I'm 28, He’s 70 - And It's Not For A 'Green Card' | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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JACKIE, 28, met David 70, on an internet dating site in 2016 while he was travelling in the Philippines, her native country. They went on several dates before David returned to his country, the United States. Three months later he went back to the Philippines and resumed his courtship of Jackie. They married in 2018 and live together in Oakland, California. Jackie created a TikTok account during the COVID lockdown, and sharing their lives online brought scrutiny of their 42-year age gap relationship, including the criticism that it was “so wrong on many levels.” There were claims that Jackie was a “gold digger” or that she married only to obtain a green card. David has been called “Grandpa” and it was claimed that he married Jackie only by purchasing her companionship. The couple tend to brush off negative comments and David stated that “overall we’ve received very positive judgements.” Jackie and David use TikTok as a potentially positive tool, hoping that their relationship provides hope and inspiration to viewers. David added: “If two people love each other if they want to go through life together, age is just a number.”
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As soon as they said, "Philippines" I knew exactly what's going on.
ME TOO, I KNO, IM FILIPINO..
@@kaidiver4306I knew exactly what was going on too I've had experience with this my Filipino girlfriend cheated on me with an old Australian man in his seventies and she's 32 she's using him for green card and for citizenship to his country I'm just glad I caught her before she would have screwed me even worse, that old man doesn't believe me that she was cheating on both of us and he bought her a house in Aurora province
Same!!! I ain’t Filipino but as an Asian person myself we all know where this goes!! 🤣
@@AnimeFreakpz AFAM better life, escape poverty and enherit his money
He’s not in love with her. At his age he’s just happy to have a companion. She’s not in love with him. She just wants a better life. Good for them.
I agree!!
Fair enough deal for both of them, everybody happy
fym good for them?? 😂😂😂 this shiii nasty af 🤮
I'm all for age gaps etc but this is just taking it to the next level 😅
Right lol 😆😆😆 my husband is 44 I’m 33 but this is sick.
Thought it was said age is just a number? I don’t believe that
@@JANET.19645 thats what pedophiles say btw
Did you say the same thing on the videos with the 23 year old black and whites girls and their 63 year old boyfriends?
They both got what they wanted out of this relationship. Good for them!
More like business transaction
@@leftifornian2066more of a love partner.
@@ItzBeautifulll wake up !
she never once said she loved him or even likes him she just kept saying how nice he is and what he does for her but hey its also none of our business
There you have it - this year's Oscar winner. Amazing performance over the years Jackie, hats off!
lol
I wouldn’t say she’s a good actress- it’s like she ain’t even really trying - when she said she doesn’t mind the age gap she looked sad af
So where’s the good acting lmao
He just doesn’t care that she doesn’t like him/ felt attracted to him, they’re relationship is strictly transactional and they both are aware of it, they ain’t dumb
@@PhnxI3I would say she’s not an actress. She is genuine.
I don't believe there's mutual love on this relationship
Mutual love means willingness to do whatever you are capable for the genuine welfare of the other side. If so, there is mutual love. If not, there is no mutual love. But we have no way of knowing the true case with this couple, although you can conjecture.
Neither..she must be able to love and be so comprensive when he is getting older and suddenly he change of mind or has an imposible sense of humor...people change!
She looks away and has a hint of sadness. She is gorgeous and can love anyone, even him, but her eyes tell a completely different story.....
It's not a personal choice when women from poor countries are trying to escape poverty. We don't even know who's idea it was for her to go on these dating sites or if she got pressured into it. I'm sure many aren't expecting such old men on there. I really feel bad for her. But at the same time Philippines is the one country that has a nurse program that sends soooo many Philippino nurses to us... If she could have pursued a higher education she could've left without all that. Out of all other porr Asian countries her's had the most resources
@@LovelyLittleLillies Perhaps, but we will never truly know. In the end....it's just about human beings having a love that does not cause sadness in your eyes.....
@@LovelyLittleLillies 'Whose idea' ... you septics have poor education.
Gorgeous??
It's obvious she did this to make her life better and even her entire family, there was no lust not lala love, doesn't mean she is bad person or bad wife and this marriage is bad. Even if he is not rich in California for her he is super rich... for her she broke the bank.
