To Hell And Back Season 1 Episode 7

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Komentáře • 768

  • @Vickymackay
    @Vickymackay Před 7 měsíci +88

    you guys .. thank you for watching.. really appreciate ❤❤

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 7 měsíci +333

    Ladies please kindly learn from these stories, this is not umgosi, its pure education that you can never get in school or at home

  • @lynnettekm1661
    @lynnettekm1661 Před 7 měsíci +211

    Same story happened to me from Uganda.My Nigerian fiance left me sinking bankrupt and I was 3weeks pregnant at the time.. Nigerians keep creating a bad name for themselves even when we try to give them benefit of doubt

    • @annabelkeisha1157
      @annabelkeisha1157 Před 7 měsíci

      Learn to date your men,you ladies are not different from them,you date them and bad mouth their women

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  Před 7 měsíci +7

      💔💔

    • @nochoyi8340
      @nochoyi8340 Před 7 měsíci +13

      We need this story Mommy

    • @gracegeorge7285
      @gracegeorge7285 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Why do you give them benefit of doubt? Because of your own lack of self control and fantasy you make up in your head? Why not get with your own men and who told you Nigerians need to prove themselves to you for any reason? You sound quite ignorant to paint a whole people with a broad brush. So there are no bad men where you come from? Pathetic comment.

    • @ladybee3764
      @ladybee3764 Před 7 měsíci +25

      Sorry this happened to you. Why do you people keep dating them ? You want to give them benefit of doubt

  • @sesimakoya
    @sesimakoya Před 7 měsíci +24

    “I still want to go back to the church…”
    👀 girllll they’ll finish you off now mos

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 7 měsíci +82

    I can see her pain behind that smile.....she will heal and conquer again, she is a Queen

    • @chloebadass9526
      @chloebadass9526 Před 7 měsíci

      Seems like I will never sign in before you😂😂😂

    • @Vickymackay
      @Vickymackay Před 7 měsíci +3

      babes thanks i wish i could give you a hug ❤

    • @Vickymackay
      @Vickymackay Před 7 měsíci

      i’m here

    • @candycarol2766
      @candycarol2766 Před 7 měsíci

      @@Vickymackay all the best and sending u❤ignore all the ignorant comments. You’re doing well 💪🏽🙌🏾

  • @beewest5704
    @beewest5704 Před 7 měsíci +32

    I saw a vid on YT of Nigerian woman warning other woman from Nigerian men. She said that all Nigerian men has a duty to marry a Nigerian women. He might date you, get you pregnant & even marry you but it will never change the fact that he has to marry a Nigerian woman. She says you will one day see his "sister" with her 3 kids moving in with you. They will make your life hell so you move. You will later find out that he used you for citizenship to get his wife & kids in the country. Even after divorce you will still find him making loans, opening accounts & registering kids you don't know into your name. I was shocked.
    Be aware!!!!

    • @tl3482
      @tl3482 Před 7 měsíci +3

      😮

    • @nginamacharia8225
      @nginamacharia8225 Před 7 měsíci

      Very true.. they do blood ritual with their women before they leave their country

    • @chikochiringa7247
      @chikochiringa7247 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Evil indeed

    • @user-kf8ii6nd2t
      @user-kf8ii6nd2t Před 6 měsíci +2

      I have a bitter experience with one Nigerian guy .....he used me to get what he wanted....some of them are heartless

  • @Thenjiwe
    @Thenjiwe Před 7 měsíci +22

    May this type of love never locate me🤞🏿

  • @bridgetbabe3042
    @bridgetbabe3042 Před 7 měsíci +72

    Every time I hear stories about these Western African scammers the more I get more Afraid to even get close to them

    • @goodnessmitileni1120
      @goodnessmitileni1120 Před 7 měsíci +7

      Yey I'm scared of any men not South African, stories like these are the worst

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 Před 7 měsíci +9

      The MALEMA says we are one in Africa 😭 One Africa he shouts remove the borders😭💔yeah neeh

    • @thabangmalepe1663
      @thabangmalepe1663 Před 7 měsíci +6

      I don't greet them cc

    • @maytshifularo5415
      @maytshifularo5415 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@thabangmalepe1663me too. I even walk faster as soon as they greet me.

    • @benbo7042
      @benbo7042 Před 7 měsíci

      😂😂😂😂

  • @zhegal1
    @zhegal1 Před 7 měsíci +18

    Leave Nigerian men for Nigerian women. No one in the world understands them

  • @KayNaude
    @KayNaude Před 7 měsíci +46

    I love seeing you win Owamie. You're definitely a hard worker.

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 7 měsíci +61

    Guys lets pray to God and thank him for our small small challenges...some people are going through the most

  • @mariaebbanangolo6973
    @mariaebbanangolo6973 Před 7 měsíci +112

    All the way from Namibia 🇳🇦….OMG women are really going through a lot worldwide. God have mercy upon our lives. Let’s hold our hands together as women and pray 🙏🏽

  • @pulanala1421
    @pulanala1421 Před 7 měsíci +32

    When we tell them about Nigerians they say we are jealous😂.
    Imagine dating someone who is trying to get citizenship so they can use it to commit crime.😭

    • @tloutlou2655
      @tloutlou2655 Před 7 měsíci

      🤔🤔🤔🤔

    • @nginamacharia8225
      @nginamacharia8225 Před 7 měsíci

      The worst part is to use women for prostitution n drugs n then leave u bankrupt, in jail or dead .. beautiful Kenyan former air hostess are rotting in jails in china cause they were used by Nigerians as drug traffickers

    • @Ladyle4ever
      @Ladyle4ever Před 7 měsíci

      First of all this foreigners escaped poverty from their country. They came here in SA to make money but we keep giving them our hard earned money but anyway they have their way of scamming us 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @williamshakur8715
      @williamshakur8715 Před 6 měsíci +2

      They think Nigerian are here for relationship. 😢😢😢❤❤❤

  • @richardtjipepe
    @richardtjipepe Před 7 měsíci +18

    Dear lady, he was scamming you. Nigerian brothers are doing this all over the world even here in Namibia 🇳🇦. They know how to do the long game.

