30'S AND THE [NY] CITY: small apartment changes, apartment issue update, spending time with friends
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In this nyc vlog, we start with a girls night out, set up temporary mesh screens, eat delicious indian food and spend time with friends, make new friends, talk about limiting beliefs, vlogging camera fiascos, small nyc apartment updates and talk about mold and cockroach situation
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Welcome to MY 30'S and THE CITY series :) Do you guys like the new series name? 💖
Love it! 🎉🎉
@@IleanHarris YAYAY 🙏🏽
I would start looking for a new place and move if you find one of course keeping all the documentation and demanding in writing a resolution or letting you out of the lease. That way if they try and go after you once your gone you have all your proof in order. No freakin way would I live like that.
Yassss! Love it 🎉
@@brooklynwilliams8650 yay thank you ❤
Tisha, please don't get rid of your beautiful gold floor lamp. It looks so lovely with your couch. xo
Hey Laura, thank you ♥️. I am going to do my best to keep it. When I was selling all my furniture via FB marketplace (before the move), I didn’t list the floor lamp. I love it so much!
Hi, Tisha... new subscriber.. : ) About your apartment updates - - I think your apartment will feel cozy with an area rug in the living room - - this would also give a focus & distinction between the kitchen & the living room : ) Also, agreed, a slightly different lay out would look good in the living room - - right now, it looks a little like a big square with everything pushed against the wall. So, possibly an area rug, different furniture placement & some pictures or simple art work on the walls would add a nice touch to your living room.
What do you think? : ) : )
Oh, also, I have a space saving idea for your dish rack / drying dishes!! Have you seen the hanging dish racks? They go up on the wall and the dishes drip over the sink, without taking up any counter space at all..... so, you'd just wash & let them drip dry above the sink. : )
I'd keep the floor lamp.... you could put it in the corner where there isn't much right now.... I like the ambient, warmer tones in lighting - - very calming and also helps if you get headaches.
I'm glad the bug problem is getting better! I'd be traumatized, too! I was traumatized by huge, black carpenter ants - - so, roaches would put me over the edge..... lol..... ; )........ I think there are essential oils you can spray at the baseboards that will help, too.
Your apartment looks great! Have a fun weekend..... : ) P.S. Yes, the new name is cute!
Hi Ann, Welcome to the family!! I remember seeing your comments in the moving vlogs 🥰❤.
Apartment updates: Yes!! area rug is a must. Since I couldn't figure out the layout, I wasn't sure how big of an area rug I should get. I will eventually start looking for artworks too. I agree with you on all the three points :)). Right now it just looks like a big square.
Dish rack/drying dishes: Initially I bought the hanging on from Amazon but had to return it. When I used the stud finder, it didnt work out (both kitchen sink wall and the one opposite to the fridge).
Floor lamp: I love the lamp. Hoping it work outs with whatever the new layout 🤞
Bug problem: I am scarred for life 😅
Thank you so so much!! I hope you have a lovely weekend.
YAYYY!!! I am so happy you love the name :)
Consider breaking your lease for a pest free apartment. They failed to provide a clean apartment.
Thank you for your suggestions. My sister was recommending the same as well. I have decided to send an email with all the photos/videos and list all the issues. I am planning to ask for a rent reduction. If the issue continues, I will definitely consider breaking my lease.
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I would have loved a friend like you 😊💐
So nice you say that some Friday’s are spent at home - I sign off at 5pm Friday and flop on the couch with takeaway often too and that’s perfectly ok. Life is what makes you feel at peace ❤
Love your perspective!! best kind of friday nights ❤. I think these kind of night ins are important to avoid burn outs.
The floor lamp is so unusual and unique.
TL; dr: Ive had a cockroach problem, maybe check your sinks?
