To Hell And Back Season 1 Episode 3

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  • @tfa4782
    @tfa4782 Před 8 měsíci +260

    If she can reply, what does she think happened? Who was the ancestor? How was the scam planned? Where did the money that appeared in the suitcase come from? Was there someone behind the "wallpaper / boards" in the prayer room?

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +2

      The ancestor was actually Kevin, the friend. These guys work as a syndicate and this is how they make their living. They treat these scams as a full-time job. Ofcause there was a person behind the boards who was acting as a bank and they use witchcraft to make the money from nowhere. These guys a criminals they documents used to rent a house are fake. I realised that if I opted to see the ancestors maybe I could have been dead now.😢

    • @mavisletshabo-kwamongwe3709
      @mavisletshabo-kwamongwe3709 Před 8 měsíci +90

      Usually there's someone behind the boards and they use mobile phones. This was experienced by some people in Botswana and the police cracked the case because people were scammed through the small roundavel house by foreigners

    • @ncedisakhewu
      @ncedisakhewu Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@mavisletshabo-kwamongwe3709💯

    • @tlotley
      @tlotley Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@jabunxumalo2111 I'm so sorry aus Jabu💝♥️💝💝

    • @Boity_M
      @Boity_M Před 8 měsíci +27

      makes sense but the prophecy about why her relationships don’t work out yona?😩

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 8 měsíci +238

    Mondays will never be the same again....
    From here we are going to MacG....Ninjas and Chillers leave a like

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  Před 8 měsíci +51

      I will just make sure mine comes at 12 so time doesn’t clash hle😢

    • @jenniferngobese9929
      @jenniferngobese9929 Před 8 měsíci +13

      @@boldlyowamieHow sweet of you, while others will be trying to compete. The sky is the limit for our Queen 🤴 ❤ ❤❤

    • @avelakhoza6140
      @avelakhoza6140 Před 8 měsíci +5

      Yep a Ninja and a Chiller❤❤❤

    • @affectionatewhati4526
      @affectionatewhati4526 Před 8 měsíci +5

      We are ninjas and chillers ❤

    • @yoursTruly20711
      @yoursTruly20711 Před 8 měsíci +6

      Being a Ninja and a Chiller is giving happy vibes sana 😄. What a time to be alive 💃💃🤗

  • @SammyBlosee
    @SammyBlosee Před 8 měsíci +611

    The more i watch these stories, the better I comprehend the importance of avoiding dating platforms regardless of how lonely I may become.

    • @YOLISABOLANI-xm7vx
      @YOLISABOLANI-xm7vx Před 8 měsíci +30

      U know what girl ......let me tell u something.... u r sooooo correct

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +56

      ​@@YOLISABOLANI-xm7vxsome of these guys target ladies from the mall, restaurants and pubs.. you will be suprised that South African men are also into this. Thus, the importance of spreading awareness.

    • @julietakanyang6635
      @julietakanyang6635 Před 8 měsíci +12

      Same here, I am scared of this online dating and foreigners....I am so old school😆

    • @lungelolamula7075
      @lungelolamula7075 Před 8 měsíci +15

      Sooo many similar scams of people who met at the mall.

    • @sizakelemyeni4819
      @sizakelemyeni4819 Před 8 měsíci +2

      I was planning to but something stopped me. I’m not regretting anything 😅tjiooo 😂save by the bell 😅

  • @mimmymtshalintaka
    @mimmymtshalintaka Před 5 měsíci +19

    2021 when I went public for being scammed by my Congolese baby daddy , people mocked me! I didn’t care awareness was raised! Sending love and strength to this lady, love that she’s speaking out🙏

  • @KingSARoyalty-yw2bo
    @KingSARoyalty-yw2bo Před 8 měsíci +22

    Foreigners came here to hustle, few of them are legit

  • @mbaliradebe1472
    @mbaliradebe1472 Před 8 měsíci +111

    "Evil thrives when good people do nothing."
    I'm so glad she came and told her story. As Owamie said she's very brave and I agree.
    Wishing her the best going forward.

  • @ncedisakhewu
    @ncedisakhewu Před 8 měsíci +161

    NEVER tell a man what you believe in, especially foreigners.🤞🏽

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  Před 8 měsíci +11

      😭😭😭

    • @musicaltherapyforrelaxatio5441
      @musicaltherapyforrelaxatio5441 Před 8 měsíci +38

      You are right then suddenly they become staunch Christians just so you can relate to them and feel at home

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 Před 8 měsíci +10

      😂😂True 😭💔 God taught me that lesson real quickly, as an 18 year I thank God 🙏

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@musicaltherapyforrelaxatio5441true

    • @otienoagiro
      @otienoagiro Před 8 měsíci +16

      He was probably a Nigerian not a South Sudanese

  • @tladimakuse7445
    @tladimakuse7445 Před 7 měsíci +30

    Ladies, let's suport and help others, no one is stupid. Anyone can fall prey to these scammers. Remember, they're not only in SA, they are in America, Australia, basically the whole world.
    My friend called her stupid and I got so hurt because, this young woman is so brave, and I love her . Go girl, keep on going, be strong. I am one of the people who are going to assist you financially ❤❤❤❤

    • @onalennamyself7969
      @onalennamyself7969 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Agreed Tladi, anyone can fall victim. She is not stupid. She was scammed by narcissists who used God's name to scam a humble, beautiful hard working single mother. May God give her and others like her strength and bless them with financial success ❤❤❤❤ in Jesus's name we shall conquer 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @kabelolove
    @kabelolove Před 7 měsíci +29

    I am based in Limpopo Province and guys here like asking “what do you for a living”
    I always lie and say that I am a nanny, it’s a turn off for most of them.
    My advice is never tell a guy you just met what you do. Just say you are a maid and when they ask you how come you look so good, just say the Mrs gave you the clothes.
    It’s working for me, keeps the leeches away.
    I was almost scammed via Facebook in 2017

    • @khathutshelo051
      @khathutshelo051 Před 6 měsíci +2

      I also lie about my profession to avoid being a target.
      Guys all over do this and it’s doesn’t matter the nationality.
      The only time I will be open is when I have seen a credit report of the guy, his ID and everything else that is legal .
      Even though it is not 100% secure that I will be safe but at least I would have “fought “ for myself

    • @Fragrancelily1
      @Fragrancelily1 Před 6 měsíci +7

      Tell them you just finished serving a prison sentenced for murdering your boyfriend

    • @kabelolove
      @kabelolove Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@Fragrancelily1 😂😂🙊

  • @itsyourgirltee3754
    @itsyourgirltee3754 Před 8 měsíci +61

    People also not forget that the Devil also knows the Bible end to end. This was witchcraft. Sis Jabulile I’m sorry you went through this 🙏🏽

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +9

      True witchcraft ninja, thank just glad I pulled through. I was in a very dark place 😢.

