Chris Williamson Reflects On His Time On Love Island
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Chris and Saida Khan discuss the lessons Chris learned from being on Love Island. What are some of Chris's lessons from being on Love Island? What does Sadia Khan believe Reality TV shows have done for relationships? What are Sadia Khan's thoughts on the recent trans movement?
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It's all connected. This will never end until we focus on the root cause.
If I'd known you'd been on Love Island, I would probably have disregarded your content altogether. Had I done that, I would have missed all the excellent content that you have put out. I learned something there! Been following for 18 months now and loving it! Respect to you, sir, and many thanks.
The more I watch dating videos, the more thankful I am that I had the parents I had growing up. Even as a kid, I never gave these shows a second of authentic attention, or imagined that that's how dating was supposed to operate in the real world. My partner feels the same way - Even when we've briefly watched those types of shows it's always been with a sense of "This is delusional" lol.
My friend works in the psych ward at a major nyc hospital. Majority of patients are trans that wish they never did the surgery. But no one talks about that.
I am in my last year of nursing school and have started and almost finished my rotations (going to a bunch of different departments for nursing, ER, Nursing homes, Labor and delivery, etc). I also notice this as well! It got me thinking how crazy it is that this is not talked about. I have nursing friends, one a cousin who’s been a nurse for 6 years now and a friend who is also in nursing school, both In Vegas where I used to live. I asked them if they had noticed this In their rotations and to see if it’s nationwide as I work on the East coast. Cousin didn’t notice this, but she did her rotations about 7-8 years ago. But my friend who is also currently doing rotations noticed the same thing. It is crazy to see how no one is talking about this, no news coverage other than a select few in the trans community attempting to warn others of the intensely high levels of depression over surgery and the woke community.
MAJORITY of people in her hospital are trans/ ex trans????
Really?
Most psych hospitals are full with people who have psychosis and severe personality disorders.
She must work in a special trans hospital then cos that doesn't make mathematical sense to have such a small demographic of people being prioritised over people would usually take up most spaces in a psych hospital.
And yes of course a trans person can also have the disorders I mentioned.
@kahyui2486 You would think yet it's more than half of homeless people once upon a time qualified to be institutionalized. Vivek Ramaswamy talks about this.
@@kahyui2486 Yeah so I talked to my best friend today and its not technically majority that she saw, and same with me. It was probably about 20-30% of people were trans or identifying as a different gender. We kinda categorized not by specifically "trans" but really anyone who identifies as something other than male and female. But at the psych hospital she visited it was not just 20-30%, she said it was almost half of the people admitted. Again though, it wasn't technically "trans", we just grouped the self identifiers together.
Jordan Peterson is trying to draw attention to that side of the trans journey, its strange, society currently supports people who want to make that change but never advices them to really ask themselves if this is what they really really want to make that change and then to realise you made a terrible mistake has got to be horrific I mean I am sympathetic to someone born in the wrong body but to put yourself in the wrong body has got to be soul destroying.
So glad she mentioned anorexia as i think it has been memory holed by the regime. The reason is because it speaks to the paradox that this lady said so well. Nobody can imagine a medical professional speaking to an anorexic and agreeing that she is overweight and formulating a weight loss plan.
Same for alien limb syndrome. If you cut an arm of person suffering from it, that's because treatment has failed and he's succumbed completely to the disease - not an inclusive triumph of trans-handedness.
Thank you for posting this...My mrs and I love your pod & I was convinced you were on LI and she kept telling me no way no way hahah!
We need a book on dating by Chris and Sadia. Take all my money. Cheers from Spain ❤
Buen idea
No, we don't.
Sadia is such an elegant smart woman. Her outlook on life and intelligence on the psychology of people is such a great trait. Some guy is very lucky to have her.
I bet someone somewhere is sick of her.
