Keelan's Depersonalization Recovery Story (2023)

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  • čas přidán 13. 05. 2023
  • ⚡ Start YOUR 💯 recovery from DPDR today! 👉🏼 www.dpmanual.com/purchase/
    15:06 Maybe I Died + I'm In Purgatory?
    19:02 Vision + Concentration
    23:23 Research + Forums
    30:19 Keelan's Lowest Point
    32:29 The Family Doctor
    37:21 Worrying that DPDR Is Dementia, Brain Tumors, etc
    42:53 How Did Recovery Start?
    50:38 Going to the Gym with DPDR
    56:06 75% of people experience DPDR!
    1:00:49 You're Stronger After Recovery
    1:09:07 Why Does DPDR Often Happen In The Teens / 20s?
    1:11:28 The DP Manual
    1:15:48 Are you REALLY Back To Normal?
    1:21:35 Advice For People With DPDR
    Keelan is 24 years old. His first experience with DP came about after a panic attack during a trip to Liverpool. What followed was an intense battle with daily panic attacks which resulted in Keelan constantly feeling like he was floating, disconnected and 'like a ghost'.
    Over the following 16 months Keelan frantically searched for a solution, worried that the condition might be permanent or that he might be going crazy.
    Fortunately, Keelan has since made a complete recovery. And he's with us today to talk about his experience and his recovery from DPDR!
    Check out my complete DPDR recovery program:
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    Disclaimer: Please note that the medical information contained within this video is not intended as a substitute for consultation with a professional physician and is not a recommendation of specific therapies.

Komentáře • 152

  • @KeelanM756
    @KeelanM756 Před rokem +19

    Thank you for having me on Shaun! Also, any opticians reading this please be aware I no longer require an appointment 😂

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +3

      So great to have you on the channel Keelan! 😊Delighted that you've recovered and thankfully no further opticians required 😂

    • @91jarule
      @91jarule Před rokem

      Hi, can I contact you anywhere on facebook or email?

  • @Brosig18
    @Brosig18 Před 11 měsíci +41

    Hey everyone, I just remembered this channel today for no particular reason.. I had REALLY bad DPDR about a year and a half ago, I saw no end in sight, I really thought that was it for me, for my life... I just wanted to say here I am now 100% free of symptoms! And that'll be you one day, you'll get through it, you'll definetly get through it... I can't thank this channel enough, it saved my life.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Thanks for your comment and I'm so glad to hear you've recovered! 😊

    • @Butterfly-vd4tg
      @Butterfly-vd4tg Před 11 měsíci +1

      How do you recovered? Since 5 years in the cycle

    • @Brosig18
      @Brosig18 Před 11 měsíci +4

      @@Butterfly-vd4tg I remained calm, repeated to myselft that depersonalization and derealization were symptoms and not inherent problems with me.
      I'm a catholic so I prayed a lot as well.
      And I went to therapy with a very specific focus, ie getting rid of DPDR symptoms.
      I think the biggest part for me was remaining calm and resolute at solving the problem. I was so scared, but I didn't cave in to the fear, took action instead.

    • @stealthyguy1784
      @stealthyguy1784 Před 11 měsíci +1

      ​@@Brosig18hi I'm not sure I've got dp but i do have anxiety and dissociate a bit.i feel a bit trapped in my own mind at the moment and it's makin me feel I'm goin mad!I guess i fear it getting worse before better.any tips ?thanks

    • @Brosig18
      @Brosig18 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@stealthyguy1784 i think I can relate to what you feel… realizing that it is a positive feedback loop is important.. all of those dreadful thoughts are not you assessing reality but the anxiety itself, you have to realize that as bad a feeling as you might have, the chances of something really bad happening to you are slim to none because those feelings do not stem from external stimuli or input but from us fixating on it, the more you look at it the worse it looks. Results were really grounding for me so I’d try to focus on doing things with short term results in order to bring me back to reality, for example going on a walk, if I felt even a tiny bit better I’d use that as a grounding point thinking “see, you’re not doomed, you still respond to actual real world events”… patience and hope are your two most important tools in this! Put one foot in front of the other, take it one day at a time and don’t fight your anxiety, just let it go and it’ll gradually start to go away… hope that helps, you’ll be in my prayers!

  • @dennisg.9887
    @dennisg.9887 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Depersonalisation / Dereal. from cannabis. The most frightening thing is the anxiety. Anxiety to become a schizophreniac, or being bipolar, getting a worse depression so, that I couldnt manage my life and will only suffer for the rest of my life. Getting panic / anxiety when I see children; anxiety to become a pedophile is still a problem too. Its interesting to feel these experiences but they are terrifying. Others symptoms I did not mention are still there in me. But at the end I am motivated to keep the track on becoming healthy :)
    You give me hope!

