ASMR Shh...Its Okay, Im Right Here | Comforting You to Sleep - Relaxing Safe Male Personal Attention

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  • čas přidán 12. 11. 2022
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    It's okay my friend, im right here and i'll keep you safe with calming asmr personal attention while you rest. This evening is all about you and ensuring you receive the most relaxing nights sleep possible. Hair combing and face brushing, accompanied by gentle face tracing. Goodnight my dear friend.
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    Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response (ASMR) is a tingling sensation that typically begins on the scalp and moves down the back of the neck and upper spine.
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  • @JordanMeyer
    @JordanMeyer Před 11 měsíci +1799

    My girlfriend “what are you watching?”
    Me: “a grown man is tucking me in , go back to bed.”

  • @levitatingeternity918
    @levitatingeternity918 Před měsícem +61

    As a man myself, it's so so sweet to have another man be so gentle and supportive. I never thought i needed the company of someone who doesn't even know me.
    Thank you Mr Gentleman. You really did make me sleep easy knowing you were there.

  • @lorenamcd7572
    @lorenamcd7572 Před 9 měsíci +75

    you have a very comforting "guardian angel" energy. thank you for this video

  • @SlimeyBaron
    @SlimeyBaron Před rokem +1966

    For a guy who looks so tough, you're incredibly relaxing and gentle! Felt super chill

    • @a.katherinesuetterlin3028
      @a.katherinesuetterlin3028 Před rokem +83

      Ikr? He seems the sort to dress in comfy sweaters/jumpers and offer up fresh hot tea, cider or whatever else we might need for comfort...but when it's time to throw down the gauntlet, out come the edgy tattoos...that bigger, badass protective brother who's always got your back...but he ends up killing his enemies with kindness. Because they don't understand how he can look so tough but be so loving. He seems like he'd rather be a lover, not a fighter. That's my take on it. 🤷‍♀️

    • @lulow1291
      @lulow1291 Před rokem +28

      hes like braum from leauge of legends

    • @Bignfluffy
      @Bignfluffy Před rokem

      @@a.katherinesuetterlin3028 so fucking cringey

    • @Novarcharesk
      @Novarcharesk Před rokem +50

      The aesthetic of the gentlest man being the strongest, toughest looking one is one of my favourites 😅

    • @onyxgate1
      @onyxgate1 Před 11 měsíci +4

      ​@@lulow1291 true tho

  • @shantellyvette
    @shantellyvette Před rokem +337

    It's something about a big strong man being soft and gentle that is soooo soothing and safe feeling. Thank you for existing and making this kind of content!!! ❤

  • @ashhoffer6782
    @ashhoffer6782 Před rokem +937

    As an SA survivor, videos like these always surprise me. I almost never watch male asmrtist, but ones like you are the exception. My progress has a multitude of causes, and videos like this are a big part of it. Thank you

    • @spencerswindler420
      @spencerswindler420 Před rokem +45

      I hope you're doing well

    • @Ksinloveee
      @Ksinloveee Před 10 měsíci +28

      I’m sorry you had to go through that and I hope your doing better now honey❤️

    • @555elise
      @555elise Před 8 měsíci +13

      i hope you're okay now, you're so strong 🫶🏻

    • @phoebe2234
      @phoebe2234 Před 7 měsíci +10

      I'm so sorry I wish you nothing but the best

    • @liverbirdxoxo1984
      @liverbirdxoxo1984 Před 6 měsíci +7

      i hope you are healing… one day at a time.. it really does damage so much… you will get there… xoxo

  • @emthegem9477
    @emthegem9477 Před rokem +8066

    I was attacked recently and having a male presence feel comforting and not threatening was so nice. Thank you for making me feel safe in a time so scary.

    • @ANGEL-ei6pp
      @ANGEL-ei6pp Před rokem +571

      Omg I hope your okay now!

    • @abbya4003
      @abbya4003 Před rokem +425

      I’m so sorry that happened to you… I hope you are ok 💖

    • @liquidlemon3335
      @liquidlemon3335 Před rokem +115

      Not everyone bad you know. Theres some truly good people ot there

    • @Skwadley
      @Skwadley Před rokem +1051

      @@liquidlemon3335They know.

    • @maddiecook4227
      @maddiecook4227 Před rokem +106

      Omg im so sorry that happened to you

  • @jeffkoe310
    @jeffkoe310 Před rokem +247

    Isn’t it amazing that hearing another human being saying supportive and caring things in a soothing way can shift your mood and make you feel safe? I need to do this more for my friends and family.

    • @shannahtheninjaneko6927
      @shannahtheninjaneko6927 Před 5 měsíci +6

      I will try to do this more too ❤ Give the love most of us never had, but the love most of us deserve

  • @TheWall2509
    @TheWall2509 Před rokem +2797

    I remember when this dude posted his first ASMR video, now look. He puts so much effort and quality into these videos, yet I feel like he's highly unappreciated. Keep up the good work.

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  Před rokem +404

      It means so much to me that you’ve been here from the start my friend. Thank you

    • @patriciagrell9865
      @patriciagrell9865 Před rokem +36

      Oh he's very much appreciated. When I'm feeling down I watch him. I've been dealing with a lot of resentment and working hard on letting things go. His calm voice is very reassuring.

