I'm 82, He's 36 - And He's Not 'Scamming' Me | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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    FALLING in love online isn’t for everyone, but for 82-year-old Iris Mohamady and her husband Mohamed, 36, it was the perfect match - even though they shared a 46 year age difference. After meeting and exchanging messages on social media it wasn’t long before Iris was jetting off to meet her beloved in Egypt where they spent time together meeting Mohamed’s family. Fast forward a few years and the pair are married and living together enjoying their happily ever after. However when they announced their relationship to the world, they faced a lot of negativity from people online. Iris said: “Now Mohamed's in the UK, life is easier because I don't have the stress of him not being here. He's there for me constantly, 24/7, and the love just grows. I don't think I could love him any more than I do right now. If any couples come to us or even ask questions online as they have done, and they are in an age gap relationship and want me to give them some advice, I would just say go with your heart.”
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  • @somebody4244
    @somebody4244 Před 2 lety +1698

    The way they zoomed in on him when she said he’s not a scammer

  • @micahstealyogirlbell8010
    @micahstealyogirlbell8010 Před 2 lety +1260

    Welcome to another episode of ‘love don’t judge: but we sure as hell do - he’s definitely a scammer edition’

  • @cocobrowny
    @cocobrowny Před 2 lety +699

    “Mohammed started talking about marriage within weeks...”
    Yeah...no. Definitely not a scammer. Dude’s super genuine...🙄

    • @anonymous-cx7ng
      @anonymous-cx7ng Před 2 lety

      He’s probably Muslim

    • @1romancatholic
      @1romancatholic Před rokem +26

      “Before we even met. I said let’s meet first” 🙄

    • @shaneluke346
      @shaneluke346 Před rokem +9

      Muhammed seems a bit of a FLIRT , I wonder what went wrong with his FIRST MARRAIGE ?

    • @jeanettelebarron3306
      @jeanettelebarron3306 Před rokem +13

      Green Card

    • @b.breeze6614
      @b.breeze6614 Před rokem +16

      To be fair, they may not have much time to waste🤷‍♂

  • @elivieira8838
    @elivieira8838 Před 2 lety +985

    She clearly doesn't know how to spot a scammer.

    • @mariaray7614
      @mariaray7614 Před 2 lety +3

      Haha

    • @TheEdoardoCC
      @TheEdoardoCC Před 2 lety +53

      Shes 82 She can’t even see him properly thats why hahahaha

    • @mzluv6903
      @mzluv6903 Před 2 lety +2

      Haahhaaa!

    • @missb5581
      @missb5581 Před 2 lety +1

      @@TheEdoardoCC I was thinking the same thing 🤭

    • @TheEdoardoCC
      @TheEdoardoCC Před 2 lety

      @@missb5581 hahaha love u Gurl . Much love from Germany 🇩🇪 ( and Croatia 🇭🇷) 💜

  • @kecola
    @kecola Před 2 lety +899

    Nah my brain won't let me believe this man is genuinely in love with this woman. It just won't.

    • @littledudefromacrossthestr5755
      @littledudefromacrossthestr5755 Před 2 lety +26

      Exactly

    • @xXJosephxneXx
      @xXJosephxneXx Před 2 lety +53

      He prob has a granny kink….. or prob using her for money…. I guess I’m not sure lol

    • @Scifi4life
      @Scifi4life Před 2 lety +4

      He's not

    • @JBoo
      @JBoo Před 2 lety +25

      Might have old ppl fetish, it could be genuine happiness. I'm not to judge

    • @konstantinospapaioannou2588
      @konstantinospapaioannou2588 Před 2 lety +38

      Love???????? A poor, starving Egyptian guy knows no love. Everything is about money, inheritance, Visa, and green card.

  • @maryloy967
    @maryloy967 Před 2 lety +1241

    Age gaps between two consenting adults doesn’t bother me, but there’s something about this young man that doesn’t strike me as genuine. There’s a disconnect between the emotion in his eyes and what he says. It would concern me regardless of the age of the partner.

    • @Supergirl-oo5lr
      @Supergirl-oo5lr Před 2 lety +72

      Couldn’t agree more.

    • @andreamaria85
      @andreamaria85 Před 2 lety

      He most likely married her to get into the country…

    • @globalwarmhugs7741
      @globalwarmhugs7741 Před 2 lety +91

      Agreed. As far as he's concerned, once she's gone and he has her assets, he has zero left to pretend. He'll be laughing last.

    • @michelleamywatt5695
      @michelleamywatt5695 Před 2 lety +80

      @@globalwarmhugs7741 that’s probably why her sons are upset
      As they feel it’s not genuine

    • @Rcaldwell091
      @Rcaldwell091 Před 2 lety +14

      Definitely

  • @carrienicholasxo415
    @carrienicholasxo415 Před 2 lety +569

    I want to believe it's true love, but i just don't trust him.
    Talking about marriage within weeks.. yeah green card

    • @missld6856
      @missld6856 Před 2 lety +25

      Ya and he probly will stay for the length of time required to get the green card

    • @bjrock1235
      @bjrock1235 Před 2 lety +31

      I think it could also be his culture. They don’t like to date and skip right to marriage. Then again there are other signs of him being suspicious.

    • @bilalmehmood8976
      @bilalmehmood8976 Před 2 lety +1

      hi

    • @saraad839
      @saraad839 Před rokem +3

      @@bjrock1235 💯💯

    • @mc1618
      @mc1618 Před rokem

      Narcissistic always have an agenda!

  • @jesseperez1869
    @jesseperez1869 Před rokem +108

    Her son must of regretted giving her a laptop 😂

  • @kevinguzman9642
    @kevinguzman9642 Před 2 lety +357

    He’s a caretaker under the guise
    of a husband who knows exactly what he’s doing and I’ll leave it at that

    • @malkaringel7864
      @malkaringel7864 Před 2 lety +18

      @Kevin Guzman I said it for you. Facebook is notorious for these.

