Stripper interview-Meokie
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- čas přidán 1. 06. 2021
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Meokie, a stripper in Tampa, Florida.
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“Men like their wives and girlfriends natural but their strippers plastic” I felt that on a personal level 😭😩. That’s society for you.
Not me i need all organic
Nope hell nah she wanna live that lifestyle so make stupid excuses
But then she said that men tell her they like her bc she is all natural. 🤷🏻♀️ so which one is it?
Seems like that was in the minority is her point learn to read between the lines
Nobody cares about strippers
All the people saying that they're surprised that a stripper is so smart/charismatic/well-spoken are kind of part of the problem. Lots of them are, because strippers are human beings with variable personalities.
Mostly all are smart charismatic etc that's why they are strippers ppl fail to realize this
Thanks
Most are in Med, Law, and other schools... Dont knock em, cause they dont want to be Funded!! But want to make it with they Own Realities!!
Get your Strip On... If thats What's for you, your body, mentality ain't NO ONES BUSINESS!!
99% of 'Liberal,' Americans appear to envision all intelligent people are attending college, graduated & in search of employment, or, in the workforce with degrees. I look back 50 years, seeing myself as a young man & wondering what would I have thought of myself then, had I known the people of the world today. It's quite sad & simple...I would not want to grow up in such a world as this.
Millions of individuals with individual ideas, beliefs, needs, wants & wishes, merely trying to get the best out of this one life. Individuals who seem to think their definition of life, reality, right & wrong, is the 'Gospel.' This woman is doing what she has to do to get to where she wants to be...and she isn't hurting anyone.
Wicked comment Nicole.
You have to have your head on right to succeed in that industry
As another 28 year old Young Black Woman in a completely different lifestyle/life path it’s eye opening listening to her. We’re fighting the same battles in just different arenas. I really needed this.
@Dorando Cavallacci oh stfu nobody cares what fights you were in obviously she thought she relates to this woman leave it at that
@Dorando Cavallacci your comment proves the battle that this commenter was speaking about.
1. You reduce the young lady in this interview to just "a stripper"
2. What does you being a Marine and guys dying have to do with the interview or the comment.
3. I come from a military family my father did tours in Kuwait during Desert Storm. My brother did 8 tours in Iraq and Afghanistan but they still get the sexism, elitism, and racism battle that our family has faced daily in this country and the military.
4. If you come back with some flippant comment then it proves that you really didn't care to be enlightened and are just here to gaslight the original commenter and diminish the value of the interviewee.
@@markishabennett3307 wow. I love it. Not a single flippant comment was uttered ever again. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Different lifestyle??
How about another 28 yr old women.
No need for separatism. That is why the problems began..
I stripped from 19- 27 and I have zero regrets. I do not miss it. I did not make good choices as a stripper. But I also invested heavily into my mental health and healing while I was a stripper, and I am super proud of myself for that because it allowed me to do what I do now. Now I own two businesses at 29 & am living my dream of having an influential platform online where I get to help empower women.
not that I don't admire what you've accomplished, because I do, especially because you help other women and that is amazing, so your way is obviously yours for a reason. but I have a friend with the same story and same opinion, but I the stripping added up to, or followed, her sexual abuse healing journey... so in the end, I think that is a price you do pay.
Well done sis 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻
Proud of you!
Aww bless, well done !! ✨
Congrats. What's your social media?
The amount of times I see *well spoken* in these comments 😩 why do people inherently assume they’re not?
Facts
Because sexism. Because racism. That’s why you should do wtf you want because they expect less of you anyway. Move in silence and rise up on them 🤷🏾♀️
Right!
It’s like saying she’s black and she’s a sex worker so how could she possibly speak proper English? That job relies so much on being able to communicate and sell a fantasy so I’m just like of course they can talk?! I have worked in that industry-Most of the women I come across are educated or in the process of being educated or just your normal every day girls that are just trying to find a way for the most part. Even the ones that have their issues or rough backgrounds aren’t these babbling incoherent idiots. People just realize that sex sells and that they are attractive/have a nice body and of course capitalize on it-that doesn’t take anything away from the 12 years of education prior or any of their surroundings or upbringings before.
It’s a stereotype 🤷🏿♂️ a bad one but it is.
I really appreciate it when people are honest. And she is.
Yes!! I wish everyone would just tell the truth, no matter.
Yes and very mature
@@Lee19347 more like delusional I’d say.