    • @catcolb11
      @catcolb11 Před rokem +6

      I'm so happy I found your ASMR channel. It was literally my first experience with ASMR and I've been hooked ever since. Thank you for this safe space.

    • @War_lover757
      @War_lover757 Před rokem +9

      I was the 1000th person to like!!!! (this has never happened to me before)

    • @1chadmon
      @1chadmon Před 9 měsíci +4

      Omg, I found this just at the right time.❤️‍🩹

  • @daafitko
    @daafitko Před rokem +410

    I don’t know if this was intended for a male, but having a genuine caring friend , even if only in a video feels amazing, thank you , thank you very much

    • @SelinaCat
      @SelinaCat Před rokem +41

      I think so many of us feel comfortable with his videos because he is careful to make it open to anyone. 😊

    • @ReverbCanvas
      @ReverbCanvas Před 11 měsíci +1

      Yeah I feel what you say

    • @IsaacFoster..
      @IsaacFoster.. Před 9 měsíci +14

      I'm glad I'm not alone. We'll get through this, brother.

    • @user-ef1uu4yq8s
      @user-ef1uu4yq8s Před 9 měsíci +8

      ⁠@@IsaacFoster.. just in case it’s been a while since you’ve heard it - you’re doing great, and i’m so glad you’re here💛

  • @CerbeRawr
    @CerbeRawr Před 8 měsíci +431

    Honestly mate, you're one of the bravest fellas out there
    I've scrolled in the comments, seeing some truly heartbreaking things, and you.. you simply answer nicely, doing that has a weigh on someone's heart so I'm just saying, i have a lot of respect for ya and what you've done

    • @bryanthomas4907
      @bryanthomas4907 Před 2 měsíci +7

      It's nice seeing that ppl still value kindness. I'm often not sure but it's the little things...

    • @sarahlouiseruberg4292
      @sarahlouiseruberg4292 Před 20 dny +1

      What a nice thing to say ❤

  • @lowkeylokieanimations
    @lowkeylokieanimations Před 9 měsíci +81

    Grew up with a father that never cared for my emotions or struggles. This made me feel like I wasn’t being neglected- I felt so safe and loved ❤ Thank you for making this!

    • @victoriataylor5584
      @victoriataylor5584 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Most men are that way, my father wasn't very affectionate with me either, but he did help me through my struggles.

    • @victoriataylor5584
      @victoriataylor5584 Před 5 měsíci +3

      They tend to think differently than women, but there are men that are sensitive, and caring just like this man.

    • @victoriataylor5584
      @victoriataylor5584 Před 5 měsíci +1

      God bless this man.

  • @teefarox92
    @teefarox92 Před rokem +971

    Can I just say, this dude has one of the most beautiful, warm and friendly looking smiles I have ever seen on a person. It just makes you feel better instantly. Thanks man, for everything you do. I love all your videos, they always make me feel better after a stressful nights work. Lots of Love form Australia.

  • @Mimi0803
    @Mimi0803 Před 10 měsíci +63

    Having to deal with cancer and then having to go through the emotional roller coaster of my dad saying he was cutting me off (not money wise- just out of his life) before turning around and being like “ haha that was funny- alright good talk”
    Your voice calms me down so much. Even though my dad said he was only joking and didn’t mean anything he said- I’m out here fighting my emotions and soul from tearing myself into nothing.
    I know this is a really silly comment and maybe I’m just emotional and stressed. But thank you genuinely- I always come to your videos when I’m down and even now- your voice and kindness is helping me calm down from the emotional turmoil rn.

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  Před 10 měsíci +28

      I’m sorry you’re going through this clearly difficult time my friend. But I’m pleased to hear I’m able to provide some level of relaxing escape from time to time. And it’s definitely not a silly comment. It took a great deal of courage to share your feelings like that and I respect it so much. You’ve got this my friend, even if at times it feels otherwise. Never forget how strong you are

    • @Army4Anime-hx8pc
      @Army4Anime-hx8pc Před 6 měsíci +1

      You've been through a lot. You're really brave.

  • @ReverbCanvas
    @ReverbCanvas Před 11 měsíci +21

    I’m a guy, but there’s something particularly soothing about a buffed guy being so tranquil. Very wholesome, great quality, instantly subbing bro.

  • @IsaacFoster..
    @IsaacFoster.. Před 9 měsíci +109

    As a dude myself, I've always listened to female asmr videos. But damn this is so good. Thank you brother.

  • @pumpkintartable
    @pumpkintartable Před 3 měsíci +32

    30 seconds in, I realized no one has ever treated me this way and started crying

    • @LucasDavis-fb3vd
      @LucasDavis-fb3vd Před 22 dny +1

      I'm sorry.your a great person and
      You deserved to be loved.I hope you have a wonderful day

  • @katrinajohnson834
    @katrinajohnson834 Před 8 měsíci +1340

    I separated from my abusive husband recently and am going through the most devastating time of my life. I found this video two months ago, and it brought me to tears. Since then, your videos have become the only thing that can calm my mind and cure my insomnia. You make my loneliness and fear melt away, and I fall asleep smiling. You remind me that gentle men exist. Thank you so much for what you do, dear friend.

