How to Deal With Loss or Grief of Love Ones
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- čas přidán 18. 12. 2019
- When someone you love has died, is there such thing as moving on? Grief is not easy. It takes time. Grief is not something that we want to avoid feeling either. Grief is part of our journey and human experience. To fight grief is to fight what's natural. Instead, let grief guide you to be a more powerful being.
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I wish I could just go back into the past and appreciate them more
I tried to forget the reality by thinking it's a nightmare,but it's way too much hard,to deal with the lose ,I still remember ,my loved ones saying me for 1 last time,I love u.....it's making me weak,calm,quite,I feel like I m lost In the middle of no where....I miss my past now,then it was worthless but now it's an epic memory
I wish so, too. But it happened already, it's not like we can do anything. :,(
@@iuuh3679 I feel bad for anybody that had a loss. :(
Me to I lost my 95 year old great great great great great grandma I wish I could go back and say goodbye
@@oscarhernandez5357, They do begone physically, but they do not die spiritually.
Nothing is worst about the feeling of regret not spending more time with the ones you loved
True
Very very true
Very true. Going through that feeling right now :(
Very true😭
Im defo feeling it and guilty feel it bad
“Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment, until it becomes a memory” -Dr. Seuss
I agree with that. Here’s another quote: “things end but memories last forever”
The one thing eternal is love
Im going through the same😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
😢😢😢😢😢
Lost my dad late last night. Such a great man, husband, and father. Everywhere I go I see him. It is an open wound that will never close. I love you pop. Thank you for all you did for me. Hopefully when it is my time you'll be waiting for me on the other side.
God bless you! Only He can bring you true peace. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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Tribute to Ethan Lakey
czcams.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/video.html
I’m so sorry I hope you are doing better and may he Rest In Peace. May god bless you brother.
My condolences man im sorry I just lost my brother Monday morning
I just lost mine Tuesday and I can't cope hopefully he is waiting for me in heaven
@@hibye-fk9ep im so sorry my condolences I just lost my brother Monday 💔
People will judge you when you're still grieving for an amount of time that they consider "so long"... which makes you feel even worse
Who are these people? Do you mind sharing? They sound really toxic.
@@Psych2go so many people in my grieving mom groups have been told to get over it, it being their child they lost. People don't get it until they are there themselves and get it and we don't want them to have loss to get it, but man it would be nice it they could just understand even a tenth of our pain at losing a child.
@アミーナ I am sorry to tell you that does not get better after school. I hope you have some supporting family or friends that you can talk to.
Those people are not friends
@@Psych2go I had a friend say that to me. Ditto with a grief therapist 9 months after my Mom died. He was exasperated that I was "still" sad "months and months" after her passing (9 months). Just the session before he told me there's no timeline, so I reminded him and he tried to backtrack.
*_"There's no universal method for healing"_*
thanks for saying that. We all have our own way dealing with grief
@Karen luvs Jesus, I hope he makes it/ made it through COVID!! My father died 3 years ago and it hurt so much losing him- my prayers are to you 😊
Im the 666th like
Yes most definitely.
Crying from pain of loss helps me once done with little bouts of sadness I think of all good times we shared grief can bring out so much stuff and so many various emotions!!
All know is never took their time for granted it meant the world to me no matter what!!
yeah I remember when losing my aunt and when I was at her funeral even though I was upset my body didn't externalize any of those emotions and I got yelled at by my other family members for acting cold while they were in tears. I wish people understood not everyone externalizes their emotions. doesn't mean they don't feel them though. in fact those feelings I had ate me up for months before I could really do anything resembling my usual routine.
@Ari luvs Jesus WHAT HAPPENED , did your grandpa survive? :( :) ?
I haven’t done anything today. Fell asleep at 1:30 am because I cried. Woke up at 4:50 and cried till 6 am. Fell asleep. Woke up at 8. Cried. 12 am. Fell asleep. 1 pm. Cried. Still crying now.
Fly high Alex💗
Same
(Alex = Technoblade)
I'm so sorry for your loss🖤
Yeah man I was supposed to see a dying family member today but she sadly died yesterday, just found out, really a shock, it has only been 3 weeks since she was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and now she’s gone, she used to do my hair, best hair dresser I knew, I’m gonna miss her bright light personality, I didn’t even get to say goodbye…
I understand this too well. Alex must be a lovely angel 🤍 wishing he could hold you while you cry
I'm going through the same thing now. The grief is palpable and it chokes. The tears won't stop. I've been crying for my Mom for almost two days doing nothing but that. I'm exhausted, but I can't seem to stop.
I lost my mother a month ago very suddenly while studying a semester abroad. It has been so hard. I'm trying to get back to studying, since I usually really enjoy it, but I just can't. I miss her so so much. I texted her daily and sent her photos of what I'd been up to. She supported me so much and it made me so happy seeing her being proud of me. We had so many things planned to do. Now I feel just so empty...
I feel bad that you lost your mom. Take the time you need to move forward. If you cant concentrate on studying and I dont blame you, then put it off for now. Try to keep busy with other things and maybe grief counselling will help. Your mother is with you and God knows your pain and loss. Ask for strength to move on and forward. Stay strong, you will be fine 💐🌸🌷🌺💖💙💜
I’m so sorry for your loss. I know this sounds silly, but I just lost my baby pet lizard and it’s really hard. It scars me because he passed away because he got bit by my brothers bearded dragon. I saw it happen and it won’t leave my mind.
I feel empty too, every day after school i would go upstairs to my nannys and she would say "hey mr how was school" or "hey you" she would just sit in her chair with her two cats and just watch tv. Ever since her favorite character in a show she liked died. Its been hard, i cant think of the same show without her
I am so , so sorry. I hope you know that she is always with you in your heart. I hope you fulfill your hopes and dreams. Even those plans you guys made , because she will be there with you every step of the way. I know it must be hard for you , but I hope you find some comfort in knowing that she will always be with you❤ I’m so sorry 🙏🏻💖
I lost my mother a month ago and i can feel your pain this is so overwhelming for me at my age
When my dad died 8 years ago, i would message his facebook and tell him what I want to tell him. It really helped me.
I'm sorry to hear about your dad. And I'm glad you found a way that helped and sharing it with others on this community. How are you nowaday?
I’m so sorry for your loss and this is so helpful. Stay strong
I am sorry for your loss. Really sorry. I thought of doing the same but I kind of didn’t want to. It was very confusing to me.
Messaging my mom's fb since 2011, I feel you
I would send a message to my Brother through his e-mail address
Lost my mother yesterday and since then been searching for anything that could help me to go through this tough time.. I just try to cope with it but everytime I realize that I won't see her and hug her again makes me destroyed within.. I miss you and love you mum, you'll always be in my heart.. أحبك ياأمي ♥️
Allah rahmou. 3 weeks ago I losted oma. She was for me as mother..i don t know how I can live..😔
الله يرحما و يصبرك ... wish you the best
Damn bro i ll never forget your comment😭
Set a time to get over a loved ones death isn’t necessary. I lost my beautiful Mother 39 years ago, and am only now able to speak about her w/o breaking down. She was so ahead of her time. She was like a eccentric/genius Chief Petty Officer in the Navy, Car Mechanic,inventor,artist,photographer ,she left this world too soon. Just keep their memories alive. Honoring always.❤️💕☯️☸️✝️
🐹🌻🐥 Condolences to all who lost loved ones. Know their spirits live on forever 🌻🌌🗻🌅😇✨💫
The sadness of losing your loved ones never really fades away, but just by remembering them for who they were, how nice they were, what they did for you..keeping those memories alive, and remembering them for all of the good they did for you, and others, trust me it helps. I lost my grandpa about 2 years ago. The pain of losing them never went away, but just by focusing on all the good they did, and how they impacted your life and just trying to focus on that. It truly helped me. Grief is probably one of the most painful things you can ever go through, trust me, I know. But just know that it gets better. I pray for everyone going through grief that you never give up, you keep living your life, and you have a blast doing it. I know it'll get hard sometimes but just know that you're not alone, and that plenty of other people are going through exactly what you're going through. God bless everyone reading this, and have a fantastic day. ♥
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
czcams.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/video.html
I'm in deep pain right now. I love my father so much.
i understand the pain of losing a mother, i lost mine.