    • @kevinguzman9642
      @kevinguzman9642 Před 2 lety +13

      @@malkaringel7864 These r dark times indeed!

    • @kos1277
      @kos1277 Před 2 lety

      Of course. 'talking about marriage within weeks'
      God bless the absolute morons in this comment section (and no it's not misogyny, I'm a cis woman) I will never quite understand how so many people on this earth, of all genders can be so deeply in denial. Difficult to even pity them when it's so glaringly obvious!!

    • @JessicaJLatfi
      @JessicaJLatfi Před 2 lety +1

      That part lol

    • @jeanettelebarron3306
      @jeanettelebarron3306 Před 2 lety +1

      He'll be spoon feeding her

  • @curiositeatv
    @curiositeatv Před 2 lety +677

    Well, he’s definitely playing the long con but he’s doing a good job of keeping her happy, so good for them both. They seem to be having fun. She’s clearly no dummy so if she loves it, I love it.

    • @DC45193
      @DC45193 Před 2 lety +7

      no shade

    • @JungkookwifeN
      @JungkookwifeN Před 2 lety +37

      Maybe he just don't wNt someone who will cheat on him and go with other guys easily. So older women will be better. I know someone personally who actually was sick of his cheated wife and divorced her and married an old lady who is nice to him and he knows she won't cheat and play with other men. Not everyone is a golddigger.

    • @Thekrystalshow
      @Thekrystalshow Před 2 lety +26

      It works out for both of them I guess she’s happy and he’s paid

    • @ccatarinajm7114
      @ccatarinajm7114 Před 2 lety +39

      @@Thekrystalshow I feel ashamed to admit that I think the same thing. I guess it is hard for me to get that he would really be in love. Previously somebody wrote that he's playing the long con. I kinda thought that too, especially because he was talking about marriage before they even met. Feels like a man who wanted to get to Europe and felt that this was as good an opportunity as any. On the other hand, she's clearly happy. She said that her life was dull before he came. I try to reprimand myself for having a hard time believing it true love, but then again, who am I to judge what true love really means? Whatever they have and whatever it is or should be called, they seem to be enjoying it.

    • @lilmidnight11
      @lilmidnight11 Před 2 lety +3

      @@JungkookwifeN can older men n woman not cheat, 🤔🤔 I didn't know only younger men n woman could cheat

  • @melissah.5319
    @melissah.5319 Před 2 lety +120

    The body language! Sitting together his upper body is drawn away from her. I just don't believe it.

  • @yourmajesty122
    @yourmajesty122 Před 2 lety +96

    dude c'mon . right after they started talking on facebook he asks her to marry him when they hadn't even met? he's a British citizen now and completely used her age to his advantage. he's gonna find someone his own age and have kids with her by the time he's 40.

    • @almondmilk1600
      @almondmilk1600 Před 2 lety +6

      What’s wrong with that ? He makes her happy and he gets what he wants it’s a win win for both of them and for the marriage part we North Africans prefer to Mary right away rather than to date a lot of people to just break up with them now I don’t know whether he’s Muslim or not but if he is it’s not allowed for us to date

    • @farahsmirage127
      @farahsmirage127 Před 2 lety +1

      yes he will and be just a miserable as the rest of us. ha ha

    • @srose6766
      @srose6766 Před 4 měsíci

      He has a wife and 4 kids already

  • @jessicadriscoll4948
    @jessicadriscoll4948 Před 2 lety +377

    Regardless of his intentions, she is clearly extremely happy and laughing all the time. She's enjoying the last years of her life as she lives her best life, so more power to her!

    • @erikag7334
      @erikag7334 Před 2 lety +10

      Hopefully, she doesn’t leave her assets to Mohamed

    • @TheContentofCory
      @TheContentofCory Před 2 lety +13

      @@erikag7334 I mean is that the worst thing in the world🤷🏾‍♂️ She’s having the time of her life…

    • @erikag7334
      @erikag7334 Před 2 lety +10

      @@TheContentofCory yeah I know.. I’m just protective of senior people I used to work with them. But she does look happy 🥺

    • @n0to_reousd115
      @n0to_reousd115 Před 2 lety +9

      Ok, so y’all are glad she’s spending her last years with a guy who’s potentially scamming her?😂 look at how he looks at her😂

    • @bethanywinfrey7369
      @bethanywinfrey7369 Před rokem +7

      @@erikag7334 I'm sure she will but it would be HILARIOUS if she left him nothing :)

  • @lolalre
    @lolalre Před 2 lety +332

    I know someone just like Mohamed. He was also from Eygpt and but he would complain to me about how his life in Eygpt was miserable. Then after like 6 days of texting, he started mentioning marriage... mind you we've only video chat once. He was doing everything and anything to leave and come to my country (Canada) lol.
    so I don't think the problem is the age gap with this couple, it's their intentions... but oh well

    • @JustSmileAndWave2023
      @JustSmileAndWave2023 Před 2 lety +39

      OMG I had a very similar encounter visiting Egypt. Another guy there managed to get $35 worth of jewelry from me…He was so skilled in this “romantic trickery” or being a swindler…He knew when to talk/act genuine & show up…& when to play hard to get. I, being an extreme empath, kinda felt bad because he told me his family was poor & gave him the jewelry. After I gave the gift to him, he did not care about me in regards to meeting me one more time before I left the country. Actually, he asked me how much Egyptian money I had left when he was considering to meet me 😂 It’s a long story, but at that point, I came to my senses and basically said “forget about it”. Idiots like him think they can take advantage of people forever or *devalue a human life like that*. But they are inviting their own karma.

    • @lolalre
      @lolalre Před 2 lety +23

      @@JustSmileAndWave2023 omg i'm really happy you wrote your experience, cause I really didn't want to judge Egyptian men just because of my bad experience.
      Honestly, it's sad that you got tricked by him but what I liked that you did is that you came to your senses and forgot about him. You were able to move on and now we learn from our horrible decisions lol

    • @Jenvlogs404
      @Jenvlogs404 Před 2 lety

      Says everyone and not genuine as a human so there’s no future, actually one responsible for bringing civiIization down, avoid and don’t visit at all costs, don’t feed it and considered soft, her trip was a trap.

