The Unbelievable Truth Why Guy Best Friends Are Not Your Friends Ladies!!
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Yeah, my ex told me shortly after we broke up that she was going to start dating her guy best friend eventually. She said it was completely spontaneous, they just clicked, and it happened after we broke up. And I'm just here like yeah, I'll bet it was spontaneous FOR YOU, but if you want I can point out the exact moment he started planning it and trust me, it was not after we broke up
You got outplayed
Sorry dude. Not to rub salt on the wound but her feelings were not “spontaneous” for the guy best friend. They were long, long before you two broke up. If a girl has a guy friend that she doesn’t see as a brother, just run.
I am a woman and I would like to let you know that the feelings were definitely not spontaneous. They didn’t “just click” after you broke up. People “just click” when they first meet each other (that feeling of “wow I feel like I known this person my whole life), not over a long period of time (this would be more like a connection built over knowing someone for an extended period of time). Can you develop feelings for someone you used to see as a friend? Absolutely. Do you wake up one day from not having feelings for them to having feelings for them? Rarely unless you just had a spicy dream about them lol
dude was the 1x1 when game was already 5x0,actually insanity
all jokes aside,sometimes brother its just not he
good luck
@@samia6888wise words
I made it pretty clear to a woman once that I was, unfortunately, not okay with us just being friends. I told her I wanted more, I would always want more, and it would drive me insane to have that desire not be reciprocated but still have the same level of emotional investment. I was told that was selfish, which I agreed was true - but it didn't make my feelings any less real nor valid.
So we basically didn't see each other or even talk, other than random comments here or there on Facebook, for about 2 years. In that time I worked on myself, physically and mentally, to become the guy that would either be good enough for her, or good enough for someone like her.
2 years later, one of my best friends married one of her best friends. Those 2 friends knew what was up. They seated us together at the reception. That was in 2012.
We've been married 8 years, have a 6-year old daughter, life is great 🙂
You don't have to be the "friend". But you do have to be the right guy.
Respect to you, my friend. Glad it worked out!
And...just as you cant be just "friend" with her n want more....so does any other "male friends" in the future. Btw...it also happen to girls. Some of them (altho in smaller percentage) would want to be more than just "friend" with a guy.
Trust n verify mate.
This is the thing though. You actually wanted to offer her something real rather the guy in the video just sounds like a player.
@@MellySnow711 Ergo, guys n girls cant be friend.
@@eleethtahgra7802 Yes they can. It just depends on if their evolved enough to do so. Character matters. I know and have known many people to become like family to each other even through school or work and just don’t think of each other that way. If there’s attraction then maybe, but if you believe in the sanctity of marriage then no. If a guy is trying to be friends with a girl in order just to get physical with her then he deserves what he gets because he never had good intentions to begin with. If you don’t care about her as a person then you’re a slimeball. Don’t pretend to be someone’s friend. If he was a woman we would call him fake, narcissistic, and a Regina George. Just a user. Same thing goes regardless of gender.
Lolol my best friend in college was a guy and I did tell him all my secrets and problems and knocked at his door crying abt failing a midterm😂 he helped me move in and move out and walked by the lake with me for hours just to make me feel less sad, so I thought he was so nice we must be BFF no matter what. 2 year later he dropped the bomb “I love you” I almost lost my shit 😅😅 fast forward we have been married for 6 years. Turns out he took every opportunity to cozy up to my parents too cuz he knew I would need asian parents approval to date him
😮I think it's cute when no one treats it like a game
Boggles the mind when women woefully underestimate a man’s attraction after years of providing platonic emotional support. We’re not geared that way to invest all that time in a woman without sexual desire.
That's sad like incredibly sad.@@2bituser569
Had almost the same situation. Did everything for her, while she slept with "bad boys". Sadly my story isn't so nice: after years, i started just paying for escorts and became more of a "player". She started showing interest to me but I rejected her because she is not as young and good looking anymore and it feels like an insult, to get the leftovers. It's fair tho because back then, she also only saw me as a friend because I wasnt physically attractive to her. We are still in contact but the dynamic shifted because i am not the one, writing her anymore, she does the first moves and we only hang out with our friend group.
My “guy best friend” stayed in the game long enough to become my husband lol.
😂 point proven!
See it's true
How many other guys did you take while he waited?
@@crashthecatthe brutal truth many settled for men sweep under the rug 😂
What a simp 🤦🏻♂️
Waited till you finished having fun until you were ready to settle for him.
There's usually an obvious vibe and gut feeling you can get when a male friend is trying to be more versus them simply being a friend.
There's different scenarios for this. If the girl is an 8 + then 100% the guy is not there to just be friends. 7- prob just a friend, but also most men don't care to be friends with women, unless they are beta males
If they’re straight males, they’re trying to fuck
@@arturius9715Sounds like you’d know a lot about being a beta male
@ssunfinn3106 what kind of useless comment is that? Did I hurt your beta simp feelings?