The problem with Sadia is that you can tell she isn’t naturally that soft feminine woman she comes across as. She’s very intelligent indeed, any man who gets with her would be in for a world of hurt in the long run.
Nah, i think she is part of that promiscuous dubai culture she has mentioned before.
I mean, she lives in dubai.
Think you're idealising her mate! 😋 it's strange how things that seem appealing at the outset can become irritating in the long run
@Soetman agreed, she's admitted to being very big on values and boundary setting. I bet defending yourself in an argument with her is like trying to beat a blackbelt in karate 🤣 *picking my ego off the mat every two minutes* lmao
Very well said. Looking forward to listening through this episode.
Wow, I've never come across Saida Khan before, but she is pretty awesome: so intelligent, insightful, straightforward and compassionate. Thank you for this great interview 🙏
I like small segments like this.
Great video !✨
Very well articulated!
Yes! Fiinally! The mentally disturbed aspect of this is a question I've always had but its not PC to say it. I dont have the answers, but Ive always thought mental issues of one sort or another could play a large role. Be interesting to see what they learn.
The Alchemist man! Everyone should read it.
Heart goes out to anyone going through any of this either themselves or loved ones. Must be incredibly difficult.
I swear I have seen a clip from a dating show where the guy contestants were more emotional about leaving bros behind then the women/women.
sadia is great to listen to. really smart and insightful ideas
Dont simp...
@@augustodelerme7233it’s okay to recognize a woman’s talents dude. Hope you get over that red pill rage
Regarding the trans section, I ended up making a video on this as I was curious how they engage people on dating apps. What it showed was that some trans women will purposely use predominantly straight apps in order to see if they can garner the interest of hetero men. As one account showed, the person spoke with a potential partner for months prior to informing them that they were trans in the hopes that with time, they would be able to look past this. So, essentially there is a validation aspect to this and they inevitably have to compete with women for partners.
She smashed that answer to the trans-tv show question
Really good discourse in this segment.
For some reason, I watched Love Island for the first time 2 days ago and saw you. I was shocked. Let's just say I don't have a high opinion of those on those shows so not surprised you didn't fit in. Good for you lol.
nice topic po👍
Y’all knew he was on love island? I had no idea I just thought his conversations were intriguing lmao
The first season he was on and the difference in the first few seasons to now is distract. It definitely wouldn’t get aired today with how it was presented. Just watch the first episode to see what I mean lol
That feeling when you look at a woman and think that because she's super hot she's possibly not super smart and then she starts talking and you're like "Well that shut me up" 😳
TRUTH! Game playing gets people nowhere
Chris, where can I get that shirt??
She's incredibly smart & beautiful. I love her.
If people want to transition then it should be when they are a legal adult which in the UK is 18. Hopefully they would have saved up the money to pay for it as well.
Why would anyone take this so-called "reality" show.. seriously?
The same people who think life is a reality tv show. We are living amongst people in the Truman Show
God, this woman has such an incredible aura. She is radiating femininity, intelligence and confidence.
She is like a glowing piece of steel in a forge. You cannot pick it up with bare hands. I wonder, if there is someone who can handle her.
and simp of the year goes to...
@@unitc87😂
'I wonder, if there is someone who can handle her'. Yeah, not you lol
Second paragraph was not needed homie 😂
The experience made his hair straight.
Chris needs to date his video guy 😂😂😂 bless the video guy 😂
You were on Love Island? Now I gotta start watching it|! :p
Saida is referring to Dr John Money and the child was David Reimer (who committed suicide, as did the twin). People should read into this, it's a lot more disturbing that made out here. Money is also the person who is attributed with the notion of gender being a social construct and learned.
The prize should be cats
She is brilliant man!
Didnt even know Chris was on Love island
Friend's nephew was raised as a girl for last 5 years. Now that they have hit puberty. There are massive psychological issues. Their relationship with their mother is horrendous. My friend thinks her nephew is just gay. Is worried what damage the years of encouragement to be a "girl" has done.