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  Před 8 měsíci +378

      Thank you for being so open my dear friend, your strength is clear for all to see. Stay strong Katrina, this is the new start you’ve been searching for. This will always be a place for you to escape to in your time of need for some much needed sleep and relaxation. I hope tonight’s video will help bring you a little peace this evening my friend

    • @drawkily
      @drawkily Před 5 měsíci +24

      so sorry to hear that. i hope that you're in better place with better people surrounding you! wish you the fastest healing❤

    • @katrinajohnson834
      @katrinajohnson834 Před 5 měsíci +28

      @@drawkily thank you so much ❤️ I'm healing and moving forward with my life in a new and healthier direction.

    • @drawkily
      @drawkily Před 5 měsíci +5

      @@katrinajohnson834 didn't expect for a such quick response but I'm so glad that you're fine and moving on

    • @seba6532
      @seba6532 Před 5 měsíci +4

      it’s okay💞🫂

  • @DEAD_FORLIFE
    @DEAD_FORLIFE Před rokem +88

    Just at the start of the video I started crying because I recently lost my forever friend bc he committed suicide and I barely been eating, sleeping, or doing anything and this video made me cry and relaxed thank you for helping me today I was on the edge to leaving this world until I came across this video thank you so much❤

    • @christianschmidt4550
      @christianschmidt4550 Před 10 měsíci +6

      I hope you’re doing well

    • @letsalllovelein
      @letsalllovelein Před 9 měsíci +3

      I'm so sorry. I hope you're alright now :(

    • @Army4Anime-hx8pc
      @Army4Anime-hx8pc Před 6 měsíci +3

      ​@@Sabrina-hu1bs
      Because their friend meant a lot to them. No matter where it is in the world, people still need people. Give some grace for someone who has suffered a loss. You don't know when you will need grace too.

    • @Army4Anime-hx8pc
      @Army4Anime-hx8pc Před 6 měsíci +1

      ​@@Sabrina-hu1bs
      Потому что их друг много значил для них. Независимо от того, где это находится в мире, люди все равно нуждаются в людях. Окажите милость тому, кто понес утрату. Вы не знаете, когда и вам понадобится благодать. я знаю, что плохо говорю по-русски. Я все еще учусь.

    • @Army4Anime-hx8pc
      @Army4Anime-hx8pc Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@Sabrina-hu1bs
      Потому что их друг много значил для них. Независимо от того, где это находится в мире, люди все равно нуждаются в людях. Окажите милость тому, кто понес утрату. Вы не знаете, когда и вам понадобится благодать. я знаю, что плохо говорю по-русски. Я все еще учусь.

  • @astrid6591
    @astrid6591 Před 5 měsíci +18

    it's genuinely surprising to be comforted by a male that isn't trying to get into my pants or trying to get something out of me. It makes me confused, but this is very healing for me. Thank you for all that you do for these people online

  • @lyrixmaples
    @lyrixmaples Před 2 měsíci +7

    For me seeing a non threatening man is rare and im glad youre one of the good ones ❤

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  Před 2 měsíci +2

      Thank you my dear friend

    • @lyrixmaples
      @lyrixmaples Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@WhisperingGentlemanASMR thank you for helping us relax and sleep and for being there when we need it most

  • @ambrose1919
    @ambrose1919 Před rokem +3108

    You saved my life tonight. Literally. Thank you for telling me I'm stronger than I think. You said every single word I needed to hear. To save me and made me remember my kids. Thank you

    • @jeric0777
      @jeric0777 Před rokem +236

      Still doing okay? I hope so. Sending prayers your way. ❤

    • @JaneParkerBowls
      @JaneParkerBowls Před rokem +94

      Sending love amber

    • @ambrose1919
      @ambrose1919 Před rokem +355

      I'm really trying. I've reached out for help but I put on such a great poker face I don't think anyone takes me seriously. Not even my therapist. So i turn to these face brushing videos to ground me time and time again. But thank you for checking on me. That shows me that I really might matter

    • @jeric0777
      @jeric0777 Před rokem +125

      @@ambrose1919 Of course you matter, but I get it. A lot of us have been there. Even as moms. Just take it one day at a time and when you're in the thick of things, remember this too shall pass. Most of our problems, no matter how devastating, are temporary. Don't apply a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Hang in there. 🙏 Much love from a fellow struggling mom. 💕

    • @wargodest
      @wargodest Před rokem +66

      @@ambrose1919you're doing great ❤ and you DO matter! Your kids love you, and you seem like a lovely human being:) you will conquer these challenges in your life, I believe in you

  • @FizzleBerry666
    @FizzleBerry666 Před rokem +277

    It's new years eve and I've been up all night trying not to have a panic attack... for some reason nothing has calmed me down tonight, my insomnia is up the wall and I just can't freaking sleep. I clicked on this and finally felt immediate calm for the first time all day. Thank you so much for this, sir!

