Answering Awkward Period Questions
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- čas přidán 7. 06. 2024
- Hello loves, We are finally answering all of your burning questions regarding periods.
Share with us some of your weirdest period stories, we would love to hear them!
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Hello again! do you like videos like this, should we do more?♡
Hello:)
Yess, this vid came in the perfect time 🤡
I am on my period i am in pain :(
Yes
yes
i literally love that you don't get shy to talk about those topics
so trueee
Yaaa
Why should we ?
Why would anybody be shy about it. I didn't even know that being embarrassed about periods is a thing
its very normal so there is nothing to be embarrass
(my spelling is not the best)
Ladies first makes people open minded, ladies first give confidence, ladies first tells about so much things which are not know to us, ladies first is the best channel literally one can get so much knowledge🙌
Ladies first if we ask them to jump of the plane or building if something is about to get crashed would they fall first or jump out first :)
All 9f these is common sense actually.
"Everyone should go through it."
Every male: *Intense sweating*
That's what I was think6
That’s ok gyus… or maybe
When you nut too much and you unlocked the red skin:
( stolen from reddit )
@@notsocath5371 LMAO
@@notsocath5371 lol
My period started when I was 11. Actually, for 1st 3 days of my first period, I thought that I have a very small injury (as I bleed very little). Then, on the 3rd night of my first period, my elder sister was telling me what periods are. I think she just felt that it was my correct age to know. When she completed, I said that I am experiencing the very same thing for 3 days!! She just gave me a pad, told me how to wear it and we went to sleep. That's all, thanks for reading.
Same mine too
Same I’m 11 rn and I didnt know what it was
I got it when I was ten years and eight months, but I already knew about it so I didn’t freak out.?
Mine start at the age of 9 1/2 and I just 10 in october
@@NabihaY oh
Jas is like the devil whispering in my ear.
Hell YEH !! Jasmine will kill me if she whispers in my ear 👂
lol
lol
HAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHA
Lol
Watching these kind of videos with Jasmine in it really feels like she's right next to you and like a big sister.
She is our sister!! Haha!
Ya ikr
ikr!
大姐
yes right
I started my period late last month and it was when I woke up to go to school, later that day, when I was at school I had to take my PRELIMS. yes. And halfway through the paper, I felt really uneasy and uncomfortable. When I asked to go to the toilet,I looked at my seat and I BLED ALL OVER THE SEAT! I was so traumatized and clueless. I really didn't know what to do. And now I feel like I shouldn't be ashamed of anything after watching this video🥰
Thanks for sharing ☺️ it’s so normal for that to happen especially when you first get your period
it happens to a lot of people
I knew what period means at a very young age so i didnt have that much problems
You shouldn't be embarrassed
It's a normal thing to have periods and it goddamn sucks 😭
what prelims?ur 12?
0:40 those who get their period for 10 days , im soo sorry😫, sending hugs.
Not 10 but 7
@@Pats_diary2010 same :(
Once I got it for 13-15 days, but then after that I didn't get it for a month. It was great not having my period for a month😀
@@haripriyakr holyyy shitakeee, 13-15!??!!? That mustve suckeddd.
yea...my period usually lasts for abt 8-10 days :(
My Girlfriend Tried Her First Tampon At The Age Of 17 and I Helped Her Insert that Tampon and From that Day We Have Been So Comfortable With Each Other That We Do Literally Everything Together Without Being Ashamed
That’s some good respect
@@melissanguyen6118 are you a sibling of Lisa Nguyen?
A food youtuber/tiktoker
tell me where to order such boyfriend
@@emm7510 amazon
Now that's a good relationship right there 👏👏👏👏👏👏
I started my period this year. I am 12 . I got exactly a week after my b'day. It was 11/04 I still remember and I used to be so shy and ashamed of it but now that I've realised every girl/woman needs to go through it I'm really open to my Mom, Aunt and Cousins (Excepts for men and boys ofc)
I've switched to using a menstrual cup a few months ago, and I swear it's the best decision ever! I've only used tampons for a short while, so I actually transitioned from pads to cup. I've never worn another pad since then, my V is always clean and breathable during my periods, it's environmental friendly, and best part is you can't feel it! It's really the best option so I urge you guys to try it as well! It definitely takes some time getting used to but trust me you won't regret it :D
I will definitely try it
I'm having trouble putting the cup inside me😭
@@AveMyke just need to have more practise and trial & error, then you'll be fine! You can search on Google, most menstrual cup companies actually have tutorials on how to insert the cup. All the best!!!
i seriously freakin looooooooooove the ladies first channel u guyzz really help the world be a better place and you help young girls to all old grandmas in so many different ways. and you guys are so funny and not at all shy talking about this and you all are amazing role models to people like me.
