Cultivating Healthy Emotions: Intro to Brahmavihara Meditation

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  • čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
  • Today's video looks at the meditation practice of the Brahmavihāras or "abodes of Brahma". This practice is to cultivate four emotions key to a healthy and skillful approach to the world. We will introduce these four emotions, what they are, and why we should consider them fundamental to our path towards a better and wiser life.
    Lovingkindness = mettā
    Compassion = karuṇā
    Sympathetic joy = muditā
    Equanimity = upekkhā
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    Rice Pots (SN 20.4): suttacentral.net/sn20.4/en/su...
    A Teaching in Brief (AN 8.63): suttacentral.net/an8.63/en/su...
    Getting Rid of Resentment (1st) (AN 5.161): suttacentral.net/an5.161/en/s...
    The Development of the Faculties (MN 152): suttacentral.net/mn152/en/sujato
    Spiritual (SN 36.31): suttacentral.net/sn36.31/en/b...
    With Subha (MN 99): suttacentral.net/mn99/en/sujato
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Komentáře • 29

  • @AnattaAnattata
    @AnattaAnattata Před 7 měsíci +1

    Sadhu!🙏 By this merit of meditation, may I attain the state of non-defilement!
    🌳🌳🌳🧘‍♂️🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳

  • @andresmatos721
    @andresmatos721 Před 5 lety +8

    Dear Doug. This is one of the best and most useful advices I have got from your videos. The 4 Brahmacharias are concrete anchors in my daily practice beyond sitting in meditation.... to keep one or more of the Brahmacharias in mind gives real meaning to my practice, but I haven't connected the dots between them in the way you have presented them. Thank you so much for showing me that! Look forward to the next video on this topic. Wish you well

    • @DougsDharma
      @DougsDharma  Před 5 lety +2

      You’re very welcome Andrés, thanks so much for watching. I’m glad you found it useful! Stay tuned for more detailed treatments coming up. 🙂

  • @patrickacolifloresvillasen1731
    @patrickacolifloresvillasen1731 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you, Doug! I am really interested in the four Brahmaviharas.

  • @TheBCompany
    @TheBCompany Před 4 lety +2

    I've just recently discovered your wonderful videos, Doug, as I'm working with Metta Mindfulness Music on an album about The Four Divine States of Mind. I have been focused on practicing Metta for a decade, and find now to be a perfect time to focus on deepening my understanding and application of Upekkha. Thank you for your generous sharing.

    • @DougsDharma
      @DougsDharma  Před 4 lety

      Welcome B Company, glad to have you here! Yes these are such important practices, I think work with them never ceases.

  • @lucasoad399
    @lucasoad399 Před 3 lety +2

    I'm brazillian and not understand very much about you say, but i know that you're talking by a theravada perspective. The raw budhism. : )

    • @DougsDharma
      @DougsDharma  Před 3 lety +1

      Well close but not quite, my approach follows early Buddhism from a secular perspective. 🙂

  • @absolutenice9100
    @absolutenice9100 Před 5 lety +1

    I have now grasped the three universal truths , the five aggregrates , the five hindrances , the Tripitika , the Four Noble Truths , the Noble Eightfold Path , the three Hindrances - Desire , Hatred , Dukkha ( Unsatisfactoriness ) rising out of the three universal truths and the Brahmaviras that lead to nirvana on meditative insight or vipassana .

    • @DougsDharma
      @DougsDharma  Před 5 lety +1

      That’s great to hear, Absolute Nice. It’s a great beginning. Now you need to practice with them! 🙂

    • @absolutenice9100
      @absolutenice9100 Před 5 lety +1

      @@DougsDharma I am now on to Vipassana Meditation . Thanks a lot .

