WHY DID I HAVE A MISCARRIAGE? *Opening My MEDICAL RESULTS!*

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  • Answers as to why I miscarried. Miscarriages and pregnancy loss is a very hard thing to go through. I hope reading out my own medical results can help.
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Komentáře • 88

  • @Eltoria
    @Eltoria  Před 2 lety +13

    Just thought I'd give you all an update

    • @susanwonnacott9556
      @susanwonnacott9556 Před 2 lety

      Sorry to hear you both received sad news , I had a miscarriage at 9 wks but wasn’t until scan at 12 wks my world shattered , it is very emotional when both are in a journey and bout couples grieve differently , I then became pregnant with my eldest no trying months later , healthy pregnancy , when pregnant with Sascha she was a twin , unfortunately only madam survived , healthy chunky lil madam , Altho now in her teens has she health issues but Sasch was born into the world .There are no words nor knowledge to understand why we suffer very upsetting pregnancies relating to having a miscarriage , I do However feel if the timing is right it’ll happen , if not , as upsetting as the journey is , it’s not meant to be .. I do hope your healing well my lovely ! If you ever pop in to Mk happy to meet up with you and lil Sasch madam is nearing 17 now! Getting into the makeup industry with college sept !! Any tips for her ? Xx 😘
      Lots of love and healing hugs my lovely xxx

  • @margaretthomas8779
    @margaretthomas8779 Před 2 lety +14

    Glad everything is okay. I had a miscarriage on my first pregnancy and the doctor said one in five pregnancies naturally terminate in first trimester due to the foetus not being viable. Wishing you all the best for the future xx

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety +1

      Thanks so much lovely xx

  • @ChelseaBudgets
    @ChelseaBudgets Před 2 lety +16

    Unfortunately most times there isn’t a reason that you will know after a miscarriage. It isn’t anything you did! Usually a miscarriage is your body saying something isn’t right and stopping it. I had one at 12 weeks and will never know why either. I did get pregnant two months later and now have a rainbow baby!! Good luck

  • @happyjayne2724
    @happyjayne2724 Před 2 lety

    Oh dear girl, brave of you to share the results. I know, as a nurse, sometimes things ‘just happen’, which adds to the pain and frustration. I am certain the embryo, better known as your baby, simply was not viable. Good that you are feeling stronger and got tested. The best thing is your results are all normal. Keep on enjoying each moment in your life. It will happen when it is meant to happen. Again you both have my deepest condolences on the loss of your baby. 💜💜💜💜from🇨🇦

  • @jeanniekartis5916
    @jeanniekartis5916 Před 2 lety +14

    Aw glad everything is ok...sometimes there are just no answers....Id like to know why I got cancer twice but Ive just decided not to think about it anymore. I know having a healthy baby will happen for you ! 👶💗

  • @gennee1106
    @gennee1106 Před 2 lety +3

    Hope you’re okay 💜I can’t begin to imagine how strong you are xx

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety +3

      Thanks gorgeous, I’m well thank you hope you are too xx

  • @paulettemoore47
    @paulettemoore47 Před 2 lety +6

    Thanks for sharing your results. You are doing the right thing to relax and take care of yourself. It will happen when you least expect it.
    That’s what happened for me. My son is now 22 years old. 🥰

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety +1

      awhh woweee amazing xx

  • @tmobz
    @tmobz Před 2 lety +2

    I am an absolute firm believer that everything happens at a particular time for a reason, whether we know the reason or not, and this wasn’t the right for you guys. Relax and have fun with the making part. I was so so glad to hear that you aren’t going to chart things, it’s meant to be fun!
    I hope what I’m about to share gives you hope rather than seeming smug
    I’ve had different degrees of an eating disorder for about 14 years and I didn’t have a period for over 10 years. I was so desperate to have a baby and I was CONVINCED that I’d ruined my chances. But randomly my periods came back late August 2020. Bought my hubby round to the idea of children (I was 34 I’m getting on blah blah blah). We started trying beginning of December 2020, I promised him he’d get lots of practice coz it would probably takes ages…
    Today, as I write this I’m looking at my snoring 6 month old (just let you do the maths). I honestly think the more you stress and worry and look for answers the harder it gets. You’ve done your bloods and you are healthy, that’s all you are going to have to definitely pin your dreams on.
    I look forward to happier times for you. I think you are super amazingly strong for sharing all this, I hate the idea that you aren’t meant to tell people before 12 weeks, it was the longest time I felt the worst (I was pretty ill at the end, but that’s a different story.) and if I had been unlucky the thought of having to explain everything when I would’ve been devastated would’ve been too much, we are allowed to talk about it, so thank you for putting things in the process to normalise things xx