    • @ntlotlisenglebitsa8153
      @ntlotlisenglebitsa8153 Před 8 měsíci +7

      Very true the devil even knows prayers end to end

    • @mrsshumbasclassroom4256
      @mrsshumbasclassroom4256 Před 7 měsíci

      There was no muti..this guy has all time ro plan and open sceiptures. Guys there was no dlozi. You cant serve God and ancestors at the same time. These are first class crooks..even renting a house so they can appear legit..of u do your investgation,you will discover that the house belongs to another girlfriend who is their victim.

  • @sphesihlembuli5327
    @sphesihlembuli5327 Před 8 měsíci +34

    She seems like such a beautiful and pure soul. May she find peace and heal

  • @zamamanana1124
    @zamamanana1124 Před 8 měsíci +48

    Hiring a private investigator is the way to go now and dealing with them with our own communities is the only way to go....

    • @thandiwemaretlane1101
      @thandiwemaretlane1101 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Hi i think im going thru the same thing. Pls share details if the private investigator. I am so overwhelmed with surprises of what is happened

  • @selinamotsilili8429
    @selinamotsilili8429 Před 7 měsíci +12

    I had the exact experience like this lady. His name was Chris, he said he was from Kenya but he was staying in South of JHB. He was driving a merc, C class. Fortunately for me, i didn't take loans because i realized very quick that it was a scam.

    • @user-ex9tw6cb8r
      @user-ex9tw6cb8r Před 3 měsíci

      Is the guy Chis Odinga? He says he works for DHL

  • @ronellecandice1536
    @ronellecandice1536 Před 8 měsíci +15

    Her cheeks tells me she’s really too kind and has no guard up😭😭😭…what a sweet woman

  • @rebotilemogadime4169
    @rebotilemogadime4169 Před 8 měsíci +173

    When Owamie first told us of her intention to speak to victims who have been scammed she mentioned how this is to educate women out there. All these guests bringing their stories are not stupid but brave to let us in on the kind of things people are ashamed to talk about that happen behing closed doors. Just because something has not happened to you yet does not mean your smarter, we don'tknow if we will come across this but in a different way it might not be a love scam but a business one. Lets show empathy to other women who decide to share or those women who are in our lives in the same situations. Lets be kinder to each other.
    Thank you Owamie for bringing to life this idea, it will help a lot of us or remind us to be careful, some are even scammed by their current husbands or family members and dont know and will wake up too late.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +2

    • @dimakatsombambo4012
      @dimakatsombambo4012 Před 8 měsíci +4

      You said everything I wanted to say even more.
      🙏🙏👌💕

    • @thandothando2779
      @thandothando2779 Před 8 měsíci +2

      True

    • @BlessedMGodspace
      @BlessedMGodspace Před 8 měsíci +4

      You just spot on and that's why other people end up committing suicide because they were told that were foolish or desperate for love but forgetting that we all need love no matter who you are or what you have .

    • @masentlejiyane6021
      @masentlejiyane6021 Před 8 měsíci

      He was not praying, he just, wanted to blind u, becareful of foreigners, theyr using Vodoos, don't be too desperate to hv a man , one day they will secrify u

  • @lennytheplanner3621
    @lennytheplanner3621 Před 7 měsíci +21

    Hi Jabu , am so sorry to hear that this happened to you.
    It could have happened to anyone, 60% of women are love scammed these days because literally men have become weak. They don't want to work, they don't want to go to school, they want soft life... Men are even giving themselves to other men for money, that's the generation of men left...
    I know multiple ladies, beautiful, smart and educated get love scemmed by their boyfriends, baby daddies, fiancé's and husbands..
    These men can be met anywhere, church, work, malls, restaurants, funerals, weddings etc.
    These men have plans in place to swindle women, they don't target broke women, they target single, devorced and financially able women.
    I'll give you one example, in Namibia one guy impersonating to be a doctor, rents out an AMG dating women all over the country,
    Wears a stethoscope everyday going to work, but goes to other women's houses
    Engaging and proposing all of them, telling them he's a Christian and does not date, marriage only, so engagements before you meet the parents...
    These women took out loans to fund His lifestyle... Luckly for us, Namibia is a small populated country , everyone follows each other, and he did not go far. They exposed him on Twitter and was published in the National paper, by the way he only dated: business women, doctor, lawyers, nurses, teachers, CEOs.. To mention a few.
    Thank you for opening so many eyes, I hoe this video reaches a million views coz this is a loud message that needs to be heard by all women..
    Women now stay with men who only need money and accomodation from their women, is that not love scammed?
    Love and light

  • @andrehlako558
    @andrehlako558 Před 6 měsíci +5

    The same thing happened in polokwane and two people are arrested and are going to court on the 18th of December for bail application. Please come to polokwane High Court on the 18th and check if the same person

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 4 měsíci

      Atleast Polokwane police are doing their job.. Gauteng ones....ay..

  • @simphiwer8970
    @simphiwer8970 Před 8 měsíci +43

    I don't and will not judge this woman. In fact for sharing this story I feel more alert and empowered.