My old apartment building had a cockroach problem. It was one of those luxury buildings where I didn’t expect for this to be an issue. I only saw like 5 (on my stuff, there was others the exterminator caught) total during the 15 month lease. Mind you, I naturally try to keep everything clean and food properly stored because I have had ants in the past. Once I saw that first cockroach I went overboard on cleaning and organizing. Often people blame the tenant and say they must have a pest issue because they are not clean. The problem seemed to persist with other units. On the last day at that apartment when I was doing a final walkthrough, a cockroach came out of the kitchen sink. I was so glad I was leaving because the rent was too high for a luxury building that seemed to have a pest problem. And the problem seemed to be coming from the kitchen sink.
I’m so so sorry you had to go thru the experience. Rental prices are crazy and at the same time apartments do not meet the same standards. It’s so easy to blame the tenants. I have been very vigilant with keeping the apartment clean. I had received comments in the previous video about the drains. I bought drain covers for my shower and kitchen sink. Did you use sink cover in your old apartment? Thank you so much for sharing your experience and suggestion 🙏🏽💗
I loved your vlog! The night city shots make me want to move to NYC. My apartment gets messy during the week, too, no matter how much I try to tidy it.
Thank you Judy 💗. During weekdays, it’s so hard to keep it together
Good idea for a different layout
Right!!!! it just feels very furniture heavy. Still haven’t decided on the new layout 💗
My Boston studio had roaches no matter how clean I was - city apartments very common; constant battle. Some newer buildings are sealed better.
I guess it’s all part of the experience 😬
I love your vlogs so much! Idk why but they give me so much comfort almost as if I’m catching up with a friend😂
Thank you so much for such a nice comment 🥹. I love catching up with you guys 💗
When I lived in the Bronx I also had a roach problem. What helped was not opening up the windows. Because of how the buildings are close to each other, you could be getting roaches that come from someone else’s apt.
That was one the main reasons why I wanted to install temporary mesh screens. Hopefully it helps with keeping away roaches, rats (I live on the first floor and it’s street facing) and ventilation 🤞🏽. Thank you Nilka 💗
I love your vlogs. You live in NYC so lots to interest people.
Thank you 💗
I liked your video today. It was nice to see different areas of the city. You are doing a great job of taking care of yourself and your needs!!Thank you for sharing!!
Thank you so much for watching and your kind words ♥
You need a rug for the living room and try putting your island under the window not in the walk area
I am planning to buy the rug but since I wasn’t happy with the layout I haven’t yet. Didn’t think about placing the kitchen island against the window. That’s such a great idea. I am going to try it. Thank you 🙏🏽
@@TishaShrestha best wishes girl🥰
Thank you and you too ♥️
@@TishaShrestha The rug will help you decide on the layout. Looks like a pretty small space so you probably wouldn't go for larger than 5 x 8. Use masking tape to get a visual for rug size.
@@thoughts3897 carpet size is what I am struggling with. Thank you so much for the suggestion 🙏🏽
Those screens were a clever idea, I love having fresh air in my apartment when the weather permits. I do think you're trying different placement for the furniture is a good idea. Hope you keep the lamp, looks great in there.
I really needed to ventilate the apartment properly. So happy that the mesh screens worked out. I do think I need to replace the mesh in few months. It is not that sturdy. Yeah the current setup is just not it. I love that floor lamp. Someone wanted to buy it when i was selling all my furniture but I held on to it. Hopefully it will work with the new apartment 🤞
@@TishaShrestha Hope you have a great weekend. Mine is supposed to be 2 days of rain 🌧 and snow ❄️ after a week in the 80s. Crazy.
@@bonniepwtf Thank you Bonnie ❤ It is a a beautiful day today. I havent checked for tomorrow yet. That is crazy!! While you stay indoors, I hope you get time to rest and relax.
@@TishaShrestha I always wondered why so many NYC apartments do not have screens on their windows. That is really standard everywhere else --in US anyway.
@@thoughts3897 Not sure why...my apartment in Jersey also didnt have the mesh screens.