Ye she said "I'm happy with the dress and happy with the person I'm marrying." lol nothing bout love
I believe that if she wishes, she can easily find someone much younger and much richer. But she chose Dave. Think about this!
Satisfies both, she gets a better life and he gets a young beautiful woman. No young American women would be interested in a senior man. Basically it's a win win
@@qingyang5478 younger much richer ? Yeah sure 😂
Uhhhh..... 😂😂😂
She's a woman what you expect!!!
I have YET to meet a woman that doest date a man based on what he can provide...
Isn't this called natural selection 🤔 and/or woman nature.
Soooo normal...
How is it possible that all these "honest" girls fall in love only with RICH older men, and not just older men?
😂 is he rich, it certainly doesn't look like it to me. 😂
@kimberlylesieur1089 He is defenetly not rich or else she wouldn't be working at a local grocery store 😂 by the way my husband is 20 years older than me and he is defenetly not rich😅
@Gaby-cq8pr that's awesome! Mine is 17 years older and he's not rich, it's just love. I don't think many people understand what true love is because until I found it I didn't. Now I can see it and I know it. Its a beautiful thing. Cheers!
@@kimberlylesieur for me I rather be with and older responsable comited man who don't cheat and treats me well than being with a young toxic man who would leave me for a younger girl in a blink of an eye. Many of us women fall in love with stability and protection that doesn't mean the man has to be rich but a hard worker no addiction for sure. But I know most American women prefer a young man and have more of a masculine mentality in that regard wich is good too but they also should not just assume we are with older men because they are rich 🤭
@@Gaby-cq8pr So you think she has a traumatized history???
I am guessing she may not be into sexuality
Love don’t judge
But these videos prove that it should
He looks more like 90. My dad is 70 and looks like he could be his son.
He honestly to me looks younger than 70. He looks good for his age.
@@katherinehalliwell you must be kidding. I wish you could see my dad and compare. My dad is 70 and looks young. This guy looks very old.
He does look way older than 70. It's shocking. I wonder if he's telling porkies lol. Maybe he's had a hard life. Seems like a sweet man.
Lmfaoooooo
There's a look of insincerity in her eyes when she talks about them being together
yeah i see that too
@@annamorgan6765 honestly after 6 years anyobdy marriage has that insinceritiy. But like to give 6 years on a lie, I am sure the old man got his moneys worth.
@@Turnpost2552 yeahhh i feel that
What do you see in HIS eyes? 😂 No complaints.
Some people see that single cloud on a sunny sky
With all due resepect I dont believe in this love story. But each to their own.
💯
Agreed
I’m 36 and my fiancé is 55 so we have a 19 year age gap and to be honest it can be very challenging at times because he’s so stuck in his ways and we do disagree on a lot of things. However, I’ve never felt so loved, respected, adored, spoiled, stable, and wanted. This man has been the biggest blessing in my life and honestly, I love his maturity, I love learning from him, and the Sex is mind blowing. With that being said, to each it’s own…but I love it here ❤
I’m happy for y’all. Contrary to what many people say, if two people genuinely love each other there is no reason they can’t be married regardless of age difference or anything else
@@davewhaley6917 Thank you, beautifully said❤ we need more of you and less of them in this world 😊
Tú necesitas una nueva tranca
Sex is mind blowing? I disagree with you. Lol😂
@@floridaroadways I don’t know who you fucking and I honestly don’t give a F$&k. What works for others don’t have to work for you! Older men know how to please women! They are selfless lovers! It’s so good I literally need it 5 days a week more than once a day! Yeah I LOVE IT HERE😂😂
Let’s be honest….it’s for the green card. I’m proud of her though
I'm proud of him to pull that
Extreme example:
I see a guy on meth laughing, partying and having a great time. I wouldn't say well, keeep on doing meth because he is happy. I would say something is going on beyond the surface level causing him to do meth. I understand that nothing is surface level with humans. I hope these relationships dont cause death(mental, spiritual, physical) because of unresolved trauma. Lets get our core values calibrated America.
Girl, if you need a green card, I know someone who can hook you up. You don’t have to do all this.