    • @cnoelad83
      @cnoelad83 Před 2 lety +11

      That kind of happened to me with an Egyptian as well. I started dating him, in person though, not online and a month later his dad was like "take her to the church" Which means get married. I'm pretty sure he is still trying to scam me, 19 years later...

    • @northerlyartemis
      @northerlyartemis Před 2 lety +7

      It’s an industry in some countries. Like, they seriously have training courses on marriage scams. Block that person

  • @melaniatrump2166
    @melaniatrump2166 Před 2 lety +237

    He starts lookin around when him being a scammer is brought up. Hes there for the inheritance.

    • @metaverseplayer
      @metaverseplayer Před 2 lety +22

      It’s incredible how people are so shifty when caught.

    • @mindyspeer1781
      @mindyspeer1781 Před 2 lety +23

      I agree he is lying 🤥

    • @aj09696
      @aj09696 Před 2 lety +22

      @@mindyspeer1781 oh he definitely is. Especially with the face he made when they mentioned him possibly being a scammer. Dead giveaway

    • @MariaGomez-fx6ch
      @MariaGomez-fx6ch Před 2 lety +1

      🤣

    • @hideyable
      @hideyable Před 2 lety +21

      Mentioning marriage within weeks really sealed the deal.

  • @-B0-
    @-B0- Před 2 lety +26

    Eventually, we're all here for the comments...

  • @JustSmileAndWave2023
    @JustSmileAndWave2023 Před 2 lety +164

    No. Starting from the tidbits about him mentioning marriage/getting married before they met…started setting off an alarm. I’ve talked to numerous North African & Arab men & it’s almost always been the same. Especially in my experience with Egyptians guys, the money is always (subconsciously) on the mind. *I was trying to be polite the first time I wrote this comment & left something out, but I’m writing it back in: he’s holding out for the money.

  • @celestialcircledance
    @celestialcircledance Před 2 lety +339

    She's got a playful energy about her . I hope what she says is true about being a good judge of character but I'm glad he keeps her happy !

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. Před 2 lety +5

      Agreed 💛

    • @blakeley38
      @blakeley38 Před 2 lety +14

      How 2 get out of a shitty country ….. marriage ….. glad she’s happy but yes this guy is as the kids say a scammer

    • @andreamaria85
      @andreamaria85 Před 2 lety +12

      Exactly! Used her to get into the country!

    • @k.6094
      @k.6094 Před 2 lety +2

      When u date someone younger than you u tend to feel young again ... I think it's that effect on her

  • @realcanadiangirl64
    @realcanadiangirl64 Před 2 lety +263

    As long as he makes her happy for the rest of her life I don't have an issue with this, but if he hurts her I hope he's dealt with severely by her family

  • @nouaranouara9939
    @nouaranouara9939 Před 2 lety +68

    Just look at his eyes and how he is rubbing hands when she said: he is not a scammer. That's say everything! Egyptian families will never accept one old woman as daughter in law for theirs sons. He is using her for money for sure!

    • @joltjolt5060
      @joltjolt5060 Před 2 lety

      He's Muslim. He can have another wife.

    • @nouaranouara9939
      @nouaranouara9939 Před 2 lety +1

      @@joltjolt5060 , only if the first wife will agree with that😉

    • @farahsmirage127
      @farahsmirage127 Před 2 lety +2

      ha ha good for both of them. money buys love just as a pretty face can do the same. Money lasts, face doesn't who cares. he deserves an academy award and the money paid to all great actors. Pay the man. Who cares if it is a scam. All love is a chore anyway. She is so happy to enjoy the time with a sexy man with a sexy accent. Good for her.

  • @vikkiLH77
    @vikkiLH77 Před 2 lety +66

    To be fair , whatever his motives , he does treat her very well and is affectionate and loving towards her. She is really happy with him and isn’t that really all that matters in the last few years of her life? A lot of scammers are really cold and disrespectful to women in the end , he’s actually treating her like he loves her . Whether he does or not, I dunno ?

    • @celestek.2395
      @celestek.2395 Před rokem +1

      What gets me is, nobody but me has commented on the several pictures of them, and she has a black eye!

  • @beepink6596
    @beepink6596 Před 2 lety +204

    Iris sure is young at heart, good for her she’s living her life and enjoying the present. I am sure they are both grateful to have met each other 🤗

    • @taurussun2228
      @taurussun2228 Před 2 lety +16

      You and Iris are both wearing tinted colored glasses. Both of you are asleep. Good night.

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 Před 2 lety +13

      Lol he's after her permit. It's very common for ppl in those countries to search online for "wives" to come into the country, it's easier than being successful and come via work permit

    • @victorianacastro7757
      @victorianacastro7757 Před 2 lety +3

      @@jemmaj2919 I totally agree.

    • @amberburns4881
      @amberburns4881 Před 2 lety +2

      @@taurussun2228 Technically, nothing she said was false. I'm sure he *is* grateful to have met this lady, but maybe not for the same reasons

  • @gardeniagorgeous4232
    @gardeniagorgeous4232 Před 2 lety +32

    No offense to Egyptians or Egyptian men, but it is super common for those in the region to seize the opportunity to leave the country. The poverty and lack of opportunity is stifling. I’m not saying Mohamed doesn’t love her in some way, but yeah I don’t see this as romantic love. More like gratefulness. He will probably eventually get divorced, have his mum send his female cousin to England to get married and have kids. I hope Iris does not end up alone and hurt. She seems so lovely and fun! May God take care of her. If we are all being honest with ourselves, it’s simply not realistic a young man would be sexually interested in some 50 years his senior and far past child rearing age. Take this with a grain of salt, and the knowledge that my wonderful husband is Egyptian. We are the same age and have been together for a decade so it is all legit lol. I love Egypt and wish the people could advance, but they are held back by the powers that be.