Vanity Island
“For many decades we’ve been told gender is a social construct”
- “We’ve only been told that for one decade I think 🤣”
Who says gender identity is totally a social construct? Why wouldn't a person want their psychical biology/body to match how they view themselves or are most comfortable?
The "gender is a social construct" was a third wave feminist trope. It said that all female and male personality differences were caused not by biology but by societies treatment differences of male and female.
@12:22 " the whole idea of playing with people's gender". Also, the whole [arguably horrific?] idea of circumcision !!!!!!!!!
The Alchemist 🧡🧡🧡
Mafs is such a cringe worthy show you can't help not look away. The 3 councillors are constantly failing in couple selection i think 3 monkeys would do better.
I love the comment sadia made... If you can identify as any gender then why transition.
I don't know about this guy. I am a 45 year old woman and I don't really trust Chris. I have watched several of his podcasts and the one with Rich Roll pretty much solidified it for me. Keep doing what you are doing as I believe you have a strong following, but I'm going to choose to watch/listen to others.
What makes you not trust him?
Yes please explain
Gut feeling, that's all.
I stopped following regularly when Chris was on some dude’s podcast yapping about “piss off your audience to get rid of the cancer”….. in regards the “stoicism” guy who had serious TDS and was having COVID vaccines meltdowns…. All which aged poorly….. also everytime Chris had videos about “confidence” and comments would say “well you are hot, so society tends to be more accommodating”….. he’ll get pissy and post “this podcast is not for you” responses….. heck I rode the “attractive” wave for years!…. Also he treats “shifting priorities” as you age as some groundbreaking hidden knowledge….. Abs calls it “manopause”…… I don’t know…. I Can read Eastern philosophies, Marcus Aurelius Meditarions or the book or Eclesiastés and get the same “advise”….. but that’s just me…..
i absolutely aggree with you, i only see a vacuous man with no real life expirience always virtue signaling and showing off his basic bias, not a true man of intellect
There's no we lady. There's only women in this matter.
They wanted to be free and independent, and this is how they use it...
The story of the boy with the burnt penis is not a valid argument against trans. The boy was not trans nor did he identify as trans. If anything this should only prove that you can’t just raise a kid whatever gender and they will identify that way. It’s much deeper than that and many trans people know at an early age. I was six when I understood I did not associate with my assigned gender. I talked about it even younger but I don’t remember that far back. I’m also intersex, like many of my trans brothers and sisters. Oh and I’m not autistic, though that is interesting statistics.
You can't get rid of autism, it's not curable, it's who people are. The fact that a significant number of autistic people also struggle with gender identity, does not mean that autism is something to be got rid of. What people need is help with understanding who and what they are, and how to live and function within a society and culture which seems alien to them.
And this manosphere outrage does not help at all, its just so cowardly to attack people who are already in such a hard situation
Many people I know who are Autistic see gender as an abstract concept. It's a bit like metaphors and sarcasm, they just don't get the meaning of it. They are, for all intents and purposes, androgynous, so I can understand why they may end up confused about their gender identity❤️
You need a bigger table mate 😉
😂
Be careful with the word psychological DEFECT
5:08 u missed out the only important part which is the man the trans bird married claimed he was pansexual. Pansexual means open to dating trans people.
I mean thats literally why we have sexuality labels. 😂 if u dont wanna date trans just say youre bisexual.
sounds like high school :)
Her upper lip doesn't move
Always wondered who he is. Shame he shaves his hair off - looks better with just a bit more of it IMHO.
