5 Tough Reasons He Is Not For You | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares '5 Tough Reasons Why He Is Not For You
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Komentáře • 247

  • @mirriammutinda7634
    @mirriammutinda7634 Před 8 měsíci +168

    1.Emotional not practical
    Compatibility
    _Faith
    _Character
    _Companionships
    2.Blinds you from other good options around you.
    3.Neglect due process
    _Building rlships and friendship
    4.Selfish...(one sided love never works)
    _Interests must be there..
    _It must be mutual
    _Desperation doesn't help
    _Engage in conversation with
    other people
    ✓Infatuation is instant.true love takes time
    ✓Wen u see someone in the first time and like the person..its_Attraction
    ✓ Don't confuse attention and intention
    ✓Real time is important to know someone.
    ✓Wen it's infatuation u have an idea of the person not the real person.

  • @Jossy_18
    @Jossy_18 Před 9 měsíci +58

    We're nothing but pencils in the hands of the creator. 😂
    Thank you Sir.

  • @Vheekeey
    @Vheekeey Před 8 měsíci +46

    I know this video was made for me coz 😂 I can relate to everything. This is my present situationship and I’ve even been praying to God to lemme know if I should go ahead. So thank you Jesus coz it’s a U turn from here onwards 😂

    • @Lifewithoutborders24
      @Lifewithoutborders24 Před 8 měsíci +5

      Congratulations 🎉

    • @Bodisere
      @Bodisere Před 8 měsíci +3

      😂😂 same here. Did you also do that prayer of "God if he's not the one take him away" 😅

    • @Vheekeey
      @Vheekeey Před 8 měsíci +3

      Yes o. Wow looking back at this comment from just 2 weeks ago and I can say he was never the one 😊

    • @Bodisere
      @Bodisere Před 8 měsíci +1

      I'm happy for you😊

  • @paulzerina
    @paulzerina Před 8 měsíci +10

    INFATUATION is usually instant but TRUE LOVE takes time.
    Don't confuse ATTENTION with INTENTION.

  • @sylvabiam1438
    @sylvabiam1438 Před 9 měsíci +52

    Indeed, I've never been bored listening to PK! This man is a gift to the body of Christ! 👌

  • @chiomaagwuncha801
    @chiomaagwuncha801 Před 9 měsíci +30

    I really pray the hearts of as many single persons will be open to understand this teaching and be guided by it, so they make the right choice.

  • @RICHBECKS_naturals
    @RICHBECKS_naturals Před 8 měsíci +8

    I just love this man if all youth will have the opportunity to listen to this man before they enter a relationship owwww

  • @iamtheGodgirl.
    @iamtheGodgirl. Před 7 měsíci +7

    Single but emotionally occupied..this hit hard.Thank you Pastor❤

  • @Peacebestill27
    @Peacebestill27 Před 8 měsíci +2

    PK has scattered this table to pieces 😂

  • @kimberlyjereka6818
    @kimberlyjereka6818 Před 8 měsíci +12

    I just want to thank my God, Jehovha for making it possible for me to see this video just on time . I was facing the same challenge and now I have got my answer glory be to God . Thank you pastor Kingsley

  • @sandraezejianyaele8288
    @sandraezejianyaele8288 Před 8 měsíci +7

    Love at first sight does not exist but attraction at first sight is very true.Hiw can you love someone you just met and never knew from anywhere? Infatuation is sharp sharp as e dey hot while true love takes time. These are words on marble pst.k

  • @favourabu2201
    @favourabu2201 Před 9 měsíci +9

    'We are pencils in the hands of the creator'…😂😂😭😂
    Wale Adenuga Productions that year😄

  • @ngimagafina4955
    @ngimagafina4955 Před 9 měsíci +86

    What are we? We are pencils😂. Always learning from you and I never get used to the fun sir.

  • @Fortune_Chioma
    @Fortune_Chioma Před 8 měsíci +11

    Let’s be real, some people actually put their children in a school cuz they like the uniform 😂

  • @zillahmusungu6074
    @zillahmusungu6074 Před 8 měsíci +7

    it's selfishness to love someone who doesn't love you back the same way you love them.

  • @abaswejennifer6968
    @abaswejennifer6968 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Everything said in this video is just a photocopy of what 99% of ladies do. Thank you pastor. I'm learning and changing 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Fortune_Chioma
    @Fortune_Chioma Před 8 měsíci +9

    Infatuation is instant. Love is a gradual process!