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 Před 6 měsíci

      Majority mixed race children in Western worlds now Africa are from Nigerians, God is watching

    • @Gorgeous493
      @Gorgeous493 Před 6 měsíci +1

      You see, that long game thing, will deceive you if you don't know your story.

  • @mandyishername
    @mandyishername Před 7 měsíci +30

    😂😂😂when she said the church is “Redeemed” I was like oh ok now everything makes sense. The church is a Nigerian church called Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) . If you meet a Nigerian man who goes to that church please run 🏃🏾‍♀️ my sister. They know everything their members are doing and they look away because they benefit from the tithe. The guy was probably in a war with someone who also goes to the church. Maybe it was a cultist or he swindled someone money from the business deal that’s why the guys were looking for him. He was in serious trouble. But the church knows the whole story.

    • @benbo7042
      @benbo7042 Před 7 měsíci +1

      You are absolutely right.

    • @kaybee918
      @kaybee918 Před 7 měsíci +2

      When she said God was giving him a sign not to go there I started suspecting someting rituals she's lucky to be alive God loves her so much she saved her life it's a good thing the guy left that's why I play far from Nigerian man bcos yoo no ways is only a few that are good the rest of them are a no no sorry

  • @Claire-yt6xx
    @Claire-yt6xx Před 7 měsíci +162

    Owamie, I was busy eating my vetkoek when I started watching this and I had to come sit down now because I want to pay full attention while writing this comment.
    When I first started watching your content here on CZcams, I was of the opinion that your English and grammar was not that great. In fact, it irritated me a bit to try to understand what you're saying, even though I assumed it was not your first language. It was to the point where I commented my dismay and I gave you advice to speak slower and speak more clearly. Looking back now I could have been kinder with my wording. (don't judge me, we grow😅). And you were graceful in your response, which was simply liking my comment.
    Anyway, I kept watching for some reason. I was attracted to your character. Something about queen ninja just kept me coming back to your content.
    I have now been watching you for 3 years. I'm the biggest ninja and I don't watch SA news on CZcams unless it's you posting it. In those 3 years I have watched you IMPROVE immensely. You constantly level up. Your vocabulary, your wordplay.....your EGRISH is now ENGLISH. And I couldn't be happier to swallow my critique.
    I just want to say congratulations on your growth and all your new endeavours. I look forward to seeing what else you come up with for our entertainment. I'm rooting for you.

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  Před 7 měsíci +42

      This is soo sweet thank you so much 🥰🥰

    • @mrhumbamakombe8387
      @mrhumbamakombe8387 Před 7 měsíci +47

      Work on your attitude. Apologising is not enough. We are all different in talk & action when talking. Owami is the same as before but you have now become used to her. Stop belittling this sweet lady. She would win any man with the way she talk and move her head when talking. Can you upload yourself talking so that l can comment. Im sure a hyena is better. Stop belittling. 3years and you think she is still crawling. She is it. The mighty Victoria Falls of a lady. The smoke that thunders. Peace

    • @Claire-yt6xx
      @Claire-yt6xx Před 7 měsíci +11

      @@mrhumbamakombe8387🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I needed this laugh thank you

    • @khanyisilemathebula6582
      @khanyisilemathebula6582 Před 7 měsíci +3

      ⁠😂😂😂kill me one more time please

    • @Sacred_Walls
      @Sacred_Walls Před 7 měsíci +14

      @@mrhumbamakombe8387thank you for saying what I was going to say. This mumu just wants to use all their small small engrish to criticise an entire queen! Nxa!

  • @prettyleremi9748
    @prettyleremi9748 Před 7 měsíci +41

    Nigerians don't love us shemmmm😢

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  Před 7 měsíci +1

      😢😢😢

    • @gracegeorge7285
      @gracegeorge7285 Před 7 měsíci

      🙄

    • @ScissorN
      @ScissorN Před 7 měsíci +1

      Not even SAns loves us what did you expect wena

    • @YouWell2
      @YouWell2 Před 7 měsíci

      SA women don't have the most respectable rep, if we are being honest...

    • @mapulahaidymashaba217
      @mapulahaidymashaba217 Před 7 měsíci

      Actually foreigners are here for purpose ladies must wake up serious I know lots of girls who Are married to foreigners now they are dumped with kids , and funny thing thdon't know there home country.

  • @thokomasango2294
    @thokomasango2294 Před 7 měsíci +12

    It's obvious this guy is criminal. The inappropriate laugh is a sign of dealing with pain

  • @gabrielthuu
    @gabrielthuu Před 7 měsíci +21

    Ladies these shows are for y’all to LEARN
    ITS NOT JUST ENTERTAINMENT!!!!!!!

