I wanted to go to Rome this year had no one to go with so just went for it and went by myself, had so many people that couldn’t believe I even thought of the idea of going on my own. We came into this world alone and we go out of this world alone. I hate being made second best to all my friends and family and their relationships.
I think everyone should prioritise themselves but when you get in to a relationship it does stop. I am married and feel stuck in a rut with myself and think it’s time to do what michaella wants to do 😊. I’m going to do things on my own and enjoy my own company too. Your smashing it ❤
Setting boundaries is so important and overlooked. We are so used to the pressure to make other people feel better for us saying no!! I’ve learnt to set these boundaries at work and it has been life changing ✨
I can really relate to what you're saying because I broke up with my ex a month or so ago and I love how my time is my own now. I also found that the balance of giving in my relationship was not in my favour (amongst being treated really poorly) so I'm really enjoying going for things I want now and just not having to compromise or worry about anyone else. It feels so freeing❤
As a fellow ADHD-er exercise is so important for me too! It's because of the Dopamine release, as an ADHD brain lacks Dopamine, the exercise Dopamine release brings us up to "normal" and that's why we feel calm, focused and motivated for the rest of the day and just able to get stuff done 😊
I can feel your energy Helen❤ you can see your mojo is back and you are bouncy and adorable 🥰 I can so relate to this. The first 2/3 months of this year I was feeling so flat. No amount of yoga, dog walking or pic n mix sorted it. Took action to have my HRT and meds sorted and now all those hormones are balanced I feel fabulous. My daily yoga is now also two Pilates reformers a week. I am focussing on doing lovely things for me and those close to me and removed all expectations of how I should look and feel. I am enough ☺️ You look stunning Helen, the hair, and the clothes, but most importantly the sparkle is back 🤓
I'm really enjoying your updates on how you're bettering your quality of life. It's super inspiring! Thanks for your brutal honesty and straight talk. Keep it up, Helen. It means a lot to others who are struggling with self care and self growth. ❤❤🥰
Loved this!! 2 months in after a relationship breakdown where I walked away. I’m starting to lose the anxiety of being alone and this video has really inspired me. Enjoy your BH weekend xxx
You seem so happy and well-balanced. I absolutely love that! 😊 Watching your video made me feel so good. Thank you for that! ❤ I decided to go to South Korea for working holiday on my own 6 months ago. A lot of people asked me if I really want to do that because it's a completely new culture and language and it will be quite challenging and if I'm capable of doing that? Of course it's not always easy but I'm proud and happy that I made that decision and this journey is something that I'm doing just for myself. I will take these memories forever with me. 😊 So I just want to tell you guys that I totally agree with Helen: Just do what you want and what makes you happy. 😊
There's a word that the Danish use called "hygge" which doesn't have a direct translation in English but it is essentially means the feeling of what you were talking about with your cup of tea on the sofa, or listening to a vinyl etc. The feeling of cosy contentment or the joy in the simple, little things in life. (I'm not Danish but I'm going to Copenhagen this weekend so as a fellow ADHD girl have become hyper fixated on all things Danish in preparation for my travels lmao) Always love your videos - you keep doing you, Helen! 💖
Love this! I’ve realised I need to focus more on self love myself recently. It’s somthing that no one really talks about or tells you to do and we get in this habit of burning the wick at both ends. Thanks for talking about for this
Helen you radiate such lovely positive energy!! I always love watching your videos, its like having a big sister hahaha!! Been a follower since the Melon Lady days!! Where's your waistcoat from? Its so nice. Xxx
we must have love for ourselves before we can open up to another . . sometimes we look for that one person to "complete" me . . and it may seem as if they do fit that roll, for a while until we realise we are still unforfilled and until we properly address that, why and how we can fill that completion, either because of loss, delusion, etc we will always be restlessly searching and never fully content.
Ive done it now its too bleedin late, What they gunna do, whats gunna happen , gunna shoot me?! I doubt it , they'd have to catch me first , im like a whippet 😂 I quote this so often and yet not enough!!
I wanted to go to Rome this year had no one to go with so just went for it and went by myself, had so many people that couldn’t believe I even thought of the idea of going on my own. We came into this world alone and we go out of this world alone. I hate being made second best to all my friends and family and their relationships.
What an amazing place to visit, my fave place in the world xx
I always wanted to take a trip by myself.. but I’m just so scared 🥹😭
Well done! ☺ hope you had a lovely time and wish you more future happy travels
I’ve done this too, last year I went to Disney World on my own!
