IS THIS THE BIGGEST RED FLAG IN A GUY?!?
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EP 158: EVERYBODY PLEASE WELCOME A VERY SPECIAL GUEST MISS FANNITA!!! In this episode we open up the podcast by talking about IF we'd be okay with our partner going out to get dinner with an old friend of the OPPOSITE gender or if we'd be super sus about it... Obviously it does turn into a very heated debate... The girls then go on to discuss what MASCULINE traits in a man really brings out their FEMININE side and which traits they HATE!!! The girls also continue to BLIND RANK the top 10 WORST RED FLAGS a guy could have!!!! Fannita wraps up the podcast by talking about her struggles with being overweight, growing up in a predominantly racist area, and how her mental health has been recently. This has definitely been one of our FAVORITE podcasts we have recorded so I HOPE YOU GUYS ALL ENJOY!!! :D
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fannita is so real for flirting wit all of em😭
the way they were all taking turns 😭
Nah fr because i would’ve done the very same 😂😂
No literally 😭😭
frr😂
except sage 😭
Not Fannita calling out nick for the earrings from Claire’s and his feet not touching the floor thats WILD 😂😭
😂😂
LOL he was asking for it this fannita we talkin bout 😂😂
Timestamp😭
@@Neeyooom24:00
She’s so funny ong
“A pretty boy makes me pull out my wallet” 😭 IM SCREAMINGGG
I love how respectful fanita is she flirted with only the single men and the moment she knew Devin was single she hopped on that.
Wait…Devin is single? 🤨
@@NeLa_not_Naylayeah, they broke up a while ago. They be hinting at it in the lasts few podcasts
@@NeLa_not_Naylayes that was the part where they said oh she doesn’t know about fannita and then she starts flirting w devin after
I just know fannita tryna get sum pasta and lobster from Sean 😭
LMAOOO
shiiii i would too, Sean is too mf fineeee.
@@moncerodriguez2020SO REAL BRO
FACTS CZZ WHO WOULDNTTT
bro i feel like if maru was here fannita wld support her wild takes 😭 she gotta come backk
Yess I was literally thinking the same thing
Frrrr
fr😭
Air heads
@@Variantz4ugly hater!!
As a Black fan who lovesss suburb talks and everyone in it, it’s so nice seeing a Black guest on the pod and hearing about experiences that I relate to. Luv yu suburb talks, luv yu Fannita !
This is the oneeee!!!! Like I love them but this episode was a whole nother level👏🏾 and I loveee how they allowed her to talk about her experiences and just took it all in!
Yes
No fr i loved every minute and second of this podcast because of it
Cringe
@@Idcstfu 😢 wdgaf
Fannita needs to launch a masterclass in flirting, she's too good 😭
She would have my money in a heartbeat 😂
I’d pay a year in advance
NO FR but ngl i think a lot of it is her charisma and eye contact
SEAN HAS NO BUSINESS LOOKING THIS FINE TODAY WTF
Its the big blue orbs
No literally
Fr
literallyyy
hes so beautiful for whattt
Ain’t no wayyyyyy she said, “I’ll f the whole group baby imma groupieeeee!” 😂😭🤸🏾♀️😂 I scrumptttt
She was SO REAL for that shit lmao
Time stamp?
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I feel like Fannita brings an energy that this podcast has been needing. I admire the confidence and security that she embodies, and I wish everybody had her energy. Be your biggest cheerleader fr!!
we have the same last name
second this. agreed with most of her takes fr. she's very secure in herself and her relationships with other people and I'll always appreciate that in someone else.
I never knew sage was this funny, fannita really brings out his energy😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂
I was thinking this too 😂 but we only get to see a few minutes of their personality’s
He is the funniest imo
Fannita literally carried, she completely controlled the stage the whole time, she is a star
@@k.c.4384 she really is
“GET TF OUT OF MY HOUSE! asking for McDonald’s” 😂 sage gets funnier every podcast
Yo that had me dying
What was the time stamp
@@alondraaa01 50:58
FANNITA W THE HAMILTON SONGS LMFAOO 😭😭😭
SO REAL FOR THAT LMAOO
Yo my favorite part of the pod from!
Fr*
fav pat ong😭😭
*part
Damn!!! I don’t think that ANYONE on this pod should be replaced. I love you all for real. But she needs to bounce in a few times a year. Not only is she funny as hell but she challenges the way people think and their vantage point. As a black man who shares some of her experiences, her triumph through controversy is REMARKABLE. She is such a LIGHT. 🔥🔥 And you guys leaned in to her perspective and i could see the genuine empathy and support from all of you. DOPE ASS EPISODE FAM!!
