GUARD YOUR EYES: The Science Behind Pornography Addiction
Vložit
- čas přidán 4. 11. 2019
- In this critical Shiur by Rabbi Yaron Reuven, he discusses the dangers of pornography addiction and wasting seed, highlighting their moral and spiritual consequences. Drawing from religious texts, Rabbi Reuven explains that wasting seed is considered a grave sin, with roots in ancient teachings. He emphasizes that pornography addiction rewires the brain, creating unrealistic expectations and damaging relationships.
The Shiur underscores the importance of modesty, self-control, and early education to combat these issues. Rabbi Reuven urges adherence to religious teachings, advocating for contentment with what Hashem provides and vigilance in guarding one's eyes to lead a righteous life.
BREAKING JEWISH NEWS: The World's FIRST TIKKUN HaBRIT & TeShuva Movies CD/DVD Combo in ENGLISH. Join The Campain for Your Personal Ticket To Olam HaBa!!!
www.flipcause.com/secure/caus...
documentcloud.adobe.com/link/...
To Support our KIRUV and Torah Teachings work please DONATE at www.BeEzratHaShem.org If you'd like to invite Rabbi Yaron Reuven to give a lecture at your synagogue, home or office. Rabbi Reuven is based out of Florida but travels to give lectures to different groups. Join one of our interactive "Interesting Torah" Whatsapp groups to get daily updates and short Torah clips that can uplift your day by texting 1.917.468.2324 or +91 93236 69880
Click here / se. . To Listen to our very popular "Daily Chidush" short audio series on SOUNDCLOUD or the Podcast Channel at beezrathashem.jewishpodcasts....
Born in Netanya, Israel, Rabbi Yaron Reuven began his American Dream as a little boy, when his family immigrated to the United States. He went from a newspaper boy at the age of 10, to a well-known self-made Wall Street multimillionaire by the age of 23. During his time in Wall Street, he owned his own private brokerage firm, a hedge fund, and an international insurance agency. He was featured on CNBC, Bloomberg and Chinese NDTV due to his success in the financial industry.
At age 26 he faced a 7-year battle for his life when a simple surgery went wrong. From that moment his life would never be the same. This moment marked the start of a series of miraculous events and an exciting pursuit of truth, ultimately resulting in Rabbi Reuven renouncing his lofty position and success in Wall Street, after 16 years, to become a full-time KIRUV rabbi. His Teshuva story is sure to catch the heart of every listener.
Rabbi Reuven’s shiurim are in English and Hebrew. His classes are focused on spreading the truth and divinity of the Torah through MUSSAR, scientific proofs, and many other methods to reach each individual listener. Rabbi Reuven is the leading educator on the topic of wasting seed in the English language with over 30 hrs of content published online.
Rabbi Yaron Reuven is a proud member of the Igud HaRabbonim (The Rabbinical Alliance of America), a national rabbinic organization founded in 1942. Today, our 900+ members are congregational leaders, religious teachers, chaplains, heads of Jewish organizations and communal leaders united in their commitment to traditional Orthodox Judaism. For more information please visit: rabbinicalalliance.org/
#Torah #tikkunhabrit #movie #judaism #jewish #rabbiyaronreuven #lifestyle #addiction #wastingseed #guardyoureyes #modesty #modest #pgamhabrit #Brit #motivation #JewishLife #spirituality #kosher #JewishWisdom #Shabbat #Mitzvah #Faith #JewishCommunity #JewishTradition #Halacha #Teshuva #Talmud #JewishLearning #JewishCulture #emunah #bitachon
I’ve never watched pornography, because my father told me when I was around thirteen “That’s some father’s daughter, and if you look at that, you’re shaming him, and her whole family.” It was good enough of a reason for me. I also have to say to his credit, that I NEVER got bad advice from him. To the contrary, I believe that, in this life, HaShem speaks to us, gives us counsel first and foremost through our parents; regardless of how old we are. My father and mother passed fifteen years ago, but I still follow the strictures that they laid down in my soul. It’s one way that I can continue to “honor your father and your mother!”
