Myths of Marriage

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  • @akhonamatshoba6917
    @akhonamatshoba6917 Před 6 lety +25

    "The grass is greener where you water it" SO PROFOUND! something so simple yet so enlightening.

  • @samukelisiwenene1385
    @samukelisiwenene1385 Před 5 lety +6

    I think i have changed my mind about marriage, "the challenge is when you marry the wrong person".. thanks to this channel

  • @Loralou4455
    @Loralou4455 Před 5 lety +8

    The 19 people who disliked this bandla! Praying for them but really loved this, been married for 7 months and this is really helpful. I absolutely agree with everything

  • @hlubiscorner
    @hlubiscorner Před 6 lety +53

    I think another important thing to add on what Mpoomy and her husband have shared is the need to ensure that one is spiritually equally yoked as the person they want to wed.

  • @malindi.d556
    @malindi.d556 Před 6 lety +36

    It's true when you say; you guys can work out things because you were brought up by parents who are still together, this is because I can relate,my parents are separated and I was brought up by my mother,and somehow I'm adapting how my mother is,or what she believes in,for instance she doesn't believe in working things out,she believes that there's always a door open to leave,and although I'm in denial that's exactly how I'm turning out,,and I'm even scared to get married,because I'm not sure it'll last!,,but being aware of it,i believe that prayer conquers all,,God is merciful!

    • @jaftaabulele3140
      @jaftaabulele3140 Před 6 lety +8

      malindi mpofu I agree with praying for the situation. I am in a phase were i have been asking God to reveal areas i am lacking in. I have been asking him to prune me and he has. The process is not easy but it's amazing and worth it. ♥♥♥

  • @Makube_P
    @Makube_P Před 6 lety +110

    I agree with Mpoomy about going to friends when you have problems. There's this friend of mine who always tells me when she and the bf are fighting and I don't mind cz I'm her friend and I'm supposed to be there for her. But when they make up, I'm still caught up in what he did to her I end up resenting him. It's so difficult to forget and move on, so I end having relationship problems with someone I'm not in a relationship with😒

    • @weareyoungfamily5746
      @weareyoungfamily5746 Před 4 lety +1

      The only person to tell your problems to is God 🙏
      These are our Myths about Marriages,candidly speaking
      Our experience 5 Myths about Marriages czcams.com/video/_jj-sdCSn78/video.html

  • @TotallyThandi
    @TotallyThandi Před 6 lety +10

    I love the visible chemistry that you guys have.
    May your marriage continue to be blessed.

  • @victoriaboshoga7547
    @victoriaboshoga7547 Před 6 lety +27

    I recently got married and I can relate with you guys on so many levels. Your videos are amazing by the way

    • @weareyoungfamily5746
      @weareyoungfamily5746 Před 4 lety

      Our experience 5 Myths about Marriages czcams.com/video/_jj-sdCSn78/video.html

  • @ministerholiday
    @ministerholiday Před 6 lety +31

    Wow, Great Stuff, I have been married for 7yrs and this is a revival.

  • @PheladiNewman
    @PheladiNewman Před 6 lety +9

    I watched this video three times today and guys you’re amazing. Young and wise . God bless your marriage .❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ntsakomavunda54
    @ntsakomavunda54 Před 4 lety +2

    Wisdom an the Grace of God ...that's all I see in u guys !! Keep winning, We clapping for u....let's win this Marriage/Family Institution an shame the devil who is fighting it!

  • @valentinezamaphungula7289

    My husband and I enjoyed this one, we also married young.... Thank you❤

  • @sandileshongwe4750
    @sandileshongwe4750 Před 6 lety +6

    Another great and insightful video. It’s truly amazing to see a kingdom founded relationship this beautiful. I’m inspired and continue to give us great content 🙌🏾

  • @refiloelegoale1140
    @refiloelegoale1140 Před 6 lety +23

    i can totally relate to this. also got married when i was 23.