@Kenja Thomason @Yolie Remeza
There's no need to shame her because she's a stripper. She recognizes that this isn't ideal, and that this is "fast money". Working a regular 9-5 wasn't practical/efficient for her situation. But she's trying to take care of herself and her daughter and that's something to be commended. She recognizes and owns the psychological damage she's experiencing as a dancer. If you watch this series, most subjects are very depressing. She's one of the lighter and more positive stories. Instead of trying to put her down, it takes zero effort to share positivity.
You have no idea how honest she is. If you think she's not telling any stories you're very naive
You can tell the interviewer liked her. He was really engaged compared to others he’s interviewed.
Ikr I noticed💀
@@drphot6050 👀 wys!! 😆
He’s always nice to pretty, seminude girls.
@@mikikiki Oof
@@cassidydunn3218 I’m not mad at him I naturally do too 😂
The way she turned into a “little girl” when he asked her about what she wanted to be when she was a kid! She’s really smart and I hope she’ll find her passion. 💯
Meokie has a gift of speaking and expressing herself. She definitely has a future in writing, on film, or podcast. She is magnetic and sparkles! ✨
Cara😉 U take a lovely Photo...
@@ghostsof6tharmy644 ohhh I get it you’re a miserable troll.
@@ghostsof6tharmy644 you are straight up hatin' on everyone. If you're miserable, go out for some fresh air bro
It's Glitter .
@@ghostsof6tharmy644 and guess what baby? That’s perfectly fine. But you did try to pathetically put someone down for absolutely no reason today. I’d say that’s worse. She did nothing to harm anybody else meanwhile you’re literally a bully. And you think it’s cute and fun? Again I say, get help.
I really appreciate how open and honest she is. And when she said she was extremely lonely, ugh my heart, I felt that. Best of luck and success to her 🍀💗😊
@@ghostsof6tharmy644 You have a disgusting outlook. Smh.
@@ghostsof6tharmy644 your moms
Imagine commenting on this channel 188 times all at the sake of bringing down someone you’ve never met in person. You have all these negative things to say and always blabbing about other people’s choices and decisions. If you invested as much time into yourself as you do CZcams shit commentary , you’d likely be a better person. Oh and look behind you buddy , there’s a stick up your ass
@@DAKWONJONES3 lol what do u expect from people...? I mean watching this channel is like going to the zoo basicly haha...
@@Sidney_TSG Not the "zoo" 🙃. Your comment is a bit disgusting. This is a lot of people's reality, clearly. I wouldn't have understood that until I stumbled across this channel. That DOES NOT make these people appear like zoo animals/or this channel appear zoo-like. People telling their experiences and journey on this channel, is nothing like a ZOO...it's simply THEIR experience (while probably making more money than the majority of us commenting on this video). You ought to be ashamed for using that reference.
The fact that she knows that she won’t find someone in the club is everything.
Yes 👏🏼👏🏼💪🏼
When she said “it’s easy to forget who you are” that shit almost brought me to tears. She’s so wise. This is by far one of my favorite interviews
I really love how she said why would she make money on her back when she can make it on her feet? I loveee that statement
True
It's a stripper saying.
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Many also make money on their backs though. Chances are she is but can't admit it publicly or lose her job dancing.
She’s right, she won’t find Mr. Right in the club. She’s very well spoken and aware. I can’t imagine having to drink just to get my job done tho. That makes me sad
Some people do! Unlikely though
A lot of people drink after work for stress anyway
Very self aware
Alcohol and drugs is being used in those strip clubs many can't be on a natural high in order to perform.
@@valeriejackson4261 makes sense
I truly love how the gentlemen interviewing her was listening, being mindful with the way he worded his questions, AND still letting this beautiful woman know her work doesn’t define her and still trying to empower her. Absolutely love it. We truly need more people like this!!!
"her work doesn't define her" ...sure
@@alex-p can you not?
Yeah that's Mark #Mark!
Are u SERIOUS
She’s gorgeous, it doesn’t even look like she had work done✨😩
I hope she doesn’t get any work done especially since she’s almost done. She makes a lot being natural. She doesn’t need the extra.
@@allthingstrea6419 she not natural
Yes, i was thinking oh she has so pretty skin, beautiful body then came the part of video where she was talking about her insecurities and all i saw is beautiful and openminded smart young women.