That's actually a good way to look at it. Pornography is the debasement of humanity and family. It is utterly humiliating, both for the watcher (who acts like a cuck) and the family of the whore. Porn is pure evil.
Thank you for bringing this to my attention. You are a Sage as far as I am concerned. Shalom-Aleichem.
I am Muslim but i am amazed because what you are saying is 100% compliant with my religion .. thank you for the Amazing talk Sir
Because it is Torah, and everything that is good and decent is Torah
Your religion comes from ours lol
Our religion hasnt been distorted at all unlike judaism has lol also go and have a look at who the founder of porn was... @@sosa41604
@@user-qn6hp7fn8llike how every mankind will be a slave to a jew when the messiah comes?
Not everything the rabbi said is compliant with islam, the Jewish belief about Adam a.s. Is highly flawed and blasphemous according to Islam. How can demons come from Adam, a nabi, a prophet of Allah.
Thank you rabbi for this goldmine of information. I'm not Jewish but love listening to your lectures
Lmao your name. I think it’s so smart of people to look at religions that aren’t there own to learn new ways of living. Good job.
I don't know how to dressed like a righteous gentile woman because I just started learning the TORAH but I will learn.
May Lord bless you keep going 🙏
"She wants to be married to everybody...Carlos from the supermarket; Steve from work, Sylvester from the construction company". I shouldn't be laughing, but LOL.
It made me laugh too, especially since my cat’s name is Sylvester lol
Very needed for our times. I was sick before listening to this speech. Now I am on the way to tesuvah. Thank you rabbi so much!
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ VERY IMPORTANT LECTURE - INCREDIBLE INFORMATION!!
I learned so much from this rabbi respect when I was Muslim I never seen such knowledgeable person like him
Baruch HaShem and thank you for learning Torah with us. May HaShem continue to bless you.
Glad to hear you left islam
@@YaronReuvenRabbi I'm new to Judaism Rabbi Yaron, what does hashem mean? Also I'm studying Torah and read the talmud daily technically am I a jew? I the Torah is transforming my life. Also thank you, your a very knowledgeable man.
@@torahemetkiruv8807 glad? Lol chill out
Darwinian Delusions, Allahyari, Hassan Rajabali, Islamic Pulse, many others....
My Beautiful Brother, thank you for that talk. Keep preaching the truth, the Fire of Hashem....This is so relevant for today...sick minded people are everywhere! I'm praying for salvation for them!
Blessed be the Lord for this strong lesson this is very serious, thank Lord for teaching us through our Rabbi Yaron Reuven👏🤗
Baruch HaShem and thank you for learning and supporting our Torah and Kiruv work. May HaShem continue to bless you.
Job 31:1 I have made a covenant with my eyes; How then could I gaze at a maiden. Got Torah Got Truth
Along my journey as a baal teshuva, there have been 2 phases. Before and after overcoming this disgusting habbit. I grew up secular so I was taught its normal. NONSENSE. When you preserve your seed you have more energy and need less sleep, you exercise more, and have more mental vigor to learn torah. To succeed in the long run you have to stop looking because that's where it all starts. Even if you rationalize looking at women saying you wont come to release seed, the subconscious absorbs it and you will release seed in your sleep. Also say the tikkun haklali every day, this has led me to finally win this war.
tehillim: 16, 32, 41, 42, 59, 77, 90, 105, 137, 150.
💪😎
Thank you Rabbi for giving us the wake up call we all need. I am doing teshuva now.
@Venezia fasted. confessed my sin to Hashem. Felt sincere shame and remorse and most importantly, I stopped doing it.
Also started Guarding my eyes. Observing the laws of family purity. Wife started going to the mikvah and I started channeling my sex drive into marriage instead of wasting seed.
Give tzedakah. Do more Chesed. Took on more mitzvot.
Read Shaarei Teshuva by Rabbeinu Yonah. It will change your life. Follow what he says, it will help you overcome your yetzer hara.
@Venezia I am a nobody. Don't learn from me. if you are serious about doing teshuva, study the the classical sources, the Tanach, the Talmud, Shaarei Teshuva all deal with the question of what to do when you stumble. Rabbi Reuven answers this question very nicely.