@@arturius9715 I hang with a 9.5 and she cool. We good friends and she is already planning on getting married with some other dude but I don't mind it, we just hang out sometimes
It's so funny because the men of culture know this is true😂😂
So do the women. They have a line up of next available guys, that's all guy friends are to them lol
@@gigglesinsideDon’t make this sound like people are just using everyone all the time. Most people don’t think about things that much
@aguywithalotofopinions412 Sorry simp. Hang in there, she'll pick you eventually after she's had her fun.
@@aguywithalotofopinions412What makes you think people don’t think about things that much? Where’s the proof of that?
@@aguywithalotofopinions412 the fact that they do this on autopilot makes it worse.
I don't think in every case a guy best friend is necessarily planning this, but sometimes when people spend enough time together, attraction is inevitable, whether it was intended or not
Exactly this. It happened recently to me and it was me who did not like her at first. Overtime that changed and had to break things off, it just got too hard for me. Idk if it's the right decision or not, but she said she did not feel the same way. But when I think through many of our recent interactions, I wonder how true that is... It just really sucks, I just feel terrible lately, I wonder stuff like this is this akin to a breakup. Guess I learned the hard way lol.
This is how me and my bestie have it. She is engaged and has lived with her fiance for years now. Not only would I not dare disrespect their, imo, amazing relationship, but also, since we indeed share a lot and know much about each other, we have grown more close akin to siblings. And unless you got some strong Alabama/PH brainwashed energy, this kind of attraction does not tend to happen for people you view as family...
@@Artoosa A loss of a friend can definitely be akin to a break up. It is a loss of a relationship nonetheless. I am sorry that happened to you. But I think you made the right choice. If it hurts and does not contribute much to your life, there is no point continuing it. Being in ANY relationship is a game of risks. But sometimes, its better to take the risk and fail than living with regrets and wasted potential of what could have been ! Many hugs internet stranger, keeps strong, you can do it :)
@@josefsvec5236 Thanks for the kind message, helps alot. You made my day, ty for supporting my choice.
@@josefsvec5236and if she’s single and your single things finally change…. Wake up
All the women in the crowd want him as their new best friend
Yeah. Friend with benefits.💯
No.
I always thought that that's not true. And used to think that this is just a stereotypical myth. But it isn't. And that's why I don't have guy friends. The only guy I am close with and want to be intimate with is the guy I want to get to know and date seriously. It's disgusting having someone in your circle who is waiting for your vulnerable moment to hook up with you or doesn't have the guts to be straightforward and ask you out, like I expect a man to be, personally. No, thank you.
I completely agree. I have had this happen to me and it made me feel really bad about myself. It’s awful when a man is your friend for a year and then dumps you when he realizes you aren’t going to have sex with him
At least you woke up and accepted the truth. Too many girls these days like to pretend their guy friends don't want to bang them and intentionally being delusional to his intentions.
Not all men are the same you know?
As a man on the receiving end of this, I can attest to how I thought this was all just a stereotype. Shit actually happens
Honestly, only overly manipulative ppl think that way. There's nothing wrong with being friends with people you're attracted to and its normal for motivations and interests behind relationships to change over time.
The problem lies with creeps that use emotional blackmail to pressure vulnerable ppl into dating.
That's why there are so many self proclaimed "nice guys" that cry about being stuck in the "friend zone."
You're a woman aren't you?
Can't be friends with someone who has a crush on you. Ain't a single healthy friendship until all parties aren't clearly not looking for something more. Big red flag if they open up to you but don't try dating other people.
My best friend has been a woman for years and I truly don't want to have sex with her at all. I just really enjoy her company and as a person. I've also been friends with her bfs many times. It's the kind of thinking about men this way that hurts them the most, is it any wonder why 1 in 5 men say they have no close friendships? Now I don't agree with the "if you're attracted to" thing you said because then that would suggest you are looking for more, which would make you no different than the guys who do the thing you're complaining about.
That's why your relationship Never lasts forever because you don't value good guys .
@@Nightmare-wo2gd I just think as an adult it's unnecessary to arbitrarily label social relationships. Just respect boundaries.
I think gay and bisexual ppl basically proved it's possible to have healthy friendships with ppl you're attracted to.
This is basically how a sociopath thinks of their female friends. I think a good litmus test of the friendship would be: if you knew for certain that they would never break up with their significant other, would you still be friends? If the answer is no, then you're not really friends.
Not just a sociopath. A good-looking, charismatic, hard-working sociopath. Also the way he's familiar with the dynamic tells me he's been on both sides of the fence with this topic.