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Even for you men to talk to each other

  • @Tonto773
    @Tonto773 Před 7 měsíci +37

    Girl was smitten and dickmatised. I know it's wrong to paint people with the same brush(stereotypes) but I've witnessed and heard so many stories about Nigerians to rule them out as lovers. My SA ladies PLEASE let's stay away from those people period! Never date someone you can't trace. Please forgive yourself my lady and heal. God loves you, love and light, I wish you nothing but the best ❤

    • @Boikanyo_M
      @Boikanyo_M Před 7 měsíci +1

      I agree with your sentiments , better safe than sorry.

    • @Tatianarain
      @Tatianarain Před 7 měsíci

      It’s weird that Nigerian women feel even more fear toward SA men. A lot of the SA news we get in Nigeria has to do with SA men unaliving their women, committing xenophobic attacks etc

    • @Tonto773
      @Tonto773 Před 7 měsíci

      The Xenophobic attacks are as a result of the crimes done by Nigerians. South Africans are tired of witnessing their own being destroyed. Taking the law into their own hands is wrong but I understand where they are coming from. Have you ever watched any SA news about the syndicates of Nigerian human trafficking & drugs? I've lived in Johannesburg & Pretoria for over 20yrs and the things I've witnessed Nigerians do have traumatized me🙆🏽‍♀️ A lot of them travel to SA for crime. Same thing I witnessed in Brazil. America has a special drug unit just for Nigerians. The fear towards them is very real!

    • @Boikanyo_M
      @Boikanyo_M Před 7 měsíci

      @@Tatianarain Fear men in general. lol

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I think the topic here is on Fake Love marriages dubious lies etc nit xenophobia, xenophobia is for another blogg

  • @ayandabazimukile990
    @ayandabazimukile990 Před 7 měsíci +43

    Its so sad to see how much love women have to give yet they keep on bumping into scammers and men with cruel and impure intentions 🥺

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Even men also go through the same 💔

    • @la-ry1ms
      @la-ry1ms Před 6 měsíci

      Women get used and dumped all the time why does it become an issue just because a Nigerian is involved.Atleast the she has a baby to remember him by

    • @aliceeyong411
      @aliceeyong411 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@la-ry1ms This is so heartless of you to say. Y'all will get your reward soonest from God's wrath.

  • @pinkqueen916
    @pinkqueen916 Před 7 měsíci +38

    I was a member of a church for 16 years, served for all those years But when it came to me separating from my husband they never intervened or showed genuine concern. I got just one call from the pastor telling me when" I cool down I know where to find them". Am telling this story to mention that the leaders only like you when you come to church. When sh!t hits the fan you are of no use to the church.

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  Před 7 měsíci +2

      😳😳

    • @Me-xoxoz
      @Me-xoxoz Před 7 měsíci +2

      l think that was the best thing for you because most churches gaslight women to stay in an abusive marriage. They will enable the husband's behaviour and tell the woman to be submissive. When l left my marriage my ex was running around trying to find church pastors to knock some sense in me, pastors l did even know nor attend their churches.

  • @mandyishername
    @mandyishername Před 7 měsíci +14

    This guy enjoyed and wasted her youth. 😢 Yoh Laba nabo 🇳🇬😂 my ex used to call his girlfriend that he left in Nigeria his ex but they are married now. One thing about Nigerian girls they can wait for their men and be patient no matter what they are doing in the country they are in.They can wait for 10 years, very strong women 💪🏾

    • @glorymuzyamba2440
      @glorymuzyamba2440 Před 7 měsíci

      That's exactly what my ex did only God will judge them ....

    • @benbo7042
      @benbo7042 Před 7 měsíci +4

      They don't wait for waiting sake. It is all about money. As long as the guy is showering them with money, they just don't care how long it takes and what the guy does. It is money not love.

    • @banyana6515
      @banyana6515 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@benbo7042Exactly. They are money worshiping whores.

  • @rebonematonsi426
    @rebonematonsi426 Před 7 měsíci +13

    She knows what this guy was involved in. May she be completely healed ❤.

  • @busai1399
    @busai1399 Před 7 měsíci +30

    A man from Zambia tried to persuade me to buy a Toyota Hilux for us to start a "business" in Zambia, but something inside me said absolutely not. Looking back and knowing what I know now, I could have been scammed. I'm so thankful to God.

    • @teascobie6557
      @teascobie6557 Před 7 měsíci +3

      never give men money, nor purchase them expensive things

    • @TheLilianbaby
      @TheLilianbaby Před 6 měsíci +1

      Meaning is not just Nigerian men.

    • @chikochiringa7247
      @chikochiringa7247 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@TheLilianbabyit's everywhere unfortunately.

    • @loliwemoyo5680
      @loliwemoyo5680 Před 6 měsíci

      Even SA men can scamm its just that Nija men do it better.

  • @bangiwenjanga2949
    @bangiwenjanga2949 Před 7 měsíci +9

    Most woman are afraid to expose themselves they feel ashamed, thanks for sharing..

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 7 měsíci +48

    The guest is superb...she is explaining everything clearly, I'm glad she is okay

    • @Vickymackay
      @Vickymackay Před 7 měsíci +2

      thanks babes .. i’m here ❤

  • @Bbb-ml4gb
    @Bbb-ml4gb Před 7 měsíci +26

    You are not imagining things that guy was a target by his people he knew exactly why you guys are shot, he never loved you that's why he was sending money to Nigeria while still things were good he knew what he was doing that money was going to his real fiance in Nigeria.
    Glad you are healed you are so young you got a whole world ahead of you now its in your hands to take the early lessons of life and be wiser.
    You are beautiful move on and enjoy your life ahead.
    Owamie Shibobo I'm with you people of that church are going to hell.