Thank you ❤
My grandfather passed away just today. He was very faithful in Christ. I hope you get to be happy with Jesus, Mario. 💙
My brother committed suicide last week. I've sat around a lot and just let my mind run wild, knowing that you won't be able to say "hi" or tell then a joke is honestly depressing, I really wish I gave him more of my time. The way I've been able to deal with his loss is honestly just letting myself feel whatever I'm feeling. It hurts yeah, but I know I'll be alright and that it'll all be okay in the end. Knowing I don't have to stand strong and being able to go and talk to my friends or family makes me feel a lot better.
I do hope anyone else feeling this way will be able to get to the other side of this dark road and remeber that everything'll be okay. Just like the wise words of Erza, "Don't die for your friends, live for them."
R.I.P to my brother, who'll always be my hero. Love you bro 💚💚
All the time I wish there was a button that could bring my dad back
Edit: Im glad im not alone and i wish the best for all of you
@@markdavis1066 thanks but im under 18 but yeah thanks
@@melaniecashion3454 +7866326441 Or send me your cell number would love to talk and have a great conversations.
I lost my dad 3 years ago. I wish the same. His birthdays coming up and I really miss him. I wish I had spent more time with him and get to know more about him. I was younger at the time..Your not alone:)
Dude I’m 17 I literally just lost my dad it’s so hard like I wish I could talk to him one more time
Same💔
I lost my loved girlfriend of 7 years. Wanted to ask her to be my wife this Christmas , wont be able to after a horrific accident that took her away from me. I don't know how to get back to normal and every night is pain and suffering. I really feel for all those that lost someone close in their life. May God find a way to sooth your aching soul. I love you too. I miss you so much Tricia. I will forever love you.
I’m so sorry 😞 I lost my older brother who was 22 in a car accident this year, august 4th.. it hurts so much. I’m 14 and I wanna be like him because he did everything good in life.. he was so loved
I'm so sorry ☹️
I'm so sorry, I lost my boyfriend of 7 years in August. He was in a rock climbing accident. Try to get out for daily walks, helps emotions move through. ♥️
I lost mine the other day. 😭
I’m sorry for your loss… my heart goes out to you it’s such a hard time during Christmas let alone with your plans for the future. I hope you heal.
lost a friend who was really there during a tough period of my life. because of them my confidence was restored. rest easy isabel ❤
I’m sorry same with me god bless you
I lost my best friend too, I feel your pain.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
now i am back 10 months later... i lost another friend last week. all i have to say after this tough year is to cherish everyone and every moment. see you later kris❤
Just lost my best mate, no warning just out of the blue got told he passed, we fell out as well so normaly he would stay at mine. All I can think is if he had been at mine he wouldn't of died. I can't understand how he just died like that when he was only 45???
Thank you for this, my sister would have turned 17 today. To everyone that watched this video to deal with the loss of a loved one. I am so sorry for your loss. I miss you Amelie.
Just lost my sister 1 day ago
@@Yolze may she rest in peace
I lost my brother in Nov 2021, losing a young sibling is very difficult to deal with. Hope this song and animation help czcams.com/video/fn0LHiKaBJY/video.html
I’m sorry for your loss
I lost my sister 2 months ago💔
My grandma recently died. I can’t forgive my self for not seeing her again instead of being upstairs on my phone.
Bro, stop making me even more emotional, we’re in the same boat
@@maypsjuniperpeel1385 i am with you :(
Thats how I felt after my grampa died a few months ago. The day before he died, my grandma wanted me to come over and help her around the house and take care of my grampa, but I lied and told her I was with a friend. And because of me being on my phone, I never got to see my grampa alive again, as he died in his sleep that next morning with one last tear in his eye. I feel your loss and hope that you've come to terms with mourning and gotten through it
My last text conversation with my aunt who I was close too. (She came over alot and didnt really text me)
(Her) Wanna go to the beach today?
(Me) No thanks, not today. Maybe another time
(Her) Okay I'm going back to sleep
She loves you anyway. She was young once and for sure she understand that s how we are sometimes as young people . I am sure she wants you to be happy by having compassion for yourself. And it s that s the best way to honor her memory.
My grandma just died today I just can't forget about her.. I can't forget the words she used to say to me when I was young.. she was a great grandmother..
Sorry for your loss but you don't have to forget her or the things she did or said. There is nothing wrong with keeping her memory alive. The more time that passes you will be reminded of something about your Grandmother and you will smile.
@@emesass5959 thank you, i did that, I smiled and sometimes cried
My grandpa died yesterday
@@rainingrags5894 Sorry for your loss, may he rest in peace
My grandma died yesterday and i feel so awful that i didn't talk to her a lot or spend a lot of time with her, what really hurts me is that i will not eat her food again or talk to her and I'm never gonna see her again, just looking at her phone number makes me choke up and i couldn't even tell her that i love her.
I lost my grandma about a month ago and I feel so lost without her. She adopted me and my siblings when our mom passed away (I was only 2 at the time my mother passed) so my grandma was basically my mom. I’m currently 16 and I’m so hurt because I still needed her, I wanted her to watch me get my drivers license, graduate, see me go to college. I just miss her so much, I wish she was still here.
Please, Jesus loves you and wants to give that peace you are longing for. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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I hope you took your time to heal yourself and come to terms with everything. I also lost my grandma tonight, I am so shocked and empty, but I try to be optimistic and be happy for her since she now can be with her husband and many loved ones. Sending warm hugs
@@evelynn4841 Thank you, and I’m so sorry to hear that. Just know everything will get better through time, I learned this from experience. I’m now 18 and I’m much happier now, ofc I still miss her but I don’t get sad when I think about her now, just happy 🫶🏻🫶🏻sending love ur way
I just found out my grandma passed away at age 77. I didn't spend enough time with her
Lost my grandad two days ago. He was my hero, the ideal grandfather, full of love, wisdom, kindness, warmth and humbleness. He was the embodiment of a perfect human being in my eyes, simply without flaws. I cannot accept that he is gone. I have been crying for the past days and I feel lost.
This place felt cozy enough for sharing. Thank you for sharing your stories.
I lost my grandad too and I felt the same way about him and I am really struggling to keep going. I have been crying ever since. I just can’t deal. This is the first time I’ve lost someone that close to me and I’ll never be the same.
