Reading YOUR ‘Book Icks’
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when someone “reaches up and feels their face is wet and then realize they’re crying” idk i just feel like you would always know you’re crying
LITERALLY MY THOUGHTS WHILE READING THE LOVE HYPOTHESIS
YEQH
This is the one lol
FR like the only time it makes sense is if they’re high or maybe really drunk like??
Ehh I havent done this personally but I feel like if you're in a REALLY traumatiziny/shocking situation, it's def possible to just not even notice you started tearing up cause your mind is elsewhere in that moment
‘Enemies to Lovers’ in romance books should really be ‘People who aren’t super fond of each and the girl is holding a grudge about something minimal that happened years ago and actually the guy has been in love with her the whole time to lovers’.
It's bit lengthy, but I think we can work with it😂
This will be my new description
Literally the UnHoneymooners in a nutshell 😂
it's okay you can say the hating game
@@dearlolly2293 agreed!!! Reading that right now and it’s not even enemies to lovers 🤦🏼♀️
my biggest ick is when a book has slang or references something like social media (esp tik tok) too much. I’m reading to be in the book’s world not mine 😭😂
When I read "It Ends with Us" I was like... really Colleen!? 😒😫😂
Ikr even if’s it’s a brief “lets go make the tiktok pasta” like EW
@@bonnie8177 I’m reading it. Is it bad?
The Crave series 😭
enemies to lovers is more a fantasy thing.. cause in fantasy they’ll deadass be like “YOU KILLED MY ENTIRE FAMILY HOW COULD I EVER LOVE YOU?!” … that’s enemies
period
You just wrote my whole mind . Slayy quenn.
Or in dark romance as well bc they are like " I'M GONNA KILL YOU" and they mean it.
EXACTLY
I hate long chapters. Even if the book has like 700+ pages if the book has short chapters it doesn’t feel long and I read it really fast because it’s easier to get through
Yes! I live for short chapters. Especially if I'm reading at night before bed
Literally, just finished a 330 page book with only 17 chapters 🙃
Exactly why I loved and got through Tartt's The Goldfinch so quickly! It's ~800 pages but the chapters are broken up into small parts and it's super breezy
You get it!
My Year of Rest and Relaxation and Death In Her Hands 😑
When it comes to third act breakups, i’d rather read an entire book of buildup and for the couple to finally get together at the end, than read a book where they get together in the middle and then break up/make up in the 3rd act
I agree with this but sometimes I’m a SUCKER for some groveling 😂😂
@@elizagrey5006 omg true you got me there ahahah
Angst> third act breakup 🤷♀️
@@abbie7099TRUEE
My biggest romance book ick, specifically, is when the main problem of the book arises out of the two characters NOT COMMUNICATING. Why the hell is every romance couple out here acting 12 years old and incapable of sitting down and having adult conversations. And if that is the only way that the author can think of to cause tension... they need to go to writing school.
Agreed
If you want a cute couple that actually communicate read Heartstopper! It's abt 2 boys who fall in love! In the first like 2 books ( there's a show too ) they're only 15 and 16 yet have better communication than most adult couples! Just a book rec! ♥︎😊
Romeo & Juliet lol
Rom-Com is more Dislike to lovers or disinterest to lovers.
dislike to lovers is a perfect way to put
Or “I can’t stand you” to lovers
@@tay_rizul hah! Love that one. Or you get on my nerves to get in bed romance 😅
Its literally just strangers to lovers half the time as they’re enemy because they just dont know each other😂
Literally the first 40 pages one is SPOT ON. One of the reasons I never read as a kid was because I hated starting books... I just couldn't focus through the first 40 pages so I never read anything. But I have to say, an ick for me is... full on hook ups in the morning before they brush their teeth. I just cant stop thinking about how bad their breath has to be the entire time, and it is NOT hot at all. Also, small text. I will literally not read something if the font is small..
I love the fantasy of book people not having bad morning breath. Literally my dream!
I always skip the 1st couple chapters of the books 😅 and find out that I've really lost noth much
I can understand the “no way I just said that out loud” when it’s a heated situation or an emotional one. Since I feel like sometimes we forget ourselves and end up saying things we wanted to keep only in thoughts, realizing it a moment later.
But most of the time it still feels so forced haha. Just to move the plot or reveal something that was supposed to be a secret.
