5 signs that your home is DATED!

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  • Wondering if your home is dated? Here are the top 5 tell tale signs!
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Komentáře • 536

  • @reneeburich9497
    @reneeburich9497 Před 11 měsíci +347

    Oh gosh, if we changed everything every time certain things are deemed “dated”, we’d need to be working 24/7 to earn the money to redo or repurchase!

    • @baseballmomof8
      @baseballmomof8 Před 11 měsíci +5

      😂👍🏻

    • @luluesparza7360
      @luluesparza7360 Před 11 měsíci +25

      I think if everything in a house was new, it would look like it was staged for Costco or Amazon.

    • @user-ig9ri5er1c
      @user-ig9ri5er1c Před 11 měsíci +6

      Yes, totally agree!!

    • @sarahjensen8095
      @sarahjensen8095 Před 11 měsíci +23

      No, you need to rewatch other videos. You’re confusing updating with trend chasing. Updating is for things that won’t be back in style. She always says to stay away from things that are too trendy for big buys. You can get a trendy pillow or blanket (styling items) but base high ticket buys should be neutral, non trend.

    • @luluesparza7360
      @luluesparza7360 Před 11 měsíci +5

      @@sarahjensen8095 not confused with her mocking cherry wood lovers

  • @amya9597
    @amya9597 Před 11 měsíci +222

    My neighbor is a design consultant as her husband is a builder. She’s a big believer in making your house YOURS, not what other people think you should have. If you want a fiberglass shower because you hate the expense and cleaning tile, go for it. It’s about being comfortable in your own home and not worrying about keeping up with what you feel like your supposed to have.

  • @dutchessoftruth5435
    @dutchessoftruth5435 Před 9 měsíci +8

    Keeping up with trends makes your house look dated. Classic style is timeless.

    • @cynthiajohnston424
      @cynthiajohnston424 Před měsícem +1

      Yes ! Always wondered at what point do things become dated / outdated or considered traditional / classic / vintage / antique , etc. ? Also , just how long does a " trend " last ? I was an interior designer & these issues , while no longer keeping me awake at night , still seem to be open to very diverse opinions ! 😂

    • @thawtianajawnson30
      @thawtianajawnson30 Před 14 dny

      Timeless = boring

  • @luciafuruta4075
    @luciafuruta4075 Před 10 měsíci +9

    It's my home. I use colors that make me feel happy and calm.

  • @psyche8187
    @psyche8187 Před 11 měsíci +102

    The main thing that dates your house is redoing entire rooms or the entire house all at once. Because like it or not, you’re going to be influenced by trends. If you build it slowly, your paint color might be 2012, but your couch is 2022, and so on. Antiques help too.

    • @AZTucker
      @AZTucker Před 11 měsíci +2

      Brilliant!

    • @triciajulian1320
      @triciajulian1320 Před 11 měsíci +19

      Why do you laugh the whole time? What is so funny? Very annoying.

    • @joanzach4859
      @joanzach4859 Před 11 měsíci +1

      We are doing a total renovation and refurbishment of our 1994 house for exactly that reason

    • @jacquelinegraham1050
      @jacquelinegraham1050 Před 10 měsíci +6

      ​@triciajulian1320 I never like to be mean....but the constant laughing is so strange and so distracting. I think she thinks it makes her videos entertaining. I'm truly glad she is a happy bubbly person. That's great. But....geez....save it for home. Not professional endeavors. I can no longer watch because of the non-stop laughing. Very very weird.

    • @willmulligan2216
      @willmulligan2216 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Be nice..very MEAN video..and I’m a successful designer in SoCal..just STOP

  • @cynthia2233
    @cynthia2233 Před 11 měsíci +57

    To me.....WINDOW COVERINGS date a room quicker than anything else! That can often be remedied by just taking those flowered or brocade curtains down!

  • @deelehey2827
    @deelehey2827 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Grey is a timeless neutral and blends with everything.

  • @sunshinegalkw9675
    @sunshinegalkw9675 Před 11 měsíci +17

    You know, my house is dated. I can’t afford to switch things out. But I still love my home. It’s comfortable enough for me..