  • @osasumwenaiguobarueghian9244

    Now I see my errors, faults, mistakes, selfishness and manipulation. Thank you sir

  • @sylviammesoma1420
    @sylviammesoma1420 Před 8 měsíci +5

    “Someone can be chasing you to snatch your purse” haha😄

  • @eleakoh
    @eleakoh Před 9 měsíci +7

    Lmao! PK 😂😂! Thank you for this. With these sound teachings, I pray my marriage will be blessed and preserved.

  • @mwambabenny5312
    @mwambabenny5312 Před 9 měsíci +24

    Isn't God so amazing? This is exactly the massage my heart was longing for at this particular moment 🙏 thank you so much man of God for this valid information 🙏....especially about one sided love.

    • @midedayo
      @midedayo Před 8 měsíci +2

      The actual message I need right now as well and I'm enlightened already. Thank you PK 🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @ojangpauline6304
      @ojangpauline6304 Před 8 měsíci

      Yeah.

  • @AbelBlog
    @AbelBlog Před 8 měsíci +2

    As long a someone is interested in you and wants to be with you, you can only know what the person wants you to know about him/her. Because people act up when they are interested and usually hide their shortcomings and advertise their qualities.
    That's why as much as we can, we shouldn't start with visuals when knowing people. We should conceal the visuals and other external triggers as much as we can. Thus shielding ourselves from any emotional connections.
    There is a way to implement that. It's called inside out courtship.
    People start to know others anonymously inside with all the internal values. And it's after they have found enough people with whom they match inside that they consider seeing themselves outside just to assess external things when they are ready for marriage.
    This approach works very well and it will improve relationships tremendously if it can be implemented at a large scale.

  • @akandecynthia4275
    @akandecynthia4275 Před 9 měsíci +8

    😂😂 Pastor Kingsley, "we are pencils in the hands of the creator"

  • @jemimayaa6125
    @jemimayaa6125 Před 8 měsíci +6

    Accepted the proposal of a guy whom i hv known for abt 6 mnths now, started as friends and i fell in love with him with my head, cuz am open to some of his flaws but then he accepts his flaws when confronted, n requests for help to mke it ryt... praying things work out.

    • @sinethembaspelman
      @sinethembaspelman Před 8 měsíci +1

      Praying over you guys that God is the foundation of you coming together. Take time, unrush yourselves

  • @toochisunny
    @toochisunny Před 8 měsíci +7

    I was a victim of the things mentioned here, but thank God for your teachings, I came out of them, especially infatuation. Thank you, Pastor K.

  • @joanaessuman-mensah6753
    @joanaessuman-mensah6753 Před 8 měsíci +2

    You inherit all assets and liabilities. I like this, no lie in the statement. Absolute truth

  • @Debbysdiaries
    @Debbysdiaries Před 8 měsíci +2

    Omo, this is me ooo. i fell for someone and i was just thinking only about how i felt not necessarily about the other party. love this thanks PK and PM

  • @AnthoniaEnkchee
    @AnthoniaEnkchee Před 9 měsíci +30

    PK, i have never been tired of following you right from silverbird and having pastor M also, God bless you sir

    • @jajaambila9775
      @jajaambila9775 Před 9 měsíci +4

      Yeah me too... then He was really slim but making irresistible sense even up till now. The Anointing is always fresh and real.💪💪💪

    • @folakeamofleshprincess472
      @folakeamofleshprincess472 Před 9 měsíci

      Yes o. Right from silverbird channel

  • @AnastaciaTrizah
    @AnastaciaTrizah Před 8 měsíci

    Profound

  • @nadiavalery10
    @nadiavalery10 Před 9 měsíci

    This was so good, thank you PK!!!!

  • @sarahadimakarimu5047
    @sarahadimakarimu5047 Před 9 měsíci

    💯 true sir 😊

  • @Peescorner
    @Peescorner Před 9 měsíci

    Pk!!!🙌🏻❤️❤️

  • @onyekauchechi9880
    @onyekauchechi9880 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank PK 🙌🏽

  • @FavourUzoigwe-zk8py
    @FavourUzoigwe-zk8py Před 9 měsíci

    Love what he said at the last past ❤

  • @user-wq5zm6bu7x
    @user-wq5zm6bu7x Před 8 měsíci

    God bless 🙏

  • @taiwoadeyinka9505
    @taiwoadeyinka9505 Před 8 měsíci

    Wow 🔥🔥🔥🔥Thank you SIr 🙏

  • @onyekauchechi9880
    @onyekauchechi9880 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you PK 🙌🏽

  • @Blessingebunoluwa1
    @Blessingebunoluwa1 Před 9 měsíci

    God bless you sir 🙏

  • @abelmalama6114
    @abelmalama6114 Před 8 měsíci

    Learning

  • @dorcasiyanujesu6954
    @dorcasiyanujesu6954 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you PK

  • @YetundeThompson
    @YetundeThompson Před 8 měsíci

    Grace

  • @odianjonkemdilim2700
    @odianjonkemdilim2700 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you sir for this ,learning a lot and it’s helping .

