What are the Cognitive Transitions of ESFPs?
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ESFP CZcams content is rare - thank you for this video. I paused it like 8 times to ponder epiphanies I had about myself.
This is so true- I need more! Watch the Joyce Meng videos. Those are really good!
You're an INTJ
Wow Chase, I am right now even more impressed with the depth of your knowledge and true understanding of the types and their functions. Unlike so many people in this screwed up world, you actually get it. And teach it. And sometimes preach it lol.
Why do people hate esfps so much? As a Esfp myself , what am I supposed to say to those people people think so badly of us? All I can do is be the best esfp I can be, but I cannot change my own type. Sorry people. GET OVER YOUR HATE OF ESFPS, Seriously! Although we may not be a rare type , we seem to be one of the most misunderstood and overlooked. People seem to think they're unintelligent, airheads, uncerebral, stupid, among everything else. Meanwhile, overlooking the fact that the esfp sees things about that same type that is ridiculing them that is just as discusting . All the 16 types have their own flaws , people. There is absolutely NO ONE that is exempt or better that the other. So maybe instead of people hating on esfps, maybe they should try to understand them instead. That is why I am grateful for this lecture.
Well said
@@CSJoseph Thanks.
Amen! Thanks for sharing the ESFP love.
I don't think that about ESFPs i love you guys
I'm glad that this isn't just bashing of ESFPs, it sounds like this lecture is to help us develop instead of just making us look stupid ❤
Thank you for all your free lectures!! You are one of the best people out there!
32:46 DAAAAAAAAMN, so that explains why I enjoy reliving the past when I'm feeling down in the dumps. This is gold.
I haven't stopped reading since the day I learned how to and everyone tells me I'm smart but you still managed to make me feel insecure about my intelligence. Thanks lol.
I have a nonverbal autistic loved one who manifests as the ESFP personality type. Thanks for your video! It helped me in relating to him, especially since he cannot verbalize all of his needs. 😊
ESFP who's developed my INTJ subconscious. I have accomplished a lot in my life. That's so true. And yes, some of my favorite books to read are how-to's 😂😆🤣. People pick on me because of it 😂😜
Finally a notification said that you release a lecture , you were missed 💖 hope everything in your life is okay 😊
Love that one , lots of info that I don't know about ESFPs ✔
the sound or the volume was good , I listened to you clearly ✔
busy as hell
This video is so spot on I need to keep pausing due to its reflective intensity.
Fellow ESFPs- you don’t have to literally read books to be your best self. That’s difficult for our fidgety nature.
BUT.
We can absorb knowledge from watching CZcams and documentaries/nonfiction programs while we do other things. Doing this has helped me get out of my midlife crisis (that cracked me up in this video btw).
Audiobooks are really good too.
I've been binging on the esfp material. My MIL and I keep butting heads and your content is giving me a little more understanding so thank you
hey Joseph, we appreciate your efforts to make this world a better place by teaching people how to understand each other as i do believe that the reason of all wars is that we misunderstand each other, you have no idea how hard my life was as an INTJ 5w4 , i have never understood people and they never understood me before i learned this theory from you, i have always thought that there is something wrong with me because everyone was struggling to deal with me, i learned how people minds operate in less then 15 months thanks to you, my life changed to the better and i become a much better person as a result of this theory, there are no words to express my gratitude to you, but all i can say best luck to you and i will always be a supporter of you.
the journey of self development is a long and exiting one, and im looking forward to acquiring more knowledge from you to help me reach my maximum potential.
I can say you're not the first INTJ who has chosen that path. I'm also an INTJ, and this theory not only helps me (to help others too), but it has given me some charisma, despite only studying this for 8 months. I'm less awkward, and I have a new found strength I didn't think I'd ever get. The INTJ does have a good place in society.
@@dasein9980 Is that rhetorical? I've become less awkward because I understand people and why they say what say and do what they do. The INTJ's place in society is making change, despite being commonly misunderstood.
This is answered in the season 19 episode for INTJs
19:00 Mature and Immature Ego
24:49 Mature and Immature Subconscious
30:48 Mature and Immature Unconscious
41:05 Mature and Immature Superego
Want to see an example of an ESFP in anime, watch One Piece. Luffy is an ESFP and its funny that the show is about pirates
My sister is an ESFP. I think this video would be very beneficial to her.
