I give foster dog back to the owner - Diary of a Rescue dog pt 8
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- čas přidán 10. 09. 2024
- In this video I give Dante back to his original owner Margaret. And show a condensed handover on how to carry on building Dante's confidence. It was very sad to have to say goodbye after all the time I spent with him but that is the job. However I am very happy he is doing well with Margaret who would do anything for him.
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Dante licking your tears was beautiful, he knew.
:) I think he did too.
He knew 😭
You made me cry
You are just a good man/trainer, Dante didn't forget his owner and he was relieved you can tell, but he loves you as well , the way he was sitting with you before you leave is such a precious time
You're very kind, thank you.
Well done Nigel, Dante was lucky to find you and it's obvious how much you cared for him. I hope Margaret can maintain the great work you've done.
Thanks Mike. Dante continues to be happy with Margaret.
You are such an inspiration, Nigel, and I'm glad that I'm not the only man who cries over his dog. We recently said goodbye to Stella, our 13 year old German Shepherd whom we rescued 12 years ago. Tomorrow, we meet a very shy, timid 2 year old German Shepherd who was surrendered to a dog charity in Perth, WA due to family reasons. We can't wait to welcome her to our home, give her a new life, build her confidence over time and find her happiness. Wish us luck!
Hi Neil, ha, yes i'm sure there are many of us. Dante was my most favourite dog ever . I was so sad to see him go.
So sorry to hear that re Stella. 12 years with a rescue is good going. She must have been very happy.
Lovely to hear you continue to rescue. What an amazing thing to do!!
Best of luck on your new journey.
Nigel
The best of CZcams is right here. What an inspiration. Just finished your book, our dog is on the way to improvement, she is already 90% there after 2 months
Thanks for getting the book. Great to hear improvements are being made. Well done!!!
I cried at the end there, but what a lucky dog to have his life transformed so much for the better by you.
Thanks for commenting and watching Fi. And for your kind words :)
It’s so wonderful to see, you made me cry.
We moved to Spain and it’s like playing Pac-Man.
I’m so happy for this lovely lady… to go on a walk must be relaxed.
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for commenting :)
Aww Nigel, I can’t imagine how hard it was for you to let him go. Dante is a new dog with a new life ahead of him thanks to you. Watching your videos and using your program helped me so much. You are amazing!
Thanks so much and great to hear. Keep up the good work.
Thank you so much for sharing your work with Dante, it was wonderful to watch him learn and grow and ultimately become happier 🥰
Thanks for watching and commenting Jemimah :)
Oh boy, that ending really got me. There is so much in this one video that helps with our dog. Thank you so much for putting up these videos. x
Pleasure. Thanks for watching. Be sure to subscribe for many more.
@@nigelreed Done!😄
This video really touched my heart. What a wonderful bond you and Dante built together, I’ve no idea how you managed to give him back. Well done for such a good job done.
Many thanks Tracie. He is still very missed.
Wow Nigel. Heartbreaking and amazing all at the same time. I'm 6 months in to being the owner of a reactive Bosnian rescue dog, and I've followed this series with interest. I'm just hoping I can get similar results to you. Thank you for sharing the video. I'm crying but so happy for Dante. C'mon Luca, you can do it. 🤞🏼🙏🏼
Thank you Lisa, lovely to hear you have rescued. Fingers crossed for you and Luca. X
Astonishing jobs done
Thank you :)
Congratulations Nigel!! Another professional success for you. Thank you for sharing. Best.
Many thanks Patricia!
So sad but so amazing too, an inspiration 🙌
Thanks Cemal. Hope you're both well :)
What an inspiration to us all!
Thank you Caitlin.
Love this. You have done an amazing job with Dante.well done
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Thanks Claire
Nicely done. So hard to spend that much time and then not have him arouns any more. I am sure Dante's owner is happy again. Hard on both ends. Looking forward to more content from you Nigel!
Thanks Gwen. A few weeks away for a new series. :)
Oh Nigel you really are the best trainer.....what an emotional day for you and Dante! Have to say this series has been first class and you are such an inspiration to others....I have learnt so much from watching all of your videos! Looking forward to your future video's! I also have your book and would thoroughly recommend. Thank you so much. ❤
Thank you for your kind words and getting the book. So pleased to hear you feel you have learned lots. :)
Amazing inspirational work Nigel
Thanks Max.
For me, fostering doggos, each one has such a special place. Even if only for a few days, they most definitely strum my heart strings. It's always bittersweet when the little nuggets Go Home with their family that has been waiting just for them.
9 months with Dante...wow. Oh my...Bless your heart. That had to be hard.
Thanks so very much for sharing this journey, Nigel!!! You have helped me be a better foster.
Blessings and best wishes to Dante and Margaret.
Thank you.
Yes very hard. But worth it :)
Thanks for watching.
Just watched all 8 parts of the Diary. Incredible work and a wonderful transformation. The way you explain things from a dog perspective is very helpful. My GSD’s reactive behavior makes so much more sense now. I’m looking forward to putting your advice into practice.
Thanks for watching. Hope all goes well and the videos help.
