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0:00 Entitled Jerk tries to hit me with his car, so I get revenge, and he ends up hitting a cop car and getting arrested. (u/thetaterman314)
5:19 Am I the Jerk for refusing to help cook for over 20 people, at an even I had every intention of just hiring a catering service to do the work for us? (u/notcookingaita)
10:10 My girlfriend thinks its funny to try and mess with my diet, and intentionally try and derail my health journey. (u/Solo_Falling4)
13:30 My girlfriend does not care about my compliments, and has now started seeking out other validation from other men, and I now seriously don’t know what to do. (u/wwwjlp)
17:27 Am I the Jerk for silencing my girlfriend after she made some very inappropriate remarks about a friend of mine who just survived cancer? (u/Alone-Fun8599)
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story 1: the driver should end up in jail, he not only endangered the life of the op, but also of the policeman and everyone else around them on the road.
And most states bicycles are considered vehicles and are supposed to be on the road and follow all road rules!
Wasn’t a motorcycle
It is a good thing he was arrested because it was a matter of time before he is going to "unlife" a person.
In the UK it's actually illegal to ride on the pavement (sidewalk). You HAVE to ride on the road. As part of the driving theory test you are asked questions about how to act when driving near cyclists.
The catering story: I'd contact the catering service and let them know that the people who cancelled didn't have my permission to cancel the order and ask if they could still do the catering. Then I'd make it perfectly clear that anyone who didn't want to pay for the catering was welcome not to come over, and if it means I'm alone and I pay the whole bill then so be it. The wife is equally as bad as the SIL and needs to understand that you can't just volunteer someone else's time and effort without consulting them and asking first. That's not how healthy relationships work, and it's certainly not how marriages are meant to work.
Yeah, I was wondering if there was still time to contact the caterers as well, although with shorter notice the price might go up. It's not right for a spouse to voluntell someone that hey, you have to do xyz even though a whole plan had been made to avoid just that. If the catering can't be reinstated, wife and SIL need to take responsibility for THEIR decision. If they're unhappy with that, oh well. It has nothing to do with OP hating women, it's all about them taking responsibility for their own actions. Maybe next time they'll think before pulling another stunt like this.
@@nadinenone4761 yeah, when I heard that, my thought was "He isn't telling them to cook because they're women, he's telling them to cook because they canceled his "cooking", because it wasn't how THEY wanted it done."
and i've always had a strict "You can tell me what to do or how to do it, but never both" policy.
Before the retirement party story, I don’t understand why it’s sexist for OP not want to have to make a meal for 20 people when he openly agreed to pay for a higher portion of it and then his sister. I get the sister is probably struggling financially due to the second child but at the same time, there’s no good reason to just go behind your brothers back.
um op has everything planned for the catering services but the sister cancelled it for no reason like what in the world is going on with the women and than they didn't tell him that they cancelled the catering services behind his back and now they want him to cook while they spend time with the kids and he's all like you know what about you cook while i spend time with the kids.
His wife is trying to argue it is sexist because '' he expect the women to do the cooking '' which is not valid. He doesn't refuse because he thinks that as a man he doesn't need to cook, he refuses because they expect him to cook without any warning and against his wishes.
Wife said it was sexist because she tried to spin it so that he was the bad guy. "Oh, you want us to cook? must be because we're women, and you just want us in there because women belong in the kitchen, right, sexist pig?"
when the truth was more, "I want you to cook because you canceled my contribution against my will and without my knowledge. I want to spend time with the kids, not preparing food, and that's what i'm going to do. I made my contribution, you threw it away. If you expect a home cooked meal for 20 people, you're welcome to make it, but I won't be."
Story 3: leave the relationship. She does not want OP to succeed and is probably jealous of his success in his health journey.
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Story 4: its an open relationship...yeah nothing to say here. The relationship is over. It sounds like OP did not want this arrangement and he only did it to keep the girlfriend. This can be insinuated with the following, "if I am saying it out of desperation of losing her because she knows I hate sleeping with other girls".
