AM I READY FOR A BABY AFTER MISCARRIAGE? Am I ACTUALLY Ovulating?...
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- čas přidán 24. 02. 2022
- Being pregnant and experiencing a miscarriage is the biggest heartbreak anyone will go through. Pregnancy loss is so common but am I ready to fall pregnant again? Am I actually ovulating?
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NO ONE tells you how messed up your body is after a miscarriage! A very honest video tonight guys
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I got pregnant on my first cycle after my miscarrige. I was so desperate to get back to that wonderful feeling of being pregnant. I have a daughter now 💜 Best wishes!
Oh how wonderful to hear
When check pregnency after abortion with out period
Was that a natural miscarriage or a d&e
I know this was a while ago but my miscarriage started on January 13th and it is now February 5th and I have been checking my ovulation and haven't had a positive ovulation test. Do you have any idea how long it took you to ovulate?
I got pregnant 2 weeks after my first miscarriage started (at 7 weeks). I basically ovulated around 14 days from the day I started bleeding. I had only stopped bleeding by about a day. I was eager to try again straight away. He is currently 23 months and in his cot!
My second miscarriage I also ovulated 2 weeks after the miscarriage started (at 12 weeks) but I didn't get caught that month. The following month (6 weeks after the miscarriage) I got pregnant and that 9 week old is currently asleep next me on the sofa.
There's hope ❤
Oh how amazing!! Bring so much hope xxx
@@Eltoria Fingers crossed for you xxx
Definitely love hearing stories like this. Their is definitely hope and I believe!!!
Wow i sn here beause i had a miscarriage 2weeks ago.Jan 10th 2023 and today 25th Jan seeing the egg white mucus.I might be ovulationg
Wooow this gives so much hope....i have just finished bleeding and I can't wait to try again.....
I heard that a baby after a miscarriage is the same baby coming back to you. It’s something I always remember and take comfort in. Good luck on your journey xo
It’s true. The soul chooses their parents. If the physical body doesn’t make it, they will wait till another physical body forms. I hope that makes since lol.
Oh how wonderful love that thought xxxx
I had a miscarriage last year and it is truly the worst thing a women can go through. The feeling of guilt and uncertainty on how and why it had happened and then waiting for the test to show negative.
I am currently 34 weeks pregnant and I have to admit that I have really struggled as I suffer with anxiety so at the start I was terrified and constantly checked for blood every time I went to the bathroom. So bear this in mind if you are simular to me with anxiety.
Even now being pregnant I still had a breakdown when it came to the miscarriage baby's due date.
Advise would be to just take things easy try to stay away from apps as it can become obsessive and then when you do not get pregnant it gives you unnecessary stress. Best of luck xxxx
I’m so sorry to hear your sad news. I have just had my second missed miscarriage (last Thursday) my baby would have been due on 22/9/22, so close to yours. I fell pregnant for the second time at the end of December last year after miscarrying my first at the start of December. It’s absolutely possible to fall pregnant straight away! I’m gutted to have lost my rainbow baby straight after my first. I’ll defo be trying again soon. I will wait for a negative test to ensure the HCG and all tissue has left my body. Be careful with early ovulation tests because HCG can set them off as a false positive. Baby dust to you. I hope we get our babies soon. The worse girl gang ever have a great insta and podcast. They’ve really help me processes my two miscarriages xx
Thank you for sharing your journey with all this! I don’t have kids yet (no miscarriages either) so this is really useful to see your experience! It definitely sounds like taking your time/going with the flow re getting pregnant is a good idea! I wish you both all the best with this, big hugs and love again to you and Joe! You’ll get there! ❤️ xxxx
Thaks so much Molly means alot xx
I miscarried (7 weeks) in October its taken me 5 months to really feel like myself again! Please look after yourself, it's a bumpy ride but it does get easier! xx
I had my first baby fine, 2nd baby tried for a while, had an ectopic then 3 months later I had another 3 early miscarriages in a row each month (at 5-6 weeks pregnant ) so you can definitely get pregnant straight away. Sending love 💕 don’t give up hope, I then fell pregnant with another boy who stuck on for dear life and wouldn’t let go and he was healthy and happy and is now 10 💙🙂❤️❤️
Thanks so much for your comment
Hi, I’m not one to ever comment however just wanted to send you lots of love after hearing about your miscarriage. You are so brave, strong and amazing never forget that ever❤️
Awh thanks so much lovely
Sending my love to you and Joe! ❤❤
Bless You Eltoria Look After Yourself Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
Good luck! ❤️
I love your videos! ❤️
Thanks gorgeous xxx
I recently had a miscarriage after 12 weeks 6 days. I went to the doctor a week and a half later to make sure everything had cleaned out and my doctor said we could start trying immediately. She said they use to say wait, but that there’s no proof that you need to wait and that there’s proof that people have had successful pregnancies after miscarriage when they didn’t wait!!