The most honest sincere stripper youve interviewed thus far she has a personality out of this world .. she will progress after her stripper journey as long as she keeps that mindset and attitude
if only
Im a stripper and I literally just go to work and come straight home, i only hang out with family and all my money is going to house in mexico that i am building so i can retire near the beach , not all strippers are dumb and ratchet . I have a friend who is a kindergarten teacher and she dances at night. We come in all different ways lol
@@Babyduzzit Wish I had the body and courage to dance, it sure beats a freaking 9-5!!! Good for you, your dream home sounds lovely 😍
Contrary to popular belief, stripping is mostly a talking game. Girls who can carry conversation make the most money
You have no idea if she's being that honest or not. No doubt she's telling stories, it's what they do a lot of the time.
Please do 'one year later" video for her.
Omg please !!
👀
Yess!!!
Yes! Pls
I agree
I love the respect she has for herself and how she breaks the stereotypes of strippers!
She is me and I am her ❤
She’s very much giving Taurus energy. If not, then Scorpio but I like ha! 🤍
YESSSS
Virgo or Aires
I was thinking Libra lol
Yeah she acts determined like a Taurus but planning ahead to set herself up for the future is definitely Scorpio traits. I think she a ♏
Yes!
She is articulate, beautiful, and very, very charismatic.
I get that this was probably coming from a genuine place but can’t you see how pointing out one being so “articulate” can come off incredibly condescending? idk if you felt the need to point it out maybe because of her profession or something else physical but if this were an interview with, say, a real estate agent no one would say, “wow, she’s articulate!” just leave it at the other two compliments.
(my humble opinion)
@@audreyjames9111 thanks for your response. I’ve met real estate agents who weren’t articulate whatsoever. I meant what I said about this young woman and it had nothing to do with her profession.
Well duhh, that’s how they earn their tips.
@Justin Johnson Yet she earns more money than you do, and people are throwing money at her because she has what they want. Hmmm.....
@Justin Johnson you’re one of the many people I can only hope someone comes after for your ridiculous words. You’re a literal piece of human filth. How can you look at another human & disapprove of them so fuxkin much to say something like that? Then on top of that, you say that about another black person. How fucking disgusting are you?
She should do blogging on the side of her job! She’s so well spoken. Even starting a CZcams channel can get her a step towards what she actually wants to be doing! Best of luck to her ❤️
yess i feel like she could go far if she made a yt channel bc she has a rly likeable personality and there r already strippers who've become popular CZcamsrs and r earning more money bc of their channel and end up not even needing to go to the strip club anymore
YES👏👏👏
Yea she’s so pretty and I could listen to her talk all day
Such a crystal melodic voice
Omgosh I thought the same thing
She could make MONEY
Exactly. If only she knew how much money you can make with a channel if you have the personality for it, she wouldn’t need to strip if indeed that is what she wants
"I stay in the house and watch true crime all day, until it's time to go to work.." girl same. Except I'm no strippa.
yesss i love True Crime! I'm not a stripper tho.
same
Same! Lol
Same lol! I work in a lab but watch true crime everyday until I have to go to work
Same! True crime, these interviews and old lifetime movies lol
this is cute and all but I wish when he asked about her being lonley it wasnt in relation to a man. People can feel lonley for a variety of reasons, especially considering her experience with her family. I just hate the narrative that a relationship can cure lonliness.
so maybe shes not lonely in those departments. which is why is explained it
And on the other hand it's nothing wrong with that. Maybe love from an intimate relationship is what her heart desires. And, because she doesn't have one, it makes her a little lonely. That doesn't take from her gratefulness or independent productivity in life. We need to stop acting like it's everything wrong with wanting love. It's not! It's everything wrong with allowing yourself to be mistreated for it, impatient to get it, and obsessive to continuously have it. As if you can't love yourself and focus on you. But, partnerships are very natural and apart of our creation. It's why God made men and women. Its also what being an adult is for. You say " people" can feel lonely for a number of reasons. That's trying to make your perception the next persons. And ignorantly generalizing the specificitiy of what her reason for being lonely might be. 😒
Girl I stan your comment. People are always assuming that in order to not feel alone they must have a partner. You can be by yourself and not be lonely. If you know what I mean.
Relationships do a great deal in resolving loneliness. The loneliest people are typically those without a partner.
I ended a long term relationship when I realized I felt lonely only when he was there.
Not everyone comes from abuse. Choices are our choices.
She did say there was "some trauma".
She never said she was abused or that her decisions are anyone else’s fault.
@Aqua Lung In other videos, some people said they had a happy childhood, and later on said "oh but I was sexually assaulted as a children", or "sometimes my parents beat me" etc. I'm not saying it's her case, but saying there was "more good than bad" can mean a lot of things. She also says that everybody has some trauma in their childhood which I disagree with, so she might be minimizing what she's been through.
yes.
