WHERE HAVE I BEEN ? Lets Talk about Men's Mental Health Awareness
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great video good on ya tony 👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻 i have adhd and have suffered with depression since my father passed away when I was 14, I have struggled over the years and rarely talk about things, having adhd can affect people differently my Mrs says im emotionless 😂😂 but i guess we all find a way to cope with things!! what i have learned is dont stress over things you can't control, and laughter is a great cure for many things when im down i smash on some lee evans laugh my ass off for a while and end up feeling much better 👍👍👍👍👍 if you ever need to chat give us a shout 👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻
Thanks for opening up in the comments bud again these comments will help people see there not alone man in there struggle and they can speak and get help and the same goes to you fella you ever need a chat or a rant bud I’m always around fella
This is going to be a great video, we need to get past the stigma of men's mental health problems and get talking about it so I'll kick it off with this....
I was diagnosed with stress and depression when I was in my 30's (I'm 62 now) I was doing ok until my wife passed away in 2015 which lead me into a downward spiral which left me in a very dark place but with the help of my doctor and my step daughter (My late wife's daughter) I got through it, problem is it's my meds that keep me on a level playing field so my emotions are always flat nothing makes me happy or sad.
Tony is a good friend to me as we often chat and share our problems which helps me and I hope I help him in some small way. I admire what he's doing with this video and if it helps one person it will be worth it.
So if you watch this video or want to share your mental health issues then please post them here🙏🙏
Sorry to hear what you’ve been through/are still going through. Wish you the best mate.
Thanks Ash it has been a difficult time but what I've been through is nothing compared to Tony, it's not my place to say what he's had to cope with so we will have to wait and see the video later as he is a true inspiration to all that suffers with mental health problems.
Glad it’s helped talking mate in our late evening chats bud and yes mate it’s certainly helped me mate esp this last few weeks / month bud appreciate it greatly
You are more than welcome Tony, you have helped me with both my depression and my painting
I'm so happy that this is being discussed and should be brought more to the forefront, the stigma of not sharing and being stoic in-front of peers is terrible, thank you for sharing, and more guys should talk or seek an outlet .Please know that your content is helping other people, not just today's message, we look up to you on your skill and willingness to share your knowledge with us amateurs.
On the serious side i have struggled like yourself and like most people who have had mental stress ,life feels like being at the bottom a well with no ladder, no escape, i know now, to cry isn't weak, its the body and mind trying to fix yourself, and knowing that makes you stronger and shows courage, thank you for sharing your story, the more guys that suffer in silence and know its not something to keep inside the better, feel better, and i would say, be free to make more videos like this, because like all of your content you are helping others.
Massive respect to you Tony, well done mate , if this video helps / saves one persons life , how proud you should be mate. Im in my late fifties and i have lost four good mates due to mental health/depression, first one was 15 years of age, i genuinely believe if they had opened up and spoke about it they would probably still be here today . Anyone can get get depressed or have a break down , its about time we as men opened up and spoke about it, unfortunatelly most are not as brave as Tony .
ive come to terms with what i have mate and deal with it daily most days although people wouldn't realise it but your right more ned to speak up mate the response to this video has been insane tbh
Mental illness is an illness just like Kidney Disease or Diabetes, what ever the particular label is applied to the condition, whether depression PTSD, ADHD or what ever it is. There is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of.
Something that happened just over 50 years ago, and fortunately shook me to the core was a brief moment for reasons I cannot fathom, I wasn't depressed or unhappy, but simply driving a VW van. I just picked up speed on a straight road, and for a moment or two.... again I have no clue why, I intended to keep on going and smash into the buildings at the end of the long road. It was only thankfully that I started to think of other innocent unconnected people that would be hurt or affected that I backed off the gas. Totally weird, I cannot explain it, and I have never come close to a repeat even when as happens to most of us during life things got tough.
Well done for sharing. The more people realise having issues is not just them, the less people may make that final irreversible mistake.
Again man thanks for sharing what you’ve been through bud these comments I hope people will read and then see just how much people are not on there own and can reach out mate
Battling mental problems is absolute hell as there's no getting away from your own head (compared to, say phobias, where you can just run away from the cause). The upside is when you manage to get your life back in control, things that would've worried you in the past pale into insignificance compared to what you went through, and you end up being a much happier person at the end of it. Thanks for your candour and stay strong dude!