Omg thank you so much you guyss 😩❤️ you have no idea how much I needed this😑💛
Same i am on my period its my first day its so much pain
My first period was a bless for me. I got my first period and on the same day my mom got her regular period. So I was not lonely😅. And my period started in home at the age of 13, so it was normal.
Me too, I got my first period yesterday while my mom got it on 20th I’m pretty sure while doing her night shift, she told me that to make me comfortable
Any man who respects a women on the knowledge of periods
Is a *TRUE* Man!
Surely you young boys must pay attention in class if you are to have a girlfriend
-Game of Thrones Tywin Lannister reference 😅
Armyyy
@@ANKAY21 BORAHAE
Hey Army
Thank you ladies first. This is very informative and useful for girls and ladies out there .
I got my first period last November at school. I am 12 years old and not a lot of girls from my school had them, so it was a bit weird. It happened at the beginning of the day and I felt so scared to go see my teacher that I love, though I knew that she knew what to do. If I had watched this video before, I think I would not have been so embarrassed to ask for help.
Thank you Ladies First for have published this video. It helped me understand more about this period of the month.
I literally don’t feel any pain during my period-
Fun fact: *when I was 11/10 years old I needed to go to the toilet but then when I started to do my business there was a very big red blob coming out of my private spot, and my mom just said “honey, this is normal don’t worry” I really was sighing in relief- but to this day it still haunts me thinking that another one of those blobs will come out LOL*
Lmao
I have mine 10.1/2
My first period story:
I was 10 years old and I was at home and my lower abdomen and legs started aching like anything. I also thought I saw some blood but I ignored it. I knew what was happening, but I didn’t do anything because I wasn’t bleeding much. I lost my appetite and just went to lay down. My caretaker gave me some lemonade and that helped me with the cramps (little tip). And in the evening I got my first pad from my mom.
I like the fact that they r soo comfortable while answering the question not embarrassed or awkward
I enjoyed your honesty and I loved you didn’t shy away from the topic and so much great information and thank you so much for this great video
Okay so my first period was when I was 11 and it was extremely confusing. So the night before I got it I was sitting down on my bed and that's when it started but I didn't feel anything. The next day began like usual and then when my mom came into my room to check if I had made my bed but then she saw that there was this reddish brown stain on my bed. She asked me about it and I legit said, " Mama I think that's chocolate milk." And then after that obviously she knew that I was 11 and that was the age that most girls get their periods so she took me to the bathroom and started explaining everything to me. I was so fucking scared to the point that I thought that I was slowly transforming into a cow.....it was indeed embarrassing.
Lmaoo I'm sorry for ya😂😂
why a cow? 😂😂
Don't ya"ll just love it when they post regularly.
U guys actually described periods as something very fun, thanks though :). I am on my periods btw 😅
Heh same 😂
Same 😀
haha same :/
Ah me too
So much more eloquent than ZULA host. Thanks for the smooth presentation that was pleasant to listen to!
I love Ladies first 💗they always help me
Oh, my first period was under pretty normal circumstances. I got it when I was 12, at home, during summer vacations, and I remember feeling extremely weird down there. I checked it out to find really dark spots of blood. I remember my mom and grandma being all weirdly happy for me and stuff. Of course I knew what a period was and how it worked; my mom made sure of that. But at the time, I felt REALLY awkward actually wearing a pad for the 1st time and my family just being xtra caring towards me...
But now as I grow up, I've realized that periods are very common things and that there's no shame in asking questions if anything's confusing or seeking help from someone you trust.