Grief is so difficult, I’m really struggling atm. Great upload
Amy Parker hold on, and take care of yourself! I know that it’s hard but things get better! And instead of seeing that person as gone, try to focus on the life they lived. On all your happiest moments with them. Honor them! You can move on, while still keeping them in your heart! I hope it gets better for you❤️
Amy Parker 🙏♥️
I know it’s hard to move on, but just try your hardest to get your mind off of it, do something, keep yourself occupied. I used to grief over my loved one a lot and so I would always be doing something, maybe hanging out with friends, going online, etc. it was the only time school felt like a better place than home. Just know that they will always be there with you in spirit. Good luck recovering
Hold on keep on living and take your time
It really is difficult and a lifelong process. When you are having an "up" time, notice the feeling. When you are having a "down" time, remember what an "up" time felt like and know it will come back. Then feel the pain. Talk to the person you lost out loud. It's ok to feel that pain. They were an amazing component in your life...of course it is horrible they are now not there. Allow yourself that feel and gently tell yourself another "up" will come and ease it for a bit. As time goes on, the "down" will be farther out but will always hit you emotionally. Give yourself a hug and do a self care day when it does happen. Hugs
I feel like no matter how hard I try, I can never escape my memories and/or deal with them
Caleb Collings ♥️🙏
Same feeling am having now. But knowing how others were able to cope or helped gives me hope that in time, things will be fine. Don't know when since we have different process of grievibg but it will come. Be strong my friend
Why would one want to forget the loss of a departed loved one. We just get better at dealing with it ...Acceptance ...
@@johnmcsharry5445 it’s not wanting to forget it’s wanting them to not be so painful
True I understand how you feel.............. But if your willing I'm willing to listen
Lost my dad a couple weeks ago to cancer, he was so strong, even while going through this and suffering, he still wanted the world for me and my brothers. I’m just greatful I got to hold his hand and tell him I love him the last few days before his death. I just wish I would of cherished the days with him more while he was alive.
Yersteday, we learnt that our mother is in a critical state. She has a uncurable brain cancer. They told us that the end is close. She lost the ability of speak, walk and doesn’t know what is happening. It’s so so so difficult to deal with that. We’re trying to stay strong for her. She’s a very kind person and is the best mother that we could have my sis and myself. The scary thing is to think about the AFTER WITHOUT HER. It’s so painful. My memories with her are so precious. Please everyone, take care of your mom.
My wife died almost 2 years ago, right at the beginning of the covid lockdowns. She was the love of my life. I waited 46 years for her and just as I was about to give up and accept that there was no one for me, she came along and fulfilled all my needs. ( a lot of needs I didn't even know I had)
And then after 10 years of marriage she was (very) suddenly taken from me. I had a few friends but no family around me then. I'm trying to power through this because that's how I've always dealt with my problems eventually. Now I'm realizing that I can't power through this and I'm scared.
Thank you to anyone that has read all this. I'm open to suggestions but I just like the idea that someone heard me.
Tim
I am so very sorry for your loss. It sounds like your wife brought you oodles of happiness. Grief is painful and unbearable. It doesn’t ever fully go away. It seems as though you just learn to live with it. I am glad you were able to find a love as beautiful as the one you found with your wife. I can’t offer any suggestions that will cure grief as I feel none will fill the void of a loved one, but here are some that may help increase ones mood or resilience: spending time with my friends and family, self-care, join a support group, get professional help, talk to someone, allow yourself to feel the emotions that come with grief, journal, listen to music, be patient with yourself, or write a letter to your wife.
If you need someone to talk to, feel free to reach out to me. I’d be happy to listen.
I hope you found the strength to continue powering through this since your post. It is very scary and i can only imagine how this must feel for you. But you’ve shown a lot of strength and resilience these past two years.
sorry for ur loss
I can only recommend taking each day, if you think about the future, it can be overwhelming. Just get thru one day, and then repeat. I am so sorry for your loss.
Hello Tim,
I heard you.
I'm sorry for your loss. There are no words, just know you are not alone, I promise you that. If you ever need to talk or vent please feel free to reply to me at anytime. My love, thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours.
Sincerely,
Micheal Velasquez 💚
Tim I hear and feel your pain ,just lost the love of my life Sep 25th a few weeks ago. I don't know what to do with myself , especially the nights. I really miss her so much. All your emotions are safe her and I feel for you. Contact me if you need someone to talk to ..
Here’s how:
1. There’s no quick fix
2. Acceptance
3. Companion
4. Use art as an outlet
5. Write a journal
❤️🙏❤️
Thankyou :)
What if you don't have a companion in the person you would expect to be your companion is being very mean to you?
No.
i love you dad. im glad you got to spend one last thanksgiving in the hospital. 5/22/72 - 11/26/23. rip miguel.❤
I just lost my mom on Monday and it is the hardest thing for me to deal with. She was 78 years old and had lived with me for as long as I could remember. People kept telling me that it will get better but I feel like it will not. My mom was everything to me. I miss her laughing out loud at my jokes. I miss asking her, what you want for breakfast. Lunch and dinner. I don't sleep well anymore. I kept getting up to check her room like she's still there. I cried alot, I can't eat or sleep. I don't care about anything anymore. This is the most hardest thing I ever had to deal with and I have been through alot of tough times in my life. She always told me to live my life when she is gone and not to worry. My is changed forever and I will never be the same person again.
I am doing exactly the same after my mom's death on 24th Wednesday May 2023. It feels like am losing my mind
@@fauzianalwoga1002 My condolences to you. I'm sure to she loved you lots and is proud of who you've become. Stay strong, take care of ourself and surround yourself with your loved ones. You deserve the best. May your mom rest in peace
Let’s read these books to see what we can help us and our parents get rid of suffering:
1-In One Lifetime Pure Land Buddhism
2-The Three Reffuges
The Ten Recitation Method
Glossary
3- Buddhism:
The Awakening of Compassion and Wisdom
Following the Dharma thoughts to cultivate for avoiding reincarnation and rebirth to the Western Pure Land
I lost both my parents to cancer 3 months ago. I sit in their bedroom just being close to them
@@fauzianalwoga1002Stay strong 💪 it's a part of life.
I miss her so much I don’t think I’ll ever stop crying
I hope ur doing well now
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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Tribute to Ethan Lakey
czcams.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/video.html
It’s so hard, I know exactly how u feel...
Yeah man I was supposed to see a dying family member today but she sadly died yesterday, just found out, really a shock, it has only been 3 weeks since she was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and now she’s gone, she used to do my hair, best hair dresser I knew, I’m gonna miss her bright light personality, I didn’t even get to say goodbye…
i try to think that i'm lving for them, that i'm making them proud.
One life for the two of you
It was helpful for 12yrs. Now any thing cant help
Yes
I lost my dog and she was like a sibling to me. I never got to say goodbye in person or hug her but we all got to see her one last time. Losing her is very hard because I have never lost some one I loved so much. I wish I just could have hugged her one last time. All she wanted was to be loved. She was so sweet, affectionate, and protecting. Thank you for making this video.
My sister passed yesterday and I just got the news this morning. Still feel unreal to me that this is reality, to make it worse I'm currently abroad and can't even be there with my family.....I miss you so much sis
My friend passed away almost 4 years ago now. I dont cry when I think about her being gone because as it was said in the video I still dont accept that shes gone, she was too young, but if I think about the day that I found out I cant stop crying.
Sorry to hear about your friend. I hope you can inspire and help those who face similar situations heal.
@@Psych2go thank you for your kind words. I want to try and help those who are in a similar situation but as you said people handle grief in all different ways.
I had a friend, we were close at one point but grew distant over time. One day a mutual friend called and said he passed. I didn't cry, at first. I went to give flowers to his mom who made a memorial in their front yard. I couldn't stop shaking the moment I saw her. It all became so real. I went back to my car and cried for a while before leaving. That was more than a few years ago but I still remember him from time to time. He was the only person I ever knew personally who left us.
Btw I'm not trying to hog your spotlight, the point was the only time I cried was the day he passed but I don't think I will ever forget him. His name was Alejandro Uribe. wjla.com/news/local/two-hit-killed-on-tracks-of-garrett-park-marc-station--90642 this was what was shown on the news
Also this czcams.com/video/W3F0YMEfJv0/video.html
It was him and his best friend.
My best friend passed away just this january 2019. I saw how she dies. If only I could share a half of my life during that moment. Until now am grieving.