    • @thembisakoester2692
      @thembisakoester2692 Před 4 lety

      Me too hey

    • @nqobilemahlophe30
      @nqobilemahlophe30 Před 4 lety

      I'm going into this season at 23 years old also. What advice do you have sis since you are 2 years in? If you don't mind sharing ❤️

    • @mapule2780
      @mapule2780 Před 3 lety

      @@nqobilemahlophe30 I was 23, I'm almost 30 now. Marriage a a great blessing, and the younger you get married, the sweeter it gets as you grow together. It's a decision to love your partner daily. Grow with your marriage at different phases of each other's lives. God bless you.

  • @MogauF
    @MogauF Před 6 lety +6

    Such wisdom from young ones❤️. May God bless your relationship. I loved what Brenden said about feelings.

  • @nomz1218
    @nomz1218 Před 6 lety +3

    I'm really loving yall, it's inspiring to see young people so committed yet so young and free! Responsible but not uptight. May the good Lord grant you more wisdom, His grace is sufficient for yall.

  • @VuyisileMashele
    @VuyisileMashele Před 6 lety +32

    this channel gives me life 😭😭 I'm not married, but these talks help a lot ❤️ love you guys!

    • @yolandahdandala2529
      @yolandahdandala2529 Před 6 lety +1

      Same here...

    • @recenew
      @recenew Před 3 lety

      Same here lol

    • @PheladiNewman
      @PheladiNewman Před 3 lety +1

      I watched this video 3 years ago when I was single ,hopeless and broke. Today I'm happily married, doing so well emotionally, personally, spiritually and professionally . This couple always gives me hope and keep inspiring me . My husband and I take this channel as our therapy .They are part of our family remotely and a day never pass without listening to one of their podcast or singing sessions. They may not know this but they are improving lives out there. They are touching many souls young and old. I told my 14 years old daughter this morning after listening to 'are you really ready ' podcast, that we are blessed to have people like Mpumi and Brenden to remind us who we really are . we are blessed indeed hle

  • @neelomotlotlegi4578
    @neelomotlotlegi4578 Před 6 lety +5

    while you guys are answering those questions I can relate to a lot of things and omg I have always been grumpy when I could have told bae what he did wrong because he NEVER at all get the hints...thanx guys

  • @angelamotloung2895
    @angelamotloung2895 Před 5 lety +4

    This just made me look at relationships in a very different way... Super thankful for this. You guys are blessed as also Mpoomy I love how you so matured and very wise for your age. You inspire me.
    Much love ❤️

  • @katlegomoele7050
    @katlegomoele7050 Před 6 lety +4

    You guys are killing this, I'm so happy for you guys ☺

  • @nompumelelonsibande6856
    @nompumelelonsibande6856 Před 6 lety +3

    Well well well...hmm you guys...I’m out of words. God has really blessed this companionship tjoooo 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️...keep them coming please❗️

  • @jovialmwenda3136
    @jovialmwenda3136 Před 4 lety

    I need this much support. She literally took that scripture off his mouth, and hes like yasss scripture bae . y'all are inspiring me

  • @irenemosasejake89
    @irenemosasejake89 Před 6 lety +2

    Woow why have I been passing this, i'm hooked. You guys are soo wise and very informative.

  • @jaftaabulele3140
    @jaftaabulele3140 Před 6 lety +13

    Giiiiirl (Shambula) you are beautiful!! To me, you guys marrying young shows maturity ♥♥... I love your union.

  • @thulijabu6833
    @thulijabu6833 Před 5 lety +1

    God is behind everything here so much happy for them they inspire me so much, I just pray to God to keep such couples because they show us young people what love is so humble looking at you guys it's refreshing

  • @sharontadiwa9810
    @sharontadiwa9810 Před 6 lety +18

    Not yet married, buh really enjoyed your video... love you guys

  • @therealayanda1652
    @therealayanda1652 Před 6 lety +4

    "Babe Im so wise" Brenden is killing me😂😂

  • @maphanganomcebo4584
    @maphanganomcebo4584 Před 2 lety

    The grass is green where you water it …
    🥺I felt that..