Hi Tisha, I started following you when you moved, I really love your vlogs, they are authentic! Glad there are less and less pest. Have a lovely weekend 💕
Hi Danielle, Thank you so much!! So glad you found me :). I hope you have a lovely weekend 💘
Thank you for sharing your reality with us, it's so refreshing😊
Thank you Rachael ❤
Really enjoyed the vlog Tisha - it’s an honest look at your life. Love seeing snippets of the city and the nightlife too❣️
Thank you so so much Tina ❤
I love your videos!!!
Thank you so much Rosè 💗
Happy to see you thriving sis❤
Thank you di! I hope you have a great vacation ❤
I LOVE YOUR OUTFIT TISHA 💕💕💕💕 the new series name is awesome! 🔥🔥🔥
THANK YOUUUUU 💗💗💗💗💗
Use the shoe rack for your tv when you put dresser in your room
Initially I was thinking to do that but it won’t be able to withstand the TV weight
Your baby is the cutest ever!
Thank you 🐶🐶🐶
Thanks for posting the songs! I love the Tiana Kocher song ☺️ another great vlog!
Yayyy!! So happy you enjoyed the music 🎶 🎵
I’m definitely enjoying your content. Keep your head up. You’re doing the best you can given the situation. Do not let your apartment management get out of doing what they need to do. I love Jhaape. He’s such a cutie. Hopefully I spelled his name right.
Yes!!! you did 🐶. Yeah a lot of people have a hard time with his name.
Thank you so much Megan!! Really appreciate the support 🥺♥
With the mold and roaches I wouldn’t stay, you’re jeopardizing you and your dog good health. If you have photos, documentation to prove it Is have to find another place. You deserve better.
Thank you so so much ❤ I am sending them an email with all the photos/ videos and asking them for rent reduction. Planning to do a mold test as well. If the issues continues, I will definitely consider breaking my lease.
Looked like you had a lovely weekend. So happy to see your channel growing ❤
Been a homebody for past few weekends. It felt very good to be out and spend time with friends. Thank you so so much for being here since JC days ♥️
@@TishaShrestha I love the feeling of seeing friends, after it has been a while. Love my alone time but love being around people too! Of course, I have enjoyed the vlogs and seeing you achieve your goals.
@@ND-mi5zg Yes!!! I need a balance of both too 😊. If I have been a homebody for some time, I have to force myself to get out of it. THANK YOU ♥
I love the cherry blossoms 🌸 trees there so beautiful thanks for sharing 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸
Thank you for watching 🌸 💗
Ahh wish you weren't so hard on yourself Tisha (I'm the same though, so I get it 😅) your vlogs are never boring, your content is super relatable ❤️ also, you looked 🔥🔥🔥 in the dress you wore out for dinner!
Even though I try to consistently remind myself, it is so hard to keep it aside and move forward. Atleast I am not alone… we are in this together Laura ♥️. Thank you so much for the constant support & being her since the Jersey City days. Also, need to dress up and go out more often 😊
I enjoy these vlogs and seeing the cool things are you doing in the city. Whether that is going out or staying in. I actually prefer to stay in, helps me save money. LOL
Thank you so much 💖 I love to have a balance of both but I am definitely a home body :)))). Wouldn’t say I save money by staying in tho (all the takeout food 💸)
Hi Tisha good morning happy Saturday morning and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you
Hi Edward, Happy Weekend!!! Thank you 🙏
@Tisha Shrestha of course sending you hugs ❤️ 🤗 you enjoy your weekend
Your vlog is great, you are very engaging and I find the video is not boring because you cover different things. The lamp is gorgeous my opinion is to keep it, also I love your taste in clothing.
Thank you so much Kenna for your kind words ♥️. Really appreciate it! I really like the lamp too. It is one of the few items I kept from my previous apartment.