My biggest book ick is when the hero calls the heroine “pet” - I cant do it😭
I feel like enemies to lovers does work in sports romances (when they’re on the opposite team and fight for some big thing or something) but when it’s a romcom I think you’re definitely right!
Agreed. I remember reading ‘Icebreaker’ and it was promoted as ‘enemies-to-lovers’ but they were only “enemies”for like 3 chapters LOL.
i’m not going to complain about my wattpad phase, it got me into reading proper books
literally!!!!
haha same 😭
did the opposite for me lol 😂
Unless it’s a sci-fi or a dystopian, I expect your characters to have normal everyday names. Like miss me with names like Atlas, Dory, Ryle and Kenna (yes, I’m talking to you Colleen Hoover)
Thank you for posting this! As an indie author, this helped me reconsider some of the things I’ve written and understand readers’s tastes more. I completely agree on many of the icks in this video, though I’ve done some of them myself as both a writer and a reader! 😅😂
Love that you’re taking reader’s opinions and preferences for your writing! Good luck with your books!
@@abbie7099 Thank you so much! 😊
Omg yes, the step sibling trope is the biggest ick ever!! I hated Ugly Love for this exact reason.
THIS. So many people gloss over that part 😭
Clueless. If you lived together as kids, ick.
I’m sorry step siblings???? I haven’t read the book and it thought it was a “her brothers roommate” situation 😭
@@maplesyrup9300 lmaaoo it’s both. The book follows two love stories. In the past and the present
Idk if this is an unpopular opinion or not but when the main characters meet on the first page/chapter I love that. It’s straight in no messing around and makes it so much easier for me to read
In Ginny and Georgia when they started tiktok dancing I literally laughed so hard I couldn’t take it
the ONLY show/movie where the tiktok dance was not cringe imo was the fallout
omg my biggest thing which just revolves books is when you let someone borrow your book, they read it, and they give it back and it’s demolished. like where you can see the covers been bent, they dog-eared pages, spilled water on it, etc.
it’s rather annoyance to lovers than enemies to lovers in romcoms, i totally agree!
Petition for her to call not so “enemies to lovers” in rom coms “opposites attract”
i completely agree about long chapters! i love the inheritance games because of that fact. it feels like i can get through it and enjoy it without being bored of a giant chapter. it seems to be easily bingeable that way instead of reading something that takes FOREVER to get through
Forget about the book icks let’s talk about the sweatshirt that’s stealing the spotlight
right like where’s it from 🌚🌚
okay the slang point is so real bc in a couple of years it’ll be SO outdated anyway??? every time I read old slang in a book I have to pause bc I just HATE it
Your sweatshirt has me crying. I LOVE ittt
I didn’t realize how much some of these bothered me until you shared them😂😂
With the “mentioning tiktok”, Instagram, Snapchat, whatever social media, I feel like it may be super prominent in our lives, but with that it brings a tonnnnnn of negativity too. So when I read books to escape, I don’t want the social media side of my life being brought into that world
THIS👏
omg yes about the authors using slang in books!! It almost always sounds like how adults our parents age would mock how they think we talk to each other 😭
I was so upset nothing exciting got posted today and then there’s this… THANK YOU QUEEN ❤
Ok. I totally get your point on enemies to lovers, and I think it’s been really badly done in recent romance books. HOWEVER, my all time favorite rom com, Pride and Prejudice, is definitely enemies to lovers. Sure, Darcy didn’t kill her entire family, but he did ruin the chances of her sister marrying well in a society where that essentially defined your future. Additionally, she (mistakenly) thought that he cheated her boyfriend out of an estate he supposedly inherited. And there was nothing she could do about it because of her station in life, and he taunted her for it… Yeah, I’d be pissed too.
And HEAVY on the insta love one! Especially when I had to read Romeo and Juliet in English class😭 everyone says that it’s so romantic and the best classic ever but in reality they literally KISSED ON THE FIRST NIGHT THEY MET😭 like that’s not how love happens I promise you English teachers it was not that good😭
😭😭😭 not the book spines!!! I can't crack them, I can't do it 😂
I may get alot of hate for this but oh well I feel like it must be said:
My book ick is how in romance books especially there will be a scene where a character is casually SA'ed and then it's just brushed off and never acknowledged. Ex: randomly kissing a stranger you don't know/doesn't know you or using SA as a plot point like they did in Love & Other Words w/ Elliot and that girl.