  • @racheld691
    @racheld691 Před 2 lety +2

    I have now had 3 miscarriages and 1 healthy boy (now 15yr old). It doesn't get any easier when or if it happens again but most people go onto have a completely healthy pregnancy after a miscarriage. Plenty of baby dust your way 💫

  • @CookieMunstaaa
    @CookieMunstaaa Před 2 lety

    You look and sound like you are mentally better place which is fantastic ❤️ sending love! Xx

  • @abegailtheresa2816
    @abegailtheresa2816 Před 2 lety

    So sorry this happened to you. Never know the answer but you’re reason to why it happened it was probably from that since all you’re blood work came up ok. Don’t stress about it to much sometimes it just not meant to be which sucks but we have no control over it. It will happen for you one day don’t give up or get discouraged. You’re gonna be a wonderful mom. 🖤💜 all you can do is stay positive and hope for the best. Sending my love and positive vibes your way.

  • @blondel8408
    @blondel8408 Před 2 lety

    Sending you lots of love darling. You’ve been in my thoughts

  • @kirstennewport1320
    @kirstennewport1320 Před 2 lety

    I’m So Sorry You Couldn’t Find Out Why You Miscarried ❤️
    Sending Good Luck 🍀 And Baby Dust ✨👶

  • @gwynethglas-brown9171
    @gwynethglas-brown9171 Před 2 lety

    Sadly sometimes we never know why a miscarriage happens 🥺.
    Lovley to see you 🥰.
    How are you both doing ? Take care

  • @tarablakesley375
    @tarablakesley375 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for sharing these and I hope you are okay 💕 sharing your story has helped me. I had a missed miscarriage this month following IVF so had surgery to remove. One day for us 🌈🌈

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety

      Oh I am so sorry to hear this, yes keeping fingers crossed for you xx

  • @christiwright3604
    @christiwright3604 Před 2 lety

    I’m so glad that there’s nothing wrong that they can pinpoint that would have caused the miscarriage! Sometimes miscarriages just happen! Good luck 🍀 and good vibes for the next pregnancy 🤰

  • @greamepenney5947
    @greamepenney5947 Před 2 lety

    Glad to see your bouncing back,and that you have such a positive attitude. little tip start taking folic acid .

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety +1

      I am on ALLL the vits haha x

  • @ninasong774
    @ninasong774 Před 2 lety

    It’s a very different situation, but in the past it has taken me 3 years to receive an answer as to why I had joint pain. I was 8 when the joint pain first started and got a chronic pain diagnosis at the age of 11.
    Now I am going through the diagnosis process again because I have had several abdominal pain for 6 months and I still don’t have any answers as to what is causing the pain.
    So, while it is a very different situation, I understand how frustrating it can be when all the tests come back normal.

  • @chrisroylance3109
    @chrisroylance3109 Před 2 lety

    My daughter-in-law had many miscarriages after having a normal pregnancy. On her last miscarriage they sent it to great ormand street for tests and she has found out she has a chromosome imbalance which means she can only have another baby by IVF, they said it was a miracle that she already had a child. Trouble is because she has one child they can’t gave IVF on NHS and it’s too costly for them.