She completely commanded this episode!
she's definitely a force to be reckoned with lol
cythina’s reaction to sean staring at fannita is me 😭😭
i need that time stamp
@@Therealsoso10SAME
Time stamp pleaseeee
@@Therealsoso102:18:59
Time stamp ?
Nick and Fannita is such a treat to watch. Love their banter.
The Chemistry
Their duo is🔥🔥😂😂
Sean looks soo good this episode 🙏
for reaallll
Sean always looks good
I’m so down bad for Sean, living vicariously through Fannita 😭
sean is so fine bro
literally
I love how fannita is just flirting with nick sean and devin over & over again she was just alternating with who to flirt with next
If i was in a room with them I would do the same
We need a Fannita to become a regular on the podcast. I loved how everyone matched her personality in their own way. The chemistry between everyone is so good.
CD 🎉 d 🎉. R🎉 😢🎉 🎉😢 😢😢c.🎉 C. 😢C. 😢Ccc😢 😢
LITERALLY
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Frr
YESSSS
the goatee and the little Mustache combo goes crazy on Devin 😵💫🤭
No frrrr he’s so fine and like in a really like handsome and mature way
@@Brrrchiwiwiw77handsome and mature way? 😭
@@normalgirlsza sorry haha *in a mature way
@@Brrrchiwiwiw77i get you and he definitely is 😩😩 he give off dat grown mann fine 😭😂
Fr
thank god yall posted i was on my last straw
frrrrr
LMFOAOA ME TOO
SAME
This is so real lmfaoo
ONG
I respect Fannita for holding down her opinion on the first question and she's 100% right. The idea of not getting to spend one on one time with a male friend I've known for years just cuz I'm in a relationship is crazy 💀💀 esp if I haven't hung out with that person in years like?? Not to be that person, but that's such a heteronormative mindset. Imagine being bi and being told you can't spend any one on one time with any of your friends while in a relationship....
No yeah it is heteronormative. There’s a reason why this topic doesn’t exist in the LGBT community 😭 the straights are COOKED.
Her perspective was needed and I honestly agree. It takes security on your end to be able to trust your partner fully and just be cool with it. Not every interaction you have with the opposite sex has any sexual connotation behind it. This honestly happened to one of my girlfriends. Her guy friend ghosted her after he got a girlfriend, but my friend wasn't even attracted to him, only viewed him platonically, so that friendship pretty much went down the drain after that point.
fannita and viet in a room together would be insane
Omg actuallyyyyy
U right😭
frrr
YES
I agree with Fannita on the first topic let y'all significant other have their own lives so they can grow as an individual
@@vuniverseeeinsecure asl lmao
@@tacotorres8512 and my man is just like me 🥰 two insecure love birds i guess but our relationship is thriving 🙈
yes for sure she made such valid, mature points
@@vuniverseeeif he wanted to cheat he would. do you gotta trust people but also that’s your relationship so youll find someone who respects and follows your boundaries
@@vuniverseeethat means u constantly sexualize ur friends of the opposite gender, then. if u dont trust ur s/o being friends w the opposite gender you’re the type to hit on YOUR friends of the opposite gender, ur projecting
SEAN LOOKS SO GOOD
i’m sayingg
deadass
49:16 “I used to work at Ralph’s we’re not checking” LMAO sage always comes in with the funniest comments 💀🤣
Sage + Fannita + Nick = Pure comedy
i love how fannita stood on business with that first scenario about the dinner with an old friend bc if u genuinely seem to have an issue with that it's bc ur insecure and that's on that, like instead of trying to make it seem like it's bc of boundaries just admit ur problem stems from trust issues and insecurity🤷🏽♀
Men and women can’t be friends, especially if one is in a relationship 🤡
@@amantheman_ if ur immature sure
@@nora8622 does your father have woman friends? Does your mother have male friends? 😂😂 be fr. If you want something serious, you gotta stop acting dumb and stop thinking men and women can just be hehe haha friends
@@nora8622just a question are you in a long term relationship right now
EXACTLYY. because notice how their answers were shifting a little bit when fannita brought up the scenario of the friend having a s/o of their own. they no longer felt uncomfortable (threatened/insecure) about the meet up.
Fannita putting them on to Hamilton is the best thing I’ve seen all day ⭐️⭐️⭐️
I need Fannita on here like once a month. This was one on the funniest episodes I’ve watched. Next time have her one with Maru too
6:52 - As a guy, would you be okay with your girlfriend going out to dinner with a male friend she used to go to school with?
18:30 - Does it make it better if the friend has a partner?