  • @thenamakays6871
    @thenamakays6871 Před 8 měsíci +157

    I just love how Owamie genuinely cares for her guests and puts herself in thier shoes ❤.. definitely one of the best podcasts in SA

    • @Mpho_T
      @Mpho_T Před 8 měsíci +8

      When she was holding her hand to comfort her 🥺🥺

  • @hlelsilethwala9934
    @hlelsilethwala9934 Před 8 měsíci +13

    You are so strong for telling your story!God will restore everything that the locust has stolen sis❤

  • @phumzilemakua9247
    @phumzilemakua9247 Před 7 měsíci +11

    Can’t stress how important it is to have a community (friends and family) you share your life with, especially about romantic partners man. They are sometimes able to pick up things we can’t because of the cloud 9 we usually in. Yoh bandla

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 8 měsíci +324

    SABC note this comment down...you are definitely gonna be paying Owamie millions of American dollars....she is the Queen of media

  • @user-kb3ld9ms2u
    @user-kb3ld9ms2u Před 8 měsíci +50

    You were hypnotized my sister this is the second time i hear such story it's sad how this foreign men come in our country and scam poor women..it's sickening and disgusting 🤢

    • @ntombirikhotso
      @ntombirikhotso Před 8 měsíci +2

      Yes, it's the 419 scammers I strongly believe the man is not a Sudanese bt but Nija man!

    • @buyisilezibuyisilebuthelez8315
      @buyisilezibuyisilebuthelez8315 Před 8 měsíci

      Yes and can be a rwandan/Ugandan

    • @ziyandamaphini4722
      @ziyandamaphini4722 Před 8 měsíci +3

      I also think with these things, to certain extent, there is hypnosis/magic used here. Because it's not really about anyone being stupid.

    • @loveandlight3486
      @loveandlight3486 Před 8 měsíci +1

      ​@@ntombirikhotso .. sad thing and I would have liked not to believe it is a South Sudanese, mara #Metoo , I have a story too😢

    • @Glo-zj2vf
      @Glo-zj2vf Před 8 měsíci

      I was watching another show where they sacrifice their girlfriend and its happening a lot in that country I got so worried about our girls ngoba they are always the victims' girls be careful be prayerfully when u dealing with these people

  • @mphomaswanganyi4401
    @mphomaswanganyi4401 Před 8 měsíci +22

    I cant believe how similar our stories are, i met his "mom and uncle" in December. He was "blessed" with 20 million, each told to take 400 and give to the needy. I bailed out when he pressurised me to resign from work, he became very impatient when i didn't do so immediately!

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +8

      Glad you escaped😢😢😢, wish people had shared their experiences to alert others but again social media is something else people choose to insult you for being scammed.

    • @zozozodwa
      @zozozodwa Před 8 měsíci

      Thank you for sharing your story. I was also scammed some thousand of rands -R100000 in 2022. It might be the same guy who is operating in the Eastrand around Brakpan/ Benoni/Spring. The police were after him it's clear that he has scammed a lot of women. Luckily I back off when his ancestors told me that must resign and open the account. On that week I had an unusual dream I saw my late dad in my dream shaking his head and I believe that he was warning me about something. When I didn't do what was required he blocked me. I went to his place to check whether he still stays there. He was gone and his landlord told me a different name and that he told them that he is going back to Ruwanda. Only to find out that he was still around Lakeside Mall. He drives a Merc C class well build , good looking will call you always a😢😢😢nd has all the respect but guess what he is big scammer. Hoping one day he will be arrested as we are still tracing him. 😢

    • @thandekangubane3494
      @thandekangubane3494 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Siyamubonga uNkulunkulu he couldn't scam you

    • @khosiethabekhulu3497
      @khosiethabekhulu3497 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@thandekangubane3494God was with her. Iyoh!

    • @nombusodladla-ib8tw
      @nombusodladla-ib8tw Před 7 měsíci

      Aybo girl what was his name...this sounds so similar to mine but I spotted red flags early, played along until i told him I have been observing him for some time now so I know you are a liar and scam...you not getting a cent from me go to hell...he tried calling i ignored the call, sent him a long whatsap of all the loop holes that I have been noticing all along .

  • @menzimabunds3561
    @menzimabunds3561 Před 7 měsíci +15

    This story is 100% like mine. Mine he was from Dawn Park but originally fron Zanzibar but immediately when I was told to resign and give a portion of my funds, that's where it ended and he was so furious, he actually turned red.

    • @vinoliahmkhondo5437
      @vinoliahmkhondo5437 Před 6 měsíci +1

      😂😂😂😂and then what happened?

    • @preciousgolide3288
      @preciousgolide3288 Před 6 měsíci

      😂😂😂😂They are very persistant and impatient

    • @veelerato843
      @veelerato843 Před 4 měsíci

      I've been dying inside looking for someone who I can share my story to, almost got scammed the same way.

    • @ms_anda3873
      @ms_anda3873 Před 4 měsíci

      @@veelerato843oooh no, I hope you heal mntase

    • @thekitchenwrapco
      @thekitchenwrapco Před 16 dny

      What is his name? I think I know him. Is his name Habeb?

  • @thembimaseko9600
    @thembimaseko9600 Před 8 měsíci +73

    Girls in South Africa are in trouble. I don't know whether we are desperate.

    • @LollyMadikiza-xw4ok
      @LollyMadikiza-xw4ok Před 8 měsíci +15

      @thembi...desperation, loneliness & getting older wid no partner,i think dats de reason

    • @LukeRev480
      @LukeRev480 Před 8 měsíci +19

      Nokuthi this thing is new. You meet a nice guy and think let me try and yhoooo!! Women please it's time stop thinking you will find someone, it's just not working for us. We need to be at peace with living our whole lives "alone" with a community of other women.

    • @nolubynature9513
      @nolubynature9513 Před 8 měsíci +1

      ​@@LukeRev480I i totally agree with you

    • @SheisUnique
      @SheisUnique Před 8 měsíci +6

      This is exactly how I think nowadays unless God decides otherwise ofcourse. This will save your peace of mind

    • @tweety07534
      @tweety07534 Před 8 měsíci +7

      It's better to be single these days

  • @musicaltherapyforrelaxatio5441
    @musicaltherapyforrelaxatio5441 Před 8 měsíci +98

    My advise to to you girls is: when you do not have a circle of people you can trust around. Find a guy to talk to who is older, it can be a security guard or cleaner, it does not matter what their level of education is but guys know the guys language. They will be able to tell you when something is off very quickly and the good thing is they will not repeat the stuff you tell them cause they dont care but you will get the advise that will help you in the future, especially when starting a new relationship and you not sure if the person is legit or not, a guy will listen to the story and straight away tell you that the person is a phony or not.