  • @emmab5007
    @emmab5007 Před 2 lety +1

    I had 3 miscarriages before i fell pregnant with my little girl who is now 5 6 at the end of the month. We thought i would not happen we were just about to go for testing when we found out we were 6 weeks pregnant. Fingers crossed for you both. I hope it all goes ok. Xx

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety

      Awh how amazing!! So sorry you had a few miscarriages, they aren’t nice x

    • @emmab5007
      @emmab5007 Před 2 lety

      @@Eltoria I just want to let you know you are not alone. I have two healthy little ones 3 year old boy as well. Xx

  • @noname-ou3qj
    @noname-ou3qj Před 2 lety

    Im 25 and ive had three miscarriages (uk as well) they refused to check why ive had them as i had my daughter who is now 4 in the middle of them. They said they will never know why so wont test me 😥

  • @Kate-yo8pm
    @Kate-yo8pm Před 2 lety +1

    Thoughts are with you lyyy

  • @piacecilieskjringrud6059

    It doesn’t necessarily have to be physical health issues that cause miscarriage, it can also be psychological, like stress, anxiety or depression

  • @1027vvergara
    @1027vvergara Před rokem

    The Universe knows it's timing 🥰🫶🏽 the month I got pregnant was when I actually stopped tracking. No BBT taking. Just checked ovulation was when it was (I had normal periods) & baby danced around that time & used Preseed.. & I KNEW & FELT time of conception & even then I waited patiently until my missed period to test 🙌🏽 NO STRESS BABES 💜 sending baby dust

  • @michellesandford8797
    @michellesandford8797 Před 2 lety

    Sadly it’s natures way of saying it wasn’t time and wasn’t right. I’ve had 2 miscarriages but also had 2 straight forward pregnancies I did nothing g different with any of them. Sometimes it’s easier to just take time to move on rather than trying to figure out the reason. It will happen and it will be wonderful so try not to overthink, let your body relax recover and do what it does when the times right x

  • @Poppyy2021
    @Poppyy2021 Před rokem

    That’s why you are usually put on iron tablets by the doctor when you find out when your pregnant and if your trying for a baby it’s very important to take iron tablets before you even get pregnant

  • @GenSEmery
    @GenSEmery Před 2 lety

    Hi I'm a nurse in the NHS and I work in Bristol I wanted to pm you some info but insta won't let me!

  • @EmmaDharlin
    @EmmaDharlin Před 2 lety

    it can sometimes be that your body can't carry a certain gender. my friend miscarried 3 times and then times she did have a baby they were girls, the drs think that her body doesn't like having boys xx

  • @ramblingsare..infinite

    There’s always answers I’ve had 6 and was told all the time my levels was normal… told nothing was wrong and no answers what worked was upping my folic acid so my guesses was low folate ….. there’s always answers it’s just if you find them … goodluck on your journey x

    • @ramblingsare..infinite
      @ramblingsare..infinite Před 2 lety

      And by me saying there’s always answers I don’t mean like anyone is to blame I just mean the tests at the time for you was normal but can fluctuate every woman is ment to take folic acid during child baring years anyway 400mg I’ve upped mine and with doctors recommendations aswell but I was told everytime all tests normal scans normal even got tested for certain disorders such as celiac most autoimmune disorders all fine upping my folic acid fortunately has worked x

  • @mattmulleary1302
    @mattmulleary1302 Před 2 lety

    Im so sorry

  • @lauramcwhinnie4978
    @lauramcwhinnie4978 Před 2 lety

    Hope your ok, appetite blood type can be a problem too I'm o resis - negative and I have to have anti d cause my blood type fights pregnancy x

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety +1

      Oh thats so interesting, didnt know that xxxx

    • @lauramcwhinnie4978
      @lauramcwhinnie4978 Před 2 lety

      @@Eltoria yeah 0 resis - blood has more white cells in the blood which fights of foreign bodies in the blood I suffered a miscarriage years ago and they told me it was my blood type that clashed with my partners blood at the time x

  • @jadelouiselaird
    @jadelouiselaird Před 2 lety

    Did they do any tests on the miscarriage tissue, when i had my miscarriage they tested the tissue and i found out i had a molar pregnancy same thing happend to a friend. I didnt find out till 2 months after the miscarriage

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety

      hey lovely no they didn't xxx

  • @jasminerodman
    @jasminerodman Před rokem

    Mine was rh incompatibility.. I have o- blood type and my baby had a positive blood type

  • @hollymarcus9284
    @hollymarcus9284 Před 2 lety

    Sometimes miscarriages can be a problem with the embryos genetics abs nothing to do with the mother. If there is a genetic fault in the embryo that would stop development it will often terminate the pregnancy itself because it wouldn’t grow any further ❤️

  • @michelle10150
    @michelle10150 Před 2 lety

    Hope you’re ok. I lost mine on the same day at 7 weeks 2 days. My doctor wouldn’t do any tests. Can I ask how you got them to do any tests please?

