I'm 24, My Wife's 61 - Now We Want A Baby | LOVE DON’T JUDGE

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    We previously filmed with TikTokers Cheryl, 61, and Quran, 24, from Rome, Georgia, back in 2021 when their huge age gap made headlines worldwide. Since then a lot has happened - in July 2021 Quran proposed, using a ring crowdfunded by his TikTok fans. The couple officially tied the knot in September of the same year in a romantic, riverside ceremony in Tennessee - which they livestreamed to an audience of over 20,000. The online judgment about their age gap is intense, but Quran and his new wife are determined not to let it overshadow their relationship. The pair are now eager to take the next step and begin a family, either by adopting or using a surrogate - and Cheryl’s grandchildren already call Quran “papaw”. In this episode we hear from the happy couple about married life, see them going out to browse baby clothes and hear from Cheryl’s adult daughter Ashlee about how she feels about the prospect of a baby brother.
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Komentáře • 11K

  • @thatstrangebuggirl4150
    @thatstrangebuggirl4150 Před rokem +12408

    Their age gap isn’t what makes it creepy and wrong, it’s the fact that she’s known him since he was a child (16)
    Groomer.

    • @speaknowstan.13
      @speaknowstan.13 Před rokem +1254

      It was weird enough for me with that age gap, but when I found out he was practically groomed by her, my stomach started twisting 🤢

    • @thatstrangebuggirl4150
      @thatstrangebuggirl4150 Před rokem +487

      @@speaknowstan.13 right. I mean with age gaps when BOTH PEOPLE MEET IN ADULTHOOD can be weird but not my place to judge. But when you’ve known someone when they were a child that is just so beyond disturbing and creepy…predatory…
      Anyways, anyone who supports this or doesn’t seem an issue is either young and naive themselves, been groomed themselves, or is a creep as well. Big red flags if someone supports this.

    • @0w3nbruh20
      @0w3nbruh20 Před rokem +53

      Grooming is based 💪

    • @The_Original_Man
      @The_Original_Man Před rokem +314

      Be honest the age gap is also creepy

    • @thatstrangebuggirl4150
      @thatstrangebuggirl4150 Před rokem +122

      @@The_Original_Man it depends. I’ve personally always been attracted to older men (not more then 20 years older then me) I genuinely just don’t feel attracted to men my age or younger. That being said I’m also an adult though. So I feel if both people are adults (being barely 18 does not count as an adult in my eyes) then it’s unconventional but not wrong. (Assuming no one is being taken advantage of)

  • @a1m1l1a
    @a1m1l1a Před rokem +7146

    “She was there when eve stole the apple from the tree” DUDE HE EVEN STARTED LAUGHING

  • @drei134
    @drei134 Před 10 měsíci +237

    dawg even my 98 year old grandma still looks younger than her

  • @ballshippin3809
    @ballshippin3809 Před 7 měsíci +180

    When he's 34, she'll be 71
    When he's 44, she'll be 81
    When he's 54, she'll be 91
    When he's 64, she'll be 101

  • @patsysolatzzo2962
    @patsysolatzzo2962 Před 2 lety +19077

    Love doesn’t judge but I sure do!

  • @faerie4971
    @faerie4971 Před 2 lety +11347

    I am not judging people who are in love
    they met each other when he was 15 and agreed on dating each other when he was older isn't that creepy enough?!

    • @aly-cf8ps
      @aly-cf8ps Před 2 lety +287

      fr tho…

    • @catoodiegryffindor
      @catoodiegryffindor Před 2 lety +67

      @• moo • JSJSJSJSJSJSJS OMG FR I KNOW YOU MEANT BORN BUT AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    • @PhillipDeGraves
      @PhillipDeGraves Před 2 lety +133

      He probably been hitting that since he was 15 lol

    • @boosay1146
      @boosay1146 Před 2 lety +10

      I think the man was the one who proposed😬. I think he stated that in the last video truly video

    • @mkaygamez1368
      @mkaygamez1368 Před 2 lety +277

      @@Mope333 they’re a child so when someone older than 18 approaches them it’s grooming so therefore he was groomed, common sense lmao

  • @CreeperG0d
    @CreeperG0d Před rokem +56

    Bro, they can't have a baby if she's that old. At this age, the baby is totally at risk of being born with defects. They can adopt, but man, that relationship is weird.

  • @Camaroguy79971
    @Camaroguy79971 Před rokem +90

    She is 61!?! Looks like the last time she’s seen 61 was 1961

  • @peep6195
    @peep6195 Před rokem +3928

    who’s going to tell him he isn’t going to spend his entire life w her 😭😭😭

  • @gwnetly
    @gwnetly Před 2 lety +7307

    What do we want more than anything right now??
    A baby 👶🏾
    A baby👶🏻
    A BABY👶🏼

    • @idk-qq1hw
      @idk-qq1hw Před 2 lety +115

      lmao

    • @maybeweeb12
      @maybeweeb12 Před 2 lety +355

      Sometimes I wish I didn’t know how a baby is made. Edit: MOM! I’m famous!

    • @sofia_wth8472
      @sofia_wth8472 Před 2 lety +228

      @@maybeweeb12 Me too but I hate to burst your bubble, but unfortunately, there are literally clips on Twitter of them doing the d33d💀

    • @cosmovicious2806
      @cosmovicious2806 Před 2 lety +97

      @@sofia_wth8472 I really shouldn’t have been curious

    • @jotashock
      @jotashock Před 2 lety +17

      😂😂😂

  • @unlimited.powerr
    @unlimited.powerr Před 9 měsíci +20

    He's a 24 year old adult, he can do whatever he wants.

    • @horatiorainey3115
      @horatiorainey3115 Před 8 měsíci +4

      I agree with you 💯. That's what I'm saying why is these people keep judging them. I been reading all these comments some saying the granny is a predator wrong awnsers she is not, he is 25 now he is way legal. If it was someone under 18, now that's a predator. People just don't have good sense.

