What Happens During a Miscarriage: My First Pregnancy Experience

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  • čas přidán 1. 08. 2024
  • Before everyone freaks out, baby number 2 is still in my belly and is developing well.
    I filmed and refilmed this a couple of times because I forgot how emotional it was. I'm just hoping that this video helps whoever that has gone through a miscarriage and not know what to do.
    Remember to take as much as you need before trying again for your next child. Your mental and emotional health is more important than anything else.
    0:00 - Intro
    0:42 - How often do Miscarriages Occur
    1:21 - How we found out we were pregnant the first time
    2:47 - How we were told to prepare for the worst
    3:56 - Confirming the bad news
    5:57 - What ACTUALLY happens during a miscarriage
    10:48 - How grieving helped us emotionally
    13:21 - What Happened After
    13:59 - How we got pregnant again
    14:45 - Tips to overcome an episode of a miscarriage
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Komentáře • 43

  • @AmanderVlogs
    @AmanderVlogs  Před 6 měsíci +74

    Thanks for watching this video. Here's a virtual hug for all that needs it. ♥

    • @cynthiaaaanggg
      @cynthiaaaanggg Před 6 měsíci +3

      HEY amanda, i personally cried too and also felt you, my adopted mom also lose me too and i know how exactly you feel. i am adopted and knew it only at the age of 24. it hits me hurt to lose my mum too and even dad as well. both parents were gone when im just an infant. no memories of them at all. when you cried, i just wanted to hold you and hug you and grieving alongside with you. God bless you babe and the baby in you. have a smooth delivery

    • @4klover4kpop
      @4klover4kpop Před 6 měsíci +1

      i’m so sorry u had to go through that and baby asher will always be in heaven proud of u and baby no.2 will be as proud as asher that u are their mother💗 Cg amander!

    • @jolenekoi
      @jolenekoi Před 5 měsíci

      Hey Amanda, been through similar experience as you just last year september too, so thank you for sharing this experience and to let other know that they are not alone in this, and also waiting for my rainbow baby to come by soon 😊

    • @CinnaAndKuro27
      @CinnaAndKuro27 Před měsícem

      You need it too,

    • @Luka-f7m
      @Luka-f7m Před 23 dny

      ​@@CinnaAndKuro27I like your pfp

  • @amylim4760
    @amylim4760 Před 5 měsíci +24

    I feel you, Amander. I miss my second too, I hope you feel better, your angel is up there looking at you, giving you all you need. We are her for you Amander.

  • @reginachua129
    @reginachua129 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Hey Amander, thank you for sharing your personal story, I can totally relate to it and I do miss my baby number one sometimes. I can still exactly remember what was gushed out from me in the toilet alone. Sending you love, have a happy and healthy second pregnancy!

  • @aarushi_0t7
    @aarushi_0t7 Před 5 měsíci +21

    i know that your angel is watching over you in heaven and is very proud of you Amander! take care, we love you ♥

  • @nancyn7576
    @nancyn7576 Před 5 měsíci +4

    ❤❤thank you for sharing this I know this take a lot of courage thank you 🙏 sending virtual hug. I’m praying for you and your second pregnancy to have a safe pregnancy 🤰🏻🙏🙏🙏. “It is well with my soul”

  • @hayhay0317
    @hayhay0317 Před 5 měsíci +7

    I was crying throughout the whole video🥲. No mum should experience this but I can see that you and your husband are very strong❤. Thank you so much for sharing your experience💞

  • @nel3762
    @nel3762 Před 5 měsíci +1

    You're so strong 💗 we love you

  • @mihikanavandar238
    @mihikanavandar238 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Wow I am speechless, you guys are so strong! Just so you know Baby Asher will always be proud of you! 🤍✨

  • @claireceeteetang3459
    @claireceeteetang3459 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Thank you for sharing! But now you are actually pregnant and I pray for a healthy baby!

  • @zacklee22
    @zacklee22 Před 6 měsíci +6

    How are you ☺️ Amander and I am Zack from Malaysia and I really like the video 📹 and pls have a wonderful CNY next weekend

  • @tiarun392
    @tiarun392 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Hello Amander. First of all, thank you for sharing your experience. I cannot imagine the difficulties of such an experience and would just like to say that it is very brave of you to share such a personal experience with us all. Also, I am very grateful for such a platform cause I, personally, do not see myself as a mom in the future. And I feel like, your experience and views of that experience can help others feel better and get better.
    Also, many congratulations for your pregnancy and wish you the very best in this new journey.