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety +1

      Hey lovely I am all good thanks, hope you are too

    • @michelle10150
      @michelle10150 Před 2 lety

      Fingers crossed that it happens when you’re ready again xx

  • @ameliairis1616
    @ameliairis1616 Před 2 lety

    Did you get this done through the nhs?

  • @michaeladaly7102
    @michaeladaly7102 Před 2 lety

    Hope your well

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety

      I am dong well thanks babe xx

  • @francescawhittingham9876

    Unfortunately, these things just happen sometimes and sometimes baby isn't viable. I'm sure good things are coming your way. :)

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety

      Thanks lovely fingers crossed xx

  • @katiehaslam3647
    @katiehaslam3647 Před 2 lety

    I had a miscarriage doctor said perfectly normal have lost of wemen have miscarriage I lost a baby at 7-weeks so they thought I had high chromosomes

  • @naughtykitty1981
    @naughtykitty1981 Před 2 lety

    How are you doing? Hope you are doing well. Well wishes to you

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety

      I am doing well thanks babe xx

  • @lydiat242
    @lydiat242 Před 2 lety +1

    l think its brave of u too talk about this topic many women suffer in silence with but why diddnt they take any hormone test like estrogen and progesterone , low progesterone is the most common cause of misscarages

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety

      Ooooh didnt know that xxx

  • @kathleensorajakarsodikromo3858

    Auww so sad hope your oke

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety

      I am well thanks babe ♥️

  • @nicoladobson7161
    @nicoladobson7161 Před 2 lety

    What do you ask your doctor to get your blood work do please

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety +1

      I pretty much asked/demanded a few days after the miscarriage xx

    • @nicoladobson7161
      @nicoladobson7161 Před 2 lety

      @@Eltoria thanks you xx

  • @calvinliu6304
    @calvinliu6304 Před 2 lety

    Hello xxx

  • @angeIa
    @angeIa Před 2 lety +1

    some people share too much man

    • @MissSmurfey
      @MissSmurfey Před rokem

      Then don't watch 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @angeIa
      @angeIa Před rokem

      @@MissSmurfey i didnt 😘

    • @MissSmurfey
      @MissSmurfey Před rokem

      @@angeIa then leave the channel why comment? 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @angeIa
      @angeIa Před rokem

      @@MissSmurfey literally posted this 8 months ago, leave

    • @angeIa
      @angeIa Před rokem

      @@MissSmurfey miss fucking smurfey 😭😭

  • @darlenefrancis5380
    @darlenefrancis5380 Před 2 lety

    Are you Rh negative?

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  Před 2 lety

      don't think so love xx

    • @darlenefrancis5380
      @darlenefrancis5380 Před 2 lety

      @@Eltoria I am Rh negative and my body would see my baby as an invader and try to reject it, I didn’t get the test until my second pregnancy and I had to take a special shot in order to hold on to the pregnancy my blood type is O-

  • @jaguarrior
    @jaguarrior Před 2 lety

    Unfortunately miscarriages are just something that happens, without ever being able to know the reason. It could be something as simple as the fetus not attaching properly. It's nothing you did to cause it. I've had two miscarriages myself, but thankfully I do know the cause for mine.

    • @charlenekennell4746
      @charlenekennell4746 Před rokem

      Sometimes there's can be an issue that you can know about. Like low progesterone.

  • @w1p3ou7
    @w1p3ou7 Před 2 lety +1

    Maybe you took the vaccine ( if you did ) before pregnancy ? A nurse told me that women who are planning to have a baby are advised to not take the vaccine.

  • @artemivanov435
    @artemivanov435 Před 2 lety

    nlbb1h
    VUR.FYI