    • @susanne4106
      @susanne4106 Před 9 měsíci +1

      I have this weird fear of becoming a cat killer. I love cats.

  • @Blushgrub
    @Blushgrub Před 4 měsíci +2

    Currently dealing with DPDR for about a month now. I've had it before but it's always been transient. Unfortunately right now, I'm dealing with it on an almost constant basis. This guy’s symptoms sound so much like mine, especially when he said he just felt like a floating head. It's really unsettling and hard to explain. I've shared a lot of Shaun’s videos with my family in order to explain what I am going through and it's really help. Thank you SO much, Shaun

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 4 měsíci

      Thank you so much for the kind words and I'm delighted to hear the channel has been so useful!😊❤️

  • @tarav7918
    @tarav7918 Před rokem +2

    Thank you for these videos !!

  • @proxcees16
    @proxcees16 Před 11 měsíci +2

    thanks for these interviews keep them coming!

  • @CaughtInTheLoop
    @CaughtInTheLoop Před rokem +9

    Great interview! Thank you for spreading awareness for DP and for continuing to share different stories and views of people who experienced it 🙏

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +1

      Happy to help, glad you enjoyed it! 😊

  • @Futur3.
    @Futur3. Před rokem +3

    Awesome Video man! Love to see positive videos on depersonalization

  • @Leptyzz
    @Leptyzz Před 11 měsíci +4

    Hey Shaun, has anyone ever talked to you about existential thoughts concerning free will? Because depersonalisation can make you feel like a robot, and your feeling of free-will feels external to you. I was reminded of the quote “Man can do what he wills, but he cannot will what he wills”. This whole ordeal made me very anxious and gave me feelings of panic.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci +2

      Don't worry, the content of the thoughts doesn't matter, they're still ultimately driven by anxiety, they're temporary and harmless and will fade away and stop as your recovery continues 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-fears-and-anxious-thoughts/

  • @amsterdame
    @amsterdame Před měsícem +1

    Wow! THIS IS EXACTLY HOW I FEEL. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před měsícem

      Glad it was helpful 😊❤️👍

  • @slv6470
    @slv6470 Před 7 měsíci +1

    love that this is so chill, with humour, very easy to follow and keep up while doing housework etc. i'm waiting to get to therapy because i have hard time kind of opening up the mental "knots" alone. as i commented on some other video, it's been several years now and while i can go MONTHS without checking any content related to DPDR, i'm now again kind of reminding myself how to act instead of fearing and freezing. during these years i've had a few moments with lesser DPDR, each lasted about a minute or so, very short time. they all make it bittersweet!

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 7 měsíci

      So glad it was helpful! 😊

  • @COLOFIDUTI
    @COLOFIDUTI Před 8 měsíci +1

    thx keelan! i have the same over awereness of the heart, minus the dpdr (thankfully).Im exposing myself to exercise , its been hard but step by step im feeling better.

    • @KeelanM756
      @KeelanM756 Před 4 měsíci

      brilliant to hear that! Keep at it

  • @makhomoovervoorde8988
    @makhomoovervoorde8988 Před 11 měsíci +3

    I woke up 3 days ago after having dpdr for a uear and it is gone. I can see, i feel so emotional because i was so exhausted. I almost can't believe it, i can look in the mirror and see me and people around me. I feel real again😢

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci

      That's great, I'm delighted to hear you're doing so well! 😊

    • @ambreighh9346
      @ambreighh9346 Před 11 měsíci

      Did you just let it go by or did you do things that helped you recover ? If so what helped ? I’m going on 3 months if experiencing dpdr . I accepted it. Some days are easier than most and other days i get in a negative mindset that I’m going to be stuck like this

    • @H4NFCross
      @H4NFCross Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@ambreighh9346How you doing?

  • @lunaumbra5179
    @lunaumbra5179 Před 6 měsíci

    Surreal hearing someone talk anger a Keelan who is not me. I live in the States and my birth name is Keelan. I've never met another Keelan in person. Only heard about six others.
    Hearing you say my name but not talking about me is super strange. It's almost giving me symptoms. And making me think about how every Matt Dave and Ashley feel..
    Glad Keelan recovered. I kinda did too but my depth lasted for a decade before I made any progress getting out.