She looks bored and not once did she say she loves him or that she loves him a lot. She just said he's a really nice man lol that loves and respects her. 🧐
Yeah. That is what one really feels for someone very old, just respect or admiration. But loving him as a couple, not really. I don't know. I don't think it's real love.
A lot of poor asian women marry more affluent older men for security and better life. Last month in Thailand, a 21 year old med student married a 60 years old dude with 3 kids who gifted her a million dollar worth of golds and jewelries.
@@Vanessa-hr3yr nope. Me either.
He’s definitely in love with her and I think she has love and respect for him.
I only believe one of these
She's not attractec nor in love but she must be very grateful, he's sweet and sends money to her family to help so she endures.
You think..😂😂😂
Hahahaha I stopped listening at we met in the Philippines hahahahaha 😂😂
Hahaha. Why? 😂
@@kaye.1226why do you think
🤣🤣🤣
@@kaye.1226 She laterally married him for US citizenship. It's not uncommon for poor asian girls to marry older western men for migration purpose.
😂😂😂
As soon as I read it’s not a for a green card! I knew immediately it was for the green card’
I think this speaks to the larger issue of older white men going to east, south and southeast asian countries to look for a younger women. Also the colonial mindset/internalized racism experienced by some (maybe a lot) women of color from those countries that value whiteness, because they equate whiteness with power, money and privilege. All this just to say this is a huge issue and they are not the only couples like this--they represent the collective internalized racism in those countries let alone in the US--I wish this wasn't the case.
I'm 6 years older than my soon to be husband and even we have a diffrent outlook, but 42 years? Wow. I hope they really love each other, that's all that matters!
This dude was 63 and she was 21 when they met…terrible!
Terrible for whom? She has a husband, not being passed around by men who just want one thing.
Happiness needs no one's verdict.
They are together for reasons other than love and that’s perfectly okay.
A hot,terrible mess,he looks like a Old jeffery Dalhmer
lol
It's very common for Philippine women to marry much older men.
But like for money???
@@Turnpost2552EXACTLYYYYYYYY to escape their country
@@The_RisingSun18 Actually most prefer to stay in their own country. All women are wired to need security. However Philippine women are raised to be loyal to their husband. Granted we will find flaws in a few.
@garyprater8139 They prefer it, but they are looking for financial security. Unfortunately most people in the Phillipines make peanuts compared to here.
It s a filipina tradition over there to get an old white dude 😂
She’s disgusted
I would be too. Who wants to be intimate with an old guy like that? My ex is 54 years old and I am 43 and he couldn't satisfy me in any way. Imagine a 70 year old (that looks 90 btw).
@@nightsky3981A lot of these men aren’t taking care of their health. No way a 54 yr old should be having issues. Sounds like a low testosterone issue.
@@marriejames01 I agree. We hardly had intimacy. I was always so dissapointed.
Yes you can tell. It's not because he's old he's just very unattractive. My bf is 50 I am very attracted to him there's no lie to hide and he is fine in bed no issues. She should have waited for a better one he looks like a goblin sorry I can't imagine being intimate with a guy like that even his voice is gross
Yeah she’s for the green card
I'm also in a 26yo age gap relationship so I can relate a bit here. The thing people with the "she's a gold digger" take is that she's actually giving him the best gift he could have ever ask for, her youth and her best best years. Does that mean that he should contribute more to the relationship and take care of her? Sure, why not!?
Age-gap relationships don't bother me as long as the love is genuine and of legal age. I wish these two the best. ❤
bingo
0:10 lol at how she pulls back.
Thank you
Same thoughts!
This is beyond creepy. He is literally like her grandpa.
Proof love can be bought 💰🤑
Well, she gets to inherent his home, money, car, inve?stments. What's not to love! Travel for free!!!😳
David she’s leaving everything to be with you but soon you’ll be leaving everything for her too . Bear that in mind 🙌🏻
Subtle way of putting things. 😁
She is waiting for grandpa going to heaven. Don't get me wrong!!! Common!
Yeah. And she can meet a new guy instantly.
This is absolutely disgusting
This story is really same to mine. It's just sad because people are very judgmental.
Jesus died and rose again for your sins. Believe in him and you will be saved and go to heaven!
No, I don't belive for the moment that it was love on her side that brought them together.