  • @xolisilemtsweni7451
    @xolisilemtsweni7451 Před 6 lety +3

    The way I'm relating to all your answers yoh wow 😯 and me n my partner we not married yet, I must show him this video... 😀

  • @kayzee5432
    @kayzee5432 Před 6 lety +2

    you guys are cheering our faces big time.....keep on enlightening the youth

  • @amo_keebine
    @amo_keebine Před 6 lety +4

    Loyalty to mama was my struggle too..
    Loved this video❤️❤️❤️

  • @hunadimakgatho3403
    @hunadimakgatho3403 Před 5 lety +1

    "Scripture bae".... Looool I laughed so hard you guys are so cute and goals and everything!

  • @wendy_realestate
    @wendy_realestate Před 6 lety +14

    We are here baby!! Notification gang✊🏽

  • @chiedzamatowe4397
    @chiedzamatowe4397 Před 3 lety +1

    This is a pertinent topic. I enjoyed it from start to finish. Brenden made me laugh when he leaned over you to smell you. It's so cute! You two love each other so much. Your marriage is blessed. May you keep the content coming.

  • @thandigwebu5452
    @thandigwebu5452 Před 6 lety +2

    Beautiful. Love is Amazing. I mean...nothing compares right!

  • @sharonnkadimeng2786
    @sharonnkadimeng2786 Před 6 lety +2

    love you guys keep this videos coming they are actually making me to be wide open about getting married at younger age

  • @anelisankenke1288
    @anelisankenke1288 Před 6 lety +4

    Aaaaaah man, you guys are so adorable. Beautiful, wise couple indeed. God bless your union :) :) :)

  • @graceshabalala2337
    @graceshabalala2337 Před 6 lety +30

    Brenden: I'm your dzaddy
    Mpumi: okaaay babe
    Hahaha that kills me😂😂

  • @xolelwanontobeko4611
    @xolelwanontobeko4611 Před 6 lety +19

    I love you guys so much but I really would like you guys to do a video on HOW DID YOU KNOW HE/SHE IS THE ONE????

  • @Koketsoolifant
    @Koketsoolifant Před 6 lety +16

    Feelings change ☝🏾

  • @NhlanganisoNkosi
    @NhlanganisoNkosi Před 2 lety

    “The grass is green where you water it”

  • @Creativ3_minds
    @Creativ3_minds Před 6 lety +1

    you guys are the blessing in the house of God

  • @MogauF
    @MogauF Před 6 lety +6

    Loved the content💯. You guys are so cute together and it’s so awesome that you’re rooted in the gospel.
    Please do a couple’s tag?

  • @mosimamachaba1115
    @mosimamachaba1115 Před 6 lety +4

    Honestly speaking I really love you guys.
    You always make me to believe in love. May God bless your marriage ❤❤

  • @SinikiweNgcobo
    @SinikiweNgcobo Před 6 lety +5

    Aaah you guys are awesome man. I pray that God may cover your union.

  • @TsholoRay
    @TsholoRay Před 6 lety +6

    You two make a beautiful couple❤️
    Great video!

  • @tswari
    @tswari Před 6 lety +2

    So much wisdom, thank you guys. Growth and more blessings to you guys ❤️❤️

  • @li-anna9182
    @li-anna9182 Před 6 lety +2

    Weird that I listen to love comes easy after every video you post 💕💕🙌🙌🙌

  • @tshegofatsomiranda9431
    @tshegofatsomiranda9431 Před 6 lety +6

    Can you guys do more of these videos. They are so life 😍😍😍

  • @nadiagomba6036
    @nadiagomba6036 Před 6 lety +2

    I loved it all the way##such is love

  • @therealayanda1652
    @therealayanda1652 Před 6 lety +4

    "I'm smelling your shoulder"😂😂😂

  • @PheladiNewman
    @PheladiNewman Před 6 lety +2

    I really hope we get more videos like these from you guys . Marriage, family , education , entrepreneurship yonke into that can help young people . Motho Ke motho ka batho
    Thank you guys .