  • @zackk109
    @zackk109 Před rokem +13

    This guy needs a spot in Hollywood, greatest con man I’ve seen so far. Unfortunately it’s always lonely individuals that get bamboozled into thinking they found love online but have to face the true reality, i’m sure she has a big heart.

  • @catapillargirl2021
    @catapillargirl2021 Před 2 lety +115

    It was RISKY for her to travel to Cairo alone to meet a stranger!

    • @ilovelife6214
      @ilovelife6214 Před 2 lety +1

      Why do you think it's risky? Egypt is relatively safe compared to Cameroon. My now husband traveled there to meet me for the first time. It's not any riskier than leaving a town of Britain to another to meet a stranger. Anyway, please tell me why you think it's risky

    • @catapillargirl2021
      @catapillargirl2021 Před 2 lety +19

      @@ilovelife6214 82 year old female, alone, meeting a stranger who knows they are alone, in another country = very vulnerable.

    • @farahsmirage127
      @farahsmirage127 Před 2 lety +2

      @@catapillargirl2021 she has nothing to fear at that age. she has more chances of having a heart attack. lmao

    • @SLBikers
      @SLBikers Před rokem

      Agree

    • @ElissaStark514
      @ElissaStark514 Před rokem

      At that age, you're fearless.

  • @violettaeve
    @violettaeve Před 2 lety +71

    He wanted to get married right away
    🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

    • @JustSmileAndWave2023
      @JustSmileAndWave2023 Před 2 lety +3

      Exactly!!!

    • @bjrock1235
      @bjrock1235 Před 2 lety

      What if it’s just his culture though. They tend to go straight to marriage instead of dating. But there were some other warning signs I suppose.

    • @narimanezeinddine604
      @narimanezeinddine604 Před 2 lety

      I do believe he's in it for some sort of gain, whether it's passport or money. But many Arab cultures don't do long periods of dating without a talk of of marriage.

    • @nouaranouara9939
      @nouaranouara9939 Před 2 lety +2

      @@bjrock1235 , no way in Egyptian culture. He only wants to escape from Egypt, nothing more.

  • @dingo1666
    @dingo1666 Před 2 lety +105

    It is very dangerous in this case not to judge or to tell the family off, because 99.9999999% of times younger men who want to stay in another country forever will marry just for that. I also have my doubts about Mohammed. I really do. Maybe he's playing the long game, maybe he is genuine. But this would be a very very rare event. I want to reiterate to older women that young men chatting you up in 3rd world countries is [almost] always for their gain. Please keep that in mind and don't be naive.

  • @annvirco7308
    @annvirco7308 Před rokem +85

    I Saw Iris on good morning,she had me in fits of laughter talking about their sex life , definitely worth going and finding the interview. If she is being scammed she's certainly enjoying it 😂

    • @OzmaOfOzz
      @OzmaOfOzz Před rokem

      Tried finding it but there are like 5 videos of them on good morning.. idk which to watch

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. Před 2 lety +40

    If I’m not like this at 82 I want a do over 😭😭

  • @ninjapirate123
    @ninjapirate123 Před rokem +6

    The women clearly can't spot a scammer

  • @TheJodilicious6
    @TheJodilicious6 Před 2 lety +192

    Honestly it's a win for both. She is having fun. He keeps her moving and happy and he gets his papers. Win win in my eyes. Plus they look like there having fun so who cares. Life is short do what you want not what other people want YOU to do.

    • @rebellefleur435
      @rebellefleur435 Před 2 lety +6

      *they're

    • @TheJodilicious6
      @TheJodilicious6 Před 2 lety +15

      @@rebellefleur435 Thanks Karen

    • @gt4lifegt4life35
      @gt4lifegt4life35 Před 2 lety +6

      She is a Grammar Karen lol

    • @TheJodilicious6
      @TheJodilicious6 Před 2 lety +5

      @@gt4lifegt4life35 for real 😭 I bet she is the type that calls the cops on the neighbors for making to much noise on New Years Eve 🤦 gotta pick at every little thing 🙄

    • @misslilpersian4758
      @misslilpersian4758 Před 2 lety +1

      Good perspective!

  • @WikkidPiggy666
    @WikkidPiggy666 Před 2 lety +98

    I mean I want to believe that this is real and be happy for them.. they seem happy.. but her children have every reason to be wary of this guy tbh. I’ve been to Egypt myself and the people are lovely, but there is an awful lot of poverty and an awful lot of underhanded things that go on there in order for people to survive financially. For instance, I was warned beforehand to only use a particular cab service because others had a reputation for literally keeping people locked in the car until they paid whatever fee the cabby demanded. My friend and I had a similar thing happen when we took a horse and buggy up town where the guy got all aggressive because he changed the fee on us once we arrived at our destination. I was also cornered by two men in a market stall and bullied into buying a shirt I didn’t want, and I had several men aggressively proposing marriage or a relationship with me as well lol. It was a great place to visit in spite of all this, but there were times it got a bit scary.
    I have to question what a 36 year old man sees in a woman in her 80s.. sure, there are times when age isn’t important and two people just connect, but there are also people who will prey on the elderly for their money and perhaps even marry them to become a beneficiary in their will when they die. Idk it’s just suspicious to me.

    • @kevinguzman9642
      @kevinguzman9642 Před 2 lety +5

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @Jenvlogs404
      @Jenvlogs404 Před 2 lety

      Don’t feed it just by being present, these are the ones that actually brought civilization down or invading, naively giving name attention.