I’m in the same boat with you. Had positive ovulation test and now I’ve had positive pregnancy test at tree t tracking my hcg levels at home with strips. Went to the doctor yesterday to have my hcg blood level checked. I told the doctor I didn’t want to be experiencing false positives but also that if I am pregnant I want to know!!!
I am so sorry to hear that you had a miscarriage. I wish you both all the best and biggest prayers and the biggest hugs I can give you. I’ll be keeping you in my daily prayers. Much love you and Joe. ❤️😘🙏🏻
Thanks so much Amy xx
I suffered an ectopic pregnancy back in June/July Last year I was absolutely broken cause for several weeks I was in and out of hospital for blood test every two days cause I was bleeding but my hcg levels were going up and up when they should of being going down at that point then they finally had be admitted to hospital to have an operation to remove the egg that was apparently outside my womb I was absolutely heartbroken hearing the words “ there is no baby “ I was in hospital for 3 full days and I was told I wasn’t aloud to drink or eat anything Incase I was wheeled off for the operation I was messed around each day basically dehydrated and starving all day waiting for them to come and get me which they never did until early hours of the next morning that my operation is booked for that afternoon so after being starving and extremely dehydrated all day just for them to tell me I had to wait even longer not to mention the absolute agony emotionally and physically I was in after 3 and half days of being messed around basically starved and exhausted not to mention traumatised I was told I didn’t need the operation I just needed an injection to help me pass the baby naturally which made me feel worthless and ignored , they also told me I won’t be able to get pregnant again for a year or more which broke me even more and more, even after experiencing such trauma from that time, I never gave up and on October 11th 2021 last year I found out I was pregnant with my rainbow baby ❤️ never give up on having a family hun your little rainbow will show one day ❤️❤️
Hi, I am really sorry for your miscarriage. I really understand what you going true. I 2020 lost baby in around 5 weeks and my miscarriage was very long and hard. Take your time and listen to your body and soul. I am now 37 weeks pregnant with my baby girl and this week doctors plan to induced me that she is well and healthy. Good luck with your journey.
Thank you so much for your comment lovely xxxx
Prayers for u...Take ur time it will all come together an u will be blessed
Thanks so much Audrey xxx
I had a MC at 9 weeks it took a week after bleeding before I got a negative pregnancy test. I tracked using natural cycles and used ovulation at home (highly recommend - personally found it spot on as well as recording my temp) but I got myself all worked up so I stopped after 4 weeks and got pregnant 3 weeks later. No period! However I had a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks (baby was 6 weeks) but it took 5 weeks of bleeding and hospital appointments before I got a negative test. However the second time i ovulated a week after negative test. But my body and mind had been put through so much we decided to take a break and have a few normal cycles to get us back on track. Currently on my 4th cycle since my 2nd miscarriage and first time trying currently waiting to see if we are pregnant again. Everything your going through in this video is the exact feelings I had the first time honestly it sends you crazy! After the trauma of my second it was much easier to take a break. From what I’ve read once HCG is out of your system it should re start your cycle so your really wanting to make sure you have a negative test. Also read that because you lose so much lining in a MC that it’s better to wait one cycle! (But it’s not fact and some people conceive with no issues) also my consultant told me to keep taking the folic acid and vitamin d - sending you lots of love, thank you for sharing and reminding me I am not alone! There is absolutely no right or wrong way to do things just do what’s right for you! 💕
Thanks so much for your message babe!! xxxxxx
Big hugs 💖💖💖
I had a miscarriage in May 2015 at 9 weeks. We were totally devastated as like you we fell pregnant within the first month and we did not expect anything to go wrong.
