Mom speaks out about turning son into the police l GMA
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- čas přidán 12. 09. 2024
- Nicole Schubert turned her son in when she saw signs he was planning an attack on his school.
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She did protect her child. She also protected many others. She SAVED her child by preventing him from destroying lives, including his own. Thats real parenting. Thats love.
Yes, she parented right
Yes this is so true. She saved him from himself. Maybe one day he will be able to realize that.
@@flowerpower9401 if he gets help he may one day forgive his mom for doing this.
So true!
Well he was also planning on killing her. She's a hero nonetheless
Finally a parent that didn’t just turn a blind eye. I give a big thank you to her.
Honestly she probably ignored theses signs before hand, it should have never got this bad in the first place
Well he was gonna kill her too lol
@@dynamitedingo7720 y’all always find way to make something bad
@@peaceobi6605 nah just telling the truth
What about adults that do mass shootings. Where are there parents
Parents need to understand that sometimes protecting their children, means protecting them from themselves. This Mama is a shining example of what that means.
@Eric Havnen So?...... So what!?....
@@melissabaliva2989 I think you meant to reply to Eric....
Absolutely
100% truth!
@@christinatokarz80 .... Yes sorry i did!!! Idk how that happened!
She is a mother who is engaged in her child's life and was willing to do anything to stop him destroying his life and many others. Nothing but praise for her. God bless her.
If she was a good mom the kid wouldn’t have been messed up and she wouldn’t be so fat.
Not everyone believes in that but whatever
@@Velossitee believes in what? How gay do you have to be to butt-in with something like that anyways. You were definitely the weird kid in school. No one cares about your contrarian takes
@John Rice by eq
@@Velossitee thats fine,dont beg for forgivness if he is real. Keep that same energy during judgement
She's hurting so much, but she knows she did the right thing.
She’s truly a hero 🥺
My heart hurts for her
Who documents their murder plans? Freakin' amateurs...
@@ChineduOpara you must be one of those sick people that have thoughts of doing something horrific like that. For you to say something so ignorant and disgusting like that. Because most people people who commit crimes like this they document it. Don’t you listen to the news. 🤦♀️
Yes. If you have regrets, it's so much worse to regret what you DIDN'T do. At least she knows she tried to do the right thing, even if the kid (well, now an adult) went on a rampage tomorrow, at least she tried. But I think she intervened in time, We'll never really know for sure but I truly feel she saved lives.
Good for her. Her son needed help, and she probably saved lives. Too many parents think their kid is perfect and can do no wrong so they don’t know how to handle something like this.
Hello Mizzy’s Parrots how are you doing today?
Yeah no she needs more help y’all fuxkin sheep grow up y’all don’t know shii about the youth what they watch what happens in school either they kill themselves or others that told to kill themselves schools are rubbish, this kid will prolly off himself later because of this.....
no one stops the real bullying because THEY GET AWAY WITH IT🤡🤡🤡🤡
Or they just ignore obvious signs of mental stress, like my mother. I have to be sobbing and staying awake three days a row because of my depression for her to take me seriously. Then they wonder why their kids are like they are as adults or want nothing to do with them.
Exactly. I know a few that think their kids are just so perfect and I see a couple psychopaths in the making and these "parents" don't see the problems coming
@@RobloxGamer12941 my parents were like that as well. My brother has a lot of problems, he’s bi polar, refuses meds, he’s violent, he’s a criminal (did time in federal prison) THEY STILL THINK HES DONE NOTHING WRONG. It drives me insane!
The child is blessed to have a mother like her. She practically saved him from permanent ruin, where there is no return.
I hate selfish people so much (like this child). He does not deserve his mother.
I believe in freedom of speech. Is now sure a threat violates freedom of speech. But how do you know anything was prevented. If it hasn't been acted on how do you know it was going to happen? When these kids rise up to you old ignorant f****. I'll be standing with them
@mypetdonkey maybe, maybe not. Some people enter puberty and then the brain turn all screwy and violent. In the old days these kind of people become war lords and kings like Alexander the Great and Genghis Khan. Nowadays their violence are not appreciated.
@mypetdonkey nah sometimes kids are born like that.
There are parents that have super well-behaved kids who barely needed to be told what-to-do. People are individuals from birth. Some are just rotten.
@mypetdonkey that’s such a cut and dry mentality to have. I grew up battling severe depression, and turned to self-harm. Never in a million years did I want others to experience my pain, nor did I ever place blame on others for my suffering. And at that same time, my parents never knew I was doing the things I was doing to myself. Though they did recognize something wasn’t right and got my a therapist and psychologist. We are deceitful individuals, and with enough shame, we will hide our traits, habits and motives. Just like a spouse who cheats on another. They know the pain and repercussions (providing they aren’t mentally stunted), and yet they carry on with their infidelity. Blaming the victim-spouse isn’t right. I fully agree and understand, too, though, that you can be a product of an environment. But to just “she’s probably to blame”, that’s an incredibly diluted thought.
"STAY IN THEIR BUSINESS ... AS PARENTS, IT'S OUR JOB TO KNOW WHAT THEY'RE DOING" Good for her!!! Very well said.
Yeah that's true because I'm 22 and it's a whole lot of teenagers out here that are doing things that they don't have any business doing. And I encourage all parents to stay in their children's business.