Thank u, LADIES FIRST~!! This was an informative video, with lots of useful tips and tricks :D
Jasmine feels like my big sister. Any tips on periods during school. Today was actually my first day going to school on my period, and.....i stained my pants. Like it's just wouldn't stop bleeding.
side note, my boyfriend knows I'm on period before my blood started leaking out. he's a better calendar than my phone period app calender
Woww so sweet, don't let him go🙂
love it just watched finish it
The way they talk about it is perfect :D
Me watching this video while I'm on my period😅
First period story:
I had my period at 10, I was at school and my stomach started to ache so I went to the toilet and tada, my period started but I did not have a pad, because I was young and did not know that I would get it that young even though my mother taught me what a period is, so I dealt with using toilet paper.
Worse period story:
Right now I am 12 and the other day when I had my period at school, my cramps were so bad I could not even sit properly on my chair and had to lie down on the the table and it was during chinese lesson and I sit at the front of the class so my chinese teacher found out that I was having my period and it was so weird
OMG that happened with ne yesterday and I'm your age
@@whyamihere5684 cool
I remember last time I didn’t get my period yet but I put toilet paper for no reason and- ot went up my ass
i got my periods between 10-11 yrs ....and it was when i was sleeping. I woke up and went to washroom and was like im bleeding...
i panicked and thought I WAS GNG TO DIE.
then my mom calmed me down saying its periods.
bruh...tht was the situation i felt we need to teach kids of 9yr about what periods are and not to freak out.
and funny fact i got my periods mostly because of high jump competition which was held the day before i got my periods and cause i ate too much to papaya
They helped me so much I am on my period rn and I have a lot of mood swings🥺🥺♥️🙏🏻🙏🏻 love you guys a lot♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I had my first period when I was 13 years old. I was on a vacation and was at my uncle's house. So when I wake up in the morning I was having a lil bit pain then I went to the toilet to pee and saw some red dots in my pants.
My mom had already informed me about period when I was 12yrs old. So when I saw them I got it that I had my first period.
So I shout out for my mom and when she came I told her that I had my period. Then she brought me some pads and I wore them. And was acting normal, running and jumping like any other day..
And that's my first period story.😁
My mum gave me my first pad too 😂
- Amander
@@LADIESFIRSTTVSG It's what used to happen in most of the cases😂
@@LADIESFIRSTTVSG My mom gave me too 😂
i’m really scared cus idk when my period will start so thank you for this video
Exactly what i needed
I had my first period two years ago. I had gone for the first day of school after the mid term holidays and I was super motivated to complete all the tasks from that term on and that evening I got my period. In our culture we have a series of "events" and ceremonies for eleven days. So I had to take leave from school for twelve days(extra days for rest). And I got my second period two months after my first period. I usually only experience severe leg pain and I have experienced stomach pain only once or twice.
I love how they are not shy at all i love them 💗💗💗💗
Thank you for sharing 💕
Perfect vid for today 😃
I got my period yesterday
AND Since yesterday youtube keeps recommending me videos about period -.-
Anyways very helpful
I got my period when I was 11- Well story time :
So basically I woke up to pee in the bathroom while I was still in bed, but then I felt something leaking from my "part" and basically I thought I just peed so then I went to the toilet. When I went to the toilet I so something red and so basically I thought like that was an art paint since I was doing art before bed. Then I was a little concerned that why didn't anyone wash it but I realised it was my blood. I was shouting like 5 times to call my mom like "Mom I think I just got my period". And it was my grandfather's birthday haha-
This is perfect timing because I just got mine for the 2nd time!
I started my periods when i was 10it has already been two years i went on an school outing and then the next day i woke up with blood and it was literally 1 day before i officially become 11
Hey there! I just had my first period a month ago so I just wanted to ask you one question, as you said that 4 hours is a good time to change so if my pad or tamphon dosen't get too wet do I still have to change?
and I have been watching you since a very long time and your the reason to make my day better .
Love you😘
the first time I had periods was at the age of 11. I thought that i had a injury, a very big one cause it was bleeding a lot. thanks a lot jasmine and amender for helping kids and men know about these things that girls and women go through
I literally just came back from my class trip. We were supposed to arrive back home like... 5-6 hours ago? It was really stressful, and I literally got my period there- and well... I got really emotional and almost cried •u•
Even though I haven’t got my period this is helpful
not all of this is accurate so do be mindful :) i posted a comment abt the inaccuracies so do try to find it if you wanna learn more:)
My period came for the first time when I was 12 years old and was doing my national math test!