  • @judyneemagichuru949
    @judyneemagichuru949 Před 9 měsíci

    God bless your ministry 🙏

  • @user-so1ol6yb2v
    @user-so1ol6yb2v Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you sir for the words

  • @001joyo
    @001joyo Před 9 měsíci

    Wise man of God

  • @oluwatoyinmakanjuola1873
    @oluwatoyinmakanjuola1873 Před 8 měsíci

    This spoke to me

  • @lexxydike4334
    @lexxydike4334 Před 8 měsíci

    Wonderful lessons

  • @BeFitForHim
    @BeFitForHim Před 9 měsíci +1

    Wow! So much wisdom in this 🙌🏽

  • @tderahhh
    @tderahhh Před 8 měsíci +5

    Can a relationship founded on wrong reasons be salvaged after a fallout? 'specially when there are intentions to do it the right way.
    I'm referring to any kind of relationship.

  • @rejoiceahaiwe1501
    @rejoiceahaiwe1501 Před 9 měsíci +1

    God bless you sir

  • @iwuohapatience2445
    @iwuohapatience2445 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Yes sir

  • @missrd395
    @missrd395 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you PK very insightful and love the humor and jokes too haha!

  • @helenahelen8687
    @helenahelen8687 Před 9 měsíci +24

    „WHO SHOULD I MARRY „ is actually the book am reading at the moment. I have read it before but it’s worth reading over and over again.

  • @damilolaolalere
    @damilolaolalere Před 8 měsíci

    Chaiiii
    God bless you Pastor K!
    🙏🔥🔥♥️

  • @temiloluwaomotoso1257
    @temiloluwaomotoso1257 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you PK for spilling the truth. This is pure truth

  • @KRUMP_STUDIOS
    @KRUMP_STUDIOS Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you sir.

  • @Funbite247
    @Funbite247 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you Sir

  • @adaobiokobi
    @adaobiokobi Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you Pastor

  • @oseluluomon-irabor8167
    @oseluluomon-irabor8167 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you PK. This really helped

  • @Mimarla_arts
    @Mimarla_arts Před 9 měsíci

    PK 🙌🤭 Such enlightenment!!
    Thank you so much for this timely knowledge. 😊

  • @ministerchee_
    @ministerchee_ Před 8 měsíci

    Pastor K🔥🔥🔥🔥
    God bless and keep you.

  • @asamoahfrederickmanasseh2043

    God bless you Pastor K. I have really learned a lot

  • @alasiayomide322
    @alasiayomide322 Před 9 měsíci +2

    You're a wonderful teacher, thank you sir ❤

  • @akuchieakunna1430
    @akuchieakunna1430 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you for shedding light on this pastor kingsley esp btw infatuation and real love

  • @deboraholaogun3744
    @deboraholaogun3744 Před 6 měsíci

    This is liberating. Wow, just wow!...

  • @goodnessime6723
    @goodnessime6723 Před 8 měsíci

    This was very helpful thank you pk

  • @ikerichidinma2495
    @ikerichidinma2495 Před 8 měsíci

    Your messages are enlightening sir. They've helped me a lot. God bless you sir

  • @afolagboyejoy
    @afolagboyejoy Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you sir for this

  • @princessbarbie1944
    @princessbarbie1944 Před 8 měsíci

    You have really opened up my eyes 👀 God bless you abundantly

  • @mawufemoragbenorwosi3757
    @mawufemoragbenorwosi3757 Před 8 měsíci

    Very real, God bless you Sir

  • @johnsonvictoria6522
    @johnsonvictoria6522 Před 8 měsíci

    God bless u sir for this great lesson I really learn alot from it

  • @gift9331
    @gift9331 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you sir
    This is me at the moment

  • @ThyKingdomCome5
    @ThyKingdomCome5 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Thank you sir. I am so blessed sir

  • @teshajonas4465
    @teshajonas4465 Před 8 měsíci

    Blessed God for you pastor K thank you for this message 🙏

  • @lookingforjoan
    @lookingforjoan Před 8 měsíci +1

    The part you said “go and buy gun” made me laugh out loud😂😂❤️.