Open relationships are perfectly healthy- as long as both parties consent and are happy to be in them. I feel bad for op but i feel like the girl is going through a trauma response and needs therapy stat.
@@TheAndromedaGalaxi agreed. i've seen multiple open relationships that are functional and healthy, but there's one thing they all had in common: They all went into it, knowing it was open with clear boundaries and limitations set. any closed relationship that eventually gets opened is most commonly doomed to failure, as most commonly, one party did not consent willingly consent to it (willful consent being the opposite to coerced consent. coercered consent is not consent, despite the eventuality of them saying yes).
Story 1: that driver is a psychopath. That individual has almost serial killer vibes. There’s really not the tiniest inkling of regard for human life. That dude is really a danger to society at large.
Story 3: A grown man crying over a cookie? Holy crap, if I was the OP this comment would have seriously set me off. It’s clearly not about a cookie, it’s about the gf’s infuriating behavior. Why has the OP trying to be healthy turned his girlfriend into such a huge jerk?
That's the first thing I said, was it's not about the cookie, it's about how she is disrespecting the OP and his attempt to improve his health. I'm honestly wondering why he would even want to stay with such a nasty skank who seems to be doing everything she can to derail his plans. DUMP HER. DUMP HER NOW! She has shown you who she really is. Believe her and get out.
Sometimes it's acceptable to hit a woman with an open hand, since they want "equity" and such.
She’s clearly on some kind of power trip or something
🎶Jealous jealous jealous girl🎶
OP should just break her instead of breaking up with her.
story 1: he could probably be charged with attempted murder or assault with a deadly weapon too, above all the other charges
3rd story, guy should absolutely leave. End the relationship, he is trying to make himself healthier and she is sabotaging his progress because she knows she is unhealthy and doesn't want him to realize he can do so much better than her.
The first guy should definitely go to jail, he was endangering everyone around him and purposely trying to Break Check the OP which could’ve caused major damages and injuries that could’ve been fatal
he can probably be also charged with either 2nd degree attempted murder (which carries a sentence from 5 to 15 years) or assault with a deadly weapon (yes your car can be considered a deadly weapon) which carries a sentence of like 4 years
since break checking a cyclist is very much done on purpose
ngl, as a passenger of people who get brake checked all the time by idiot drivers, first story was satisfying.
Story 3. The fact that the original poster stated that she's never acted like this before, but seems to be getting like this over the idea of him dieting... Sounds a lot like she thinks that by him dieting he will become more attractive and therefore thinks he might get more attention from other girls. It sounds like that she thinks that by him bettering himself he might get himself a better girlfriend.
The ironic part is that by doing this she is dragging herself down and degrading her value as a partner by trying to intentionally sabotage his attempt to better himself, leading to him probably leaving her because of her behaviour. This will then just create a self-fulfilling prophecy. It's often the case with jealousy, your behaviour ends up pushing the other person and others away from you, rather than making them closer to you and push others away from them.
Story 2: Thank god the narrator wasn't simping this time. Like another commenter said, call the catering place and inform them that the person who cancelled was not you. I would also tell the family since they all agreed that they liked the idea in the first place. The family are being punished by the wife and SIL basically because the SIL just "Didn't want to spend that much" after the op offered to pay more for them
Dump her ASAP there's no reason to make fun of someone who survived cancer!!
She needs to go back to school and learn some manners!!
That pisses me off bc I have a friend/sister who has stage 4 hodgkin's lymphoma and made it out alive and now is going thru chemo so it doesnt come back
Story 2: the op is in the clear. He offered to pay more, and the wive sounds a little toxic for expecting the op to cook without even them telling him.
Story 2: NTA. did SIL and wife think of the cost of buying enough ingredients and equipment to make a big meal for 20?