Wow!
My period started when i was 11 yrs old. My mom woke me up for school as it was a school morning and when i went to washroom and to pee there was blood in my panties and being a huge bookworm at that time thought i had kidney stone.....and my mom was like no no you are on ur period and after that incident whenever there is a family event she tells it to our close relatives and tease me with it😂😂🙂
TPDAYYY MAH BLOODY THINGY CAME AGAIN AND I HAD MOOD SWINGS ALL DAY
I love ladies first upload more videos girls
This is really helpful :) tyyy i started my first a week ago
I got my periods 2 months ago so it's really nice of them to tell me these stuff cuz I don't know most of em and I know most of them it's probably my mom told me so ty
And I missed one period on the sec month so thx again..!
your ladies shop is like mine too give me a heart too i need it
I didn’t realise that I was on my period until after three days because it was brown and I thought that I was just constantly pooping on myself until I started seeing a few red drops.and the night that I got my period, I had a severe stomach ache but just 2 hours before that I was lying about having one so I could skip work
i also didn't realize and i also thought the same thing as you
Ladies firrrst are the best-!
What surprised me when I read the comments here is that many of the younger viewers do not have prior knowledge of what period is going to be like before having their first mense. This is kinda disturbing to me because I thought with today's information advancement, any of our young could have easily Google for the information from a reliable source such as from a medical website or at least Wikipedia (since it's often being reviewed) than to be ignorant about it. They seem to be poorly prepared for it. Puberty education and more so about menstruation ought to begin even before it comes. It's not merely the school responsibility to broach this topic. It's in the girl's personal interest to know more about period and puberty. So why didn't they know to Google about it?
Personally, I do read up research books about puberty and period, hence my knowledge will probably be even more than most of the ladies. And I do want to teach my daughter about puberty and period in the future.
@Nana Show me too
And by the way, regarding period sex, the sperm can stay alive for up to 5 days in the vagina. Therefore, even though the unfertilised egg might have been shed from the vagina, there's still the chance that the sperm can get ready to fertilize the new egg that is ready to be implanted into the endometrium in the next cycle.
Honestly I'm not surprised that younger viewers would know without their school educating them. Periods aren't a known thing cuz let's be honest it has only been recently that talking about periods were allowed and not shamed for. Most girls don't know they exist until their parents or school tells them. It's not about being ignorant, it's literally just not knowing it exists.
i got my period when i was also 9, im turning 11 this year. it started when i was outside with my friends, then i went home to pee, but then i saw like a black thing so i asked my mom and she said maybe i made myself dirty. so after few hours again and when i came back to pee again, i saw blood, i asked my mom why but then she smiled, so thats the time when i got my period. and ever since i watched this video, it gave me more confidence to not be ashamed or embarrassed from stains, leak, or something. thank u very much, ladies firstt!
Love Amander
My period story:I was 11 years old and so it was my last exam and I didn't know about period and I was feeling very uncomfortable during the exam but I ignored feeling uncomfortable anyway after school when I went to shower, my trousers were hella disgusting with red blobs on it and red blood. I got very scared and I decided not to tell anyone, I kept changing my trousers through out the day without knowing what was happening. The other day I thought it might be a serious problem so I must tell my elder sister or my mom. I told my sister and she told my mom and she explained me about periods and she gave me a pad. After inserting the pad I felt so unconscious. I got out of the bathroom as soon as I could and I went to sleep.
Fun fact : I went through weird positions throughout the week but my pad didn't leek😄😄😄
"Everyone should go through it."
Male : *lets run..*
When I’m in school, I feel embarrassed when I’m changing my pad 😂 It’s tooo loudddd :3 I know there’s nothing to be embarrassed of but I still feel that way 😂 Maybe when I grew older, I’ll be ok~
You don’t need to feel embarrassed, even if you feel embarrassed, I recommend to open the pad in ONE GO ! The time taken is short and it’s easy !