Makes sense to me. My whole life it's made sense. In love it's all garbage now. From everyone. Which I think should be supported. We need more of it. Good. They deserve it. Hopefully people won't ever learn. I actively support more people doing garbage crap in there relationships. Why not! Don't believe in values or goodness. No. Don't. Always take. It's beautiful really. Hopefully it's what people want for the next few decades. I'm excited
8:59 Someone living with autism is not mentally disturbed. Living with autism is an individual difference
Autism, unlike gender, is a spectrum, and it's a neurodevelopmental disorder that can have virtually no impact on someone's day to day activities to having them be entirely reliant on caregivers for the rest of their life. You could argue that for many people on that spectrum they are mentally disturbed as a result of their disorder. Having trouble communicating with others and picking up on social cues from an early age (i.e., alexithymia, dysprosody, nonverbal communication, pathological demand avoidance, etc.) is a pretty good way for many kids (and consequentially adults) to feel disconnected and agitated, and these are some of the most common symptoms of people diagnosed with ASD.
Yup, another case of normies without personal or clinical knowledge making broad statements. And before someone butts in: Sadia is a psychodynamic psychotherapist, so there may not even be a minimum of clinical knowledge - zero knowledge about autism.
Bloody hell thanks for highlighting that he's completely got that one wrong there. Having autism isn't a mental illness to be "treated" its just a differing brain chemistry which impairs some people more than others. I can't explain the difference very well myself but it's not a mental illness.
When I watched it I got the impression Chris was too intelligent to be on a trash show like Love Island.
He did say how he didn't feel like he belonged and was trying to play a role of someone else
Has nothing to do with intelligence and everything to do with ego.
Also I wouldn't say Chris is necessarily intelligent. I'd describe him as intellectually curious. (Same as me)
Intelligent people usually have something to show for their intelligence. Like an actual skill or some knowledge that is hard for others to gain.
I'd assume he's IQ is slightly above average but not up there with the high scores. Around 115-120.
@@kahyui2486 just to clarify, he came across as intelligent compared to the knuckle draggers he was along side.
Yeah…. I sort of stopped following on a regular basis when he started yapping things I’ve read on “ancient philosophy” books or just life experiences and treated as some “hidden knowledge”….. also the “I didn’t belong there” comes across as a manufactured CZcamsr persona….
@@alejandromolinac just a grifter simple as that
Do not take lessons from a woman who did this to her face
this whole world is foreign to me
This woman is so stunning i can't hear the words
Dont simp...
What? You hear vine booms when she talking or what?
Agreed. Listen to the audio and focus on something else.
Simp comment.
"we". No, men are not doing this save few exceptions
You should let your mop of curly hair grow out.
A lot of this is asinine to even speak about or consider…
6:00 do ur homework. The guy identified as pansexual. Same way u identify as hetrosexual.
So blame the guy for changing his mind. Not really the trans birds fault. I felt sorry for her eventhough she is highly annoying and dim. His choices isnt her responsibilities.
If you dont wanna date trans people then dont say youre pansexual. Its not rocket science is it 😂.
Have mo idea why youre blaming the trans bird. Is her head messed up? Sure. But have u seen the bloke? He is full of botox and has been on multiple reality shows. Blame him fot being confused with his sexualitiy.
This man really isn’t very bright….
I like your content, but your language around neurodivergence needs educating. “Getting rid of the autism” - that’s a sentence that should not come out of the mouth of a man with your level of curiosity and quest for knowledge.
Sadie is fantastic, until the moment she rolls over for Andrew Tate. Huge disconnect.
This honestly sums up some of my biggest pet peeves with niche expert podcasts. I'm sure Nadia is a cracking relationship psychologist so her initial insights are useful. It's dangerous to then pair that with her trans takes because she clearly knows fuck all about psychiatry and neurology.
How is anything she said regarding that topic wrong? I think she managed to be very inoffensive if not passive in what she said. There are many psychologists and psychiatrists who would agree with her assessment that "being trans" is heavily correlated with personality and anxiety disorders, similar with how eating disorders express themselves. Affirmation models of care help no one except the doctor's pockets. People who identify as trans deserve proper medical care, which means thorough psych evaluations to determine where their mind-body disconnect stems from and addressing that, not just telling them that whatever is in their head is the truth and the outside world is a lie and then prescribing HRT.