  • @samycr7317
    @samycr7317 Před rokem +1

    hey guys
    I had my first panic attack back in 2020 i was in panic almost everyday for about 2 weeks and When panic attacks stopped i found myself dealing with dpdr i had really strange and akward feelings that i havnt exprienced before like the whole world was strange and akward i had alot of existential thoughts like what is this world who im i ? how im i living ? what is Life
    I did alot of reaserchs i found out about your CZcams channels so my recovery journey started and i can say that i recovered and i got my life back again and i totally forgot how dpdr feels and like it was just a bad experience
    But after almost 2 year i had another panic attack i woke up in the middle of the night not knowing who im i or where i am .that feeling got me a big panic attack i thought that i was going to die and that is death but after 3 days i was with some friends i felt like im disconnected from the world and everything is fake even my friends like nothing makes sense in the world i live in i had another panic attack and now i feel that i forgot how normal feels like and I'm stuck in the cycle again with thoughts that im never going to recover again because it's the second time having this and i wasted 2 years of my life and its like it was a dream i dont know but that feelings make panic and i want to cry like im am so sensitive and i forgot what being and feeling normal is and i want my life back with alot of frustration i dont know how to explain this uncomfortable scary feelings and toughts
    Even thinking about the fact that i could have it again scares me and right now i have this frustration of im i feeling normal or its dpdr feelings and I'm lost and i dont khow what's normal also feeling that I'm not familiar with my self abd the world around me

  • @fighter1991fu
    @fighter1991fu Před rokem +2

    Great!!!

  • @KadeMichael
    @KadeMichael Před 11 měsíci +3

    I’m currently in hospital for this and panicking constantly at not feeling real or myself. I have a child to look after which is making me feel worse as I don’t feel I should be alive.
    I really need this to go 😢

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Hey Tara, thanks for your comment 😊 I know DPDR can be scary but just remember that it’s a natural reaction to stress and anxiety, and people experience it all the time. The National Institute on Mental Illness estimates that up to 75% of people experience at least one depersonalization / derealization episode in their lives. It's part of your brain's natural defence mechanism and usually it only lasts a few seconds or minutes at a time. It's only when it's focused on as a separate problem (feeling like you're going crazy / in a dream etc) that it can turn into a feedback loop with the anxiety that caused it in the first place. But no matter what caused it or how long you've had it, you can always switch it off completely by stopping that anxious feedback loop. Make sure to carefully read through all the articles and info on my website at www.dpmanual.com and my book The Depersonalization Manual.
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR 👍

    • @stealthyguy1784
      @stealthyguy1784 Před 11 měsíci

      I'm sorry your suffering i hope you find the strength to get better 🙏

    • @niy2059
      @niy2059 Před 5 měsíci

      i pray you are better

  • @honesteagle5630
    @honesteagle5630 Před 11 měsíci

    Hi Shaun, would you advice watching your DP contents like these recovery stories or any videos regarding to DP during one’s recovery? I’ve finished your manual so I understand I should stay away from forums and videos etc and I wondered if that included here as well.
    I have seen one of the recovery story videos from your channel but then I worried if I should have waited till I’m fully recovered.

  • @tmamali-309
    @tmamali-309 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you very much shaun for helping us. I feel comfortable when watching your videos. Can you make a video about taking medication and its relationship to this disorder? If it helps to reduce symptoms and your advice, should we use medication or not?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Glad the videos have been useful 😊 I'm not a medical professional so can't give you specific recommendations re medication. But please read this article, I think you'll find it useful: www.dpmanual.com/articles/can-medication-cure-depersonalization/

  • @PRAMILAVESH
    @PRAMILAVESH Před 10 měsíci

    This is a kind of wierd feeling i am still in dr/dp but i accept it already i do normal things, i talk to people even if they feel unreal to me , i go in shopping everything! accepting it till it gets fed away! please people guide me more things so that we all can get some ideas!

  • @dulcekguerrero
    @dulcekguerrero Před rokem +8

    Thank you for your video. I’m been dealing with vision related anxiety symptoms for over a year now. I feel like my vision is blurry fussy hazy etc. almost like my brain and eyes aren’t on the same page floaty off feeling. Ugh so frustrating prescription glasses help at time but most of the time not. HELP!!!!

    • @Lilygirl283
      @Lilygirl283 Před rokem

      The same is happening to me, sometimes i feel like my head is separate from my body, i cannot concentrate on anything, my eyes cannot focus, supermarkets etc are the worst, i feel i cannot see products clearly...
      Optomotrist often cannot see anything wrong, they dismiss it as dry eye...

