Advice for Black Women Who Want To Be Free & Happy | 8 Things to Ditch So You Can Live a Rich Life

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  • Advice for Black Women Who Want To Be Free & Happy | 8 Things to Ditch So You Can Live a Rich Life
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Komentáře • 96

  • @dee_archives
    @dee_archives Před 3 měsíci +12

    "Income is what you earn, but net worth is what you keep." I like that too! Thanks for sharing.

  • @guinealove3744
    @guinealove3744 Před 3 měsíci +22

    I agree! Bought my townhouse in Europe years ago. I've been doing budget traveling for about 30 years or so. Ladies, life be lifing! Live it to the fullest. My end goal is to enjoy life between the US and Europe with friends. I personally think when you see a sister or sister's traveling abroad, give them a Dave Chappelle thumbs up! It's a mark of growth. Cheers!!

    • @KellindaNichole
      @KellindaNichole Před 3 měsíci +2

      I have to really look into budget traveling. I want to travel so bad…actually I NEED to travel…my soul has been like girl what are you doing lol

    • @guinealove3744
      @guinealove3744 Před 3 měsíci +2

      @@KellindaNichole JUST DO IT!! But always within budget. Plan (ahead) where you want to go, set a budget and watch the airline scales/trends for pricing. Book flight/hotel on credit card. Pay credit card before travel. The last thing I wanna come back to is a huge bill after a wonderful time away. Just do it! Life is really precious. Always remember never go above your means. It sets you up for failure. Good luck and go forth. Your soul knows what you need!!!! lol

  • @LisaSoulLevelHealing
    @LisaSoulLevelHealing Před 3 měsíci +13

    Im selling my home and started getting comfortable where I was at....Needed this freedom pep talk! Also, I love what you said about needing . more. Im like....even if im moving to europe, most cities have a 30%-50% lower cost of living....why do you think you need MORE???? lolololol. Trust me, as americans, i am starting 2 new businesses in the country im trying to relocate to..TWO! We know how to make money.

  • @awatsonista
    @awatsonista Před 3 měsíci +7

    Amen for outsourcing what you don't enjoy doing in your home. 33:10

  • @winnieb1352
    @winnieb1352 Před 3 měsíci +8

    Hey Adalia, watched the replay, I am so glad you produced this video. I can see how all eight ideas have kept me from living my best life. I am in the latter third of my life (early sixties) and just now realizing what I want to do when I grow up! 😁I realize I no longer find joy in home ownership (too expensive), I am tired of working, (the department manager thinks ending emails saying failure to comply will result in disciplinary action is an actual threat to me), and I want to travel before my sight or hearing is all but gone (experiencing swirlies in my right eye). Fear is no longer a paralyzer, it's a motivator. Thank you for this video.💚🤍❤, ❤🖤💚

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Před 3 měsíci +1

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @MsEssance
      @MsEssance Před 3 měsíci +1

      Good for you for taking a leap of faith, I am in my early 30s and I am learning this Now!! ❤ May God continue to bless your steps; and mines as well on this journey 😂

  • @FindYourFree
    @FindYourFree Před 3 měsíci +4

    Loved this. I was never a hard worker so I couldn't go corporate as a new graduate. I freelanced for 20 something years and when I became a mom I freelanced virtually so I could live and travel globally with them. It has been very rewarding. Ironically, I work in corporate now but do it my way.

  • @Jojolana
    @Jojolana Před 3 měsíci +2

    29 years old here. I hear you and I thank you for saying these things! ❤

  • @CoachDonnaMarie
    @CoachDonnaMarie Před 3 měsíci +7

    During peak season on my job, I was exhausted every day, but I "felt" fulfilled afterwards. And then when work slowed, I felt lost as if something was missing. And I started to question that... I don't think it's healthy for me to feel more fulfilled when I am exhausted. So glad you pointed this out... I am working on shifting my mindset in this area.

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Před 3 měsíci +3

      We've got to reorient ourselves to get clear on what is good for us

    • @CoachDonnaMarie
      @CoachDonnaMarie Před 3 měsíci

      @@AdaliaAborisade Absolutely working on that... clarity and balance is everything for me... i don't want to buy into the lies that capitalism grooms us to accept

  • @Jess-A
    @Jess-A Před 3 měsíci +6

    Free Spirit-Where the wind blows.

  • @jeweladiele4664
    @jeweladiele4664 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Yes mam. As a teacher, the children pulling at your heart strings. #9 Taking work home and calling parents after work, OMG.
    PS I finally get to meet you after hearing Stephanie Perry speak of you all the time. And don't forget what my grandma says "an idle mind is the devil's workshop". " "Cleanliness is next to Godliness".
    Get up on Saturday and clean up and youcan take a nap later...no more my dears.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @awatsonista
    @awatsonista Před 3 měsíci +4

    That may be why it took me so long to adjust to retirement: I was SO accustomed to working hard. 10:58

  • @natinaharris8381
    @natinaharris8381 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Great video! 👍🏽❤

  • @actionvj
    @actionvj Před 3 měsíci +4

    “8 things” but SO many gems. Another great vlog. 💎

  • @leslynmoore
    @leslynmoore Před 3 měsíci +1

    Crapola, I missed this live!!