Hell yes she's 100% right
I don't think you need to completely be in your kids personal bubble 24/7 sense space is extremely important, but so many parents ignore the signs. Especially in kids that are depressed.
I've noticed some parents get too close into kids personal bubbles and when their kid confesses or shows them the signs they completely ignore them because they didn't actually care and just wanted to feel like they had power over the kid.
YES finally a mother who knows what to do. And does it!
@@tacobell1299 exactly, a kid will only do things more as a reaction to that
Can we give her an award? After all the cases of school shooters we've heard, we've seen how the parents knew something was up and didn't do enough or anything at all. This woman made a difficult decision and potentially saved many many lives and prevented another massacre. She needs to be honored by the country.
Wow lovely comment ,where are you connecting from my dearest friend?
@@lawrencejackson7153 And where are YOU from “Lawrence”? Is this always your pickup line with women? You sure seem to use it a lot with women on this video! 🙄 And let me guess. You have a dearly beloved mother who needs an operation that requires a small loan from one of these lovely ladies
@@lawrencejackson7153 don’t be a creep
Great point. Turning in evidence of your child, or sibling, or online friend SHOULD be rewarded and heralded as a hero’s act. It IS a hero’s act and we should start treating it as such. You’re right, I think we’d get more people coming forward if they felt confidence that what they were doing was 100% the right thing, and erasing any doubts they might have for doing so.
No, no, no. what's with all these compliments. She didn't raise him right.
“Stay in their business” Yes, This mother is a hero! It’s so important for parent’s to stay involved in what their kids are doing. I hated it as a kid, but now I’m happy my parents kept an eye on me.
Exactly! Your kids are not your friends!
My coworker once told me “ I wish my mom cared about what I was doing. Maybe I wouldn’t have 3 kids at 21 years old.”
I never had my business because it was always our business, my mother was and is always active in her kid’s lives. She is what some people would considered strict but I love her for that 💕
Yes. When she said that I was like hallelujah🙌
Something tells me he's going to do something once he's release
Honestly speaking, she saved her son and possibly the lives of other kids. That is some real motherly love right there!!
A teenager spending years in prison is not gonna go well in the long run especially with murders & rapist.
@@Jermster_91 he didn't go to prison?
@@Jermster_91 Well yea but it was best decision I guess, it's the case of a kid that is a threat to other kids.
@Wander Woo You can say that with ease and surety ? anyone could have been responsible for those monsterous thoughts...or it's just him...Bottom line here is that this mother did what had to be done...It's a bitter sweet fact and more on the sweeter side of things now....She gets a good parenting award w top honors ! !
@Wander Woo We don't know how he got to be this way so let's get more information. His mother is a hero in my book.
"Stay in their business." "They won't like it but it's your job as a parent." Wise words. So sad to see this mom so upset but glad everyone is okay.
like paris benett lol the psycho kid who killed his sister n wanted to kill his mom
Total RESPECT. I don’t cry much, but I’m a parent and this brought me to tears. She sacrificed her own love for the lives of others… RESPECT!!!!
Same
Made my eyes water.
You think her son is a psychopath? What do you supposed happened in his life that got him to that point?
@@kernalbert4939 psychopath are born, sociopath are created by life events.
@@isabelcarvalho6927 Hence my question...
"Stay in their business" yes!!!
Mom, you are so brave and strong. You did the right thing. Sending you hugs and lots of love.
"Stay in their business." Exactly. Well said both her and you.
I ABSOLUTELY AGREE 💯👏and I LOVE YOU FOR THIS..😘
She's absolutely right. It is the parent's responsibility to keep their kids in check and recognize the signs.
Thank God there are still parents who parent their children. She paid attention and did the right thing. Kudos on the tough but right decision 👏🏾
There’s no god. If there was the moron American population wouldn’t have guns that would make shit like this possible.
Yes.
exactly this is terrible keep having these schootings i’m getting armed to many wackos in this world
As a very private teenager who has admittedly gotten into spats with their parents over “being in my business”, watching this woman speak brings an entirely new perspective to light for me. Mad respect, Mrs. Schubert. We need more parents like you in the world.
🕊💞🫂
I think some kids do just vent verbally or write to cope maybe some just need counseling though. Myself and friends used to write all sorts of stuff as teens and killed no one. Like a violent video game now it's not real.
@Janet Schippa Er, this is the kind of rhetoric that alienates kids from their parents. Just a friendly tip.
@Janet Schippa #PERIOD‼️‼️👏🏾👏🏾 Glad somebody said it‼️‼️ I was thinking the samething!! 🤷🏾♀️
@@arihoward-tate6371 Agreed. Parents need to be aware of what the child is up to, both online and with their peers, but they still need to treat their children as human beings. With respect and understanding, not as dictators. A lot of parents rarely take the time to explain their decisions to their kids, it ends up feeling like the parent is just flaunting their power over the child.
Difficult decision for any parent. But this woman's actions, conduct and behaviour serves a benchmark for every other parent to adhere to. Quite a heart breaking story with a positive outcome. Time is the healing factor.