I'm here because techno it's weird to cry so hard over a random dude on the internet but he give me so much joy seeing him gone broke my heart ib ebeen crying for the past 2 days
Rest in Peace techno
“life is short" always be nice and care for ur loved once because it might be the last time u see or hear them.
heyyyy u don't make me cry please
I’m glad I did ,thank you
I regret being a picky eater and not enjoying my grandpa's cooking
@@hyungwonieee4795 Jesus loves you and wants to give that peace you are longing for. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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Tribute to Ethan Lakey
czcams.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/video.html
@@kelleymcfadden9675 thank you for sharing this story you are very strong, my heart goes to you and your family, may Ethan rest in peace I know he's in good hands now God bless you :)
I lost my Dad last month (June 2021) to cancer caused by him being given HepC through infected blood in the 80s. He was only 54. My best friend. The most beautiful person inside and out. I honestly don’t think I can carry on without him. Life doesn’t feel worth living without him to share it with. I’ve never felt so so lonely. I can’t stop crying and don’t know if I ever will. I miss him so much it hurts
I can relate to the part,where you think life isn’t worth living without your dad..if u can’t share your achievements and happy moments with him. I lost my dad on the 14th September and everything I do know, is think if he could have been saved from cancer, and what he would want me to do and ofc i live in constant anxiety without him and grief.
Hopefully those feelings will fade over time. :/
I can sort of relate, my mom passed October 31st 2021 and I'm only 10 this is really hard, I have lost both grandma's great grandma and 2 pets now my mom, I cry myself to sleep, WE GOT THIS.
@@Imagine2011 Omg! My dad passed away on the same day and year. He was already suffering with heart and kidney issues which later led to him developing cancer on his kidneys. I miss him so much and I would do literally anything to bring him back❤️
@@ghostbitties2674 yea it's really hard i would do anything she was my rock mow she's gone
@@Imagine2011 I know and it hurts so much, but we got this. We just have to be strong for them. ❤️
I just lost my fiance, the love of my life. I've been with many women but she was different and the connection we shared was a rare one. We fought through drug abuse and addiction but our love for one another was always there. Love is hard and we had some rough times, but at the same time that love and connection we shared was and is something amazing!! No one and nothing made happier than every night for 5 years falling asleep and waking up with her in my arms. It was her and I against the world and as long as we had one another the emotions I felt because of her were so amazing I have yet to find a word suitable enough or close enough to describe what we felt for each other. She was in a car accident and unfortunately she ended up with her brain activity ceasing to exist and a decision was made to take her off life support. The pain i am currently going through is so horrible that I'm lost ....I love you Casey Nicole always and forever...
You only find out how much you love someone when they leave you
Its been years and it still hurts...every now and then,I tell myself I could have been a better person to him and just cry
My dog passed away last night. She was having a hard time breathing and we had to have her put to sleep. She was a beautiful German Shepherd and was with us for almost 12 years. She didn’t make it to her birthday, but it was her time to go. I’m so glad we could be with her for so long.
@Julian Anthony everyone is going to leave you one day. Either you die or they die. That's the universal truth. Do you think that should stop you from loving some because you will lose them one day which is inevitable? Is a life with no love for anyone worth it? No offense, I really want to know so I asked.
@@MissionNeetPgMarch thank u for this comment
I loved my cat so much . In fact she was my baby . She passed away when she was just 9 months that is exactly 21 days back . Until then I’m depressed. My father wants to gift me another cat . But I think My heart can’t handle it . I don’t think I can love again 😭😭
Damn bro why do i always gotta cry for these😭
I'm the 69th like,I'm on the same boat with you.
@@moneyminds284 same thing happened to me today i dont know what to do..3 years old. I found him laying in a pile of blood by my gate..i had just checked on him 20minutes before i dont know what happened😭😭😭 please tell me ur feeling a bit better
He wasn’t really a loved one but one of my favorite CZcamsrs died and this was the first time I’ve actually (known?) someone that died and it impacted me a lot more than I expected. And the fact that one of his most known quotes is “TECHNOBLADE NEVER DIES!” idk it just hurt a lot more than someone would expect it too :(
The blade never dies!
The blood god will never die
Rest in peace technoblade
that was the reason why im here,its so hard to accept that the blood god is gone its so unusual it felt like it wasn't real
No way, we really came here together for grief...I'm the same as you.
Lost my grandma today. She's been by my side all throughout my life, from the moment of my birth until now and we were really close, she's the one who comfort me whenever my parents would bad mouthed me, and she was a really wise person. She's mostly the one who thought us how to be a better person and learn how to carry on with life. Now we are currently mourning for her, and my heart really can't see her, because I don't wanna breakdown infront of people...
im sorry youre going through this. its okay to break down you don't have to put on a brave face for anyone. you are suffering right now. i lost my dad within 6-7 months ago and I still breakdown quite often
😢🧸
I find your situation so relatable. I also lost my grandma yesterday and the fact that I won't be able to see her or talk to her ever again is killing me on the inside. I hope we can heal together. Also I'm editing this in order to thank you for sharing, it made me feel that I'm not alone. * virtual hug *
Yeah I js lost my grandma yesterday. I ain’t seen her since summer. I regret not calling or texting her more mann.
@@mac2541 so sorry 🙏🏾
When I lost my mom I taught I'd never get over it I was so overfilled with grief but now look at me stronger than I can ever be ,I always wrote a journal and trust me it helped me I write a journal everyday
I lost my mother unexpectedly in September...when do things get easier. I want pain 2 stop
@@EnlightenedMindsELEVATE for me, it's not really easier. It's just more durable. It's been over 8 years now. Dealing with being motherless daughter evolves each year with my age. She wasn't there to see me graduate any school, meet my boyfriend, speak with me like women to women... I think I miss her more now than couple years ago. I really really do.
@@EnlightenedMindsELEVATE I'm so sorry faith I hope God fills your heart with patience and love to over come this hard situation ...I didnt even realize it that I was over with griefing I moved away from where I was went to another place for a fresh start I had freinds who I could seek to at moment wen I had break downs i feel like my freinds where the real reason how i got over it they mad me so happy n stuck by me
Wen things used to go wrong I write it in my journal I felt like my journal was connected to my mom like she would be able to read it so I used to vent on my journal telling my mom about every good and bad situation happening in my life so in that way she could at least see me grow into a better person
My mom just got diagnosed with brain cancer so I'm currently in like, pre-grieving grieving. My life is a mess atm.
Can you do one of these for grieving a pet? My cat was literally my everything and it's almost 2 years and I still cant get over it and everyone just tells me he was just a cat but he wasn't to me :'He saved me from suicide attempts, was there for engagements, break ups, 2 kids, 3 moves across canada, and so so so so much more all the while loving me unconditionally.
I agree. Lost my best kitty friend 3 days ago. After spending 16 years with her, I am 100% sure that the "grieving timeline" will be forever.
Leigha Beltrame My sister had bonded with her border collie , she lived with her husband so wasn’t alone but when she died about 5 years ago she cried for days. She still grieves for her Shelby.
The dog died not my sister.
May your cat rest in peace. I hope you get better soon ❤️❤️❤️
Yes it may have been 'just a cat' to them but to u he was ur world.. ur company when times got hard.. dont listen to then u dont need em clearly they rnt there for u
the saddest Ive ever been is when my childhood pet cat died. Hugs
My dad is in the hospital rn idk if he's gonna live but I'm praying I can't stop crying I'm so scared someone please pray for my dad I hope he's gonna be okay 🙏🏽
Lost my mom to cancer 3 weeks ago and I still can’t believe it. She was my best friend and the best mom ever. Don’t know know what to do without her. I’m just lost.