my first holiday on my own was the Best experience ever. never enjoyed a holiday this much
I think everyone should prioritise themselves but when you get in to a relationship it does stop. I am married and feel stuck in a rut with myself and think it’s time to do what michaella wants to do 😊. I’m going to do things on my own and enjoy my own company too. Your smashing it ❤
Setting boundaries is so important and overlooked. We are so used to the pressure to make other people feel better for us saying no!! I’ve learnt to set these boundaries at work and it has been life changing ✨
I can really relate to what you're saying because I broke up with my ex a month or so ago and I love how my time is my own now. I also found that the balance of giving in my relationship was not in my favour (amongst being treated really poorly) so I'm really enjoying going for things I want now and just not having to compromise or worry about anyone else. It feels so freeing❤
As a fellow ADHD-er exercise is so important for me too! It's because of the Dopamine release, as an ADHD brain lacks Dopamine, the exercise Dopamine release brings us up to "normal" and that's why we feel calm, focused and motivated for the rest of the day and just able to get stuff done 😊
I can feel your energy Helen❤ you can see your mojo is back and you are bouncy and adorable 🥰 I can so relate to this. The first 2/3 months of this year I was feeling so flat. No amount of yoga, dog walking or pic n mix sorted it. Took action to have my HRT and meds sorted and now all those hormones are balanced I feel fabulous. My daily yoga is now also two Pilates reformers a week. I am focussing on doing lovely things for me and those close to me and removed all expectations of how I should look and feel. I am enough ☺️
You look stunning Helen, the hair, and the clothes, but most importantly the sparkle is back 🤓
I'm really enjoying your updates on how you're bettering your quality of life. It's super inspiring! Thanks for your brutal honesty and straight talk. Keep it up, Helen. It means a lot to others who are struggling with self care and self growth. ❤❤🥰
Taking back my house has been the best feeling I’ve had this week!
Yes 🙌🏻
Loved this!! 2 months in after a relationship breakdown where I walked away. I’m starting to lose the anxiety of being alone and this video has really inspired me. Enjoy your BH weekend xxx
You seem so happy and well-balanced. I absolutely love that! 😊 Watching your video made me feel so good. Thank you for that! ❤
I decided to go to South Korea for working holiday on my own 6 months ago. A lot of people asked me if I really want to do that because it's a completely new culture and language and it will be quite challenging and if I'm capable of doing that? Of course it's not always easy but I'm proud and happy that I made that decision and this journey is something that I'm doing just for myself. I will take these memories forever with me. 😊
So I just want to tell you guys that I totally agree with Helen: Just do what you want and what makes you happy. 😊
Aww Helen your inner light is shining so bright! keeping doing what you are doing because you look so happy, it's inspiring. x
You look so happy! So many great ideas here! Love you Helen 💛 Keep being you!
Thank you love! Xx
you really are one of those people that everyone really need in their/our lives. i’m 1000% sure of it.
There's a word that the Danish use called "hygge" which doesn't have a direct translation in English but it is essentially means the feeling of what you were talking about with your cup of tea on the sofa, or listening to a vinyl etc. The feeling of cosy contentment or the joy in the simple, little things in life. (I'm not Danish but I'm going to Copenhagen this weekend so as a fellow ADHD girl have become hyper fixated on all things Danish in preparation for my travels lmao) Always love your videos - you keep doing you, Helen! 💖
I went in feb came back trying to learn danish on Duolingo 😂 it really is a beautiful city
Love this! I’ve realised I need to focus more on self love myself recently. It’s somthing that no one really talks about or tells you to do and we get in this habit of burning the wick at both ends. Thanks for talking about for this
You look fantastic, Helen! Always have, and it really shows that you're in a good place, and I'm so happy to see it! All the best to you love🌼💛✨️
So glad to hear that you’re feeling great! ❤
You’re so inspiring Helen! ❤ love and appreciate you so much ☺️
how sick is that wallpaper!!
Watching you since your Violet hair days. You are very brave and selfsufficient person. I wish I was that way
You are glowing lately, it’s lovely to see 😍
This video is brilliant. Thank you so much for sharing.
Amazing video!! I'm so proud of you 👏 do you, and thanks for the lovely advice.😊 You rock! 🤘
You look amazing!! I love this Helen xxx
been with you for years ~ this segment was insane.. I felt you were talking 3000 per second.. love you and you look great
Literally adore you. Thanks for this video ❤
Helen you radiate such lovely positive energy!! I always love watching your videos, its like having a big sister hahaha!! Been a follower since the Melon Lady days!! Where's your waistcoat from? Its so nice. Xxx
I’ve lived In a van for 6 years an travel the world alone. My life is alone an I love it
Thanks for being the big sis I never had ❤
we must have love for ourselves before we can open up to another . .
sometimes we look for that one person to "complete" me . . and it may seem as if they do fit that roll, for a while until we realise we are still unforfilled and until we properly address that, why and how we can fill that completion, either because of loss, delusion, etc we will always be restlessly searching and never fully content.
Totally agree xx
Hey! Loved this. Nap resets are great. And orgasms are magic to clear migraines.
Ive done it now its too bleedin late, What they gunna do, whats gunna happen , gunna shoot me?! I doubt it , they'd have to catch me first , im like a whippet 😂
I quote this so often and yet not enough!!
What tan are you using? ❤
Love this 🥰
Love your outfit and your hair. And welcome to singleton haha
YASSSS QUEEN! ❤🤘
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Have you tried microdosing!? Might be ur vibe xx
69 pounds lol 😂
Hahaaaa
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