I agree that the first 40 pages can be excruciating😮💨
I don't mind pop culture references in general but anything Harry Potter definitely gives me the ick
Why
@@SimGirl00 mainly cause it feels lazy
Like the author just doesn't actually now anything about the millennial and Gen Z generation but everyone loves Harry Potter right? So they just add that.
I've seen it done often times in ways that don't do anything to forward the story.
I also think it will just make the books that reference HP age so much faster than they would otherwise
I love that you’ve posted again 😍😍 I’ve been dying for another video! 😍💖
I literally crack the book spine the second I start reading 🤣 I'm very careful not to crack them in the bookstore in case I don't end up buying it, cause who wants to buy a brand new book with an already cracked spine, but once that book is officially mine you can bet imma crack them all 💅🏽😂
I feel like book icks are necessary lol bc you have to go through an emotional roller coaster while reading a book
The descriptions were perfect!! When you talked about the spine breaking 😩😩😩😂😂😂 I cried
I met my husband in the subway I was late to my music class he was coming from a soccer ⚽️ game we saw each other it was instant love the following day after bumping into each other we decided to be boyfriend and girlfriend 8 years later we split up and we gave our relationship a second chance! I should write a book! 23 years later with 2 kids we are still in love 😍
awww that’s a beautiful story. im so happy for y’all ❤
@@ginny9394 😊😊😊thank you ! Love everything about you I enjoy watching g your videos %!
OMG it bothered me SO MUCH when I've gone to Target or Walmart this past week seeing the movie poster covers for Daisy Jones & The Six. My first thoughts were that I was glad I bought a copy long before the cover change. I just can't do the new cover.
Me personally I really like them 😭 if the design is good ofc
Girl I'm literally obsessed with your sweatshirt
Crying screaming & throwing up bc you answered to my ick suggestion 😭 ily des ❤️
Omg! Where did you get that jumper? I love it! 😍
Stop I’m dying over your shirt 😂😂
or like put the permanent stickers on the back cover so they get their recognition and it doesn't RUIN the aesthetic
I agree with the movie posters! It’s so annoying!
I have been absolutely loving your videos and your podcast! Also you are so pretty and are my comfort character💕💕
love your vids soooo sooo much, they always make my day
Love your videos so much. I absolutely hate cracking the Spines on my books I try to avoid doing it as much as possible xx
this was a 5 star video but the sweatshirt made it 6
des you’re my favorite booktuber!!🤍
One of my biggest icks is pet names……shortcake??????? i feel like no one would actually say that idk
Some nicknames can be cute but i agree so many cringy ones
AH AMEN. And the hating game was so icky for more reasons than this one ofc 😭
Honestly, I think Punk 57 is a good Enemies to Lovers. Also Romeo & Juliette is the OG Enemies to Lovers isn't it?
Omg the sticking out the tongue one is so true I can never think of these but when you guys say them im like oh my gOD YES like I LOVE acotar but it is NOTORIOUS for the tongue out scenes and it makes me close the book 😭
omg you always have the best sweatshirts!! we are gonna need a sweatshirt collection or at least tell us where you get them from please??❤
Immediate thumbs up with your comments on drinking and driving. ❤❤❤
some of your reactions to these icks have been hilarious to me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 im new into reading like my girl does, so im learning :D
unpopular opinion: i actually really like the tv cover for daisy jones and the six… i feel like it’s super similar to the original and i’m lowkey considering getting a copy with the tv cover just so i have both 💁♀️💁♀️
I like the Netflix covers for the Bridgerton series👀 They’re not always bad lol
Can we talk about the wattpad-phase? Because I published and it is ✨embarrassing✨
I was the girl in school that had their teacher proof read their „books“.
Could also be a fun video idea. You reading our embarrassing attempts as authors
omg wait. i want to do that
Honestly the balls it takes to ask a teacher to do that...
I admire you a little, it takes a lot to put your art out there, no matter how good or bad it is
I have a friend who published a finished book on wattpad as her senior year capstone project. I mean, I'm genuinely proud of her for accomplishing that but she still cringes about it regularly bc she had to talk about it in front of a panel of teachers 😭
@@itsnoterica that is a really cool project!!