You can rip off the plastic part but don’t rip off the plastic parts that covers the sticking side. Bring it to school rolled up, and it won’t make as much noises :3
@@hayinyi8724 ooo nice hack :0
@@xinhuiii I saw this hack in a comment on another video and thought it was pretty good ^^
it was fun watching
Cna y’all make a video reading all our period stories
Bro- my guy friends don’t even care, I just say ‘ i’m on my period. ‘ and I’ll be getting high fives and positive energy, none of them even get grossed out :)
I got my period in my late 10 years of age, it was at june 29, i think and it took two months skip and came again at around September 8. Luckily, for me, my period only stays for 2-3 days(currently) but that doesn't mean I don't suffer cramps either. Well, we both became women at such a young age @jasmine🙂❤️
My period ended today and i am just 10
@@sabiqabatool6467 sending love to you, girl. Stay strong
@@mypfpismorebeautifulthanur4876 thank you when i first started it i was having thoughts like "why am i having this thing" "i've not even hit puberty yet😭" "i don't want this" "omg i am getting cramps real bad" "this is so uncomfortable" i had my period wayyy back in may so now i am used to it and i am thankful for them 😊 and thank for the love^^♥♥
@@sabiqabatool6467 that's the will! Love yourself, baby girl❤️
@@mypfpismorebeautifulthanur4876 thanks for the support and next feb i am gonna turn 11❤😘^^
I was 12 when I got my period, so I had my PSLE that year. I started at around January,
and according to my calculations, my period would end right before the first exam. But I got it late in one of the months and I was bleeding during PSLE
soo my period story started when i was 13 years old i clearly remembwe the date 25 December2017 it was christmas 🎊🎊😂i really assumed it as my christmas present 😂it was when i woke up my bed was actually like a blood pond and thankfullu i was home and my mum took care of me i that day after a bath i was litterally like it was sooo damn hard to put my socks on yeah that was it. ty ladies first i was able to recall that moment
I think you need to make to make more videos like this because us Girls need more support and yeah.
My First Period: When I was sleeping my mom and dad woke me u into thin air and said congratulations. I was like in my mind "What the heck? What did I do? Why are they congratulating me?" I was so confused and my mom lead me to the bathroom and when she opened my panties and I saw red blood and I was shook. I was like "OML DO I HAVE MY PERIOD?" we washed up and my mom taught me how to wash all the stains away. And when I tried my first pad I was like "Why does this feel so weird?" and it was so embarrassing since my sisters saw the whole thing too with shocked faces.
were you sisters younger than you?
@@hellobye724 My sisters were older than me they were 20 yrs. old now and they were shocked cuz it was my first time getting period they laughed too XD
How old were u
@@pinky.6605 I'd rather not say XD
I started in the end of secondary 1 and only miss it once and I couldn't get out of bed once cause of cramps and had to skip tuition for that week
I got my periods when I was in my extra classes and luckily it was at my home and after I felt something sticky in my underwear I went to bathroom and when I saw blood I freaked out and started crying and I called out for my mother after that she told me it was normal and explained about periods and how to wear pad and I was fine after that....... I got my periods 3years ago for the first time and the period cramps I get are really the worse and I can't sleep at night so I wear earphones and listen to music which help me to sleep at night....
I got my first period today so this is perfect
AYEEE HELLLO!!!
I actually had mine this year in the starting of September basically I had it in the age of 12 (I am currently 12 as well). I came back from school and everything and then I went to the restroom to pee and then I saw blood on my trousers and I was like what is this! I called my mother and asked her all about it and thankfully it wasn't too bad as my mother helped me. And lucky me on that day I didn't have to wear my white uniform, I had to wear my sports one so thankfully it wasn't at school or like in class 😁
I got my first period when I was 11 ½. I actually had loose motion then and I went to the bathroom to poop again. There was blood coming out. First I thought that my loose motion was becoming severe and I needed to see a doctor. I told my mum and she exchanged a long look with my grandma. I was utterly bewildered. Then she gave me a short lecture on periods and I learned that I would be having this Curse for the rest of my life. 🤯😢🤣
Don’t be ashamed it isn’t a curse but it’s just a really hard ik you I get you you are becoming a women you need pregnancy right?(i know you do don’t lie) but it’s just not shameful or embarrassing just like they said ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊
My period story: was at home and noticed I’m leaking blood onto my pyjamas 😂😂 I thought that lil patch of blood is what I’ll get every month.. little did I know…
Omg, ILYSM it came when I started my period, it is my first when I don’t know that if it is it or not coz I was so confused, and when my mum checked, I know that my period started, haha. Love ur vids
I am on my period and it pains like hell
I hope it gets better
Hi, I got my period when I was ten. I was at school when that happen and my teacher pointed that I have a red stains on my pants. So my teacher call my parents to pick me up. When I got home, I tell my mom about it and we have a daughter mom conversations. The next day is school. When at school, I have the worst period cramp ever! So I tell my female teacher about it and my teacher gave me a short sleep. A few month has past, I was ready to tell my friend about it. At that time I was really embarrassed about it and I was worry my friend will make fun of me. But they actually understand me and comforting me even though they don't have any periods yet. I am very grateful to have a friend like them. Btw I Love your videos, you guys made me happy everyday. Thank you.