The 3rd story, I would've just straight up broken up with her. Cuz with that behavior, there's no way I'm just gonna let that happen
Entitlement is a red flag. If you can't sit them down and discuss why they're so entitled then break up or cut contact with them ASAP. Blood is not always thicker than water.
@@JamesDavy2009 Agreed
@@dawninglight357 If anything, the saying means the opposite of common interpretation when said in full.
Story 3: okay maybe if you were that angry over one cookie as a lone incident sure it’s a bit ridiculous, but she’s been doing stuff for weeks. And the funniest thing is that she said “you shouldn’t have tempted me by leaving it out”. Like now she can’t defend herself from some actions that admittedly could be explained away as a mistake, or not intentional, like baking cookies to annoy the op.
i'm glad that op survived from that jerk and i hope he's ok , but i hope that jerk will deserve some jail time from the cops.
i like how op, his coworker and his coworker's friend made a plan.
~ You don't have to hope, he actually _does_ deserve jail time.
@@5jerry1 just what I literally said i hope that this jerk will deserve jailtime from the cops.
Title: entitled jerk tries to hit me with his car
Me: you mean psychopath tries to kill you?
The last story reminds me of something i read awhile ago that i think would be perfect for the “mean girl”
It was a story bout how a father shaved his daughters hair and made her bald for picking on a girl with cancer
Story 3. If the GF changed when OP started to loose weight, then GF is worried that OP will dump her if OP gets better looking. GF is lashing out because of her own insecurities.
in the last story: Op need to dump his bully of girlfriend for being being a toxic person.
that's story 2.
@@viviennemorgan7217 uhhhhhhhh no? that's all the stories with a girlfriend/wife in it. also, Ninjara isn't wrong; the last story was of OP girlfriend getting upset about OP trying to silence her bully attitude towards a survivor of cancer
@@peterchen5574 well the second Story has this girlfriend who makes fun of op.
@@peterchen5574 um the girlfriend made fun of op's family friend all because she has no hair and she wants everyone to laugh with her but nobody did laugh with her and she got kicked out.
I don't see open relationships as cheating as long as you don't have any less feelings for the other person
Way too harsh on that 2nd to last story. Just because you have no interest or regard for open relationships doesn't mean nobody can ever make them work. There are so many context clues that indicates OPs girlfriend is dealing with a very bad and toxic situation and needs serious therapy to move past some trauma. It's clear that OP is one of probaly a very few people who EVER give her validation for her feelings and respects her boundaries. I mean he literally implied she was s assaulted in some way. There's no good solution I can come up with, but telling OP to just 'grow up' and abandon her because open relationships never work is very narrow minded.
This. I'm not personally into open relationships but doesn't mean they can't work out and I have seen it work out multiple times.
Agreed. I don't think OP's gf is the problem. I think her parents are.
Hey it’s this narrator, wouldn’t be a video without a bad take on at least one of the stories
@@DwarfDaddy Yup. This narrator hates open relationship. Which is why I ignore him when he talks about his opinion on this subject matter due to how biased it is.
The last story: OP was absolutely not the butthole. That woman, if you can even call her that, is nothing more than an overgrown middle school mean girl who never matured past the adolescent bully mindset. It is absolutely unconscionable to mock someone's physical appearance. Anyone with a shred of empathy would know it's unthinkable to criticize the appearance of a cancer patient. Her pathetic attempt at gaslight in claiming that he's misogynistic for silencing her is nothing more than a go-to poor attempt at defending her despicable behavior. He should definitely break up with her.
She is a sociopath and has extremely bad taste. OP should dump her ass ASAP.
Should kick that to the curb especially since it's only been 2 months
So the catering story: Not the jerk, I would totally understand both sides of the story and the justification as to not do catering vs doing catering, But to cancel an order behind OP's back and then expect OP to do the cooking LITERALLY THE DAY BEFORE THE EVENT is just a new kind of low.
Normally when dealing with such an event, you would need to get started cooking at least 3-4 days ahead of time, not less than a day of prep time.