@Mazes S A You’re right, 1 felony is better than several, where many people would have also been slaughtered…so that was a wise trade. And refusing to be manipulated by the son who wanted to to kill you and commit mass murder is also a pro in my book. Completing treatment doesn’t absolve him of anything nor does it give him control of her actions. And they’ve been pretty good actions thus far
@Mazes S A If it weren't for her, the son would be doing life or strapped down to a gurney about to die!!!
It was the right decision.
I love her for not just turning a blind eye. I wish her all the best.
And hopefully someday her son will love her for it too.
She was first on his hit list
@@zonepistolez9944 Good point
that’s weird bc she turned a blind eye the first time she saw materials to make a homemade bomb
@Virginia Grove yeah, after finding out he wanted to kill her. if her life wasn’t on the line, she wouldn’t of done anything
This woman is a hero and an inspiration to all parents. I'm 25 years old now and I remember being so annoyed when my mother and father went through my things when I was a teenager but now I understand that they meant well. Back then I was in a really dark mental state and they just wanted to make sure I was safe.
My ex didn’t have helpful parents. Before our relationship began he admitted he resented me for not speaking to him as often and how he had thoughts similar to this. I decided to just be with him, for the sake of whoever. I hated my life, and I thought the only way out was killing myself. We have broken up and to my knowledge he is in a healthier mindset and doing good things for himself. He had abusive parents and his mental illness was caused by environment. This woman did right by her child. She’s helped so many people, or even one person, from having to bare that burden. If his parents cared, they could’ve known what was going on.
@@Danny-be1ex nope, if this "mother" has to snoop through her son's shit to find out what's going on, she failed. Imagine your own kid not trusting you enough to tell you things.
@@LilPoopsie you dont talk to your mother about wanting to shoot up a school tho...
Yes, such a hero! Being obese and neglecting your child is so heroic. Step over war heroes, ER doctors, and firemen... we got a new hero in town.
Hero checklist!
1) Eat 3 giant bags of flaming hot cheetos every day with 15 corndogs
2) Neglect your child
3) Be a literal embarrassment to your child (kids with obese parents are mocked)
4) Do something any 1/10 human would do, reporting a crime to be.
"Hero!" Brb buying some flaming hots and corndogs and putting on 300 lbs!
@@alexxander1768 dude wtf
Kudos to mom . More parents need to follow her example.
@Eric Havnen you should be ashamed of yourself
I feel so bad for her. I know it was difficult, but she is trying to save her son AND other children. I hope she finds peace and support.
@Eric Havnen Yeah get there before her.
@Eric Havnen 🤣🤣🤣
@Eric Havnen you are a rude and cruel person!
My heart goes out to this mother. I know her heart is absolutely aching, but she did everything right here. She saved her son and many many others ❤
Parents should hear her story , and take to heart what she did .
& she saved herself too
Hello Ashlee Long how are you doing today ?
Props to you mom! This is a real mom who didn’t allow her love as a parent to blind her from doing what is morally and ethically correct. In addition for having social consciousness towards everyone’s else life that could have been impacted by this. Thank you for your strength, love, and compassion you displayed to all including your sons life.
I absolutely agree 💯👏
This mother is showing what ALL parents need to do. Take the ‘legal guardian’ title seriously and KNOW what that responsibility means.
Plus he said he was planning on including HER in his murder spree
Nice. So you bring a child up the best you can but they have outside influences, including media and YOU as a parent are held responsible for a mass shooting? Not the fact that arms should be stopped, the parents...
She didn't ignore the signs! Yea, this is the greatest love I've seen a mom show. It's heartbreaking, yet beautiful deed.
Heartbreakingly beautiful
She is a mother of MANY CHILDREN!!!!
All parents should act like her honestly.
Instead of following people around-the-clock.
well said
👏👏👏 This comment needs to be higher up!
She is the mother America needs. Logical thinking and reasonable. Most importantly willing to live with this pain forever. She is a hero 💯
Thank you ma'am for that courageous but a very painful decision as a mother. My prayers for you maam and your son to a journey of emotional healing and restoration🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
Wow!!!...She was selfless and able to think outside the box and make that decision to inform the authorities!!! Blessings to her & her son.
Wow she
Outside the box is not the right sentence. It doesn’t take a genius to figure out the behavior of their own kids.
Heartbroken woman baring her soul wrenching pain! 😭😢 Could you be as brave?! Bless her and hoping her son has a change of heart. But for right now, he is at the best place he could be and away from harming others. 👍🙏🏻
This sounds sarcastic lol
@@brittnaesimmons5170 lnigh. I
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lol klu
Not only did she save her son and the entire school, she saved herself.. I couldn’t imagine being in her shoes but I am so glad she took right right steps
@Czarina Johnson either way, kids and teachers got to go home to their families 🤷🏿
@Czarina Johnson well she saved herself and an entire school then tf 🥱
@Czarina Johnson u act like that’s a bad thing
@@takeigiant5900 it’s not bad at all. Lets not act like she cares about her son though
@@babyk7094 Seems like you guys are triggered, because she's a white mother that did the right thing for her child and the community. That must hurt😅
As a mom, I can clearly see and feel her pain. She saved lives, most likely her own and her son's, as well. She is a hero. I hope she gets honored for it. I hope her son gets the help he needs and she does too. That's a lot to deal with. 💔 Prayers sent.
