The Root Cause of Loneliness For Men

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  • čas přidán 6. 04. 2024
  • #lonely #loneliness #mentalhealth #selfimprovement #viraltiktok
    DISCLAIMER:
    This recording is not intended to be used as medical advice or a medical diagnosis. If you need medical/psychological attention or treatment, please seek it immeditialty. This recording is designed to offer advice to those struggling with women based on my own experience, my client's experiences, and what I found to work. This recording will also contain sensitive subjects such as loneliness and depression. Please listen to your discretion and do what's best for you.
    I am a coach. Not a doctor, therapist, or any other medical professional. I have not completed a certified life coaching program. I cannot diagnose conditions or prescribe treatments. If you need more advanced help, such as therapy, please seek it immediately.
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Komentáře • 99

  • @ModelJames13
    @ModelJames13 Před 2 měsíci +25

    The root cause.................... is women. 😎

    • @guyincognito2589
      @guyincognito2589 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Simple as that. There is no patriarchy.

    • @bli3366
      @bli3366 Před měsícem +2

      @@guyincognito2589 But there needs to be.

    • @lunard8690
      @lunard8690 Před 14 dny +1

      have you heard of undeadChronicXiv

    • @bli3366
      @bli3366 Před 13 dny

      @@lunard8690 Not quite my cup of tea.
      I vastly prefer the OG Barbarossa/bar bar, RazorBladeKandy, Spetsnatz, and oldskool Turd Flinging Monkey. Stardusk/Thinking Ape and HuMan are really worth checking out, too.
      There are different RP guys that focus on different aspects/perspectives and different phases of the RP journey. Ultimately, the goal is to be the best man you can, and to survive the RPRage, through the Valley of Suicide, and the time spent Wasteland Wandering in order to emerge on the other side as one of Maslow's "self-actualized" Men.
      When one has entirely rejected finding one's self-worth inside the realm of women and praise from women, then there is a plane of existence where no one can bring you down from. When your worth is entirely from your own accomplishments and your own works, and you constantly seek out whatever it takes to nourish your soul, then you break the cycle and women become mere accoutrements.
      It is also an interesting side-note that this feat is something that is only achievable by men, as the closest a woman can come to this feat seems to be giving birth to a number of children and having most of them become wildly successful. Even then, though, for women, their internal self-esteem and self-actualization is the kind of thing that will always require input from outside people--even those that they have created. I would think that some of the many quasi-RP trends regarding women posting their L's and other guys commenting on things like that should show that women are not and can never be complete without having an external point of validation, in contrast to men.
      archive.org/details/Spetsnaz_MGTOW_HD_Video_Collection

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 Před 13 dny +1

      @@lunard8690 I have now.

  • @NickDrinksWater
    @NickDrinksWater Před 25 dny +15

    The best way to fix loneliness, is to stay hydrated.

    • @WinstonCodesOn
      @WinstonCodesOn Před 5 dny

      The best way to stay hydrated is to drink Brawndo. It has electrolytes.

    • @wtzan
      @wtzan Před 4 dny

      you lose hydration if you jerk too much

  • @hellogoodbye4061
    @hellogoodbye4061 Před 10 dny +6

    Women said "we don't need no man" and "stay away from us, don't approach us"......well, women, be careful what you ask for.

  • @Samuel-vw2wy
    @Samuel-vw2wy Před 2 měsíci +29

    it’s unrealistic to expect guys to just approach a random woman out of nowhere. Women are way too vocal in attacking guys who do that now. It’s also unsustainable to get rejected so many times and harshly. We need a new way to meet.

    • @GirlfriendGuide4Guys
      @GirlfriendGuide4Guys  Před 2 měsíci +3

      Fair point 💯

    • @gabelossusthe4th
      @gabelossusthe4th Před 2 měsíci +1

      That has literally never happened to me and I'm not the best looking guy AT ALL. One time the woman was rude to me and immediately walked away, otherwise I have had a more or less pleasant time with the women I have approached out of the blue.

    • @synesthesiafilms
      @synesthesiafilms Před 2 měsíci

      Only narcissist looser needs constant supply of female energy to survive rather you need INTRINSIC MOTIVATION to OUTGROW and BE HAPPY. Female energy is funny, dont get me wrong. True power of fresh life comes from male semen. Only fools (both gender) loose the hormone of male vitality and thrift browsing womens beds all over town or worse do PMO. Dopamine Nation..

    • @Samuel-vw2wy
      @Samuel-vw2wy Před 2 měsíci +8

      @@gabelossusthe4th so because something hasn’t personally happened to you we should act like it will never happen?

    • @ModelJames13
      @ModelJames13 Před 2 měsíci +1

      And it's pointless. I did that at the gym last year and got a woman to accept a date from me right away. But then before I got that date with her she learned my age and got all age prejudiced on me. So no date, no nothing. 😎

  • @thebessienessie836
    @thebessienessie836 Před 2 měsíci +7

    I see you helping lots of people, I feel when we let God into our lives we can never truly be alone, I look forward to future content. Thumbs up from me 👍

  • @ninjetti9898
    @ninjetti9898 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thanks for pushing through illness to get this video out to us, you are a real one

  • @user-jz6to8md3c
    @user-jz6to8md3c Před 2 měsíci +5

    Who made us feel that way women.