“You’re such a misogynist for making the women do all the cooking omg” like what 🤣. Dear lord lady I understand not liking prejudice against women but he would’ve said exactly the same thing if it were a male friend. Like you canceled the order, so you can cook the food.
TWO STORIES! Two stories pulled the misogynist card, what is wrong with these people using the misogynist card when they are wrong
Typical really. When in doubt, just pull the race/gender card. Perfect form of gaslighting and guilt-tripping.
@@QuickManEXE how else would toxic people prove they are right? LOL
Story 1: I agree with AITJ. That was horrible for that driver to do.
Story 2: Agree with AITJ. OP did EVERYTHING to both justify his decision AND make everyone happy. His sister and wife are just so entitled. I get worrying about money, but that doesn't justify their actions, ESCPECIALLY since it wasn't THAT expensive, as OP pointed out, AND he offered to pay more than his fair share. If OP's sister and wife are too worried to spend $15 per person, and THEY decided to cancel the catering order, then THEY can bear the burden of cooking. Actions have consequences. This has nothing to do with gender.
Story 3: Agreeing with AITJ. A normal person would not think like OP's gf.
Story 4: Eh.... No. There's no jerks here aside from the parents of OP's gf. OP's gf doesn't seem to be attention-seeking. She seems depressed and in need of therapy, BADLY. "She doesn't have a job because her parents control her bank account and take all her money anyways".
I'm sorry... What kind of parent prevents their child from becoming successful? OP should try to get their gf a therapist and separate bank account, ASAP, as well as make sure his girl never sees her parents again, because what her parents are doing is NOT OKAY, and probably caused this.
Story 5: Agree with AITJ. That girl OP is dating is just... Why!?!?
agreed
The one about the diet i dont agree with him on, the op shouldnt try to work this relationship out, his girlfriend is a horrible person
@@bigboymalloy2261 I mean... I don't think that'd be easy for him to do, so you always wanna try to set a boundary first, but... Yeah. You're right about the girlfriend. I think it's natural to try everything you can to try and salvage a relationship BEFORE cutting it off, but... I agree that, even if OP sets a clear boundary, like AITJ suggested... I wouldn't be surprised if OP had to ditch her over this.
I just see that option as a last resort, as, among being single, the girlfriend could use it and tell others, which could cause backlash from others. I'm not saying that ditching his gf isn't right, it's just not an easy path to take, for the reasons I mentioned.
Here in the UK cycling on the sidewalk is illegal unless it is marked with a special cycle lane with painted boundaries and signs to warn pedestrians of possible cycles. The place for bicycle riding is on the road, and all road rules such as speed, junction, and traffic lights apply to them. A bicycle is classed as a vehicle even if the engine is human! LOL
4:50: On the road?! ?! What a swerve. (Oh, happy pun) I thought he would have brake-checked him on the grass... 😂😂
The last story i hope the op breaks up with the gf cuz that type of person is the worst
Story 3: Your GF is a jerk and you don't deserve the disgusting way she is treating you. Doesn't matter what her reason was, it's disgusting that she would even doubt you and not support you. You deserve better than a walking red flag.
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I think you’re wrong about open relationships. I have friends in open relationships with wives who are extremely happy together. I’m also someone who doesn’t believe when people compliment me because i have trauma. It’s hard but I’m slowly learning to love myself and the girl in that story needs to go in that journey too.
Dui, reckless driving, reckless endangerment assault, battery, assault on a uniformed officer, destruction of government property. Am i missing anything
That dude in the open relationship made the mistake of being in an open relationship.
well, good things come to those who wait for it ok :0, that jerk got what was coming to him for sure :0
The wife and SIL in the catering are TA, not OP. OP had a reasonable suggestion with having the party catered. And $300? That does sound like a reasonable price. But no, wifey and SIL-LY just have to get their way with homecooked food. And trying to blindside OP with helping wifey with cooking the meal whilst SIL-LY plays with the kids. I afree that if wifey and SIL-LY are so obsessed with having homecooked food *they* can cook it themselves. I'd reconsider the marriage if I were in OP's shoes
Bro when I saw the thumbnail I immediately thought of that one Ludacris song
The guy in the open relationship has gone past the red flags and is now drowning!