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  Před rokem +63

      I hope you’re okay now my friend and I’m glad I was able to help in some way ☺️

    • @Puki548
      @Puki548 Před 9 měsíci +4

      Same. Saved me from a panic attack and helped me a lot. ❤

  • @mr_mustache_man7789
    @mr_mustache_man7789 Před 11 měsíci +29

    i just lost my dog yesterday in a horrible way, and it’s hard to go to sleep cuz my mind won’t stop picturing it. thanks for this, it’s really comforting

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  Před 11 měsíci +11

      I hope you’re okay my friend

    • @clairstrange4362
      @clairstrange4362 Před 19 hodinami

      I’m so sorry for your loss. I know that pain all too well. Sending you love and prayers and condolences. Fly high, sweet pup 🌈🩷🙏

  • @robsutherland5744
    @robsutherland5744 Před rokem +238

    Thank you for using some of the precious hours of your life doing this. To me it is genuinely extraordinary. Sharing your own observations and generosity and honesty with us makes me feel pretty humble. I hope you ate well today.

  • @Patriciar83
    @Patriciar83 Před rokem +307

    Dark backgrounds asmr videos are a plus for those who wants to relax and sleep. Thank you :) Also love your slow gentle hands movements.

  • @sweetr1832
    @sweetr1832 Před rokem +88

    My little kitten was asleep in front of the screen, until I put this on and she's now intensely following and listening for a while when you pet the camera, then dozing off again. She's a rescue, I want to believe she understands what you're saying 💙

  • @samurailevi49
    @samurailevi49 Před 11 měsíci +75

    I suffer from multiple forms of anxiety including PTSD, General Anxiety, Panic Disorder, and Social Anxiety. I can get up to 15 panic attacks in a single month due to the overwhelming nature of all of these anxiety problems. You’ve made me feel instantly calm which isn’t easy. I can’t thank you enough! 🙏

    • @Yeettube2777
      @Yeettube2777 Před 10 měsíci +7

      Bro I be getting like 30 a month.
      But mine is no more or less
      valid than yours.
      Salut to you fellow ptsd anxiety disorder brotheren .

    • @samurailevi49
      @samurailevi49 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@Yeettube2777 Oh that sounds horrible! I’m so sorry to hear that!

    • @askherhowshesdoeen
      @askherhowshesdoeen Před 5 měsíci +2

      I'm sorry to hear about your anxiety, ptsd and panic disorder, I suffer from the same things as well as bipolar. If you have access to a psychiatrist, maybe try asking about hydroxyzine and propranolol? They have changed my life and I went from having 2 panic attacks per day (which lasted 45 minutes each and felt like heart attacks and seizures, leaving me unable to walk without my legs locking up) to virtually none. It has been a miracle. I hope you find relief, friend❤️

  • @yurikazamiknight2436
    @yurikazamiknight2436 Před 8 měsíci +25

    This man right here. This absolute legend.
    I've listened to ASMR after ASMR, and this beast of a man, soft as a kitten, can soothe us better than the majority of women who claim they can put you to sleep.
    I'm a guy, and this is hella relaxing.
    You sir, are a legend.
    ❤I wish you great luck on your adventures.

  • @fuddlewacken
    @fuddlewacken Před 6 měsíci +8

    I dont think Ive ever had such nourishing words of kindness, encouragment and care spoken to me in my whole life. I didnt know i wanted this in my own personal life so much. Just to be comforted.

  • @ericakilbourn9716
    @ericakilbourn9716 Před 11 měsíci +16

    This reminds me of the time my, (now husband), boyfriend and I were in a car wreck. I was really shaken up (physically mostly fine). We were at his friend's house and we were both trying to just calm down and feel okay, and crying a little. Then randomly his friend walks in the room quietly with a tiny puppy! We had no idea there was a dog in his house, it was such a sweet thing to do, and a nice distraction ❤

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  Před 11 měsíci +3

      That definitely sounds like something much needed after such an ordeal my friend.

  • @TheUnderNerd
    @TheUnderNerd Před rokem +564

    Man. I wish I had a male presence in my life that would just keep me company and give some physical attention without taking it as me being interested because I let them play with my hair or hug me for a while.
    Videos like these bring me so much solace. Thank you

    • @moonstenebrocity
      @moonstenebrocity Před rokem +19

      me too :((

    • @ThePower1037
      @ThePower1037 Před rokem +17

      Man I hope I can find the strength to fix all of my short comings, I hope you find someone that cares for you as well. :)

    • @TheUnderNerd
      @TheUnderNerd Před rokem +9

      @@ThePower1037 Thank you, mate. I hope the best for you as well 🫂

    • @phoenixmarine974
      @phoenixmarine974 Před rokem +1

      me three

    • @Novarcharesk
      @Novarcharesk Před rokem +12

      Then you’re expecting a fantasy. You don’t demand this kind of intimate attention from a man and then expect him to not respond by being into you. Go to a masseuse or maybe just get a husband who says this shit to you.

  • @relaxrapa
    @relaxrapa Před 11 měsíci +10

    I have never felt more comforted by a man in my entire life, thank you, im literally in tears 😭 ❤️

  • @ComeOn_ASMR
    @ComeOn_ASMR Před rokem +142

    Omgg the gentle whispers, slow hand movements, gentle brushing, dark background, 1h30 length….
    I am so grateful for this video ❤😊🫶😴

  • @amyingram70
    @amyingram70 Před rokem +16

    I just wanted to thank you for doing this video. 5 years ago January my Mother passed. Friday I made the painful decision to pull the life support for my Dad and he passed. Your words are healing, soothing, and diminishes the pain for a moment. Thank you.😪😪😪

  • @jazminvalero8732
    @jazminvalero8732 Před 6 měsíci +40

    Just lost my cat of 17 yrs today. This was calming and helped me stop crying for the first time in awhile. Thank you

    • @CreateWithFiaa
      @CreateWithFiaa Před 6 měsíci +6

      I'm so sorry for you, but just know that your cat is happy because it got to spend it's entire life with an amazing owner like you, my friend :)

    • @victoriataylor5584
      @victoriataylor5584 Před 5 měsíci +4

      I'm so very sorry about your cat.