  • @leratosawatsi3966
    @leratosawatsi3966 Před 8 měsíci +39

    I wish there's something I could do to help her to re-gain her Financial Freedom 😩
    I know how it feels to repay a loan that you didn't even use a cent from.
    I admire her for sharing her story with so much ease and smiles and my wish for her is healing and restoration.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 7 měsíci +6

      ❤❤

    • @tefl_info
      @tefl_info Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@jabunxumalo2111I hope you heal. I think your story is the same as mine.

    • @rajeshkumaroberoi812
      @rajeshkumaroberoi812 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@jabunxumalo2111
      Hello Jabu
      I am from India, very touched by your story which has badly affected you in every thing be it financially, mentally and I understand it will be very hard for you to trust any one so easily

  • @prudenceandrade6436
    @prudenceandrade6436 Před 8 měsíci +27

    Never trust someone who left his or her country that person really means business.

  • @pheliwemashiyi8835
    @pheliwemashiyi8835 Před 8 měsíci +88

    As women we are just too desperate to be loved

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  Před 8 měsíci +12

      I don’t think so 😢

    • @ncisept5900
      @ncisept5900 Před 8 měsíci +27

      Not really desperate. But blinded by it

    • @thandekadube2606
      @thandekadube2606 Před 8 měsíci +2

      I agree. It’s sad yazi

    • @cynthianhlapo6431
      @cynthianhlapo6431 Před 8 měsíci +2

      we use need to accept and forget about being loved, cos there's none out there ....

    • @tetyanaphikolomzi6886
      @tetyanaphikolomzi6886 Před 8 měsíci +2

      You should there's nothing wrong with that,the problem is not being true to your own self,and it is impossible to be true to self if one is blinded by material already

  • @blessingdlamini9108
    @blessingdlamini9108 Před 8 měsíci +12

    Strength to you girl, proud of you for telling your story so that someone out there doesn't fall into this scam.

  • @judydavids9738
    @judydavids9738 Před 8 měsíci +10

    I feel for you. Been scammed myself... But God will deal with these scammers. Be strong. You will get through this.... Not easy. But though the grace of God. You will become stronger 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💪🏽

    • @aishaluminsa6505
      @aishaluminsa6505 Před 8 měsíci +1

      How were you scammed dear. The more we know the more we will be saved. Sorry about the scam

  • @kwakha6103
    @kwakha6103 Před 8 měsíci +59

    I respect you for coming out and telling your story. Walk tall Queen, you will come out of this stronger than you can ever imagine.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Thank you ❤❤

    • @Glo-zj2vf
      @Glo-zj2vf Před 8 měsíci

      I really appreciate that, she has open the eyes of many people

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 8 měsíci +67

    I like Owamie's designer...she definitely knows what she is doing

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  Před 8 měsíci +3

      Theee best🥰

    • @nozzzz7
      @nozzzz7 Před 8 měsíci

      Big ups to Fatima🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️

  • @carolcox8814
    @carolcox8814 Před 7 měsíci +5

    This is such a useful channel. It is a great teaching tool. Blessings to those who were scammed. May the scammers receive the karma they deserve.

  • @rachelsalphydikgadibamarup8770
    @rachelsalphydikgadibamarup8770 Před 7 měsíci +64

    I went through exactly the same thing but I was so stubborn and kept on asking questions and not agreeing to this bag thing. He got angry because I said no to his ancestors to come and do whatever was supposed to be done with the bag. 50% of this story is exactly like what I've experienced. I was scammed 6k . All I can say to our sister those people use muthi.

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  Před 7 měsíci +12

      Please come to the show 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @rachelsalphydikgadibamarup8770
      @rachelsalphydikgadibamarup8770 Před 7 měsíci

      I'm not as bold as most of your guest but all I can say ladies stay away from dating apps . That's were most of the fishing and scammers are happening. This people are a group it's not a one man show. And they brain wash you and use some muthi on you, that's why u fall in love so fast.

    • @nomasontopatriciamtetwa3241
      @nomasontopatriciamtetwa3241 Před 7 měsíci +2

      ​@@boldlyowamieI need to meet the lady , please Owami . I'm in the middle of that at the moment . Maybe ....

    • @nellygiven4960
      @nellygiven4960 Před 6 měsíci

      I also went through the exactly same thing

    • @pathiswapiyose4518
      @pathiswapiyose4518 Před 6 měsíci

      I agree they are using muthi , it's witchcraft

  • @TsheM
    @TsheM Před 8 měsíci +48

    It must have been tough for this women to come out with this story but it was needed. So happy she shared it with us. Women need this education.

  • @lebom2456
    @lebom2456 Před 8 měsíci +40

    Sending a virtual hug to this brave lady 🫂. Such a gentle soul 🤍

  • @tombimashri8149
    @tombimashri8149 Před 8 měsíci +7

    RSA should have a group of Ladys Lawyers who represent nd fight for ladys who get frauded infact unfairness for Ladys.

  • @rebeccamalgas4175
    @rebeccamalgas4175 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thanks for sharing Jabu!
    I am so sorry that you have to go through this😢

  • @MsMaluleke2023
    @MsMaluleke2023 Před 8 měsíci +88

    Welldone Owamie for affording people such a platform to speak out, encouraging them and literally holding their hands through reliving such traumatic experiences . For spreading awareness and discouraging victim blaming.🎉 I salute you my queen. Both of you

  • @prudencelegadima7482
    @prudencelegadima7482 Před 8 měsíci +69

    I was scammed by my Aunt, and a business associate. I am down around R500k and I am now in the hole which is a struggle to get out off, Its a struggle at the moment so be warned people, being kind and decent is no longer the norm. The moral decay of society has gotten to the point of no return. Its downhill from here. So please be carefull out there. Dont fall for soppy stories.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +7

      Sorry for your experience Prudence, trust in God, he is the God of restoration!

    • @prudencelegadima7482
      @prudencelegadima7482 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@jabunxumalo2111 Thank you for your kind words. Yep, he is what keeps me going. I know he will see me through this rough patch. I still have a lot to be thankfull for. Thanks Jabu, Stay Blessed

    • @Onthecuspwithdaphne
      @Onthecuspwithdaphne Před 7 měsíci

      So sorry hope there’s a breakthrough for you soon

    • @vinoliahmkhondo5437
      @vinoliahmkhondo5437 Před 6 měsíci

      Oh my goodness, you'll be ok❤

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 Před 7 měsíci +7

    The SAPS needs to be trained on how to handle new trends of crime.