L
What a beautifully intelligent woman. She definitely has what it takes to leave dancing behind and live a successful life.
Being *intelligent* is not only talking like you are but also Living it and I dont think strippers will ever get that title
@@poolq422 if you had experience in life you'd know a lot of doctors and lawyers are strippers. Clearly you haven't done anything major with yourself or you'd know enough to know that. You don't have a title I can tell that through your ignorant comment 😉
Agreed
@@Deemillss I know right???? 😂😂😂 some of the smartest women I know are strippers. Or were strippers. I’m so sick of shaming sex work or anything related.
@@aciSTELLAcd that is not true...and im a lawyer...i dont know any doctors and lawyers , who were in that life..Stop lying to the black women...if u wanna ruin your life, fine! Dont glamorize this because u are telling story..Get a job and educate yourself like my mother did! U are shaming your kids
Highly intelligent conversation. She gave me a few life lessons, a few stories, confidence, and I was engaged in her story. Really enjoyed this one.
I appreciate how real she is in this interview and I wish her happiness and peace as she finds her way and her true path in life.
“who still has their natural body other than Alicia keys?” 🤣 this woman is funny, smart, self-aware, honest. not to mention drop dead gorgeous. She has blessings coming her way and I hope she knows it. ❤️
What a beautiful thing to say. I hope she sees your comment, I 100% agree with you.
Beyoncé, Lauren Hill, Erykah Badu, Lauren London, and Ashanti.
@@pksmith8750 Beyonce's breasts are not real. She had them "tuned up" after having Blue.
@@pksmith8750 Ashanti's boobs too. No shame of course, just facts.
Damn but Alicia keys got Lipo way back
My mom basically raised me in stripper wages and that was her career when I was growing up. But I love how she was on my sister and I about education and staying away from the game. But I don’t judge anyone because you have to do what you got to do
I respect that honestly. I had the same situation ethically because my dad was into legal "grey" areas to make money and would constantly tell me he wanted me to walk a different path and not involve prison or anything else he experienced. Sure enough, in my 30s now I can say I know why he stressed the importance of keeping a clean criminal history, graduating high school like he almost had to force me to do when I wasn't in the right mind frame and also to avoid getting married or having kids until I'm truly ready and financially stable and never got into hardcore drugs or anything except for herb. I can't thank him enough for pushing me to succeed because I was always able to get really good jobs and have one currently and able to always get a call back and interview if looking for a different job. It makes things so much easier having been a good person and trying to be a good man and make him proud
Miss Meokie is going to become an Author, Fashion Designer, Online Entrepreneur, Successful CZcamsr and a millionaire mom in the future. Mark my words her amazing energy, beautiful personality and sharp mindset will transform her life one day. Stay positive and strong miss Meokie!
I see CZcams too and a good mom
I absolutely loved her and her energy and could truly listen to her speak for hours... I really hope that you do an updated video with her soon!
She and Mark clicked personality wise!
Definitely!!
Sure did
Right.. he was really invested.
Mark was a non stop chatter box
And I’m thinkin he gonna sponsor her wit his slick ass 😭😭😭
Seriously. It was there
Promoters are “new-aged pimps” and that’s on Mary had a little lamb 💅😤
Period!!
All those girls pimping THEMSELVES on ONLYFANS??????
THATS ON MARY WAS IN THE CABARET !!!!! LMFAOOOOOWOEFJWEAO
🤷🏻♀️
What in the world do promoters do ?
$16,000 in an hour? I'm going to drop out of med school and become a stripper.
Lmfaooo
Lmfaooo
At least you know your anatomy
sounds kinda cap to me if you made 16,000 in 1 hour and you didnt like stripping why are you still doing it 16,000 is enough to start a major buisness
She's lying. She didn't make that much stripping in an hour. I can't believe you or anybody else even believes that.
She's dope I wish her the best. She just thugging it out in this world.
Most women are extremely lonely once they lose all respect for men due to being disrespected by them. Stripper or otherwise. In my experience.
Damn, what you said is so real. Never thought of that but it’s obvious. So sad. May the Lord have mercy on them.
The same happens to men as well. Why limiting basic live exspiriences to one gender only.
Agreed.
Very true ❤️
@@nostrum8 but, in a patriarchal society, women are much more vulnerable. This video underlined this fact.
A friend of mine told me “women drink alcohol to tolerate low frequency men. It inhibits the liver which is associated with frustration” I was like whoaaa. So it makes sense she drinks at work.
What is a low frequency man?