    • @dulcekguerrero
      @dulcekguerrero Před rokem +1

      @@Lilygirl283 I’m so sorry that you are going through this as well. I just wish I could convince myself that it’s ok to feel this way and eventually it would gradually disappear. I try and try but much more easier said than done. Everyday is a struggle but I thank God he gives me the strength to keep going each day. X

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +1

      Don’t worry Dulce, visual symptoms like that are super common with DPDR and will fade away and stop as you recover 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/does-depersonalization-affect-vision/

    • @korylewis7858
      @korylewis7858 Před 10 měsíci

      Yup my vision is completely distorted. Fluorescent lights also make it even worse

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 10 měsíci

      @@korylewis7858 I had the same thing. Supermarkets were almost impossible 😬
      Thankfully all those symptoms fade away and stop as your recovery continues: www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/

  • @SaraStamenkov-hd9di
    @SaraStamenkov-hd9di Před rokem +9

    Hey i love your dpdr videos, they motivate me so much! I have been suffering from dpdr for 2 months bc of a bad trip. In the beginning it was so bad I felt like I was in a dream, everything was so strange and I completely lost touch with reality. I was always afraid to go out and always checked if I felt normal again. Now I am no longer afraid and have accepted the feeling. Everything feels a little more normal. But what is worse now is that people look so strange to me, I always wonder why we look like that and how we can live, speak, walk. People look so strange. I somehow can't understand that. I know it sounds soch strange. Is this normal and will it go away at some point?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +3

      Hey Sara, thanks for your comment 😊
      Sorry to hear you've been having a difficult time, but don't worry, everything you're describing sound consistent with DPDR. It's harmless and temporary and yes it will go away 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/
      I know it can be scary but just remember that DPDR is a natural reaction to stress and anxiety, and people experience it all the time. The National Institute on Mental Illness estimates that up to 75% of people experience at least one depersonalization / derealization episode in their lives. It's part of your brain's natural defence mechanism and usually it only lasts a few seconds or minutes at a time. It's only when it's focused on as a separate problem (feeling like you're going crazy / in a dream etc) that it can turn into a feedback loop with the anxiety that caused it in the first place. But no matter what caused it or how long you've had it, you can always switch it off completely by stopping that anxious feedback loop. Make sure to carefully read through all the articles and info on my website at www.dpmanual.com and my book The Depersonalization Manual.
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR 👍

    • @hunteraxtell2791
      @hunteraxtell2791 Před rokem +1

      I’m telling you it fades away! You will get better the more you recover! 32:49 32:50 32:51

    • @Ripper1234full
      @Ripper1234full Před 11 měsíci

      Having the same thing haha

    • @PRAMILAVESH
      @PRAMILAVESH Před 10 měsíci +1

      hey dont worry! same happened to me ! talk to people even if you feel wired it gets normal slowly! yeah this is strange feeling though

    • @PRAMILAVESH
      @PRAMILAVESH Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@Ripper1234fullyeah little wired in the beginning but still we have to accept it

  • @portfolio3721
    @portfolio3721 Před rokem +4

    Thank you for this, really needed it. I have a question- I'm at university at the moment and whenever I travel back home (not very often) i often feel like I forget who I am and what ive been doing at uni, as if I tie my memory's and self to my surroundings which are taken away from me when I am in an unfamiliar environment. anyone else?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +1

      Don't worry, having temporary anxious associations with certain environments is very common with DPDR and all anxiety-based conditions. I know it can be frustrating but it's harmless and temporary and will fade away and stop as your recovery continues 😊

    • @BalkanMusicYT
      @BalkanMusicYT Před rokem +2

      omg you put it into words! i feel like i forget there are other places than the one i'm currently at..

    • @joshuataylor3550
      @joshuataylor3550 Před rokem +1

      Memory recall is very situation specific

  • @lakshaysharma9742
    @lakshaysharma9742 Před rokem

    Dear shaun can you please make videos on hurting yourself thoughtss pleaseee please mkee a video orr tell meee all about your symptomsss

  • @musiqUe-dd9pi
    @musiqUe-dd9pi Před 11 měsíci

    your videos are the best, i've been watching you for 2 months and i swear NO DP ANYMORE but i still have fear and anxiety and thoughts which i can't handle, and answering this question can help. how do i know that i don't have schizophrenia, or PTSD, or GAD.?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci

      Glad to hear you're feeling better 😊 And to answer your question, read this, I think you'll find it useful: www.dpmanual.com/articles/schizophrenia_cancer_depersonalization/

