The secret behind who you choose as your husband.

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  • A must watch for all women. Begin to Look within yourself to solve your problems.
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Komentáře • 159

  • @tharshiniravi5298
    @tharshiniravi5298 Před 3 lety +19

    Maam I really goosebumps and happy after saw your speech. You help me identify what's the actual problem of myself. The reason for my insecure mindset and low self confidence because of past childhood tragedies. Now clear with what I am and what should I need to do to change myself. ♥️💯

  • @reenavictor
    @reenavictor Před 6 lety +8

    Wow!!!really true!!!Thank you!

  • @vishalishyam5988
    @vishalishyam5988 Před 6 lety +2

    Exactly said.. thank you

  • @rochana.g.vpsgrkcw8123
    @rochana.g.vpsgrkcw8123 Před 2 lety +2

    The right time to seen thizz, I'm studying -III YR BSC. PSYCHOLOGY I inspired lotz of ur way of perception mam..

  • @sasikala3673
    @sasikala3673 Před 5 lety +116

    Tq mam,,,,,marriage nu nenachale bayama iruku mam,,,,enoda frnds and family marriage pathi negative ah solum podhu enaku adhe mind set laiye iruken mam,,,,na adha epdi handle pandradhu pls solungah,,,

  • @gayathrisundaram4958
    @gayathrisundaram4958 Před 6 lety +5

    It's fully applicable for me

  • @vigneshkumar3460
    @vigneshkumar3460 Před 2 lety

    Right and excellent thinking . You are a good reformer

  • @roshinirachel9339
    @roshinirachel9339 Před 6 lety +12

    Awesome rightly said .👌

  • @tt-es9gf
    @tt-es9gf Před 6 lety +5

    Rempa tq madam enaku ulla topic tan ithu

  • @kanzaamuizftuy9y729
    @kanzaamuizftuy9y729 Před rokem +1

    Really heart touching 👏♥️
    Thanks mam for ur great advice

  • @pricimeenu4861
    @pricimeenu4861 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you mam . 💐💐💐🙏

  • @devimurugeshan348
    @devimurugeshan348 Před 6 lety +1

    mam super unga speech unga speech sema use fulla irukku

  • @psolomon1000
    @psolomon1000 Před 5 lety +2

    U r very good..and correct

  • @feminaazmi3753
    @feminaazmi3753 Před 5 lety +1

    Thanks for this video 😃

  • @lakshminarayanan6491
    @lakshminarayanan6491 Před 6 lety +2

    Highly good thought

  • @anbu6555
    @anbu6555 Před 5 lety +3

    thank you sister😍

  • @AD-db3sv
    @AD-db3sv Před 5 lety +2

    Wow superb.. most needed one

  • @maninivyakoki7498
    @maninivyakoki7498 Před 6 lety +4

    100%correct madam

  • @keerthibalan2059
    @keerthibalan2059 Před 6 lety +10

    exactly..this happens in my home

  • @arula9323
    @arula9323 Před 2 lety +1

    Your analysis is good

  • @jeevijeevi5058
    @jeevijeevi5058 Před 6 lety +58

    I am love married but my husband is my world 🌎 my hubby is so good love you so my Dr hubby 💜💜😘😘😍😍😍

    • @sbathma
      @sbathma Před 3 lety +3

      Eppo epdi

    • @sheikh7120
      @sheikh7120 Před 3 lety +2

      Whatsapp status la poduradha inga vandhu poduringaley 🙄

  • @charupriya1434
    @charupriya1434 Před 5 lety +1

    Super mam.. tq😇😍

  • @captainjack5779
    @captainjack5779 Před 3 lety +3

    Thanks akka en lifela unkita oru time nerla pesunum unga voice supera iruku akka

  • @vigneshkumar3460
    @vigneshkumar3460 Před 2 lety

    I salute you for guiding youths

  • @vinus5290
    @vinus5290 Před 2 lety

    Romba nandri mam

  • @karthikeyan-iw5on
    @karthikeyan-iw5on Před 5 lety +2

    nice speech meam

  • @sudhapandian6577
    @sudhapandian6577 Před 3 lety +1

    3.48 I start to cry because its reflect my self

  • @ash1224_rh
    @ash1224_rh Před 6 lety +1

    Definitely mam

  • @abdulnasar7480
    @abdulnasar7480 Před 6 lety +1

    நன்றி

  • @julyvna
    @julyvna Před 3 lety +18

    Thank you mam. I'm raised by a toxic family.. Narcissistic, emotionally abusive mother.. To deal with them, since childhood, I made sure I earn and become independent. And I did. But I'm very scared about choosing my life partner. I'm worried if my family would continue abusing me even after marriage. Can you help me anyway mam?