  • @Contentitself
    @Contentitself Před 6 lety +4

    Lovely couple 😍 and the conversation is worth watching...

  • @Noni4Jesus
    @Noni4Jesus Před 6 lety +1

    Great video guys!...may God continue blessing your union.

  • @nolwazidube893
    @nolwazidube893 Před 3 lety +1

    haaah guess what? 10 days to our birthday! yasss girl! I just found out we share a birthday. i feel like dancing I'm literally screaming!

  • @nelindlovu1727
    @nelindlovu1727 Před 6 lety +2

    Oh my goodness I loved this😄 such great energy

  • @graceelsie4169
    @graceelsie4169 Před 6 lety +14

    I liked before even watching

  • @yandiswamfaka3266
    @yandiswamfaka3266 Před 6 lety +2

    You guys are super cute together and wise. I look ur energy. May God bless your marriage. You inspire me. *wedding bells ringing* lol.

  • @hlelareminiscencebaloyi986
    @hlelareminiscencebaloyi986 Před 6 lety +19

    Hey hey hey Mpoomy,I love you sooooooo much..Like I subscribed the minute I saw your first video.
    You are so relatable,I always feel like I'm listening to my friend when I watch your videos..
    Keep posting more videos 😙

  • @MondeNoms
    @MondeNoms Před 6 lety +2

    you are such a beautiful soul. Keep posting please, I love watching your vlogs.

  • @k.cmethist7129
    @k.cmethist7129 Před 6 lety +2

    You guys are amazing 😍May God continue blessing your union

  • @nthabilu
    @nthabilu Před 5 lety +1

    I'm smelling your shoulder, that cracked me up 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @TshepoTawane
    @TshepoTawane Před 4 lety

    The grass is greener where you water it......wow!!!!!
    That just saved me....!

  • @lovelyolovelyon4617
    @lovelyolovelyon4617 Před 6 lety +3

    So matured God bless

  • @zimkhithapeterson6936
    @zimkhithapeterson6936 Před 6 lety +5

    I can't stop smiling 😍😍🤗🤗😊

  • @ZamashengeFufutjieButhelezi

    This is beautiful guys. You guys are encouraging us , there is still hope for us haha..

  • @leletufatyi3899
    @leletufatyi3899 Před 5 lety

    I recently joined in your CZcams channel and everyone of them that I have listened to thus far am enjoying so much, thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us they are really helpful. May the good Lord continue blessing your union.❤️

  • @koketsowanyane6615
    @koketsowanyane6615 Před 5 lety +1

    I like your personalities. Perfect for each other.

  • @IamNtombizandile
    @IamNtombizandile Před 6 lety +3

    Lovely couple... all the best guys for the future.

  • @rakgadim.mohlala1324
    @rakgadim.mohlala1324 Před 6 lety +2

    God bless you my dear. Keep shining.

  • @thandekayiga6879
    @thandekayiga6879 Před 6 lety +1

    You are such an inspiration 🙏🏽. Thank you for the consistency with the videos. God bless you and your beautiful heart ♥️

  • @teballobetha42
    @teballobetha42 Před 6 lety +2

    keep Them coming guys.You rock.i really really enjoyed this

  • @phumiegee5166
    @phumiegee5166 Před 6 lety +16

    Very wise couple.Great video .
    God bless your marriage.