    • @alwmwo9286
      @alwmwo9286 Před rokem +2

      انا عربي وكلامك كله صحيح 100% وايضا يرفعون الاسعار اذا كنت عربي من دولة اخرى او اجنبي ، ويتزوجون من الاوروبيات من اجل اوراق الاقامة ، وايضا يتزوجون فتيات سعوديات ومن دبي من اجل اوراق الاقامة ، ولكن النظام السعودي قوي جدا اكتشف حالات كثيرة من الخداع على الفتيات السعوديات واصبح ممنوع الفتاة السعودية تتزوج رجل اجنبي وليس لديه بيت ملك او وظيفه مستقرة راتب لا يقل عن 10 الاف دولار

    • @xdranzer0004
      @xdranzer0004 Před rokem

      Well tbh, as horrible and morally reprehensible it is to « scam » the elderly like this, at least the wrinkled brains of these old folks don’t seem to mind the disingenuous affection provided by these young men. Do judge these relationships and call them out for what they are however. It is NOT LOVE and we shouldn’t sugarcoat them as such just because it « works ».

    • @katianasr9019
      @katianasr9019 Před rokem

      You should be sure darling, not suspicious. I heard same stories about egyptian man. They are all after 💵

  • @jasonhwu21
    @jasonhwu21 Před 2 lety +69

    Just because you could, doesn’t mean you should…

  • @XanDeGandia
    @XanDeGandia Před 2 lety +24

    Any reasonably intelligent person knows what's going on here!
    Bah! 🤮

    • @emmadiri7189
      @emmadiri7189 Před 2 lety +4

      People in the comments are saying “love is love” this isn’t love , we can all see through this man’s intentions lol

  • @tuusharptuloose7275
    @tuusharptuloose7275 Před 2 lety +27

    The woman is deluded, how could she believe that a young man of 36 would be interested in an old woman of 82

    • @lewalewa7509
      @lewalewa7509 Před 2 lety +4

      Truth is stranger than fiction 😌

    • @lunity1111
      @lunity1111 Před rokem +1

      There are actually guys out there that are only attracted to older women I’m not saying that it’s not some kind of wound but if you look there are youn* guys out there that only fancy 70 + year-old women. It’s no different to older guys only been attracted to younger women it’s just I guess some people are attracted to specific thing who are we to judge

  • @adamgillett1
    @adamgillett1 Před 2 lety +67

    I like how they zoom in on mohammads worried face when she mentions being a scammer 4:40

  • @aj09696
    @aj09696 Před 2 lety +105

    I'd pay a lot to see them on 90 day fiance 😂

    • @bamdabratz9512
      @bamdabratz9512 Před rokem +2

      I was thinking when I miss this episode 🤣

    • @trickcyclist1
      @trickcyclist1 Před rokem

      I remembered a youn guy from Tunisia who's name was also Mohammed and he also showed full love to older and below average looking lady. End of the story he cheated her and left her after getting the green card. This guy will be not any different 😅

  • @gladyaksmedia
    @gladyaksmedia Před 2 lety +79

    #0:31 his reaction when she said "I can spot a scammer"😃

  • @naledimatlou1360
    @naledimatlou1360 Před 2 lety +22

    This guy is in this relationship for his own personal benefits but she’s a beautiful soul.

    • @Star-wh9lc
      @Star-wh9lc Před 2 lety

      Ha Ha 😱😂

    • @bo2720
      @bo2720 Před 2 lety

      No she's not. I mean i am sure she's a Nice enough person but she sleeping with a man 50 years younger just for her own pleasure. Any man 80 years old sleeping with a young foreign woman would not be called "a beautiful soul " for sure

    • @Star-wh9lc
      @Star-wh9lc Před 2 lety

      @@bo2720 Beautiful face is Number one ☺

  • @adityaayodhya
    @adityaayodhya Před rokem +75

    To all those who say he is a scammer, what does she have to lose? She looks so happy, and he takes care of her! So good to have someone loving you, in the last stages of your life!

    • @janicefraser1261
      @janicefraser1261 Před rokem +13

      Her finiacial future.

    • @adityaayodhya
      @adityaayodhya Před rokem +13

      @@janicefraser1261 Why worry about my finance after I am dead.

    • @adityaayodhya
      @adityaayodhya Před rokem

      @@janicefraser1261 Why worry about my finance after I am dead.

    • @janicefraser1261
      @janicefraser1261 Před rokem

      Not when your dead living out the last of your years indenpently and comfortably. I do wish you all. Best and happiness

    • @PreciousLuna1988
      @PreciousLuna1988 Před rokem +1

      He's not a scamer

  • @kahinaharrache6038
    @kahinaharrache6038 Před 2 lety +24

    Many guys in Algeria did the same and left their girlfriends back in the country. They exchanged love for older women they use as passports to get to live in France.
    Sorry but I'm 100% sure he's a scammer... But it's not my business anyway ! If they are happy, who am i to judge?

  • @christianwag3015
    @christianwag3015 Před 2 lety +54

    MOHAMED; "Our love grew day by day"
    Can't comment further 😄

  • @Gypzee
    @Gypzee Před 2 lety +47

    every scammers dream.. he hit the jackpot.

  • @ElvenSailor_Main
    @ElvenSailor_Main Před 2 lety +27

    Even if he's just there for the money after she passes, she's happy. He treats her well and they have fun. Why not let her be happy? Good for her

    • @scaramouche600
      @scaramouche600 Před rokem +5

      But what if he left her before she passed, just after he got his papers? She'd be devastated most likely

  • @expressbus4184
    @expressbus4184 Před 2 lety +74

    I know she's happy and wants to share it with the world, but come on now, did she really think people wouldn't judge?

  • @ohhellno2380
    @ohhellno2380 Před 2 lety +20

    He looks at least 50

  • @seviregis7441
    @seviregis7441 Před 2 lety +155

    She’s still a beautiful woman and has a great personality. She’s obviously not rich, so if it’s a scam, hard to know what for... if there’s more to this story, eventually it will come out...

    • @adc2327
      @adc2327 Před 2 lety +89

      The scam is to stay in England. Now they are married he can stay in England, even if they divorce. Like she said it would have been almost impossible for him. She did all of the leg work.