    • @DanielVassallo405
      @DanielVassallo405 Před 24 dny +2

      @@horatiorainey3115 they met when he was 16

    • @horatiorainey3115
      @horatiorainey3115 Před 24 dny +2

      @@DanielVassallo405 oh okay then

    • @normallynotnormal3571
      @normallynotnormal3571 Před 20 dny +1

      @@DanielVassallo405Thats a groomer most likely then.Illegal behaviour

    • @DanielVassallo405
      @DanielVassallo405 Před 20 dny +1

      @@normallynotnormal3571 yes thats my point

  • @JohnDoe___69
    @JohnDoe___69 Před 8 měsíci +32

    She looks older than my 92 year old grandma.

  • @weluhri
    @weluhri Před 2 lety +4738

    I’m sorry but the “she was there when eve stole the Apple from the tree”GOT MEEEEEEE😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @Sunny-dw6xe
      @Sunny-dw6xe Před 2 lety +15

      Straight to hell😭

    • @honeylove777
      @honeylove777 Před 2 lety +276

      I HOLLARED 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 she said I wasn't there

    • @idktbh.2421
      @idktbh.2421 Před 2 lety +109

      PLSSSS 💀 I'M WHEEZING

    • @ninaangelique4811
      @ninaangelique4811 Před 2 lety +41

      Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh 😂😩😂😩😂

    • @Forgiveiolord
      @Forgiveiolord Před 2 lety +1

      @@Sunny-dw6xe Truly clone czcams.com/video/CRAr51tROSs/video.html

  • @mai_561
    @mai_561 Před 2 lety +4255

    it really doesnt matter if they just met and really fell in love. but for those who dont know, they first met when he was only 16. which leaves me inclined to believe that she groomed him, which is what would make this situation wrong.

    • @anthonyhack1164
      @anthonyhack1164 Před 2 lety +183

      Well that makes it way worse for sure.

    • @evevcool
      @evevcool Před 2 lety +8

      How do you know?

    • @mai_561
      @mai_561 Před 2 lety +217

      @@evevcool they have multiple videos talking about their relationship. they mentioned they met when he was only 16 in one of those

    • @KS-lb1tu
      @KS-lb1tu Před 2 lety +103

      She groomed him alright !

    • @speedmeisterkym6120
      @speedmeisterkym6120 Před 2 lety +10

      But HE made the move on her.

  • @simpleplanfan011
    @simpleplanfan011 Před rokem +28

    “She was there when Eve stole the Apple from the tree.” that comment SENT MEEE LMAO 🤣

  • @DunkinDonuts-dm1xc
    @DunkinDonuts-dm1xc Před rokem +22

    When I was scrolling through the comments someone said she was queen Elizabeth's great great grandma💀💀

  • @ahjiarenee
    @ahjiarenee Před 2 lety +5375

    i love how all these comments say “she looks so much older than 61,” then say “but who am i judge.” it doesn’t make sense to me 😭😭😭

    • @Elaina944
      @Elaina944 Před 2 lety +157

      You’re so right. Why say that she looks older than 61.

    • @christinenewhouse6920
      @christinenewhouse6920 Před 2 lety +30

      Both have a beautiful soul.💕

    • @Totalchaos0228
      @Totalchaos0228 Před 2 lety +76

      Right?? If you aren't going to judge, then don't period.

    • @gillianespinoza3652
      @gillianespinoza3652 Před 2 lety +42

      Literally I was going to say the same thing! Why are people dissing her for her age and then in the same sentence saying they’re not judging wth.

    • @OliviaBaeBy
      @OliviaBaeBy Před 2 lety +167

      They arent judging her tho, she doesn't look 61. They are calling it like they see it.

  • @aminamadoussou2417
    @aminamadoussou2417 Před rokem +2732

    "I wanna spend the rest of my life with you"
    Bro the rest of her life is almost up

  • @Mimi_fiufiu_coquito
    @Mimi_fiufiu_coquito Před rokem +57

    I’m just wondering what happened during Quran’s childhood to have this kind of bonding now. It’s hard to question love, since it is subjective, but I think that this whole relationship has lots of layers deeper than what we see through the screen. Maybe there’s a financial one since they keep bringing up the number of views their videos have had?
    On the other hand, I think it’s an ethical question this whole idea of Cheryl wanting to be a mother… 😮
    What an interesting couple to say the least.

  • @heidielston7769
    @heidielston7769 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Shes only 61?! Oh my.,.i truly thought she was in her 80s. She looks a lot older than her age.

  • @ninahongkong5362
    @ninahongkong5362 Před rokem +2790

    She doesn't look a day younger than 110. Amazing!

    • @arreola891
      @arreola891 Před rokem +259

      For Real!! She does NOT look 61. She seriously looks at least 81, and if she IS 61 then, dang! Life's been pretty rough on her. 😳

    • @xcelestialsongx
      @xcelestialsongx Před rokem +57

      I'm dying! 😂

    • @sandiilovesu4077
      @sandiilovesu4077 Před rokem +25

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @TreyGriffith
      @TreyGriffith Před rokem +18

      Nah more like 84 or 85 because no one lives to 110 she would have to be extremely elderly to be 110

    • @Vanessa47912
      @Vanessa47912 Před rokem +3

      😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @VlogsbyLogan
    @VlogsbyLogan Před rokem +4370

    Their love is so DISGUSTING, and the fact that she had kids and was married before him, they literally met when he was 15-16; she wanted to wait until he was older to date him, he basically was being groomed by her, and the fact that they want a baby. She’s literally 61 and he’s 24-25 years old. This relationship needs to end. Disgusting. 🤮🤮

    • @lily4689
      @lily4689 Před rokem +153

      Agree

    • @VlogsbyLogan
      @VlogsbyLogan Před rokem +170

      @@lily4689 yeah, their relationship is terrible. 🤮🤮

    • @z0mbiepr1nc3ss
      @z0mbiepr1nc3ss Před rokem +200

      She groomed him, literally vile 🤮

    • @VlogsbyLogan
      @VlogsbyLogan Před rokem +22

      @@z0mbiepr1nc3ss yeah.