    • @DougsDharma
      @DougsDharma  Před 5 lety

      You’re very welcome! I hope the best for your practice. 🙏

  • @rufushume8910
    @rufushume8910 Před 5 lety +4

    Hello Doug,
    I appreciate you making this video and choosing to focus on the Brahmaviharas in more detail in future videos. I feel like they are too often neglected. In my limited experience they are highly effective accelerators of developing stable attention and very important practices in their own right.
    I think people overlook them due to overestimating the power of rationality over the human psyche and underestimating how useful practices that work with emotion are. In that context these practices are perceived as inauthentic, unimportant, and childish.
    I sometimes wonder if the extent to which these practices are underemphasized in the West contributes at all to teacher scandals. Failing to work with the mind on an emotional level could lead to spiritual bypassing and suppression as the practitioner tries to force the mind to do what they want - motivated by Western notions of self-control which creates self harshness in response to how unresponsive the mind is to rationality devoid of appeal to emotion. The result is that even after becoming highly accomplished in meditation the practitioner is still susceptible to behaving unskillfully given access to sufficient temptation. Then give the practitioner access to a large audience of people who highly revere them and scandals come out of practitioners who have gotten far in meditation and are powerful innovators.
    Of course, that is just speculation on my part, but I have recently noticed how in my own practice Western assumptions about self-control can create spiritual bypassing and create aversion to practices that work with emotion. I am curious as to what you think about the matter.

    • @DougsDharma
      @DougsDharma  Před 5 lety +2

      Hi Rufus, yes spiritual bypassing is a deep problem, one I’ve discussed many times in my videos. As for the notion of control, though the Buddha’s advice was nuanced, he was much more interested in a path of self control than most contemporary western teachers are willing to pursue, at least in my experience. Western teachers often seem very reluctant to push their students to make serious effort, perhaps because they know most laypeople lead busy, stressful lives already. So it’s something we need to investigate and practice with on a case by case basis.

    • @adamf.4823
      @adamf.4823 Před 2 lety

      Very well said. My thoughts exactly.

    • @ericdevere888
      @ericdevere888 Před 2 lety

      Your curiosity resonates with me, deeply. I love the way you laid it out, and I still certainly be thinking about this for at least a few days.

  • @Ma2rten
    @Ma2rten Před 5 lety +2

    Are the 4 Brahamviharas supposed to be practiced together? Or are they like the Jhanas, states that need to attained before you can move on to the next one?

    • @DougsDharma
      @DougsDharma  Před 5 lety +1

      Good question Maarten. They aren’t necessarily meant to be practiced together, but neither does one need to progress from one to the next. Each can I think be practiced on its own. 🙂

    • @Ma2rten
      @Ma2rten Před 5 lety +2

      @@DougsDharma Thank you. I appreciate you sharing your knowledge.

    • @DougsDharma
      @DougsDharma  Před 5 lety

      You're very welcome Maarten!

  • @VasiaMple
    @VasiaMple Před 2 lety

    Hello, i would like to make a question that is irrelevant with this video. I don't if there's any that you explain it. What tathagata means?

    • @DougsDharma
      @DougsDharma  Před 2 lety

      Well it's not totally clear. It usually is interpreted as "thus come" or "thus gone". It is a pre-Buddhist term, essentially it refers to an enlightened being of some importance.

  • @user-tv5lx4xo8c
    @user-tv5lx4xo8c Před 4 lety

    In a sense the broadcasting does happen -- the heart is creating huge EM waves with each beat. If the signal is stable everything else in the body will sync up through entertainment.

  • @rapisode1
    @rapisode1 Před 2 lety +1

    Buddhism isn't really secular right?

    • @DougsDharma
      @DougsDharma  Před 2 lety

      It depends on how one practices it. Many people don't practice a secular form of Buddhism, and that's fine. Some do. As for the general question of an "authentic" Buddhism, see: czcams.com/video/kS-Xtsq4_xE/video.html

  • @middlewayers
    @middlewayers Před rokem

    Isn't it true to that all religions are trying to fit into modern perception of Ethics and Morality?

    • @DougsDharma
      @DougsDharma  Před rokem +4

      I wouldn't say so, many religions are pushing back against modern perceptions of ethics and morality.

  • @tomhession9814
    @tomhession9814 Před 5 lety +1

    Ĺ JFET JFET