  • @reshikalalitha6550
    @reshikalalitha6550 Před 6 lety +11

    Well said.True Words..But just a thought..In the example you said,The more you are ignored the more stronger you emerge at the end with a fighting spirit..👍

  • @eshwarieshu7075
    @eshwarieshu7075 Před 6 lety +1

    It's true ...

  • @priyadarshiny2867
    @priyadarshiny2867 Před 5 lety +1

    Useful mam

  • @syamalaparamanandham6795

    Vazhga vazhamudan mam

  • @rislarizlasiyam3528
    @rislarizlasiyam3528 Před 2 lety

    Tq so much mam

  • @kalaivani-fo9hb
    @kalaivani-fo9hb Před 6 lety +4

    Sure mam namala kastapaduthura ninvugala apdia vitudurathu nallathu.apo than atutha step namanla pogamudium thank you mam 👍👍👍👍

  • @doxyshiva
    @doxyshiva Před 4 lety

    Thanks mam

  • @rakchinidurcka
    @rakchinidurcka Před 6 lety +1

    Very good

  • @Manju-ne5pi
    @Manju-ne5pi Před 4 lety

    Tq....so much mam and I love you....mam

  • @dhivi0302
    @dhivi0302 Před 5 lety +47

    Naa enga appa va base panni enoda life partner ah select panna virumbala pannavum mata

  • @balakrishnanc4176
    @balakrishnanc4176 Před 6 lety +1

    Super video madam

  • @rathna786
    @rathna786 Před rokem

    Well said

  • @a.janani2038
    @a.janani2038 Před 4 měsíci

    Super 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @chandrashri18
    @chandrashri18 Před 6 lety +1

    Super sister

  • @ramyajayaraman4488
    @ramyajayaraman4488 Před 5 lety +7

    thanks mam really u are a legend thanks for such a inspirational video

  • @vijigayathri4264
    @vijigayathri4264 Před 2 lety

    Tq amma

  • @Anu-uu2gj
    @Anu-uu2gj Před 5 lety +1

    Super mam

  • @pk_editz342
    @pk_editz342 Před 3 lety

    100% true

  • @Dineshdinss2211
    @Dineshdinss2211 Před 6 lety +4

    I followed ur every speech mam..really i admired from ur words .but in this speech make me to change myself.yet ur told story perfectly matches with me..sry the word more than "perfect" will suits my situation..ur every lines makes me to feel cry mam.. seriously i xpect that from my future husband and I didn't getting married.but i love one guy whose name is Dineshkumar for 9yrs.but still my mind gets disturbed not bcoz he's a bad characterized one..he's really such a gud personality yet i feel more depressed mam..ur words replay makes me gud..thank u so much mam..thanks a alot mam

  • @revathychandran6670
    @revathychandran6670 Před 3 lety +1

    Its true

  • @malarkodibalakrishnan1145

    I have no daughter.Only my younger son is talking to me normally.My father and mother both died.I have no other place to go.My elder son wants to get married.I don't know how to search a bride.My husband he wants to go to tour.He doesn't like his elder son
    But both are same gene behaving identically.

  • @jasminefarvine175
    @jasminefarvine175 Před 5 lety +1

    Anba pagirthuka porom 👌👍👍

  • @suvib260
    @suvib260 Před 6 lety +1

    Unmai.... Niengal sonathum, teliva vilankuthu

  • @deepa5089
    @deepa5089 Před 2 lety

    Tq Akka ❤️

  • @shfd3832
    @shfd3832 Před 5 lety +1

    Super aah sonneenga

  • @saganamary2833
    @saganamary2833 Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you madam

  • @PriscillaEsther
    @PriscillaEsther Před 3 lety

    Exactly mam

  • @vaishnavisrini2627
    @vaishnavisrini2627 Před 3 lety +1

    correct

  • @sumitramurgan6642
    @sumitramurgan6642 Před 3 lety +3

    Mam I'm Sumitra Murugaiyan ..from Pune Maharashtra ....... I have seen all ur videos .... I'm students of 2year - B.COM .... I'm getting very depressed by little things.

  • @Kathircomments
    @Kathircomments Před 6 lety +1

    nice video

  • @sangarisang8503
    @sangarisang8503 Před 2 lety

    Tq akka

  • @maria_w_n_l
    @maria_w_n_l Před 5 lety +1

    ur awesome

  • @Yazhsara1991
    @Yazhsara1991 Před 2 lety +4

    My husband is literally has my dad's behaviour and thoughts which I hate to the core. My dad don't respect girls and woman. But he wants my salary amount to spend on unusual things. He always speaks kitchen is only meant for woman, he don't even take his used plates or tumblers aside. Woman should take all his used utensils. I hate to the core. Woman should not speak on high volume in house or public. Shit on him 😡

  • @toptucker5329
    @toptucker5329 Před 5 lety +4

    mam enaakku USA la work poga asai but na middle class family and appa anuppa mattaru and mrg pannikka ippo viruppam illa ippothan Bsc 2nd year padikkuren study mudiyarathukku 4 years irukku mudinjathum us la job panna poganumnu asa na enna pannatum give me a sajestion mam.