    • @bluey3021
      @bluey3021 Před rokem +39

      Don’t judge people who are different age 😑

  • @Krystolsenergy
    @Krystolsenergy Před 9 měsíci +8

    This is the same type of black dude who be like “I don’t date black women”

  • @pollymuyt
    @pollymuyt Před 3 měsíci +8

    My 90 years old granma looks healthier and younger than this woman

  • @abbie3793
    @abbie3793 Před rokem +3476

    cheryl’s daughter: “ age doesn’t matter”
    me: “if you’re an adult do what you want but she met him when he was FIFTEEN YEARS OLD. that’s insane.”

    • @Skylaruby908
      @Skylaruby908 Před rokem +56

      Is this rlly real?😭

    • @dsytofficial
      @dsytofficial Před rokem +56

      @@Skylaruby908 Unfortunately yes

    • @Skylaruby908
      @Skylaruby908 Před rokem +10

      @@dsytofficial oh my gosh

    • @Skylaruby908
      @Skylaruby908 Před rokem +38

      @@angeldahmer3011 10 and 50 is crazyyyy

    • @justbeingmyself7487
      @justbeingmyself7487 Před rokem +62

      @@angeldahmer3011 So a ten-year-old and a 50-year-old should be able to date? That’s disgusting and insane.

  • @Sk_Lol-uk5yg
    @Sk_Lol-uk5yg Před rokem +842

    “Love ,don’t judge” well you know damn well almost all of us are going to judge 💀

  • @possssssum
    @possssssum Před 6 dny +3

    "Age is just a number" 💀
    "Jail is just a building" 💀

  • @Ilovemydogandmybestie
    @Ilovemydogandmybestie Před 9 měsíci +45

    LOVE DOESNT JUDGE-BUT PEOPLE DO

  • @tove236
    @tove236 Před 2 lety +3589

    She's not just a 61 year old, she's a very old looking 61 year old. But if that's his thing, who am I to judge? He's an adult, and can make his own choices. Doesn't affect me at all.

    • @SxVaNm345
      @SxVaNm345 Před 2 lety +27

      Even if he has mental impairment in making his own choices, as long as it's not too severe people should respect that as an adult he is a free agent.

    • @einienj3281
      @einienj3281 Před 2 lety +253

      My mom is 63 and looks 20 years younger than this woman.. I have nothing against them being together though..

    • @amberyoung5950
      @amberyoung5950 Před 2 lety +56

      Ya she looks rough and if they are really in love whatever but he seems like she might be ummm the wrong gender I don't know just how I'm feeling.

    • @fashcolture3788
      @fashcolture3788 Před 2 lety +23

      They knew each other for years he liked her heart

    • @einienj3281
      @einienj3281 Před 2 lety +79

      @@fashcolture3788 That's why people think she groomed him.. even if they started dating after he was an adult..

  • @jo-wc4zu
    @jo-wc4zu Před 2 lety +1557

    the age gap is weird yes , both adults yes. BUT they met when he was 16. SIXTEEN. and they agreed to date when he was older SO he was basically groomed 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @Mope333
      @Mope333 Před 2 lety +17

      Well 16 is the age of consent and how’s that grooming? Lol

    • @kyoshu5962
      @kyoshu5962 Před 2 lety +80

      @@Mope333 its not

    • @Mope333
      @Mope333 Před 2 lety +1

      @@kyoshu5962 based on what? Lol, says who?

    • @noname-ou3qj
      @noname-ou3qj Před 2 lety +22

      @@kyoshu5962 in every other country but America its legal

    • @Mope333
      @Mope333 Před 2 lety +2

      @@justagirl.91 I literally looked it up and it says 16 is the age of consent in most places, but it would be illegal for a 15 year old tho, especially if someone is a higher authority well same goes for 16 if they’re in a position of power, so in other words whether it’s 16 or 18 it’s illegal unless the person is 21. But other than that it can be legal once they hit the age of consent

  • @cheesemaster113
    @cheesemaster113 Před 3 měsíci +9

    That's a really hard 61

  • @robloxnone
    @robloxnone Před 9 měsíci +9

    LOVE DONT JUDGE BUT I JUDGE

  • @cristina9012
    @cristina9012 Před rokem +1005

    Him: “I want to spend the rest of my life with you 😍…”
    Her: 💀

  • @Ignorance96
    @Ignorance96 Před 2 lety +4295

    Having a child at an advanced age will lead to the child losing a parent at a young age. Even if they have their family and their other parent, it's inevitably going to affect the child and the surviving spouse. Even if the parent lives to see the kid graduate high school and even college, the loss of a parent in young adulthood is a rough thing to put your kid through. That's not even mentioning the inevitable decline of the older parent's health over time. Seeing a person lose their independence and ableness at a young age is pretty terrifying, especially when it's your parent. I can speak from personal experience on this; it's s heartbreaking to see a parent nearing the end of their life while you're barely an adult yourself. This is their choice to make, but I can't help but think that they are ignoring issues this will cause for the child down the road. A lot of people decide that they want a child, but not all of them truly consider if they should. Is this more for you or the potential child?
    Edit: Yes, illness and death aren't limited to the old, you can lose a parent at anytime. But most people don't have kids knowing that they probably won't live to see their kid turn 25. When you're in your eighties when your kid finishes college... do the math.