😢
Lost mine a week ago, she was my bestie and gave me good advice. I feel how you feel
My mom passed in August. This loss has been crushing in my life. I'm so tired of people saying get over it or she's in a better place or it's time to get on with your life. No one seem to understand or want to understand my grief. Especially not my family.
I understood,it is so painful that I can't imagine,sorry for ur loss.
I hear you
Jesus understands and he loves you more than you could ever want to be loved and wants to give that peace you are longing for. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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I lost my mother this august too. How are you doing now?? How do I deal with this? 😔
Lost my parents within 5 weeks of each other back in October. People don't understand. They were my best friend. They took care of me for 44 years. People say they're In a better place. No. A better place would be with me at home
The holidays are a time where we may grief over the loss of loved ones or people who should be in our lives celebrating the end of the year with us. That's why we decided to release this video. Hopefully, it can help those who might need it. Please consider sharing or commenting.
@Freddie Mercury Yep! We have two videos here: czcams.com/users/results?search_query=schizophrenia+psych2go
Thanks for the intention, but sadly it won't work that easily on most situations (at least for me; no offense meant since I'm actually going through this), even more when admiting that there is no universal solution to it.
As I stated on another comment, in the end its up to us deciding when and how... But in my case, other than my family, I have no one to count on to look for help and advice for this.
Thank you , Thank you !! I really needed this .
I'm so grateful 🙌
What do u do when u get tired of feeling the grief and question your own existence? Overwhelming at times.
I do have overwhelmed & other 2 issues..thank you so much..
I still think about my past and made my love ones upset sometimes about it..(it's past relationship that wants me to "go burn in hell, where i belong" my ex said...
How should i make those memories... "disappeared"?....
Lost my uncle to cancer today, it’s hard to process…it’s been a hectic past few months but I appreciate the time I’ve gotten to spend and the words of encouragement he gave me. I love you Uncle Kevin ❤️🌟🌺!
Fly high mom, miss you everyday. Praying for everyone who has lost someone..
My dad just passed away last August, and I've been struggling about how to handle the gravity of his death in the family. Thank you for this. I'm not well yet, and it'll probably take a really long time to get over this, but it feels good not to feel alone in times like this.
I am sorry for your losses, i understand because my dad died this august, in front of our eyes, very very suddenly on a zoo trip. Im 16, my mental health is affecting school and relationships, but knowing that im not alone helps me forward 💕 you guys, stay strong 💕
I too completely and fully understand, my dad passed away October and I cry about it almost everyday. It’s getting better, it will get better, just know that you’re very strong and it isn’t easy what you’re going through
My grandpa passed awaythis August too. Ever since then i feel like i have no one in my family who loves and cares about me. I feel so alone especially when holidays are coming :((
I feel yeah my mother passed away in July
my das passed away last August too
I lost my father last month from COVID and i cry every night. I searched grieving for a loved one and this video came up. Its easier said that done but this put many things into perspective for me. Thank you
My father too 💔 It is an unbearable pain.
mine too... together with millions...
@@editorx8067 same bro 2 weeks ago sorry
My mom passed away last night from Covid-19 as well :(
My dad, 3 weeks ago, Covid too...too much pain
Lost both my mum and dad within 5 weeks of each other 2 months ago. I miss them so much. So many regrets not spending more time with them
I lost two family members this winter… I miss them and I wish I could’ve spent more time with them
It’s another thing when more distant relatives are involved (people react in all sorts of ways when that’s the case) but few things in life are as painful as losing a parent. Love to everyone who has.
I lost my cat a week ago. His legs were suddenly paralysed two weeks ago, and then a week later we lost him. I wish I gave him a better life. I wish I wasnt mostly at school. He deserved so, so much better than me. I think I'm better now, I can watch his videos without crying, but it still leaves me sad, and yet happy. What is this? I dont know. And honestly, I'm glad he was in my life. He wasnt just a pet. He was my only best friend. Someone I thought wouldnt betray me or leave me. But I'm not mad at him for leaving me. It was for his good, he would live a very hard life if he recovered anyway, but still, I wish he survived. I dont know anymore.
Isana UwU oh sweet I am so sorry for your loss. I get tears in my eyes only from reading this because I have been through a very similar situation and I want you to know what you are feeling is completely normal and expected. You just lost a member of your family. You gave him the best you knew at the time, it’s normal to feel we could have been better, because now you have the experience of how to do, but not at that time. This feels me how much of a blessing he was in your life, I am pretty sure he also glad to be in your life. Please don’t let your heart feel cold, I feel you have so much love to give in this world. Please feel hugged.
My dad was k!lled when I was 5. It’s still hard because I realize now, how horrible it was. It’s unfair really. All of my friends and cousins got to grow up with their father. They still get to hug their father, love their father, and see their father everyday. That’s something I would do anything for. I just want to be in my fathers arms one last time, even if it’s for a day. I appreciate this video because years later, I still have struggling.
If you are really struggling, then help wouldn't hurt. I believe young people who grew up without one or more parent as some of the strongest people in the world. You should note all the main characters without one or less parents saving the world and rising from the ashs. I know your father would be proud of you and I am too. I also know that he loves you more than anything.
my dad was shot when i was 4 and now im 16, and my mom has cancer im scared to loose my mom😔💔💔
@@lilbaconskrrr4777 you will not lose her.Because god is not that cruel. Hope she will come back to normal life .
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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Yeah man I was supposed to see a dying family member today but she sadly died yesterday, just found out, really a shock, it has only been 3 weeks since she was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and now she’s gone, she used to do my hair, best hair dresser I knew, I’m gonna miss her bright light personality, I didn’t even get to say goodbye…
Love this ! I lost my grandma today 😭😭😭 she lived to be 94! it's been the hardest day . She was the best, so funny and sweet and hardworking and amazing ❤ rest in paradise grandma, I love you !
RIP Technoblade, I haven't really felt anything in months. But this hurts.
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One thing I can’t get over after losing my precious aunt is the idea that I won’t ever see her again. In my mind she is so alive. I can hear her laugh, I can feel her touch and to realize that those thoughts are just memories and I won’t be able to experience her presence anymore is so difficult for me.
This is the same case with me..but it isn’t an aunt it’s my mom and the issue is that i have never ever dreamed of this happening cuz she was young she was 39 and i’m only 12..
Facing the same issue. Lost my aunt month back. She was more than my aunt. A friend a mentor ... a mother.
@@farahimran3670 yes, the pain is so real. It feels like a physical pain. The days feel darker and pointless. I’m still in pain and think about her every day, but each day I feel a bit stronger. There are days that still feel extremely dark for me but I remind myself that my aunt would not want me to be happy. Let yourself feel what you need to feel and the days that feel so dark for you, remind yourself that there will be better days because there will be. She wouldn’t want you to give up on living the only life you have. Live it to the fullest and remind yourself about the love and happiness your aunt gave you.
Thanks for the support
!Jesus loves you and wants to give that peace you are longing for. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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My mother passed away suddenly December of last year and I bought a crafted journal and put photos and memories in . I found this gave me some comfort looking through the good times in her life.
But missing her is so hard at times.
I almost cried on how that felt
I lost my granda , the kindest man alive , he would always smile at everyone and never had a bad word to say about anyone , he would always be worried about if he looked ignorant and if he did he would walk back and say sorry , I loved my granda ever so greatly , he died last night I ran in and seen his still body I couldn’t believe it
I lost my best friend (my dog) two days ago, her decline was sudden and quick, I lost her within 5 days of going to the vet...It's the day after and this helped me release some confusion about what I was feeling and how I even proceed with life, without her. I know it's fresh, and I'm in the thick of it, but I intend to honor her life with living my best, and taking care of myself, so that I am able to continue remembering her and loving her from a far. Thank you for this 5 minute video, it helped.