  • @harshithacj6585
    @harshithacj6585 Před 3 lety +1

    Same mam l am having same problem l am study 9th

  • @riomass9681
    @riomass9681 Před 6 lety +1

    👌👌👌

  • @parveen2034
    @parveen2034 Před 6 lety +5

    Madam naanum en loverum 2years love panrom romba innocent love ana ipa avanga future ah nenachu romba bayapdranga nadakatha oru vishayatha nenachu bayapadranga oru solutions solunga madam

  • @jayalakshmipandipandi9910

    வணக்கம் சகோதரி

  • @arund7904
    @arund7904 Před 5 lety +1

    Madam, Payipu, Gnanam.,

  • @divyashree9213
    @divyashree9213 Před 2 lety +4

    Mam I have seen lots of fighting with parents it has affected me so unfortunately I have aceepted the marriage subconsciously without liking the groom now it has forwarded 6 years now by others n convence. Now atlast I dont like him lots of misunderstanding even i had baby boy at age of 4 years. Plz. Tell. Me what to do. I decided to leave all n going back to Banglore actually i got to person at age gap Of 10 years lots of misunderstanding plz help me

  • @priyangajagadeesh7127
    @priyangajagadeesh7127 Před 5 lety +16

    Mam my dad is so strict and so he went allow me to go out with even friends or their house. Every time when i go out i wont tell him. Without knowing to him i ll go out from college by bunking. And he wont allow me to wear decent modern dress but i wish to wear it and i am comfortable in it. How to make him understand mam☹️

  • @karthikayeni4526
    @karthikayeni4526 Před 5 lety

    Its true I love my father

  • @pragadeeepreethipa1216
    @pragadeeepreethipa1216 Před 5 lety +5

    Sis...I have a one doubt...Ninga soniga love va share panikanunu....kedaikanunu ethir pakkathinganu....Apa namba matu Tha anmba pakir thukanuma...Avanaga keta erunthu erthir pakka kudatha.......avanagalu than Tha thana athu share agu

  • @pushpashanmugam2120
    @pushpashanmugam2120 Před 5 lety +1

    Gayangala eppadi aathuvadu.....

  • @mahanbaisvision9421
    @mahanbaisvision9421 Před 4 lety +3

    Tell how a men should select a girl

  • @vidyapriya3591
    @vidyapriya3591 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm so sensitive but my husband family can't understand that so so many problems come in my life ... How to manage at pls help me

  • @sasisekar7630
    @sasisekar7630 Před 5 lety +5

    Enaku arrange panagka but engagement pani break aiduchu epdi na en life patner choose pandrathu therila mam second time break aidumonu bayama iruku eng aprom tha pesa arambicha two daysle prblm vanthuduchu so ineme epdi en life run pandrathu therila mam plz ur advice mam

    • @nnglotus
      @nnglotus Před 4 lety +1

      Don't worry. Everything will be better soon!

  • @jansishanmugam5578
    @jansishanmugam5578 Před 4 lety

    How' to get direct councling from u mam

  • @srinivasan9794
    @srinivasan9794 Před 5 lety +1

    How can I contact u mam

  • @jenli4160
    @jenli4160 Před 5 lety

    How to contact miss personally? 😮

  • @antosangith5009
    @antosangith5009 Před 3 lety

    Neenga nalla pesaringa

  • @pavipavithra5899
    @pavipavithra5899 Před 5 lety +1

    My life apadi tha iruku.

  • @drsareekakatkuriphysiother5376

    Pls translate

  • @sasthikauma1059
    @sasthikauma1059 Před 5 lety +5

    Mam my age 25, Athai paiyan age 36 avanga enna than Marg pannuvennu pidivathamma irukkanga.....rompa love panranga...enga v2 la foriegn mapilai pathu irukkanga ..yara select panrathunu confused as h irukku Mam...pllzz help

    • @jeworks7368
      @jeworks7368 Před 4 lety

      ipo ungalukku marriage aakita

    • @prathabA5935
      @prathabA5935 Před 2 lety

      @@jeworks7368 yaarum reply panna maddanga

  • @saishali
    @saishali Před rokem

    Mam ungala yapde contact panurathu

  • @prabu7965
    @prabu7965 Před 6 lety +8

    Yen friend ku avanga appa vaa pidikathu? Avanga yepdi life partner choose panvaanga mam?