Not that there is only age gap, but they seem they come from different social and educational backgrounds. They have hardly known each other when she moved the country, nor ut seems that they have anything in common apart from different interests and expectations from each other.
Yes, she married him for the opportunity to live in the states and for the inheritance. It is obvious.
Yet, that is not illegal so I don't see the crime in it. This is not exception, this is a rule. Women tend to look for money and security from men, particularly if they come from financially struggling backgrounds and man, if they can afford, go for trophy wifes !!! Fact!
She doesn't need to justify herself to the public but because she is just doing it, I say: Young lady, you are dishonest. So, don't seek public attention and public approval. Just live your life the way you can and the way you want. That is perfectly OK.
0:10 lol at how she pulls back.
Lol she's like, "Okay, okay. They get the point, so can you back off now?"
She’s about to do a 10 year bid. When she’s 35- 40 . She’s going to start seeing the promise land . If it’s true 💕! Do another documentary Part 2
P.S - if he has any money, he should get his teeth
Whitened!!!
😂
😂😂😂
I see this all the time in Thailand. A girl is always poor and live/d in a village.
Then Thank god my parents emigrate from thailand to the EU🙏🏼. I avoid this sad typical south east asian girl way of life, ending up with a half century western man... just to get out of poverty
Okay..... So there are 3 possibilities:
1. The girl is kind, as she see the old man is lonely (maybe the old guy remind her of her grandfather). Maybe after some date she feels empathetic toward him and want to grant the old man his last wish
2. The girl is a gold digger. As she see the old man (maybe he has some assets) and will not live long enough
3. The girl is crazy. And there is no f*cking way the friend and family is supportive about this kind of sh*t. I would tell my friend directly in front of her grandfather graveyard to end this. The girl has no thought of having a children? If yes. She doesnt consider that the child may grow without a father? And she should consider how the child might get bullied by his friend because of his mother stupid love that no one cares
Damn ngl I agree 😭
Not every women wants to have children.
What lala land you be living where women be granting men wishes like charity?😂😂 What's next, she's gonna take v cards of all the loser virgins who can't get any?? This is so wild I hope you're just young bc wtf did I just read
An old white man and a girl from South Asia. Hehe classic 🚬
That’s okay she dont look 28, she look 40. Maybe its just her make up
Yes she doesn’t look 28.
They both look their age.
They are happy together, enjoy this short life which is short for all of us , irrespective of age difference, we are just part of a small moment in this world's long age, so live and let live , peace ✌️
Dam you beat me......
Im nineteen years apart and twelve years married to the same country gold tooth chicken eating mac 😂
So….. he’s 70 and she’s 28
Therefore he was 42 when she was born :0
They’re 42 age gap apart :/ wish them the best
It's funny when certain people write that Couples with a very big age difference or one is disabled or looks like Quasimodo, are only together because of the money. So what?
So does that mean that AVERAGE couples or those who are a good match for society, money no longer matters? Apparently normal relationship live on air and love? Love goes but money does not and couples who should not fit the social norms together, money plays a role but love does not 😂.
I always say the more financial resources are available, the more you can support your partner. The more plans you can make and the better you can live and also sleep....
Yep, the Philippines. That's all they needed to say.
Hmm...the patience she has is her power. Test of time will only tell.
Way to go guys.❤❤❤❤
Yeah obviously you don't love him for his money, you won't care if he donates it all to charity once he dies.
In Filipino culture no only do you marry the woman - you marry the woman's family also. Inspiration for heart broken men & single men. Go to Philippines 🇵🇭 ❤ - Your other half is there who awaits you
you disgust me. you're basically telling men to go to the philippines and prey on young women. do you not understand how fucked up that is?
8:05 dude talm bout going thru life together like bruh you gonna be dead by the time she's in her 30s
Tbh
Im trying my best not to judge..
It's not working.
Don't feel bad. The ability to discern is a gift.
In Love with green card and money 😂
Ofc Philippines 😂😂😂😂 all the women are known to do that and escape their country
I could not be with a man 70, if I'm that young! 🤮
i think in third world countries beauty is the only tool for women that's why u see so many beautiful girls in those countries they HAVE to be beautiful to have comfortable lives
Bro from all of the men this is what she choose for only a green card😮😳😳😵😵
Her eyes are soo sad. 💔
Saw this all the time growing up in a Navy community, got to give them credit though, they usually will marry an American to support their family.
