
    Peace 💕🇺🇲

    • @theenlightenedtarget
      @theenlightenedtarget  Před 2 lety +7

      I’m going to do an entire video on The Smirk.

    • @augamemnon
      @augamemnon Před 2 lety +6

      Yes!! The smirk!

    • @blessed7927
      @blessed7927 Před 2 lety +4

      And the spirit of mockery which in the bible is a demon spirit inhabiting them

    • @starlistener8285
      @starlistener8285 Před 2 lety

      The smirk makes my soul sick

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 Před 2 lety +1

      Megan Markle has the smirk, at the Queens Jubelee a week ago, in photos where no one did smile in the church, she was the only doing that, Harry are always depressed and she's always smiling or has the smirk‼️An couple therapist told that he can see there's something wrong in a connection, when one person looks depressed and the other are smiling and looks happy, a Narcissist are only happy awhile their target are sad‼️💎Starseed, INFJ Heyoka.

  • @dr.christopherfaria6688
    @dr.christopherfaria6688 Před 2 lety +5

    Your small presentations like this are GREAT!! I hope folks will dig deeper into your other videos. They (Jill) has really helped me. Watch, watch, watch these :)

  • @KarensOpinionsMayDiffer
    @KarensOpinionsMayDiffer Před 2 lety +1

    Yes, the stare! Chilling.

  • @samuelhinton8474
    @samuelhinton8474 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you so much for Sharing your knowledge of Narcissisum please keep up the great service 🙏

  • @brkumawenberu4304
    @brkumawenberu4304 Před 2 lety +2

    Narcissists are miserable and they wanted everyone to join their misrable world 🌎. "Misery loves company"
    Great video. Something never said before or at least I've never herd of before but I've noticed on one of my neghbour who I've noticed narcissistic traits. He has literally one modern pistol gun and two machine guns plus machete. One of them is AK 47 Russian version. He used to be a US army and fired b/c of discipline. In the morning he stand on his porch naked, only with underwear and showing up his chest to others. He has nothing to show coz he is very skinny and very short. Besides has a chicken leg. I swear I'm not exaggerating. I keep my distance and placed firm boundary. Thank you.I love 💘 your channel.

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 Před 2 lety +1

      Narcissists needs supply as others needs oxygen ‼️They do everything to get their supply, some has their own channel on CZcams, it's many Psychologists among them, too, the son of one of the female Psychologists has told his mom is a Narcissist ‼️Always look at peoples eyes, it says alot about a person ‼️💎 Starseed, INFJ Heyoka.

    • @brkumawenberu4304
      @brkumawenberu4304 Před 2 lety +1

      @@tovenrvik6336 Wow OMG! How can I believe this? May the holy father in heaven protect all empaths all over the world for the sake of his son, Christ the lord, Amen and Haleluya. Thank you buddy.

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 Před 2 lety +1

      @@brkumawenberu4304 I have educated myself on the topic Narcissisism for 2. 5 years, I grew up wt two narcissistic parents, that's how you can believe that‼️

  • @GG-ul8ne
    @GG-ul8ne Před 2 lety +15

    Omg, I was conditioned by narcs, since childhood, to "walk with a sense of URGENCY, DUMMY!"; and then, as an adult, I had a boyfriend, who I lived with; he was a businessman; and he'd do the same thing: he'd ridicule me and tell me I walked too slow. And then, my late husband, also walked really fast, and I had to keep up with him. Also, when I was a child, I had a brutally abusive older brother who I was afraid to look at, because, if I did, he'd fly into a rage at me, after he'd tell me, "What the f*ck YOU lookin' at!?!?!?", before he'd launch himself at me, in violent physical attacks. Local bullies, would also do the same, if I looked at them. Also, narcs in my life in adulthood: if I looked at them, then it would be a problem, like, I was somehow "suspicious" for "staring" at them, when I was only looking at them, while I was talking to them (they'd say things like, "Why are you looking at me so funny>' as one of the ways they'd try to get into my head. That brought me to a few yrs ago; it was quite unexpected; but I met a man that I really really liked. He was kind, patient, and walked very relaxed and easy. And he made eye contact when he spoke to me. But, because of my lifelong experiences with narcs, being ridiculed about everything, from the way I walked, to the way I looked at them, I was too nervous to make eye contact, for fear he'd also do the same thing. And, when we took a couple of walks together, I walked so fast (and he is so TALL, LOL!) compared to him. I really blew it, because I really like him. And, I talked, non-stop, because I was so nervous (another thing I was conditioned to do, because I was always so introverted, I was always criticized for just "sitting there, looking dumb", instead of jumping into conversations). UGH, this is frustrating. However, I'm relearning, like I'm born again into a new life, since my husband died, and I've gone permanently no-contact with any narcs I'd known back then. So, I'm working on all this.
    But, that stare....that stare that makes you realize that you're in the presence of a demon...I've been on the receiving end of that, from an aged narc (70ish yrs old), who felt entitled to me, after my husband died. I rejected him; I was not in to him, and he's old enough to be my father. So, after that, I felt his contempt toward me, because I wouldn't be his girlfriend, so that everyone would think he's the hero, that rescued the widow.