I agree with the person who said folding books is an ick, and I almost had an aneurysm when you did it
HI DESTINY ITS MY BIRTHDAY TODAY SO THIS WAS SUCH A GOOD THING TO OPEN MY PHONE TOO 🎉❤
early yey! i've been waiting for your next video! i love your content!
Omg PLS my mom coming into my room wondering why I’m laughing so loud. Me every 2 seconds watching Destiny.
My ick is when one chapter is like 2 pages and the next one is like 25 pages. I just wish it was like even throughout. Also
The real people cover was certainly very normal in the early 2000s cause i loved the Gossip Girl covers but now it looks so cheesy! I loved this video! I also
Crack my book spines it makes me feel more comfortable when im reading😊
This is an old video of yours I just randomly found, but you’re so real for this. Glad I’m not feeling these things alone lol.
My ick: “If this was a story (or movie)… But this is real life, so…” Like, it isn’t though.
The book clubs too! At least the Reese’s book club sticker is kind of cute and neutral… the Read With Jenna one just doesn’t go with a lot of books! Lol 😂
girl my addicted/calloway series is THREE different sizes 😭😭😭 it is so horrible but i don’t have the heart to repurchase bc it’s so expensive
new subscriber, loving your vibe ❤️❤️
Mine is a weirdly specific one, but whenever foods are used in comparison to one of the characters. Some of the worst ones were "he was so hot you could fry an egg on him" (I'm not even kidding right now, some author and editor looked at that line and saw absolutely nothing wrong with it) and the ever-popular "the mushroomed tip of his . . . ". Like This needs to stop. Mentioning foods when trying to be sexy just really kills the mood for me.
Can we talk about the supremacy of half price books stickers (which always come off smoothly) and how terrible target ones are. I have 20% off sale stickers on almost every book I’ve bought from target.
Everything written by Ali Hazelwood gives me the ick. Her entire writing of the character Bee from Love on the Brain? I rolled my eyes so much. Like at one point Bee got too excited and wrote something in German and “didn’t realize it.” ????? she isn’t German. English is her first language. BFFR.
It's hard for me to stop in the middle of a chapter. Thought I was the only one. Sometimes I have to though but for the most part I try not to.
your jumper is iconic
my toxic trait is that i love the step brother dating trope 😵💫
I also don't think it's as bad as people make it out to be. It's not like they're actually related or anything. Would we have thought it was weird if the mcs got married then their divorced parents started dating? I don't think so. It's not a favorite trope of mine by any means, but it's just kind of a quirky way of meeting one another.
I LOVE the step brother / step family trope. Credence & Eyes On Me are top tier 👌🏼🤌🏼🤤
My inner HOTD fanatic is coming out
@@jessdaniels4083 credence lives rent free in my brain and I’m okay with it 🙃
Why did I read that as Steph bohrer!?!?😂😂😂
I hate it when characters parents sell them off into marriages. For example in Neon Gods when Demeter sells Persephone to Zeus (a 60 years old man that killed his last 3 wifes) or Scarletts father in Caraval that is like "well I sold you to him so you now go to his bedroom with this men you never met before and let him r*pe you to make up for your misbehaviour". It makes me sick
Yess TSITP old cover with the actual people is just creepy but the new cover with the show and faraway shot is great (even tho I’ll never read any of the books and prob never will but I lovee the show and I cannot wait for S2 to come out soon)
9:18 honestly never thought this was possible too especially when you’re conscious and literally sober but it happened to me without realizing because there was just so much going on in my thoughts during that time and I accidentally blurted it out loud. Still so embarrassing thinking about it rn because mind you it was during a prayer while in church I’m pretty sure the ones standing next to me heard it. I don’t know how I ever recovered from that embarrassment. I never did tbh
10:40 GIRL, SAME - like Olive in the love hypothesis. I was like girl 👏 speak 👏
Lmaoooo I love ur sweater 💀💀
where did you get your hoodie because now i’m OBSESSED
My book ick is when people want book look like they were never used or brand new and then act holier than thou about it (and I’m talking about your own books not when you borrow them)
I LOVE FOLDING BOOKS AND DOG-EARRING THEM AND I LOVE WHEN I FEEL LIKE I DEVOURED THEM WHOLE OKAY
I actually bought a series it was, To All the Boys I Loved, the first two books actually had the removable stickers saying the books were movies on Netflix, I was so relieved I could actually take those stickers off.