IT'S DEFINITELY FOR THE GREEN CARD BRUHH.
Her eyes say it all.... 😥
Sometimes you have to do hard things to take care of your family and at least he gets to be happy and taken care of
ITS PART OF GETTING A GREEN CARD, PERIOD
It seems to be interesting but really it's disgusting
When you truly love someone age doesn't matter, weather its 10 years, 20 yrs, 30, yrs 0r 40 yrs, love is love. Thats what, what matters most.
Oh, OK once I heard Philippines, that’s the only reason why she married him , she gets a green card, and the next thing you know he’s dead. Seen this kind of story before . There’s nothing to see here move along.
And she could date another younger guy right away.
She is gorgeous omg. wth !!!
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This is actually crazy 💀
Every marriage is a symbiosis ... in the end it's like that ... giving and taking, compromise, agreement ... there are limits in every marriage. He honestly said I PAY ALL THE BILLS...she SENDS HER PARENTS from her salary...the two of them are very very honest. He's in love with her, she loves and respects him, it's not like she feels butterflies in her stomach when she sees him...But realistically...those butterflies are a maximum of 9 months of each relationship ;) Good luck to the newlyweds...I still like older women ... preferably a rich widow ... is there any?
There's nothing wrong with falling in love with a nice guy maybe she had a lot of fine-looking guys that treated her like crap so now she can appreciate your a real man. Love is not always that passion and fireworks..that just last for a while..what is left is the true love
She is basically marrying to get a proper status in life. She looks like someone who wouldn't amount to anything in the Philippines so she marries a lonely white American hoping for a white mixed baby and a Greencard. Those are hard facts!
The only thing she appreciate is his wallet 💳
@@27pugsly and citizenship because her native citizenship is garbage.
@@27pugslywhy you care? He didn’t go for a woman his age so he knew what he’s doing. He just enjoys his later life with young girl, and spoiling her with his money, then pass away.
And don’t forget the money😂😅
But if its for the green card, it's been 7 years, enough time to just get a divorce, get a job in USA and have a good life, and even help her family... why staying with him tho? Uuuf i couldn't...
I think she got married with that men because her situation and they lake olds mens because they feel like princess also there situation
The dancing made me laugh.
😊😊let him enjoy his last years
She seems obligated,not in love🧐
Right after she said im not a gold digger he says i pay most of the bills she has a job to support her family because that im not doing 😂😂 she just waiting on him to go its sad but true
Yes, it was for the green card.
I see she loves the dress more. Look at her eyes….
Get that money honey
Love you Guys ❤❤ hope all the best for you with lots of love ❤❤ South Africa 🇿🇦
It's definitely for a Green Card.
they met when she was 20-21??? Thats INSANE and soooo wrong
I remember this couple being on TLC channel
bruv the fact people r accepting this is just disgusting
David looks like he's just wearing the mask of an old man
Everything for that green card 🤑✅ 💳
Absolutely disgusting!!! 🤮🤮🤮
I just wish you will have a marriage one day (if at all) that is half happy as theirs. Fingers crossed for you
@@qingyang5478uncross those fingers. Ain't nobody trying to be like them. That's disgusting
I definitely agree with you. It's definitely not right, it's just disgusting.
At some point we need to stop infantilizing young women. Jackie was legally an adult when she met and decided to marry David. Maybe both or one of them has ulterior motives but we don’t know that so I hope they are both happy and continue having fun with each other. ❤
Umm yeah, I don’t believe this. Not saying that you can’t find love online but considering that he took an immediate interest over a young girl who seems to purposely have risqué-ish photos out forward, feels a bit off. Very common way women/catfishers in these dating sites take advantage of older men.
Jackie is low key the prettiest girl to ever appear on this show. Good job grandpa
She's sacrificing for the family. He'll be dead by the time she's 37 and she'll have his will and still can start a new family 🤷🏼♀️
Hey guys! I love you both and I mean it! ❤❤❤
it is definitely for a green card.
Congrats 👏 👏 👏
Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 🥳 ❤🙏🙏🎊