Amen 🙏 to that
It’s a lose, lose situation for her. Report her son before an incident or her son will be in prison forever after an incident. At least lives are saved and her son is not in prison, there’s still a chance for reconciliation
She's a hero? You people are sick.
I hope the community,
the parents and families of the kids in his school,
come together and publicly, vocally support this woman's courage.
We need to encourage this kind of parenting.
@@Kevin_Kennelly You need to worry about your own and not tell people what we need to do. You're talking about what you want to do not everyone.
I can't imagine how devastating this was for her. Still, she did the right thing. This woman is a true hero!
Imagine, if she had kept quiet, and something would of happened, how bad she would of felt and kicked herself for not doing anything!!! She is AN ANGEL!!!
@@eileenstehr7680 she would’ve died if she hadn’t
Hello Brianna Lee how are you doing today ?
@@stevesega3982 hello Steve Sega. How’s it going being a creep today?
🙏🏼❤️
She's definitely a great mother, a hero & an amazing human being.
I hope Mom gets tons of support. My gosh, this is so sad. Every parent thinks they know their kids, that they would “never do that”. It’s such a common response as a parent in these situations. I hope she continues to stay strong.
She's a hero. She saved many lives, including her own. I hope she stays safe.
Hello Letting Go how are you doing today ?
She set the right example for other parents in addition to saving her son, herself and many other parents and children.
She is a blessing to so many people !
Yeah you are absolutely right and just like I'm not really sure it was a school shooting it was like a high school and the school had so many times talked to the family and said this boy needs help the boy himself wrote in his own journal and his parents won't take him to get help he got the guns from his parents house because they're always leaving them wide open the pants then he killed someone I think he killed like four or five people I'm not sure but the parents recently were just on trial crying like little bitches cuz they went they're going to jail for the rest of their lives acting like they're some casualty of war because of their son but in reality it all started with
As a mother I feel her pain. She is an example of what a parent does. She saved her son, others parents children and Lord knows who else. God bless this momma. I'm so glad to hear a great outcome of her son.
Hello beautiful how are you doing
@@johnsonvest4220 shhhh no. Lol
Shoot , you better say what's up to that man... ain't no one else asking ur big ol ass how you doin
@@johnsonvest4220 Stop trying to scam people. You’ve replied to ten women on here at least with the same message. Reported
Hello Suzanne Goins- Vinyard how are you doing today?
This mothers strength is outstanding. You can see the pain on her face, spreading awareness at the cost of talking to her son to encourage others to speak out if they see the signs. That’s a good woman.
Right
That’s one strong mom and woman. She saved other kids and possibly her son. So heartbreaking for her.
This mom is a class act! She followed her intuition and saved her son's life and the life of others. Hopefully this young man keeps making good choices and have a bright and possitive future. Not only for his wellbeing, but also because his mom truly deserves it. God bless them both!🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
You can see she’s in pain look at her tears going down her chest, that’s crazy I feel really bad for her and pray that god give her strength!
She IS already strong.. continued strenght!
@@cindyriehm7411 amen
Amen 🙏🏾
🙏🏼❤️
Her cleavage crack must be soaked based on what you described. Nothing bad happened though, did you watch the whole video? She is fine, her son is fine, she saved him, he is at home and working a job now, the rehabilitation program helped him out apparently, so until someone bites down into a pipe bomb in their burger, it appears the lad is cured!
Can’t even express my respect and admiration for this woman. I can’t even imagine how painful of a decision that must have been. It’s easy to know it’s what’s right, but that doesn’t mean it was easy to do. She protected her own child, and countless others too. I hope the young man is able to get some kind of help and reconcile with his mom at some point.
STAY IN THEIR BUSINESS! wisest words spoken..I can't help but think how many children could have been saved if some of the other parents of troubled kids were always in their business and got them help in time...
May God protect this woman and give her peace and happiness.
Children and youth too…as well as the teachers
Meh don't just say stay in their business to abusive narcissistic parents, because we already aren't allowed to have lives as it is.
As a 17 year old, PLEASE don't get in my business. I NEED my privacy
These children in the comments talking about privacy and narcissistic parents, when you grow up and move out of your parents home you'll have all the privacy you want but until then deal with it.
@@Bui1tDifferent 🤓🤓you
Someone get this lady a Mother of the Year award! It takes a lot of courage to turn in your own child not knowing what will happen to them and she’s got courage in spades. A very hard decision but she did the best thing for her child and lots of others. Way to go MOM!
She can't get mother of the year award because she has a natural labia. I've got balls and identify as a lamp post so I'll probably get to join the special Olympics.
@@RB-yt6rx their not wrong. Men are winning the woman of the year awards all the time. A guy with a better jaw line then my father won woman of the year so yay there that
She failed as a mother because she is even in this situation in the first place
I can't imagine how she felt reading that he actually wanted her dead, I hope she's doing good, and is in a much better place. This is so heartbreaking.
I could see and feel her pain. And this was a couple of years ago. But hearing that your child wants you dead that doesn't go away. Glad everything worked out. Hope that they can try and mend the relationship. If she hadn't turned in that journal many children and teachers could have been killed including her son by authorities.