We decided to wait a bit and then in February 2016 we tried again and now have our beautiful rainbow baby, my daughter Evie who is 6 ths year! We have also gone on to have a son who is 4. It will happen for you I'm sure 🌈
I just miscarried 7 days ago.. for the first time. My doctor said to try after my next cycle. Wishing you the best of luck!
I had my miscarriage the same time as you, and I feel exactly the same. As a couple, me and my husband are ready but physically and emotionally I don't feel actually trying is going to help me in any way. Some days, I feel like I'm still grieving. But being 34 I do feel immense pressure to be pregnant again.
I had bloods yesterday as my body is drained and I still can't get back to normal. It's just a mad time right now.x
Your mind does play some serious tricks on you! I had bloods done too! Sharing the results with you all next week :) xx
Please take your time, no rush you are young and it will work out. I have had 2 miscarriages and now have a son.
I understand your need to start again but please make sure you are ready.
Big love to you and your husband.🤞❤️
Thanks so much love xxx
I'm so sorry sweetie. Look after yourself 💗💗
Thanks lovely xxx
Congratulations for the 👶
Thank you, but no longer carrying just yet xxx
Hcg...not hgc...lol how have things gone? I just had a miscarriage and bleeding ended a week ago. Been testing my LH because I don't know exactly which day to count as first day of bleeding (counting like 1st day of period)...I bled slow then heavy for days then low and then gone. Not sure when ovulation should happen. Craziness...more accurate to test body temp daily watching for dip before ovulation and LH strips together
What did your doctor tell you? He or she will be your BEST resource. Good luck with this journey. I went through 3 years of infertility and have 2 amazing children.
I had a miscarriage 6 months ago. Since then i had 4 periods. My cycle was ranging from 32-35 days. 3x of my periods were on time on 32 days. My last period was on day 39 and it lasted for 3 days instead of 4!. I thought maybe it was hormonal imbalance this month i am using clear blue digital since 8 days i had high fertility i am cd 28 and no sign of ovulation! My first 3 periods were all on time i dun understand why its irregular now suddenly! I am worried that i am. Not ovulating!
Have you also tried using conceive plus fertility lubricant. This helped me fall pregnant x
Oohh no i have not heard of that xxx
Out of curiosity have you taken an actual pregnancy test? I completely get this feeling though I miscarried in January last year it’s confusing, we waited a little then just said will see what happens, I’m 38 weeks pregnant, fell 6mths after our loss after waiting too just give yourself time and a break there’s no right or wrong here, sending you love ❤️
One of my colleagues had a miscarriage in Spring ( can’t remember if it was March, April or May), but by the following April, she had a baby, so must have got pregnant fairly soon after losing her first baby.
Sorry to hear about your miscarriage 😢I myself had a miscarriage in October 21 and bled for a week same as you. I did a pregnancy test 1 week later and that was negative so in theory could ovulate after that. I however don't feel like I ovulated at all the month of my miscarriage as I had none of my usual ovulation symptoms. However now 3 months later I am pregnant again and currently 7 weeks after tracking my ovulation last month for a week and capturing peak ovulation with strips. Obviously now I'm pregnant again I'm happy but so, so anxious and have obsessively kept taking pregnancy tests every few days to watch the lines darkening so unhealthy I know! I've got my first scan booked next week so I'm 🙏 this is our time and this baby is healthy. I think you'll know yourself as soon as you're ready. Myself and my partner ended up deciding just to not try to get pregnant but not prevent it either then it worked as I believe not obsessing over it allowed us to relax and enjoy each others company more. I wish you all the best and am happy to answer any questions you may have obviously I'm not a medical professional but I've lived it so can share that. Sorry for the long post 😂🤦🏻♀️ xx
Thank you so much for your comment lovely, super helpful! Huge congrats!! Wishing nothing but positivity and luck xxxxx
How are you and baby?