Well done for being able to speak out. I've never been able to talk about my feelings. Hope you continue to feel better, you're a great guy. Look after yourself 🫂
thanks mate and ive always struggled with it too mate but got to the point i had to learn so i could get help , if you ever need a chat mate my inbox is always open to anyone
People who speak about mental health can only do good. Never anything to be ashamed about. Takes real bravery to speak up. Plus, love them cheeky blends! ❤
thanks bud appreciate the kind words man , and yeah the bonnet one was a tight one haha
I hate how depression/anxiety steals joy from the things in life I love..
Respect to you buddy 🙌🏻 I have a friend that suffers with mental health and know it's so hard to deal with within yourself, don't ever worry about posting content just make sure you're ok we'll all still be here for you 🙏🏻
Thanks buddy appreciate that and hope your friend is doing ok bud also good he has you in his corner some days that’s the world to some of us
Mate u have my Instagram hit me up anytime 👍will drop u my number 🙂
So proud of you mate, I struggle with anxiety and it’s so refreshing hearing from someone that deals with these issues and has the strength to put it out there on a public forum, truly inspirational mate keep up the great work, so much respect 🙏
its one of those things mate these days its part of me and as much as i hate it i cant change it so to speak maybe over time but for now it happens but its nothing to be ashamed off this video alone just shows so many people have had or are going through so many battles
Great work mate.
Believe me when I say I know how you feel.
And that’s not I had depression once and I know how you feel.
I have had mental health issues mainly depression since 1998 , at 1 point all I done was cry and was so close to a ding it all many times.
But now I can’t seem to cry as though my brain is numb.
Maybe it’s the meds I’m on.
My anxiety is terrible especially when it comes to going out.
I went for counselling and they told me I’m too set in my ways and can’t be helped.
I also relax through painting until I get a dirt nib and I hate it and never want to paint again😂( I paint in a gazebo 😂)
Still to this day I’m on my meds and getting through life it’s horrible I know mate.
Stay strong mate and keep up the good work.
Thanks for opening up mate not just to me but for others who will read it fella the more people see us doing it the more will open up I hope and get some help and yeah it’s a daily battle but each little win is a step forward
@@TonysRefinishingTV exactly mate look after yourself 😎
Thanks for this fantastic video, I had problems 35 years ago when my first son was born handicapped, there was no help whatsoever and struggled for years with blame issues,
Cheers ❤
No problem mate sorry to hear about that fella unfortunately it’s not much better these days for help but speaking up and reaching out if the hardest and first part I guess
That ptsd is a b*t*h! I have it too.. Mental health awareness was going places late 2019 then youknow-what started. They were doing (yet again) more studies for the 500th time on microdosing and fully diving in saying maybe we don't need to drug people up with weird psych meds but perhaps more natural things. Glad to hear honesty on the subject. Be well Tony all we can do is our best
thanks man and yeah its not fun at all buddy but its great to see so many guys speaking up it can all only do some real good
Yeah mate I feel ya. You right pal, the brain is a weird and wonderful tool, but when it plays up its a nightmare to get back on track, a friend of mine notices when I'm not messaging in a friend's group, and reads the signs. He's on the phone to give a mates help out. The head is a bugger mate. But a Good friend is a blessing.... Talk talk talk.
It sure is mate all you need some days is that one person to notice your silence and it means the world always her bud if you ever wana talk
Cheers fella. Really appreciate that offer.
Much respect my friend I have been in the trade forty years and retired from the hole mess because of my mental health the PTSD is incredibly difficult to deal with on top of the crap that comes with our trade God bless🙏 and keep the faith
Massive respect for speaking out . I too suffer from mental health issues and often struggle to control them or fight them . There’s a huge stigma about mens mental health and it needs to be bypassed .
Please lads , just speak out . It doesn’t make you any less manly or anything . It helps .
Again … Massive respect for the video , takes a lot to put it out there .