    • @stacyhamilton1421
      @stacyhamilton1421 Před 10 měsíci +2

      You can update with paint. It's amazing the difference it makes, and it's inexpensive if you do it yourself.

    • @sunshinegalkw9675
      @sunshinegalkw9675 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@stacyhamilton1421 I do! Lol! I just went from black in the living room to a robins egg blue! Loving it. And wall pops are good vinyl wallpaper. I do that too!

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl Před 10 měsíci +1

      That is what matters. If it is beautiful and comfortable in your own eyes, that is the whole point of decorating, for you, not for others.

  • @arm7916
    @arm7916 Před 11 měsíci +87

    I love this video.
    I just painted Gray 2 years ago.
    I used professional painters and it cost a lot.
    I need to keep this gray for a while,
    I am sure lots of people have gray, I am sure, and can not afford to change their entire house.
    I am decorating with beige, creams, browns, and tans. I use a pop of color each season that helps bring my rooms to life.
    I must say it looks pretty awesome with my gray walls. My gray is not a cool gray but a warmer gray.
    I think I do not look dated at all.

    • @irisscally950
      @irisscally950 Před 11 měsíci

      I was wondering, where did you get your cubes, ottomans?

    • @VanessaSamparras
      @VanessaSamparras Před 11 měsíci +10

      Same here. I got my house a year ago and I had to choose spending money on a new kitchen or completely sanding and restraining the cherry hardwood floor 😢
      So I chose the kitchen 😂
      But to break the warm floors I had to paint the house gray and nothing else. The furniture is cream to contrast, black accents, brass finishes…
      I think it works

    • @katemclean3301
      @katemclean3301 Před 11 měsíci +12

      Yes. Grey is a neutral and don't worry it will be trending again next year. I prefer greys to beige and browns simply because I use a lot of white and the contrast is crisp. You do You. Best wishes Aus.
      Australian weather

    • @cherylkavanagh3387
      @cherylkavanagh3387 Před 11 měsíci +4

      @@katemclean3301 Same here.

    • @cherylkavanagh3387
      @cherylkavanagh3387 Před 11 měsíci +9

      Totally agree with you. I have the same in my house and I love my gray walls.

  • @SharonStoppable
    @SharonStoppable Před 11 měsíci +36

    I'm such an interior design nerd: i see a Valentina notification, i click the Valentina notification.

  • @p.j.b.9999
    @p.j.b.9999 Před 11 měsíci +18

    You should add vertical blinds, swagged drapes, wallpaper borders, and colored toilets & tubs.

  • @arthurgroff20
    @arthurgroff20 Před 11 měsíci +30

    Love your channel: however, could not resist this one. 10 years ago all of the RH stores did "slate gray" on their walls with all white furniture. I fell in love, and painted every wall in my home with their paint. I still have slate gray walls (even though they changed to white) and white furniture, with black accessories. I also changed from brass to polished nichol. I tire of things easily but never tired of this look. Everyone who enters my small modest home asked who my designer is. It's breath taking, so I don't see myself changing any time soon. It's all in how you work with this color that makes it fabulous!!!

    • @aileencrane7700
      @aileencrane7700 Před 10 měsíci

      I always gravitate towards brushed nickel as well. Love it!

  • @talithakoum1266
    @talithakoum1266 Před 11 měsíci +177

    Speaking as someone who used to spend my free time on this stuff I just want people to know that home decor is a neverending money suck. Design is subjective in the end - you can copy people but in the end you’ll want something that actually feels like you and your family. And these design trends are just that-trends. They change constantly and you will never reach the end of it. Find a hobby that actually matters.
    There are sooooo many more worthwhile things to spend money on or give money to.

    • @jollymollyramram9702
      @jollymollyramram9702 Před 11 měsíci +22

      Come on😉 People know that and they are here because they want to. Great that you’ve outgrown interior decorating and enjoy your time on other things. But many really like it as a hobby just as any other and find it fulfilling. We’re all different and personally I hate anybody telling me what to spend my time and money on✌️

    • @carlasilva8098
      @carlasilva8098 Před 11 měsíci +6

      Precisely, consumer mentality leads people to be constantly searching for the modern look. The real problem is when there is no house to redecorate, not a dated look.