    • @jazminvalero8732
      @jazminvalero8732 Před 5 měsíci

      @@victoriataylor5584 Thank you 🤍

    • @askherhowshesdoeen
      @askherhowshesdoeen Před 5 měsíci +2

      I'm so sorry for your loss, your cat was so lucky to be so loved by you🩷 I hope you are healing now

    • @jazminvalero8732
      @jazminvalero8732 Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@askherhowshesdoeen Thank you so much for this ♥️ It was really needed today

  • @amisapp5033
    @amisapp5033 Před rokem +25

    If I had to live on a desert island for the rest of my life and could pick only one ASMR channel, it would definitely be yours my friend. It’s pure magic, every time it helps me to fall asleep peacefully, your words, gentle movements, soft sounds, length, background, everything is perfect. Thank you so much for creating this real safe space. 💝

  • @lexibbx2
    @lexibbx2 Před rokem +53

    I have to say I clicked on this video by accident but for some reason I was like “ eh we’ll see” and I’m so glad I did I’ve watched a few videos now and they are so very soothing and comforting and such beautiful quality.

    • @WhisperingGentlemanASMR
      @WhisperingGentlemanASMR  Před rokem +13

      Thank you so much my friend and welcome to this safe space

    • @SelinaCat
      @SelinaCat Před rokem +2

      This was the same for me! It just goes to show how many toxic microaggresions we as women are subjected regularly.

  • @glitterzombigoesnuts
    @glitterzombigoesnuts Před rokem +140

    I’m not sure if you know this, but I believe you have a natural intuition of what people need to hear in order to truly relax after a hard day and that simple gift of intuition provides so much comfort and security. Even if it’s only for a little while. Your kindness shows it’s true and beautiful colors in this video. Thank you for your contribution to the ASMR community. Thank you for your time and commitment to helping others relax and/or sleep. You’re a gift to this world. Never forget that. ❤ also I don’t want you as just a friend. I want to adopt you as family 😂 what would I give to have such a kind and caring sibling?

    • @kimmills3264
      @kimmills3264 Před rokem +8

      agreed he is empathic, so a wonderfully in tune to his own feelings and of the heart and mind to share himself in this way. 🤗🙏

    • @mattb1568
      @mattb1568 Před rokem +5

      Don’t forget, by being open to this goodness, you yourself are a gift to this world. It’s in our nature. Exude your goodness, to yourself and to the people around you who are open as well

  • @stupidcircle4413
    @stupidcircle4413 Před rokem +24

    Been fighting that "fight or flight" for years when it comes to ASMR, as much as I enjoy it ( typing difficulty even now so please pardon, lots of mistakes) this one is very close and comforting. Please do more. On the autism spectrum it's a rare case but I and my niece enjoy these. 💝

  • @moonstenebrocity
    @moonstenebrocity Před rokem +37

    finding such a comforting, gentle, quiet male presence is something very strange to me, but exactly what i need in this moment. i’ve been struggling with anxiety/panic attacks & intrusive thoughts & take ages to fall asleep. but i already know i’ll fall asleep fast to this! it’ll probably become part of my bedtime routine 💌 thank you so much for posting this & showing me men can be deeper & kinder & gentler than i ever imagined

  • @TheAndrewRitchie
    @TheAndrewRitchie Před rokem +25

    I needed to feel safe and protected last night and you gave that to me. All worries vanished. You’re wonderful. Thank you.

  • @allyn7400
    @allyn7400 Před 9 měsíci +8

    It’s very rare a man makes me feel safe and loved. So thank you! this is so healing ❤

  • @hisshoes1107
    @hisshoes1107 Před 28 dny +1

    I really need a hug, but this is definitely close enough. It’s been a couple years now, but it feels like yesterday that I lost my dad to cancer and I’ve felt so guilty and unmotivated and regretful that I didn’t spend my time with him better, and I’ve had nobody to talk to about this and stuff. This video is exactly what I need. Thank you.

  • @lauryn6059
    @lauryn6059 Před rokem +20

    I think the lighting is one of my favorite things about your videos!!! Very underrated and very relaxing. It’s perfect because it’s dark for sleep and there’s not much blue light due to the yellower tint. It’s perfect

  • @axel_is_online7025
    @axel_is_online7025 Před rokem +50

    After finding out I lost another family member and not being told about the service tomorrow until today... Having some kind of calming force helps. Thank you, really.

    • @laiatezenas3300
      @laiatezenas3300 Před rokem +7

      I am sorry for your loss and hope that you will be surrounded by loved ones. It's so important to not be alone during such times. Sending you much love!

  • @schule01
    @schule01 Před 11 dny +1

    Today I needed my boyfriend's support while having an anxiety crisis or smth, but all he did was turning his back and going to sleep while I was crying. Thank you so much! We don't even know each other directly yet you're so helpful 😊

  • @kelseyjanae1
    @kelseyjanae1 Před rokem +10

    You were made for this. This is a BEAUTIFUL life purpose of yours...helping people to literally reprogram their minds and nervous systems into safety. Truly extraordinary. You're a star. Keep going.