All the way from Ireland 🇮🇪 👊🏼
Hey Martin thanks for opening up mate all these comments from guys like yourself on this video will hopefully show some people they are not alone we do struggle and we can speak up mate your right it’s not weakness some people I know who have been through something like this are stronger than anyone because of it it’s just that first step that’s the hardest
Much praise,love and respect to you Tony for sharing your struggles and showing that there is a way of getting past it in time by utilizing your strength at a time of not feeling strong at all , great video my friend. Hope all is well and all continues to get better
Much respect big man it takes a real man with loads of courage to speak about these things too many macho guys out there bottling everything up,
thanks mate tbh im no macho guy lol nor do i have alot of courage hard video to do but i know theres people who need to know there not alone in it
Nice i love painting i qrew up in a body shop my dad was the painter . My doctors told me I'm at the highest level for ending myself , but it's good to talk about it for sure
My son volunteers at the Samaritans, they do a lot of good work and are always available to talk
thanks bud myself im good i have people to talk to but others im sure will gain help from them
Thanks for sharing mate. I lose sleep during some nights if something flashes back randomly and then I'm stuffed for the next day. I find riding my push bike or doing meditation keeps me level. Whatever works for you, keep at it, and talking with others helps so much. We all know people who it has totally overwhelmed and then we lose them. Much more important video content than the painting. Appreciate your videos regardless, you are a feeling human with emotions after all not a robot. 😊💚
Thanks for sharing buddy and yeah i have my coping mechanisms mate usually throwing weights around in the gym for me lol, hope your good mate
Work and wine gets me through life also keeping myself busy with new projects ie just bought a Lambretta for restoration , so no time too pissed off with things life throws at us. One separation one divorce that wiped me out but i got back on track and never look back . You will cope i hope 🤞
im almost back to me mate wont take me much more now bud thanks , and life isnt it sometimes i guess just gets abit too much ??
Total respect to you Tony, with you honesty and integrity about your mental health issues as a sufferer myself this video has won CZcams for me and men alike. Just remember guys the first step is admitting your not OK and it gets easier from there 🤗
mental health comes first every time, great to see you back Tony, all the best brother 🙂
thanks chris
Having gone through issues for over 20 years, I know completely where you are coming from, I have good days and have bad days. Being open and honest helps
Massive respect to you Tony for speaking out. This will be a Massive help to people going through similar things.
Absolutely love your honesty - legend!
Think I’m my position with so many followers opening up about something like this can do nothing but good tbh that’s why I decided to just go ahead and say why I’ve been out for abit rather than just brush over it
@@TonysRefinishingTV sometimes people don't think or just don't realise about metal health when making comments on places like you tube, as you say this can only do good!
Many thanks for all hard work with your channel I love it
Thanks man wouldn’t be anything without you awesome lot though ❤️
This is an absolute impresive video.
Im so glad that many speak out in in the comments
I am 35 now, and i was to sufering from depresion and anxiety from the age of 16 thil 20. I can tell you it is very hard, hard becouse we dont get help and speack out,
The only way that i have escape from that vicious circle is trough fait in God.
Every human has its place in this world, good or bad.
The no 1 problem or sicknes in this century will be metal health problem, on all people categories, becouse of the social media, we hide under the screen and look at others shering likes and comments, but dont meet in real life anymore, human contact, socialize,
Eeryone are looking for fame, but when the fame goes away, depresion comes right in.
Excuse my enghlish
All the best for all of you. From Romania
Thanks for opening up in the comments to mate it’ll help more people see there not alone and hopefully open up too , Thankyou fella
Glad you are feeling better Tony and thanks for sharing.I started out as a pant sprayer in the days of cellulose/acrylic then it moved into 2k but I changed career.I am much older now and have been watching your videos to re learn my old trade which has paid off as I'm showing my sons my ways and your new ways as I'm now unable to do it anymore,so thanks for that.I started watching your videos as a way to get me out of depression and try to retrain my brain to do something positive again,it gets me out of the house occasionally which is nice,I still have depression most days which has gone on for years and will continue as it's non stop pain related,but I'm just about coping.Doctors saved me with pain relief and other meds for anxiety so anyone going through this go see your GP,or friends for help.Thanks Tony you are still helping us with your videos, especially those who cannot get around with mobility issues stuck indoors.