  • @dianeheidelberg3791
    @dianeheidelberg3791 Před 3 měsíci +5

    I need to check my notifications watching replay

  • @MsArtelia
    @MsArtelia Před měsícem

    Thank you so much

  • @janep.5165
    @janep.5165 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Lol, I'm the fun AuntyJ with 100 nieces and nephews... I learned from babysitting that I was not cut out to be a mom. God bless you for having two. I'm sooo not working anymore and planning to buy a condo in the Caribbean a.s.a.p. Sea to ocean is the way I'm retiring!!!😅 Love your content and sharing ❤️ 💕 🎉

  • @denisechilds2391
    @denisechilds2391 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Good morning Beautiful Adaila, watching replay 😊

  • @evelyngolden2272
    @evelyngolden2272 Před 3 měsíci

    Watching the replay.

  • @professlch6347
    @professlch6347 Před 3 měsíci

    #TeamReplay Needed this. Thank you.

  • @rosina2131
    @rosina2131 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Adalia does it again! Great points in this video.

  • @valeriefrager8491
    @valeriefrager8491 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for your words of wisdom your channel is always on point 🌼

  • @beyondthesunpodcast
    @beyondthesunpodcast Před 3 měsíci +2

    Adalia! This livestream was 🔥🔥🔥!

  • @brendadireen382
    @brendadireen382 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I am finding my support people in Panama via a few frugal but living a beautiful life people on Panamanian Facebook groups! Through them I’m being invited to what’s app groups as I prepare to move out of the U.S.

  • @unbelievableyou2451
    @unbelievableyou2451 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thank you. I enjoyed this topic. ❤

  • @metabolic_maven
    @metabolic_maven Před 3 měsíci

    Naps are so needed💤 #TeamRepaly

  • @Hello_Pri
    @Hello_Pri Před 3 měsíci +2

    Great conversation, as always. Thank you!

  • @marciamccaskill9646
    @marciamccaskill9646 Před 3 měsíci

    Hey Adalia…watched replay…thanks!😊

  • @Ali4Begginers
    @Ali4Begginers Před 3 měsíci +1

    Great content

  • @TracyUnplugged
    @TracyUnplugged Před 3 měsíci +1

    When I first saw You and Ivanka’s energy, I thought..,WOW, they would be Great roommates! I Love that for you ladies! ❤❤❤

  • @mymotivation2740
    @mymotivation2740 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Yes, that teacher tired gets down in your bones! 🦴

  • @sfedrickbridges
    @sfedrickbridges Před 3 měsíci +1

    Great tips, will be putting in practice.

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Excellent! 🙌🏾

    • @IamRaine
      @IamRaine Před 3 měsíci

      Catching the replay. Extremely helpful advice. I had been thinking about all of the things you spoke on. I'm retired and want to travel full time, open to living abroad. Thanks for sharing! 🙏🏼❤

  • @cheryldurham6021
    @cheryldurham6021 Před 3 měsíci

    #Replay. Excellent topic. Mindsets can cripple or deliver.

  • @jessaca
    @jessaca Před 3 měsíci +2

    I’m sending this to my 20yr old daughter. Great information.

  • @akiag4678
    @akiag4678 Před 3 měsíci +1

    youthful beautiful brave, i see Myself in You. Amen, ty.

  • @KellindaNichole
    @KellindaNichole Před 3 měsíci +2

    Absolutely love this video!! And right on time as I pivot and shift in life.. you hit some major points in my life especially about hustle culture,purpose and more!
    Definitely a new subscriber…I know this was divine because this is my first time ever hearing of you lol
    Look at Godt lol lol

  • @katrinamichelle8373
    @katrinamichelle8373 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Greetings from Replayland!

  • @jamettajohnson6172
    @jamettajohnson6172 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hi Adalia👋🏾Watching from the future.

  • @Nacole_Lashoun
    @Nacole_Lashoun Před 3 měsíci +4

    ❤❤❤I loved this! Yes, defining what your rich life looks like is essential! Thanks @Adalia!

  • @gigiburke154
    @gigiburke154 Před 3 měsíci

    I am here to enjoy my life. That's my "purpose." Thank you for for doing this video.

  • @leticiatorres3370
    @leticiatorres3370 Před měsícem +1

    I am Latina and follow you! Thanks to you as well as Rachida Dowe! After watching both of your videos I’ve decided to make my move sooner! Thank you!!!! The Calvinistist culture was been engrained in us.

  • @dianeheidelberg3791
    @dianeheidelberg3791 Před 3 měsíci

    Buenas Noches!!