Love the idea of re organizing the furniture, maybe some ambient lights that can hung up will be a space saver if you get rid of the floor lamp. Also where is the black and white dress from? so cute
Love the idea of ambient lights. I kinda feel stuck with the apartment decoration right now.. maybe after I reorganize the furniture it will help. Thank you ♥️It is from Glassons. I bought it from Australia last year. I tried looking it up in US site but couldn’t find it :(. Also, how’s your move?
The advion gel with do it. Roach eats it and takes it back to nest. Eventually killing nest. Pest issue will get better
Hoping the roach saga sends soon 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽
Hi Tisha
New subscriber. I saw your video on moving to New York. I visited New Jersey and New York for the first time in December last year. Thanks for sharing your life journey in New York. 🥰
Thank you so much for being part of the journey. How was your trip? ❤️
@@TishaShrestha it was amazing!🥰 I wish I could move somewhere around the area so I could visit New York anytime. ❤️
@@TodayMyHeartDesires I hope you get to do that soon ❤
Hello from Belgium… love your vlog 👍👍👍🥳🥳🍾🍾🍾
Helllooooo 🇧🇪
Thank you so so much for watching ❤
Enjoyed this vlog just like your other vlogs. And to be honest with you seeing your life kinda makes me miss my lifestyle as a single person LOL😅
Also sad that I couldn’t make it to your night out with Chadni but hopefully soon❤
Thank you so much Siva ♥️ we missed you!!! We need to do a girls night soon.
If you treat with Advion monthly for the first 3months, you should then be able to skip a month or 2 and still be okay. My last treatment was about 6 months ago and I am still bug free! It helps if all the apartments get treated at the same time.
I remember you had recommended advion in the previous video. When the extermination came, I asked him about advion and that’s when he placed the paste. Thank you so much 🙏🏽. Extermination going to each apartment is optional. It depends on the tenant. I hope your place remains bug free forever and hoping the same for me as well 😊.
Hey Girl, I was waiting for your vlog like a little girl😂 thanks for uploading and sharing your life in NYC with us 💪🏾 Edit: I wrote the comment before watching the video, I was too exited! I don’t care if you are moving or your day to day life. Believe me your life still super interesting. I know how you feel but for outsiders your life is interesting sometimes we limit our own life as boring but is not💪🏾I life in Germany and it’s super interesting to see a beautiful woman in her 30’s who lives in New York managing her work & life☺️ it’s sad how you have to deal with the cockroach and now also mold?! That’s crazy are you getting a reducing of your rent?
Hey Cherry, Thank you so so much for the encouraging message and your perspective 😭.Next time when I upload the video, I will be eagerly waiting for your comment ❤. Wow!! Germany!!! Where do you live in Germany?
Initially I was not planning to ask for rent reduction. After their response to my email about the mold, I have decided to send them an email with all the photos and videos, list down all the issues and ask for a rent reduction.
@@TishaShrestha Definitely keep on it. I saw one of your first videos where you mentioned price of place (I don't remember exactly but it was over 2,000 wasn't it?) I get that may be "cheap" for NYC but still that is not right. Those issues should have been taken care of prior to your moving in. I am sure they must have known about some of that from previous tenants. Good luck to you!
@@thoughts3897 thank you so much 🙏🏽. The rent is 2,350. Agreed, they could have handled this before I moved in esp when the apartment was vacant for months.
I have the same monitor) nice vlog btw! 👌
Same pinch! Thank you so much 😊
don't worry, I like your way
Thank you ♥
nice vlog as always. I love the way your apartment looks. love ya! andre
Thank you Andre 💗🇨🇴
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A lot of us have had these problems with apartments. Its just part of life.
I guess it’s all part of the city experience 😊
I did not mean to sound flippant,,, I was just meaning its a struggle to find a decent apt and a decent landlord. Not all of the time but it happens more often than not. You are not alone, its a shame that this stuff happens at all.,Good luck with things and God Bless.