No, only beta male losers like you think it works. Guy doesn't become best friends. they can be normal friends from work, university etc. The only time best friendship works when he sees her AS A SISTER.
He's talking about beta male orbiters and most of them won't get laid. She'll gonna bang next Chad anyway and they will left behind.
@@user-zv8md9xv8c
nah most men are like that stop coping
@@manee2412 no, only the men you are dating are like that, that's the importance of therapy, to move unconsciously and stop looking for your parents in your boyfriends
It's called being a manipulative simp. End of story. Lying to someone and faking kindess, all in the pursuit of making her your girlfriend. It escapes me how someone would wait that long for one person, and it's not like this guy seems particularly interested in her outside of her body. I don't believe that's something to be proud of, absolutely not.
It's not everything. But sometimes, it's the only thing. Pride has nothing to do with it.
I had to read this in the dumbest voice ever, you sound dumb
Thank you
Well let me tell you the hard truth. It's the world we live in and there's tons of guys that do this
Lighten up. It's only a joke😁
You know who the master of this is? Jim from The Office
Exactly
Not gonna lie, Jim from the office is a snake but so is Pam. Not only did Jim encourage her cheating on Roy, but Pam also went along with it. If I were Jim, that would be red flag #1. If a girl is willing to cheat for you, she is willing to cheat on you.
It's not all the time, I've had female friends and had girlfriends at the same time, no big deal. We can all be adults and just hang out as friends.
cap
@@masterbuten5953 truth hurts doesn't it.
Thank you... everyone here is insane
@@venus4724 more like immature.
@@senister14 simp
Great. Female friends just want to take my man, male friends are just trying to sleep with me. What am I supposed to do? Huh? Not have any friends?
Yea basically.
No. . .just have nothing but asexual friends
There is a very simple way to tell if you have an actual good friend. For girls if they don't try to hang around your boyfriend all the time or insert herself into your relationship and does not talk about other people badly behind their back to you. Simple enough. If the guy does not treat you like a girl and talks to you like he does with his guy friends(disgusting stuff and all) he is your friend and he has no interest in you in a sexual way. If he is a sensitive and listens to your problems ect. and never calls you out on the bs you do and does not make fun of you (guys do that when they are friends with people. There is a difference between making fun and bullying. ) and agrees with basically everything you say he is not your friend.
Have friends but learn boundaries
Family members become the friends, well, less chance they will go after your mate
I've had male friends and became interested in one and he cut all ties with me. Also often everyone has their bf or gf. True friendship is possible, no matter what's in your pants.
Possible but risky and full of temptations
I have several female friends(I'm male)and while I have no intentions to pursue any of them, I'm not pining in the slightest and I am completely content with our friendships the way they are, I will freely admit that should the opportunity arise, as long as everyone's kosher about it and on the same page, I employ the "why not?" line of thinking.
@@perrycarters3113 Proverbs 6:27-29 "Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not be burned? Can one go upon hot coals, and his feet not be burned? So he that goeth in to his neighbour's wife; whosoever toucheth her shall not be innocent."
@@edwinsingha7398 ...... Are you complimenting me using scripture?
I left an ex-girlfriend for that reason. For one year and a half, I would try to explain to her that her ex, her guy flatmate, her guy friend that texted her on Saturdays saying he loved her...I would try to explain that these guys weren't friends.
And then I realised she knew it. And enabled them.
That's when I walked away.
Best decision I've ever made.
Sounds like the exact situation as here.
Good for u bro
oh boy here we go
So I'm a 19 year old woman who's studying interior design and started making friends with some girls in my class. The one I connected the most with was "Rachel" (let's call her that), but there were other girls too. Anyways, some months passed by and my little insecure baby brain thought they were trying to exclude me somehow, so I suddenly stopped hanging out with them. During so, I started hanging out with this guy instead (let's call him "Gabe" *10 y older than me btw*) we had a lot in commom and although we never really texted each other we were always together for a couple months. I was dating at the time but months flew by and me and my boyfriend broke up. That's when things started to get odd. Gabe was living with his girlfriend for a year or so by then, but sometimes I felt like he was flirting with me. Saying things with other than friendly connotations at the start, but then escalating to situations where he would tell me "you know we're getting maried one day right?"... And I was single, but he wasn't, and he had talked to me so much about his girlfriend, just as much as I told him about my ex. I felt like I knew her, and giving him the wrong idea of our relationship had me feeling that I would be betraying someone I have never met. And yes, I could've just stopped talking to him but, just as I told him: I had a bitter experience with bullying during high school, and I really wanted to be friends with someone. I have ADHD and I talk A LOT, I just wanted to have somebody to share my thoughts and have conversations, maybe eat snacks together, things like that.