  • @thuliendlovu719
    @thuliendlovu719 Před 7 měsíci +8

    Lets not lie, 9 years older than a matriculant is too much!

  • @neegee3755
    @neegee3755 Před 7 měsíci +13

    She’s such a pretty black berry 😍

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb Před 7 měsíci +13

    Yhooooo imagine dating in matric?. Haii Ladies.💔💔💔😩😭
    She was in this relationship alone. This man took advantage..
    The sad part is ; if he can come back TODAY, she would still take him back. She loves him

  • @tip-z2398
    @tip-z2398 Před 7 měsíci +11

    I like the other stories where the lady takes us through the relationship before the horror haybo lana kuvele kwaConfusing in the church haybo hospital haybo sgaxa after sgaxa from the beginning and the entire time u like hawu who did this? ewu

  • @user-tk1uq2iy9p
    @user-tk1uq2iy9p Před 7 měsíci +5

    Im from South Africa many Nigérian man used South American women to survive and later left to get married their country same thing happen to me😢

  • @gracedrosie5127
    @gracedrosie5127 Před 7 měsíci +12

    men always choose themselves, we ought to learn to be selfish and only do what makes us happy. always choose you.

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 7 měsíci +58

    The way Owamie is so beautiful is illegal

    • @vickynhlengethwa3242
      @vickynhlengethwa3242 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Illegal 😄😄😄

    • @tebor1381
      @tebor1381 Před 7 měsíci +1

      It's very much illegal struu❤Queen Ninja umhle❤

    • @thandothando2779
      @thandothando2779 Před 7 měsíci +3

      She is too much, you can a
      See she is in her happy era and I love it for her🌸🌸

    • @fashionKalmahouse
      @fashionKalmahouse Před 7 měsíci +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅illegal

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 7 měsíci +19

    Uheadboy/prefect of the Ninjas has arrived, please sit back, relax and enjoy

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb Před 7 měsíci +12

    That man came to South Africa with a mission!.
    Sounds like he even had a whole wife at home. But for him to leave you pregnant, haii his coming back. Scary! I’m so sorry for you. I wish you can just get therapy, move on, give love a chance again. That was not love.

  • @TattoosByDee
    @TattoosByDee Před 7 měsíci +19

    Ladies, be careful out there.
    Love with all your eyes open wide... 😳🤯

  • @patiencempirirwe5449
    @patiencempirirwe5449 Před 7 měsíci +72

    Shes knows the illegal business he was into, tell us the whole story, there is no need to protect him now.

    • @rudzanikharivhe6294
      @rudzanikharivhe6294 Před 7 měsíci +8

      I saw it from the moment she started talking about her shooting, she's not telling us tge truths

    • @angiegona4238
      @angiegona4238 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Exactly my thought shame but I do feel sorry for her it’s so painful no one deserves that

    • @noxzienocturnal4544
      @noxzienocturnal4544 Před 7 měsíci +7

      She's even protecting him with the shooting. Mina i would've immediately put 2 and 2 together after he disappeared with my money. Wayefuna ukumbulala, even the people that were "threatening" her were probably in cahoots with him trying to make it seem like he had a legit reason to vanish. Funny thing is that Nigerians always say that they are here to hustle and prefer to marry Nigerian women. People just don't want to listen.

    • @Mtase1234
      @Mtase1234 Před 7 měsíci +15

      This is the problem about us women judging one another,until it happens to you,you won't believe it. Even now you can't see it's still like a dream to her and trust me for those of us who work with her we know and see how it affected her

    • @jae-realistic
      @jae-realistic Před 7 měsíci

      I beg to differ, these people can be very secretive. Once Nigerians cross each other , they don't hesitate to kill

  • @preciousisiguzo2052
    @preciousisiguzo2052 Před 7 měsíci +10

    Redeem is a Nigerian church owned by Adeboye and maybe those people knew he was married back home and you were just a girl that he was using while hustling in South Africa . That guy might have been involved in shady things and he was a Yahoo boy

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 7 měsíci +22

    Can we expose this man and hospitals....maybe the chirch should also explain if they did a police report or something

    • @Letstalkaboutit2323
      @Letstalkaboutit2323 Před 7 měsíci +1

      They are many. A facebook group exposing them should be created ba expoziwe goet.

  • @vukosimphilo1702
    @vukosimphilo1702 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Baby girl is still in love, she says he is still regretting a lot, he is NOT , he is married to the love of his life, you nothing

  • @victorioussisters3307
    @victorioussisters3307 Před 7 měsíci +10

    My goodness I don’t know how many times I clapped my hands due to shock and even said this is like a Nigerian movie script ; alas she then said the guy is Nigerian 😮.

  • @bellatalkssa405
    @bellatalkssa405 Před 7 měsíci +11

    I feel like this man used this lady from the ON set...he dated her as she was working for him, he probably saw that she's a hard worker and surely she was a potential workhorse for him. I also think he actually wanted her dead, why was he shot on the leg and her on the tummy while pregnant, or those people wanted to kill her to hurt him, maybe. After all the trauma, he gave her another pregnancy as a "thank you ".... izza lot

  • @iddashivolo5366
    @iddashivolo5366 Před 7 měsíci +13

    Girl..... as a nurse,I know😮 they put you at the adge of the ward cos the colostomy is smelling . That was so bad and unprofessional. The sadation was so you dont call them so much😢😢😢im sorry for that traumatic experience.