I'm coming up on 7yrs since I lost my oldest daughter Marissa. After her passing I spent 18 months in bed, I couldn't function. I have been through LOTS of therapy and still am and it has helped, but I have moments like now where I'll have flashes of memories or feelings of her and it's the most painful thing I've ever felt.
I'm unbelievably grateful for the 9 and a half years with her, but of course I want her back. I've never felt such intense pain and sadness. I'm only here on this earth still, cuz I have another daughter that needs me. The hardest thing to do is hold on when you're entire being is telling how easy it would be to just let go. Thankfully these days are fewer and further between.
I guess my outlet right now is commenting on this video, which I appreciate and had good examples and ideas of things to do. So thank you to the creators.
I would also like to say to anyone that is reading this and who has watched this video my heart goes out you and yours.
Love,
Micheal 💚
Last month my wife and I lost our only child. She was 22 years old. Her name is Marisa, (one "s"). I share your grief. I will pray for you. There are no words to express the confusion and pain that we feel. My only and most genuine hope and source of consolation is my faith in Jesus Christ. I have no idea what you may believe, but in this time of tragedy know that God IS in control and is calling you to come to Him. His ways are greater than ours. If you are not a believer I am not trying to sound cliche, nor trite. If you are a Christian then you know that God does love you, He knows the end from the beginning and He has a plan. As confusing as your loss may be, realize that you and Marissa are a part of this plan. Trust Him. All of this is not to say that the pain and tears are not real, they most certainly are. But they don't have to be without hope. From one grieving parent to another, I will pray for you.
I lost my 5 month old baby girl just this Sept 2021. She has a congenital heart disease. I am praying so hard everyday for a miraculous healing. I am so positive that God will grant the healing of her heart i always though that she will grow just like other kids. Losing her is soo painful still cant accept it.. Got no chance to hug her tight and say to her ears how much Mama love her soo much for the very last time. I was so sick and afraid it was covid so i cant go near her but hen she got sick too so we decided to bring her to hospital. I though she's getting well my husband told me her temperature is okay, she dont have cough and oxygen level is okay then my husband told me one morning her oxygen level drops. She died in the hospital while im sick at home. Several days passed before baby returned home and she was already in an urn. The agony of waiting her and seeing her in an urn is so devastating. The thought of I shouĺd have done this and that is killing me .. so much guilt so much regret but whatever I do I cant bring her back. I know I have to accept it but it's so hard dont know where to start i.just want to think she's still here with us. I hope i could make through this.. I just want to be reunited with my daughter but I also have other kids who still need their mama. I dont know what to do.
@@markbless2921 Hello. Thank you for your kind words and sharing your faith with me, it means the world to me. I have been trying to keep my faith everyday and though I have kept it, if I'm being honest some days are harder then others to hold on to that faith. It's still there and I know Jesus will give me the strength to keep moving. So again thank you for your prayers. It means the world to me.
As for your loss, I am unbelievably sorry. As you know as a grieving parent, you know there are no words to say. There's no understanding, life becomes confusing. I just hope that you and your wife live for each other and live through the spirit of your daughter that will never leave you. I hate saying this, but if anything "good" came out of losing my Marissa is she taught me and left to me a beautiful gift of empathy and compassion. I feel your Marisa did the same for you. Hold on to that. I know you guys will. We don't know each other, but we have a bond that most people don't know and I hope never have to know. If you ever need to talk you can message me anytime.
Thank you for your prayers. I will be doing the same for you and your family.
Sincerely,
Micheal Velasquez 💚
@@aimeesoriano9949 Hello, my heart aches for you and your family. I know there is no words. Sometimes saying nothing and just letting you know that someone knows how you're feeling, knows the pain and for you to know you are never alone. Be it through your God or other people like you that have experienced what you have. I'm sorry you were not able to be there with her, I cannot imagine what that must feel like. Please try your best to not blame yourself or play the "should've, would've, could've game." It will only drive you mad. I did the same thing to myself for years (still do at times) for our decision to remove the support that was keeping her alive. It was soul crushing to do that to myself. You just have to remember that you loved and cherished her. That's the gift we parents are able to give to them. I know you love her and always will and that's what matters. We unfortunately have no control like we think we do. It takes times like this to teach us that unfortunate fact. The only advice I can give you is live for her, live for your other children, live for your husband and of course live for yourself. We owe it to our children that have left us to do that for them.
I wish I had words to make your pain go away, but unfortunately I don't. All I can say is you are not alone. If you ever need to talk, please feel free to message me anytime. I will send my love, thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Sincerely,
Micheal Velasquez 💚
I lost my son over 16 months ago. I pretty much been dealing with the grieving process by myself. Sure i have went to group. They weren't grief group gathering. And i have done counciling over the phone due to the pandemic. But that didn't help. I quit talking about my sons death while at group. It seems to make people distant themselves from me. I don't have any comfort at home either. So trying to get out of this numb feeling is practically a no win situation right now. I pray that one day God will heal me in some way some day. Any one out there have the same or any suggestions?
My grandad passed away in his sleep last night, I honestly feel so lost....
Thank you for making this video
My grandpa also passed away this year today due to illness in the hospital. Everyone is deeply sad and emotional but I’ve already accepted this is the way of life. It killed me seeming my family crying because I thought I couldn’t help. Sorry about your grandfather.
@@mivneii863 My grandad passed this morning due to cancer. Whenever I came to him he always said ‘hello boy!’ And when he was on his deathbed, he still remembered me. 3:12 AM, 31-10-20
@@arsenalgoat5333 I’m sad about my grandfather’s death because I didn’t get the chance to see him, the last time I saw him it went horribly, I heard he had a seizure when trying to get to my parents’ place so he could stay with us for a few weeks. He ended up in the hospital after getting sick but then at the hospital he caught the Coronavirus and there are only a few videos on my mom’s phone of him saying goodbye to me and my siblings. I’m glad my grandpa can rest after living as stressful life trying to help his family out. I’m sorry about your grandpa but I bet he’s happy to have you in his life before he passed.
@@mivneii863 Sorry to hear about that. My grandfather had a few days left to live, so 2 days before he died I went to see him. On 3:12 AM my nan called me to say about it.
@@arsenalgoat5333 I found out about my grandad when my mom came home from work to tell me. The mood has been extremely gloomy since.
I live with my grandpa and in the short spand of a week he was diagnosed with stage 4 melanoma cancer with brain metastasis and past away shortly after. It all happended too quickly and left me feeling so empty ,like the habit of living together just vanished in a couple of days. Now i live alone and have to face the scary world, i know i can do it and ihope You guys do too.
I'm still struggling with the fact that Technoblade is dead. I don't want to believe it's real, it almost feels like a dream. I watched his last video last night before going to sleep, and I genuinely thought it was just a bad dream when I woke up... I wish it was.
Yesterday, my grandfather died in front of me, He was 72 years old. He was sick for about 5/6 months, it was a heart problem. He had cardio vascular bleeding for last 1 month. He struggled all his life for our family. He loved me more than anything.
I'm in grief and depression although I can't cry, I don't know why.
Pray for him if you can :)
RIP Humayun Reza (1948-2020)
I can relate
My paternal grandpa,let's just say he pressed ALT+F4 this morning.
He had a stroke last Thursday and was in hospital the whole time.
I can't believe last night will be my last time seeing him open his eyes.
Why he have to leave us?
Why?
I'm so sad that I cant even cry
Why my teenage life has to be shit?
