6 Ways to AVOID the FRIEND ZONE in the PHILIPPINES

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Komentáře • 94

  • @lindenh2014
    @lindenh2014 Před 3 měsíci +25

    One good thing about the friendzone is that you can make it the no-peso zone.

    • @arizonafarang4034
      @arizonafarang4034 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Even though most will try by complaining about certain predicaments they are in to get you to offer money.

    • @lindenh2014
      @lindenh2014 Před 3 měsíci

      @@arizonafarang4034 Yes... if they are trying to get you to offer money, then that is arguably a good reason to make it a no-peso zone. The reason why I said: "you *can* make it...", is because it is an option that is open to you. Ultimately, it is up to you and how you feel. No two friend-zones are exactly the same, so all you can do is use your own judgement, in your own situation.
      There are a few things to consider, though. If she requests financial help on a fairly regular basis, and without reticence, then you could justifiably view that as disrespectful. She might well think of you as more of a source of cash, than a person with feelings.
      Also, if she knows you are attracted to her and she keeps you at a distance, it is likely because she is keeping her options open, or keeping herself available for someone she already knows.
      In a relatively short space of time, you could end up paying out the equivalent of hundreds of dollars, rescuing her from various "predicaments". Then all of a sudden, this guy could swoop in, take the #1 spot and make her unavailable to you. And he wouldn't have had to pay a single penny. In fact, she could end up using the money you gave her to pay for dates with him.
      Withholding pesos can actually be a great test of her friendship. If she values you, she will respect your decision, and continue being your friend. If she responds with coldness and distance, then you are better off without her, because she was never a friend in the first place.

  • @dacritter8397
    @dacritter8397 Před 2 měsíci +2

    This is true for dating anywhere in the world. Confidence, scarcity, and being a "rock" who can neither be pushed around nor womanipulated. Attraction is attraction everywhere (and women worldwide are attracted to the same essential traits). And, of course, being extra weird! If she's not highly attracted to you from the start -- move on immediately.

  • @JoeStacks419
    @JoeStacks419 Před 3 měsíci +7

    I'll find a Filipina that's also interested in a friend with benefits relationship.

  • @Kadaitchi
    @Kadaitchi Před 3 měsíci +3

    Reine, black is definitely your colour. You look so beautiful honestly.

  • @user-wu9ec6pi3b
    @user-wu9ec6pi3b Před 3 měsíci +1

    Your young and I'm 66 yrs old lived her 37 yrs you can come out of the friend zone but it takes a special skill with words I did a few times with great success. The best skill I have is I speak Tagalog fluently

  • @aisforapple9968
    @aisforapple9968 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Yes black is definitely your color Reine!

  • @Ravenswhisper
    @Ravenswhisper Před 3 měsíci +9

    Rules are fickle, if a hot stud shows up, the females will immediately throw out their rules at a whim.

    • @jaredolson6189
      @jaredolson6189 Před 3 měsíci

      That's true but if the guy doesn't have game she will lose interest and leave it doesn't matter how attractive the guy is

  • @quentinbroom5844
    @quentinbroom5844 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Reine spot on teacher! Likeable and humble.

  • @sj-up4wo
    @sj-up4wo Před měsícem

    Straight to The Forward !!! damn good advice ! 🍺

  • @johnv5156
    @johnv5156 Před 3 měsíci +3

    If you're not occassionally hooking up with her, what's the point of even chatting? If I want a buddy, I will get a dog.

  • @douglasmichel1000
    @douglasmichel1000 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Reine the correct word for #3 is PRIORITIZE . Polarize means divide , PRIOITIZE means to make things a priority ( such as number one task ) . Good video dear, your English is excellent. I look forward to making mistakes in Tagalog.

    • @MickeyMousePark
      @MickeyMousePark Před 2 měsíci

      i was confused about that also ..trying to figure out how polarization would fit...PRIORITIZE makes a lot more sense..

    • @douglasmichel1000
      @douglasmichel1000 Před 2 měsíci

      @@MickeyMousePark English is her second language. She does very well overall. A lot of Americans do not understand the meaning of this word.

  • @CPO-Snarky
    @CPO-Snarky Před 3 měsíci +1

    Discretely displaying a wad of PHP is a very effective Friend Zone repellent.

  • @zerocarbdoc
    @zerocarbdoc Před 3 měsíci +3

    I'll dance dance dance, with my hands hands hands.......Wednesday Reine

  • @bobbruce4135
    @bobbruce4135 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Great points. If you say you're there or arriving in a few days many will flake as their husband or BF doesn't want her to bang you and don't send money to her to meet you. Then bring her to a love-motel (4 hour with privacy). It's all P4P anyway.

  • @markanthonypetra
    @markanthonypetra Před 3 měsíci +1

    Pretty insightful stuff young lady......good job Reine.

  • @uBenji1234
    @uBenji1234 Před dnem

    Be clear about what you want and keep looking always. If she's not interested in being with you physically just keep looking elsewhere! Right?