@@willothewispl I didn't take it that way. Thank you so muchhh😊💖
Tisha, you looked lovely on your night out. I like how intentional you are. Like I have said since the beginning about Pest. Everything needs sealed up. Lots of cities have them damn roaches. I’m happy it is getting better. I love your floor lamp. Maybe just a different kind of shade would make a huge difference in your feelings about it.
Be diligent on the management! They owe you plenty on the dirty apartment, the bugs, and not telling you about the gas bill. That was no oversight! Others lived in that apartment and if they included has to them. How was it handled with previous tenants. Enough of that. Enjoy your week and especially your weekends.
Hi Linda, thank you 💗I was so happy to finally dress up and go out with friends. I hope the roach saga ends now. I am going to do my best to keep the floor lamp. When I was selling all my furniture, someone wanted to buy it but I decided to hold on to it :). I am compiling all the videos and photos and sending it to the management and will ask for rent reduction. For gas, they had previously mentioned that they would deduct it from my rent. I hope you have a great weekend and week ahead 🤗
@@TishaShrestha I hope you get a reduction because then you will feel like you made progress.
I’m so happy you enjoyed dressing up and going out. Maybe you will do it more. Keep being you. Your videos are so nice. Keep finding your joy💕
@@warmbreeze43 thank you so so much Linda ❤
May I suggest a cat for doggie.........a great companion and if a bug gets in my cat kills it within the hour!My puppie and kitty are happy now and not lonely if Im out for a bit.
You are right that cats are great bug killers! if a fly so much as gets in my house the cats will get it. Of course, my house will be destroyed in the process of the cats chasing the fly. The cats always win though.
I would love to get a cat but It is such a huge responsibility to have two pets. I will definitely consider it in the future tho. Thank you for the suggestion Nancy 💗🙏🏽
@@thoughts3897 hahahaha! I will definitely it in the future. Right now I don’t think I will be able to take care of two pets. Thank you the suggestion 🙏🏽💕
Youre not boring and you've been very patient. If you asked your landlord to move you to another apartment in the building I bet they would. All of that treatment plus the infestation itself and now the black mold is super bad for your health and your pet's.
Thank you so much 🙏🏽💗. I am compiling all the issues and sending them a note requesting for rent reduction. I am planning to do a mold test on my own too. Roaches situation has improved. This could have avoided if the they had sprayed the apartment before i moved in (apartment was empty for months). If the issues persist, I am definitely going to consider breaking my lease.
I’m terribly sorry to say that shabby flat neither deserves you, nor your money.. everything is just falling apart along with the huge army of cockroaches and bugs, I hope that awful place does not give you any discomfort until you move out to a much better place in future. All the best…🙏🏻
Thank you so so much for such a sweet message 🙏🏻❤. Loved how you phrased it!! Hoping for the same (my lease is up in February 🤞).
@@TishaShrestha I would leave in February if you can--unless they do a complete overhaul.
@@thoughts3897 yeah i don’t think I will be renewing my lease here
Hello there.
I came across the channel because of the haunting. I'm from Europe and I'm interested and surprised how expensive apartments are in New York.Absolutely over the top overpriece........ But!!!
I love your blog because in general I want to know how casual people live in the city.
I have to admit that it is a lot of money for an apartment, and the problem with cockroaches ,molds can be because moisture attracts insects soooo that is really not a good sign for you. I hope you will find a solution soon, but if you don't succeed, look for better living space.
Can you file an objection to the terms and have your rent reduced further?However, all this is an additional cost and something that no one told you that you would have problems with
Heyyy! I am so happy that you enjoy the vlogs. I try my best to document my ordinary life in nyc 💗I will be sending an email to the management listing down all the issues with photos and videos and asking for a rent reduction. Thank you 🙏🏽
The cockroaches could be coming up through the drains.
After receiving comments about the drains in the previously vlogs, I bought those drain covers for the sinks. Thank you Vanessa 💕🙏🏽
@@TishaShrestha It can't hurt to try it. I got your back.😁 I hate bugs. All love