Well, one day, he was talking about this girl who was not his girlfriend. I got confused mid conversation and asked him who she was. He told me that she was a girl that he hooked up every once in a while during his breaks at work. With. A. Straight. Face. And obviously I got even MORE confused because didn't you say you had a girlfriend dude? And he was like "yeah I do... Its like I hook up with her at night at home and with this girl in the afternoon. It's like what we have ya know, you're basically my morning girlfriend, we just don't kiss" and my only answer was "and we never will". Shortly after that, me and my ex made ammends. (He's a great guy but he was going through a lot, and honestly, I thought it was really responsible of him to break up and get himself together first, so that he could be a better person for him and others. We got together again, been for almost two months and everything's going great).
So sometime after I shut "Gabe" off, he was absent from a day in class when the teacher gave us a really hard assignment that had to be done in groups, so I partnered up with "Rachel" (the girl from the beginning of the story) and, as someone who got rejected would do to turn the other into a villain, he got really mad at me for not partnering with him. I had a little panic attack the day after that because, as I said sooner, I'm ✨️traumatized✨️ from people that I thought were my friends being mad for stupid reasons like homework and bullying me afterwards. I literally had a nightmare about him trying to push me off a window.
In the end, Rachel and the other girls never really excluded me. Actually Rachel thought I was the one who was trying to exclude her from the group with the other girls. We talked about it and now we are friends again and I do not talk to that guy anymore. Because I was clearly a mean to an end to him, and I won't ever let anyone treat me like this again.
Sorry for the long comment, I really hope you guys enjoyed the story if you got to the end because surely I'm enjoying how it's going now lol
I didn’t read your comment
I’m so sorry that happened to you. Good for you for shutting it down though. He sounds like a real jerk and he obviously didn’t deserve your friendship. And he definitely doesn’t deserve his girlfriend. I feel very sorry for her.
@@Yusuf3hassan then why reply
This sounds like RSD (rejection sensitive dysphoria) - common occurs with ADHD (which I also have and experience). It's really nice to learn about it because knowing is half the battle right? Once you realize what's going on your view of the world becomes a bit clearer and these things don't have to hurt so much. I'm glad you're in a better place now, and that Gabe showed his true colors and is gone from your life.
@@Yusuf3hassani came here to ask if anyone had read it 😂😂
Why he giving out the secrets, eh dosent matter they never suspect the gay one
My ex wife did this. I would warn her he's not your friend. She would just say he's my best friend. Long story short, she is now married to him. 🤷♂️
I am sorry, bro. Be glad, you are rid of her.
(Thanos) _"You couldn't handle your own failure. Where did that bring you? Back to me."_
I'm a woman, and I have a male best friend, we know each other for quite some time already. From the very beginning I felt very homely around him, he was the only one who really *understood* me. We have perfect chemistry, perfect synchronization, intellectually and emotionally. We do have different cultural and religious backgrounds but it didn't stop me from falling in love with him. We entered a situationship, he said he would allow himself to develop deeper feelings for me now that I confessed that I want him. Long story short, he decided that our backgrounds are too different and he's very preoccupied at work right now to open up his soul for another human.
The pain is unimaginable. If this is how men feel all the time, it's not worth it. But, do know that it is possible to exit the friend zone, with the right woman.
Sounds similar to my situation. I have known him since H.S. We were great together but he decided to choose someone else over me. His loss. Time to keep it moving! 💯 I hope you find that special person for you.
@@justicevibes1252 I do believe that the end in both of our stories is different: your man chose another, mine chose not to choose so to speak. I do hope you healed from that, because there's nothing worst than finding the right person at the wrong time. Did you find someone? How long did it take for the broken heart to heal, for you personally?
When a girl says she has a male best friend, i think to myself, “YOUR BF IS YOUR BEST FRIEND.” That is the fucking point. Just a setup for a breakup.
The exception would be if she views that guy as a big brother or like a brother, then you got nothing to worry about.
unless its in alabama@@sijdnsd6460
@@sijdnsd6460yes you are right but it's hard to know what she thinks .
@@ritwikdutta6914 Agreed, unless she outright tells him in front of you, “I see you like a big brother”.
Other than that, there is no real way to tell. The other exception would be if she is very naive. Doesn’t happen a ton, but have personally seen it happen with friends. Assumed the girl was playing games, just turns out she was naive and had not idea what the fuck she was doing.
It’s so sad how women trust men over and over, they believe men can be good, but truthfully they can’t. Not even ur bf is good, he’ll leave immediately once he finds someone better if he can’t even be friends with a girl
How can people get mad at women for stereotyping men when they act like this
Because many women are just as stereotypical, they'll tell you that men and women can be just friends but when you ask them if they gave their guy best friend the chance would he sleep with/date them and they will almost all say yes.