  • @awatsonista
    @awatsonista Před 3 měsíci +1

    Yes for the sleep mask! I think everyone needs one! 34:50

  • @MidLifeMamaInMotion
    @MidLifeMamaInMotion Před 3 měsíci +2

    Great words of wisdom! Good to listen to this today. ... I've definitely been feeling tired of "the hustle". Due to a recent accident I've been forced to slow down and reevaluate a bit! Recovery is taking a moment ... Shifts are happening ! 🙂

  • @gspia
    @gspia Před 3 měsíci

    These 8 mindset shifts are EVERYTHING! Thank you for saying them. Thank for being an example of them! Thank you for reminding us, informing us, enlightening us and bringing this discussion forward. It is absolutely inspiring.
    I will continue to work on my healing, especially letting go of these capitalistic narratives.

  • @Rawandspicyjamaican
    @Rawandspicyjamaican Před 3 měsíci +4

    So true I'm trying to do that but I think I married someone who rather be here in the u.s than stay right in Jamaica where I see so much potential in Jamaica where we can live better than right here in the u.s I've live here in the U.S long enough to know it's not for me but I should've check out this man first before I signed and sealed 😢😢😢😢😢

    • @angelabarrett-brown3007
      @angelabarrett-brown3007 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Can you compromise with shared time in both spaces…

    • @Rawandspicyjamaican
      @Rawandspicyjamaican Před 3 měsíci

      @@angelabarrett-brown3007 yes this why I'm willing to do his paperwork so he can come he's not seeing what I'm seeing both look at things in a different way I'm looking at things living here for 38 years he's looking at living in Jamaica for 55 years I came to America when I was a teenager 15 years old to be exact to now I'm 54 so I know the evil from being trapped here for all those years but because he only ever use to come and go so when he use to work the little pocket change he made here he would take it back home and do so much with it not understanding that living here and just visiting is two totally different things.

    • @Rawandspicyjamaican
      @Rawandspicyjamaican Před 3 měsíci

      @@angelabarrett-brown3007 I look at all the rich resources he have there just on his piece of land alone how that right there can be used for his wealth I don't think he actually knows 💯 percent what he have and acquired since he was 19 year old to now he's 55 he really can't think outside working for someone for the rest of his life when I am beyond that right now was looking for someone I could partner with to come out this beast systems.

    • @AdaliaAborisade
      @AdaliaAborisade  Před 3 měsíci +2

      I know exactly what you mean. Did you catch my interview with Mary? If not, you should. czcams.com/users/lived9xKibUyP-g

  • @awatsonista
    @awatsonista Před 3 měsíci +1

    Be intentional about that nap! 29:53

  • @aliciaogburn519
    @aliciaogburn519 Před 26 dny

    Excellent 👌👍 information ❤❤❤❤❤
    I love your channel
    You are saving lives for 😃😊
    You are awesome 👍
    I need this information
    That's all I can say it is extremely overwhelming read between the lines

  • @awatsonista
    @awatsonista Před 3 měsíci

    Hi Adalia! 3:39

  • @BeComingNyrell
    @BeComingNyrell Před měsícem

    Hey Adalia! By any chance do you know anything about the Oxford Education Training Program in Mexic?

  • @Jess-A
    @Jess-A Před 3 měsíci +3

    How did I miss you today!?

  • @mymotivation2740
    @mymotivation2740 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I like Esther Hicks, and have read her books written with Abraham. She’s big in the Law of Attraction space. Check her out.

  • @Jess-A
    @Jess-A Před 3 měsíci +2

    S.I.N.G. Say, Speak, Sing it now girl.

  • @rose4u111
    @rose4u111 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Excellent content, Adalia! I appreciate your comment regarding not keeping plans private. I have certainly shared my plans out loud, and the feedback, negative and positive, have helped me make necessary adjustments in my favor.🤗🌹

  • @VoyageHER
    @VoyageHER Před 3 měsíci +2

    🎯 🎯 🎯

  • @01akqueen
    @01akqueen Před 3 měsíci

    Hello! from the future:-}

  • @brendexxruiz
    @brendexxruiz Před 3 měsíci +1

    “I got lucky “ doesn’t empower me. Mark Cubin, billionaire, didn’t help anyone with that statement. Getting outside my comfort zone, creative thinking, letting go of my fears. I’ve hit rock bottom before, sleeping on a floor, no job, no money. Now I’m 60 years/o and feel more empowered than ever. Why? Because I can do anything I put my mind to do. Yes, It requires sacrifice. Struggles can bring creative energy in finding ways to make alternative forms of income.

  • @TracyUnplugged
    @TracyUnplugged Před 3 měsíci

    I follow Esther/Abraham Hicks HARD! You would like her, Adale. Check her out. ❤

  • @firesign4297
    @firesign4297 Před 3 měsíci

    🤗🙏🏿🤗

  • @awatsonista
    @awatsonista Před 3 měsíci

    NO INTEREST IN CHANGING! 4:06

  • @r-cdmx
    @r-cdmx Před 3 měsíci +3

    You sit in sh*t too long it stops smelling.

  • @cbcbmail1125
    @cbcbmail1125 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for this talk and the space! I’ve wanted to leave for over 20 years and I just didn’t know how to support myself. I have certain experience me only halfway through college. Remote jobs are not as abundant as they were 2020-2022. So any pointers from anyone would be greatly appreciated! Thank you so much!! 💖