  • @Kay_blogs
    @Kay_blogs Před 6 lety +2

    insightful,grateful you guys.love yal

  • @Aura-dp2cq
    @Aura-dp2cq Před 6 lety +2

    Yeey!! can't wait to watch

  • @lindokuhle_mhlanga6816
    @lindokuhle_mhlanga6816 Před 5 lety +1

    When Brandon said wow babe am really wise 😂🤣

  • @mandymazibuko107
    @mandymazibuko107 Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you so much.. Good advice

  • @lungilekeithmakhubela9928

    That was very nice. Keep them coming! :D

  • @mapule2780
    @mapule2780 Před 3 lety

    😂😂😂The part about men not getting hints is soo true.

  • @kaylamathumba859
    @kaylamathumba859 Před 4 lety +5

    "I'm your mom now".. 😂😂😂😂

  • @karaboselemengmakhetha1237

    Lawd this is so good and funny!

  • @leratomokonyane4292
    @leratomokonyane4292 Před 6 lety +4

    I would like to meet you Mpumi... I love you and a girl can really learn a lot from you. I'm inspired

  • @MANO-mw5iw
    @MANO-mw5iw Před 6 lety +23

    At what age did u guys get married? Oh and u look good together 💜💛💚

  • @humbulanimadzena1601
    @humbulanimadzena1601 Před 6 lety +10

    Scripture bae......too cute though.

  • @mbalib2694
    @mbalib2694 Před 6 lety +2

    I love you guys and nice vidoe

  • @LaurinaMachite
    @LaurinaMachite Před 6 lety +1

    Subscribed before even watching. There’s just something about you ... okay, let me watch now lol.

  • @belindaassabil5600
    @belindaassabil5600 Před 5 lety

    I subscribed to your channel because of how insightful you are, I love your personality very focused thumbs up 👍🏾 dear continue to be you, it makes me want to watch more of you........ cheers
    Love 💖 from Ghana 🇬🇭

  • @noxoloshezi4953
    @noxoloshezi4953 Před 6 lety +1

    God bless you guys... You so amazing!

  • @lornamaxakana4554
    @lornamaxakana4554 Před 6 lety +6

    This was so insightful! I love you guys :)

  • @jaftaabulele3140
    @jaftaabulele3140 Před 6 lety +2

    "Scripture bae" LOL!!

  • @otsilemakgatholela3468
    @otsilemakgatholela3468 Před 6 lety +1

    I LOVE watching you guys interact, its so real and beautiful 😂😚

  • @rirhandzuleonnanxumalo4350

    Binging on your content. And I must say, you guys are amazing. Your love is beautiful

  • @svb6594
    @svb6594 Před 6 lety +20

    You look beautiful Mpoomy. ❤❤❤

  • @siphokazibooi7375
    @siphokazibooi7375 Před 6 lety

    I agree with u Brandon and Mpoomy about the privacy ...

  • @avelanomfundo
    @avelanomfundo Před 6 lety +2

    I appreciate the way the video was structured . People who are yet not married can also relate so forth.
    My question : what is your take on a serious relationship that hasn't been introduced to the family but they live together?
    Again thank you for sharing your experience and expertise with us viewers.

    • @MpoomyLedwaba
      @MpoomyLedwaba  Před 6 lety +4

      I wouldn't advise living together before marriage because as the word of God says sex is for marriage and thats exactly what it will lead to.

    • @LifeGuru16
      @LifeGuru16 Před 5 lety

      @@MpoomyLedwaba please give me the scripture where it says sex is for marriage.

  • @yolandahdandala2529
    @yolandahdandala2529 Před 6 lety +2

    love love you guys!looking forward to more

  • @clementinekganyago80
    @clementinekganyago80 Před 6 lety +2

    New subie💕💕I adore you guys. I'll keep supporting the channel

  • @goldenglits981
    @goldenglits981 Před 6 lety +1

    This was great!

  • @nokwnd
    @nokwnd Před 6 lety +1

    You guys are so cute man😍😍😍. May God always be at the centre

  • @basetsanalingwati4520
    @basetsanalingwati4520 Před 6 lety +7

    well I'll obviously DM Brendan to tell him how much I love his wife