I have seen open relationships that work wonderfully. One key common factor seems to be that it needs to be open for everyone in the relationship, not just one of the individuals. Another is honest communication, which really is important for all relationships.
Open relationships can be particularly useful in situations where one partner has much less sexual need than the other. I am personally nearly asexual. One person I am interested in romantically has a nearly overwhelming sexual drive. If we were to get together then I would simply not be able to keep up with their needs without damaging myself psychology, and they would not be able to deny their needs to a level I could handle without similar damage. So we would definitely need to be open in order for us to be functional. And I would know and be okay with that before we got romantically involved.
i think what you said is completely true. all relationships ive seen have been bad for those reasons so i agreed with the narrator but when i look at it all the problems ive seen were listed by you. i completely agree with what you said. it needs to be EVERYONE and they need to be honest and accepting. i really like how you explained it. all relationships like that that i have seen have had the one person try to use it to control the other so its never looked good when ive seen it. but with your situation and your explaination it seems okay. i just hate how people try to use it for manipulation. thats all ive seen.
@@sythonage5953
Relationships used for manipulation is a common failure state for all sorts of relationships, not just open ones.
Really I think most people who try to have open relationships don't actually understand what it involves, and aren't emotionally ready for it. I have seen bad ones too, so I am not saying they are all good. They need to fit the people involved, just like any relationship. And it can be hard to tell what fits you until you try it. Another common failure state is trying being open and it working for one person but not the other, or others in some cases. In such cases there really isn't a way to succeed, as either open or closed one person isn't getting what works for them.
There are a lot of good forms of open relationships, but the key part I have seen is that they are done as partners and not as individuals. It can be a difference in needs, like I described before. Sometimes it is a mutual fetish, and sharing in it actually brings people closer together. Or the relationship itself may be far more romantic than sexual, and so sex isn't really a confining factor.
No one gonna question the flying fish?
story 2 i be like am not being rude to woman am just saying since you guys wanted to cook so much you should be the ones that do it not make me the op was just trying to be good to everyone by not making them cook but the wife and sister in law didn't care
*Story 1:* Talk about insane! It's a good thing he hit a cop car, rather than OP's car. Now he's in deep shit!
The driver in the first story could also be charged with attempted vehicular manslaughter
Last story: Get rid of this 'person' right away.
About open relationships:
They *can* totally work, but only if you’re in it for the right reasons. I’m in one of 3 years, and being open has only helped us. But it’s important to note that the reason that we’re in one is due to us not being compatible in bed. I’m close to be asexual and he has desires that I just can’t satisfy. So it was a simple solution to go open for that.
Hahahahahahahahaha I LOVE the Ludacris reference 😂😂😂😂😂
The girlfriend in story number three: that’s not the type of situation where you sit down and expresse feelings and you set boundaries no no no no no no no no no no no that’s the type of situation where you say the relationships over pack your things and get out of my house and get out of my life because that’s the type of woman who’s gonna make your life miserable forever
Story 2) there is something the OP didn't talk about in his story, i know for a fact a catering service cooking a full meal for a party of 20+ would definitely request a deposit and partial payment for ingredients and would most likely have a cancellation charge in their contract and depending on how close the wife cancelled to the event the charges can increase quite a bit. so by cancelling and then attempting to cook for themselves it probably cost the same as if they had just let the caterers do it, except now the wife and husband if her plan went as she planned would have to waste the entire day cooking and not actually enjoy their own party.
If you allow your women to talk you into an open relationship, you deserve ANYTHING that happens 1000%
Story 2: It isnt more okay to order something someone else has to pay for without clearing the price than it is to cancel that order and not clear signing someone up for cooking. OP sucks for ordering without disclosing the price and refusing to change it; the wife sucks for signing him up for cooking without asking. Everyone sucks.