    • @aking3624
      @aking3624 Před 2 lety +2

      I got to the point that i would talk fast to avoid being interrupted. Like what i said wasen't important. Especially in group settings. Realized it was only a few individuals who would do it.. Eventually, i excused myself..knowing my worth was not measured by their attention.

    • @GG-ul8ne
      @GG-ul8ne Před 2 lety +2

      @@aking3624 Yes! That too. I guess one of the things to learn is to slow down, physically, emotionally, mentally, even verbally. Narcs like to push us, so we speak, think, and move quickly & carelessly, so that we mess up. And we have to learn to not allow that to happen. Self love & self worth is more important. than

    • @Kelly-sl6vz
      @Kelly-sl6vz Před rokem +1

      @@aking3624 I had an ex friend, who was at one time, a friend of 28 years,years. She would always talk over me, and I always felt like I had to rush in order to get what I needed said or wanted to get said said before she interrupted me once again! They always think that they’re the only ones who have anything important to say!! I eventually called her out on all of her junk and, of course, I was the one who was at fault for everything; and she would not take responsibility for one single act! It’s taking me a while to get over the fact that I wasted so many years of my life, trying to be friends with somebody who was truly never a real friend of mine.

  • @tovenrvik6336
    @tovenrvik6336 Před 2 lety +2

    Thanks for sharing your knowlegde about Narcissism, it's important that the predators they are get exposed, they have been hiding behind Flying Monkeys and closed doors for to long‼️I grew up wt two Narcissistic parents and where the Scapegoat, my mother has dead eyes and my father starres, I guess mom is a Covert Narc (blaming and lot of crying) and dad is an Malignant Narc (abusive and violent) ‼️The last time I saw my grandmother, on my mothers side when she was in a nursing home, she looked at me wt the most starring and hateful eyes I have ever seen, I was her Scapegoat and she gave me a starre that could kill‼️💎Starseed, INFJ Heyoka.

  • @jolly7728
    @jolly7728 Před 2 lety +1

    You are spot on! I'm particularly aware of the fast walker with the look of urgency on their face. You see these types in supermarkets a lot and other big box stores. From the moment they enter the store, they are in a hurry, since what they have to do is obviously much more important than your shopping excursion. Almost no eye contact, pre occupied, seemingly angry, actually, as if to say, "My maid, personal assistant, cook, or housekeeper should be here doing these mundane things for me. I'm embarrassed to even be here sharing the same space and breathing the same air as you." Without even thinking much about them, I’ll sometimes head down another isle to avoid being around these folks who seem to have a chip on their shoulder. They are amusing though…acting all full of themselves. Sad thing is that they act the same way when they get into their cars and tailgate their way from point A to point B. I wonder though if it’s the roadside coffee shops, the super energy drinks, and other sources of artificial stimulants that line the eateries and food stores of our towns and cities that make such behavior worse than it would be otherwise. My favorite type is the one who violates your personal space in the checkout line as they quickly start loading their merchandise on the conveyor belt, reaching over you or your things to get the separator bar and doing everything but shoving your stuff forward to get more of their stuff on the belt. Your presence means nothing to them; it’s as if you are just in the way.

    • @novelist99
      @novelist99 Před rokem

      Sheesh! I walk fast in a supermarket too, because I want to get it done and get out of there. It has nothing to do with narcissism.