The video looks fine. The frame rate defaults to 30fps, but the 60fps mode does look good. The background (out the window) is really washed out, but this is common in cellphone video. The sound is actually quite good for a cell phone.
10:15 create conflict to test out ideas, testing the integrity of ideas. "How do you know that ? How do you know that ?" Screen of "looking smart" so people are willing to engage with them.
11:30 Si nemesis needs to develop the patience to read.
App Filmic Pro
23:00 if people think that they don't know what they're talking about -> distrust -> loss of authority -> loss of freedom
24:30 words in a book are attached to other people's behaviour, so you'll remember them by watching people
26:00 Fi parents very often become a burden on other people. Then people are bitter but not complaining because they don't want to make you feel bad.
27:40 you appear as contradicting yourself, dividing against yourself
28:00 mature INTJ sub has developed its own systems.
36:45 make self-discipline a friend. Look what other people have done to avoid bad consequences, instead of being impulsive. Have the discipline to ask people first.
39:00 gateway to wisdom is to "ask permission" by asking other people's opinions about your decision.
41:00 Ne demon comes out when they have been impulsive and irresponsible with their choices.
45:25 Ne demon demands that you always get a win. Fi parent is okay with a win-lose, need to learn to make win-win or they'll take your freedom of choice away.
Realize you're responsible for the situation where people took away your freedom of choice.
The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing. Steven R. Covey.
If you could stop yelling at me for my failures, that’d be great.
You are reading my mind. I always ask "How do you know that?"😂❤. When I was a teenager, I just wanted to live in the moment and was extremely sensitive and would read cliff notes instead of reading a book till I had to read The Odyssey in college. Then I wanted to to really read. I have been tempted to use someone else's term paper as my own because I got overwhelmed with anxiety about writing a term paper on something I wasn't interested in like a car company for my marketing class. I didn't follow thru with it because I was paranoid with my INTJ subconscious about getting in trouble for plagiarism. I remember taking a shamrock pin that made sounds at a stole without telling my parents till they saw me playing with it on my way out of the store. I don't remember if they got really mad but I remember my parents returning it to the cashier. My brother is an ESTP and he stole from me. My last boyfriend was an ISTP who stole from me.
Moral of the story:
"Instead of biting from others, *learn* from others."
And, as the axiom goes:
"A smart person learns from their own mistakes. A wise person learns from other people's mistakes."
"Learn to connect the dots between 'how's' & 'why's,' &, conduct your own style."
*"DISCIPLINE."*
Powerful episode, Chase.
Tapped into your inner DJBP.
😏
Edit:
After having watched, I haven't been able to ignore my gears.
Just some thoughts:
Considering we have likely all observed an esfp exhibiting the behaviors you mentioned..
I found myself asking these questions (and thinking about them *deeply,* for years):
Why would an esfp be depressed?
Why would they perform?
What is their Gift?
Do their functions play any part in discovering/utilizing their Gift?
How do they behave when they feel that Gift isn't valued?
Why?
You mentioned:
"Everyone knows, but, doesn't want to say it because it will hurt their feelings."
"You're the only one who doesn't know they know."
(Paraphrasing)
Hm.
Let's unpack that...
I can see them being deeply hurt by discovering that "everyone" feels that way.. And, instead of respecting the esfp's need for Fi Parent Authenticity and Te Child IS-ness, they inauthentically mirrored the esfp's "part" & play(ed) along the whole time...
I've actually experienced that in real time.
Anyhow...
Since they are intj aspiring, are you *sure* the esfp doesn't intuit this?
Since they have Fi Parent...
Are you *sure* they would be fine with exploiting others *for their OWN* entertainment?
Last, are you sure there isn't/aren't some trauma(s) (&/or blindspots from within the experience of said trauma(s)) driven biases within this particular portion of your assessment (which you may do well to process & heal from)?
To be clear, I'm not criticizing you/your assessment. In fact, with Respect to EMPOWERING the esfp to be the BEST version if themselves, I found this video full of diamond studded platinum nuggets.
I'm merely drawing attention to one commonly overlooked aspect of it/them...
A critical aspect, in fact.
And, who knows?
Maybe there's an opportunity for growth there for you too?
#WinWinWin
Don't use authenticity when referring to Fi... it is a misnomer.
Regardless, I do see what you are saying
C.S. Joseph
"Don't use 'authenticity.'"
Well, I'm down to change the term, Sir.