I commend her actions for acting like a responsible mother. You can see the pain in her face but disregarded her pain to safe others. If all parents took responsibility we would definitely have less mass shootings. I will keep her in prayer.
I commend her also. Sometimes we as mothers have to make painful choices. I hope other parents are paying attention to their children’s behavior.
I think less guns equal less mass shootings, I know of not one school shooting in the UK
@@kaijuk But how many stabbings?
Couldn't agree more. I'm sure that it takes so much humility and courage to do something like this.
@@nuttybar9 your dumb azz should know that there are WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYY more murders of ALL types in the US than ANYWHERE else. Mostly because we have too many shiiity people like YOU. Feel free to make the world a better place in your absence.
She did what was right even though it was hard for her. She is brave beyond words. 🥰
Wow lovely comment ,where are you connecting from my dearest friend?
@@lawrencejackson7153 And where are YOU from “Lawrence”? Is this always your pickup line with women? You sure seem to use it a lot with women on this video! 🙄 And let me guess. You have a dearly beloved mother who needs an operation that requires a small loan from one of these lovely ladies
Words can’t describe how strong and wise this woman is. Her strength had me in tears before i even finished this.
A parent should be wise enough to help a child without going to the police like a f****** coward. I'm sure whatever reason he wanted to do this was because of this b****.
Lol.
Yep, me too!
@Cryptameria• i know it’s just awful! I understand also that sometimes there can be NO signs. Her strength in an awful position … speechless! Words cannot describe.
@Cryptameria• my child is begging me to do online for the last 2 years of school and this is one of the biggest reasons. I really can't argue with her either, I'm just as scared to send her! On top of her feeling like she doesn't belong, or bullied, or rumors about her, or teachers not teaching her, and on and on... what do you do? I'm really researching online schooling for her ATM.
My heart breaks for her. This has to be such a painful experience, especially knowing he wanted to start with her.
This had to be one of the most difficult decision she's had to make. She absolutely saved lives: her own, other children and even her son's life. My heart goes out to her.
@Mazes S A better than having other kids dead and traumatized. Or even having her son shot dead while on spree.
@Mazes S A okay and? Should we feel bad for school shooters now? He was planning to kill kids what do you expect…
@Mazes S A And how "much of a life" would he have had if he had implemented his plan? He'd be dead or in prison for the rest of his life. As a minor, his records will be sealed and it won't affect his furure much at all.
Hello Yvette how are you doing today.
I’ve been there. I called and had my own child arrested. It still hurts. Good job mom. ❤️
Hello Jennifer how are you doing today.
You did a good job too, probably saved his and many other lives.
Hope you are well and have support 💜
In my view this is what a truly selfless parent does, we give them what they need not what they want. You are amazing.
God Bless you for doing the right thing to!👏
Good for her! She made a huge difference in her son's life by getting him help and holding him accountable while also continuing to support him. She also spared her community an awful tragedy. Words can't express how much I respect her for what she did. Here's to happy, healthy, and prosperous life for all of them.
She saved him from himself. Accountability is so important for anyone and everyone. Good thing she did what she did and is now praying for him.
She loved him so much, she likely saved him by turning him in. She certainly saved others in her community. What an amazing woman. We should all aspire to be as strong.
My heart goes out to her. She feels she needs to justify her actions. She Carrie’s a weight that was handed to her. She gave her son the opportunity to heal. Possibly saved lives. She’s a hero
Here we FINALLY get to see a parent that doesn’t try to make their kid out to be a victim. Unlike the kid in Uvalde who’s mom tried to make him look like a victim of all kinds of bullying and verbal abuse from other kids. This lady actually cared enough about her son to actually contact the authorities and get him the help he very much needed. Kudos to you mom.
If you want to make an intelligent point, know how to spell it. It's *whose, not who's. Both of them were victims. That kid who shot up that school very well could've suffered bullying and abuse. That's often where these kinds of things start. We don't know that kid's whole story. However, as you said, the Uvalde shooter did not get the help he needed.
@@saraflint2982 I know how to spell thank you very much. Bullied or not, there was no excuse for his actions. I was bullied and I’ve never even thought of doing anything like he did. By the way, if you want to bring up bullies you might want to look in the mirror. I made one tiny spelling mistake and you claimed I was stupid. That makes you a bully. Nice try.
Thank you for being you and saying what you said! Tell the truth and shame the devil. God bless this Mother. I would hope I would do the same!
@@mcrchickenluvr I never used the word stupid. I don't mean to say that all bullies turn into murderers. I mean to say that's why that kid shot up that school. He alone was responsible for the 21 lives he took. I just mean that he was a victim, too. It should have been stopped before it ever got that far. Those 21 people could still be alive. He could still be alive and getting help.
@@mcrchickenluvr thats kinda gaslighty considering how you twisted their words. also, your story isnt everyone's. making him out to be an evil person instead of acknowledging he was mentally ill helps no one.
Heroism at it's absolute finest. I can't imagine how this breaks her heart but she still chose the right course. God bless this woman!!
@Mazes S A You can't talk with a drunk, drug addict or a crazy person.
Wow lovely comment ,where are you connecting from my dearest friend?
@Mazes S A Crazy, yes.
Hello Monica Renee how are you doing today ?
This is an example of a REAL mom. Not just protecting her kids but possibly other kids and innocent people.