If SIL can't afford $15 to chip in for the catering she should NOT be part of the event in any way shape or form. A new child is no excuse. The WOMEN made the choice to cancel the staff so THE WOMEN can cook.
Are you the jerk no are you the genius yes getting that jerk took actually crash himself was sheer Genius
Story 1: Now that’s what I call KARma
As someone that is in open relationships, I’m pretty tired of having to justify my romantic preferences to monogamous people. In my open and Poly relationships, everyone is always happy. It’s not “cheating with extra steps.” It’s a partnership between consenting individuals. If someone is in a polyamorous relationship and favoring one of their partners, or if they’re getting super upset at people spending time with other people, then they don’t need to be in a poly relationship because it’s obviously not good for them and their preferences. And just because relationships have the possibility of ending doesn’t mean that you should rag on specific kinds of relationships and use them ending as justification. That would be like me saying that monogamy is just crippling codependency that ends in arguments and misery.
ehhhh idk about that one. I've seen and experienced relationships like that and all of them have been one person wanting to cheat basically and the other not being comfortable with it but the person who wants to cheat just says they will break up with the uncomfortable partner if they don't comply. or they may allow it immediately but in reality they cover up the fact that they hate it. it has NEVER worked out. and I can even list one example off the top of my head. jade smith and will smith. random example but its true. every time I've seen the person who wants it to be poly basically wanting to cheat without consequences. and also when the Other decides to work with it and go with someone else. the ORIGINAL person who wanted it poly or open doesn't like it. and gets mad and jealous. telling them to quit cheating. and they use the word cheating too. its not good at all in my opinion. all situations I know of have been toxic and really toxic at that.
@@sythonage5953 All of the monogamous relationships I’ve seen and experienced were toxic- just a partner being overly dependent on another person and constantly trying to control them. Like when one partner wants to have kids and the other partner doesn’t but the first partner says they’ll leave them if they don’t. Or when one partner wants sex and the other doesn’t. Or when one partner tries making the other jealous. Or when one partner tries to control what the other partner ca do with their friends. I can name an example off the top of my head, too- Kim Kardashian and Kanye West. Random, but it’s true. And every time I’ve seen the partners get together in closed monogamous relationships, one partner always ended up trying to exert power over and manipulate the other partner, and when problems in the relationship were brought up, they would argue instead of working things out, and when they had conflicting wants and needs, they would fight and scream at each other for weeks or months or even years instead of just talking about it and agreeing that they weren’t compatible.
@@Cole.Brimstone you seem mad because I have a different opinion. mocking me isn't a very good look. also if we wanna talk like that. the one open relationship I saw had the one who wanted it faking disorders and doing weed/cocaine so I don't have a very good impression of it. don't be mad because I have different experiences. in your case it might be different but for me it just has never BEEN a good case.
@@sythonage5953 I’m not mad, and I’m not mocking you. Really, I’m just trying to point out that just because one type of relationship never worked around me doesn’t mean that there aren’t examples of it working elsewhere, and that you can talk about and judge monogamy the same way you can polygamy, so it’s not fair to act like one is better or more successful.
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The USA needs better regulations, like I put my blinkers on, and it's as if I'm telling drivers behind me to driver faster!
S 2 : I would mix something that will make her be in hospital for at least few minutes
Not taking my compliments would be a deal-breaker cuz I don't f****** lie, and I mean what I say.
Get out. She crazy.
The one about the girlfriend that makes cruel 'jokes' about others.. that just tells that she is a bully/mean person inside. Dump her asap as she won't change her ways any time soon.
I need and update from Story2😂😂😂😂😂🔥
yeah i need so too
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I agree that the wife and sil are the jerks. SIL was smart though, she got the wife to agree with her and got out of doing the work. Sounds like the wife has issues of her own, accusing her husband of hating women just because he said he wouldn't do any cooking, he wasn't the one that agreed to cook in the first place.