That is, *if,* you give me (a) good enough reason(s) &/or alternative(s) (to encapsulate the experience).
😏
Whatchuh got?
😀
Edit:
Why ya keep ❤'n & un❤'n my comments, player?
Hella goofy.
😂
Thank you for the video! It will be very helpful when dealing with a young ESFP grandchild, who easily (chaotically) puts her INTP Mom & INTP Grandma into their ENTJ modes.
Re the recording app, you asked for our input. Yes, it's been nearly 2 years since you recorded this, but I just found this video and didn't see any comments about the recording app after scrolling down through a bunch of comments, so, here goes. It's amazing how clearly it came out, even to the point of easily hearing your car change gears as you were speaking.
I was waiting for this! Thanks Cs joseph
For my fellow ESFPs, I highly recommend Vex King... oh my days, his book on self love is INCREDIBLE, and I HATE to read. I promise, your Fi parent will love it!
Thank you Hannah!!🥰
Interesting video, the sound makes me feel like I'm riding down a farm road too.
It feels like INTJ lecture 0.8, noice
As an ESFP, I'm very afraid of failure, to an almost crippling degree. I don't know if its about "wanting the wrong thing" (at least now I dont think it is), but I just doubt my abilities a lot. I have ADHD so I'm very forgetful, and my attention span is shit (and as a result I'm very clumsy and people see me as stupid or ineffective in certain situations). I've been reading philosophy and psychology since I was 17. I find it very interesting and valuable but I still seem to be unable to get over my insecurity & fear.
I'm curious, is there a type that you do not call brilliant, lol?
Nope.
Is there a type that shouldn't read more then?
@@user-ho1jq4wq4v Or maybe you are just arrogant, who knows?
Alongside reading, working would be really helpful, too.
Ok ... here's my thinking. Supposedly Ti is about deductive reasoning and logic. Where is the difficulty in that? I have Ti Trickster as an ENFP but I don't think that I'm oblivious to deductive reasoning or logic. I have taken Logic courses in College for my Philosophy major and passed with great grades. I also did well in math most of the times and even Pascal Programming and other computer courses like C Programming. So how is Ti Trickster to be understood for me? I am struggling to understand the validity of the Trickster interpretation because I see logic as being so self evident that it's a no brainer!
Te can use other people's logic like a tool, which is different than creating the logic on the fly.
Point of disagreement about why we lose our freedom of choice- sometimes (and more often than you’d expect), WE are the responsible person and we lose our choice because of the irresponsible person in our life. It isn’t always on us, despite our stereotypes that CAN be true.
Yet only responsible if it benefits them directly.
@@CSJoseph haha fair enough, but I also do it to protect people I care about. I’m also 40 with kids and have matured. But as an overarching concept, I can agree with that if I’m being totally honest with myself in regards to my true nature.
The sound is awesome c.s.
I was wondering from the beginning of the video that why is the sound is so dope! Im Se inferior and confirm the recording quality of this session
It got your bass professionally
The noise of the car and the road is much lower from the previous car sessions
And more important of all , I like your Jacket😊
Sound is great!
Covey talks of win-win relationships.
@20:48 The sound is good.
What is the best way to study for an ESFP?
I’m esfp, I can have understood it wrong but I think it’s my unconcious isfj that’s making me quiet and scared what everyone thinks and then I’m just in the background all the time and my focus is just to please others/don’t be any burden and I hate that because I’m not myself, I don’t think by myself and I don’t give anything. Is this my unconscious isfj??
If it's all the time, maybe you are an ISFJ who's ESFP focused.
this is spot on
Hi dad
Erraneous Noise Trigger Warning! ~ INTJ
I'm soooooo happy 😊😊😊😊
Developed their self-discipline through INTJ sub ? Well how ? Coz discipline is related to Si ,no an intj has si demon ... Please explain chase I didn't get this ..13:15
Hi chase, quick question. When you say “smart” or “intelligent” do you mean it in the sense of having expertise or knowledge? Or in the sense of raw thinking ability?
Expertise and knowledge
Hey Chase, would you be willing to compile a list of books you recommend please? Also, curious of how much one of your coaching sessions would run and how soon could you fit me in?
www.csjoseph.life/reading is the rcommended reading list and you can check my openings at csjoseph.life/coaching before you purchase.