  • @DUBEE43
    @DUBEE43 Před 2 lety +8

    I seen the LOOK TOO MANY TIMES!!
    I CALL IT SHOOTING LASERS BEAMS FROM THE EYES!!!!!😳

    • @augamemnon
      @augamemnon Před 2 lety

      We used to call them poison darts.

    • @DUBEE43
      @DUBEE43 Před 2 lety

      @@augamemnon That works..

  • @RickNelsonMn
    @RickNelsonMn Před 2 lety +1

    I wonder whether I can avoid anything anymore? My health has me trapped with my narc. There's no physical way for me to get away. I do some things, I try and do everything I'm told as an avoidance strategy. I also moved out of our bedroom in 2017. I do rest better, if I don't get texted telling me her thoughts.
    Being trapped is a sense of helplessness, and 3+ yrs of trauma therapy helped me identify my PTSD and depth of avoidance for conflict. Though, being pushed relentlessly, and sabotage my narc has inflicted, influenced my trajectory way too much.
    Failures are what I see, and knowing why won't change that past. What minor future I have, seems to depend on more than I feel capable.

  • @9StickNate
    @9StickNate Před rokem +2

    I’m a fast walker! I move with a purpose. I get annoyed at airports and grocery stores dealing with people who putz around with no situational awareness.
    I also have a piercing stare; mind you… I look people in the eye when I speak with them.
    I think it’s more of a Type A, ADHD ER Nurse thing 😂

  • @Stacy10962
    @Stacy10962 Před 2 lety +3

    My father was a fast walker, point a to point b, no stopping in between. As a young girl I would hold on to his pinky finger and I would be nearly running trying to keep up with him.

    • @novelist99
      @novelist99 Před rokem

      It doesn't mean he was a narcissist. There would be many other traits and behaviors as well.

  • @mayonmekhi
    @mayonmekhi Před 2 lety +1

    Somewhat agree but thanks for the share.

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    @user-yz7gk7fl1e Před 2 lety +2

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  • @Bennydoesntknow
    @Bennydoesntknow Před rokem

    I just recently found out my dad is a narcissist everything makes sense now. Honestly changed my whole outlook on my childhood.

  • @joesyjojo
    @joesyjojo Před rokem +1

    Thank u for these videos 🙏🏼 I’m going through another court case with a massive nassacist, my little boys dad! I’m going through hell and I’m scared so thank you for your understanding of these awful evil people 🥺💜

  • @navydogsadventures3500
    @navydogsadventures3500 Před 2 lety +1

    Big hugs Jill!🤗

  • @anndillard8681
    @anndillard8681 Před 2 lety

    Sometimes, it's also good posture.. HA!.. But I agree with your comments mostly.. But then genuinely confident people also command a room..

  • @bernitacenteno1326
    @bernitacenteno1326 Před 2 lety

    @ Mo Poppins Yes, so helpful. Mine was never really present though he was there for years. Thankyou for your reply.

  • @prettync23
    @prettync23 Před 6 měsíci

    Some actually do use eye contact as a way to let you know that they think they are better than you. It’s like in a way to intimidate everyone or to see if you think that they are better and more attractive. Eye contact is a way to hypnotize people and to show dominance, control and confidence. My ex used it on everyone. It’s a sign of cockiness. Like saying I know you all want me and I want to see that I can make show you that if you don’t like me now then you will later. It’s all apart of their charm.

  • @triplekids3
    @triplekids3 Před 2 lety +3

    My ex sister in-law last week , it’s scary,

    • @augamemnon
      @augamemnon Před 2 lety +1

      Actually with 'higher levels of time of awareness' (TOA) they become really predictable, humorously so. It's like having them is check mate.