This woman did her job as a mom, she did the right thing! I can't imagine how difficult it must have been for her but I applaud her for stepping up! The world needs more parents like her
Hi beautiful
Hello Rachel, How are you doing? Hope you are fine and staying safe.
Real question. How do you think the kid got to the point where he wanted to harm her and others?
@@kernalbert4939 sometimes its the parents fault, an outside influence, or an issue in the brain
@@promisen8460 Her being on television talking about it indicates to me where the fault likely is.
This decision, as hard as it must be, may have actually saved his life. Hopefully, he will now get the help that he needs. I wish to say to this mother, much love, admiration and prayers to you. Who knows how many lives you saved. God bless you.
That poor mama 🥺. I can’t imagine how hard that is. She’s a hero. A brave hero
She has heart of gold ! Thinking of other families instead of her’s is remarkable. She will be rewarded. God bless her soul !
She looks like such a good loving mom. That was probably the most difficult decision she’s made.
As a mom who had 2 kids attending the school in question I cant thank this wonderful women enough. Thank you Nicole.
Her son went to my high school. I was in a class with him, we even worked in group projects together. I never saw the signs, but after this came out, I remembered a time in class when we did a shooting drill. We all sat in the back corner of the class in silence. I very clearly remember him saying that these drills were stupid, because “the shooter would be a student. they’d know we’re all hiding in the corner”
I think about this almost everyday. I had constant nightmares. I saw him working at a store a couple years ago and had a panic attack right there. We had an incident at the same school only a year before where two students broke into the office with weapons. Luckily they were apprehended almost immediately, but we were still in lockdown for hours, not knowing if someone were about to burst through the door and kill us. I have so much trauma from being a student in America, and it’s the reason I dropped out of that high school and moved to an online program. The nightmares have only just recently started slowing down, and I left 4 years ago. We can’t keep living like this.
I wish I could thank this mom. She not only saved me, but she also saved my little brothers. In the notebooks he planned to attack the school on the anniversary of Columbine. In my opinion, this was not “fantasy” he was writing. I’m sure he actually planned to do this. I still have panic attacks when I think about this and what could have happened.
I cant imagine going through all that, i hope you can find more closure as time does it thing. I also dont think we can keep living like this, doing drills at school knowing its not enough
I can't imagine how scary all of that must've been. It's so hard to feel safe in America nowadays.
I’m Canadian and reading this made me sick to my stomach. Man I’m so sorry. I hope you can find some peace.
damn, at least it didn't happen and saved you so much more trauma etc.. but wow
Community servcice wasn't enough.... I think it's crazy how people like him are given a slap on the wrist, and set out into society to most likely do something crazy.
She saved a bunch of children. She's an amazing mom.
I can't express how deeply this was an act of love for her son
Wow lovely comment ,where are you connecting from my dearest friend?
@@lawrencejackson7153 And where are YOU from “Lawrence”? Is this always your pickup line with women? You sure seem to use it a lot with women on this video! 🙄 And let me guess. You have a dearly beloved mother who needs an operation that requires a small loan from one of these lovely ladies - 3rd one I’ve found so far
Are you okay?
@@lawrencejackson7153 I'm outside your house
Rosie'you are so funny,Can I have your email address so we can communicate more better on Go ogle chat because I don't come here always due to the nature of my job, I hope you understand me very well?
Oh, I just want to hug this woman. Being a parent is so hard, but this woman's story is on a whole nother level. I've always said if you can't handle the consequences of a choice, pick a different route. she chose to protect so many lives, knowing the fallout would hurt her. So selfless. You are my hero.
👏👏👏 ✝️🙏🏻❤️😀
There’s RIGHT and WRONG, and she Choose to do the right thing.. 🙌 you are my type of Parent.. it’s hurts, but in the long Run, it’s worth it… My heart cries for her, I would do the same thing if I was in that position…🙏🙏🙏 Mom
My parents were always in my business. Blessings and prayers for this mom and her son. That took love and courage
She did the right thing thank you for saved many lives.
What an amazing mom. Wishing the best for her and her son.
Mother’s are always superhero
Wow lovely comment ,where are you connecting from my dearest friend?
My heart goes out to her. She loves her child but she knew what she had to do. I thank her for doing what a lot of parents/guardiama, etc have failed to do. I pray more people will stop ignoring signs. GOD bless her.🙏🏾🙏🏾
Absolutely inspiring to see a parent that doesn’t stay in denial and actually cares to save her child and others. She’s a hero. I hope more parents stay this aware. It’s a heartbreaking situation as well, and I hope she has a wonderful support team in her life to bring her comfort and love. I also appreciate that the child was not around guns, as any child needs to have those out of their easy reach. Even adults that struggle with suicidal, homicidal, or just aggressive behavior need weapons as powerful as guns to stay away from their hands. Reasonable actions like that saves lives. ❤️
You can tell she’s absolutely heartbroken saying this. She’s such a strong woman. “Stay in their business” was powerful, especially these days. Everyone has so much access to all sorts of things we never had easy access to before, including children. Sending her love.
This mum is a hero, she protected herself, her son and a thousand more lives. She prevented something that should never happen!