  • @julianachinyere3176
    @julianachinyere3176 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Don't confuse attention with intention! 😊

  • @johntraverssali3848
    @johntraverssali3848 Před 9 měsíci +2

    God bless you Sir... You two and your ministry are such a gift ❤❤❤❤

  • @austinevick
    @austinevick Před 8 měsíci

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 pastor is awesome. Thank you sir

  • @anitaokologo645
    @anitaokologo645 Před 8 měsíci

    Pastor K has a great sense of humour 😂 always a blessing to listen

  • @chisomezenobi9079
    @chisomezenobi9079 Před 8 měsíci

    Love is not enough

  • @simply_bisola
    @simply_bisola Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you PK! This video has greatly helped me.

  • @emelsplendor4569
    @emelsplendor4569 Před 8 měsíci

    This actually opened my eyes . Thank u PK. Now I understand why some of these relationships didn't last. Sometimes it's just all mixed up. I mean

  • @maxwellkeicha9418
    @maxwellkeicha9418 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Infatuation is usually instant, there's attraction at first sight. True love takes time. Hmmm

  • @urebhorehizogie2792
    @urebhorehizogie2792 Před 9 měsíci +2

    PK GOD bless you richly. Your teachings have drastically changed my life.

  • @Ukhti_Sady
    @Ukhti_Sady Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this Pastor K. Its so me, walai. This is indeed timely

  • @user-ov3es4vh4n
    @user-ov3es4vh4n Před 8 měsíci

    Wow😇 wat an enlightened message God bless u sir,ve really learned frm ur messages especially d infatuation

  • @adaobijessica6444
    @adaobijessica6444 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Great teaching mixed with comedy, thank you PK 😂😂😂😂

  • @byrnenoel6317
    @byrnenoel6317 Před 9 měsíci +9

    1. Emotional vs. Practical-- beyond chemistry into compatibility, companionship (friendship), and character.
    a) Compatibility-- faith, purpose in life.
    2. Falling in love blinds you to other good options.
    3. You neglect due process. Building friendship.
    4. Real relationships should be built on more than one person. Requires mutuality.
    5.

  • @Kem_kem24
    @Kem_kem24 Před 9 měsíci +10

    Thank you so much for being a blessing to our generation. I have learnt a lot from your videos.

  • @favourchizoba2516
    @favourchizoba2516 Před 9 měsíci +2

    PK this so insightful, I learn a lot from you daily..actually I just got out of that kind of relationship two months ago...

  • @Tmfoundationministry1212
    @Tmfoundationministry1212 Před 9 měsíci

    Pk 🤗thank you so much sir. This is really engaging and informative 🤗🤗😁😂

  • @ochenivictoriaruth2238
    @ochenivictoriaruth2238 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Single but emotionally occupied 😆😆
    That got me pastor K🤓🤓🤓🤓

  • @brita9067
    @brita9067 Před 5 měsíci

    Pastor K coming through with the insight and humor😂😂. Love it. God bless you🙏🏾!!

  • @tinaumahtv5449
    @tinaumahtv5449 Před 9 měsíci

    I love the ending part😅

  • @Facelessmuse1
    @Facelessmuse1 Před 6 dny

    Thank you for this beautiful message, I did learn a lot.

  • @godsloveblessedituen-gbi
    @godsloveblessedituen-gbi Před 8 měsíci

    So beautiful. This is so nice mama. Kudos to the team. I love you Jite😂

  • @roseomole4752
    @roseomole4752 Před 8 měsíci

    Amazing PK. Thank you Sir. If you agree you need at least one dose of PK'S messages 😉 🤚

  • @glorynoble6274
    @glorynoble6274 Před 8 měsíci +3

    My flesh is saying I should send the link to a lady that was seriously crushing on my fiance but my spirit just gave me bombastic side eye 😒🤣🤣🤣

  • @tbjamzlyrics
    @tbjamzlyrics Před 7 měsíci

    Hmmm that hit me , Father for my children, Partner for my vision

  • @gracevictorarchibong2696
    @gracevictorarchibong2696 Před 8 měsíci +7

    Thank you, pastor Kingsley for the eye-opener message. You can be single and emotionally occupied. This has been my story for 2 years now. This helped, GOD BLESS.