@@lostwoods2576 most women do not want to sleep with their male friends, and that’s also so different, liking your crushing is different than pretending it’s a thing ur whole gender does
@@abjectmadness1111 I never said they would sleep with their male best friends I just said most women are very aware that if they gave their male best friend the opportunity the male best friend would jump at the chance.
I would probably agree with you they don't want to sleep with their male best friends even though this is pure speculation I would still agree, but to go one step further with speculation I feel there is likely some form of satisfaction from the attention they receive from these male best friends, which is a normal human reaction but the point I'm making is women are not naive even if they try to force themselves to be for the sake of normal human interaction.
@madness1111 Also to piggy back off your comment I failed to mention that not all men are pretending some actually believe the potential delusion that they're in love. Some are after lust, some love and some a combination of the two.
Regardless these people are real pieces of work for having thoughts/wanting or even preying on people in relationships. I understand sometimes people get lonely and can't control their thoughts/emotions but still. Also I think people in general are vulnerable to these emotions/thoughts, not just men.
Why does this feel like a villain monologue?
because it is. it's sociopathic to pretend to care about someone just because you wanna fuck them
A true villain wouldn’t explain these things so clear. A truly malicious person would have stayed silent about this sensitive topic, because it turns out that lots of women are way too naive about this. Do what you want and what your heart desires but having this knowledge is better than not having it.
I got lots of female friends and they are just good friends and nothing else and iam not trying to get into her pants. the thing is me and friend are just too ugly for each other. I don't even feel a slight physical attraction for her and the same thing applies for her. So yes boys and girls can be friends.
Yes'. I know right my guy friend said to me once if we start dating it's incest we are like bro and sis . So thinking of dating each other feels disgusting
People who genuinely think like that are toxic and manipulative af. They don't care about you as a person. Better to get rid of them. Only incels would "befriend" someone in the hopes to get something out of it at some point
You've never met people who try to form relationships with other people in order to climb the social ladder? Not all of them have a neon sign that says "Untrustworthy" over their heads. Some of them even believe in mutually beneficial relationships.
No, that's male feminist behavior.
Socializing isn't just for feminists. And you can do it for any reason you can think of and for the achievement of any goal you choose. Labeling it as feminist keeps you from being able to understand it so you can use it to your advantage.@@Halesburg
😂😂 What’s makes it funny is that it is true.
So men are all evil and can’t be friends with women?
Being friends with women is a great way to meet other women
Especially when they think they’re stealing someone’s dude
Need advice on getting my "friend" to give up. BECAUSE MATT'S RIGHT and this guy is tenacious and I'm sick of the drama.
@@jackclayton8792 I confronted him via text and then blocked him after he defended himself. Honestly, I never thought of him as shady until I heard this (message in video). Now I keep hearing it from different sources. And, yeah, I _have_ blown up at him for pointing out my flaws. I guess this is just one more bridge to burn. Thanks for your insight.
Kinda your fault for leading him on but you shouldn’t have been friends if you knew he felt that way, hope you learned your lesson and you don’t do that to another guy
@@dragonkingsportsI'm not posting the full story, obviously. I never led him on and I just got this insight.
@@dragonkingsportsnah He should have been more Open about His Intentions
@@dragonkingsportsLeading him on? Wtf. They’re friends. Men are pathetic
i'm not gay, but he is a beautiful man.
He reminds me of Cillian Murphy.
Platonic friendships between guys and girls is totally possible, under the condition that both feel zero attraction for each other.
Therefore, it tends to be much harder for good looking people to have platonic friends of the opposite sex 😂
I have seen 2 good looking people (both straight of opposite gender) they grew up together like bro and sis . They never hooked up nor had feelings for each other
@@comradeleppi2000 I said ‘it tends to be much harder’. I didn’t say it was impossible.
I agree with you. 💯
That's presupposing that attraction is only based on looks not other factors
@@VoVina111 For men, it is mainly looks. A straight man cannot possible look at a pretty girl without getting sexual thoughts, without feeling the desire to get closer to her, get physical with her. The whole porn industry is built on this fact.
I swear. I bursted out laughing like a manic at the “why you crying?” part. So freaking hilarious
🤣 😂🤣😂🤣🤣
Guess what happened after I broke up with my ex, my 2 guy best friends told me that they had a crush on me and they were in love with me the whole time. I felt ashamed hearing them say that because it made me feel like, wow I trusted you both so much with all my personal stuffs but you dare swoop in when you get a chance and totally disregard my feelings of broken heart.
I’ve done that lol, I enjoy playing the game.
I can understand your feelings.
But we have to consider 2 factors.
1. It's easier to open up and be "friends" with people that you are attracted to that people you don't like or neutral.
2. The chances of meeting your SO when they are in a "single window" is kind of slim. Especially if they are a good catch (attractive, kind, intellegent etc.)