@@MB-yl9hm
1. Her point about differing traumas making trans women not women is silly. If a biological woman has suffered a severe SA and therefore has a different experience from the majority of women that have not experienced this is she no longer a woman?
2. While it is well documented that there are a lot of psychiatric co-morbidities that does not make these links causal. I could make the same argument that actually untreated gender dysphoria could be causing these co-morbidities and this is in fact the stance that the majority of the medical community takes.
3. Her story about the boy being a raised a girl and then committing suicide later can clearly be argued as a case for early transition, not against. If the boy has been allowed to live the way he identified from the beginning (as a boy) he would not have experienced the trauma she describes from him living as a girl.
That's all I can bothered with just now but there's plenty more gaps and flaws.
@@ciarangallaghercg I'd say that the point about "differing traumas" boils down to the fact that "trans women" can only ever be men.
A woman cannot be a "trans woman" in the same way a "trans woman" can never be a woman in any meaningful sense....
@@nickbarber2080 if this is an argument that you think not living as a female for your formative years means you can't be female then the solution to that would surely be earlier transition for children to prevent this happening? I assume that's not what you're wanting.
I therefore feel I have to assume you mean that genetics equal gender. This is clearly not the case as is heavily shown in the Thai population and Güevedoce among others.
@@ciarangallaghercg Nonsense.That bears no relation to what I wrote.
How many people born as women have gone on to become "trans women"?
Not so many.
In fact it's sort-of axiomatic...hence the need for the qualifier "trans"
Being female is inextricably linked to being a woman...ie being born as a woman.
You cannot "live as female" without actually being a woman.
There are intriguing reasons why some men think that they may be women,which are touched upon in the video.
But exploration of the causal links is made impossible by those who just chant mantras and stifle debate of this life-or-death topic.
Everything she said is utter nonsense. Nobody who is free of learning disabilities is taking relationship cues from game shows.
It’s subconscious… but I understand your point. Smart people aren’t.
You don't understand how the subconscious and marketing & propaganda works. You think your ideas and culture are all by natural design but in many instances we are psychologically herded.
This is what the youth are watching
They are but no anymore so than Amy other TV.
Personally I picked up relationship cues from soap operas 😂😂😂.
Honestly when I was a kid I always thought I'd fall out with someone then we would have rough make up sex like phill Mitchell and Sharon.
Doesn't work
Any*
"The liberals." Sadia lost me there. Heard nothing enlightening, and I'm a pretty average "older" but open white guy.
I've known a couple of trans men to women, and I didn't know until later. No problem with them. I was a professional friend with one, who I invited to my place for an "orphans" Thanksgiving dinner with about 20 people. But, I have no sexual attraction to trans people. Could never do that.
In fact, I stopped dating almost 10 years ago. Another story for another time.
Chris please stop tackling some topics in a way that is laced with misogyny. Have you seen your comment sections on half your videos? The titles you choose to use on some videos? I can see that you can do good, don't be scared to
@stopdragginaround Are you joking or do you really believe this woke nonsense you're spouting?
Ok, how is this title misogynistic?
Also, these podcasts are meant for men to learn about traditional roles and modern lifestyle. The podcast is built around men who will actually consume it.
You can't beg a brand for them to change their publicity to fit a target which isn't their market.
Same here.
@mikel2976 his content in general, sorry if that was confusing this just popped up so I shared my feelings. Making generalisations about women isn't going to help men much, unless you don't care for empathy and equality, in which case go forth my son
@cn240studios5 actually I believe in understanding and empathy, not generalising and treating everyone as an individual worthy of equal treatment. Good luck to you my guy, hope your life is full of love and happiness !
@stopdragginaround but you're generalising Chris' content so you're no different. Practice what you preach.
people have confused consuming love stories with love games and they view them the same and it is very harmful