  • @malkiamusa
    @malkiamusa Před 8 měsíci +3

    thank you for sharing this story. its an eye opener and i hope one day these scammers will be caught and face justice

  • @sindiswawandilemvuna
    @sindiswawandilemvuna Před 8 měsíci +94

    Kevin (the friend) was definitely the ancestor 💔💔😪 this was a top tier scam. I'm so sorry my sister 💐💞

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +36

      Thanks Sindiswa, Ofcause Kevin was ancestors..I went to the house and saw that there was an actually a hidden built-in wardrobe behind those boards. Which means there was someone hiding behind and talking. That got me thinking, what could have happened to me if I agreed to see the so called ancestor. Maybe these guys could have killed me.

    • @m-lloproducts6008
      @m-lloproducts6008 Před 8 měsíci +3

      @jabunxumalo2111 So dear, those millions were they even real money in the bag?

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci

      @@m-lloproducts6008 I don't think so, all I know the box/bag was full of money.

    • @cynthianhlapo6431
      @cynthianhlapo6431 Před 8 měsíci +4

      but an ancestor who' can sing along and tell you all plans of opening bank account etc ? the behind wallpaper voice...no no no....the red flag was there !

    • @cynthianhlapo6431
      @cynthianhlapo6431 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@m-lloproducts6008Yes stolen from other woman's as well the same way

  • @phetolomokoditoa2278
    @phetolomokoditoa2278 Před 8 měsíci +200

    What that guy did is called love bombing.
    Love bombing is a tactic in which someone “bombs” you with extreme displays of attention and affection with the intent to manipulate you.
    This is why he was able to scam her. What a disgusting vile human being and I hope she gets justice. She’s such a sweet lady and I hope everything goes well. It’s sad to say that most human beings don’t come with the right intentions and we have to guard our hearts. I hate it!!!

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +17

      Best comment so far, he used that technique and witchcraft.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +8

      Thanks sisi , unfortunately after this it will be difficult to trust anyone's intentions.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +5

      Not even difficult, I don't think I will ever be able to trust any man's intentions.

    • @phetolomokoditoa2278
      @phetolomokoditoa2278 Před 8 měsíci +5

      @@jabunxumalo2111 It will take take time to trust one,definitely. But it is definitely a life lesson,I’m happy you were able to share with us and give us warnings. People are very vile. I wish nothing but the best for you! Someday someone will see how amazing you are.❤️ stay strong!

    • @ZoeJack451
      @ZoeJack451 Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@jabunxumalo2111 ❤️&🕯

  • @sakinasibangula8694
    @sakinasibangula8694 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Yhoo this story struck a nerve for me. Was scammed by my ex fiance, convinced me to take a loan for him R50k and he was going to pay me my monthly repayments. He changed into something i didn't know afterwards and asked me to leave him alone to live his life. Hhhheee the depression I had, i couldn't sleep, I was breaking down in public, had to repay a loan i didn't spend a cent, i couldn't speak about it for a long time. Men really hates us 😢

    • @EmmaculateMalesa-dc2gs
      @EmmaculateMalesa-dc2gs Před 3 měsíci

      😢 I’m sorry you had to go through that, I almost did the same but thank God I thought quickly about what if he decides not to pay and lied to him and told him I don’t qualify

  • @maureenmamabolo
    @maureenmamabolo Před 8 měsíci +5

    I also encourage such an occurrence in Limpopo. They r everywhere. Fortunately I ran away when I was told by the ancestor to bring money to the prayer room. I wish to share my story 2, for the ladies to be aware.

  • @SAapproves
    @SAapproves Před 8 měsíci +28

    I see young females allowing foreign nationals to use their bank accounts. Next thing they'll be owing SARS millions if not arrested for not being able to account for the money

  • @thobilehlubelihlehadebe331
    @thobilehlubelihlehadebe331 Před 8 měsíci +338

    If Owamie thinks I will sit here & watch a 1hr, 25min video on being love-scammed, she is definitely right. I'm watching non-stop

  • @b.3940
    @b.3940 Před 8 měsíci +19

    Truth of the matter is, anyone can be scammed and not even know it till it's too late. I had a government job as a young man in a foreign country and believe me, anyone can be manipulated to give information that is top secret, surrender love, or do other things they normally wouldn't do. All you have to do is identify is their weak points and voila! you own them after that.

  • @kendeewilliams194
    @kendeewilliams194 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Blessed you from Jamaica. God will multiply and return unto everything you have lost

  • @winkana2
    @winkana2 Před 8 měsíci +210

    As Women we should have a solid support network, friends and relatives that we can reach out to when meeting a new partner. Woman friends are excellent at reading / assessing character and red flags 🚩 it is very sad to see bad things happen to good people.

    • @LukeRev480
      @LukeRev480 Před 8 měsíci +41

      The problem is we always accuse them of jealousy. Instead, we give these vile people the benefit of the doubt. How smart!!

    • @TsheM
      @TsheM Před 8 měsíci

      I totally agree.

    • @nozizwenkambule2784
      @nozizwenkambule2784 Před 8 měsíci +1

      My friend is one in a million❤.

    • @dr.shelamogailamokgabudi3735
      @dr.shelamogailamokgabudi3735 Před 8 měsíci +2

      I totally agree with you. However it's not everyone who admits the signs and red flags! Personally i tried warning my friend against her newly found love that ended up scamming her more that R300 000 but she would justify his actions until she got burnt real hard. It's very sad.

    • @winkana2
      @winkana2 Před 8 měsíci

      @@dr.shelamogailamokgabudi3735 fair play for trying.

  • @zamam8216
    @zamam8216 Před 8 měsíci +110

    I consider myself a smart person but I know this could have easily been me. I am pathologically trusting of people, and I like to be respectful of people's beliefs...could have been me. Thank you Jabulile for sharing your story. I am so sorry this happened to you

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +15

      Thanks Zama, It could have happened to anyone, trust me.