    • @mimirw8031
      @mimirw8031 Před 2 lety +34

      Doesn't have to be rich to get scammed.....he can take her for any change she might have. As long as it is more than what he has. And it seems like he moved in with her....they spend all day walking etc. Doesn't mention if he works ( or not that i heard )

    • @anni610
      @anni610 Před 2 lety +16

      She’s very rich as far as living in U.K. however we have no idea what lifestyle he led previously? So he might have had great rich family!

    • @soulsecrets7930
      @soulsecrets7930 Před 2 lety +9

      @@anni610 no she’s definitely not rich ‘for the uk’ she seems to live a modest lifestyle

    • @anni610
      @anni610 Před 2 lety +26

      @@soulsecrets7930 sorry I meant, in his eyes she’s a passport or way of getting to live in U.K., that’s the only way he’d legally get to live in U.K.

  • @PrivateCitizenUSA
    @PrivateCitizenUSA Před 2 lety +28

    She has more energy than most 20 year olds 😍

    • @miastreaming3489
      @miastreaming3489 Před rokem +1

      Nah I'm 30 and I have mega energy 🤣🤣🤣

    • @AhmedKMoustafa2
      @AhmedKMoustafa2 Před 11 měsíci

      She has no energy anymore .. and they seperated .. she had enough taking care of him 💀

  • @Scifi4life
    @Scifi4life Před 2 lety +10

    Fake relationship.

  • @liabright4922
    @liabright4922 Před 2 lety +62

    Fun Fact: She was 46 when he was born

    • @siaitsme6800
      @siaitsme6800 Před 2 lety +1

      😆😆😁😁👍👍👍

    • @ElissaStark514
      @ElissaStark514 Před rokem

      And I've been stressing over a guy who was born when I was in first grade lol this gives me hope. False hope, maybe, but 🤷

    • @ninjapirate123
      @ninjapirate123 Před rokem

      ridiculous

  • @jessicagarcia7558
    @jessicagarcia7558 Před 2 lety +54

    Young soul! I hope I have this kind of energy when I'm 82 !

  • @hyper8545
    @hyper8545 Před 2 lety +33

    He definitely is using her. Pathetic

    • @farahsmirage127
      @farahsmirage127 Před 2 lety

      everyone is using someone for something. who cares. she is happy

    • @Star-wh9lc
      @Star-wh9lc Před 2 lety

      Of course pepole know that

  • @barbywhittaker8762
    @barbywhittaker8762 Před rokem +16

    He may be a scammer but at least he's playing the role and they honestly both seem happy. I mean 3 months in Egypt and they still made it!! I'm happy for them both and that woman is amazing!!!

  • @brittany8437
    @brittany8437 Před rokem +5

    When she says, "I can spot a scammer" i think i could literally hear him thinking, "pshh yeah right" lol

  • @jtrost87
    @jtrost87 Před 2 lety +44

    I'm pretty sure that one day when Iris was 46 years old she got an epiphany. "My future husband was just born."

  • @arlenedennis9446
    @arlenedennis9446 Před 2 lety +14

    Damn im 39 and she getting more action than me

    • @adc2327
      @adc2327 Před 2 lety +3

      Offer to marry someone for a green card. You will get all kinds of action. That's what she did. He only married her for resident papers. He will still be in Britain long after she is gone.

    • @fredyvergara7597
      @fredyvergara7597 Před 2 lety

      Arlene how old are you love

    • @luisasilva5638
      @luisasilva5638 Před rokem

      At least you are not getting scammed

  • @anni610
    @anni610 Před 2 lety +14

    I feel sorry that she was so lonely at 82 that she had to look outside the U.K. for company & fun. At the end of the day she’s very happy at the end of her life.

  • @bevs9995
    @bevs9995 Před rokem +8

    The way they zoomed up on his face, with the eye movements and music synced, I just DIED LAUGHING 🤣

  • @Lippymama
    @Lippymama Před 2 lety +30

    When they zoomed in on him when they said their love is genuine... he darted his eyes to his left. Classic body language that indicates LYING. Poor woman. (PS loved when she was swinging on those stairs!... you go girl!)

    • @AnxiousAlien...
      @AnxiousAlien... Před 2 lety

      This is not true, you can't tell only because he looked to the left at that moment. You should watch some behavior analysis.

  • @andreamaria85
    @andreamaria85 Před 2 lety +35

    This guy is definitely a scammer! She should have listened to her daughter!

    • @lamlucky777
      @lamlucky777 Před 2 lety +6

      Of course !

    • @S.B1989
      @S.B1989 Před 2 lety +1

      DEFINITELY. IF HE HAD A CHANCE TO MARRY A YOUNGER WOMAN FROM ENGLAND HE WOULD DO SO. WOWWWWWWW I FEEL SO SORRY FOR HER.

    • @fredyvergara7597
      @fredyvergara7597 Před 2 lety

      Hello Andrea. How are you Babe

    • @farahsmirage127
      @farahsmirage127 Před 2 lety

      all love is a scam. who cares.

  • @Unknownpost2
    @Unknownpost2 Před rokem +8

    I’m totally sure she knows he doesn’t love her, it’s just kind of “convenient relationship”, he needs a legal status to stay in the country (plus , feeling like home) and she’s at the last phase of her life and needs to feel that somebody cares for her and have some fun. This is what I clearly see.

  • @littledudefromacrossthestr5755

    He deff lying..... Also Tobey Maguire is the best Spiderman/Peter Parker of all time

  • @imrlaps7097
    @imrlaps7097 Před rokem +5

    Man she got some arm strength.
    Even a lot of 20 year olds can't do that.

  • @kaydot1975
    @kaydot1975 Před 2 lety +52

    I'm 19 years older than my boyfriend and we couldn't be happier 🥰

    • @hamdanrehman5142
      @hamdanrehman5142 Před 2 lety +6

      Good for you ma'am 💐💐 may you both stay happy

    • @kaydot1975
      @kaydot1975 Před 2 lety +2

      @@hamdanrehman5142 thank you so much

    • @soniayt5858
      @soniayt5858 Před 2 lety +3

      wahoo 👍🏻❤

    • @rebellefleur435
      @rebellefleur435 Před 2 lety +13

      i am 18 years older than my bf and same!!