I lost my first pregnancy at almost 4 months. Had 5 miscarriages. Now I’m too old to have kids I guess. Breaks my heart because I always wanted a baby and now it’s not possible. Not only did I waist my life on a abusive jerk only to get away finally when it’s too late for marriage and children but I just lost a kidney to cancer. It takes serious strength to survive loss and keep going. You are a strong woman so never give up on hope. Please take care of yourself and do what you need to do to get to feeling better. My prayers are with you
I hope you are okay
We love you❤ you know different ❤
@@slindelomkhize3787 I’m getting there thank you :)
My first pregnancy was twin boys of which I was losing a lot of blood so had to have dnc scrap an blood transfusion then my son I had successfully he’s now 10 and I had stillborn identical twin boys which was awful 😢 but it’s definitely possible to be pregnant sending baby dust to u beautiful xxxxx
Both myself and my Mum had a miscarriage and fell pregnant 6 weeks later (my mum miscarried and then became pregnant with me). Apparently your body is prepared for a pregnancy so it’s supposed to be easier to get pregnant. But you need to make sure you’re ready. Losing a baby is a hard thing to deal with and sometimes getting pregnant straight away can make the grieving process a lot harder. Look after yourself, it will happen for you again.
Totally agree xxxx
Did you not ovulate until 6 weeks later? Or..? Currently still waiting to ovulate.. cycle day 28 so almost 4 weeks after miscarriage.
I didn’t ovulate until 6 weeks later but my cycle is irregular so was pretty normal for me.
@@bollyRAINBOW14 thanks for replying! Yes when I got pregnant in September I ovulated on cycle day 27. So I'm wondering if it will push me back even farther. My body tried to ovulate around CD 14 I had the egg white & all but no pos OPK. Now currently waiting still ... Cervix seems to constantly be high and soft.
The ovulation tests detect LH which is the hormone that tells your body to ovulate 😊 so they’re not actually detecting ovulation but predicting when it’s most likely to happen and you can definitely get positive ovulation tests for a few days in a row as your levels of LH rise 😊 if you are concerned that they’re picking up residual HCG, take a pregnancy test (if it’s not too difficult)
Thanks so much for the advice super super helpful xxxx
Hey, I had a miscarriage 3 months ago. Was certain I was ready to try straight away. Honestly the miscarriage hit me much harder after the first month. I needed more time to grieve. I am finally getting back to the idea that we should try again. I hope things get easier for you. The ovulation tests and pregnancy tests can get a bit obsessive if you let them. Much love ❤❤❤
Oh my goodness they are aren't they!! Are you going to use them again? Best of luck to you xx
@@Eltoria I think I'll try to stay away from them for the time being. They set you up for a lot of disappointment and I haven't found them to be super accurate either x
Only half way the video while I start to comment. So let’s hope it fits the video.
Just wanted to tell you my experience on getting pregnant after miscarriages. I fel pregnant after trying for over a year. Then had an early miscarriage at 5 weeks. Got pregnant again 2 weeks later but miscarried again this time at 8 weeks. I was anxious I would never be able to be a mom. So we started a whole proces of finding out why this was happening. Ultrasounds then showed me I was going to ovulate. I was so done with the actively aiming for a baby but I also didn’t want to miss the chance. So we just gave it a go. We tried once that cycle! I got pregnant again and now I am 36 weeks pregnant! ( but in reality I got pregnant in April and I am ‘still’ am pregnant) So yes you can get pregnant right away. I would never discourage anyone from doing that. I know what it’s like when you have no children. But it did come with some horrible extras. I was so anxious and still grieving. Also I was extra extra fatigued. So moral of my story is I will not blame anyone for trying straight away but if it doesn’t work consider that a given time that you can use to recover! Wish everyone all the best in their journey to parenthood!