    • @fjhkerwoiero00
      @fjhkerwoiero00 Před 8 měsíci +7

      nah not me, I have seen enough in this world, if it too good to be true, it probably is! Also that I do not believe in chatting with 'ancestors'

    • @aydensky026
      @aydensky026 Před 8 měsíci +4

      Yazi, I'm thinking the same. As women we want, we believe the best in people. My heart bleeds for her. I'm also grateful that she is sharing this unfortunate experience with us. I sincerely wish her well...❤

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@aydensky026❤

    • @user-gl8dj4yt5x
      @user-gl8dj4yt5x Před 7 měsíci

      Oh I feel sorry for you cc hang in there dear God will help you it will all pass in Jesus name

  • @mokgadiono7531
    @mokgadiono7531 Před 8 měsíci +16

    Good people, scammers aren't always foreigners. My own mom was scammed by her long term friend.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +5

      True and these scammers are working with our own people, police and bankers.

    • @thato97
      @thato97 Před 7 měsíci

      Oh yes was scammed by Buiders.

    • @bdg9997
      @bdg9997 Před 7 měsíci +1

      we don't need more problems in the country they must close the borders we hv our own scammers imagine now the whole of Africa is here to finish SA

  • @linaakaka6886
    @linaakaka6886 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Very informative, thank you sisters for being keepers of fellow sisters

  • @yolandas9929
    @yolandas9929 Před 8 měsíci +23

    I sympathise with her, as a single mum. Men can be so evil and take advantage of vulnerable women! Can you please release photos of this man! THE GENERAL PUBLIC NEED TO SEE HIS FACE

    • @precioussigudla9969
      @precioussigudla9969 Před 8 měsíci +5

      We need to see this guy, he might be still on tinder with a different account name😫

    • @dadakeshinro6749
      @dadakeshinro6749 Před 8 měsíci

      Some women equally very evil 😈 an Italian man had various experiences with African women 😮😮😮😢

  • @bonikoneti7123
    @bonikoneti7123 Před 8 měsíci +44

    Owamie, this lady deserves justice. Can you not open some back a buddy type of account for us to contribute towards legal fees. This is injustice! The fact that the police aren’t helping is a disgrace? To say the least. Or maybe one of the ninjas could offer their legal expertise pro bono, umntu ngumntu ngabantu guys ♥️♥️

  • @sissgugu
    @sissgugu Před 8 měsíci +4

    Enjoying this so much and also loving the views. Thank you fellow ninjas for always having Owamie’s back 🥰

  • @nonhlemahlangu115
    @nonhlemahlangu115 Před 8 měsíci +6

    So sorry to hear about your ordeal sisi. He's heartless, he even made you sing before scamming you. You've got a beautiful singing voice by the way... Remain strong, you will bounce back and don't blame yourself.

  • @tooleighcele4375
    @tooleighcele4375 Před 8 měsíci +28

    Owamie is listening to the constructive criticism… this interview was easy to watch!
    Excellent work! You have the guest space to talk , no judgy eyes or comments! Beautiful!

  • @valentine_b_ndlovu
    @valentine_b_ndlovu Před 7 měsíci +13

    Owame, I just want to thank you and thank this specific guest for sharing her story here in this platform. I hope she sees this comment. By sharing her story she saved my life and money from being scammed probably by the same people she fell in their hands TODAY!!!!
    It’s God’s grace that I watched her story last week only to meet a handsome gentleman who just made me meet his uncle and there we were in a prayer room, similar story to your guest’ story. The relationship ends as in right now. Thank you mtakama for saving my life and my money. May God continue to use your story. You’re a selfless human being.a woman of God indeed 🙏🏽🙏🏽🩷

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 7 měsíci +1

      To God be Glory !

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 7 měsíci +1

      You just made my night ❤

    • @weedz6318
      @weedz6318 Před 7 měsíci

      I’m very very sorry my sister. I’m happy that you didn’t take your life. You’re beautiful, stay strong , God is with you through this

    • @kmp9764
      @kmp9764 Před 7 měsíci

      The same happened but it was early this year, by just listening to her, i am releaving the whole ordeal, I had to end it.

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 8 měsíci +68

    I feel so sorry for women, they are going through the most for real

  • @nondumisotundube8616
    @nondumisotundube8616 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Yooo cc this is a life lesson. Thank you for sharing

  • @leboocooks3682
    @leboocooks3682 Před 7 měsíci +4

    I can’t stop saying “yoooh chommy mara le wena😭” 😂😂😂

  • @madeinafrique2849
    @madeinafrique2849 Před 8 měsíci +103

    I applaud her for being brave to talk about this publicly , i have lived in an apartment building where a lot of scammers live, They throw you a bait , if you are this person that is over respectful and understanding of their silly requests, you become prey… also, South Africans work with these guys, that’s why the so called ancestor could sing a Zulu song behind those boards .

    • @maulinenkatha7076
      @maulinenkatha7076 Před 8 měsíci +14

      Happening here in Kenya(scammers here are Nigerians and Ghanaians)it’s a huge cartel involving even government officials.sad situation

    • @kwakuakonto8942
      @kwakuakonto8942 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@maulinenkatha7076Kenyans engage in scamming in USA too

    • @monicamatselane9418
      @monicamatselane9418 Před 8 měsíci +5

      It's not only u my sister I know someones mom who get scammed by the Nigerian man 3 million.this people the work together with officials and people from the banks

    • @thatokhofu9365
      @thatokhofu9365 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I also think these scammers are Nigerians who scammed this lady😢 even these pastors with big churches scaming people these people are not good

    • @permathobela7457
      @permathobela7457 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Even Ugandians they are dangerous. This thing came with them

  • @tamiwetomoka4963
    @tamiwetomoka4963 Před 8 měsíci +46

    Definately this man worked on the psyche of majority South Africans of believing in ancestors and rituals. They had done their home work so well

    • @lucelletadiwanashemakubika7636
      @lucelletadiwanashemakubika7636 Před 8 měsíci +2

      true

    • @walekengwira3468
      @walekengwira3468 Před 8 měsíci +1

      True

    • @YouWell2
      @YouWell2 Před 8 měsíci +3

      more like seeking quick riches, and little to no sweat input...

    • @thandekangubane3494
      @thandekangubane3494 Před 7 měsíci +4

      They know most South Africans even born again Christians are fascinated about ancestors God help us.