  • @griffenderwood143
    @griffenderwood143 Před rokem +12

    Sir you got me crying when you said (it's ok I am here now). i love your content and it always make me shed some tears on the way you talk to us.❤

  • @Natasha-pc2zg
    @Natasha-pc2zg Před rokem +12

    When I first clicked on your video I felt triggered by my experiences from previous men that looked like you. But hearing your warm words and soft assurances is seriously reprogramming my brain. Thank you, I needed this!

  • @monicadominguez9455
    @monicadominguez9455 Před rokem +15

    This person is soooo kind ❤ I feel so safe. Reminded me of a father comforting a child.

  • @aleeshagarcia6798
    @aleeshagarcia6798 Před 11 měsíci +6

    How do you know people need this? Thank you for taking the time to be so kind. I really appreciate the warm expression. Genuinely the best ASMR video I've found to let me feel safe enough to sleep. Doesn't feel like you are alone with the camera. 😊

  • @TheCyberWolf1
    @TheCyberWolf1 Před rokem +13

    I like how calm he is… I suffer from ptsd and this incredible gentleman can calm me down just like that that’s both amazing and impressive 😊

    • @Bangkok357
      @Bangkok357 Před 6 měsíci

      Me too. These comforting safe feeling held videos allow the constant PTSD inner vibration to settle, at least for the night

  • @sweetheartjorgette348
    @sweetheartjorgette348 Před rokem +8

    I absolutely ❤️❤️❤️ the rain shower in the background …together with his whispers omg it’s just a perfect match

  • @shauneduggan6442
    @shauneduggan6442 Před 14 dny +2

    I've recently lost a few really close friends and family to suicide and i miss them so much but just listening to ur voice sir has really helped me through my struggles over time thank you ❤❤

  • @Stephanie0123
    @Stephanie0123 Před dnem

    This is miraculous. With a long history of male trauma, I felt tears rush up immediately. You really do feel safe. Thank you. It's nice to not feel alone in the safety of my own female energy.

  • @emilyking3988
    @emilyking3988 Před rokem +64

    I stumbled across a male ASMR artist and never in a million years would I have thought it would be so amazing! I've always preferred female voices but this gentleman is absolutely amazing. The affirmations are wonderful. Will definitely be listening to some more. Happy holidays ❤️

  • @ChimeraGirl_
    @ChimeraGirl_ Před rokem +10

    He has such kind, expressive eyes and a warm smile. His videos really make me feel safe and comforted. I deal with frequent bouts of insomnia often triggered by stress and his videos put me at ease and help me sleep. :) Thank you, kind Sir!

  • @dromkammarsrebecca9642
    @dromkammarsrebecca9642 Před 4 měsíci +2

    If you have children, they are the luckiest kids alive. If you have a partner, it's the luckiest person alive. Everyone deserves a father and partner like you.

  • @steviecreek
    @steviecreek Před rokem +11

    Omg dark backgrounds are so under appreciated and under used in the ASMR community. 💙💙💙 love this!

  • @JoyfulIsAnOctopus
    @JoyfulIsAnOctopus Před 11 měsíci +5

    Thanks. I like that you are keeping your tone comforting and not seductive.
    Ive had issues with panic attacks and nightmares recently and since Im a teen no one gives me comfort like this.

    • @namelessbee603
      @namelessbee603 Před 11 měsíci +1

      I agree. I’m sorry you have to deal with that. My friend deals with similar things as well and it really upsets her. Good luck 💙

    • @JoyfulIsAnOctopus
      @JoyfulIsAnOctopus Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@namelessbee603 Thanks

  • @aldacapuchino3912
    @aldacapuchino3912 Před rokem +6

    I have issues with men being rude, using me and abusing me. And this video gave me so much relief and release I cried the first part. Also I miss my Dad so much he was my strength and having a male voice saying empowering things helps and some kind of healing there too. God I’m lonely.😂 Thank you for your work.

  • @TheAndreag91
    @TheAndreag91 Před 7 měsíci +2

    To me this has been really important. Having this male care, feeling protected and not awkward at all. Its comforting and sweet, thank you so much, your vibe is really pretty.

  • @mark9538
    @mark9538 Před rokem +33

    Thank you for being so relaxing, you're one of the only CZcams channels I come back to for comfort and relaxation. You have made me feel a lot better with my anxiety lately and I appreciate it. Take care mate 🙂

  • @SageRavenGale
    @SageRavenGale Před rokem +11

    I had a very intense panic attack right before I landed on this video. Your soothing voice and encouraging words helped lull me into a safe sleep. Thank you from the bottom of my heart 🥺

  • @Puck-ez1mn
    @Puck-ez1mn Před 3 měsíci +2

    I feel so uncomfy in my room usually cause i hate the dark and i feel like I'm always being watched it's weird - but this guy's voice and like, presence through the video is so comforting :)

  • @ally00bu
    @ally00bu Před rokem +4

    The patience he has to sit there and film this for 1.5 hours( after editing!! So realistically 2 hrs minimum PLUS EDITING TIME) is genuinely insane and does not go lost on me, we truly appreciate you sir❤

  • @everyone8043
    @everyone8043 Před rokem +37

    Thank you for the slow gentle movements. So relaxing. (None of the mouth clicking which I find irritating.)