Leave it to me to get paranoid about the vices of another type...
people are probably gonna get on your @ss about that plastic cup and straw! XD
Listen Chase … I do read … a lot. Reading has yet to be the fix all for my type problems. Sooo am I reading the wrong books then or???? Lol just sayinnnnnn
Do you need to be good at sports to have Se hero, cause i feel i kinda match with Esfp except that i'm clumsy and have pretty shitty eye-hand coordination.
I'm ISFP and i can be pretty clumsy. I attribute that to not having developed Se enough. (Unless i'm not actually ISFP which is a posibility). Something tells me though coordination in sport etc might also have something to with thinking functions - e.g. logicaly thinking of the best move, not just reacting in the moment. Same for remembering dance moves etc. ESFP and ISFP both have some some weaknesses with thinking functions (Ti trickster, Te inferior etc). I tend to think XSTPs are the most naturally gifted at sports etc. But that XSFPs can become good with practice and so can many other types (if not all)
Lol i am ESFP/ISFP and i suck with sport and do have shitty eye hand coordonation. I’m good with makeup and drawing but that’s all sports nope dancing nope nothing
I am an ESFP and due to being chubby as a kid i was really insecure about playing sports and even though i work out now i am still not picking up sports too easily. I still love Keeping active. I’m good with makeup and drawing though
Joe Exotic needed to watch this video
Btw is Beyonce an ESFP? Like love her but she steals a lot from smaller artists
People have profiled Beyonce as ISFJ, I believe
Car Video!
my suggestion for shadow focused ESFPs watch Father Stu for reference
So I go into INTJ subconcious over TE Child?
😢 This video exposes me, I feel so attacked, but fine I'll go read books 😅
Can I watch videos instead of reading?
watching non-fiction is better than nothing, audiobooks might be the best solution.
Thank you.
My father is INTJ... I’m ESFP. 🤦♀️ I am taking over a business he started. Can you imagine his struggle? 🤣he’s always mad at me and telling me to read more. Just want to put it out there. Lol
Thank you for your lectures!
I dont plaigarize i never have ever. Idk if thats applicable if im indeed an ESFP
Fucking love ESFP's
how does the wayfarer-templar relationship works or looks like?
Watch Season 14 Episode 9 for the answer: csjoseph.life/patreon it is in silver tier
*** EDIT: 10:59
11:59 ouch ...absolutely! I've noticed that I do that often, and I'm not even trying ROFL. though, as I've matured, I tend to not do that as much, but I still notice that I do it sometimes (and sometimes even often)
11:28 christ, I do that exact same thing...glad to know I'm not necessarily stupid if I can't sit down, read, and be patient about it lol
Oh ya...
The video description currently reads:
"What are the *Cognigitive* Transitions of the ESFP?"
Hey, er'body poops 💩
Which books? What kinds of books? For the "life's playbook" analogy at 35:05
csjoseph.life/reading
@@CSJoseph thanks
@@CSJoseph Psychological Types and AION were your only books by Jung listed? Really? Those are a few of his densest books, especially AION which delves deep into alchemical symbolism, which isn’t going to mean ANYTHING without having read some of the basics such as Man & His Symbols or The Undiscovered Self.
Fellow ESFP here who has been reading psychology since 17. Read Man & His Symbols for a very extensive yet most introductory summary of Jungian ideas, and then Inner Work by Robert A Johnson for a more practical focus. Also I found reading philosophy (I used to be really into Friedrich Nietzsche) to give me a clearer understanding of life and the human condition. For that I would check out Bertrand Russells “A History of Western Philosophy”. I’ve also been really into reading about Buddhist philosophy & psychology these days, and I feel like its something that most ESFP’s will resonate with. “The Way Of Zen” by alan watts is pretty amazing.
when you say ESFPs are not effective by default you are hurting the child :(
They have to learn how to be effective
Thanks you
I love your content. It continues to perplex me though, how you still believe the Bible is based in reality. I am also Ex-Mormon (was born into it) and can prove beyond doubt that Christianity is just myth created by man.
Oh yay another militant atheist so original
I never said or claimed that the Bible is based in reality. Stop putting words in my mouth.
C.S. Joseph Sorry if I made an incorrect observation (and please let me know if I have). However, based on the number of times you reference specific verses from the Bible as if they hold some real authority leads me to that conclusion. If you review my comment, I didn’t actually put any words in your mouth, and you didn’t deny my conclusion either.
I have used many other sources and quotes, check out my IG. Many of which have nothing to do with the Bible.
man compares mormonism to christianity....