  • @needabusinessloanviewourch4817

    It is best not to hit rock bottom to be able to view relationships from the Mountain top of their Real Perspectives and come to terms with reality, You can't fix a cheater, a psychopath, or a narcissist, it's as simple as you can't take blood from stone. these smart phone devices in people's hands have taken them away from real individuality, not until I got closure on my husband I was in the dark. We create our reality and the consciousness of the planet is accelerating. This means people have to become more aware of who they are. When one experiences abuse, you first become aware of the abuse, then realizing you are a victim, With healing and processing comes strong boundaries built by confidence in your worth.
    After this comes a realization that the experience made you stronger and more of who you are and that the narcissist was simply a vehicle for your growth. Ultimately you then realize we are all a creation of our energetic spiritual energy and the narcissist was and is a part of us. In the end, we become accepting of the experience and knowing we would never go back to the previous unawakened and unenlightened version of ourselves. It is not by any means an easy journey and is filled with pain especially when we incarnate into a family with a parent of such characteristics. There is a plan and it is ultimately to drive us. You would love an awakened version of you.
    My husband was a deceptive narcissist and sociopath, he would never apologize, I was always made to feel little on the inside, it was pure psychological warfare at its lowest, I suspected infidelity on his path, not until with the help of the developer of an app code name rat9 for accessing his device without having to physically touch it, with a functionality to view deleted chats and messages as well as call logs and in-app chats, I was completely in the dark. There was a Conversation I read on his Instagram Account where he did address me as 'beauty with no brains'. I'm finally going through a divorce with evidences too overwhelming. His device contained secrets that I could never have imagined. If in need of such help, write directly to the developer on email ' ethandavydova at gmail dot com '.

  • @aking3624
    @aking3624 Před 2 lety +1

    The stare/glare and the smirk...

  • @richardwalker1405
    @richardwalker1405 Před 2 lety

    Thank you Jill.❤️👍🏻🙏🏻✅😊🌹

  • @livingforfree2
    @livingforfree2 Před 2 lety +1

    I walk slow, to catch thoughts....i hate walking fast.......

  • @LR-yu3mx
    @LR-yu3mx Před 2 lety +3

    My mother always gave me that stare in church. To this day I cannot listen to organ music

    • @augamemnon
      @augamemnon Před 2 lety

      Lol... like a melodrama!

    • @zwijdenes1376
      @zwijdenes1376 Před 10 měsíci

      That is cognitive disonance, i have it too; i cant be around friends of my father.

  • @dixiegardner6207
    @dixiegardner6207 Před 2 lety +1

    Question..... My Narc husband never cared for or took any interest in our children all through their lives. This has pained me greatly to watch the devastating effects on them. Now, he will watch CZcams video and ooo and aww over other children and watch videos of dads playing with their kids and he seems to be actually able to relate to them like they are more real than his own children ever were. What the hell is that?

    • @sanjmalik6282
      @sanjmalik6282 Před 2 lety +2

      I can relate to that, my ex never gave my three children any time. He literally was stranger living with us. He took no part in their school life, their clubs or their life at home. My children have grown up now but I found my ex playing with his friends children and his nieces and nephews like he was the best uncle ever. I used to think what the hell !.

  • @garyklein7498
    @garyklein7498 Před 2 lety +1

    Correct, after 30 years of family, until untimely death of cancer I tried, diploma Psych 12 years, many self therapy ACIM etc, with her and failed all family destroyed for generations beyond, from Catholic ward of the state, until death, the inner child was broken as she knew, but could not except external help for a life time of 59years, sad she destroyed my family forever and self, in every way even after death? Who wants to be eternal anyway? Me I want to do what I am supposed to progress, Science, understanding all fields, creativity, thought, education to others if you can convey, your children paramount. The knowledge of the distant past, to a child is not possible, limited time frame perspective.The NPD has died, left a trail of destruction to all, body language, behavior known 3 decades previous.The sad thing is I miss her!

  • @QigongQi
    @QigongQi Před rokem

    I have the" thousand-yard stare"from CPTSD and trauma from a lot of naturalistic abuse. I recentlt had a abusive woman who said "Look at me!"whilw trying to impose her crazymaking as the conversation was alll over the place. It brought me back to childhood trauma that my mothers 2nd husband did to me as a intimidating. I left with a panicked feeling and felt dehumanized, it made me this small "talking" to her which wasn't really a civil conversation, at all. I think she may have been a covert narc and came across as enjoying to push my buttons. She said in a text "I can't handle rejection"but wasn't rejecting her. I was very confused to he behavior, I could sense I was very unwelcome at that table and, since I was left put of eye contact and acknowledgment during the.prayer when we eating. This was in a public place mind you and amat a loss was why she thought she could talk to me like that in a public place, no shame I guess. Needless to say I blocked her and think the it was a set up as nobody told me before I would be having lunch with her, my so called friend who is her friend didn't even tell me beforehand. It broke what little trust I had left for older post divorced women and their "advice."