23:40 - Sage asks Fannita if she'd pass the diamond test
25:30 - What has been your biggest purchase?
27:35 - Is there anything wrong with doing boyfriend-girlfriend activities with a sneaky link?
29:55 - Can you be friends with someone you've had sex with?
34:30 - Can you invite a sneaky link to a birthday party?
37:37 - You can't be nice to men.
40:22 - What masculine traits in men bring out your feminine side?
44:36, 51:29 - Do broke boys have the best personality?
54:00 - Should you joke about things you and your partner had argued about before or just never bring it up again?
57:27 - Feminine traits that bring out your masculine or feminine side?
59:47 - Fannita mentions liking sassy men.
1:00:58 - Is it true girls just wanna complain about a situation and don't want the advice? Devil's advocate?
1:02:10 - You'd think a girl would want their man to have hygiene. Internalized homophobia discussion.
1:06:20, 1:17:35 - Senior superlatives
1:07:07 - Fannita's experiences with racism in Alabama
1:18:00 - Derogatory words
1:24:30 - Smash Marry Kill
1:30:20 - blind rank red flags
1:51:50 - How should a wife, mother, and daughter be ranked in a person's life?
1:53:50 - Problematic moms and predatory women
2:00:18 - dream role play
2:02:20 - does role play interest you?
2:04:15 - What's the switch up been like since losing a lot of weight?
2:15:40 - how to be more confident
ur great
Ily for this, thank you
thank u bb
Thank youuuuu
Love that fannita brought a diff perspective to the podcast especially about the first subject.
some one else already brought that perspective before
@@sleepyboizz8592but she’s her own person
I feel like fannita is great on sticking with her perspectives, they tried to bully her into changing her views on things like they gang up on maru but she fr stood on business and ate with all her reasons. I hope Maru grows to also stand up for herself and validates her views and know it’s okay to have unique takes ❤
Bru they’re not “bullying” her to change her views they jsut all happen to disagree and they’re sharing opinions 😭 really not that deep
THISS THE ONE!! they feel like they all need to agree sometimes, its okay to agree to disagree. and maru especially has trouble standing up for herself i be wanting to fight for her like girl please stand on business it’s okayy to have your own opinions!!!!😭
i feel like her and mary would have been so cool to see together sad she’s wasn’t in this episode 💔💔
whats the timestamp?
Bruh the girls are air heads and the only reason there on the podcast it’s because of there looks
There were so many funny moments in this episode 💀💀
2:26 - "So you're mad that a black woman is doing better in life?"
3:03 - "You watched it?" "Watched it? I lived that shit." same
10:06 - Sean getting flashbacks to the first all male podcast of 2023 (iykyk)
11:24 - "I agree, I agree. But no."
23:17 - "Don't deny me on camera."
26:36 - "I didn't tell nobody your feet don't touch the ground in this fucking chair"
32:43 - Fannita realizing Devin is single
49:00 - Sage throughout this whole streak-stealing discussion
55:22 - Fannita's beef with Nick
58:07 - The groupie lyric
1:05:00 - Whatever this interaction was between Nick and Fannita
1:16:10 - Fannita explaining why she once wished she was white
1:19:35 - "Sean is super straight" with a salute
1:23:40 - Fannita jokingly calling out Nick
1:25:40 - Fannita's explanation for fucking Sean instead of Nick
1:27:40 - The jokes made after fuck marry kill
1:28:30 - Fannita explaining Cynthia's joke to Nick
1:36:50, 1:43:30 - Fannita's pick me boy impression
1:37:50 - "Yeah I don't want you either"
1:40:03 - Devin's Olive Garden gift card
1:59:30 - "I love supporting broke men"
2:03:00 - the cop joke
1:41:07 - Fannita asks Sean about their first date.
can someone explain the joke that fannita explained to nick at 1:28:30 ? I couldnt hear it right
sean edits abt to go crazy
real
somebody lmk when they’re out 😭
Fannita speakin truth, like these opposite gender dating rules can be so restricting on other surrounding relationships sometimes, and it really does come down to trust. if u putting rules around how to hang out w friends, that means you don't trust ur partner's judgment.
Agreeed. I saw a comment that said "my man is enough and im perfectly fine with him being the only man in my life," and I feel like that implies that the only non-familial relationship you can have with the opposite gender is a romantic relationship. Having male friends isn't about having more men in your life; it's just having a friendship with someone that happens to be male. Like Fannita said, regardless of gender a friendship is just that: a friendship. And it's sad to see how the social restrictions put on male-female interactions prohibits genuine friendships from forming or lasting.