    • @zafusca
      @zafusca Před rokem +3

      yeah me too i don't like most the asmrist do

    • @Wants2knowitall
      @Wants2knowitall Před rokem +2

      Thank you for this. I, too, hate the clicking and mouth noises. I thought I was the only one bc so many ASMR artists do it.

  • @hathorearth1718
    @hathorearth1718 Před rokem +13

    I don't know what we did to deserve your hardwork man but it's so well appreciated 🙏. I'm new to this channel and I gotta say this is the stuff I've been looking so long for. I find a lot of asmr artists don't really know how to talk softly enough and but this is perfect.

  • @catherinesanders1111
    @catherinesanders1111 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Thank you for helping me calm down when I’m anxious and during a really dark time in my life

  • @yurisa3270
    @yurisa3270 Před rokem +5

    I got diagnosed with cancer since the beginning of 2022 and spend most of my time in the hospital fighting for my life with only a age of 17 and since then i have a very hard time falling asleep alone because i am scared something will happen to me or i will never wake up again but this video and you makes me feel very safe and takes my fear away. Even though i am 18 now i feel like a little kid wanting to run to my parents bedroom crying because of fear as if i had a nightmare. Your voice helped me calm down and finally feel sleepy again so i hope i will sleep good for the first time since a long time! Thank you so much for this video and your time☺️

    • @ritiksharma2544
      @ritiksharma2544 Před rokem

      Everything will be fine my love! 🥺 I love you and proud of you my warrior!💝

  • @Wants2knowitall
    @Wants2knowitall Před rokem +7

    The pep talk at 30:16 was exactly what I needed this week. Rn there is someone underestimating me. You reminded me that I am strong and can do this. Thank you, my friend.

  • @jadytea7417
    @jadytea7417 Před 3 měsíci +3

    God, for the first time, I have experienced genuine goosebumps that lasted for the entirety of this video. And your accent is deeply noted and deeply loved as well. SUCH an AMAZING experience!

  • @Animorpha1
    @Animorpha1 Před rokem +148

    As someone who isn’t comfortable AT ALL around men for trauma reasons. I couldn’t stand male Asmr videos. I felt…I guess too intimidated….too intimate.
    He’s honestly the first one I could *tolerate* at first. I kinda forced myself to watch more and I’ve gotten more comfortable. I think it’s the fact that he keeps his voice at a consistent lower whisper. Which I think doesn’t trigger(bad trigger) me as much.
    I still can’t keep eye contact for very long but I’m trying.
    Edit/PS: I also like that he doesn’t sexualize anything which is something some Asmrtists do. It makes thing feel more platonic and like I have more “control”.

    • @grimesdaughter9042
      @grimesdaughter9042 Před rokem +26

      I know what you mean. I'm asexual and the suggestive nature of many (male and female) ASMRtists makes it impossible for me to relax to their voices or RPs. It just feels 'weird' having this stranger appearing to 'flirt' with me. I love most ASMR where a friend appears to take care of me ☺. That's truly a great, comforting feeling. Still less so with male ASMRtists, but our whispering Gentleman is one of a few I can not only 'tolerate', but genuinely relax to.
      I wish you a restful sleep and I hope that the pain of your trauma will leave you one day. ❤

    • @suzysstyles
      @suzysstyles Před rokem +4

      I just wanna be loved 😅❤ for real

  • @anamarquez3959
    @anamarquez3959 Před 10 měsíci +4

    There's something really magical in the way that a big, bearded, apparently "rude" man like this 😊 looks at the camera with so sweet eyes... I like him very much ❤ Thanks for sharing your kindness 💋

  • @zahraaqasem7623
    @zahraaqasem7623 Před rokem +4

    Thank you so much for this; I was having a meltdown and crying because of the overwhelming and stressful week I had, and my anxiety was eating me up alive because I also start college in a day, and I’m not ready for it, so I'm grateful I clicked on this video you truly are a gift in how much comfort you radiate, I am now feeling much better because of you, so, thank you, again very much :’)

  • @mzimi
    @mzimi Před 7 měsíci +3

    I usually don't watch many male asmr artists but I have been having a hard time again lately which has made me feel like a scared little kid who needs their dad again. You gave me that safe comforting presence that I have been needing. I feel a bit stronger again thanks to you.

  • @ZephyrAnimationss
    @ZephyrAnimationss Před rokem +2

    this is peak asmr right here. he's like a genuine friend. other asmrtists can't do what you can. keep up the good work!

  • @TeaLover201
    @TeaLover201 Před 21 dnem +1

    I have been going through some things, i wouldn't like to specify them, but i was needing comfort from my dad when he wasnt able to, this really helped me, thank you so much.

  • @dustiemarzullo
    @dustiemarzullo Před rokem +3

    This video was really comforting because I’ve been so stressed out by family, moving to NYC far, FAR away from all my friends, depression, overthinking this was really calming

  • @Estellemusic
    @Estellemusic Před 11 měsíci +6

    I've made so much mental health progress in the last few weeks... But tonight everything fell apart around me and I feel so weak and fragile. Thank you for... this. All of it. I cried again, but these were tears of relief and gratitude. Thank you.