Break up with the mean girlfriend
First story, I really hope that driver loses his license. I’m glad his car is totaled, I bet the insurance company won’t buy him a new one and pays for damage to the police car.
It’s funny that the title is similar to the line in that ludicrous song.
When I heard story 3 I got annoyed at the girlfriend since my aunt is a cancer survivor
I have had two family members who have had Cancer so no that man is not the jerk!!!
Story 1: That guy was an alcoholic psychopath. He needs to be in prison. Can we get more information on this?
Story 2: The wife and sister-in-law are at fault. Period.
Story 3: Fucking with someone's weight loss journey is never funny. Speaking as a former high school wrestler and a former soldier of the United States Army, I know the difficulties of weight loss and weight maintenance intimately. The girlfriend is just being an evil bitch.
Story 5: The girlfriend was just being cruel. Making fun of a cancer patient for being excessively thin and not having hair is something only a sociopath finds funny.
The first story was a load of Car-ma!
I have an open relationship with my spouse of 27 years and it has worked just fine. True it is not for everyone but you should not judge others for what they want in their life. It is possible for a person to love someone and have sex with other people. I do not consider it to be cheating neither does my spouse. If you are going to give people advice maybe you should be less judgmental of other people's lifestyles. (Yes your commentaries are considered advice in my opinion.)
You and your man are pushovers
Only a whore wants open relationships nasty shrew
Story 3) sounds like she is very insecure about the relationship and is worried that if you improve yourself you might not want to be with her, so by sabotaging your diet and trying to push you away with her behaviour, she is preemptively preparing herself for a conclusion she herself is unfortunately gonna create, if she just faced her insecurities instead of hiding behind them she could fix the relationship, trust me i have lost a relationship because of this exact reason, and if i am wrong and she is just a controlling bully then dump her ass for someone more supportive because you don't need that toxic behaviour stopping you from imptoving your health.
Story 2: Just tell the wife to get back in the kitchen unless she wants to end up like a 1950s housewife who just disobeyed her husband.
Its not ab a cookie its about the Principle
That gf story really pisses me off he needs to end it she's a big child.
The 2nd catering story... You placed the order, set up a security code word with the catering company that unless they get that code word or sentence, that the order you placed stands as is. Brides can do it to keep family members from changing things for the wedding, you should be able to do it for any orders.
I'd also call the catering company back, explain the idiot family members cancelled the order without authorization. Can they still fullfil the order? They're probably stuck with the food order, and loosing money because of the cancellation.
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The guy in the 3rd story needs to break up with that girl
On the second story, op you definitely NOT the jerk in this, your wife and sil ARE the jerks, for canceling the catering. $300.00 is NOT bad for 20 people. They brought it on themselves, it will cost more then $300.00 for them to do it.
Story 3 seems like she's afraid if he gets healthy he will leave her for a better looking woman
Story 3
That cookie is probably from bigsby’s and let me tell you right now those things are huge
1st jersey is committing harassment and dui and was gonna go commit assault
Sorry not that auto correct I meant 1st jerk
Story 3 GET A NEW GIRLFRIEND!!! SHE'S A MONSTER!!! 🤬 Last story, GET A NEW GIRLFRIEND, JANE IS A MONSTER!!!!
Story 3 OP needs to break up with the girlfriend
story 3, hey narrator, many people, myself included, define cheating as "stepping outside boundaries set in a relationship". so if the couple both discuss it and agree one boundaries, then outside that is cheating. if the couple agrees "P-in-V is fine, but kissing is not", then kissing would be cheating, but sleeping around wouldn't be.
It's not negligence (the car with the cyclist) it's maliciousness.
The dude in the diet one shouldnt care about her feelings since she doesnt care about him or his health, so i say who cares if shes upset just break up with her
Im just here, jeep it up =)
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Story 4: open relationships can work but the relationship needs to start open. It does not work opening it because the relationship became long distance.