I love videos like this because i want to be an author! It’s so helpful to know what people don’t like so I don’t add them in and nobody reads my book(s)
12:45 Yeah, they always put stickers in random place that are sometimes important. I had a couple where they actually covered up half of the synopsis....what a nightmare. Sometimes they was easy to peal, but others was gravity. I just never understood the concept
guys someone please tell me more youtubers that are like destiny! i’ve seen basically every single video and i love booktube videos but none hold a candle to the level of hers. does anyone know booktubers with the same vibe as her???
Idk if it’s the same vibe exactly but I love Sara Carrolli and Haley Pham so much! And they just give the BEST recommendations, these three are the holy trinity of booktube honestly
I post book videos and im nothing like here but you can check it out if you want. Also I like a girl called I s a b e l l a & Javell Ashanti 💕
Hi! I love watching:
Haley Pham (and Haley Pham Vlogs) (reads similar books to Destiny, is also fun of energy and joy) www.youtube.com/@haleypham and www.youtube.com/@haleyphamvlogs
Sara Carrolli (also similar video style to destiny) www.youtube.com/@SaraCarrolli
*e m m i e* (reads more classics, but also romance and fantasy. Videos are slightly on the cosier side)(try her little free library videos) www.youtube.com/@emmiereads
Alexandra Roselyn (reads more fantasy, check out her cosy fantasy book recommendation videos) www.youtube.com/@alexandraroselyn
cari can read (reads a range of books including lots of fantasy. I like hearing different book recommendations from her)www.youtube.com/@caricanread
Rachel Catherine (Australian, similar reading taste to Destiny. Also makes vlogs) www.youtube.com/@RachelCatherine
Forgot to mention:
Jack Edwards (he reads quite different books to the above, more literary fiction I'd say. His videos are always funny though and it's fun hearing different perspectives on popular books) He has two channels
- Jack Edwards www.youtube.com/@jack_edwards
- Jack in the Books (more informal type videos) www.youtube.com/@jack_in_the_books
Other honourable mentions
Daniel Greene - Daniel puts out fantasy news videos, they are slightly more high / adult fantasy focused, but also very fun to watch. I found him through his paperbacks vs hardbacks video (czcams.com/video/WzfIoeFG_rI/video.html) and continued watching due to his bookshelf roast videos (e.g. czcams.com/video/XpAaH87yBcQ/video.html)
Carolyn Marie Reads - Carolyn reads slightly different books than Destiny, more classics and literary. She makes lovely relaxing videos and also sells author portraits.
@@Regpeg12 Yess!! I love Haley Pham and Sara Carrolli and along with those there are JustAli,Steph Bohrer and The Book Leo who are also amazing.
Loving the video!
could you do a video reviewing the throne of glass books? i’m about halfway through the series and i’m obsessed!
It had never ever occurred to me to take the booksleeve off of a hardback book until I joined booktok 😅😅 like apparently that’s a thing people do??
I dislike how many books end in proposals or have epilogues where they get married. Not every relationship ends in marriage and not every story needs that epilogue. I don't know I get a little annoyed at it to the point where I won't read the epilogue so I won't ruin the book for myself
She should try the way of breaking in paperbacks where you take a section from each side till you get to the middle.
Take a shot every time she says literally... love you so much, I just can't stand that word!
8:07 “I thought we left that in the WattPad days.” Omg she’s sooo funny
i love cracking the spine of my books it gives me idk it makes them look like their read and loved
I live for your different Marvel sweatshirts 😂
It's a hot take that contemporary books aren't enemies to lovers but I ABSOLUTELY AGREE
I absolutely hate the miscommunication trope
One of my biggest icks is the groundhog day type troupe where the same day is repeated multiple times. I feel like we get screwed on a full book because you have a beginning, the same middle 3 times and then an end. I just HATE it and refuse to read them.
The long chapters one omg I thought 20-30 pages was long for chapters but then I read the Miss Peregrine's books. Tell me why one of the chapters was 70+ pages long 😭😭 when I tell you I was so close to putting the book down and just sitting in silence