    • @aj09696
      @aj09696 Před 2 lety +4

      @@rebellefleur435 just curious, how old is he? Cause you look amazing!!

  • @edithmaesryals4291
    @edithmaesryals4291 Před rokem +11

    She's happy, that's all that matters. We all deserve happiness. Their life their choice, who are we to judge anyone? Enjoy life❤️

  • @alic1977
    @alic1977 Před 2 lety +21

    She is lovely I hope he stays with her till end so she will pass on happy. She deserves that peace at least ❤️

    • @farahsmirage127
      @farahsmirage127 Před 2 lety

      he will and she will save money in the end not having to pay for a nursing home. whoever has money has someone to care for them in their own home. Luv it!

  • @willsmith5172
    @willsmith5172 Před 2 lety +10

    It makes me think about a movie,where a young guy was in a relationship with an old lady for her money but the longer they were together they grew memories and the man had feelings and didn’t care about her money but her love.

  • @cassandratessier6951
    @cassandratessier6951 Před 2 lety +10

    He's a scammer

  • @lilmidnight11
    @lilmidnight11 Před 2 lety +9

    In Islam a man who takes on an older woman or a woman with children that are not his own, it's said he will be rewarded in jannah because he's doing something that is classed as a good deed, she deserves love no matter age n if he loves her that's what matters, I hope they are happy x

    • @XanDeGandia
      @XanDeGandia Před 2 lety +1

      Yes exactly, find the error...
      in Islam... 😁

    • @lilmidnight11
      @lilmidnight11 Před 2 lety +1

      @@XanDeGandia and I'm sure ur dien to tell us the error, all it means is in Islam we should love when we can and if it means falling in love with older then so be it, and if Islam.rewards us in afterlife then that means he will b as happy in afterlife as he is here with his 82 year old partner

    • @XanDeGandia
      @XanDeGandia Před 2 lety +2

      @@lilmidnight11
      I am a Christian and I absolutely love and respect elderly people.
      But that's not the point here!
      We all know what this guy and a lot of his cronies want!

  • @thezanarose
    @thezanarose Před 2 lety +12

    You don’t need marriage to love each other. The way he sees civil marriage is different to how she sees civil marriage. He needs a civil marriage to get a passport and stay in Britain.
    My mom was used by a scammer much younger than herself. He became abusive 3 years later in exchange for her cash paid home and ran off with her finances. She left him eventually. A lot of mature women are more naive than the young ones. He’ll inherit everything and bring his family over once she passes.
    There are couples that have large age gaps that are about love. But it’s extremely obvious to the viewers this is not the case here.

    • @xdranzer0004
      @xdranzer0004 Před rokem

      To be fair, a lot of these men probably prey on older women because they also know that these wrinkled ladies don’t have much to lose anymore and are very aware of that. Younger, still attractive ladies will probably want a man who actually has romantic affection for them but these old people clearly don’t need any of that anymore, just caretakers.:

  • @mirandawesley7466
    @mirandawesley7466 Před rokem +11

    I know he’s scamming her but please FOR ONCE let me be wrong. I love her personality. Please for me 🥺

    • @xdranzer0004
      @xdranzer0004 Před rokem

      So what if you love her personality ? How does that negate the fact that she’s just a tool for him ?

  • @nohahaggag
    @nohahaggag Před 2 lety +4

    OK guys. I am an Egyptian woman and I can tell you how things are bad in Egypt, financially and politically.
    And "Yes", many young men try to find an escape. But I can tell you one thing for sure, most Egyptian men who marry for a visa will make good spouses to foreign women.

  • @nikkipuurula6954
    @nikkipuurula6954 Před 2 lety +37

    She is adorable!!!

  • @JohnSmith-bk6ec
    @JohnSmith-bk6ec Před 2 lety +21

    My husband is 1 year older than me and every year I’m like damn you’re old

    • @Ghost-sy6gd
      @Ghost-sy6gd Před 2 lety +1

      Are you a man or woman ? Lmaooo

    • @JohnSmith-bk6ec
      @JohnSmith-bk6ec Před 2 lety

      @@Ghost-sy6gd ha I’m a girly girl. John Smith is my anonymous name. I change my handle a lot. I’ve noticed people are way nicer when I use a male name though, kinda interesting.

    • @ninjapirate123
      @ninjapirate123 Před rokem

      @@JohnSmith-bk6ec 1 year age gap is extremly fine

  • @MsEliteForever
    @MsEliteForever Před 2 lety +13

    Prices going up. She's retired with a check. He'll survive this.

    • @MsEliteForever
      @MsEliteForever Před 2 lety +6

      Oh and green card.

    • @MsEliteForever
      @MsEliteForever Před 2 lety +7

      His family embraced her....I bet😆

    • @MsEliteForever
      @MsEliteForever Před 2 lety +8

      Once she passes off leaving everything to him. He's getting a younger woman and have kids

    • @yourmajesty122
      @yourmajesty122 Před 2 lety +3

      ​@@MsEliteForever that's what I said. in a few years he'll be living the british dream and be able to stay in that country and do whatever he wants there. he completely used her age to his advantage and asked her to marry him right after they met on Facebook🙄

    • @MsEliteForever
      @MsEliteForever Před 2 lety

      @@yourmajesty122 LOLOL yup the British dream and all! She could pass next year maybe 5 years if shes lucky.

  • @royery
    @royery Před 2 lety +4

    Poor old lady. He's probably waiting until she passes with the hopes she leaves the house to him.

    • @farahsmirage127
      @farahsmirage127 Před 2 lety

      at least he will have a house. sounds like a good trade considering most people work an entore lifetie and can never afford one.