On the other hand, long distance relationships don't work out because one or the other partner is tempted into cheating because they want physical intimacy. Best to just break off the relationship. If it was meant to be, both of you will meet each other again single.
I think that's a weird way of handling relationships. You can't just be like 'If it's meant to happen, things will work out by themselves', leave it to fate and hope the dice rolls in your favor. Every relationship requires work from everyone who's in it, including open and long distance relationships. Every relationship can work as long as the participants are able and willing to take the necessary steps.
Did anyone notice the reference on the thumbnail to ludacris and disturbing the peace
....simps, red flags and idiots of all ages...that what sums up this episode
What is the game you are playing in the first story
Story 1: I hope that guy loses not only his license, but the privilege to drive altogether, because NOBODY needs to be behind the wheel treating other people like that, especially when it ends in a DUI, cause that means your judgment was too impaired to let alone keep to yourself.
Story 2: Although I understand OP's Wife & SIL's reasons for disagreeing with his plan, it's the reason why they IGNORED the part where HE said he would take care of it so no one would have to, so that everyone could relax & socialize. In fact, it was the influence to shut the plan down altogether & throw his hat in the ring for him when it came to theirs, ALL behind his back no less, & only to get accused of sexism for saying no? I know it would make me the jerk myself, let alone petty, since the party I'm planning isn't for me, but I'd feel too disrespected to even have it anymore, cause OP's wife & SILs' thought process in this decision shows EXACTLY where he stands with it according to them: ONE thing I don't like about your plan, & you're not in charge & you can't take that back. If you don't call that disrespect, you have NO sense of it, let alone know what is.
Story 3: There's no talking with this EB that you call your GF. She's disrespecting your health journey enough to throw it in your face, not to mention ruin any cheat days you give yourself. In my book, she does NOT care about you. The way she's acting is how someone WOULD act if they don't believe in being able to lose weight. Even if the proof is in the pudding(pun intended), which it is, in their mind, "Once a fat kid, ALWAYS a fat kid." So she IS being a bully, & until she REALLY comes clean to a reason why, assuming there is one, then I'd rather find a new GF if I were you.
Story 4: If you have to have a 2nd opinion about yourself from someone other than the one in your relationship, then you're really just too narcissistic & have no business BEING in a relationship, open or otherwise. That is all.
Story 5: No. That's not a red flag. THAT'S A DEATH SENTENCE! Of course making fun of a cancer survivor is only funny to the person doing it. It's like how we have people on tiktok & twitter posting videos of themselves doing crappy stuff to other people(Eating in front of homeless, walking in someone else's house, putting their hands on em). Those type of people only care about THEMSELVES finding it funny/amusing... as opposed actually caring about themselves. Otherwise, they wouldn't get mad about being confronted about it like THAT'S a waste of their own time. That's the only reason they play the discrimination card, so that people can shut up & leave em alone so that they can get away with it. Well one of these days, you're gonna act like that with the WRONG person, then by the time you realize how bad retaliation can REALLY get, it'll be too late.
pretty sure it is move instead of more
Btw the game is called feed and grow fish
Story 1 -- I imagine Destruction of Government Property was a charge.
Story 2 -- NÞA. Þey crapped þeir bed, þey get to lay in it. Has noþing to do wiþ þem being women, if þey had been men, þey should still do þe cooking.
Story 4 -- Þe first þing you need to do is tell her she needs to create a bank account her parents don't have access to because þey are financially abusing her. Þen she needs þerapy as þere is very clearly a chemical imbalance in her brain, likely due to how her parents have treated her. Þe most important þing, however, is to be supportive. Just be careful as to not become smoþering.
I dont know where story 1 takes place but where i live, bicycles cannot be on the sidewalk and MUST be on the road. I dont know why people would be pissed off about someone on a bike being on the road, as that is where they are supposed to be. People need to get their heads out of their asses and quit being jerks.
What’s the game in the background?