  • @Udayzeus
    @Udayzeus Před 11 měsíci +2

    This was incredible. I have always listened to female voice ASMR and never found male voice ASMR to be relaxing until now. This is actually like listening to a friend. Thank you so much. 😌

  • @Ari-chan_suzuki21
    @Ari-chan_suzuki21 Před měsícem +1

    Idk how you sensed my pain, but dang. The way I burst into tears after hearing your kind words because i'm going through a rough patch. Thank you for this video it really helped me out.❤

  • @Sunny_vrg
    @Sunny_vrg Před rokem +8

    I love how when you brush your hand it makes a sound effect it's so nice!

  • @lyciumchld
    @lyciumchld Před rokem +12

    I really wish ASMR produced tingles for me, but even though it doesn't, I find this channel in particular to be very useful for comfort and sleep. Additionally, the brushing and tracing help with some mild neurochemical response to touch, which helps my mood and calms me down a great deal, almost instantly. It's really quite remarkable. I've watched a variety of asmrtists and while I like several for different reasons this channel is the one I watch most by far because the content is the most effective at producing calm and sleep. Very appreciative.

  • @noorbano7661
    @noorbano7661 Před rokem +2

    This is love. I didn't want to skip or left the video. I find this really comforting. I literally felt like my brain was freezed. He is an angel. 💫❣

  • @beccaener9945
    @beccaener9945 Před 14 dny

    Going through tough times... trying not to cry over how comforting and safe this is

  • @user-vg1gw5wx2q
    @user-vg1gw5wx2q Před rokem +58

    Потрясающе.колоссальное ощущение вашего присутствия .спасибо огромное за мурашки .

  • @abbya4003
    @abbya4003 Před rokem +15

    I just started the video… after almost spiraling down, so thank you I truly already feel comfort 🥺💖

    • @Army4Anime-hx8pc
      @Army4Anime-hx8pc Před 6 měsíci +1

      I get what you mean.
      Have a good night tonight. You can make it through tomorrow. ❤

  • @liameliana158
    @liameliana158 Před 9 měsíci +2

    This helped me out so much. I'm a freshman, who's going into high school balancing work, cross country, and my studies. My head has been all over the place mixed with the constant fights between me and my family due to my brother leaving for college. Thank you for helping me get to bed tonight!!!

  • @johnwilliammaxwell5044
    @johnwilliammaxwell5044 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This video was even better than I thought it would be. The vibe, the sounds, the feeling of sincerity... 10/10

  • @theonionqueen3519
    @theonionqueen3519 Před rokem +6

    I love the lighting you used! It’s so warm, makes it easy to fall asleep to. And your movements are so gentle and calming, I’m seriously in love with this video!

  • @ilovekeiy
    @ilovekeiy Před rokem +13

    I was having a panic attack and dealing with intrusive thoughts, these are the words i needed today. Thank you

  • @ChaCha.44
    @ChaCha.44 Před měsícem +2

    I just discovered this today as I'm new to ASMR. Phenomenal. I've been SA several times and I never thought I could feel safe around anyone ever again, until now. You made me feel so safe, along with that sweet smile, that wonderful twinkle in those understanding eyes...that soft, soothing voice. I subbed right away. You've definitely got a lifer sub here with me. Bless you for all you do in helping people - you are a beautiful man, inside and out with such a rare, extraordinary gift. ❤ Much love from MN, USA. 🇺🇸 💗

  • @martinstars913
    @martinstars913 Před 9 měsíci +2

    this kind of affection and compassion (care) is rare and because of that, it's so precious, relaxing and refreshing ! strong, tough manly men who are also kind, gentle, well-mannered and understanding are the best male creatures we can appreciate having around ...

  • @braydenharvey6012
    @braydenharvey6012 Před rokem +4

    Stumbled across this and started sobbing 3 mins in from how comforting you are straight off the bat

  • @money4bratz
    @money4bratz Před rokem +8

    he has the most calming and innocent eyes😊

  • @constantdreaming
    @constantdreaming Před 3 měsíci +1

    i remember watching this the night of my attempt a couple of months ago, because I was so scared to fall asleep, and it quickly both comforted me & helped me sleep. it’s been a struggle since then, but i just want everyone whose struggling with their mental health that things DO get better, even if slowly, even if you don’t notice it.

    • @beccaener9945
      @beccaener9945 Před 14 dny

      I think I speak for all of us when I say that I'm so glad you're still here. I'm so glad you exist. You are doing wonderful and knowing that overcoming such difficulties is inspiring.
      I did have those kinds of thoughts last night, but I've never genuinely made an attempt... the idea always makes me cry. Knowing other people struggle with similar things and are able to overcome them is so helpful and empowering. Thank you and thanks to the guy that made this video, for helping so many people along the way

  • @PurplexxInuxBokuSS
    @PurplexxInuxBokuSS Před rokem +9

    These gentle and slow positive affirmations are such godsent. Thank you kind internet sir. 🥺💖

  • @HikiOmo
    @HikiOmo Před 11 měsíci +4

    I saw you in the thumbnail and was like: "He looks like a really good friend, I should watch this." I was not wrong.