  • @patriciamotsamai3850
    @patriciamotsamai3850 Před 7 měsíci +59

    Finally a guest who can narrate events well and clearly

    • @CynthiaFrancis-wr4xp
      @CynthiaFrancis-wr4xp Před 7 měsíci +11

      The shade😂

    • @noxzienocturnal4544
      @noxzienocturnal4544 Před 7 měsíci +13

      I think Owamie should start leading these interviews more because it seems like people tend to go off on a tangent if they aren't provided with a structure.
      Naye losisi kept losing herself here and there but it wasn't that bad because Owamie was able to bring her back.

    • @neosjournal_
      @neosjournal_ Před 7 měsíci +5

      @@noxzienocturnal4544 when she tries to lead them people complain and say she’s interrupting them 😂

    • @minenhledumakude9896
      @minenhledumakude9896 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Dont be insensitive wena rubbish

    • @patriciamotsamai3850
      @patriciamotsamai3850 Před 7 měsíci

      @@minenhledumakude9896 who are you insulting

  • @Youtube_Bee
    @Youtube_Bee Před 7 měsíci +63

    Did Owamie do a counselling course because her emotional intelligence and empathy are amazing.

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  Před 7 měsíci +20

      Not yet though i did study psychology a long time ago ❤ Thank you

    • @missbongantwasa8268
      @missbongantwasa8268 Před 7 měsíci +4

      She's a qualified nurse, remember??

    • @neomalete5832
      @neomalete5832 Před 7 měsíci

      very true, knowing me i'd meet her for the first time and tell her my whole life story😅

    • @iddashivolo5366
      @iddashivolo5366 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@missbongantwasa8268no sis she's not. She even explained she quit nursing school. But she might have done some modules

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 Před 7 měsíci +1

      ​​@@boldlyowamieask some how psychologist who you can work with , who would volunteer and counsel for free.. the wanted to help people after all 😂😭💔

  • @lungilemotubatse8491
    @lungilemotubatse8491 Před 7 měsíci +9

    This story doesn't make any sense.I am sorry

    • @Oracle0211
      @Oracle0211 Před 5 měsíci

      40 minutes in and im so lost, I keep going back thinking maybe I missed something

  • @lovenessmadimu3901
    @lovenessmadimu3901 Před 7 měsíci +15

    They are disgusting,im also a victim..i would love to share my story whenever i come back to Africa..
    They are making their world smaller and smaller

  • @noxzienocturnal4544
    @noxzienocturnal4544 Před 7 měsíci +13

    I can't believe she never mentioned him being a suspect in that shooting after what he did. He wanted to kill her. Did he even get shot or he just told her that he too got shot? No mention of his businesses and what happened to them but they had money? She knew his shady businesses.
    South African women basijwayeza kabi ngalabantu. Khuthiwa siyanuka, asikwazi ukugeza, si dom because of them. Love yourselves enough not to throw yourselves to filth that you know is filth just coz it's love bombing you.

  • @YozNaturali
    @YozNaturali Před 7 měsíci +45

    I agree with Owamie, nurses have no right to be tired of a patient's condition. They chose this job. Even us we dont get tired of our jobs.

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Vele 😭💔

    • @zinhlenorah9867
      @zinhlenorah9867 Před 6 měsíci

      I wish you could work in a hospital, sometimes it is not easy shame, nurses are human too and have different challenges as well.

  • @siyamthandamgunculu9950
    @siyamthandamgunculu9950 Před 7 měsíci +31

    Loving this space you’ve created for women to speak about their experiences without judgement ❤️☺️I hope she finds healing

  • @sinehope_
    @sinehope_ Před 7 měsíci +52

    Love the hair Ninja. I've always told my Nigerian friends that we might get along but I will never trust them. Apologies but the stigma

    • @gracegeorge7285
      @gracegeorge7285 Před 7 měsíci

      That’s fair enough. I’m glad you know you are stigmatizing some very good people because of a few experiences but do we care? We don’t. We don’t need you and don’t trust you either. I know many of your countrymen that are worse.

    • @fashionKalmahouse
      @fashionKalmahouse Před 7 měsíci +12

      I don't trust them either.thats what they do even here in Nairobi Kenya.

    • @norahmaleka-lt8uv
      @norahmaleka-lt8uv Před 7 měsíci +6

      I can never trust them yerrrr

    • @Kg_525
      @Kg_525 Před 7 měsíci +8

      Me too we can laugh together but the is always the side eye

    • @maulinenkatha7076
      @maulinenkatha7076 Před 7 měsíci +9

      @@fashionKalmahouseikr😢,they are all over and always target wealthy women (how gullible),apparently the government is silent on the matter yet they are just here for scamming,watch out for Ghanaians too

  • @mapsmaps805
    @mapsmaps805 Před 7 měsíci +21

    I can't shake off the feeling that this gentle lady is lying through her teeth. There are many gaps in her story😂

    • @talkativelindy2531
      @talkativelindy2531 Před 7 měsíci +6

      I also feel the gaps like how did She go from having a business to not having anything.