I really want to cry but I just can't.
That's how sad I am.
For my next professional kart race,I'm wearing a special helmet design to pay Tribute and Honor to my paternal grandfather.
R.I.P.
Chan Kwok Kwan
(1934-2021)
(I know I'm spamming this like frick,but I want more people to know how fucking sad I am.)
I can't even explain the excruciating pain in my heart. I've cried for the past 10 months non stop, it hurts so much. All those treasured moments I took for granted, now a distant memory! I feel like life isn't even worth living, 2020 has so much to answer to. The mental trauma is real.
Jesus loves you and only he can give you true peace and a life worth living. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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My cousin has covid and i cried for 2 hours straight. Then i found this video, it made me stop crying and realised that i am there and i will keep on pushing on
Thank you
I'm relieved moonbin is resting peacefully but this selfish part of me wants him to stay even tho he was hurting when he was alive, I so desperately wish I could've saved him . I love you moonbin 🕊🖤
I can't stop thinking about him 😭, I also very desperately wish i could've saved him Rest In Peace Moonbin
That's why I came to this video.. I feel like I'm stuck in a limbo. As soon I saw the news, I immediately shook my head and laughed because I genuinely didn't think it could be true. I thought it was just a sick joke that became a rumor.. but the more I read, I realized that this is the reality. I feel so guilty that I didn't love him as much as I should have. I know it could never change anything, but he deserved all the love in the world. He put on a smile for us and we never knew he was struggling. I still keep trying to tell myself everyone is wrong and he's alive.. but then I start to think about how I'll never get to see him on stage doing what he loves anymore. It's all just a memory now. I feel lost since I actually knew of him and watched astro since All Night. I can't imagine how his family and members must be feeling. We were only fans and saw what he wanted us to see.. so it's hard for the people who saw him everyday. I keep watching videos of him being happy to help ease my heart. I don't want to believe it's true, but I know it is. I just never thought he could pass away. At least not this young. When I look at his pictures, I don't always feel sad because it's like there's this lingering hope that he'll show his face to us saying he's okay and not to worry.. but he's become a star now. He will live forever next to the moon. Forever in Heaven where he's not suffering. I pray for everyone who is grieving his loss. I feel selfish because I didn't know him personally, but I'm allowing myself to be sad knowing it will pass. I'll get better as time goes on. He will stay in my heart and live there with me wherever I go. RIP Moonbin 🙏💙 My Butterfly 🦋
I am an army and I have never heard of him before but after the news I feel so bad , you all arohas are really strong,army's are with you all...
Still can't believe that he's no more.... I'm not able to process the emotions it's hurting, We weren't able to understand him. He had the most beautiful smile Moonbin I hope you're at peace now😞🕊️
it's almost 2 years after she leaves me , she was my first love , i mean my truly first love , the one who i really care and think about. i miss her so much , the things we did , those memories. i hope she know how much i miss her rn.
This was perfect timing, I just lost an amazing person in my life today. This is just the video that I needed. Grief is hard and I know that. Thx Psycho2Go...
Geeky Gamers 🙏♥️
Sorry for your loss!
❤🙏🏻🙏🏻
Sending you love, hugs, and support ❤️❤️
Same
I lost my fiancé to cancer on the 30th of January this year. I have been going through a cocktail of emotions. One moment I am so sad, the next so angry other times happy when I remember the good times we shared.
Our son just turned 3yrs, I feel sad that his dad isn't here to see him grow. All I can do is be thankful for the years we had with him.
Rest in peace Kioko💔💔
My mom has been sick for about 3 years now and I hope I don’t lose her. I wish things would go back to the way they used to be.
My mom committed suicide in September, and now I avoid everything that I can having to do with self-harm (she didn't self-harm, I'm the one struggling with it), suicide, or anything that reminds me of her, including a certain song. Sometimes I think of her posting a status update on Facebook or calling one of my relatives and I kind of let myself forget that she's gone. I hate it.
I just want to let go of all this pain and hurt that I'm not letting myself feel, but I'm so scared to let myself feel all of my repressed emotions.
We all were in these situations, it's so hard and unforgivable, don't bother yourself that you're not forgetting or moving on your life we all were through this shit and it takes a lot of time. Feel free to text me everytime you want. Don't forget that you're never there is so many people out there waiting for you.
Me too. I want my mommy back. I have to see her again.
Sometimes we unintentionally protect ourselves by repressing our emotions. In due time you’ll be able to “deal” with it and allow those emotions to be there too.
You’ll learn how to give it a place within your new life. Which might not make it hurt any less but it will become easier to recover yourself whenever you feel lost.
I hope you’ll be able to recover. I wish you the best! Keep your memories alive and remember, there is always someone who loves you!
That made me cry bro😭
You deserve it
I lost my big brother this morning. He is the closest brother to me, he is so kind, he's always so generous to us and my parents. he always buys me food even though I didn't tell him I was hungry. He got into an accident. Someone crashes from the back of his motorcycle. This is my first time I lost someone I dear the most especially when it comes to family members. Im 14. He is 22. Young I know. I really missed him even tho it has just been a few hours.
Hey Shara I have a similar experience I lost my brother in 2018... he was 20 and I was 15 . You'll miss him for the rest of your life and that's normal. I surely miss mine every day and it's been three years. I won't say anything because words never made me feel any better but time definitely heals .
I am so sorry for your loss, I too lost my beloved brother suddenly. I know how it feels.
My brother was shot and killed on Monday. 😢 it wasn’t right. He was only 22. They got rid of a man with a family, with a 2 year old son. It hurts that he’s really gone. Love you big bro til we meet again 🕊️
Sorry for your loss bro
My boyfriend had covid and died Jan 22, 2022. He was the love of my life and taught me true love. He was everything to me. I pray we will meet again in Heaven ❤️ I love you Ro
My sister passed yesterday at 38 years old. I just want to be happy, I want to share the joy and kindness she shared with everyone she met. I know she wouldn't want me to be upset.
Only Jesus can bring true joy and happiness. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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You want to be happy after your sister died? I don't know how that is possible or even if it's a good thing to be happy, it just simply doesn't make any sense. I lost my brother at age 38 Nov 2021 and i am still grieving, I don't think I can ever stop grieving his loss.
When I was 9 years old my mom passed away. Before that happened I loved to play the violin and I did really well in contests. My mom always played with me and taught me. Until on the day before Christmas my dad got a call. My mom had passed away from brain cancer. Ever since than I haven't been able to do a lot of things. When I play the violin I vomit, I can't cry anymore, and I'm alone. I still hope someone can save me one day. If you loose a family member like me than don't do things like how I did. Open up to people and tell them you hurt. Learn that you can't always be what they want you to be but that's the beauty of it. Love is an amazing thing that we cant live without. Open up to people before the pain really sinks in.
-Have a good life
Zen
It's not too late, I'm wishing you a good life too.
I’m struggling with the loss of Technoblade. It feels as bad as when I lost my cousin back in 2018. It feels weird feeling this way to someone I never met, and it hurts so much more when I have no one to talk to. I want to tell my mom about it but she doesn’t know techno and might not understand. I’ve never got over the death of my cousin so I probably won’t do it with Techno, though it’s worse when no one I know what I’m going through.
I had to delete TikTok and turn off notifs for twitter just so I wouldn’t accidentally stumble upon people saying their goodbyes. Feels so bad when my most comfort app is gone for now.
Here for the same reason
Here for same reason and deleted all socials
@@Preppyxoxo_vids I would have deleted my twitter off my phone too but I’m a devoted MCC fan and waiting for the teams to drop so I need twitter for that.
same mann, he is the only hes the only motivation i have left. this is the saddest i've ever been.