Fabulous advice lovely
I had a miscarriage a week ago but my ovulation tests did not show ovulating. I am going to continue to track AM and PM but likely I won't start trying until I am at 2 weeks.
I had a miscarriage with my first pregnancy at 6 weeks in January and still am not sure now in April if I’m ovulating again 😩 I got pregnant within the first month trying originally but not able to get pregnant since so feeling a little defeated.
I had HCG in my system for over 3 weeks after my miscarriage. I was advised not to try until I had a negative pregnancy test then wait a full cycle after that just so my body was ready again and they could accurately date the pregnancy. But they also said not to worry if I got pregnant straight away. Good luck to you both xx
I know the advice is so conflicting!! I guess it comes down to YOUR body xxx
I had a miscarrage New Years day 2 years ago, I fell pregnant 2 months afterwards ( I wasnt trying ) and gave birth in November 2021, March 2022 I fell pregnant again ( without trying) and gave birth Decmember 2022! I now have a healthy boy and girl. I never wanted kids, sworn I would never have any the miscarrage I had I only just accepted I was pregnant the day I lost the baby and because off that acceptance I wanted one in the futuer, I never imaged having 2 straight after 😂 if you truely want another give it ago! If not thats okay to, theres no set time for grief. I still think about my baby 2 years later, what gender would it have been, they would be starting school soon, what would thier fav movie would be. Its okay xx
I totally feek you as I lost my 7 weeks baby on 27.01. 🥺😢Just after few days I saw your insta post about what happened to you. It is very hard,but we need to pass it and try again. Hugs and kisses🤗😘
awh babe so sorry to hear this
@@Eltoria 🤗😘🤗😘
I miscarried and got pregnant again less than a month later. It’s definitely possible. We weren’t actually trying to get pregnant, so it might be different for everyone.
Oh woweee thats amazing xxx
It will happen again beautiful
It will be your rainbow baby
Your baby in heaven is watching you and will celebrate your next pregnancy with you
I unfortunately haven't had that chance
Going through 3 miscarriages in a row was the most painful experience
Then people telling me I'm not a real mum
Yes I am
I'm a mum to 3 angels
People say you shouldn't name them but I did for my closure
Angel
Faith
Hope
All in heaven and all heavenly names
I had a miscarriage just before I got pregnant with my first born.
I did not get a period in between.
Now she is 4 years old ❤
Oh how wonderful xxxx
Hi hun, I just saw your last video, I just wanna say, don’t get obsessed with this, you will have a baby, I’ve had 5 miscarriages and also 5 kids. You need to look after your mental health and give yourself and your partner a little time to grieve. It will happen I promise ❤️❤️❤️
Absolutely completely agree with you! So easy to obsess over it xxx
Let nature take its course don't add unnecessary stress to yourself.let your body take its own time don't force anything.then when things happen you will feel more at ease and relaxed.
agree agree :) xxx
Its Hcg hormone. Human chorionic gonadotropin
I'd say: Don't force it, but if you're ready, maybe it's the right time for you. Everybody's body is different. I wish you all the best.
Absolutely agree! Thank you lovely xxx
I think you need to just try and have fun 😉 as a couple and see what happens ♥️ You don't want to take the sparkle out of the romance, I always say what will be will be leave it to the universe xx
Absolutely agree!! xxx
Folic Acid can help with pregnancy, here's the information I found "It's important to take a 400 micrograms folic acid tablet every day before you're pregnant and until you're 12 weeks pregnant. Folic acid can help prevent birth defects known as neural tube defects, including spina bifida".
Had a mc 1/27/2023
My hcg went to 0
2/26 i.got a peak opk
Anyone experience something similar and got a bfp.?