If you are just a missionary using this as a hook, then go watch the videos of Tovia Singer, Michael Skobac etc. before you talk to me because I am not interested in wasting my time on that nonsense.
@Venezia I do have an achilles hill. When I first started to do teshuva I used to stumble in this sin. I have a big yetzer hara for women. But don't get demoralised. You have to get up and try harder and harder.
I know I have an achilles hill, so I take steps to guard myself and fence myself off from the things that can bring me to do this sin. Thank, God this approach works.
If you guard your eyes. Guard your thoughts, keep focused on Hashem and Torah. Find a kosher outlet for your sex drive ie. marriage. You won't stumble. It gets a lot easier. Thank God, I haven't stumbled in this sin for a long, long time now. Because I fence myself off and guard against my "achilles hill"
I have to becareful not to become negligent about guarding myself, because I can stumble in this sin very easlily in the future. But Thank God for now, I haven't.
@Venezia thank you. Blessings to you too.
@Venezia once you stop with all the impurity, it actually gets a lot easier over time.
When you cleanse yourself from all the impurity, you actually feel yourself becoming more pure and closer to Hashem. It's the most beautiful feeling.
So even when your lusts incite against you, you reach a point where you don't want to act on it because the spiritual pleasure of being pure far outweighs the physical pleasure that comes with impurity.
Thankyou Rabbi Rueven Baruch Hashem bless the name forever and ever HALLELUJAH 🕊️ thankful for your truth and insight
An excellent delivered lecture!!!
Amazing lecture, amazing. Needed to be said.
Good lecture Rabbi. The thing is...is one says their prayers everyday, with all their heart, all their soul and all their strength, and studies Torah daily, well then they don't even want to watch Netflix, much less that stuff.
The Rambam writes immoral thoughts only reside in a mind devoid of torah wisdom. Always study or review in your mind what you already know, and the sinful thoughts leave immediately.
Rabbi you are the best . Hashem bless you in all your holy undertakings Amen
Baruch Hashem for your outstanding shiur !
thank you so much rabbi
Shalom...
Good example with a hot oven. I recently had to tear down an oven. To prevent dust from forming, an experienced work colleague told me to pour about twelve liters of water into the top hatch so that no fine dust is released. Water is Torah. Thank you for this shiur.
Quality content
EXCELLENT!
Thanks a lot
Emet ,, true Rabbi Reuven I pray to Hashem to help me to be closer and closer to him .. more and more everyday 🙏🙏
Thanks!
BARUCH HASHEM!!
I also think this comes when someone gets closer to holiness, temptation increases, that’s what the yetser hara feeds from: kedusha. So the best way is to ask Hashem to bless is with his Shekhinah so that it remains always with us and guards us... and we should just increase studying the torah even more and temptation decreases. I’m trying this and it works... and also diet plays an important role, of course kosher is important but when we are tempted let’s eat like Daniel, it transforms us from inner out. Baruch Hashem anyone feels strengthened by my testimony and may G-d bless the Rav for his teachings.
This truth is freeing !! This class is cpr for our neshama! Guardyoureyes.org is a life preserver. Anonymous support and therapy group! The next step towards recovery from this spiritual pandemic. May Hashem help those who wish to help themselves
Every mother knows their baby boys need to be taught not to harm their precious members.
You are one million times correct. Rabbi. Blessings to Yahweh.
Guess which demographics is behind pornography? Take a wild guess.
😂😂 THE KHAZARS
Baruch Haba b'shem Adonai
Rabbi I’m not sure if I understood when you said that woman should not wear wigs ? So then what should they wear they must cover there hair no?
mitpachat or hat.
@@YaronReuvenRabbi ty
Rav or anyone, can please explain why this action is not halachacly ok for women? Also why women/women relations not okay-I am explaining it to someone who needs help but she keeps saying Halacha says it’s ok. I feel like there is a contradictions here...you don’t have to be a man to have sexual immorality like Rav said, many women watch disgusting things yet I feel like there’s no space for these type of conversations regarding women. Or am I wrong? I can’t be. I did t’shuva for all the transgressions so either I’m wrong and t’shuva doesn’t exist or there is a huge issue here affecting both men and women.