@@southerngent2011 it is a man who has “low vibrations”
you can meet a very creative/outgoing man or woman, you can tell they’re fun, they’re different.
then you meet another man/woman that’s not that creative, not that outgoing.
you can say you can tell the difference between someone who is trying to do the most, while on the other hand, some people don’t mind a mellow vibe, it feels like they just “going with the flow” type of thing
you can tell the difference between a mellow person versus an outgoing person
you can hangout with 100 people, and each and most of them will have different vibes that either enhance or diminish the way you feel depending on how your vibe is that day, and how you feel compared to the other people and how they feel.
Wow!! Love this!!
@@AshleyxDD Your whole explanation is weird. I see alot of Gen-z'ers talk like this, almost like a pseudo spiritual religion. I'll let you have it because I don't get it and I don't want to get it. I'm too old for this shit and I'm confused😂🤣
@@southerngent2011 when someone is of low level of consciousness. They aren’t very aware, they act primitively, are wounded etc. think of frequency like energy. The quality of your energy. When someone is happy, joyful, optimistic loving etc. they are high vibrating. When someone is negative, selfish, dominant, egotistical etc they are low vibrating. Does that make sense love ❤️
Aww her last words made me tear up, shes the type of person that empowers women and is focused on her own goals. Thank you for being real and educating people with your experience !
As someone who is ending their dancing career, this really resonated.
May you have strength on your new journey
@@tiffanywiggins1912 Thank you so much ❤️😭
Best wishes transitioning
can we just talk about how pretty she is😍😍😍
And very intelligent!!!
she's adorable!
Yes … resilient, beautiful, strong, and one day she’ll be free to feel every piece.
Very true def smart to about how she’s going about her business
@tim tores Women just be saying anything😂
“Who still has their natural body besides Alicia Keys?!” LMFAOOO But in all honesty, she needs to jump on YT’s stripper vlog community. I feel she has a lot of game & wisdom to share.
ugh absolutely if she started a youtube channel I would watch the fuck out of it
Kendall Jenner 😂🤣👍 2 bee stings up top and a pancake ass like somebody wacked her with a shovel and some how she's the highest paid model in the world.
True! I enjoy her voice as well. I'd follow her in a heartbeat.
You pay for game not give it for free.
@@mikejones-cr1tl Wrong Jenner. lol But I get the point.
I actually felt every word she said. The plastic stripper, the "side hustle stripper" part, the "money was slow, so I did it for a purpose" if she happens to read this KEEP GRINDING!! You seem to have your head on straight and know what you want out of life. Never settle for less. I hope you get everything your grinding for!
I love this video for so many reasons. This conversation taught me so much about self acceptance
I pray in 3+ years she has her business, brand etc together & her life & child with her she seems quite smart , but some get so addicted to that money it gets more important over the years to come ... GBY Mama praying for the best for you love ..🙏🏼🙏🏼💜🙏🏼
Whenever she starts her business i definitely want to support she’s a true Queen 👑❤️
Fool, that ain't no queen lmao
@ol'chiny man Go back into your cave.
😂😂😂 She’s pretty but QUEEN??? This world is PHUCKED
I like her. She’s so genuine. I seriously loved her interview.
"Hollow, like a shell..." Damn. The pain this woman is harboring, with confidence as the lid...
yesss, i felt that too
She's real and hold herself accountable so she's in touch with reality so I wish her well.
@Jimmy La Pinga There are a Lot of things you Don't tell a young child.
@Jimmy La Pinga You're not a parent or you'd understand what I said.
@Jimmy La Pinga agreeing with the woman above me. You are not a parent so you wouldn’t understand. There are things you just don’t tell your child. As long as they are loved, safe and fed she is not obligated to tell her child anything. Let the child stay in a child’s place. She’s an adult, that’s why she won’t tell them.
@Jimmy La Pinga you made yourself look like an ass out of your self assuming her child , doesn't have her father
She truly admitted that she made wrong decisions, that's the part of her sincerity i like most. I pray she leaves the job and finds happiness
I really love her vibe, her aura. She's got something special.
No she doesn’t
@@illmatic826 hater
@@illmatic826 she does. dont be a bitch
Yesss I love it!
Are you lonely?
Her: extremely with a smiling face
She's so powerful and pretty
This was such a genuine interview ♥️
This was an awesome convo. She’s so genuine and that will take her far
Agree and I love your hair !
This girls personality is so magnetic, stay true to yourself!!!