    • @lunard8690
      @lunard8690 Před 14 dny

      have you heard of undeadChronicXiv

  • @amylee6038
    @amylee6038 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Middle school? Those are our sons' classmates. Our eldest would be 8th grade. He's in his third semester of college, on scholarship in the Aerospace Engineering program. His little brother is right behind him, but more trades oriented. He's more interested in running his own companies than academics, despite being gifted there too.
    If you were thinking about prepping all those middle school boys for the future as real lady killers then the first thing you would do is get them out of the government school system ASAP. What the schools are doing constitutes abuse in our view. This country has lots its collective minds with this war on boys.

  • @fulviochecaga
    @fulviochecaga Před 2 měsíci +6

    Marry James please

  • @thevoid7765
    @thevoid7765 Před 2 měsíci +8

    You sound like a therapist in this video. They always want to find some repressed childhood memory that caused all your problems. Rather than the cold hard truth that you are just ugly and that is why you are alone. I had no insecurities until women helped me discover some.

    • @GirlfriendGuide4Guys
      @GirlfriendGuide4Guys  Před 2 měsíci +1

      I will respond to this comment in a video, thank you.

    • @thevoid7765
      @thevoid7765 Před 2 měsíci

      @@GirlfriendGuide4Guys sounds good. I love your videos. I am not trying to troll you. Just my opinion.

    • @GirlfriendGuide4Guys
      @GirlfriendGuide4Guys  Před 2 měsíci +4

      @@thevoid7765 please note your perspective is always wanted here!!! This channel is for you and men like you, always feel safe to share your perspective and personal life experience ❤️

    • @thevoid7765
      @thevoid7765 Před 2 měsíci

      @GirlfriendGuide4Guys OK thank you! I will say anything I think is worth being said

    • @maxn.7234
      @maxn.7234 Před 25 dny

      Most men don't become redpilled or blackpilled because of childhood trauma. Most arrive at the conclusion through life experience that women generally are horrible people.

  • @JohnKowal-pw6xu
    @JohnKowal-pw6xu Před 10 dny

    Dating and marriage are for people who are mature enough to realize that they really want it and are willing to put in some much energy and devotion into it. You really need to be mentally stable and mature and willing to give it all.

  • @rusty6314
    @rusty6314 Před 2 dny

    You have an interesting point of view thanks for sharing it.

  • @marquinho999
    @marquinho999 Před měsícem +4

    Amanda, do not approach me.

  • @stealplow8462
    @stealplow8462 Před 2 měsíci

    Keep making videos. I love your personality.

  • @masteryoda498
    @masteryoda498 Před 2 měsíci +14

    The root cause of loneliness of men, is simple:
    “You’re not Chad”.

    • @lunard8690
      @lunard8690 Před 14 dny +1

      have you heard of undeadChronicXiv

    • @masteryoda498
      @masteryoda498 Před 10 dny +1

      @@lunard8690
      Yes, I had a polite discussion with him, a few weeks ago.

  • @josephyeo6966
    @josephyeo6966 Před měsícem +2

    Sounds very complicated. Is there a guide for this?

  • @hellogoodbye4061
    @hellogoodbye4061 Před 10 dny

    Glad to see this woman has men all figured out. Who'd a thunk?

  • @CannyAnnie
    @CannyAnnie Před 2 měsíci

    Is that your natural hair colour or did you colour it?

  • @sebastiankumlin9542
    @sebastiankumlin9542 Před měsícem

    Well said there, about getting shamed when trying to put in effort. I was shamed by multiple women for putting effort into my studies and for trying to be outgoing and positive and life the mood.

  • @BeastGuyver
    @BeastGuyver Před 6 dny

    yeah sweety it's not something that happened in childhood that made us feel like we are only worthy of love if we produce. I have been bombarded with that message since high school, every man has been since they became interested/aware of marriage. You want to propose? You need a ring that costs 3-6 months salary. You wanna go on a second date you better pay for everything on the first. This sends a message that we are nothing but walking ATM's for women. You wanna stay married you better get her the right expensive gifts for every gift giving holiday, don't forget you can't be stable either because that's boring and if she gets bored she'll either cheat or get a divorce (most of us would prefer you divorce us). And it's been like this for at least a few centuries, long before social media.
    Here's an Idea try looking up "Broken Heart Syndrome", then ask yourself why does it only happen to men.