Well done for all your work with Dante, Nigel. I hope he'll continue to be a happier doggo from now on. I have a nervous second-hand chihuahua and your content has really helped us to improve! Thank you so much! 🙂
Great to hear Eli. :) Pleasure. Keep up the good work.
Excellent job, Nigel! Not only for Dante, but also for so many other dogs! This series was very helpful for me and Tobi (our rescue dog from Rumania). I am not a professional like you, so it will take more time, but you gave me the confidence that with consistency, patience and love Tobi too will be a wonderful dog. So touching the final scene with Dante! It shows me how much love you gave him! Thanks for everything!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Oh gosh I feel for you. I know that I'm going to miss Dante so can't even begin to comprehend how bad it must be for you. Thank you for everything you have done for him.
It was tough but all worthwhile :)
Thank you.
Dante transformation is legendary great to see happiness and success for dog and owner
Thanks Edwardo.
Heart wrenching for you.
Yes very sad. Thanks for watching Kim.
I would like to say a heartfelt thank you, back in winter 2020 I spoke briefly with you regarding problems leaving my greyhound living on my own made it even more difficult.
You suggested reading your book.
I did and I took it so slowly. I did't go food shopping even if it meant leaving alone longer than his progress aloud. No dog sitter no go.
I am so pleased to tell you I can now leave him up to 2/3 hours and he takes it in his stride.
So Nigel a huge thank you for being willing to take time to point on the right tracks. I am grateful and am sure my handsome hound his too.
You are a gifted compassionate human being and our four legged friends are all the happier for having you.
@@kimmartin3669 🥰 lovely to hear Kim, thank you for your kind words. And well done.
Feel for you having to hand him over to the lovely lady hope he works hard for her
It's going well. Thanks for watching Betty.
I love when Margaret said that it is new life for both of them ❤. Such a grateful lady! She deserves Dante :) You did a great job! Absolutely inspiring :)
Thank you :)
She really is the sweetest lady you could meet. Part of the reason why I chose to help her. And loved Dante too.
You were very brave! Thank you for all the work you've done and for raising so much awareness around you. You are making a huge difference in a lot of people's lives. We're crying with you.
That's sweet, thanks for commenting Florence.
Lovely job you have done x
Thank you :)
I can feel my blood-pressure skyrocket as soon as I see other dogs while you are walking, a sort of Pavlovian response from my own walks, I imagine! Anyway, I have got mine so far that they don't bark at everything anymore (as long as they don't get too worked up). Anyway, any amount of progress imbues me with hope for future rehabilitation...
On the right path. Keep going and well done.
Aw I'll miss seeing Dante. Would be awesome if you could do a 6 months video or something to see if he improves or regresses
Will do. All going well with him at the moment.
What at emotional and heartfelt goodbye 😭 I have learned so much from this series in addition to your course. Thank you so much!
Lovely to hear. Thank you so much for enrolling and following.
Thank you for the great content!!! Can anyone give us some advice??
In short: how to train a fearful dog so he will be able to go outside?
Detailed background info:
the dog is a 5 year old mutt, 25kg; raised by previous neglectful owner till now, where he is given up to re-home. He was rarely walked by the previous owner and often left alone most hours of the day. He is mostly a people and dog friendly.
We have had him for 2-3 weeks now. We have taken him to the vet, checked out, and he has gradually relaxed in our home. He is not food aggressive and only have mild separation anxiety which can be managed with some chew bones and mixed up leaving-ritual. No destructive behaviour, well potty-trained on pad. He used to bark at the door a lot at any tiny bit of sound, after following Nigel Reed's technique by saying thank you and checking the door ourselves, the barking is gone down to like 10-20% of the time.
His main issue is he is fearful of any sound outside. We live in a high-rise 1 room small apartment. Even walking out to the lift area is great challenge. He would crouch down and run back towards the apartment if he hear any sound from other apartments or the lift moving up and down the shaft.
Our estate regulation require all dogs to wear a muzzle when walking through buildings, but unfortunately the dog is been punished with muzzle before. So even if we could force him into the lift, he would still need to be on muzzle first. And so we cant take him down to the street for daily walks even if we want to. We are trying hard to desensitize him daily to the muzzle and try not to force him to wear it (tried and failed). So now we can only rely on in-house training, some in-house fetch and once-weekly visit to the big park by taking uber (by-passing the muzzle issue) as exercise. With in-house fetch, he would also get bored/ distracted quickly in like 5minutes, and wanting to check out any sounds at the door.
At home, training is fine, he doesn't learn very quickly but still able to pick up 1- 2 new tricks so far (high five and roll over). However he is quickly bored/ distracted during training and wants to keep checking the door.
He is not interested in any commands or treat once the door is half open, sometimes even when there is sound outside, he would be on high-alert and not take any treat,
When he is out at the park (two times now), leash pulling is moderate. He wouldn't take any treats or toys also once out-the-door.
We have tried leashing him and walking inside the apartment, then few steps outside and repeat. Though he seems very nervous and anxious.
With muzzle training in slow progress and difficulty to get more exercise for him, what should we do to help him? Will he loosen up a bit more by 3weeks and 3months?