    • @vinoliahmkhondo5437
      @vinoliahmkhondo5437 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Aowa ancestors don't speak English 😅😂😂😂 I was in a similar situation I left as soon as I heard the English speaking ancestor😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @gosalamangmooki
    @gosalamangmooki Před 8 měsíci +6

    This lady is telling the truth it happened exactly to my friend the way she says foreigners are dangerous

    • @otienoagiro
      @otienoagiro Před 7 měsíci

      Am Kenyan. I think many South Africans are incredibly gullible. This cannot happen to a Kenyan.
      I recall a time so many South Africans died in a collapsed building in Nigeria where they had gone to worship. Unbelievable! Why would a large number of people cross many countries to go to another to warship God?!!

  • @asandapearl-vc5cd
    @asandapearl-vc5cd Před 8 měsíci +3

    Hi I am so sorry that you went through this. This was so eye opening. I hope you find healing and may God bless you. And you are beautiful, smart and you are deserving of so much more mama❤❤.

  • @pinkycele11
    @pinkycele11 Před 8 měsíci +54

    Owami thank you so much for this podcast. The lady narrated her story so well, she seems like a very humble lady and didn’t deserve any of this ❤

  • @CingwaneElihle
    @CingwaneElihle Před 8 měsíci +60

    Owamie is my spirit animal!!!! Her reactions are exactly the same as mine 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 There is no way I would’ve still slept over, after speaking to an ancestor hhhaybo 😭😭😭😂😂

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +13

      I now wish I ran for my life that day😂😂😂,

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  Před 8 měsíci +5

      @@jabunxumalo2111yhooooo yiu didnt know my love❤️

    • @CingwaneElihle
      @CingwaneElihle Před 8 měsíci +4

      I’m sorry bakithi sisi.

    • @cindymachete7721
      @cindymachete7721 Před 8 měsíci

      @@jabunxumalo2111 I was in the same boat, your story is exactly the same as mine. I regard myself lucky because after hearing the voice of a talking ancestor in the prayer room I refused to sleep there.
      get in-touch if you need to vent and someone to understand.

    • @ht26parismakariqeifrancois78
      @ht26parismakariqeifrancois78 Před 8 měsíci

      True

  • @EstherShawa-ye1gw
    @EstherShawa-ye1gw Před 7 měsíci +2

    Thanks for sharing this story...I have learnt a lot and it's really mind boggling how evil these scammers can be.

  • @Child7542
    @Child7542 Před 2 měsíci

    My csta thanks for this channel i am learning a lot.first time viewer❤❤❤🎉

  • @nkululekojisari7225
    @nkululekojisari7225 Před 8 měsíci +21

    We can judge and say whatever we wanna say but this is one strong woman, i envy her for who she is coz she's still going far in life and she will achieve more than what she lost.

  • @marymulea4338
    @marymulea4338 Před 8 měsíci +34

    Yooh Jesu i'm in tears, divorcees can be so vulnerable. Ladies we in trouble thank you Owamie we are learning so much from your podcast

  • @nomcebomakhos
    @nomcebomakhos Před 7 měsíci +2

    Hhayi so my sister you are brave ,you stood for all this nonsense, money coming from anywhere joh ,mina nje 2 days is enough If I smell a rat I run shem ,I believe in my first instinct 😢 May you please find healing and strength #hugs

  • @thatochabeli4303
    @thatochabeli4303 Před 7 měsíci +4

    It’s true that this could happen to anyone. It’s shocking that a love scam worked on this beautiful, intelligent & experienced woman. The cautionary tale will help many 🙏🏿

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 7 měsíci

      And I've always dumped any man who would ask me for money 😂😂

  • @Barb7707
    @Barb7707 Před 8 měsíci +16

    This solidifies the fact that these people use spells haaa no way. She is such a cute, smart and independent woman. Yes sometimes we are blinded by love as women but our sister here was on spell yho. This guy was beyond evil bathong! God will deal with him and that half a million will come back tripple sis ❤

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Před 8 měsíci +142

    This is one of the best podcasts in Africa....yes I said it, if you don't think so, please go argue with your ancestors....I thank you

  • @leeannvuyelwaash
    @leeannvuyelwaash Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thanks for sharing ❤ praying for you and your kids.

  • @epheniaramasodi6880
    @epheniaramasodi6880 Před 8 měsíci +6

    Thanks to the lady for sharing the story, your a strong woman.
    To female police officers, I don't know whats wrong with you, you don't act like your at work not professional at all.
    When I was physically abused by my ex boyfriend this female police officer came to the scene and they were about 6 of them. If I can still remember it was four males two females and in that four males the other two males were junior police officers. The female police officer actually said, this one is struggling in love, she asked the junior police officer to help me in the love department as I was struggling 😏

  • @KayNaude
    @KayNaude Před 8 měsíci +21

    My heart goes out to this lady.

  • @teekay543
    @teekay543 Před 8 měsíci +20

    The real tragedy is that these scams are prevalent in South Africa. People do not think that they will be scammed by these dodgy individuals.

  • @langutamacheke2412
    @langutamacheke2412 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Ncese Ndwandwe. Ncese Zwide elihle... 🤗🤗❤❤ Ngathi ne traditional concoction was used...

  • @siphozulu2808
    @siphozulu2808 Před 7 měsíci +3

    South African women have been warned multiple times about these foreigners who are playing them but they don't seem to be listening

  • @Letstalk_915
    @Letstalk_915 Před 8 měsíci +102

    I like what Owamie said, no matter how smart you think you are, if you’re operating from a point of lack of info they MAY outsmart you. It’s many heads coming together to scam you (one person). I commend ppl that come out to share. I hope this woman pulls through and come out of this stronger.

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  Před 8 měsíci +4

      Sooo true ❤

    • @anewearthlandofthefree6582
      @anewearthlandofthefree6582 Před 7 měsíci +1

      ​@@boldlyowamieMay we get her contact info to send support to her and her family? Only if she is comfortable giving it out. And for all of your guess, we can turn their tragedies into a blessing.