    • @musiqUe-dd9pi
      @musiqUe-dd9pi Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@Dpmanual it did answer my question. thanks shaun, you are the best.. i will buy your dp manual book soon ♥

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci

      @@musiqUe-dd9pi I'm sure you'll find it very helpful! 😊

  • @chiruchiru2130
    @chiruchiru2130 Před 11 měsíci

    hi
    I am a Japanese person who exchanged Gmail with you. 2years ago.
    I'm sorry for my unskilled English.
    I forgot about depersonalization for a while, but recently I feel like I'm going insane because of the panic on the train.
    Especially when I get on a vehicle, I seem to panic.
    I think you can get on a airplane now, but do you ever find yourself panicking when you think back to when you were suffering from depersonalization?
    Isn't the experience of depersonalization itself traumatic?
    Someone once told me that panic and anxiety are process of healing depersonalization.
    He said that I was getting out of off mode and that I was starting to feel reality but my mind wasn't ready for it yet.

  • @sandazukovska8894
    @sandazukovska8894 Před 11 měsíci

    Dear Shaun, firstly i want to thank you for all the videos.
    I want to ask a question, I would greatly appreciate it if you answered, because I don't understand if what is happening to me is dp or something else and I have a feeling that you are the only one I can ask this to.
    I have had severe anxiety and panic attacks since I was 12 years old. right now after severe anxiety in the winter I started to feel strange, for a long time I couldn't understand what it could be until I found out about dp. there are several features that match what you've been saying about dp, but the main thing that worries me is that lately I literally can't look at my body anymore. I don't understand how I can have a head, arms, legs, organs and so on. I don't understand how I can even think and this brings so much discomfort thay i don’t know how to live with these feelings. is what i called also dp or is it something else? thank you very much for your reply in advance.
    P.S. sorry for my english, I’m trying my best with it

    • @korylewis7858
      @korylewis7858 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Yes these are DP/DR symptoms I get/ have got these thoughts/ feelings as well. It will pass you eventually get better day by day and forget about it and then randomly you will notice once day that it’s gone. Just hang in there be productive, keep a healthy routine, sleep, work eating etc and just operate life as normal and it will pass.

    • @sandazukovska8894
      @sandazukovska8894 Před 10 měsíci

      @@korylewis7858 Appreciate your reply. Thank you. Wishing the best!

  • @victoriazajda5877
    @victoriazajda5877 Před rokem +3

    Hey Shaun! Just wanted to ask if it’s normal for your family to look like strangers when dealing with DPDR? Thank you so much for all you do!

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +3

      Don’t worry Victoria, symptoms like that are super common with DPDR. I know they can be frustrating but they will fade away and stop as you recover 😊 www.dpmanual.com/about/do-i-have-depersonalization-disorder/

    • @KeelanM756
      @KeelanM756 Před rokem +2

      I got this too, it was scary but it passed as I recovered

  • @drmowafy
    @drmowafy Před rokem +2

    I just noticed something that confirmed how amazing you are - Shaun - If anyone's noticed, Shaun's got his ads off, and honestly - with the amount of replays and views he gets - he can make a gig out of this but he chooses not to. Thank you, Shaun. 👏

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +2

      I haven't monetized the channel and have no plans to do so 😊 I think that YT puts its own automatic ads in some regions -- I need to become part of the YT Partner program to turn them off, I'll get around to it someday! 😊

    • @drmowafy
      @drmowafy Před rokem

      @MIS اه يا كبير اهلا بيك 😁❤️

    • @drmowafy
      @drmowafy Před rokem +1

      @@Dpmanual Stay being amazing man. ❤️

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem

      @@drmowafy 😊😊😊

    • @drmowafy
      @drmowafy Před 11 měsíci

      @MIS للاسف الوعي عندنا تحت الارض في الحاجات ديه انت عارف، بس هو ببساطة يا محمد (اتمنى اكون صح لان اليوزر اوله M) .. احنا مهولين الموضوع مش اكثر، ومهولين اي حاجة بنربطها بيها - ف عيش حياتك وروح واخرج وذاكر - انا عارف الموضوع رخم وتحس انك مش مركز - بس متديش اهتمام. ❤️

  • @Kizuke.
    @Kizuke. Před rokem +4

    Hello Shaun. When I focus on the DP it gets terrifying worse for 1-2 secs it feels like I dont know where I am, who I am and like COMPLETELY distanced from reality. Why is that? Are you familiar with it?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem

      Don’t worry, feelings of disconnection like that are super common with DPDR and will fade away and stop as you recover 😊 www.dpmanual.com/about/do-i-have-depersonalization-disorder/

  • @toprabah1290
    @toprabah1290 Před rokem +3

    Hey Just tell me why some times I feel I am recovering and it is all going away but it gona come back all over again the same thoughts the same fear the same problem I don’t know what to do

  • @bownireful
    @bownireful Před 11 měsíci

    Hello! I am your Russian subscriber and I watch all your videos, and I have also read your book! Now I am in a state of DP for 6 months and I really want to write a comment after recovery, too, that I coped and overcame it! Please tell me such thoughts as: "Am I a person?" "Why do people need money if we are just a walking body" everything around seems strange, for example, using social networks, going to the store and so on, it's very difficult to explain it, but I tried… Does this all have to do with existential thoughts? I really hope for your answer!

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci

      Don’t worry, existential / intrusive thoughts like that are super common with DPDR. I know they can be frustrating and frightening but they are also temporary and harmless and will fade away and stop as your recovery continues 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-fears-and-anxious-thoughts/

  • @erastusoscarkangeja-ff2fx
    @erastusoscarkangeja-ff2fx Před 11 měsíci +1

    Man i am exhausted of Depersonalization. No signs of improvement 18months in but no choice but to go on its sucks Hey. Remembering how Cool & happy I was prior to DP/DR no it just seems never ending

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci

      Don't worry Oscar, it doesn't matter what caused it, how long it’s lasted, or whether it’s been 24/7 or episodic, you can always switch DPDR off completely by stopping the anxiety that's causing it 😊 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/how-long-does-depersonalization-last/

    • @mugdhasingh6696
      @mugdhasingh6696 Před 11 měsíci +1

      I have an issues of processing information and sometimes speech..is it a common symptom of dpdr?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 10 měsíci

      @@mugdhasingh6696 Read this, I think you'll find it useful 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-and-memory-loss/

    • @mugdhasingh6696
      @mugdhasingh6696 Před 10 měsíci

      @@Dpmanual hey, I read about these..but I have such that I can't follow up with people what they speak..I fail to understand

  • @11ellie7
    @11ellie7 Před rokem +1

    Do you have any advice for how to not check whether dp is present every morning? It’s like a daily thing for me, pretty much a compulsion but I’m too afraid to stop doing it if that makes sense

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem

      Head over to my website at www.dpmanual.com, there’s tons of info and tips on DPDR recovery there 😊

  • @elijahmegginson9242
    @elijahmegginson9242 Před 11 měsíci

    I was new to getting high and a trip I thought was going to be mellow was really intense. I have family who have been said to have mental illness so when I was overwhelmed I thought I was going insane/crazy like my family. Now every time I think about that bad high I think that I might have gone crazy even though I don't show any symptoms of mental illness. Is this an example of the DPDR anxiety and feedback loop?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci

      Don’t worry, fears of going crazy are super common with DP. I know they can be frightening but they’re harmless and temporary and will fade away and stop as you recover 😊 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-three-reasons-youre-not-going-crazy-2/

  • @tazuuu1
    @tazuuu1 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hey everyone, I had a confusion regarding DPDR. I know what the condition is, how it works etc. But the only thing I'm confused about is whether DPDR's objective is to:
    - disconnect us from the ANXIETY caused by the stressful situation
    or
    - disconnect us from the stressful situation and NOT the anxiety caused as a result of the situation
    An example of this would be if I was in the wild, getting chased by a lion, and my body would trigger DPDR, would the objective of DPDR be to disconnect me from all of the anxiety that I would have in that moment due to the situation, or would the objective of DPDR be to disconnect me from the situation itself (the lion chasing me).
    I hope I did a good job in explaining what my question is. I'd really like some answers:)

    • @Gardeez
      @Gardeez Před 10 měsíci +1

      Disconnect you from reality to make the stressful situation less conscious and vivid. The anxiety is what caused the episode, that part doesn't get removed.

    • @tazuuu1
      @tazuuu1 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@Gardeez Hey thanks for the reply. I figured this out a few days after I commented, and yes I came to the same conclusion as you. Reading you say the same thing is a great reassurance. I wish you all the best with your journey and I hope you're well.

    • @Gardeez
      @Gardeez Před 10 měsíci +1

      @tazwarrchowdhury thanks brother all the best with your recovery

  • @edenmusic8759
    @edenmusic8759 Před rokem

    Would live to see a bad trip recovery story

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem

      Hi! 😊 You mean from LSD?