Stay strong and talk we are all here to help Vent it to us all 👍
Stay strong and wish you the best🙏
I know from my own experience that I need to talk to people but it's a massive thing to overcome & one that I can't master yet. Don't if anyone had noticed I've not been here for quite a few months now due to just not a lot going right over the the 6 months or more, but still here & I'm down but not out, great video and wish I'd seen it before 👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👍
hey buddy sorry to hear that fella also you know where my inbox is buddy if you ever need a chat
Ive been there, positive thinking as hard as that is all i can say for definite is it does get better👍
You're not alone Tony , Thanks for speaking out 👌
I appreciate that jj
Well done for sharing that. It is a big issue and men do not talk about it, but it is important.
massively important mate i think
Tony you deserve a lot of respect for bringing this up, lots of men bottle it up and this leads to more problems.
I've been having issues for 7.5 years after my life changed after an accident which has left me with chronic pain, not being able to work and having to come to terms with everything.
Bad reactions to medications and being passed round different specialists with no one knowing what to do with me.
Everyone should remember: Never be afraid to ask for help, but also be there for others that may need help to.
and that last line mate completely sums it up mate it really does tbh , hope your ok fella
Hi bud not having been through or experienced any of those issues got nothing but respect for your honesty cant offer you any advice not my place bro just hope you get your head back in a happy place. 👍👍
thanks man appreciate that bud
Good on you for putting this out there, we need to talk about our problems. Take it easy mate 👍
We do buddy for sure thanks for watching man
Fair play to you life is not easy at times keep strong and doing what you love 👍
thanks neil and only way mate keep pushing forward
What a great video, I really hope you’re doing well! It’s a shame that men feel that its a weak thing to talk about mental struggles! It’s absolutely not, talking is must, I’ve struggled with self doubt massively lately and have a chat with a mate was like a massive weight being lifted from my head, talk, it’s a sign of strength! Well done Tony, you’re doing great!
Hey bud and yep very true mate once you’ve got it out there that’s the road to recovery I think it’s just getting that first step that so many of us find the hardest
Yes, this sort of issue creeps up on you over quite some time, whereas solutions are not immediate, and also take some time. Happy that you took the first step and are now on the way to getting over this. Keep painting for us as it this that you say helps you as well. Bloody hell, I shed tears when the Queen died as she has been a constant in my life. I will say that the older you get, the more tears are shed as you lose family and mates to old age etc. Cheers Mate.
it sure does mate alot in life creeps up if your not mindfull bud , hope you are well
Tony mate I am so very happy that you were able to speak to someone and get an outlet for your pain. I’m not sure if you remember me, a few years back you reached out to provide me some help and feedback on spraying my Bugeye Sprite. I have had my own blend of health issues, most recently last year took me out of circulation for 6 months or more.. CZcams is a happy place for me and I want to get back to videos again, your video today has reminded me that it is ok to take the time we need to look after ourselves. You are a legend and have made a difference for me mate. Thank you.
thanks man and yeah buddy there no shame in taking time to rest or recover no matter what it is bud physical or mental health both are as important as each other
Everyone I know has ups and downs, some minor and others more significant, but it’s very rare anyone will open up and talk about it like this man, fair play bro and big love, keep up the good work as and when you can ❤
Thanks man appreciate the kind words bud I guess in my position as hard as it is to put into a video of it helps someone else and I’ve already had messages tonight then it was worth a hard video
Massive respect to you opening up and giving help. I like many have issues, mine as a result of brain injury. If its help for you or anyone else when I wake up, I first say "brilliant another day" I then start looking for things that make me grateful, warm shower, clothing, food a job, nice car to drive in (my opinion). For some of us this really works. I am 7 and a half years into this. Your painting is awesome and what a service you give for free. Just brilliant Thank You.
Thanks bill and yeah mate times like these I take time out from CZcams and stuff and spend more time on the little things that cheer me up and make me appreciate what I’ve done and have and it does help
Fare play to you for speaking up love all the videos and advice you give on painting I have learned a lot it's great to hear people taking and being aware about mental health hope your keeping well and great to have you back doing videos take care of yourself 🙂
thanks Daniel and yes mate im good mate few more weeks i rekon il be back on normal form , take care too buddy
Don't worry about the content tony just happy to know your okay mate 👍
im good mate less rough days no so i know im on the right track
Very brave Tony, I have so much respect for you making this Video. You articulate yourself so well and have no doubt this will help many others. I served 24 years in the British Army, I don’t suffer with PTSD but have many friends who unfortunately do and if there’s ever anything I can do I’d be more than happy to help. I’ve never met you but hope to at some point in the future….after all I’d have never got my FTO sprayed without your help and tutorials.