I love her 🥺 she has such a solid heart but knows who she is and is just so raw and real about how life works. Seems like such a great person to talk to. I wish her the best in life
Thank you so much for doing this interview! I think she would be great as a counselor or someone who speaks to little kids. I am really impressed with this woman. You go girl!
She can start a stripper podcast 🤷🏽♀️ I think it would be nice for people who are in that industry.
Yeah she could make bank.
@@thebigSAK easy!
i would listen to her
I’d tune in to her, she is good
Women in the industry are broken in some really bad ways. It shouldn't be encouraged.
When she said " it makes you feel really hallow , like your a shell " I felt that .. anyone & everyone in all walks of life can relate to that. I love that about underbelly , it shows us that humanity is not completely different as we think. I'm in recovery for heroin & meth addiction , I have almost seven months clean. & That line she just said is exactly how I felt for the last decade , while using. I promise there is more to life.. I'm twenty eight as well. & I'm here to tell you , Keep going. You will find a hubby one day , you are an amazing girl.. you are smart. You are beautiful. This life has not swallowed you up like it has with so many other's.. I have complete faith in you gorgeous girl 💜💜💜💜 my prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing this💜
Congratulations on your sobriety
Yes congrats! It's hard but worth it! This channel has shown me so much too, about just people. God bless you in your journey! You're awesome!
Congratulations on your progress, too! You can do this! The truly good life, in the things that matter, await you! ❤️
Love
l don't know u but proud of your sobriety,one day at a time!!!!!
Meokie, I think you could absolutely do everything you wanted to as a young aspiring woman. I think a talk show, a podcast, a video series, some articles, anything would be succesful. You should go for it.
Great interview-such a natural ebb ‘n flow of conversation. Miss Meokie was wonderful! Can’t wait to see her at the top.
I like the fact that Meokie is conscious of *not* dating within the industry and within Tampa. You can see from her responses that she does everything in her power to maintain her dignity regardless of being an exotic dancer. I hope she finds her calling (ie. Starting her business), as she mentioned that she's ready to depart from the scene. I wish you all the best love💗Go after your dreams💫
I love her her attitude and personality.Shes very smart and I think she'll go far in life.
haha for sure...
she's a literal stripper you id*ot. wdym go far in life? what life
lmao
Its people like you who encourage these narcissists to continue their bad behaviour
@I’m so annoyed with being censored YouLubedFoo It is! That's why you don't sell it or give it away unless your heart is included.
I’ve met the best women I’ve ever met in my life, while being a dancer. They’re the most charismatic, hard working women. She was the perfect interviewee for this. She represents me and of the women I work with. I wish her the world. U can feel her heart and how kind she is. I love her a lot. Please make a follow up it would mean so much
There is that old saying about suffering building character...my primary concern for her is all the alcohol use ... not good for her physically or mentally ... be well
I'm an ex stripper. I did it to feed my addiction. But regardless, I agreed with everything she said. The money is just too good to quit sometimes. When she said she feels like an empty shell, it brought me back to when I danced and I felt so empty. I hope she can find someone to love her regardless of her job so that she's not lonely. It can be such a lonely job.😕
Shes lonely by choice thats her fault
Man, both of y'all are some hateful ass people.
@@mattiedyess9817 no they are just stating Facts
@@ketsiadutervil8846 no they are hateful.
@@rainaholmes1186 Yeah better lonely than to be with someone who says they love you and cheat...and most men say they don't find appeal in their girl doing stripping so...
She’s drop dead gorgeous! I hope she can save up money and get into a better career, if that’s what she wants. There’s a bright future in front of her. 💕💕
yeah she said she doesn't wanna be in it for long
She makes great money,
Wrong lol
You are living in a fantasy world🤣
@@MrKrushgutz women can get out of that world. It’s possible
her smile just lights up the room. she seems very loving and genuinely funny. i hope she gets her friends back and her social life back and finds happiness soon; what a soul.
You’re just horny
The thing is that people with such occupation or something like her occupation seem always to be nice and kind.
1 year later and she's still memorizing. 🤩
She is so genuine and true to herself
Good for her
I hope she is doing well right now
People with regular jobs drink to go through the day, i'm most definitely not surprise if exotic dancers do it LMFAO
I was about to say, it’s wayyyyy more people that day drink before work.
Yea I'm definitely one of those people taking shots everyday to 'deal' with working a corporate 9-5 😭 but this is the American dream??! 😳🤯
@@Ashley-og9ti I have a coworker who recently moved here from Dubai, and found out that there's no American dream. I told him the moment you bought that ticket to come here you fucked up. Lol. Now has to work 9 to 5 at my shit job .