    • @Aj-me8mo
      @Aj-me8mo Před 2 lety +45

      Let them live their life and worry about yours. Not being rude

    • @jodie4063
      @jodie4063 Před 2 lety +57

      Death and illness is not limited to the old.

    • @sunshineplays4514
      @sunshineplays4514 Před 2 lety +34

      But even if she was younger it wouldn’t stop the fact that that could happen illnesses and accidents can happen too

    • @luluinterrupted9213
      @luluinterrupted9213 Před 2 lety +39

      Nobody asked for all this. We could all die at any moment. And leave our kids behind. We only get to live once. Let them live their lives.

    • @codeomatic4351
      @codeomatic4351 Před 2 lety +73

      @@sunshineplays4514 In that sense , anything can happen. The Earth may explode and everybody would die. The probability of a healthy young mother diying is always less than an overly aged and old mother. There is no logic in your comment. Anything can happen anytime but we are talking about things that are in our control. A young mother can provide and live with her child much longer than an old one. She can play with her child , have fun. But an old one can't do all that . And the loss of a mother is extremely hard for a child. Thats why people dont have kids at such an old age. They can enjoy their lives and live as a couple , but dont be selfish and have a child without thinking of the outcomes

  • @shadowmomochiuchiha6839
    @shadowmomochiuchiha6839 Před 4 dny +2

    Guys I don't know about you but "I wasn't there." Is a perfect comeback.🥶

  • @bailyl954
    @bailyl954 Před 4 měsíci +4

    That kid is gonna be wondering whos grandma and who isnt 😂😂😂

  • @Sam13806
    @Sam13806 Před rokem +1054

    I’ve seen way more youthful looking 61 year olds in my time on earth. She’s got to be like 80.

  • @Jaxson_dimes2991
    @Jaxson_dimes2991 Před rokem +1622

    Cheryl hair- 17 year old
    Cheryl clothing-24 year old
    Cheryl face-100 year old
    Edit-6/20/2023 OMG IM FAMOUS BUT THANKS TO EVERYONE FOR 1.5k LIKES THIS IS MY FIRST TIME GETTING SO MUCH LIKES❤

  • @johnhancock2914
    @johnhancock2914 Před rokem +8

    If 61 year old Cheryl got a facelift, it be a incredible transformation she would get, she is the perfect candidate,

  • @kamj4220
    @kamj4220 Před rokem +2

    When he read the Eve comment and she said “I wasn’t there ” 😂😂😂 too funny 😂😂😂

  • @JohnDoeEagle1
    @JohnDoeEagle1 Před 2 lety +549

    Hard drugs, heavy drinking, hard living for decades has aged this woman badly.

    • @cognacszn7789
      @cognacszn7789 Před 2 lety +2

      Yhhh

    • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6
      @BlackGirlLovesAnime6 Před 2 lety +32

      How do you even kno all of this for sure 😂. She could have a disease

    • @KA-md6je
      @KA-md6je Před 2 lety +97

      That's what I thought. She looks like someone who has done some hard drugs and/or heavy drinking in her day. Hopefully she's moved on from that.

    • @fromhell11112
      @fromhell11112 Před 2 lety

      oh well? like who cares

    • @speedmeisterkym6120
      @speedmeisterkym6120 Před 2 lety +9

      @@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 she does. She talked abt it

  • @venuscaracal1350
    @venuscaracal1350 Před rokem +427

    The age gap isn’t my issue. It’s the fact that he was 15-16 when they met and she was interested in him at that age. She groomed him.

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 Před rokem +24

      Exactly. Imagine if it was the other way around how people would have reacted

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Před rokem +5

      Yes and people can forgive the age gap but the fact that she knew him when he was a minor was what many don’t approve of.

    • @YungMisfit20
      @YungMisfit20 Před rokem +3

      True, but the age gap is also my issue

    • @Dennis-nc3vw
      @Dennis-nc3vw Před rokem

      You have no coherent definition of the term grooming. It's a meaningless buzzword you are hiding behind because you find their relationship icky and creepy.

    • @YungMisfit20
      @YungMisfit20 Před rokem

      @@Dennis-nc3vw .... because it is. And he was underage when she met him...she then groomed him to be her boyfriend when he was old enough. What don't you understand? Are you a dedrateR toggaF?

  • @TJohnson7782
    @TJohnson7782 Před rokem +3

    “She was there when Eve stole the Apple from my tree”.. Hilarious! 😂

  • @brianbdawg3059
    @brianbdawg3059 Před 7 měsíci +3

    What if the guy was 61 and the girl 26 people would lose their minds

  • @MaiMai-ys4yg
    @MaiMai-ys4yg Před 2 lety +2973

    She looks much older than 61! Aside from that, they aren’t hurting anyone so who cares! Congrats to them

  • @sudiptoroy8937
    @sudiptoroy8937 Před rokem +548

    the fact that he's closer in age to his wife's GRANDKIDS than his wife herself 😭😭

    • @samantha14843
      @samantha14843 Před rokem +8

      💀💀

    • @SmfraknamdKvv
      @SmfraknamdKvv Před 11 měsíci +1

      And? He's in his 20s, he is old enough to choose who he wants to date?

    • @roxyy.018
      @roxyy.018 Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@SmfraknamdKvv ever heard of grooming?

    • @ThatJxde
      @ThatJxde Před 10 měsíci +8

      ​@@SmfraknamdKvvHe was groomed at 16 by her, she waited for him to be older. (According to the comments) so if that's true, it's really not oke.