  • @engjelllulaj3497
    @engjelllulaj3497 Před 11 měsíci

    Hello hope you guys are well. In december 21 i wake up in the middle of the night my body was shaking i stand up my heart start pumping a lot i felt my chest tight i barely couldnt move i had fear like domething bed was hapenin than my neck got numb and my head than i had like a shock in my upper head felt like electricity going through my head since than i done brain mri brain egg a lot of blood tests and heart check anything lungs every part of the body and nothing came up but i feel very tired and when i go for a walk my head feels like blocked or numb am i going to have a stroke can you guys help me ??

  • @Dpmanual
    @Dpmanual  Před rokem +2

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  • @itsDani5683
    @itsDani5683 Před 11 měsíci

    Hi shaun sir.... is Sexualy activity make trigger dp symptoms ??

  • @cheri3000
    @cheri3000 Před rokem +5

    Every week gets a little bit better. You have to work hard and you got to want to get better

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem

      Keep up the good work! 😊

    • @kamranhussain6117
      @kamranhussain6117 Před 10 měsíci

      What kind of hard work plz tell me . Plz what need I do to recover quickly plzzz

  • @user-zi3vq5hk2h
    @user-zi3vq5hk2h Před 17 dny +1

    อัปเดต

  • @user-sy1hh8dd4f
    @user-sy1hh8dd4f Před 19 dny

    why i feel like i dont have brain to think anything. my head scared my. i am so tired.

  • @ayushmanpanda186
    @ayushmanpanda186 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Hey Shaun. So I took a edible form of Cannabis two months back. For the very first time. And till date, I suffer from extreme memory loss. I have lost track of time and after every day, when I come back to my bed, my memory kind of resets and I question everything that I have done in the day. Whether it really did happen or was it all just a dream. When I am talking to someone too,I just get hyper aware and my mind kind of plays tricks with me and tells me I’m dreaming. I feel really stressed, and uncomfortable. What do I do???

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Thanks for your comment and don't worry, concentration + memory issues are very common with DPDR 😊 I know they can be frustrating but they will fade away and stop as your recovery continues: www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-and-memory-loss/

    • @snuffying
      @snuffying Před 10 měsíci

      i had the same thing from an edible! my friend took me over, sat me down, gave me a mug of warm milk with honey, and talked gently to me, showed me some universe stuff on his screen, and i kinda got in some kind of trance.... i slowly felt better over the next weeks, and finally i was all good :) it will get better... i believe you might need something to "reprogram" the bad trip, something nice and calming to show you that there is something nice out there. cuddling animals helps if you like that.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 10 měsíci

      @@snuffying Thanks for the tips, and hope you're feeling better! 😊

  • @janjuracka1
    @janjuracka1 Před rokem

    Hello Shaun! I want to ask you if it is normal that i have light-shyness at dpdr and i am still weary? i just wake up and i am sleepy :(

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +1

      Hi Jan, yes don't worry, symptoms like that are very common 😊
      www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-exhaustion-and-muscle-pain/
      www.dpmanual.com/articles/does-depersonalization-affect-vision/

    • @janjuracka1
      @janjuracka1 Před rokem +1

      @@Dpmanual oh thank you a lot!

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +1

      @@janjuracka1 Happy to help 😊

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem

      @@janjuracka1 Happy to help 😊😊

  • @croww3995
    @croww3995 Před 11 měsíci

    Hey i cant stop thinking about my dp because i can never stop thinking about something even if i try to sto

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci

      Head over to my website at www.dpmanual.com, there’s tons of info and tips on DPDR recovery there 😊

  • @danyunginn
    @danyunginn Před 11 měsíci

    Yeah This What I Need Please Help Me I Finally Found Out I Got This And I Think It Start All 2 Months When I Take Drugs🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci

      Hey, thanks for your comment 😊 I know DPDR can be scary but just remember that it’s a natural reaction to stress and anxiety, and people experience it all the time. The National Institute on Mental Illness estimates that up to 75% of people experience at least one depersonalization / derealization episode in their lives. It's part of your brain's natural defence mechanism and usually it only lasts a few seconds or minutes at a time. It's only when it's focused on as a separate problem (feeling like you're going crazy / in a dream etc) that it can turn into a feedback loop with the anxiety that caused it in the first place. But no matter what caused it or how long you've had it, you can always switch it off completely by stopping that anxious feedback loop. Make sure to carefully read through all the articles and info on my website at www.dpmanual.com and my book The Depersonalization Manual.
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR 👍

  • @JavierTorres-pu1uf
    @JavierTorres-pu1uf Před 11 měsíci

    I have a question I have been in dpdr state for 1 year and 2 months and I have had it 24/7 non stop every second of the day and my question is I completely forgot what normal feels like I can’t remember what it felt like its like dpdr is a part of me now and I just wanna go back to felling normal again do you think I’ll recover even if I forgot what normal felt like?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Don't worry, you can and will get 100% back to normal 😊www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@Tawitg Hi, you're asking a few different questions there, too many to answer in a CZcams comment, but head over to my website at www.dpmanual.com, there’s tons of info and tips on DPDR recovery there 😊
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR.