Keep your chin up and stay strong kidda 💪
appretitiate the kind words mate and my shop doors always open if your ever passing for a brew bud
If it wasn’t for you Tony I would never have attempted spraying my motorbikes and getting the result I couldn’t have dreamt of without your videos, you have the ability to inspire people,please look after yourself, sending a man hug from New Zealand 😊
Thankyou for the kind words fella really do appreciate it mate
Respect you for a long time as a painter and more today as a person. Well done for putting your heart out for others to see. Please, just keep doing what you’re doing. Top man. Drew
You certainly are a man of courage and great personal generosity given all the content of this and the many other videos you have freely given. Fighting dragons everyday is tough and I hope you continue to be generous to yourself in prioritising your own wellbeing. All the comments here reinforce that you are a guy who others look up to and can be proud of himself and his actions. The world needs people like you. It’s a better place for your existence. Very well done, as always!
So nice of you mate thanks and no matter what mate i just try to add content of value buddy thats all
Thank you for the honesty in this video . As men , we all are very proud and quiet about this sort of thing . Much respect to you for your time in talking about this , for me painting is a sort of therapy and helps me deal with general stress in life , but I have had times where life was seemingly too much , had addiction issues with myself and close family and friends , been thru some very tough things myself in my 43 years. My paint work and the energy I put in it , although sometimes very taxing on my mental and physical side of life , overall it helps me to stay busy . I am very aggressive and sometimes that makes it worse when I plan and want to do more than is possible , I really have a hard time with that one . So at a shop like yours , with a bay full of parts and cars stacked behind , day after day month after month I know exactly the mental toll that is too , let alone outside life factors. Props to you , hopeful that making this video helps and reading the comments you got some good support here and respect man!
Well done mate. Its great that you're being open and touching on this subject! Mental health, especially in men is still such a taboo subject. My own mental health fluctuates from time to time. I'm an Army veteran and since leaving the army I do find it hard, even after years! I greatly miss that brotherhood/camaraderie of it. I find that the civilian mindset can quite often be quite nasty and the behaviours I see are not things that I like. Its extremely hard to explain, but thankfully I have plenty of 'brothers' that I keep in touch with some that have left like myself and some still serving, but we're always there for one another. We keep an eye on each other and that's priceless to me. My partner and my dog also help greatly in keeping me sane! I totally get what you mean about spraying allowing you to escape for a short while. Head up my friend, I hope you get through to the other side of this episode quickly and safely. I know you said you like to keep yourself to yourself, quite like me, but if you do ever need a chat bud, I'm willing to lend my ears and a shoulder. You're not on your own!
Fair play to you mate, stay strong and keep up your good work 👍🏻
Thank you, I will
Respect to u mate it's definitely a hard thing for us men to talk about I've lost friends that could not talk to anyone about it I sometimes think about leaving it all behind or I try to naff things up when there really going good but but I reached out to friends and got nothing back all u get is it will pass fix up it's not that bad because on the out side u look happy but on the inside I was just like the walking dead but I'm on the up big Respect to u Anthony all the best from midland auto centre
as harsh as it may sound mat then you need some better mates fella some will always have that just brush it off attitude but as you know mate it aint that simple my inbox is always open if you ever need to talk buddy
Thanks for that mate it means a lot
I know how u feel and no matter what other people say it just wont make any diference. Best of luck to u
thanks mate hope you are good fella
@@TonysRefinishingTV i try to be
Fairplay mate, thanks for making this video. Glad your back 👍
your welcome mate and thanks
Hay brother long time.... sorry to hear man. I had stuff really bad few years back. Mine was caused by to much stress in me.
Took myself off medication end of last year. Me and my partner are having our first baby atm n due to stress levels rising i feel Anxiety coming back. Its all to do with stress levels, some of us like me we can be born, into a body that doesnt let the toxins from stress go, they build up. But one piece of advice, i watch Andrew tates 5hr podcast with Pat. That man has a different way of looking at mental health. Hope everyone can get the help they need.🙏👊
hey man great to see you again dude , so sorry to hear that mate but glad youve managed to deal with the worst of things mate , the anxeity for me as you probably know is the hardest but things for me like painting, the gym ect really help me to calm it alot , hope you get back on top form soon buddy and always about if you ever need a chat man
Tony can you share this on reddit as it has been inspirational, i honestly think this video would help may others.