    • @SmfraknamdKvv
      @SmfraknamdKvv Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@ThatJxde if that's really what happened, then i don't like or support it

  • @anaccount7923
    @anaccount7923 Před 9 měsíci +3

    The girl at 5:30 looks so uncomfortable, you can tell deep down that she doesn’t want them to have another child😂💀

  • @user-bw1ml2se8f
    @user-bw1ml2se8f Před rokem +5

    bro when she was 7 she had a pet dinosaur

  • @kiiyah3080
    @kiiyah3080 Před rokem +775

    I honestly feel that the fact that she knew him at the age 16 plays a huge role in why they are together

    • @c.g.c.7735
      @c.g.c.7735 Před rokem +21

      Exactly, she's in the wrong tho

    • @Royalty_girlie
      @Royalty_girlie Před rokem +31

      She groomed him. Cut and dry. If this was the other way around ppl would be calling it out and calling it what it is.

    • @Royalty_girlie
      @Royalty_girlie Před rokem +5

      @Seph X bro. How is grooming light skin activity? Even if that's a joke that's not fun.

    • @Dennis-nc3vw
      @Dennis-nc3vw Před rokem +3

      @@Royalty_girlie Regardless, no one here believes the term "groomed" (as its being used here) actually means anything or is a morally valid concept, not even the people using it (like you). A consenting adult is a consenting adult. The G-word just a way for cowards to vilify an icky, creepy relationship while still pretending they believe love is love and consent is all that matters.

    • @Royalty_girlie
      @Royalty_girlie Před rokem +4

      @@Dennis-nc3vw who are you talking about? Grooming is a very valid term that very much applies his situation. Not sure what you tried to say but cool.

  • @wowamber5107
    @wowamber5107 Před 2 lety +62

    That woman is not 61, somebody lied to y'all

  • @MrDDA01992
    @MrDDA01992 Před rokem +8

    Tip for you parents and grandparents: never step between two people's love for each other or their passion!

  • @Sakura-vm3vt
    @Sakura-vm3vt Před 11 měsíci +17

    If they do have a child I feel SO bad for that child

  • @kiirahk4171
    @kiirahk4171 Před rokem +843

    Love has no age, for groomers ☺

    • @Jeanzacure
      @Jeanzacure Před rokem +19

      💀💀💀

    • @Vividlyforgotten
      @Vividlyforgotten Před rokem +7

      NO

    • @Dennis-nc3vw
      @Dennis-nc3vw Před rokem

      You don't have even a remotely coherent definition of the word "groomer." Grooming is the process by which pedophiles psychologically soften children before molesting them, which she never did by any definition because he was above the age of consent when they started dating.

    • @sandiilovesu4077
      @sandiilovesu4077 Před rokem +3

      Right 🤣🤣🤣

    • @shy_yui
      @shy_yui Před rokem

      I think its true that love haven't age but meny peapel mean difrent

  • @janyrose
    @janyrose Před 2 lety +2458

    My grandma was 93 and looked younger than her, but who cares if they love each other all the best for them! Crazy to think my husband might not have been born yet :D

    • @gracieamazing2076
      @gracieamazing2076 Před 2 lety +66

      Where's his family? 😂

    • @Forgiveiolord
      @Forgiveiolord Před 2 lety

      @@gracieamazing2076 Truly clone czcams.com/video/CRAr51tROSs/video.html

    • @notmyrealname4978
      @notmyrealname4978 Před 2 lety +40

      Ok no one cares

    • @adc2327
      @adc2327 Před 2 lety +99

      My mother lived to be 99. She looked younger than this woman. I don't know what happened to this woman to make her age so quickly. I shouldn't be here body and age shaming. Terrible!

    • @evefoodie8798
      @evefoodie8798 Před 2 lety +55

      I think she may have a genetic condition. Her daughter, although she doesn't look old, also has lost a significant amount of elasticity in her facial skin if you look closer.

  • @rememberme3852
    @rememberme3852 Před 8 měsíci +3

    No way is she 60 odd. She is without doubt in her 80s.

  • @ornament_876
    @ornament_876 Před 11 měsíci +6

    No way shes 61 ☠️

  • @MayaDTV
    @MayaDTV Před rokem +287

    So basically this is showing me no matter what I still have a chance to get married!! ❤

    • @shara5985
      @shara5985 Před rokem +22

      Well if you trying to follow in her footsteps, gotta groom them, I mean get them while they're young.

    • @0malicha
      @0malicha Před rokem +10

      If you met them at an appropriate age, yes.

    • @CreeperG0d
      @CreeperG0d Před rokem +1

      A very low chance if u get married to a mentally ill person.

    • @LanieLouWho
      @LanieLouWho Před rokem +2

      Lollll

    • @RK-su4hs
      @RK-su4hs Před rokem +3

      That’s the beauty of life. We never know what good things lie up ahead for us

  • @helllowwww
    @helllowwww Před 2 lety +365

    As a 15 y/o I feel uncomfortable and you can literally be his grandma and that is not a good thing especially when you stared your so call "friendship" when he was 15 y/o and your 52-53 y/o, yea age is just a number but also he was a minor when u started to groom him

  • @flxckzrl03828
    @flxckzrl03828 Před 22 dny +1

    5 year old daughter: “Mom, Wheres grandma?”
    Cheryl: “Dear, She passed away 26 Years ago.”

  • @rhettthecuber9679
    @rhettthecuber9679 Před 2 měsíci +1

    “i wanna spend the rest of my life with you” good luck with that 💀

  • @AlCatSplat
    @AlCatSplat Před 2 lety +78

    Man really did anything to get that PS5 💀💀💀

  • @petitepersianperspective3468

    I’m 51 and she looks like she could be my mother! 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @sct4040
    @sct4040 Před rokem +2

    I am 64, 65 in November and I don’t have much wrinkles. Protect your skin! Sunblock, retinoid!
    Sorry, but she looks 80.

  • @nordiccombatant2167
    @nordiccombatant2167 Před 3 měsíci +2

    61??????
    I don’t feel she should look as beat up as she does. There’s a lot of people on their 60s that still look decent. First time I saw her on other platforms I always thought she was in her early 80s.