I am sorry for your loss I have 2 miscarriage Second one be in November just go wishing you all the best x
Awh babe sorry to hear that! Best of luck to you xxx
@@Eltoria ❤️
Just had a miscarriage on February 21 and i was so sad and cried alot but was ready to start again . Started ovulating about cycle day 9 and had my peak on cycle day 13 and ovulation 14 now im in my tww! Wishing we all get our rainbow baby!! Plus my ovulation strips were positive but I didnt get any ewcm. Cant wait to see my doctor and talk to her about this.
I am in the exact same scenario, it’s been two weeks since my miscarriage and we’ve started trying again. 🤞🏼
Fingers crossed for you guys xxx
@@Eltoria Thank you so so much! Really hope it happens for you again soon too ❤️
Hey Iam in the same situation today😢 how did it go for u?
@@Dalbhat17 fell pregnant twice after this and had two more miscarriages 😢 fingers crossed for you xx
@@hollyjohnson2571 sorry you're going through this. I just had my 4th miscarriage. Have they ran testing to figure out why that has happened to you? Hope things get better!
I'd take a pregnancy test to check that the hgc has left your system. If you get a negative then you can probably assume that these ovulation tests were accurate. I've had 2 missed miscarriages and they were horrendous. No one can prepare you for the emotional turmoil you go through. I personally found the aftercare shockingly awful. I felt so lost with no guidance on how to deal with my grief
Completely agree, the aftercare is shocking! x
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Since the male sperm has the ability to live inside the female body here's the window 5 days before ovulation, day of ,and 24-48 hours after . Here's my story I being raised Catholic used the Rythem method as birth control. I ended up with 3 children really young. Went against my mother got divorced and my tubes tired . I was 23 getting my tubes tied . No one should make those kind of decisions at that age . I remarried at 30 he of course wanted to have a baby . We got my tubes untied . It's an elective surgery and even 22 years ago was very expensive. I had the surgery in March and was pregnant in November. I miscarried on Thanksgiving. I was devastated. We had done the ovulation test. I had this tiny stuffed animal for the baby already . I still have it today . After I stopped grieving. I would not go back to the ovulation test . It was to much pressure. Month after month nothing. I went back to work and really stopped thinking about having a baby . Thinking they told us there were no guarantees it would work. Finally I got pregnant. That baby just turned 20 February 26th 💙 My advice ditch the ovulation test for a bit at least . I unfortunately had a miscarriage after my last baby . Then 2 ectopic pregnancies. The last one I thought I was really going to have another baby . Carried that one till 9 weeks. Almost died myself . From the surgeries I had built up scar tissue and my fertilized eggs were getting caught in scar tissue . So I encourage all women to be really certain before they choose sterilization. My children are all grown now . I love them endlessly. Sending hugs 💙💚🍀
Good luck sweety X sending you bucket loads of baby dust
Thanks gorgeous :) xxxx
@@Eltoria your welcome sweety X took me 13 yrs to have my 🌈 baby
Give your self some time and pray for you...
I lost twins 14 weeks stopped growing at 9 has a d and c November 2019, I had a healthy baby girl November 2020 , I lost another baby the same way in July and now 20 weeks pregnant I think falling pregnant after can happen quicker and also helps you heal ❤️ your baby will never be forgotten 💜
I also think that trying helps when you’ve had a miscarriage it makes you crave a baby more in my opinion 🥺
It ok It not messy love It and love u
@@Eltoria no problem
Maybe take a pregnancy test as I'm having the same issues atm zxxxx
Yes I think I shall :) I had medical results back so will share them this week xxxx
Auww ok have a great weekend
have a great weekend too x
Start taking folic acid it's meant to really help.
Started that ages ago xxx
I ovulate 7 days before my period ALWAYS
Oh really!? It might've been correct then! xx
@@Eltoria yes probably and I've never used birth control of any form and I have 2sons and still never got pregnant when I didn't want too and my youngest is 22 ....no more baby's for me
GOOD LUCK 👍 ❤❤
My name is Louisa Jones #saveneighbours
It’s Ovulation not “OOOWWWvulation”
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