@@Ashley-og9ti Please stop pretty! Don’t ruin your precious organs with that shit.
@@Haileynasya 🥺 it's hard to just stop ugh crazy thing is I still work out 5x week and drink a gallon of water everyday lol
If a person has to drink in order to do their job, then that job ain't for you. I pray this beautiful young woman finds her true life's purpose.
Absolutely true.
that's what they said when they stripped me of my surgeon's licence.
My job makes me feel like I need a drink or something to go through it 😢 that's how tough
Stfu. 90 percent of people would drink at work if they could. What do you do with your life? Who's life have you changed? ..
You’ve never been a stripper so you should probably not speak on stuff you know nothing about
when you’re constantly surrounded by people who are drunk and you’re supposed to be in a good mood all the time you’re gonna have a couple drinks not to mention some clients will turn you away if you refused to have a drink with them she never said she hast to get shitfaced every time she goes into work and you better believe the girls that don’t drink are in the back doing drugs
Nothing but admiration for her. She keeps it real the entire time, is not in denial about the negative aspects of her job which is something I don't always see. Lots of dancers I know really try and tell you that they're empowered by their job, yet they can't do it sober, they don't want their kids to follow the same path, they grow to resent and be disgusted by men, and they let the money coerce them. Meokie is honest about what drew her in and how the biz eventually preyed upon insecurities and demanded that she dissociate to get her money.
I'm not surprised she's so "well-spoken", many strippers are *incredibly* intelligent (emotionally and otherwise). I think Meokie would do so well if she invested a portion of her savings and took the rest to start a business or even get her degree. The hardest thing is facing that you won't have "easy" money rolling in like you're used to, but once she's over that hurdle I think she can do anything.
1000%
One of my fav guests. Thanks Mark!
soft , polite , real FEMININE.
Right on
KS follower?
you mean traditionally feminine right?
Yep
So grateful for interviews you do. It is helping me as a budding Social Worker
I think this often
@jay frost how you gon try to discourage someone of their dreams? that’s low 🤨
@jay frost wow I’m halfway through with majoring in social work
@@nynysloud5464 its okay babe, don’t listen to them, you just keep doin whatchu been doin💜💜
@jay frost I agree... it’s not being bitter .. just the truth
Total respect to you. Being an army brat I know where your line is. This woman is totally in control of everything and everyone she's involved in with x
I definitely enjoyed this interview. She's focused and goal driven. I'm so glad she has a good mind about it. I pray she can get out soon.
Society used to make stripping a bad, underground, taboo thing. Now it is accepted and a way to make fast money, legally. Her self imposed rule not to sleep around will get her far with name clean. Nobody want to be known as a run through stripper. She gave shout out to two other women which most would not do. Just be careful with the drinking and watch your glass at all times.
Stopping is bad and disgusting … it should be illegal.
@@k8lynmae judgemental much? Assuming you meant stripping..
I don’t necessarily agree with stripping but strippers shouldn’t be looked down upon. We’re all human and we should be respectful no matter the occupation
Stripping is a bad thing tho
@@k8lynmae u cant spell. Stop being judgemental
I am a middle child and she's so right about that experience.
Yea I’m the middle child it’s true
Middle child here too!! Ppl think its bs but its true till this day !
What did she say about being a middle child? I watched the whole thing and didn’t hear her say anything about being a middle child
@@969kurt she didn't get all the attention as a middle child
I’m the middle child aka the wild child because of what she said
I like how honest and candid she is, and hope she stays true herself and starts her business.
not him explicitly asking for "traumatic experiences, abuse" like the interviewer is insane and I love how she didn't let him corner her
Trauma porn is a thing this why I don’t watch too much ..
She’s beautiful
Not really
She is!
@@flyguy2589 troll
Alot of makeup
Gorgeous
So, why is it such a surprise that she’s so well-spoken?
You know how ppl ASSUME that we're all ratchet and ignorant and ghetto... ppl are always surprised when us black women speak with intelligence, its sick.
Right? Every other comment says that…🙄ignorance
@@Mar-sx2ro I agree.
It’s bc she didn’t finish grade school
Ppl think that strippers and porn stars are dumb.. they are far from it
I never thought I'd be commenting on any of your videos, but this one deserves it. I loved it! She's intelligent, articulate, focused, and in touch with reality. I don't know if I was impressed by her saying that she loves literature or what, but she really seems to be a thinker. Coming from a culture (in the Bahamas) where this choice of work is frowned upon, I am surprised that there are women doing this who have thought this through. Ok, I'm an Engligh teacher and a writer. I just want her to know she certainly has the content for a book. I want to encourage her to stay focused and continue to love on her daughter in the midst of this journey.