Devin n Cynthia knowing corazón makes me so happy idek
💃🏾TU ME PARTISTE CORAZÓN💃🏾
@@suburbtalks623 💃🏽PERO MI AMOR NO AY PROBLEMA NAUR 😼NAUR😼💃🏽
wait what song is it?
I COULDNT BREATHE WHEN FANNITA STARTED SERENADING SEAN 😭😫
I knew as soon as they showed fannita I would have to break out the tissue boxes bc I would be crying laughing. This is by far my favorite episode this season. I love that she shares her experience as an open book and is unapologetic about it. I love her spirit that even through all that she has been through that she can say I stood on business and after all that I will just believe in myself. The way this podcast boost my serotonin this is healing for my mental health. I love you all 🥰🥰🥰
BROOOO NICK NOT TOUCHING THE GROUND BC HES SITTING IN THAT CHAIR GOT ME DEADDDDD 😭😭😭😭
Nick and Fannita chemistry is so fun to see!!!
Finally, someone pointing out how archaic this idea is that friends of the same sex suddenly allowed to be close because they're in a relationship. It's toxic, controlling, amd insecure behavior, not "respectful".
Omggg I was waiting for Devin to hint the breakup. Sending him love and healing xxxxxx
I cant believe they broke up like all the things he's said on the podcast sounded like they would get married
What happened
@@samesquad7469 its in the sentence 😭him and his ex broke up
@@lindale299doesnt seem like she ever gave the same energy
@@em-ik6mglol i think they meant what caused the breakup shawty…
lol I'm glad she brought up the dinner thing at the beginning because it’s so crazy to me you won't let your SO go to dinner with girl/guy friends, if your partner's bi do they just not get to hang out with any friends according to that logic?
Exactly. Every time the LGBT community is brought up in these discussions they have nothing to say, which indicates that this is legit just straight people/heteronormativity thing
The dinner scenario is so valid. But honestly I would let my man go. At the end of the day my loyalty is with him and vise versa. If he can not contain himself around a female friend we need not to be together plain as day. I'm not about to keep a leash on him at all. LOVE THE PODCAST THOOO❤
2:03:06 this part fannita did what all of us would want to do if Seanson was sitting right next to us with them beautiful eyes
Bro fannita is just being her authentic self and i love it so much, it's so dope to see someone just being themselves and not care what other people think
oh my god sean with the backwards cap got it…he looks so good
29:32 FANNITA was spitting facts. One look at Nick’s smile and I’m done 😭😍😍
the way i have NEVER enjoyed a podcast group’s chemistry more than this one, yet was sobbing at fannita’s speech at the end. LOVED this combination.
My cheeks literally ache!! Stayed smiling and laughing the whole way through! Please bring Fannita back 🫶🏽
Only 15 minutes in but damn Fannita has some GREAT takes and it’s nice to see a different perspective from everyone who is willing to challenge everyone’s views
Her takes are horrible, she’s the exact type of woman that men should stay away from
@@amantheman_just based off your comment history it’s OBVIOUS you’re just insecure. so bc she’s funny and outgoing and knows how to take control of a conversation, men won’t like her….grow up buddy
@@bamboozled1449 find god
@@bamboozled1449 does ur father have women friends he hangs out with? Does your mother have male friends she hangs out with? 😂
@@amantheman_ i literally just answered that question. YES and it’s normal. key word “FRIENDS” stop embarrassing yourself 😂
When she said if I can’t have you , I can’t have your friends 55:38 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
my fav part was fannita flirting w everyone n everyone soaking it up like ok fannita you know what youre doinggg (i love her so much i love this vid)
I never laughed so much during a podcast omg 😭 this two hour video turned into three w the amount of times I reminded 😂 we need fannita back in the future plssss
FANNITAAAAAAAAA! i already know i’ll be rewatching this epi a few times😅
Yess I’m literally rewatching it now 😭
this is my second rewatch lol, so glad I waited the two months cuz I forgot some stuff
I FELL IN LOVE WITH FANNITA WHEN SHE STARTED SINGING HAMILTON!!!!!!!!!!❤
I appreciate Fannita talking on the struggle of being fat, as someone who is currently struggling with that, I’m glad it’s being talked about to others, especially the part where everyone DOES view you in a negative way, weither that be unattractive, unfit, “not as worthy”, etc it really sucks.
i hope things get better
@@karthikn4048 i appreciate that, thank you :)
i just finished it but PLEASE have her back omg i’ve never laughed so much
im loving these 2 hr podcastsss😝
Fannita and Nick is the duo I never knew I needed omgg
Sage and Fannita in this episode.. the duo I didn’t know I needed!! The way he matched her energy 😂😂👏🏽
I absolutely loved this episode. I love me some Fanitta and I loved suburb talks. Y’all didn’t take her jokes too seriously, yall listened to her struggles growing up, it was just a great episode and I enjoyed all of it. My favorite parts were when she’d flirt back and forth with Devin and Sean and they’d flirt back.
oh that dinner scenario ATE like thank you Fanita😭
missing maru 💔
Pretty face dumb as rocks tho😂
😢😢
wait did Maru leave for good a for a lil while like Cynthia???