This woman is a good parent for trusting her intuition about what to do. She protected her son and the school community from potential violence. Gut wrenching decision for her but absolutely the right one! Her son is working on his future and his school mates are too. Good job mom!! More parenting like this please!
But then went on national television and told everyone after he's been rehabilitated and doing well. Yeah really great mother 🙄
@@samkennedy5554 I wouldn’t have done that but I think her message to other parents is to watch what your kids are doing and turn them in, get them help. That’s how I view her decision to come forward.
This is an AMAZING MOTHER! being a mom is making tough choices for the best interest of your child. I wish all mothers were like her!!
I am so devastated for her. I have had moments when my kids have deeply hurt me but I cannot imagine having to do what she did but I consider her an “earth mother” for caring for all the children and their families. That takes the strength of a titan. May God strengthen you.
No may GOD STRENGTHEN YOU!!
It doesn't take a strength of a titan but a mother that truly loves and cares.
@@rosahacketts1668 a Mother that cares with strength from TMH included! You have to have the strength to keep you going these days. That love and care should already be there from the time you gave birth. Even though in today's world some Mothers or Parents don't love or care for their children as they should. That's why it's important to ask GOD for the strength you need to carry on. The devil is so busy until if you don't have the strength that is so needed he will SUCK you dry from whatever energy you do have in your body!
I applaud her, shes the embodiment of true love for your child❤️ She loved him enough to do the right thing.
Kudos to this MUM!! She SAVED HIS LIFE & God knows how many more! She loves her son enough to protect him from himself, Thank God for this mother! SHE is a HERO. Too many of these school shootings, and she prevented another one! Well Done! Hopefully he gets the help he needs.
We really need more people like her. Great parenting from her!
She saved his life too. My heart breaks for her and her entire family.
Hello Tina how are you doing today.
I'm extremely proud of your courage, selflessness and common sense to alert the police about the disturbing things you revealed about your own son. So grateful for what you did and sorry for what you had to go through. I know it must be so difficult to make that decision but you did the right thing and we owe you a debt of gratitude because you may have saved dozens of lives and prevented more senseless suffering.
You ARE a parent, you ARE a Mom and that is your job. What a good role model. Staying in your child's business IS your right, you saved what could have been many, his life, AND your own. May you find peace and God keep you close.
There's nothing like a mother's love 💘
Brave, she did the right thing,period. End of story .
My heart goes out to this mom, I cannot imagine the heartbreak 💔 she's feeling. Mom hats out to you, but you have saved countless of lives.
Sending positive, healing vibes to her and her family. What an amazing, courageous woman.
Amen 🙏
This is what being a parent means. We try and when we fail we continue to try and save our lost child. You saved more lives. You did what was right. Please listen to your children and be honest about who they are and if they need help GET IT! Mental health is as important as the dentist, our kids need evaluation and treatment. Love to all
They should have monthly check ups at a professional clinic but nowadays some parents more concern there child getting more social media followers
What a beautiful act by this mother. I couldn’t imagine going against your child but this woman is a hero. God bless this woman for the rest of her life. ♥️ The world needs her and others like her.
She did the right thing by turning in her son! I can see she would rather have her son angry at her yet save many lives, rather than do nothing and have multiple deaths haunting her mind forever. She also put the safety of the whole school ahead of herself and her son.
Thanks also to her for saying that her son's business is her business as a parent!
I dont believe she’s going against her child.
@@Beitlet yes I agree, many patents instincts are to protect their children from authorities and hide family problems from others, this mom didn’t do that she could see the bigger picture
she’s mother of the year for this. finally someone who notices the red flags and doesn’t take a chance by ignoring them. i honestly don’t know if i would be strong enough to do this. God bless her
You can see how much this hurts her and how uncomfortable it is to speak out and to turn her son in… she is an amazing mom… she isn’t in denial she is a lifesaver… true definition of a parent honestly
kids are so stupid now a days its getting out of hand at this point
Her son already completed therapy and his sentence. This wasn’t hard for her. He told her if she did this he wouldn’t speak to her for a long time and she chose her ego over speaking to him. This is incredible insight into the childhood that made him want to be a mass shooter. Make no mistake this woman made him that way.
I can't imagine growing a child inside you,loving them, watching every milestone and then reading they want to murder you. My heart aches for this mom. But I'm glad she did what she did and saved her child and countless others.
It’s most likely hidden mental issues that’s why their are sooo many violent acts in Ny cause most of them are homeless people with mental issues walking around
Kids aren’t bad for no reason. Take a harder look at the upbringing
@@cassideereimer3527 and it's not only the upbringing that affects child development. This is why I was saying that everyone needs to take a child development course... Because too many ignorant people just point a hand at the parents whenever the child does anything wrong, completely ignoring that there are a vast number of sources that influence a child's thought process. I mean so many studies have been talking about how easy it is for kids to be online and come across extremist opinions that corrupt their own. There are friends, there's the media, there's the school environment, the neighborhood environment, and that's just looking at sociocultural factors. There's also biological reasons that would require medical attention and CBT treatment.