    • @matlhabegoanebetty6700
      @matlhabegoanebetty6700 Před 6 měsíci

      They are very smart and using a strong muthi, the drug they use last for weeks

    • @PalesaKS
      @PalesaKS Před 5 měsíci

      😢

    • @PalesaKS
      @PalesaKS Před 5 měsíci

      This is my situation right now but I’m not yet scammed. I felt it’s too good to be true and started Googling about awakening ancestors and I’m shocked right now. Owamie please share Jabus contact or your contact with me so that I can share more. I’m scared to share my numbers on this page. This is scary and I believe is a syndicate. You might use me to get this guys if it’s what they also trying to scam me as well. We need to stop them before they scam and break more women emotionally and financially 😢😢😢

  • @thando_ngwe
    @thando_ngwe Před 8 měsíci +22

    I loved this interview, your maturity and allowing the guest to speak her mind ❤

  • @musi_33
    @musi_33 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Sending love to this lady. You are not alone, this scam is going around. And I just hope that you heal fro the trauma.❤

  • @palesamachobane3477
    @palesamachobane3477 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I’m really learning a lot from this series. Thanks Owami ❤️. I’m definitely playing far from these niggas with prayer rooms 🙈Yooh

  • @yvonnemaboya3578
    @yvonnemaboya3578 Před 8 měsíci +30

    The story is exactly the same as my colleague, This is a network, they operate everywhere in my colleagues case they suggested she sells the house and furniture and she refused, she also had the same feeling of being hijacked and dint save him from his car trouble. We just watched show and we were both in tears she feels a bit better naw, she is still paying off the debts even naw. She also got a similar response from police a silent laugh. Stay strong your kids need you. From Limpopo

  • @wandisatshisa9756
    @wandisatshisa9756 Před 8 měsíci +91

    Wow this is a different kind of way to scam to scam someone, it could be that they used evil spirits to make her agree to everything, I feel for you Ninja and so sorry this happened to you.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +11

      Thank you Wandisa, these guys use muthi what puzzle me is that they use the name of God in the process.

    • @amandamgobhoza2882
      @amandamgobhoza2882 Před 8 měsíci +21

      I believed they used muti too coz no one in their right mind could agree to all of these creepy events

    • @lebom2456
      @lebom2456 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Different babes! Higher grade

    • @user-xi2il4yj2x
      @user-xi2il4yj2x Před 8 měsíci +6

      When someone believes they are in love a lot is possible. Without muti. I have seen it many times..

    • @osisiphodumela4601
      @osisiphodumela4601 Před 8 měsíci +4

      One thing about these guys, they are very patient when it comes to their scams 😩

  • @londiwecelimpilo4068
    @londiwecelimpilo4068 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Its my second day i found this chanel. It only make sense now y i went thru similar experiences with ALMOST all Owamie's Guests.i relate so much otherwise i was gona b very judgemental.Woow God loves us.

  • @Jabu_lanii
    @Jabu_lanii Před 8 měsíci +10

    Iyhoo sis Owami listening to the story on how she described the so cold prayer room made my heart accelerate from zero to hundred... I know the room and I have been in that room... I know that uncestor that speaks through that small African house... I wish to tell my story one day.

  • @BulelwaBulie-ox6me
    @BulelwaBulie-ox6me Před 8 měsíci +10

    Dear God, please protect us from evil spirits, sivule amehlo sibone izinto ezingekho ryt, the world is evil 👏👏👏

  • @GodsFavourite2024
    @GodsFavourite2024 Před 8 měsíci +103

    What I've come to realise from all these episodes is:
    1. Tinder has some very hungry men.
    2. When you meet a man and you are a home owner please tell them you are renting it.
    3. Look at the love bombing to being a possible red flag.
    4. Be cautious, dont be pressurised by these men.
    Ya, some one else please add on to this list if there is anything else women need to be aware of. Also, can we share this video so that more women are aware of these scammers modus operandi

    • @leeannvuyelwaash
      @leeannvuyelwaash Před 8 měsíci +25

      I think single woman should act broke if you meet someone online. Never let no man know your money situation.

    • @ntombifuthindabezitha4873
      @ntombifuthindabezitha4873 Před 8 měsíci +16

      Don’t date people from tinder whatsoever you call it

    • @ntombifuthindabezitha4873
      @ntombifuthindabezitha4873 Před 8 měsíci +7

      People needs God , and wait upon him

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 Před 8 měsíci +5

      @@leeannvuyelwaash yes. Be a damsel in distress please women

    • @mlklkgamagadi
      @mlklkgamagadi Před 8 měsíci +7

      I almost fell for it as well but luckily, I always listen to my inner voice as I'm a spiritual person. I should thank my ancestors for it. I used to hate that my mom decided to halt ny calling at a very tender age and thanks to it I can't remember my dreams as I literally see evil and it made me sick hence the decision to halt it. Unfortunately she passed on soon after and the priest did too. Now I only rely on my inner voice which is always spot on

  • @zeegomba439
    @zeegomba439 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Yhoo fear umjolo especially where the foreign is concerned , I'm flabbergasted sana thanks Owami for these interviews very eye opening

  • @zanelemasuku4959
    @zanelemasuku4959 Před 8 měsíci +3

    I am so sorry for this ordeal. Thanks for your bravery to share your story. I resonate with your story, it happened to me, God will take you through. 🙏 . Thanks Owami for this story, I have learnt a lot. Jabu stay strong sisi, these people use strong umurhi and they are heartless. You will bounce back. I pray for healing 🙏. stay strong.🎉🎉

  • @gloriamaplanga5051
    @gloriamaplanga5051 Před 8 měsíci +14

    there was definitely someone behind those prayer room boards on the walls, there is no way that small house had such an up-to-date ancestor

  • @modikiramaisa4619
    @modikiramaisa4619 Před 8 měsíci +35

    This must be the most devastating thing . The realisation 😢😢😢😢😢 and the years she will spend repaying that money plus interest. May the good Lord protect me from the likes of this man

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  Před 8 měsíci +2

      😭😭😭

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 Před 8 měsíci +5

      May God protect a women from such...this is hell and every payday is reminder of an ordeal.

    • @gladysmoruti
      @gladysmoruti Před 8 měsíci +2

      ​@@jabunxumalo2111I can't imagine 😢

  • @trinicj9617
    @trinicj9617 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I applaud you for your bravery. Sometimes even the most careful person in life can be scammed. But continue to be strong my sister. You have to live for your children