    • @refiloera
      @refiloera Před 7 měsíci +2

      A lot something is not adding up man

    • @refiloera
      @refiloera Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@talkativelindy2531exactly

    • @nametsopule
      @nametsopule Před 7 měsíci +9

      Ya'll don't know Nigerians 😅, they will humble you.. .

    • @refiloera
      @refiloera Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@nametsopule 🤣🤣🤣🤣yhoooo

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 7 měsíci +16

    The guest should change her number and cut ties with this man, he may trace her and do more harm...cut ties with him

  • @Skhonza
    @Skhonza Před 7 měsíci +9

    I knw Redeemed its an international church n its origin is in Nigeria. Most Naijas go there...its disappointing that the church ddnt help and or follow up with her.
    One thing ive learnt though. Church is not God.

  • @carolinemashego2533
    @carolinemashego2533 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I've always been scared of Nigerians even though women love them...I heard a few horrific stories and decided no thanks you

  • @anittanxusa
    @anittanxusa Před 7 měsíci +21

    I’m at work listening 🌚🧍🏽‍♀️

  • @sanga8349
    @sanga8349 Před 7 měsíci +42

    1. When did you meet the guy/girl
    2. How would you describe the early stages of your relationship
    3.After how many year/days/Months into the relationship did you guys start having problems?

    • @kms708
      @kms708 Před 7 měsíci +44

      At this rate y'all should open your own podcast🤣....not everyone interviews the same.

    • @sanga8349
      @sanga8349 Před 7 měsíci

      @@kms708 REST

    • @boitumelojoycemasuge4467
      @boitumelojoycemasuge4467 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@kms708😂😂😂 abeg

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 Před 7 měsíci

      ​​@@kms708😂😂😂 tell them wena

    • @dianastjohn700
      @dianastjohn700 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@kms708No. Please, we need all stones turned. It helps us better to know what to look out for.

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 7 měsíci +19

    What on earth is going on, seriously women are going through hell

  • @SiphindileMKSouthAfrica
    @SiphindileMKSouthAfrica Před 7 měsíci +11

    Owamie please tell our guest that i say i pray that Lord Jesus may provide her with her heart desires ❤

  • @ladybee3764
    @ladybee3764 Před 7 měsíci +8

    It's possible her fiancee set her up. Even if he got shot too. Maybe he didnt want the baby

  • @shireenmonama5765
    @shireenmonama5765 Před 7 měsíci +33

    They are here to finish us🥺

  • @yoursTruly20711
    @yoursTruly20711 Před 7 měsíci +39

    This is heartbreaking 🥺. I pray she finds healing. Thank you guys for giving us all these life lessons ❤

  • @ninahmbatha1890
    @ninahmbatha1890 Před 7 měsíci +12

    You were never his girlfriend but his side chick 💔💔💔

  • @pinkymalatji1683
    @pinkymalatji1683 Před 7 měsíci +8

    Nigerian men have true love but its for their fellow Nigerian women

    • @kalimbaayinde25
      @kalimbaayinde25 Před 7 měsíci +6

      Not even for them. They only love themselves

    • @glorymokwena8509
      @glorymokwena8509 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Those who have love they are few then most they are demons

    • @angelakwaramba9752
      @angelakwaramba9752 Před 6 měsíci +3

      They pretend so. They can do anything to achieve their goal that’s for sure. They can live with a person for 10 years until they get what they want. That’s how determined they are.

  • @tiziay
    @tiziay Před 7 měsíci +6

    "Redeemed" is a Nigerian founded church. Same is true for "Moutain of Fire".

  • @Mtase1234
    @Mtase1234 Před 7 měsíci +23

    Vicky I'm proud of you sis.... as your colleague it breaks my heart to listen to the full story of what really happened to you,may God almighty heal you and please never ever blame yourself for what has happened this guy doesn't deserve you❤
    But now what if what happened it was meant to happen to you but they short him on the leg just to cover up just saying coz clearly he had his own agenda, maybe he wanted to get rid of you so that he can go back and marry his fiance just think about it😢

  • @DeeDiva777
    @DeeDiva777 Před 7 měsíci +12

    I wish a lot of women can access this stories. Most especially those in Joburg and other urban areas.

  • @masesikubheka416
    @masesikubheka416 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Redeemed is a Nigerian church with headquarters in Nigeria and the founders are Nigerian

  • @uzo435
    @uzo435 Před 6 měsíci +4

    It's such a sad story! Women!!!! protect your wombs!!! Stop sleeping and having children with men who would not do right by you. While I empathize with her story, the getting pregnant while going through all that trauma had me like 😮

  • @amandamaphosaphumzile2348
    @amandamaphosaphumzile2348 Před 7 měsíci +8

    I SUSPECT IT WAS A SACRIFICE THAT WENT WRONG

  • @Potato-lp5ij
    @Potato-lp5ij Před 7 měsíci +9

    I didn't know of you before madam owamie, but I'm so happy the algorithm brought me here I've watched every single interview since the fairytale marriage to this one and I'm hooked my heart goes out to these women!! like khanyi said MEN WILL LEAVE YOU IN THE DESSERT WITH NO WATER!! YOH!!!