Thank u for responding for me
ig i literally gained a lot of knowledge both physically and mentally
tnx just had my one yesterday and now i know everything
Im right now on my second period I'm 13 thank you,this really helped ❤love you.
jasmine: don't work out!
amander: WORK OUTT!!
Hi LF how are you all and I am Zack from Malaysia and nice video today
Jasmine and Amander are do confident.
Me and jasmine were the same age when we got our period haha.....I was 9 as well when I got mine haha twins 😂😂 The funny part was it was 2 days before Christmas so I couldn't actually have much fun on Christmas cause the cramps were literally killing me 🤦😂 and when I first got it I literally for 3 seconds though I had accidentally cut myself when I saw the stain thankfully my mother helped me and yeah....early Christmas gift I guess??😂
Amanders first period story is exactly mine lmao
so relatable to Jasmine: DONT WORKOUT, JUST SLEEP! XD
I got my period at the beginning of the year 2 days after my 10th birthday a month before i got my first period i discovered this video on ladies first and i got my period talk from Amander and Jasmine cause my mom never gave a girl talk anyway my first period story is in the morning i wasn't feeling well at all but i went to school anyways during class i was having a lot of cramps when it was time for our break i went to the toilet and my underwear was soaked in blood i went back to my friends looking horrified because i didn't know what to do i decided to tell my aunt who is a teacher in my school i told my aunt and she called my mom to come pick me up cause i was crying my eyes out. I LOVE YOU LADIES FIRST ❤❤
SAME JASMINE! I got my period when I was nine. I didn't freak out tho. I showed my pants to my aunt and she started crying (she doesn't have any daughters and only sons so she sees me as her own daughter). My uncle and mom were out shopping groceries when my aunt informed them. When my mom came back, she hugged me crying. I was completely chill. But. When they bought groceries, they bought me chips, ice cream, cola sweets etc. Dumb of me to think I'll get this whenever I'm on my period (I WAS JUST 9!). I didn't have cramps and I didn't have two menstrual cycles. When we went to the doctor, the doc said it's ok and it's normal. But then I started getting cramps after one year of having my period. I told this to my guy friends (when I was 10) and they were completely normal with it.
Tysm I really needed this I just started getting my periods and sometimes I do panic a lil
I had my first period at age of 13 and a half on December 18, I was at my home and I had my online exams, I felt something unusual the night before but I ignored it, I woke up next morning went to the bathroom and realized I got my first period. I was pretty chill bout it as my elder sister already told me bout it . she told my mom bout it and she was more worried than I should be myself lol but once my pad leaked in school and like yea I almost cried but thankfully my friends were there to help me out
Mine was kinda like a blessing..The lockdown Literally saved me and my female classmates from that embarrassing moment in school😅..
I got my 1st period during the lockdown and the Whole time during my 5 days I didn't tell my mom(I was scared af) we were already taught abt this in school 2 years before BUT HOW TF Am I supposed to remember it at such a time?
And then finally I went up to my mom and told her , she then consoled me
After that I had a fear that almost used to scared me to death..and that was ," How to go to school during periods😂?" LIKE seriously I was overthinking so much...I prayed everyday that the school should be delayed n stuff but finally our school reopened and then I got habitual of it😂..
this is my first time missing my periods...and when u said its okay to miss a cycle...then am relieved