    • @dhanushree6984
      @dhanushree6984 Před 6 lety +4

      prabu sinu simple avangaluku avanga appa kita pidikatha qualities avanga partner kita iruka kudathu nu ninaipanga... avanga appa apdi irukanum nu unga frnd asa patangalo adhu pola vara pora partner irukanum ninaipanga....

    • @prabu7965
      @prabu7965 Před 6 lety

      dhanu shree ok thanq ☺

    • @prabu7965
      @prabu7965 Před 6 lety

      dhanu shree yen frnd konjo jolly type..avar partner silent type naa future la ithanaala prblm varum ah?

    • @dhanushree6984
      @dhanushree6984 Před 6 lety +1

      Its all abt situations ryt we cant judge tat thngs.... but unga frbd jolly type na ellamey prblms vandhalum slove agidum... bcuz edhaium periya vishayam eduthuka matanga.... bt smetyms adhuvey kuda prblm ah varalam... situation ku thanguntha pola react panna prblm irukathu...

    • @prabu7965
      @prabu7965 Před 6 lety

      dhanu shree hmm naa paattathu vara mostly wrong ah thaa iruku..silent ku silent jolly ku jolly thaa correct pair ah iruku konjo maari iruntha always fight so only asking

  • @mummasbabygirl84
    @mummasbabygirl84 Před 4 lety +1

    Of course not

  • @rajudhoni2788
    @rajudhoni2788 Před 4 lety

    🙆

  • @vidyapriya3591
    @vidyapriya3591 Před 2 lety

    Mam I need help mam

  • @roja7716
    @roja7716 Před 2 lety

    Madame neengal sollurathu ennodha vazhakai pathri.

  • @malarkodibalakrishnan1145

    My husband is like that.I am living with him for 30years.My elder son is like him.My younger son is also doing mistakes and telling lies.I am very much self pity.Madam please help me.

    • @malarkodibalakrishnan1145
      @malarkodibalakrishnan1145 Před 5 lety

      I am not scolding anybody.I am giving lots of love.

    • @haripriyamenon
      @haripriyamenon Před 5 lety +1

      What were you doing for 30 years?

    • @malarkodibalakrishnan1145
      @malarkodibalakrishnan1145 Před 5 lety

      My husband and my elder son are behaving like psycho.Their only strength is going for a job. My elder son doesn't contribute for the family.He doesn't talk to me.He is not answering my questions.

    • @haripriyamenon
      @haripriyamenon Před 5 lety +3

      @@malarkodibalakrishnan1145 you go for a holiday or to ur parent's house for a month..then nly dey will realize your value..If u had a daughter, i feel she would have been good to you.

  • @ammulu6861
    @ammulu6861 Před 2 lety +4

    Frustration irku mam. Dono what to do feeling so lonely if I try to spend time with parents they feel like I'm annoying them... na pesnale pudikalanu soldranga ... I don't hv siblings i don't hv frdz all r busy with there own life bf nooo he is married now .. I am all alone no hopes about future 😭

    • @sajunas881
      @sajunas881 Před 2 lety +2

      same here girl. Try to focus on yourself. Learn and do something which interests you (like any hobby / skills). Don't waste your time for people who didn't care about you. Occupy your mind with positive thoughts which benefit your future career / life. Let's hope our future brings out the best!

    • @sharmadapraveen
      @sharmadapraveen Před 2 lety

      Ths S Lakshmi,chennai,
      S...well said saju....
      Cheer up Latha...
      I focused on my fav
      I can't accept about hobby (spending time)
      Stitching, drawing painting, embroidery gardening r my fav...
      Learned frm you tubt... Self taught...
      C my passionate work on my channel
      🙏💜

  • @maniazhagar1458
    @maniazhagar1458 Před 6 lety +1

    Sema speach mam....

  • @saroking8569
    @saroking8569 Před rokem

    akka enaku ungakitta irundhu Oru advise venum ka

  • @Happyshorts22
    @Happyshorts22 Před 6 lety +1

    Correct pesuna sari agatha problem ethuvum ila...

  • @senthamilselvisivan7482
    @senthamilselvisivan7482 Před 5 lety +3

    mam I want meet to u how to contact you mama

  • @arulmurugan2072
    @arulmurugan2072 Před 3 lety

    What is best age difference between husband and wife mam..

  • @abinayas6221
    @abinayas6221 Před 2 lety

    Love marriagenala.. Parents..... Apdi thituranga? Apdi pasuranga.. Un maanasu alapaiuthanu?

  • @princychristina264
    @princychristina264 Před 5 lety +2

    F he ask divorce na what to do.?

  • @vikidustin2249
    @vikidustin2249 Před 4 lety

    hi kaa ....mathro