Thank you everyone very much!!!!
Very moving, and I will really miss your vids with Dante. A happier dog makes the world a better place, and so do you.
Thank you :)
Wow what a transformation, it's amazing how much more confident he is now he knows he doesn't have to defend himself or you.
:)
Such a special boy, feel for you putting so much love into the relationship with him and handing him over. I love your approach, Dante was lucky to have had you help shape him. ( Not that I'm biased as my rescue looks the same!)
Thanks Rob, it was tough. I bloody love that dog. Great to hear you rescued. Your dog must be handsome too :)
I've loved following Dante's progress and your compassionate methods. Thankyou for what you do
Pleasure. Thanks for commenting and watching John.
Omg so sad Nigel. But u did great. Helped him so much. But still sad
Thank you :)
So gratifying, rewarding and yet heart wrenching. I learned so much from the series. Waiting for you to do one with home guarding.
Thanks for watching :)
Oh loved this series ... what a difference , gives me hope with my rescue . Can you tell me what harness you use please.
Hi Kelly, thanks for watching. It's called a Haqihana harness.
Okay, that made me mist up.
Thanks for watching :)
Like your videos, also nice hair transplant
Thanks although haven’t had a hair transplant. Just let it grow.
Amazing job Nigel, I've watched whole series this week and already practising with Kai. Inspirational stuff, but I couldn't have given Dante back at the end lol. Too much 🐕❤
Thanks for watching Steve. It was tough. Would have kept him in a heartbeat.
Oh this is so nice but sad to see at the same time!
:)
Thanks 😊
Welcome 😊
Thank you for sharing! Amazing job.
I’d like to ask you about the harness you’ve been using. I have 9 months old Houdini and would love this particular harness. Could you please share the brand? Thank!
Thank you. It's called a Haqihana harness.
Hi Nigel! I love all of your videos and am keen to try it out! I have a 10 year old yorkie who doesn't like other dogs and can't walk without a leash, if you have any tips or suggestions for older dogs that would be greatly appreciated! Thank you! 😄
Hi Caitlyn, glad you like the videos. The advice is the same whether it an old or young dog.
“I got used to it,” was bad from the get go. I always try to see good in people too but I’m really keen on red flags. Hope it works out. Good work you do!
I agree, plus you can tell this lady does not do a lot of walking, bad hip poor thing, plus she lives in the city. it's so sad cos her hearts in the right place, but really, she should have got a lower energy level rescue, maybe an older dog or smaller. There are plenty to choose from. Seems a bad match to me. I hope I'm proved wrong.
Thanks for watching. Much appreciated. It's all going well with Margaret at the moment. Fingers crossed it continues.
Hi Nigel
I have just ordered your book, I hope I can get some success with my 11 month old rescue Lakeland, terrier.he barks and try’s to bits me when I try to get him back out the car because of his behavior I calm him down I get inside car first then invite him to get in, he goes crazy, I have started to make him to sit outside the car but then he starts to bark and growling, I take him into the house calm him down then repeat the exercise, I do feel he might bit me please advise
Hi Cath, thanks for getting the book. It sounds like you are doing it right however if there is that much resistance he needs much more time at each stage before progressing forward. You can't rush the process it i'm afraid.
My dogs issue is with intact males. He is also intact. I recently met a very calm intact male and he still lunged and snarled. I know one of the dogs that attacked him was intact and possibly another one when he was a pup but im not sure how to get him ok with it. He is also intact. Its been suggested i give my dog the chop but that wont stop him smelling an intact male. So not sure. I dont want to remove body parts willy nilly.
Hi Lyndsey, it doesn't matter of it is intact males your dog has an issue with or big, small dogs. The advice is the same by teaching them to accept the issue in stages and show them you will protect them. The series demonstrates how to do that. Best of luck.
I think Dante would have been better staying with Nigel (if the owner would have been ok with it). I took my dog on knowing that he would be difficult and that i wouldnt give up but it was so exhausting. If i had felt there was a life that would have been better for him i would have accepted it i think. Not now though.
I wish he could of. He is doing still doing well though. :)
Well done Nigel for the great work I got a reactive Dalmatian so do u know when dog went pass u and u was stroking him to tell him it ok even when he was reactive should I do that ?
Hi Tyler, thank you. There is more to it than just stroking him. Please look at Part 4 "how to socialise your dog' for a lengthy explanation.
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"You know..... I got used to it!?!?!" I may delete this once I finish watching. Right now, I'm horrified; and I'm hoping she'll give Dante to Nigel.
Nope, I didn't change my mind. I understand it would've been terribly inappropriate; but I wonder how she would've responded if Nigel had just asked if she wanted to rehome Dante.
I wish CZcams had a sad button.
It was in the context of got used it because she had regular contact and knew he was making progress :)
Please come help my rescue dog. Not sure what training i need but need some. 🙄
Can do Hayley. Where are you based?
@@nigelreed so lovely of you to reply, im the west midlands, staffordshire. Hayley
Hi Hayley, would you be able to email me your postcode? Or feel free just to call.
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