  • @desiraqble
    @desiraqble Před rokem +687

    “I wanna spend the rest of my life with you”
    Well 3 months doesn’t seem like a long time to be married

    • @jisu222
      @jisu222 Před rokem +20

      💀

    • @zhouvsp2856
      @zhouvsp2856 Před rokem +7

      @@jisu222 lol

    • @randicarwell6230
      @randicarwell6230 Před rokem +37

      ok ... I didn't want to sound ugly but my first thought was ... you may spend the rest of Her life with her , but probably not the rest of your life.

    • @zhouvsp2856
      @zhouvsp2856 Před rokem +8

      @@randicarwell6230 LMAOOO

    • @itsklaw9218
      @itsklaw9218 Před rokem +4

      @@randicarwell6230 yeah 🤣

  • @2rareSh1esty
    @2rareSh1esty Před 2 lety +40

    Bro she looks 80 , the cigs took a hard hit

    • @AseAleisha
      @AseAleisha Před 2 lety +7

      Looks like more than cigs to me

  • @sithabiledlamini6125
    @sithabiledlamini6125 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I just jumped straight to the comments & I wasn't disappointed 😂😂.

  • @danny___928
    @danny___928 Před rokem +1

    yo the eve comment had me crying 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @meesh7748
    @meesh7748 Před 2 lety +26

    Tik Tok comments:👹👹
    CZcams comments:😇😇

  • @thekendrashow
    @thekendrashow Před rokem +171

    Fun Fact: She was on Maury in the 2000s with her son denying her granddaughter when she was in her late 40s. She still looked old.

    • @user-qg1ic3jm4w
      @user-qg1ic3jm4w Před rokem +8

      Show the link

    • @thekendrashow
      @thekendrashow Před rokem +8

      @@user-qg1ic3jm4w she didn’t look as bad as she does now for her age but she still looked older. She was probably in her late 40s early 50s during this episode.

    • @user-qg1ic3jm4w
      @user-qg1ic3jm4w Před rokem +2

      @@thekendrashow I just saw it. She seems horrible

    • @Royalty_girlie
      @Royalty_girlie Před rokem +1

      Wow then he was really young on TV being exploited.

    • @thekendrashow
      @thekendrashow Před rokem

      @@Royalty_girlie had to be around 20 years old

  • @StellaShadowmoon
    @StellaShadowmoon Před měsícem +2

    There’s no way she’s 61. She looks 90

  • @C0co_g4l
    @C0co_g4l Před 6 měsíci +3

    This will end with crying in the cemetery 😭

  • @Yo_its_me_cloud
    @Yo_its_me_cloud Před rokem +324

    I don't think you can even have a child at age 61 😭😭😭

    • @kim6828
      @kim6828 Před rokem +52

      You can’t 😭 you have 1-3 million eggs when you’re young but lose them and have around 40,000 in your 30’s. By 40 you are going through menopause. She went thru menopause 20 years ago ☠️

    • @kirstineschiemann3774
      @kirstineschiemann3774 Před rokem +1

      Not naturally. They want to find a surrogate.

    • @kim6828
      @kim6828 Před rokem +12

      @@kirstineschiemann3774 Thank god, cause at first she wanted to birth a child herself

    • @kirstineschiemann3774
      @kirstineschiemann3774 Před rokem +3

      @@kim6828 and she could if she could find a doctor willing to help. We have seen cases before. But yeah, for all intents and purposes, I hope they'd go with the surrogate, if they to have a go.

    • @kim6828
      @kim6828 Před rokem +4

      @@kirstineschiemann3774 she could give birth? How?

  • @tristinrebel718
    @tristinrebel718 Před 10 měsíci +2

    "I was not there..." , "I heard about it, but I was back at the trap..." 😭🤣

  • @Natal13
    @Natal13 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I’m not trying to be mean, but she looks even older than 61. When I 1st saw them I assumed she was well into her 70s. God bless them.

  • @viewsonichomie
    @viewsonichomie Před rokem +248

    *IMAGINE HIM 54 AND HER 91 AND THEY’VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 30 YEARS*

    • @Shyknit
      @Shyknit Před rokem +21

      Bruh imagine the fact that he's a step grandpa right now at 24, I wonder if any of the women's kids are older than him...

    • @julianfoster88
      @julianfoster88 Před rokem +9

      @@Shyknit i read all of her kids were older... age range 29-41

    • @Shyknit
      @Shyknit Před rokem +1

      @@julianfoster88 jeez

    • @lebacon4575
      @lebacon4575 Před rokem +19

      Don’t think she’d be alive tbh 💀

    • @rainieb.104
      @rainieb.104 Před rokem +9

      The way she looks like right now at 60 I don’t think she’d be alive by then

  • @ivyvanderwall
    @ivyvanderwall Před 2 lety +49

    I hate this toxic modern age saying “As long as it’s not hurting anyone else who cares!” When generally, 99% of the time they are hurting someone-themselves. But no one seems to care about that.

    • @Mint-kj9kw
      @Mint-kj9kw Před 2 lety +5

      @@theleafandtheelm Because he was sexually abused by an older woman in his childhood...that's why he's attracted to older women. She is taking advantage of that and the man needs to have some inner healing and deliverance. They are both 2 screwed up individuals.

    • @prettypoppin_552
      @prettypoppin_552 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Mint-kj9kw That was my first thought too. Idk if it's true but I feel like that's probably what happened to him

    • @craigscott6443
      @craigscott6443 Před rokem

      Hello, Ivy how are you doing today?