  • @HolisticHealth-sd2ye
    @HolisticHealth-sd2ye Před 7 měsíci +6

    Queen Ninja some of us are definitely born and bred in Gauteng, i was raised by a single mom....Great grandparent( from Mamelodi and hammanskrall)...my grandparents from Ga-Rankuwa( all 4 of them)...my mom's house is in Mabopane....so Pretoria is my village...and it's a beautiful thing. Ke ngwanyana wa touchline😂

  • @nobuhleb2102
    @nobuhleb2102 Před 7 měsíci +10

    I hope she heals we all are going thru something it differs in Grades yoooh😢😢😮😮

  • @Blacklist_Entertainment
    @Blacklist_Entertainment Před 7 měsíci +8

    All African countries should be visa free exuding Nigeria😢😢😢 haaa noo mann brothers sounds like he was a dealer,why were police looking for him? N why were you protective of this guy ? Love will really blind you ninja

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 Před 7 měsíci

      Nigerian and Congolese are topping the charts there by the love bombing departments😂😂😂

  • @dimphonare6034
    @dimphonare6034 Před 7 měsíci +22

    As I wait for 12:00🎉😂😂❤
    All the way from Botswana 🇧🇼 🙌

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 Před 7 měsíci

      Yeah Lena the people who are making Pearl TO be Kedeboni😂

  • @maggynowak3555
    @maggynowak3555 Před 7 měsíci +8

    These scammers are brutal

  • @masesikubheka416
    @masesikubheka416 Před 7 měsíci +4

    R2000 is currently 100, 000 Naira in Nigeria. This hurts me. Karma will deal with him.

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 7 měsíci +30

    The baby daddy is so disappointing...kanti thina amadoda do we think straight straight? Something is clearly wrong with us

    • @SiphindileMKSouthAfrica
      @SiphindileMKSouthAfrica Před 7 měsíci

      Injalo nj Gatsheni, man don't know what they want

    • @MandyDikeni-cm4ef
      @MandyDikeni-cm4ef Před 7 měsíci

      Bayaphoxa shame abantu beslisa

    • @Tebstechpodcast
      @Tebstechpodcast Před 7 měsíci +1

      Angithi they said Nigerian are better. They don't understand the are good and bad people everywhere

  • @cc35506
    @cc35506 Před 7 měsíci +7

    The way she narrated I thought the fiance and the Nigerian were 2 different people. But woah she's been through a lot. May she continue to heal.

    • @lesedikhoaripe8072
      @lesedikhoaripe8072 Před 7 měsíci

      It goes to show that when they say that there are 2 sides to a person and you you’ll never really know someone

    • @cc35506
      @cc35506 Před 7 měsíci

      @@lesedikhoaripe8072 No just the way she narrated and put together the story. In the middle of the story thats when she mentions by the way he is Nigerian.

  • @siyandamdluli4060
    @siyandamdluli4060 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Owamie, your work is amazing babe. Your work ethic 🙌🏾. I’m inspired.

  • @thusimphahlele5085
    @thusimphahlele5085 Před 7 měsíci +7

    the shooting rubs me off the wrong way. I think he had her as some sort of assurance/insurance. He wanted to make less suspicious getting shot on the foot. Why did he go directly to her after HE was shot?wasn’t he gonna look for help or hide for safety?there’s something iffy with that.

    • @user-ye4or5uq3m
      @user-ye4or5uq3m Před 4 měsíci

      How did he run to her after being shot in the foot?Her story doesn't make sense!She is an accomplice of wrongdoings this lady.

  • @katlegonatasha7707
    @katlegonatasha7707 Před 7 měsíci +29

    If people who don't bath for 4 days look this good I'm gonna bath after a week 😂😂😂

  • @bangibabs
    @bangibabs Před 7 měsíci +15

    Owami this content you are giving us is not only informative but life changing. These stories can help others and encourage those who have gone or going through the same situations to rise up and keep pushing. Love this so much and the quality that you give us is amazing. Thank you so much for your good work and for raising awareness.❤
    Yes please for part 2🙏🏾

  • @ermitamartel
    @ermitamartel Před 7 měsíci +6

    all nigerians always have a nigerian wife already chosen for him from a young age

  • @kenaopematlhare7992
    @kenaopematlhare7992 Před 7 měsíci +3

    that is why nigerian movies/stories are like this,they experience this in their lives

  • @nosiphimalaza1974
    @nosiphimalaza1974 Před 7 měsíci +5

    I'm still wondering how can a man will convince you,to give him or render him money in the name of lov!

  • @gugumazibuko6275
    @gugumazibuko6275 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Red flags beautiful women please!!! Listen to your gut. It never lied. I like her personality. She is smiling looking beatuful. That's the best thing you can do for the sake of your health.

  • @theglen85
    @theglen85 Před 7 měsíci +4

    But did this girl just say she's a member if the church yet she couldn't say the full name of the church 😊

  • @rexona1178
    @rexona1178 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I am not a Nigerian but a British citizen of Cameroonian origin. I have visited South Africa and met a lot of other Africans who had camped in a secluded estate because they were afraid of being lynched by other South Africans. Looking at this channel and listening to the way other Africans are being bashed makes me feel confused. We all make mistakes and i hope we can all learn from it as Africans. I hope i never find myself in a position where a woman can come on social media and be describing me as a naccicists.