  • @MitchC357
    @MitchC357 Před 3 měsíci +1

    You are so right. You can’t get out of the friend zone.

  • @sg1fan75
    @sg1fan75 Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks for the video Reine.

  • @tacothunder2298
    @tacothunder2298 Před 3 měsíci

    I just noticed that is the same room and white board where Ace Bachelor Cool records his guide video too.

  • @RayH-
    @RayH- Před 3 měsíci +3

    If you're in the friend zone date her friends

  • @user-zu5tv7zt6v
    @user-zu5tv7zt6v Před 3 měsíci +1

    It seems almost impossible to get locked in the 'friend zone' here in the Philippines, at least if everything is working right (cough, cough).

  • @harryalan2460
    @harryalan2460 Před 3 měsíci

    Much better, Reine! You kept it much simpler and shorter. Covering 10-12 tips is just too much. Not that I want to be your "friend", but I want to see you again! 🎉

  • @cpt.ahab_it7044
    @cpt.ahab_it7044 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Always great advice.

  • @bouchecaldwell330
    @bouchecaldwell330 Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks

  • @xenu-dark-tony
    @xenu-dark-tony Před 2 dny

    Any sign of the Freindzone, even her looking over your shoulder, and it's time to go NOW, before you waste another cent. It is deceitful to go out with a bloke just for free drinks and food, and what worse way to start a courtship than with a liar?

  • @BeeSans444
    @BeeSans444 Před 3 měsíci

    American guys get to the Philippines and decide to live in tank tops, cargo shorts, and either flip-flops or Jesus sandals. It's so funny to me because Filipinas are typically into style and fashion. So yes, dress well!

  • @thisjustindustries
    @thisjustindustries Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hair looks great, Reine!

  • @koufax174
    @koufax174 Před 3 měsíci

    Excellent excellent excellent 🎊🎉Great content and presentation. You age 20x better than the Pea. ❤️

  • @danhunt3652
    @danhunt3652 Před 3 měsíci

    🌴 🥥 Reina even if the woman is attracted to the foreigner, if he doesn’t feel the chemistry and is not attracted to her It’s not going to work most women can’t handle just being friends That’s why divorced foreigners are remaining single Let’s be real it’s a two-way relationship where you meet each other halfway where the woman has to stop trying to be too controlling What kind of guy shows up for a date and dirty clothes holes in their jeans, unshaven no shower and smelly He has no respect for himself or a female If the woman is going to be sloppy and dirty, she will never meet a nice guy 🌴 🥥 💕

  • @tubewatcher3100
    @tubewatcher3100 Před 3 měsíci

    Good advice.

  • @narpasword
    @narpasword Před měsícem

    What does it look like when she's showing interest? What if you have been friends for a long time and her approaches seem somewhat flirty at times? Or if she comes to you asking for advice or other things? How can you tell she is interested?

  • @MermanManly
    @MermanManly Před 3 měsíci

    Right, so there are a ton of conditions and games, just like in the west.

    • @johnv5156
      @johnv5156 Před 3 měsíci

      Yeah, they're women.

    • @Rusty-Brown_
      @Rusty-Brown_ Před 3 měsíci

      ******* YEA THE PHILLY WILLY IS JUST LIKE AMERICAN WOMEN THEY ARE JUST CHEAPER TO RENTTT OR BUY !!!!!!!!******

  • @free2roam674
    @free2roam674 Před 3 měsíci

    Best advice I have heard here is this, if you have to ask if a Filipina really likes you, she doesn't. If she really likes you she will make it very obvious. As Reine correctly says, just move on, there are lots of wonderful women here.

  • @mauricepatterson9558
    @mauricepatterson9558 Před 3 měsíci

    If one filipina is not interested another will be interested. Just move on and worry about your needs.

  • @johnteill_
    @johnteill_ Před 2 měsíci

    Im not saying that your wrong...im just saying that these are the things to do with an immature girl....im WAY past these mind games...ill just move onto the next girl without any hesitation and live my life.

  • @josephzito1574
    @josephzito1574 Před 3 měsíci

    Reine is awesome listen to her . Joe

  • @Paulnhawes
    @Paulnhawes Před 2 měsíci

    I’ve never been in the friend zone 😂😂😂

  • @jefferywinchester5830
    @jefferywinchester5830 Před 3 měsíci +1

    How about if i emphasize how totally desperate i am??? That'll make her love me more right? right?

  • @coffeebotography
    @coffeebotography Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks for teaching me to lie😉

  • @MaikiStarwood
    @MaikiStarwood Před 3 měsíci

    I don't care if she friend zones me, it's her loss. I'll move on & find someone else who truly appreciates me.
    Some women think they are the only woman in the world, well. you're not.
    There's millions more who want me, I'm the catch, not you.