God bless this mom! We can only imagine the devastation it must have caused her. Brave, strong woman! 🙏🏻
My heart goes out to this very brave mother-wow! The courage. Sending much love
That’s a lovely hair you there and I admire it so much
So tell me are they real or you fixed them
This mom is the "mother" that our society truly values and puts above all else. So many people have children but are never parent them. Hopefully her son can talk to her again and understand that she did this video to raise awareness, not bash him. Whatever was in that book were his own actions, and it's not her fault she called the cops, she had to. Not only does he have a true mother, but one that protected him from doing things he might not have thought he was capable of. Not many people can say that, they go down all sorts of wrong paths, he had a mom who put him on the right one. I hope he can regognise that serious actions have serious consequences and "forgive" her in his heart. His life could've taken a much much worse turn if she ignored that book.
@Rikers Island Democrats Nest WOW, what a complete imbecile! Too bad you don't live where her & her son do, you could have been one of his victims!!
@Rikers Island Democrats Nest what? Is he gonna mass shoot? It had to be done
@Rikers Island Democrats Nest I feel sorry that you view the world through such a contrived lens.
I hope that he comes to his senses as this goes on and realizes that his mother is nothing but a traitor and a whor* of a false God.
Bless her heart ♥️ “Stay in their business” - This should be the motto for all parents. I pray she finds peace - and her son sees the light and gets his life straight.
it's a double edged sword. it can uncover things like this, but suspicion like that can easily worsen a relationship with someone's parents. it easily pushes some to hide things further because knowing that the parent is "in their business" because of something the child likely won't even do makes them feel really insecure. there's more than just being in their business, you have to parent too.
@@abaddon2148 "Likely won't even do". Given what's happened in the last decade, she absolutely made the right decision. Did you wake from a fucking coma?
@@abaddon2148 My parents were all up in my business. And I might not have liked it at the time, but this is exactly a parents job. There's no point in resenting their job. This very thing kept me from doing stupid things on lots of occasions. And there is a difference between being strict and paying attention. Because they weren't strict.
@@abaddon2148 Absolutely.
When you are a child living on my damn house you don’t have no business !!!! Everything is open for me to check!! I don’t give a damn if the child gets mad. My house my rules. Start this with them when they are young so they already overstand when their older. They can have their own business when they move out!!!
She is a perfect example how a parent should be with their children.
She's a good mom. She saved so many lives. She saved her son too. I hope one day her son can have sanity and live a normal life
Finally, a good, DECENT loving parent that wants to step in a save both her son and others. Most parents sadly turn a blind eye and would even LIE to cover them up. She's a good mom. Now her son will hopefully get the psychological help that he needs.
Meta truth exactly
Don’t really think she’s a good mom at all but
@Mr. Bongs BurgH Society can do that as well.
@Mr. Bongs BurgH I highly doubt she had neglected him for years, if she had she would have just ignored this also.
Damned if you do, damned if you don’t, some people are never satisfied? What if your child or someone you love went to the school he was planning on going to, would you still call her a neglectful mom or would you thank her.
@@Harley57 I think in this case she was not neglectful, in fact the way she describes constantly bugging him about what he is doing/going to do is very overbearing, but it's definitely not being a bad parent. In this case, of course, I'm very glad she did.
As the mama of a 14 year old son this story is absolutely heartbreaking .
My only thought would be “where did I go so wrong, what did I do? What didn’t I do”?
I have always felt that no parent can take 100% of the credit if their child turns out to be wonderful person, and no parent can take 100% of the blame if they aren't. That child you raised is a separate human being with his/her/their own brain, own choices, own conscience, own experiences even beyond the family/household. Sometimes you can be a very diligent, earnest, loving parent but the kid is still just horrible. Some children have grown up with terrible parents, horrific family scenarios yet go on to be upstanding, productive adults. Point being, as I see it there is an element to it all that is completely beyond what a parent can control. I hope parents keep this in mind and aren't too hard on themselves as long as they did their best to be good parents. One can only do so much and the rest is up to the individual. This is why I'm not sure I'm ok w/going after the parents of mass shooters. How can this be legal to do? Seems mostly punitive to me but isn't necessarily fair in many cases, probably. Idk what to think.
Best mom ever she did the right thing and I pray God please her for her good deed
@@sakitoby1581 Your comment is everything 💯
@@sandycheeks3473Aww, thanks. My bestie is a single mom and I see how she doubts & second guesses the job she's done. She's a great mom & he's a great kid, due to both of them. Mom guilt is real but I always say, guilt is only for criminals. Loving parents doing their best are enough..💜
It's not always the parents..Many do the best they can. At a certain age they can become more influenced by their peers, social media..a variety of of factors despite how they were raised.
Now this is a REAL mother. I love her courage. The others are lost, confused or just as heartless.
I'm in tears. That is SO tough but she is a hero for this. Bless her soul and I hope she heals whatever is going on with her son.
"I'm not going to talk to you for a very very long time" ---" its okay son because I believe you will be safer in jail; thats how much I love you"---- this is so real in so many families but most families want to be their child's friend instead of their parent. prayers for this mom
Exactly! This mom did the right thing. She's the kind of parent that will tell the truth to the media. I would've done the same thing if I had kids.
This is a wonderful mother. Bless her little heart.
Big heart.
@@kathrynellison5636 ?
@@elenalu5877 she has a big heart to be able to care about so many people
I cant believe he wanted to kill her!
@@Bodangers I don’t think they meant it that way