So. This strategy is advantageous and it works.
@@metal.gendalf that kinda makes someone question what kinda signals did the other person got from you? I used to wonder if I had unknowingly sent any kind of signal that meant you could have a chance with me and it didn’t make me feel any better.
This guy said it better than anyone else could.
Men and women can absolutely be platonic friends. As long as one of them is gay. 😅
😂😂😂
Or one of em is ugly 💀
Even gay isn’t enough. Sounds crazy, but I know gay dudes who have been with women before. Whether it was due to too much alcohol or maybe they just wanna switch hit for the night.
@@OgrePrime430 then they're BI
It is possible they don’t have to be gay necessarily as long as
They are platonic value in each other not just sexual
so youre basically saying dudes cant form real friendships with girls unless they just wanna date? cool
No. He is saying guys constantly want to bone anything we see. He is not wrong.
Welcome to the real world, that’s how we survived as a species.
Friends who could bang are not platonic friends.
Guys and girls can be friends who hang out with their other friends at the same time. There has to be some distance and a line that isn't crossed.
Absolutely brilliant performance here!!!!! 🎉
by ex bf was constantly controlling me and had forbidden me to see any male friends, other than one or two friends back from school that he approved. he always said that men just want to sleep with me and i was like noooo we're friends they care for me etc. he never believed me
your ex was wrong and honestly based off what you said probably toxic.
@@MegaVega2007 Nah, hes not wrong.
If she doesnt like it, shes free to leave.
Thus hes your ex. Apparently a BF isnt enough.
Why do u need other male friends for?
@@eleethtahgra7802 I love to have a male's real opinion. My boyfriend will not always tell the truth. My best friend will.
@@eleethtahgra7802 what do you need friends for? You aren't the clever one, aren't you?
I have no problems being friends with women. I just can’t be friends with a woman that I’m s3xually attracted to.
That's the thing though, I thought the same thing and things would be easy to be platonic, but trust me if ur single during ur friends with that person and she's semi good-looking and has a good personality and you talk/hangout all the time for a long period of time ~2+ years, then someone will start getting attracted. Most likely the guy. When I realized I did. I cut it off since I knew couldn't do it anymore. It's really hard just trying to stay friends at that point.
1:05 comedy is simply telling the truth
I've always been able to get along with guys, sometimes better than with women. None of my guy friends have ever asked me out.
My dad told me this a long time ago and he was usually right. Smart smart man.
You don’t be friends with a guy unless you’re attracted to him and want to date eventually. I learned that a long time ago.
Why wouldn’t you just date him then instead of waiting? That’s weird.
So you like men, haha same.
trust me, it’s possible to be friends and not fuck
@@someoneyoudontknow7705Women logic
@@someoneyoudontknow7705that's called keep you on a retainer
I think my guy best friend is prob doing the same thing, he has never “approved” of anyone I dated, we even stopped being friends for a while, because of it, we have been friends for a long time, so he would know the right things to say to me…if a guy friend likes you, then why doesn’t he just tell you?!
Ask him.
Could be because he is afraid of losing you, once you say that, it's like Pandora s box, nothing can be predicted. Or he really isn't into you
It's called bf simping. Done it once, never again. Pure waste of time.
What about her? The girls being lied to because she thinks she has a friend, but really they want to coerce her into having sex with them
Men:"Why don't women like meeeee?😭"
Also men:
Huh?
And not a single ear heard the truth being told that night. The cycle shall continue unbroken till the end of time.
Flattery wouldn't be effective if it were otherwise.
I'm glad to see Matt in his own element outside of Wild n' Out. But this was hilarious😅
Beautiful! That is how it's supposed to go... Law of Attraction 101 because you put that desire out to the universe, you stated it clearly because you know what you desired... and was like if it happens it happens.. if not at least I'm evolving myself. So that is not putting up resistance or blockage or doubt in any lower vibrational ways,❤
And when you refine yourself you will attract better. Because like attracts like. You put the desire out there and you stated and you knew it to be true, released the "how " part, (how it's going to happen...).. trusted in the universe and focused on consciously shifting your own vibration to line up with that which you desire. What an awesome example❤ hope you don't mind me borrowing this story when I work with my Law of Attraction group I'm going to be starting! I manifest within minutes because I've been using the Law of Attraction for decades now.❤😊
Someone in the crowd said in hindi when the best friend asks - "Kya Hua" meaning What happened？ which is so so real and Indian 🤪😜😁😄😄😂
I can not imagine that it would be worth the effort for maybe one day having a chance to get a girl/woman one does not even really care about ("I don't care about your day, I care about MY day").
It sounds "funny" when said like this but in real life people who befriend others to get something out of them are basically behaving like incels.