  • @issacwetmore973
    @issacwetmore973 Před rokem

    so I think I have it all the things people say match what I have but what do I do when I feel sick or jus not hungry??

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem

      Hi Isaac, check out this article, I think you'll find it useful: www.healthline.com/health/anxiety/anxiety-nausea

  • @jarrettalexander5982
    @jarrettalexander5982 Před 11 měsíci

    Does it feel like a constant hangover feeling or like you can't snap out of it and wake up?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci

      Yep, that's a good description 😊 www.dpmanual.com/about/do-i-have-depersonalization-disorder/

  • @juanernany7007
    @juanernany7007 Před 11 měsíci

    Shaun, do floaters disappear?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci

      Don’t worry, visual symptoms like that are super common with DPDR and will fade away and stop as you recover 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/does-depersonalization-affect-vision/

  • @carlaangles446
    @carlaangles446 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I have suffered since I was 17 and am 46 now. Tried my best.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci

      Don't worry Carla, it doesn't matter what caused it or how long it’s lasted, you can always switch DPDR off completely by stopping the anxiety that's causing it 😊 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/how-long-does-depersonalization-last/

    • @jason34796
      @jason34796 Před 9 měsíci

      what symptoms do you have? and has it been removed?

  • @lunaumbra5179
    @lunaumbra5179 Před 6 měsíci

    I'm not a fan of how you laugh about and trivialize anxiety. I get that it's an expression of recovery and success, but dpdr is not only anxiety. Maybe this framing helps people who get it as an adult, and from an acute experience, but for me, who had experience of dp as early as 3 years old and cemented into it around 12-14 and didn't become real until 29 years old, no amount of telling me it's just anxiety would help.
    Thankfully Keelan later mentions how dodr is a tool our brain uses. It's related to but distinct from anxiety. I think fear is a better generalizing term than anxiety. Anyway i like how you both transition away from trivializing anxiety

  • @yashwanthd1998
    @yashwanthd1998 Před rokem

    Need to talk to you. Really feeling hopeless

    • @drmowafy
      @drmowafy Před rokem +3

      I was there man. Recognize the amount of good things in your life, starting off with the fact that you can walk .. breathe .. got your own food, all the basics that some people don't even have and expand on other things that you do have (that will calm you down a little bit and make you feel grateful) then start living your life man, just don't focus on that spot.
      You can have a session with Shaun by the way, send him an email.

  • @khengkm6112
    @khengkm6112 Před rokem

    I think i got dp dr from spending time on screen,video game sorry for my bad eng

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem

      Don't worry, it doesn't matter what caused it, you can always switch DPDR off completely by stopping the anxiety that's causing it 😊 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/what-causes-depersonalization-disorder/

    • @khengkm6112
      @khengkm6112 Před 11 měsíci

      @@Dpmanual hey shaun i see my own nose in my vision and i see tracer when i look into sky it very scared me

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@khengkm6112 Don't worry, visual symptoms like you're describing are super common with DPDR and will fade away and stop as you recover 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/does-depersonalization-affect-vision/

  • @karthikhardik9597
    @karthikhardik9597 Před 11 měsíci

    Hi sir i am from India smoke weed penick atteck.. 😕😕

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Hey, thanks for your comment 😊 I know DPDR can be scary but just remember that it’s a natural reaction to stress and anxiety, and people experience it all the time. The National Institute on Mental Illness estimates that up to 75% of people experience at least one depersonalization / derealization episode in their lives. It's part of your brain's natural defence mechanism and usually it only lasts a few seconds or minutes at a time. It's only when it's focused on as a separate problem (feeling like you're going crazy / in a dream etc) that it can turn into a feedback loop with the anxiety that caused it in the first place. But no matter what caused it or how long you've had it, you can always switch it off completely by stopping that anxious feedback loop. Make sure to carefully read through all the articles and info on my website at www.dpmanual.com and my book The Depersonalization Manual.
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR 👍