Thanks buddy I don’t have Reddit mate but feel free anyone to share anywhere
Full of respect for you Tony for sharing this. If this encourages more of us to talk about our issues it can only be a good thing. I hope you’re on the way back up and big thanks for taking the time to share.
I appreciate that bud thanks man and yes well on my way back mate
Really sorry to hear youv been going through this pal. Amazed that youv managed to put a video on it. It's great to see all this support coming through from others. Youv definitely broken the ice on this for allot that are watching. Your a legend mate. Thanks
Hey Fraser and yes wasn’t an easy one to record this voice over wise but I’m not ashamed of it anymore and knew it may go to help someone in a similar situation mate so to me it was worth a shot
Well done bud I now the struggle every day chin up
almost back on my feet again thanks bud just wanted to share to let people know they aint alone
Hey man thanks for sharing your story. ♥️.
I've been there too with the black dog chasing my mind and being in a daaark place.
Your videos helped me get of my arse and paint my car...thank you so much for putting yourself out there.
One thing that helped me also was I started listening to podcasts with an earpod. It helped drown out the bad thoughts running through my mind and my brain something to focus on other than the dark thoughts....
Stand strong brothers.
Thanks for sharing buddy and glad the video and previous ones have been some help and inspiration to you too man really hope your on a batter road too now bud
Absolutely, good work buddy and we send our Support from Dynodaze and Uncle Keiths Paint Shop!
thankyou man just wanted to get it out there to people to try and help maybe someone who struggles
Absolutely here if ya ever wanna chat
Thanks bud
You're a top man Tony, love your video's. Been going through many mental health issues over the last 30 years, and especially now being a bad time. You will get through this, we all will. 😀😀😀 Duncan
we will mate once youve been through something like this once you know your strong enough to beat it again
I know exactly where you are mate ..I'm going through the same thing ,the anxiety is awful and everything that goes with it ..
Im currently dealing with it ok ,but as you know that changes ,it's an ongoing battle.
Thanks for speaking out ,and stay strong
hey buddy thanks for sharing man the more people who do and then people read these the more will realise its ok to speak up, yeah the anxiety side is the worst for me knocks me on my ass some days but getting there hope you are ok fella and get through too
@@TonysRefinishingTV No worries mate ..
Your right people need to know it's ok to speak out .
Like you my problem has only been happening in recent years due to shit happening in my life too
I get the pannic attacks and over thinking ,and the feeling of being trapped in my own head ..
Iv learned to prevent it now to a point ,or reduce the intensity..As you say the brain is a complicated piece of kit that can kick our arse if we are not careful .
Well done for speaking out Tony , hopefully it will help you too but could really help someone that needs help right now . Well done, all the best.
thanks man hope you are well too
Total respect for making this video and explaining how you’ve been. So glad you’re in a better place mentally and hope that it continues. Keep positive and I’m glad that you have some great support around you.
thanks bud hard one to talk about but if it helps one person then why not better than acting like ive been ace for the last month , hope your doing well
You’ve inspired so many with your videos and honesty Anthony , keep up the good work you do and whatever it is your dealing with I hope you pull through and keep on going, you’ve got all our support here and on the spn page I too have had a a bad patch in my life which I’m slowly getting away from but this helps many of us think in the right direction of getting help and carry on moving forward , many thanks james 👍🏻
more than welcome james and that was the whole point of the video mate to get others to see they arent alone and these things affect more people than you realise
Keep head up mate. ur great at what you do. There's a lot of people around you with same issues willing to chat any time. It's ok not to be OK. 💪💯
I appreciate that martin and yeah its true that saying mate
Well done for speaking out mate, it’s super hard but we gotta do it. Appreciate you mate, and your videos. You have helped my business a lot that’s for sure.