    • @AmanderVlogs
      @AmanderVlogs  Před 5 měsíci +3

      It’s okay to not see yourself as a mom :) I have friends who also feel the same way.
      Being a mom is just not for everyone, especially in this day and age where women actually have a CHOICE :) the most important thing is to be happy and cherish life.

  • @lilysyoutubewatch4165
    @lilysyoutubewatch4165 Před 6 měsíci +3

    It will be all okay in time ❤ And I’ll be praying

  • @user-zt3ke6ul2n
    @user-zt3ke6ul2n Před 5 měsíci +1

    U are very strong dear , keep fighting ❤❤❤

  • @jaceyrebekaleong521
    @jaceyrebekaleong521 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank u for sharing your experiences!!!

  • @kittypoo1983
    @kittypoo1983 Před 6 měsíci +10

    Take very very good care. You are so lucky to conceive so soon after the demise of the 1st baby. take very good care. no caffeine stuff no raw food and dun over exert yourself. You are very blessed.

  • @juliett1113
    @juliett1113 Před 5 měsíci +7

    jiayou!! Really not easy to talk about this. sending love to you and your family ❤🫂

  • @Szuminn
    @Szuminn Před 6 měsíci +40

    Thank you Amander for sharing your raw and vulnerable experience with us. ❤ Can see that it really pains you even now but I’m glad that you and Wei En have openly acknowledged and undergone the process of allowing yourselves to grieve. God is always looking out for us, just know that he loves and cares for you all 🥰 Excited and looking forward to Baby Low number 2’s arrival, the baby is very blessed to have such loving parents 🎉☺️ God bless!

    • @AmanderVlogs
      @AmanderVlogs  Před 5 měsíci +14

      Thank you so much :) it’s hard also knowing that so many women go through this but don’t have an outlet to talk about it.

    • @LovelyBLINK1169
      @LovelyBLINK1169 Před 5 měsíci +3

      You are soo strong to talk about such a sensitive topic 👏🏻👏🏻​@@AmanderVlogs

  • @flinflon6601
    @flinflon6601 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Thank you for sharing this :) this is exactly what I experienced last year and similarly I didn't expect it to be like a literal birthing experience. By sharing this, hopefully there will be more awareness on this :)

    • @AmanderVlogs
      @AmanderVlogs  Před 5 měsíci +3

      Likewise! It’s so crazy how miscarriage and labour have similar experiences physiologically, but just with different results.
      Thank you for sharing :)

    • @LovelyBLINK1169
      @LovelyBLINK1169 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Baby low 2 will be a great healthy baby ​@@AmanderVlogs

  • @beckaraj4510
    @beckaraj4510 Před 5 měsíci +9

    Me too ate confinement food after i miscarriaged(encouraged by my mom and friends) but my MIL thought i was being extra for doing it so 😅 thank you for sharing this so that many people out there can be educated on this.

    • @AmanderVlogs
      @AmanderVlogs  Před 5 měsíci +6

      There’s a lot of people out there who go through it, I figured I should step up and share so that others won’t feel guilty or embarrassed about what they’ve gone through.
      Confinement food is actually really good for renourishing the body as going through “labour” takes a lot from your body. Good choice taking confinement food!

  • @sherry6710
    @sherry6710 Před 5 měsíci

    ❤❤❤ hugs

  • @jeanhueyning8995
    @jeanhueyning8995 Před 5 měsíci +1

    My mom experienced that my big brother is supposed to have a twin brother but one of the eggs was out of shape like yours 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @lynnana1
    @lynnana1 Před 5 měsíci

    Sending virtual hugs 🤎

  • @ChhunnayOeng
    @ChhunnayOeng Před 5 měsíci

    This next baby will be a rainbow baby❤ feel well Amanda ❤❤

  • @chuayeeleng3890
    @chuayeeleng3890 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Hi Amander would like to ask which gynae did you go now cause I’m planning to change my gynae.

    • @AmanderVlogs
      @AmanderVlogs  Před 5 měsíci +6

      I actually go to NUH :) they have a very experience OBGYN department overall.

    • @chuayeeleng3890
      @chuayeeleng3890 Před 5 měsíci

      @@AmanderVlogs Ok. Thank you so much

  • @KingTyler5417
    @KingTyler5417 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Happy Groundhog Day, Amander and sorry for you're miscarriage.

  • @rollingmantiss9396
    @rollingmantiss9396 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I wish i could hug you 🫂🫂

  • @dragon5064
    @dragon5064 Před 5 měsíci

    .

  • @SakshiSingh-pc4lv
    @SakshiSingh-pc4lv Před 5 měsíci +1

    wasn't juhi her bestei?