This reminds me of Billy Crystal's famous line in "When Harry Met Sally," the one that states that men and women can't be friends. Ladies, the men whom you call "friends," are really in love with you. They'll take you packaged in any color wrapping just to spend quality time with you. And guys, the same applies.
True.
1. It's easier to open up and be "friends" with people that you are attracted to that people you don't like or neutral.
2. The chances of meeting your SO when they are in a "single window" is kind of slim. Especially if they are a good catch (attractive, kind, intellegent etc.)
So. This strategy is advantageous and it works.
This is highly abusive even if funny. If it’s true then no wonder women don’t engage anymore.
Finally someone said it
Who said women don't engage anymore?
Oh my gawwwwd😂😂😂😂😂 my soul relates to this 😂😂🤌🏻 fuckkkk that’s unbelievably trueee😂😂
This couldn't be more true
This is so true but sometimes its a different case where the freindly feelings is actually genuine sometimes and normally the girl starts the new sparks of the new possible relationship between the girl and the friend just because she might need attention and affection after the break up.
I seen this happen with my guy friend who told me his female friend went to him because her ex broke up with her because he was bored of her, and my freind told me he began to have feelings for her because she went to him directly.
Its normally after showing affection the guy friend grows feelings for the girl.
I. Love. This. Guy.
This is so true!!! 😂😂 as a girl, I can say I’ve done the same thing though. 😂
And you gonna go tell him you he was insecure and shit. F females now.
I didn't marry mine, but he was definitely my biggest fan! 🤷🏻♀️ and then karma got me cuz was talkin to a guy recently and realized HES THAT GUY to some chick. seeing it from this side , i saw how pathetic those dudes are
yo i'm out .
Lol what does that look like women playing long con 😂
Facts
@@kitkat79azwhat Guy ?
And then when the boyfriend is uncomfortable with her "guy best friend" who clearly is trying to get a piece of her, the girl dismisses him as being paranoid and insecure...
I think both genders are pretty wary once they get into relationships and see through the opposite-gender "besties" and their games. We each know how our own kind rizzes! 😂
On a serious note:
If you are in a relationship, and you have an opposite-gender "best friend," I hope you're mindful that it should change your dynamic with them. If you don't want your relationship slowly getting worn down by mistrust, DRAW BOUNDARIES WITH YOUR BESTIE like "okay, no more flirty jokes", "let's hang out in daylight instead of late evenings", and "I'll be confiding in someone else about my frustrations with my s.o., so don't ask for that tea"
If they're really your friend, they'd understand that relationships change a few things. Siblings experience that, parents experience that, and children from prior relationships experience that. Why should found family have to be exempt from the reality that now someone has added a new role in life?
Bro these are so funny 😂
I mean if you aren't attractive you're just funny and likeable, it's possible, maybe, that he is genuinely your friend. If you are attractive, he might be your friend, but he's definitely not just your friend.
If hitting on that girl is worth the male friendship, you are not worth that dude. Get some respectful distance before you try, otherwise its family affairs, and you deserve some pain.
I and my dudes are open about such, it would never happen.
When younger, one of my two besties texted dirty with my ex, i nailed him to the wall even years after i found out. Not because he did it, but because he was not open about it. Looked guilty as a dog, he knew perfectly he did wrong.
That “kya hua” 😂😂🙌🏼🙌🏼
I have this in my head thanks matt rife
I agree that friendship between straight men and women can't be like a same sex freindship but it can be close to it because that's their choice
From my own experience I can tell you this is so true
Most agressive "fuck" of all time 😂😂
Gotta play the long game
it is funny how men think the women are naive and not playing along
i think he's just referring to the ones that actually are naive . otherwise, why would you start seeing a guy and hang on to the "bestie" knowing he's an orbiter ?
@@kitkat79az yea it’s possible!
Oh, we know you know he's your back up wallet, I mean boyfriend.
That's why I stay away from girls with guy "friends".
@@TheTurinturumbarI have guy friends?? They’re literally just my friends. What is wrong with you
Those who play along are even worse. Like bitch now you actively trying to piss of your bf
My best friend guy, I know him since my childhood. We grew up together. It’s impossible in my mind that something happens sexually. I’m gonna puke and it’s the same for him. He is very attractive, but if I sleep with him it’s like if I sleep with someone of my own family and I can tell in his eyes it’s the same for him. 😂
If you got stuck on an uninhabited island together would you not do it eventually? Like in a year or 2?
Pro tip: He wants to bang you. Take it to the bank.
The guy has a good stage presence, these topics have been done to death.
Okay so this is true in some instances like I became friends with this guy while we were both in a relationship and now I’m literally dating him and his gf broke up with him bc of me cause she thought I was flirting with him. I’m not gonna lie and say I wasn’t but I genuinely didn’t mean to break them up and now she’s been petty but he said he loves me deeply and would never break up with me to get back with her but I’m friends with a couple guys and we’re js friends and I would never see them as anything else and they don’t see me like that either. I sorta gotta be friends with more boys than girls cause the whole group of girls that is friends with his ex hates me and him and those used to be all my friends but it’s okay ngl.