Tbh same man it’s so weird cause I don’t know techno irl but I feel to sad and weird and I just can’t believe he is dead you always think you childhood yters are going to live forever and it’s so weird to know he is really dead ❤
I lost my best friend/ girlfriend this week, I feel terrible, I'm 17 and my life has gone worse now, I wish I could appreciate her more.
Thank you
My brother & uncle died a day apart so it really took a toll on me. I avoided grieving and paid for it later. Now I heal through prayer and celebrating my loved ones memories. Between January and March I lost 4 really close family members 😢 BUT GOD 🙌🏾
I wish I got to give my great nana one last hug, and to tell her I love you so much for the last time. The memories we had of playing with her pet parrot. One minute I'm in her living room, next in hospital, next at her funeral. Everyone misses the warm glow of her smile on the darkest days. And the old smell of her house which is now the house of a young couple who's house smells like cigarettes. SORRY EVERYONE, SAYING THIS MADE ME FEEL BETTER! Miss you great nana, spread your wings and fly high angel 🕊️🌠💘
Just a reminder that gods with you in these tough times amen 🙏
My dog passed away a few days ago. He was sixteen. I’ve had him for sixteen years of my life. He was my best friend and the sweetest soul in the world. I am very numb and it hasn’t hit me yet. I’ve been just sleeping super deeply. Feels like he’s just going to come up to me any minute. Sometimes i’ve have arguments in my head going back and forth saying he’s here with me versus he’s not. I haven’t cried though, because I think I am numb. I also saw him pass away. Which was heartbreaking but it was quick. My mind has blocked out that memory from my brain so I can’t really remember even tho it was only a few days ago. Sometimes I feel like he was just a dream. It feels so distant that he was here even tho he was just last week. I miss him so much and I feel like I just can’t feel anything. I want to cry and let it out but I can’t.
I lost my dog today and i cant stop crying she was always with me now i feel so empty it hurts very much.
@@Aatrox44 I’m so sorry. it’s been two years now and I just cried this morning about him again. it gets better but will always have a hole in my heart. it’s terrible. ik exactly how you feel.
i lost my dad to cancer back in 2013, grief really sticks with you.. losing a loved one is something you never truly get over, it's almost like a wound that never fully heals.. you do learn to adapt to the environment and it does get easier with time, but there are moments where I yearn for them it can become excruciating.. I'd give anything to see him once more and tell him how much I love him
I just lost my 12-year-old cousin. She died in her sleep. She wasn't sick, she was this beautiful, healthy preteen. I don't know what happened but I have to go to New Mexico and help my family. My whole family is grieving. She was a light to this world. Now she is with God and she is at peace❤😭😭😭 I miss her so much
Rip
❤️🙏
Im so sorry....
I lost my young cat few days ago. She is the prettiest, sweetest, kindest, most gentle and most adorable kid I have ever known. I searched for this kind of video to get rid of mental breakdowns.
Thanks for sharing this, as I am going crazy thinking of her. I want her to rest and live in peace and stay happy where ever she is.
I feel you. Its been a year for me and i still feel like shit.
I feel exactly the same. He was So young😞 Died out of nowhere… hè was So special, kind, pretty.. I could go on for ages. I feel lost and miss his little habits so much. I cant describe how much I miss him. But i know hè lived really happy so that makes it a bit more easy to deal with. Hope you are doing well🙌
It's been a year since my cat went missing and I hope he's out there somewhere happy💔
These videos have been very helpful, thank you. I've lost my husband recently and the grief has been harder than I've ever dealt with before.
I watched this video bc my grampa, whom I loved so much passed away the morning of this comment. Im only 14 and I had to say goodbye to my last living grandpa. I held his cold limp had to say my goodbyes. I am paralyzed with grief as of writing this comment. When we arrived at my grandparents house after the news, i saw my grandma, crying hystericly while holding him. I had noticed that he had one last tear in his eye. After I said my final goodbyes, I cried in my moms arms the most I have ever cried. I have all of these mixed emotions in me right now including anger, depression, and some suicidal thoughts. I will try to overcome this though. As he is now in heaven with a new body taking care of my grandmas dog who passed away almost a year ago of desiese. I just dont know how I can overcome it. God bless his and everyone elses souls.
Guys appreciate everyone around you. Hug them love them. Once they are gone you will regret it all.
My grandfather is in the hospital. My dad is crying in a way I've never seen before, and there's nothing that anyone can do about it. We all have had some emotional connection to him, but my dad was raised, cared for, and owed so much to him. Just seeing him in such a weak state is heartbreaking.
this sucks
2/4/22 he passed away this morning at ~4:00 am. RIP GRANDPA ILY
I miss you alex
Same bro
We all do man
I just lost my grandma today,it felt like I'm living trough hell.she always done alot of things for me and didn't ignore me and always cared for me.i love you grandma you will always stay in my heart
I lost my grandma, she was mean and i was young so i didn't feel much. But i lost someone very close recently very much a mother to me. It feels very weird that you cant text them or visit them for a chat. Its like they went missing. Feels weird
I pray that God will comfort your heart! I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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@@kelleymcfadden9675 I hope God comforts you as well
I lost my grandma too its been like three weels sinse and my and my. Mother still cry after her. I left my home country and left her and my grandpa there to and to cope with that i just wouldnt really talk to her as it was too painfull talking to her as i never seeed her but she died on the 6th of may and i regret everything missing her messages those sweet things shed send my little bears kittens cats and i never replied or said anything i regret that she was like. A second mother to me taking care of me since i was a baby she would do everything for me i remember before we left home she would always buy me lego as she knew i loved it she was the the best
Hey its been 2 yrs you commented on this video , I want ask after 2 yrs how you feeling is anything changed in life ? Bcz I lost my both grandparents in span of 3 months my grandpa in oct 2023 and grandma just 15 days ago on jan 31st idk how to cope up with loss bcz I lived with them for all my life(I am 18yrs old) so I have a habit of seeing them everytime daily . my heart wrenches when I their empty room 😢💔
My grandfather just died yesterday and I dont have words that can explain how much I miss him. I can still hear his voice talking to me. And I feel so bad for my family. They are suffering and I cant stand watching them in this state. I hope that we will get through it.
I feel so sorry for you my grandas died a month ago and I'm still trying to get over it
i feel sorry for you stay strong i also lost my mom a few days ago and i’m lost..(she was 39 and i am 12..)
@@Dead.555 you as well. I hope you are holding up. take care
Lost my grandma today, I didn't spend that much time with her and I really regret it.
Love you, grandma,
Rip techno
Yeah... RIp Techno. He was an amazing man.
Yeah too bad he had to go
R.i.p blood god
I lost an internet friend, who i sadly never got to meet in real life. We were chatting in a discord group with other people for several months, everyday. For the past few months we almost didn't talk at all but he died in an accident five days ago. This is my first experience with death so it was fairly new to me. At first it was denial and shock, cried in the evening the past three days. Actually noted my feelings, drew a meaningful portrait of them, thought of them almost constantly. I went to church today and lit up a candle, thought of them once again. Still grieving, stomach issues, zero motivation and problems with sleeping. Hope it's gonna be over soon and that they're in a better place 💕
I’m so sorry. May they Rest In Peace 💓
My beloved grandpa died 4 days ago. I feel shattered. He had chronic heart failure. His condition had been getting worse during the last 8 months and as a result he was constantly in and out of hospitals. I knew he hadn't much time left, but one thing I also learned for good is that no matter how aware you are of such situations, you are NEVER really prepared for them. My condolences to all of you who have lost your beloved ones and I pray that their souls rest in peace 💔🙏