@@kaylee.4858 I think for this video only
@@kaylee.4858she was in Korea!
Stop literally one of my top favorite podcasts!! Fannita flirting with all 3 is top tier and so real for that 😭
That whole fat segment at the end, I whole heartedly agree with Fannita. I am personally fat and have seen how different people are treated and with the backhanded "compliments". It is so true. Thank you for speaking the truth on this. More people need to hear this.
already with the first question and im vibing with fannita's pov and thoughts 🙌
2:03:06 FANNITA IS SO FUNNY LMAOOO how does she come up with these jokes on the spot 😭
WHAT DID SHE SAAAAY I COULDNT UNDERSTAND HER
@@lvmls”Copping a feel”
@@seesaw00 OHHH
never laughed so hard oh my GOD, obsessed w this combo!! pls bring fannita back on every now & then
i love fannita and i admire her so much for sharing her story about her weight a lot of people can feel ashamed of their past but she’s so open and honest i love it
FANNITA ATE NICK TF UP IM DYINGGGGG
This was my favorite episode ever , I hope fannita comes back for more episodes
that was the best 2 hours of my life. i love fannita sooo hard and everything she said at the end resonated with me truly and she said it all so beautifully. i hope y’all have her back fr.
NEED to see Fannita and Maru in the same episode!!! Fannita is FUNNNY!! That new channel BETTER BE amazing, I’m expecting GREAT things! Do a bunch of the old CZcams trends in order or oldest to most recent all in one vid(ex: Draw My Life, Ice Bucket, Try not to laugh, BeanBoozled, GhostPepper, Gummy vs Real Food, etc. yk all that good OG stuff) I got hella ideas guys so like lmk lol :)
AHHHHH FINALLY THE FANNITA EPISODE AHHHH
i’m sorryyyyyy but i don’t think yall could ever top off an episode unless she comes back for pt 2 😭 i was geeeeeking the whole & they were too, luvvvv fannita 💘
Love Fannitas energy and how quick she is to her points but damn Cynthia could barley get a word in😭
I love her humor and her perspectives on growing up in a predominantly white school!! please have her and Maru at the same time!!
The ending where fannita was talking about how differently she was treated after losing weight is so true! Was just talking with my own friends about the same topic after loosing weight myself and she put it into the perfect words that I didn’t really know how to.
Fannita ATE UP that singing
thank you fannita for the first point!!! this tells so much about how people view friendships, like i'm not gonna ditch my friend of 7+ years for a guy i just met!
its not just a guy you just met its ur significant other.. if you dont value ur significant other enough to put them above some of ur freinds you shouldnt be together
bro fannita needs to be on more episodes yall vibe so well. her humor matches so well with yalls
man these podcasts have been getting long again and i'm here for it
This was genuinely the best podcast ever 😂 love fannita and her personality
the way this video had me all giggly like she was flirting with ME is insane lmaoo PLS have her back on another podcast i love her
“copping a feel 😛😛” HAD ME DYINGGG
I've been waiting for the podcast with Fannita! Im sure it'll be so good!!!
genuinely love this podcast fs everyone brings out such a good vibeee in each other🙏🏽
This has to be the best podcast so far I was laughing from start to finish. Fannita is so amazing, I love how real and open she is. Unapologetically herself to the core. I love it
Oh my gosh we've won big. The energy this podcast is going to be so good
Suburb Talks never fails to make my day 😁
I loved the energy of this podcast so much omg🙏🙏
🫶🏽🫶🏽
I’m so happy Fannita came on this podcast bc lowkey I feel like they’re tone deaf at times on what black people experience on the DAILY. It’s good to have a black persons perspective
FRRR!!!
fannita is such an amazing guest omfg. her personality is so funny. i adore her. this dynamic was the best
Definitely love fannitas take on having guy friends while in a relationship, that was perfectly said
Bop
@@amantheman_Ur mad bruh 😭
definitely one of my favorite episodes😭😭
fannita is so funny and so good with words 🙌
I BEEN WAITING FOR THIS EPISODE WITH FANNITA SINCE FOREVERRR
The way Nick constantly adjusts her mic is so attractive🥵