  • @ralphheath9697
    @ralphheath9697 Před 2 měsíci +2

    There’s no possible way you spend the rest of your life with her

  • @veryveryindecisive
    @veryveryindecisive Před rokem +5

    Sometimes in order to love, you have to judge

  • @shinew7185
    @shinew7185 Před rokem +1225

    My grandparents had a 17 year age difference between them and remained together until my grandfather passed at age 97. Statistically the younger partner tends to stray especially if they met at age 15.. which is another story in itself. He hasn’t had a chance to live life yet and unfortunately for her, the second he becomes attracted to a girl closer to his age he’s going to realize what he’s been missing. I also believe there are psychological reason why a 15 year old would be attracted to someone who could be his grandma/great grandma! Mommy issues perhaps? 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @ericakennedy9258
      @ericakennedy9258 Před rokem +80

      it wouldn’t be his fault. she clearly is the one w the advantage in age + maturity

    • @jacksmainchick
      @jacksmainchick Před rokem +128

      17 year age gap is very different than a 30 year age gap…

    • @ladyj5682
      @ladyj5682 Před rokem +6

      But why can't it work until death as well? They may actually make it but it seems a little much

    • @JohnRousse
      @JohnRousse Před rokem +9

      @@ericakennedy9258 He is a grown man? It’s his decision (but he probably does have mommy issues)

    • @ericakennedy9258
      @ericakennedy9258 Před rokem +8

      @@JohnRousse they became friends when he was 16…

  • @bettertomorrow2625
    @bettertomorrow2625 Před rokem +45

    Meeting when he was 16 is a giant red flag and screams grooming. But aside from that, the age shaming in the comments is not cool. We're all going to age. It's natural and unavoidable. Criticize for the grooming, but put the age-shaming part away. It's ugly.

    • @fionatilson2317
      @fionatilson2317 Před rokem

      Ye like I’m sorry but like if u past Imagen how the kid would feel plus I’m in my early teens but I thought u can’t have kids at that age

    • @cassandrakemara8755
      @cassandrakemara8755 Před rokem

      @@fionatilson2317 I would just lie and say she shes aged badly. But every kid is different some kids have so much confidence and popularity that even this wouldn't phase them.

    • @warren010h
      @warren010h Před rokem

      He probably wanted some snatch so he's just as much responsible in it also if you ask me lol. Got groomed by them walls 🧱 😂

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Před rokem

      Yes most are just against the grooming part as she knew him as a minor. Many can get past the age gap.

  • @MegaIluvmj
    @MegaIluvmj Před 10 měsíci +4

    I’m sorry but she looks like she’s 5 days deceased my mom is 65 and not one wrinkle on her face

  • @amputeevictory700
    @amputeevictory700 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I’m going to need Cheryl to never laugh again!!!

  • @catherine4970
    @catherine4970 Před 2 lety +72

    She’s 61? She looks 71 at least. It’s selfish for her to even think about having more children at her age.

    • @tiggzr9744
      @tiggzr9744 Před 2 lety +9

      To me it's selfish to have children at 40 but people are going to do what's makes them happy and we need to respect that

    • @Eva-ow5ug
      @Eva-ow5ug Před 2 lety +2

      👍

    • @r.r911
      @r.r911 Před 2 lety +29

      @@tiggzr9744 40 is young. You're crazy.

    • @naelie2288
      @naelie2288 Před 2 lety +7

      @@tiggzr9744 My mom adopted me in her 40s and honestly I’m so grateful because she’s the greatest mom I could ask for. Without her I’d have a really shitty life. Yes in a way it is selfish but those two could give a really great life to a child. I think that 61 is a bit..Old but whatever

    • @misslucky22
      @misslucky22 Před 2 lety +6

      Yes it is my mom is 66 years old and I am 36 shes keeps telling me when is she going to have grandkids so she can at least be in there life for a little bit this woman is 61 let's say she passes away at 80 she might be lucky maybe to see her child Graduate high school but that's it no wedding no grandkids you have to think about those things unless they adopt a 17 year old would be a better option

  • @careyg
    @careyg Před 2 lety +550

    She said "I wasn't there" 😅 atleast she tries to have a sense of humor about the hate. It seems that they both truly love each other.

    • @Tooill4daIRS
      @Tooill4daIRS Před 2 lety +22

      Nah, she really thought about it.

    • @jessh5661
      @jessh5661 Před 2 lety +12

      I don't think she knew it was a biblical reference

    • @morgonaarchuleta2690
      @morgonaarchuleta2690 Před 2 lety

      @@Tooill4daIRS no she didn't. You can't read face features at all.

    • @morgonaarchuleta2690
      @morgonaarchuleta2690 Před 2 lety

      She loves him but the other way around could be that he loves her but not in love had nothing going for him and this gets him attention. I am sure he gets so many broads sending him their info after seeing this. Sick how women got yo have it all. I should of been born a man. So, I could tell all you BROAD'S just how desperate you look.

    • @Tooill4daIRS
      @Tooill4daIRS Před 2 lety +5

      @@morgonaarchuleta2690 its literally my job.

  • @karens.2661
    @karens.2661 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I’ve been reading a lot of these comments and most of it is comical relief for the situation added with a bit of disgust and many other mixed emotions. I don’t really care to share my opinion since I myself is dating an older woman. I think it just pretty much comes down to looking at the world and how messed up it is. Realizing you only have one life. Happiness doesn’t come to some ever so appreciate what Little happiness you’ve got. Mostly though, realizing that you don’t live for opinions you don’t live for other people you live for only you and whoever you decide to let into your circle that represents you. Everyone can say they have loved the wrong person at least once in their lives. But there is a vice versa to that statement. Maybe he found his love early in his life and hers later but the connection can’t be denied either way. Goes to show that love and life always find a way to exist even when it seems it shouldn’t.