  • @Rusty-Brown_
    @Rusty-Brown_ Před 3 měsíci +1

    ******** HELL I HAVE PLENTY OF FRIENDS I DONT NEED NO MORE

  • @gerardocordero5788
    @gerardocordero5788 Před 3 měsíci

    Sometimes it’s an advantage to be in the friend zone

    • @chrism4008
      @chrism4008 Před 3 měsíci

      😂😂😂😂😂
      No, no it's not

  • @nows1567
    @nows1567 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Man, so complicated, I thought suckin' up to her family 'n send 5 k to her on GCash every now 'n then would do. I have to avoid becomin' "just friends" now too 😆, maybe I'll just get a maid instead 😁

  • @chaunceyadams870
    @chaunceyadams870 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I wonder how many guys reine has in the friend zone

  • @sting1111
    @sting1111 Před 3 měsíci +1

    good topic but if you are in the friend zone you are a sad simp.

  • @BigDogsRUSS
    @BigDogsRUSS Před 3 měsíci

    Great advice Reine! Love you Smart Girls! 😊

  • @kvnndvn
    @kvnndvn Před 3 měsíci +1

    Where's Ace?

  • @pantherman8719
    @pantherman8719 Před 3 měsíci

    You can remove yourself from the friend zone by talking to other girls

  • @toolman2364
    @toolman2364 Před 3 měsíci

    What is a "regular"? Does that mean someone who is a regular at the bar? Seeing the girl that works at the bar?

  • @user-tt1yh5xm7d
    @user-tt1yh5xm7d Před 3 měsíci

    If she never asks you for money and wants sex everyday your not in the "friend zone". Your in "marriage zone"!

  • @madpeace1764
    @madpeace1764 Před 26 dny

    When I Come To The Philippines
    And If I Happen To Run Into To YOU
    You Better NOT "Friend Zone" Me!!!!
    💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋

  • @AmericanExpatInThePhilippines

    Watching this video reminds me of 8th grade.

  • @user-zf4xq1kn6n
    @user-zf4xq1kn6n Před 2 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @JamesMitchell-iq5vy
    @JamesMitchell-iq5vy Před 3 měsíci +1

    WHERE THE COOKING VIDEOS?

  • @ss-sz3xi
    @ss-sz3xi Před 3 měsíci +1

    too hot for anything besides shorts and sleeveless shirts jaja I wore jeans and a ppolo 1 night and was soaked head to toe all night long.

  • @douglasmichel1000
    @douglasmichel1000 Před 3 měsíci +4

    # 7 don't date a woman with a You Tube channel

    • @lindenh2014
      @lindenh2014 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I will always associate that advice with Gio in The Philippines. He was the first person I heard say it. He had a girlfriend around that time who was a CZcamsr.

    • @pantherman8719
      @pantherman8719 Před 3 měsíci +1

      They seem to always have a tattoo....lol

  • @Jaykp123aol
    @Jaykp123aol Před 3 měsíci

    Rene can we be friends 😂

  • @billtompkins1967
    @billtompkins1967 Před 3 měsíci +2

    A waitress told me about the “don’t be a regular” one a long time ago.

    • @heofthebee
      @heofthebee Před 3 měsíci +1

      keep your attention on her best parts, you are not there to
      pump her ego-you are there to pump something else

  • @jesusblessthesecommentsamen
    @jesusblessthesecommentsamen Před 3 měsíci

    This is all bad advice I dated a girl like this when I was young she was a game player friend zoned her straight away then found a God fearing women!

  • @bobkelley8291
    @bobkelley8291 Před 3 měsíci

    A man must have a friend zone.

  • @darrelstevens9707
    @darrelstevens9707 Před 3 měsíci

    Boracy?

  • @brentsutherland6385
    @brentsutherland6385 Před 3 měsíci

    Sleeves and a collar I can do.

  • @douglasmichel1000
    @douglasmichel1000 Před 3 měsíci

    Polarize ? To polarize means to divide , I hope you meant to say bond.

    • @SmartGirlPhilippines
      @SmartGirlPhilippines  Před 3 měsíci +3

      No. I mean polarize. You have to get her to decide if she likes you right away. If you don't polarize her quickly, you'll probably end up in the friend zone.

    • @douglasmichel1000
      @douglasmichel1000 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@SmartGirlPhilippines My dear lady the correct word is PRIORITIZE . It's ok English is not your first language.

    • @ryanbentley1322
      @ryanbentley1322 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I, think polarise is fine to use in this situation dear man Douglas Michael

    • @chrism4008
      @chrism4008 Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@douglasmichel1000no, you simply don't understand buddy

    • @douglasmichel1000
      @douglasmichel1000 Před 3 měsíci

      @@chrism4008 My knowledge of Webster is superior to yours.

  • @GeoffsPhilsInfo
    @GeoffsPhilsInfo Před 3 měsíci

    Miss Rein are you single and free?

  • @davidpuente1368
    @davidpuente1368 Před 3 měsíci

    It’s to hot to dress up 🥵

  • @goatman3828
    @goatman3828 Před 3 měsíci

    Your whole premise is flawed. You assume only beauty matters. It does not. What is on the inside is far more important than a pretty face. If all a man aims for is to get with pretty gals he will never find what he is looking for in a relationship.