Thanks for watching buddy didn’t think many would watch or comment on this tbh but the response has been mental but in a very positive way bud and happy to have been able to help you progress mate in any way I have
Great video Tony it should be shown on TV 👏👏
Thanks mate and nooo lol but to far for me that I’d crap myself if it landed on tv lol
love your videos man,keep your chin up
Glad you like them bud and i will fella
I hear you brother , same shit here . Top advice . If you wanna vent , I’m all ears .🤝
Same to you buddy
As the old saying goes …. It’s good talk. The modern version is , it’s good to watch someone talk on CZcams . You won’t believe how much it helps . Looking forward to more therapy.👍
Lol random when I started this channel I never thought it would reach or touch people like it has inspiration wise or help wise but I’m glad what I’ve built helps people and more paint therapy on the way soon fella
I watched this earlier and I painted a trunk I totally thought of you how you demonstrated painting technique by going very slow, I was going too fast with over reduced single stage 👍🏻 first coat 🧥 I wasn’t liking but hammered on the second, you can email or call me anytime my friend.
Glad it was helpful buddy and appretitiate that fella
Hope your OK mate
Great video tony thanks for sharing that I lost 4 family 👪 members last year in one month including my brother so I had a bad 👎 time as well so its nice to talk to a friend about it its not a nice thing 😀
Thanks for sharing buddy that must have been more than difficult mate I can only image but I hope you’ve managed to move forward in some way and find ways to cope better
@@TonysRefinishingTV just went back to work 😪 and had friends to talk about it .hope you're OK and well
i suffer the same mate however i think this video was great to listen to you thankyou regards mick from australia
Your very welcome mate hope things get better man
Tony is awesome👍👍👍👏👏🌺🌺🌺🌺
lol im not man just trying to help a few of you guys
Great video i think what you stead will help soon one and the first. step is the hardest thanks
I think so too!
Brother, thank you for this video!
Glad it was helpful!
Hey Tony, that was a very inspirational video mate as it took a lot of guts to say what you have been though over the past 3 years so I'm really proud of what you have done to make this video, I am one of the few people that know what you have been through and the fact that you got through it just shows what a strong person you are.
If you don't mind I have a question about the painting you were doing here and the WS400 OBS you used for the basecoat, why did you have a regulator on the gun as it's a digital version🤔 both the basecoat and the clear looked really nice mate, I'm still using my WS400 1.3HD digital and haven't used any other gun for clear since the day I got it.
Thanks again for doing this video👏🙏👍
thanks buddy and thanks for your chats to mate xx
i dont like using the air adjuster on the bottom of the guns mate and dont have any other non gauge fitted cheater valves thats all bud
Ah right I see, have you had any problems using the air adjuster on the gun mate? mine is fine no issues.
No issues just don’t like using f it like to leave it wide open and use a cheater type lol
Haha ok bud fair enough boss👊 hope you don't mind but I've just tagged you in a post on FB, just done a fuel tank and even though I say so myself it looks rather nice😎
Respect for this Video buddy 👍
thanks man
keep up the good work mate
Thanks bud, will do!
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❤ Thank you !
Any time!
Hope you good mate 👍
On the mend mate yeah thanks
Thank you
Hi I recovered from Complex PTSD after 40+ years of having it and got the the point on my journey where I tried to take my own life 12 years ago. You have my contact info if you even need to chat mate. There are some ups and downs and surprises with PTSD post counselling happy to discuss these with you.
Thanks buddy just got your email mate appreciate you reaching out
Hi are u not suppose to primer a new panel (wing) when the come blk new panel or is it okay just to paint straight on
You don’t need to prime a new panel but you can if you want to just scuff it and wet on wet or scuff prime sand and shoot
@@TonysRefinishingTV Ok so u can just key new panel with a scotch or 400-800 and shoot straight on to it and u don’t have any Addison problems. Okay I’ve always primed thank you
Good vid.Too late for my son .Took his life 4 years ago.Why don't menspeak
So sorry to hear that Gordon , to many don’t mate the response from this video has been a shock tbh so many people have messGed me privately who thought they were alone so I hope this goes to help one or two at least get some help to speak up
Much praise,love and respect to you Tony for sharing your struggles and showing that there is a way of getting past it in time by utilizing your strength at a time of not feeling strong at all , great video my friend. Hope all is well and all continues to get better
Respect mate, stay strong and be happy.👊 speak to you soon.
thanks man you to fella