  • @h0425
    @h0425 Před 2 lety +59

    I LOVE HOW SHE KEEPS ADDRESSING THE ISSUE THAT THERE RELATIONSHIP IS FAKE AND NOT THE GROOMING 💀

  • @clouddy4836
    @clouddy4836 Před rokem +152

    Not just the age gap, the fact that she groomed him is what is disgusting(he was 16 when they met)

    • @KennyMcCormick5467
      @KennyMcCormick5467 Před rokem +6

      And some people really don’t see anything wrong with that since he’s a grown adult now.

    • @Dennis-nc3vw
      @Dennis-nc3vw Před rokem

      @@KennyMcCormick5467 These Draconian hate mongers just keep moving the goal post. First it was "If you love her you can wait until she turns 18", now even that doesn't apply anymore because of this magical, meaningless catch-all word "grooming."

    • @jula4851
      @jula4851 Před rokem

      Just because they met when he was 15 does not mean that she groomed him? Do you know what grooming is?

    • @clouddy4836
      @clouddy4836 Před rokem +4

      @@jula4851 yes, I do know what grooming is but let’s be Fr here what are the chances that she had 0 feelings for him before 18 then suddenly poof he isn’t a minor anymore I’m now suddenly attracted to him? Oh yeah non existent.

    • @jula4851
      @jula4851 Před rokem +3

      @@clouddy4836 okay Thats true

  • @357kcobra3
    @357kcobra3 Před 10 měsíci +1

    That's dope you guys!

  • @Pochi2024
    @Pochi2024 Před 10 měsíci +2

    She looks so much older than just 61

  • @kyoniiii
    @kyoniiii Před 2 lety +24

    WHAT YALL DONT GET IS THAT SHE LITERALLY GROOMED HIM THEY MET WHEN HE WAS 15!!!

    • @kyoniiii
      @kyoniiii Před rokem

      @N33D_W4NT still was groomed they actually became friends

    • @kyoniiii
      @kyoniiii Před rokem

      @N33D_W4NT there's a difference between friends waiting to be in a relationship and just innocently friends with old ppl HE became friends with her and then dated her because they started liking each other THAT IS NOT NORMAL

    • @kyoniiii
      @kyoniiii Před rokem

      @N33D_W4NT also they agreed on dating each other when they where older it's definitely different then what ever u have

  • @lorannab3092
    @lorannab3092 Před 2 lety +78

    you sure she's 61? She looks like my 92 y-o grandma...

    • @robinsnestradio
      @robinsnestradio Před 2 lety +17

      That is a rough 61. 🤦🏽

    • @ardensity1175
      @ardensity1175 Před 2 lety +2

      Lol everyone's roasting her age

    • @buketaraci9291
      @buketaraci9291 Před 2 lety +7

      Fr my 78 y.o grandma looks younger than her

    • @lorannab3092
      @lorannab3092 Před 2 lety +7

      @@ardensity1175 I wouldn't say "roasting"... it's just very very hard to believe she's 61.

    • @robinsnestradio
      @robinsnestradio Před 2 lety +6

      @@ardensity1175 Not really roasting. I am 67. I take great care of my skin. I look about 49. Good black dont crack👍🏾🙋🏾

  • @redhidinghood9337
    @redhidinghood9337 Před 8 měsíci +1

    My grandma is 70 and looks at least 15 years younger than this supposed 61 year old

  • @ilikeflour...itsgood
    @ilikeflour...itsgood Před 19 hodinami

    Bro took "Sorry, I like older women.." To the next level 💀
    SHE EVEN TOOK "You're too old for me, I like younger men" TO THE NEXT LEVEL

  • @christinavarvakis5523
    @christinavarvakis5523 Před 2 lety +30

    He specifically is doing it for Tik Tokers....LOL

  • @estherjoyee9589
    @estherjoyee9589 Před 2 lety +141

    They take love is blind to a whole new level 😀

  • @warriorprincess8379
    @warriorprincess8379 Před 9 měsíci

    i came here to get answers because im currently in this situation, so i just met this guy and he is very sweet to me he's 18 and im 31 years old, i look very young so people don't think im that old i look like im in my late teens to 20s but i feel weird dating this guy cause he is very young. do anyone think this is a problem. my neighbor really scolded me for dating a young guy she said that i should be ashamed of myself but its not like he's 14 or 16 years old he's 18 but she made me feel so bad about dating him i don't know now if im making a good choice to continue dating him. 😢 what should i do?

  • @NEO36999
    @NEO36999 Před 10 měsíci +2

    When i saw the thumbnail for thos video, immediately in my head Michael Jackson's Thriller song came on.

  • @MzMontana
    @MzMontana Před 2 lety +80

    DONT HAVE A BABY… So selfish for the child to lose their Mum so early. And for the child to lose out on the active years.

    • @terezamala9660
      @terezamala9660 Před 2 lety +7

      What does so early mean? If she dies at 90 (which is a pretty normal age these days, and even higher), the child will be an adult around 30.
      Also active years meaning the ones that she was to go to work every day and come back tired? (she herself said she will have much more time than she used to have for her children before). If she decides she is able to have a child (adopting it/whatever), she can, no reason for you to judge them.

    • @notmyrealname4978
      @notmyrealname4978 Před 2 lety +7

      No one’s life is promised people die young all the time

    • @LindaC616
      @LindaC616 Před 2 lety +6

      @@terezamala9660 I think OP meant "active years" to mean getting down on the floor to play with them, run after toddlers, etc

    • @terezamala9660
      @terezamala9660 Před 2 lety

      @@LindaC616 I understand the term, I am just saying it makes no sense using it in this case :)

    • @LindaC616
      @LindaC616 Před 2 lety +4

      @@terezamala9660 I'm not sure you or I know her well enough to judge that. Dancing on TikTok for 5 minutes doesn't take the same endurance as running after children all day

  • @lifewitoscar7782
    @lifewitoscar7782 Před 2 lety +24

    Even he was laughing when they said “she was there wan eve ate the apple form the tree”💀💀