    • @Star-wh9lc
      @Star-wh9lc Před 2 lety

      He will never get 😊

    • @Star-wh9lc
      @Star-wh9lc Před 2 lety +1

      He will day before she 😊

  • @GBRIEG
    @GBRIEG Před 2 lety +22

    Overall it’s her life! She’s 82! She’s lived long enough to know what his intentions could be. Hopefully she lives the rest of her days happy as ever ❤️

  • @malkaringel7864
    @malkaringel7864 Před 2 lety +9

    This is a scammer, for sure. It's called "cat fishing." Especially on Facebook!!! These people are experts. He's playing the long game. He'll cash in as they live now & when she passes on.

  • @Allexandra04
    @Allexandra04 Před 2 lety +23

    She seems to be a lovely lady, but I cannot believe he preferred her over a younger woman who could give him children, for example

    • @Scifi4life
      @Scifi4life Před 2 lety +1

      He's having sex with other women.

    • @tendy101100
      @tendy101100 Před 2 lety

      Why you assumed she couldn't give him children

    • @Scifi4life
      @Scifi4life Před 2 lety +1

      @@tendy101100 she's 82. Not possible

    • @tendy101100
      @tendy101100 Před 2 lety

      @@Scifi4life love is magic anything is possible

    • @Scifi4life
      @Scifi4life Před 2 lety +1

      @@tendy101100 no

  • @SADE_408
    @SADE_408 Před rokem +5

    Poor woman is delusional

  • @DetroitMade
    @DetroitMade Před 2 lety +16

    I don't knock no hustle. Nothing wrong with financial stability...

  • @lanaelezovic970
    @lanaelezovic970 Před 2 lety +25

    Iris has an amazing personality. I really hope he's not scamming her.

  • @Foofightersgirl666
    @Foofightersgirl666 Před 2 lety +5

    She’s 82 and she is more happy and fulfilled them most woman my age! 💗. I adore her to be honest.

  • @Sheetal0492
    @Sheetal0492 Před 2 lety +8

    She needs full-time care taker. He needs green card. It's a win win situation .lol

  • @pavlaivanovich5525
    @pavlaivanovich5525 Před 2 lety +4

    Simply this guy is from the outskirts of Egypt where people there are poor and they live in terrible conditions ..so I guess he worked as a waiter in hurghada which it is a touristic city where foreigners come to Egypt and visit ,so he tried to manipulate this woman because she is British and she is double his age ..in my opinion this have no relation with love don't judge .he is just waiting for her heritage .. because me I have married to an Egyptian man and he manipulated me too ..I hope that this woman would wake up because this guy doesn't love her ..he is using her for his interests such as (money ,living in Britain and etc...)sorry for my English

  • @1kimkia
    @1kimkia Před 2 lety +25

    It’s me laughing this whole video. This woman is hilarious. 😂

  • @uksepop
    @uksepop Před 2 lety +14

    Definitely a scammer.

  • @lunathestoryteller2433
    @lunathestoryteller2433 Před rokem +8

    Also I love how she has to keep reassuring herself that it's real love. That in itself Is a problem.

  • @lovenikolatesla846
    @lovenikolatesla846 Před 2 lety +17

    When she said he's not a scammer I can spot a scammer look at his expression LOL
    UH HUH 😉
    As long as she's happy on her last day and he doesn't rob her blind while she's alive I'd say get it gal
    Oi oi oi 👍

  • @elizabethbailey5731
    @elizabethbailey5731 Před 2 lety +7

    He had that look in his eyes when they zoomed in on him. He knows what he's doing. 🤣

  • @globalwarmhugs7741
    @globalwarmhugs7741 Před 2 lety +8

    Disingenuous on his part... but when she's no longer around, he's gone like vapour, guaranteed. Nothing in his behaviour rings true at all. I'd love for it to be real, but it's clearly not. Her kids need to take this footage and make sure that he is stopped.

  • @sjsouljah7368
    @sjsouljah7368 Před 2 lety +9

    Getting a piece of that retirement pen$ion, I see Aha. Play on playa

  • @intensepassion3382
    @intensepassion3382 Před 2 lety +5

    At 36 he just thinks, well why not, I can marry someone else in due time, and live in England.

  • @berealsupportive2744
    @berealsupportive2744 Před 2 lety +53

    I am happy for them, especially her. My questions are.. Did they do a prenup to make sure he didn't just want to get money and also did he need to be married in order to live where they are now? Maybe he was reaching people to try to get someone in the UK or USA to marry him to get him out of his country. It happens quite often.

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. Před 2 lety +3

      Agreed 💛

    • @liu.calazans
      @liu.calazans Před 2 lety +1

      Depende on the religion and their believes married is necessary to live together

    • @darlilahwanya1957
      @darlilahwanya1957 Před 2 lety +2

      Very true

    • @Jenvlogs404
      @Jenvlogs404 Před 2 lety

      Her name’s literally “lives in EngIand lol”, the trip was a trap and instantly suggested marriage, can’t get any softer and what he sees.

  • @Ali-jf6oq
    @Ali-jf6oq Před 2 lety +4

    Life is short. It’s so nice to see she’s having fun and living her life. They are enjoying each other accompany. Don’t be jealous.

  • @LaLagunz187
    @LaLagunz187 Před rokem +4

    She’s 82 which means she has more wisdom and intelligence than half the people in this comment section. She’s just happy and having fun and that’s all that matters ☺️

  • @deebo5475
    @deebo5475 Před 2 lety +10

    It's a fun mother son relationship with the son hoping for an inheritance....imo

  • @theghostinmyroom
    @theghostinmyroom Před 2 lety +2

    Poor woman, he looks like he's gonna murder her. He definitely has a wife in Egypt...

  • @mmmfun77
    @mmmfun77 Před 2 lety +7

    Total scammer...
    I guess you get what you pay for. At least he treats her well and keeps her company. Better than most marriages🤣😅😳😭

  • @Rooted_Locs
    @Rooted_Locs Před 2 lety +3

    He may not actually love her…but let’s be fair. She’s using him too…they’re using each other