  • @a1zenGOD
    @a1zenGOD Před 2 lety +1

    1000% spot on. You described perfect my ex girlfriend. jesus it scares me

  • @tneville1962
    @tneville1962 Před 2 lety

    On point

  • @emmaharper860
    @emmaharper860 Před 2 lety

    Absolutely 💯

  • @tuxtux1424
    @tuxtux1424 Před 2 lety +1

    My girlfriend had a stare but eyes would flick side to side. Best way to describe it was that she had dead eyes like a shark

    • @rde4017
      @rde4017 Před 5 měsíci

      The difference is a shark always looks you in the eye to show you who's boss!

  • @DutchDriver
    @DutchDriver Před 2 lety

    Very attractive thumbnail with your hair down like that, Jill.

  • @edwardweisenburg16
    @edwardweisenburg16 Před 2 lety

    My ex used to sleep with one open. And it ( her eye) would actually move around and watch me walk by. It was CREEPY !!!!!!!

  • @blessed7927
    @blessed7927 Před 2 lety

    Is the stare more like anger? I have seen the weird eye brow thing. I have also felt the weird “not feeling they are listening” even though they may be quiet. No follow up questions or so many questions you cant answer even one (two different narcs)

  • @constancedenchy9801
    @constancedenchy9801 Před 11 měsíci

    Hard part is many of these traits are seen in people with Aspergers

  • @alonzomosley7
    @alonzomosley7 Před 2 lety +1

    God they are strange people ,the body language is a dead give away.A couple of other things they may have is a leg jigging habit and when they perform tasks a ridiculous nervous impatience energy.

  • @watchwomanokc5021
    @watchwomanokc5021 Před 2 lety +1

    Last night my husband narc walked right into our 10 year old expecting him to move out of his way but he didn't so he shoulder bumps my son.

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 Před 2 lety

      They are so arrogant ‼️I waits for the End Time, when the Narcissists and their Flying Monkeys will get burned ‼️💎 Starseed, INFJ Heyoka.

  • @alicejohnstone5348
    @alicejohnstone5348 Před rokem

    Reptilian stare 😂 agree

  • @Invisibility397
    @Invisibility397 Před 2 lety +1

    So basically they walk around with ARROGANT body language. Because that's what I have observed in the sociopath I was "Friends" with and yes my only way out was to post CZcams videos on her automatic traits and tendenciesto Facebook. The last thing I did was disclose everything I personally experienced in the past 6 years. Oops yet its hilarious that not a single one of her other friends have even attempted to try and approach me. Yet my mom and me out of a family of 6 are the only 2 not to have a short stay in a rubber room with ding biscuits as snacks. Big Fish , Little Fish. Nom Nom Nom. ! Guess they don't want to get Ma im ed.

  • @lb5560
    @lb5560 Před 10 měsíci

    Yikes, I sure don’t hope I am a narcisict. I’m pretty sure, though that’s what a narcisct would say ofcource.

  • @ericaholloway1751
    @ericaholloway1751 Před rokem

    Yikes.. the stare

  • @rosiegonzalez2322
    @rosiegonzalez2322 Před 2 lety +1

    Lol 😂

  • @judyjoan8429
    @judyjoan8429 Před 2 lety +1

    Mine of 30 years walks like a turtle and keeps his head buried in the sand he walks in the flesh he isn’t capable of an emotional bond with me or our grand babies or especially our son. He is jealous he needs to grow some or leave us alone

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 Před 2 lety

      A Narcissist is a predator, they are takers who only breadcrumb others, are in lack of empathy and are not capable of love ‼️A Narcissist gets worse as older they get and some kill their partner, take your joy and freedom back by leaving a Narcissist ‼️💎 Starseed, INFJ Heyoka.

  • @louisebarker2322
    @louisebarker2322 Před rokem

    Greys anatomy and fake 3 d printing. Is that transhumanism. ? Lonely life for Louise. Therapy games. When will the transhumanism abuse be acknowledged. Invisible torture.

  • @RB-jq6gh
    @RB-jq6gh Před 11 měsíci

    I met one who looks, walks like a silverback Gorilla.