  • @jeremycole3008
    @jeremycole3008 Před 2 měsíci +5

    She seems so nervous, and squirrelly

  • @aryaastrayzoomer2003
    @aryaastrayzoomer2003 Před 2 měsíci +3

    That's just not a good advice for everyone, there are some things you can't change about yourself and no one could help you with them. I don't think it has anything to do with "trauma"

  • @MyEnemy
    @MyEnemy Před 2 měsíci +4

    Thanks. Get better. 🤧

  • @UberVike
    @UberVike Před 2 měsíci +1

    ❤ hope you feel better soon

  • @Epoch-vu8cj
    @Epoch-vu8cj Před 2 měsíci +4

    Do your thing chicken wing

  • @VeryAwesomeSheep
    @VeryAwesomeSheep Před 17 dny

    I had a very transactional childhood and I'm also transactional in relationships. It's a one way thing though, I'm content with how someone is, but I need to give them all the best. It is an unhealthy thing, but saying that you deserve something is delusional. You don't deserve anything if you didn't work for it and same applies to getting into and staying in relationships. You need to be this or that to be in one and it's just the reality. Denying that won't get you anywhere.

  • @BeastGuyver
    @BeastGuyver Před 6 dny

    interesting, who made me fear relationships... women, having your heart stomped on does that. what benefit does being a lone bring me? Tell me you've never been head over heals in love and suddenly get dumped without telling me.

  • @ryuharuentertainment8957

    I appreciate what you're trying to do. You're probably helping people. But the indoctrination that we were fed as children was that we DIDN'T need to do anything to deserve love. The red pill is realizing that was a lie.
    Men who go through life hoping romantic happiness will just fall in their lap, are the first ones to regret living and the first ones in line when someone offers them alternate worldview.

  • @michelpuy
    @michelpuy Před 2 měsíci

    I met a girl, thank you for advice

  • @thebessienessie836
    @thebessienessie836 Před 2 měsíci

    ur a really cool wingman haha

  • @user-kl4bh4lq6r
    @user-kl4bh4lq6r Před měsícem

    Social what?

  • @CantRIP9389
    @CantRIP9389 Před 6 dny

    Usually, this is just "through a glass statist-ly". For all the talk of socialization and empowerment, the actual humanity of it or even the existence of individuals as other than cogs in a collectivist meatgrinder or levers being pulled for the application of power through concerns for special statuses. A starting point of no humanity and instead only academic textbook terms.
    You and so many others reacting to analyze this is more than thirty years too late. You should be thinking about what can be done for the newer generations... maybe pivot all the Tate-ism, but ultimately you are going to have to support a new society outside of this medium you're using (chosen for the sake of your own careers)

  • @RagtimeAnnie
    @RagtimeAnnie Před dnem

    An interesting, well considered theorem - I will dub you Amanda B. Reckondwith ...

  • @khoiminhhoang
    @khoiminhhoang Před 2 měsíci +1

    What do you look for in a man Amanda?

  • @jpbart1390
    @jpbart1390 Před 2 měsíci

    The patriarchy's dead & I don't want the matriarchy to take over!

  • @rogerthemanful
    @rogerthemanful Před 2 měsíci +4

    Do you genuinely care?

    • @GirlfriendGuide4Guys
      @GirlfriendGuide4Guys  Před 2 měsíci +2

      I do

    • @RD1R
      @RD1R Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@GirlfriendGuide4Guysyou care about monetizing simps 😊
      If you really cared you would have a degree in psychology.
      And maybe..... Upload 1 video that isn't your face.

    • @neverbeganforme
      @neverbeganforme Před 2 měsíci

      Nah, no one does.

    • @rogerthemanful
      @rogerthemanful Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@GirlfriendGuide4Guys are you sure it's not for attention and monetization?

  • @hdave5668
    @hdave5668 Před 2 měsíci +1

    With all due respect Amanda, I appreciate what you’re tryna do for the community but stick to another niche. The only thing that’s getting helped is your CZcams engagement

    • @Master91936
      @Master91936 Před 2 měsíci

      Did have some other niche in mind? I really want her to do ASMR

  • @tailong9548
    @tailong9548 Před 23 dny

    What do gods have to do with this?

  • @athos5359
    @athos5359 Před 2 měsíci

    pretty sure she likes dutch guys

  • @TheIncridibleOne
    @TheIncridibleOne Před 2 měsíci

    Teehee

  • @golden1_1dragon12
    @golden1_1dragon12 Před 2 měsíci +1

    this girl belongs to da streets

  • @jasonlax2102
    @jasonlax2102 Před 2 měsíci

    There is somthing catchy about u

  • @Coneman3
    @Coneman3 Před 17 dny

    A man duh

  • @General_Alek
    @General_Alek Před 2 měsíci +2

    Miranda was telling the truth once again about there being a new video
    it turns me on when Miranda tells the truth

  • @johngalt6838
    @johngalt6838 Před 24 dny

    bwahahahaha....from a young woman.

  • @vegandollsunited
    @vegandollsunited Před 2 měsíci +1

    Vegan Dolls took a lot of ur subs, but DUM is still with you. DUM says he wants young, nice teeth, and pretty. Vegan Dolls is old and DUM called her an old hag so he doesn't think she's pretty and of course she's not young. I hope you will livestream with him soon.

    • @Thumos99
      @Thumos99 Před 2 měsíci +1

      How could you repeat what dum said. Vegan dolls is beautiful. You’re hurting my feelings. Vegan dolls doesn’t like that