    • @RamochekiTshegofatso
      @RamochekiTshegofatso Před 5 měsíci

      Lynched by SAns yet they migrate here daily, why would they come here if they are being killed.
      Stop bad naming us, we live in our country and bother no one.
      They come here sell drugs, kidnapping, murder and other crimes and we can't say anything about it because we labeled as xenophobic.
      Please stop this

    • @khangwelokhangwelo6553
      @khangwelokhangwelo6553 Před 4 měsíci +1

      no their not bashing them the truth is ugly and you dont want it cox this will mean that south africans have always been right abount amakwerekwere

  • @sinasomxakaza9170
    @sinasomxakaza9170 Před 7 měsíci +8

    It's giving the guy wanted to take her out for policy benefits 👀 hayi shem!! Whos idea was it to go to church?

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Exactly. Even having passed by work or something. Something was just off

  • @NQA1209
    @NQA1209 Před 7 měsíci +15

    The fiance' shot you. Some women fall pregnant for a guy, she don't know his back-ground and never been to his family home. How many times SA women get robbed using same scam? Instead of getting pregnant by Sibusiso, Mandla or Tsepo whom you know his entire family

    • @silindilenxumalo9541
      @silindilenxumalo9541 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Kuyafana, SA or not because even south Africans can hide you and take you to the friends place . Kuningi nje yaz

    • @darkskinfatgirl0147
      @darkskinfatgirl0147 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@silindilenxumalo9541yes, but It's easier for them to conceal their background because they come so far away

    • @maulinenkatha7076
      @maulinenkatha7076 Před 7 měsíci +5

      Kenya it’s worse,Nigerians are sweeping in the name of love with their target being career and wealthy women.it’s so bad

    • @NQA1209
      @NQA1209 Před 7 měsíci

      @@silindilenxumalo9541 Ayifani, you can trace us if you were serious

    • @langutamacheke2412
      @langutamacheke2412 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I agree with you! Knowing where a person comes from is very important. It's much easier to get hold of someone in the same country. Where will one start to look for a Nigerian in Nigeria? You are not even sure if the identity that he shared is true.

  • @highandmightyqueen79
    @highandmightyqueen79 Před 7 měsíci +9

    there are lots of these stories with jollofinas i know a lady who was used as a drug mule by her nigerian husband..he then fetched his wife from Nigeria while she was service 15 year jail sentence.

    • @zikhonadunjana1842
      @zikhonadunjana1842 Před 7 měsíci +1

      yhoooooo my Goodness

    • @forTheDivine_2000
      @forTheDivine_2000 Před 7 měsíci

      Yoh mmoditla

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 Před 7 měsíci

      So true. And we tell women to stay away from nigerian men they attack us. Those people are not nice people. Their own country is not doing well so they will do anything to stay out of their country, hence going the using women route.

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 Před 7 měsíci

      So true. And we tell women to stay away from nigerian men they attack us. Those people are not nice people. Their own country is not doing well so they will do anything to stay out of their country, hence going the using women route.

  • @khethiwemthembu5460
    @khethiwemthembu5460 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I’m inspired by your strength and how you are now calm in sharing this story. Your daughter is special and God allowed her to come for a reason. Can we have mass prayer for SA women against these crooks 🙌🏽, and not wait for Womens month 😢

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 7 měsíci +21

    Guys why do we do this to each other as Africans

    • @BuhlePeter-ws4tt
      @BuhlePeter-ws4tt Před 7 měsíci +4

      U can ask dat again hei,de way naigerians are hurting ppl all over de world i wonder if dey really know God or dey just pretend to

    • @annabelkeisha1157
      @annabelkeisha1157 Před 7 měsíci

      @@BuhlePeter-ws4tt you africans are naturally evil,it in your dna

    • @keneilwemodikwe-md1bw
      @keneilwemodikwe-md1bw Před 7 měsíci +4

      Ask Nigerian men

    • @gracegeorge7285
      @gracegeorge7285 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@keneilwemodikwe-md1bwWao! You are really addicted to Nigerian men despite all your bias, ask yourself why.

    • @keneilwemodikwe-md1bw
      @keneilwemodikwe-md1bw Před 7 měsíci +2

      Nigerian man did that to my friend that's why I'm addicted

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 7 měsíci +10

    Bathong, Owamie were are you getting these beautiful ladies that look like Dudu Tsobane from Joyous Celebration 😂

  • @TheeMsutu
    @TheeMsutu Před 7 měsíci +9

    Eish Owamie I’m taking what you said and I’m running with it…”when you find love while you’re still young you don’t find yourself, it’s not even a matter of you lose yourself, you just don’t get to discover yourself and you only realize when you’re out that DAMN! So date for fun” oryt Ninja, heard you loud n clear. Let me focus on myself in the meantime 🙏🏾I mean I’m only 21, just only entered the 20s
    This podcast ❤️👏🏾love it

    • @sbonzama7013
      @sbonzama7013 Před 7 měsíci

      While dating for fun you will have babies for all these baby daddies and STIs. Ok nice

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  Před 7 měsíci

      🫂🫂

  • @user-qs8mf4xr3c
    @user-qs8mf4xr3c Před 7 měsíci +4

    May the SAn govt give us proper borders. If we had them, neither the Nigerian boyfriend would be here nor this victim of his who is unduly blaming SAn healthcare workers who by the way are overloaded with work because of the same open borders and massive invasion of the country by foreigners.
    Can we be truthful and honest people just for once in our lives and call a spade a spade?
    More than half of SA’s problems are imported ie they’re not due SAn problems…and we suffer.
    We are our country’s own worst enemy.

  • @samke1ndlovu
    @samke1ndlovu Před 7 měsíci +5

    Hair ✅ Make up ✅ Dress ✅ content ✅😍