Thank you would be a great help.
Did anyone catch what he said at 10:32?
“You’re G-d’s daughter for heaven’s sake”
Rabbi, Should a single man w/o kids marry a single mum. What does the Torah say about this? Is it allowed by Hashem?
there is no sin for marrying a single mom as long as she is a Jewess and the kids are not mamzerim
if she is a good woman that is modest and follows the Torah, then its a very good thing to do.
@@YaronReuvenRabbi תודה על תשובתך. אני מבין שכנראה שלא הייתי צריך לענות או להציע את דעתי. סלח לי.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Lmao, so true about the state of Hollywood marriages, and the praise heaped on 20 year marriages..."What do you want, us to clap for you?! That's the way it's supposed to be Habibi!" FACTS RIGHT THERE, never a true word said!
Thank you , but I also live in South Florida and the weather is warm here year round as you know. And women don't dress precisely modestly , but rather the other way around. So how do you deal with this for example in your personal life? What are we supposed to do? to not look at any woman ? isolate from the world?
thanks in advance for any guidance you can provide
the first look when you see a person is not a sin, so long as you look away and not continue. You don't need to isolate yourself, but rather train yourself to look away as quickly and smoothly as possible and also avoid certain places you know will be trouble.
@@YaronReuvenRabbi Thank you for your reply Rabbi
Look at mate that does not tempt you, and think you are shaming them, look at those who no temptation temptation meditation on it pray for this normal, a life battle, every second is now not normal
Even if angels visit sex craving of Sodom is reality, give youth to Abba of shabbat
Emet.
54:12 one question
why would i be ripped apart in heaven if i mary a jewess? whats the problem? didnt ruth mary boaz, and yet she was a gentile?
Ruth converted to Judaism before she married Boaz. She's the great grandmother of King David who was 10000% Jewish. This would not be possible if she was not Jewish herself.
What can I say to a rabbi's wife who wears a long wig and transparent summer simla? I had an interview for subbing as a nurse in the local Chabad kindergarten and I wear long sleeves, long dresses and kisui rosh Sephardi style. Some workers definitely goyot... I felt so down after the interview just being tsinuah when I realized that I'm not welcome as I am... I thoughted that at least in Jewish kindergarten I could be accepted as a Bat Melech 😟 but one day my efforts being tsinuah will be rewarded 😊
Rabbi there are so many African and arab “refugees” marrying Jewish women these days. In the last week alone, I personally KNEW of 3 couples (one non Jew one Jew) getting married, and it’s usually a female who is the latter. I could only imagine all the ones I haven’t heard of yet. End times are coming
أتأمرون الناس بالبر وتنسون أنفسكم وأنتم تتلون الکتاب! أفلا تعقلون
You're saying that there is no such thing as the ability to refrain from wasting seed? Is celibacy an illusion? What do monks or priests do then since they take the oath? Are you saying that all of them are wasting seed? If there are exceptions, how can this be since there are no alternatives from what you said? One is either wasting seed or he is with his wife having normal relations.
If you completely refrain from social interation, then yes
But a man, especially a Jewish one, is not called to refrain from social interaction, rather on the contrary he must engage with others
But if you interact with others, are single and get bored (which leads to impure thoughts), it's nearly impossible not to commit sexual immorality in a way or another (wasting seed, going to prostitutes, watching pornography, looking at immodest pictures...)
@@jeantleman_ Very few have the ability to abstain, as a result, many have turned to molestation. Never modify the holy Torah can someone possibly think of 'improving' the Torah? What fools. How can one correct the sin or do teshvah, seeing the many lives it negatively affected- let alone the people responsible of putting burdens on the people?
@@mitzvahtorah7966 who spoke about improving the Torah? it's just that you need to adapt to our current society (while of course basing yourself on the Torah, which is what the Sages and Rabbis have done, plus they have been given the authority to do so by HaShem, they have been given the seat of Moshe)
how is it murder when a jew marries a non jew?
I'm so ashamed 😩😩😩🙈🙈
You can repent always as long as you are alive. Watch lectures by the rabbi about modesty. Good Luck!!!
Do it
B'H