I hope she reads these amazing comments everyday and they make her feel beautiful inside and out ❤️ we all believe in you girl and know you can do this, the hustle is the hustle and one day you’ll be hustling doing something you love
She expresses herself very well, is very self aware, honest, & I hope someone sees this or she rewatches & sees that she has the gift of gab. She’d be great as a red carpet interviewer as well, so I wouldn’t be surprised if I see her using her voice in the industry one day🖤
She is beautiful... Not in her profession type of way but in the black beautiful queen type of way. She has so much potential besides what she's trying to do and she's pretty intelligent.
She has a queenly presence even though she carries herself nothing like a queen, explain that logic ?…
i agree
@PanAfrique History I have no criticism for the lady, I was calling the guy out on his logic .. What queens do you know shake their ass for Money?.. and everybody knows if the Price is right a piece of that ass.. If queens are doing any of that , They are far from what a queen is ..ijs.. She drinks to go to work.. If she so smart when she gonna figure out , That’s not how/ live your life.. The stripping and the Drinking if you not clear..Perfect example of No self Love..
kesjmar washington why are you judging her then…
kesjmar washington she’s a grown woman she has a reason not an excuse … just because u don’t respect it or like it doesn’t make it an excuse … just cuz she dropped out doesn’t mean she’s stupid.. plenty of intelligent ppl make dumb decisions doesn’t define your capacity for learning .. u sound like a hater frfr
First thing I noticed, the camera is strategically placed lower.
I love the questions you ask, they’re on point! Exactly what I want too ask
I absolutely LOVE her! Her honesty, how real she is, how realistic her thought process is, especially when it comes to how long she plans to work. She needs a CZcams! She'll have a ton of followers and it could lead her to her dream of being in journalism! Keep pushing babygirl!!
What I wish is that she would go get her GED. I think she is smart. The only thing that bothers me is that she needs to get drunk to work. I'm hoping that is the one thing she can give up dancing or not. Very beautiful woman. Still young and still has the world at her feet.
Most people that do sex work have to drink because their regular selves can’t do the work they do…
I’m a dancer I’ve been a dancer for 2 years. I’ve been to work sober and drunk and it’s easier to sit in a mans face when some liquid courage most if not all dancers have a vice to help them cope with the fact that men objectify us and even tho we chose this line of work it tears on the soul ...but everything your saying is true
Theres girls i work woth who do not drink at all while dancing so its just certain ppl
@@alexandria4401 💯💯
You don’t need a ged to start a business she already has a plan
I respect HER. I hope she finds the utmost success and someone who accepts, respect and appreciate her.
First time I’ve ever commented on CZcams; but what I loved most of everything she said was that 3 years was her retirement. I wish you nothing but success! You’re really phenomenal!
Ain’t nothing like a black Woman💯😍
And vs 😁
Too bad we are down trodden disrespect and stepped on compared to other women
U know that’s right 🙌🏾
Absolutely ❤️❤️
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"ONLY FLOWERS AND BUTTERFLIES ARE BEAUTIFUL".
"WHEN YOU STRIVE TO BE BEAUTIFUL YOU'RE NEVER SATISFIED".
Most women in a nutshell
She's great! Loved her interview & I hope she makes it to the red carpet, I could totally see her doing it, she's got an awesome head on her shoulders & I love that she values herself. Much love
this is a very interesting channel, great interviews!
Wow, this girl really has her head on straight about saving money while she does this. I hope she keeps this mindset, saves the money and is able to get out.
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Most of us strippers have our head on straight, why do ppl think we are all the same , yes ofcourse girls come that are ghetto but thats ANY JOB , theres ppl at mcdonalds who are ghetto and ratchet and theres ppl who are good “normal” ppl
@@Babyduzzit I never said I thought all strippers are the same. I totally agree with you they're not. However it is a hard job that exposes a person to many vices, not to mention the toll mentally and emotionally.
This comment was about her in comparison to the other interviews I'd heard directly before her's on this channel. She's got her shit straight. I mean I think she's impressive compared to most people.
@@Babyduzzit oh girl
I love this woman she has such a happy, confident, honest personality, with such vibrant energy, god bless
Very informative and I love her honesty
She is so honest and has a good head on her shoulders. Her beauty is deeper than the physical. I am glad that she also realizes that. Great interview.