Guy best friend here: I once tested the boundaries of this and straight up told her I wanted to clap, and she said she’d be down but only issue was I had just moved out of the country
Then she always liked you duh
That one "kya hua" 1:35
Dude straight people scare me sometimes like what is this please just treat people like human beings😭
I agree with the last part, but do gay/bi people not have crushes or something? I don't understand
@@pwnage44 haha no of course but like, the idea of not being able to be friends with anybody you might theoretically be attracted to kinda breaks down the moment you're queer or bi, for instance. Because if you're attracted to all genders would you then not be able to have a single friend without an ulterior motive? Of course not. Bi people have friends all the time and it's cool and chill.
That's why I said straight people, not to unfairly generalize but just because this doesn't seem to be an issue in queer spaces the way it seems to be for many straight people, if the comments are anything to go by. Idk, maybe queer people are just more chill with the idea of being occasionally attracted to the homies without necessarily then treating people only as a means to get laid? I'm not sure honestly.
Me sitting here like "yeahhhhhh that's true 😉"
The wheeze makes that “…PHUCK!” hit so brutally, American Psycho’s Son
A lot of the women there looked stunned lol
Because we don’t find it funny
@@abjectmadness1111 Truth doesn’t always have to be funny
@@abjectmadness1111
Truth is bitter
@@archidvignesh5368 So you think all men are horrible monsters?
@@Some_Deist So… the truth is women are good people who want to be friends, and men are only in it for sex? Cool.
Bring it on! The perfect guy is still the perfect guy even if he got there by stealth 🤪
This was hilarious 😂 im subscribed right way what 😂
I could hear the "kya hua" guesses in the back hehe
This is just a general rule of thumb. Obviously context and exceptions exist but yeah, many people will be "friends" and want something more than that.
My best friend is asexual and has never considered me that way. I'm also sapphic leaning so I never considered him that way. And neither of us is ugly like he seems to insist in another video. Heteronormative asf and pretty mean hearted. Not a fan
Unless he's gay, he's NEVER "just a friend". No man should fall for this BS anymore. If you're seeing/dating a girl and she has a close guy friend, ask her to call him at midnight asking if he'd like to come over and see how he responds.
Guarantee that dude will be showering immediately and racing over to her place.
I wouldn't want a gay guy to be close with my woman either.
I'm actually pretty sad that I can't be friends with all types of people, I really like most guys, but I don't date and I know myself and holy shit am I not risking convincing myself I'm close with somebody pretending to listen to me who might hate being around me if he didn't think he could eventually go out with me, putting himself in a position where he was putting in more effort than he would ever feel comfortable with if it wasn't for an eventual reward that doesn't exist in real life and probably wouldn't fulfill any of his expectations either without ever explaining any of those feelings or while actively lying about them until he feels like he's been intentionally exploited. I have heard too many horror stories. I think I'll stick to my female/queer friends and celibacy for a while :)
Stop sharing all our tactics man😅
So men’s tactics are to lie and take advantage of women’s trust? Cool.
Find someone who is single and interested.
1:38 i hear *kya hua .....😂
😂😂😂 exactly what he says
You broke up? i’m SO sorry..😎😎
‘Unlocks belt’
This is hilarious!😂😂😂
He looks a lot like Cillian Murphy
But he said he loved me lmfao.
😂👏🏻
😂😂 I’m dead. Oh my god
If a man is serious he would not be just friend… it’s very passive approach.
This is a hetero experience. As a queerdo, I have genuine friends all over the gender spectrum. If one of my straight guy friends tried this on me, then we were never real friends, because he never really would have known me at all.
THIS!!!
TRUE
Yeah my guy best friend is gay so I don't think I have this issue 🤣🤣🤣
Yessss, I love queer friend groups, it's so cozy and there's like empathy and respect and varying perspectives and no assumptions about your feelings and shit
There is no "gender spectrum".
Not the two Indians in the audience saying "Kya hua"(What happened) 😂😂😂
Yes I also heard 😂😂😂😂
yup i heard that
I think it's actually a valid strategy. Not for using a person but to actually start a relationship eventually.
Lets face it most available people are usually in a relationship. And it is not very probable that you meet your interest when you are both single.
I think that's why people try to maintain regular contact or friendship with interests. Because it's advantageous.
Besides it's easier to open up and be "friends" with people that we like.
My observations are that this kind of stuff ends when partners are 100% sure in their choice of life long SO.
Like him or not, he’s right. I’m not a saint myself and I’ve been in both situations.