    • @janetbof4
      @janetbof4 Před 11 měsíci +9

      With all due respect, you must still enjoy as you are here. There is a way to decorate without going through all the trends, if you go traditional or transitional, purchase what speaks to you and that will never go out of style. You can play around with small decor pieces periodically when you just want something new.

    • @amysill3815
      @amysill3815 Před 11 měsíci +3

      Yes, agree 100%

    • @katie8325
      @katie8325 Před 11 měsíci +8

      Oh please, random stranger on the internet, do let us know what you deem worthwhile 🙄
      Do bore off with your sanctimony

  • @janeedwards5947
    @janeedwards5947 Před 11 měsíci +10

    Please, with the laughter :(

  • @KHHathaway
    @KHHathaway Před 11 měsíci +5

    My house is dated , but I love it. It’s warm and cozy

  • @susanlarkin3790
    @susanlarkin3790 Před 11 měsíci +42

    As an English decor enthusiast, these “outdated” decor schemes actually can be melded with modern touches for a layered and lovely home. I have even seen the “orange” oak cabinets look absolutely modern and cool with changes in surrounding tile and textiles! I watch Valentina for educational and entertainment purposes…i.e., she is a hoot! (And she really did make accommodations for using carpet as well as suggestions for the other outdated concepts.)

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl Před 10 měsíci +6

      Exactly. Classic decor incorporates other wood colors into a very balanced and attractive look. All woods are beautiful and not all has to be blonde or wengue colored wood.
      I had seen beautifully refreshed kitchens in the red/orange toned woods including mine.

  • @milamihailovic4738
    @milamihailovic4738 Před 11 měsíci +18

    (matte) black hardware is such a NOW thing, it will get old FAST! Not a classic imo.

  • @janem9016
    @janem9016 Před 11 měsíci +44

    One thing that I think really dates a house is light fixtures. Our house was almost 18 years old when we bought it and boy the bedroom, bathroom, hall lights and the stairway sconces were so outdated. It took me a couple years to find the perfect replacements and I think it makes all the difference.

    • @michellecd4722
      @michellecd4722 Před 10 měsíci

      Yes! I am renting my condo and I hate the light fixtures, I liked them myself but in the 90s, that oiled brown tone and ugly too large ceiling fans, yucky yuck lol.

    • @jimfoster7986
      @jimfoster7986 Před 10 měsíci +2

      What a lot of these design bloggers never say is that you can really make a big difference by updating a few key things. And you’re right, light fixtures are one of those things.

    • @amberlights_home2894
      @amberlights_home2894 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Huh…that’s literally exactly what she said in the video she talked about a few key things including light fixtures

    • @katehepburn9544
      @katehepburn9544 Před 10 měsíci

      I know what you mean! I changed out my horrid ceiling fans with sleek modern ones.

    • @tonawhitaker3416
      @tonawhitaker3416 Před 9 měsíci

      I would definitely agree with that, 100%

  • @t.s.5206
    @t.s.5206 Před 11 měsíci +27

    In the South plantation shutters (modern, wide slat, white) are still in style and always will be. I’m looking for designers and decorators to acknowledge that & do some videos on how to decorate / use fabrics to complement windows or rooms already decored with shutters.

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl Před 10 měsíci +2

      Check Garrett Le Chic, he advocates for using what you already have and how to keep it looking fresh. He talks about shutters. Julie Khuu is good with classic stuff as well.

  • @mariannerichard1321
    @mariannerichard1321 Před 11 měsíci +40

    About these 90s-2000s oak cabinets, you can also dye them into a more neutral tone, so you keep the texture of wood, without the dated color. Change the countertop and hardwares, the color of the walls, light fixtures and you get a new look while still keeping the cabinets. Sure, it won't be top trends, but it will look fresh enough. ^__^

    • @mariannerichard1321
      @mariannerichard1321 Před 11 měsíci +1

      You can even use the painted/dyed 90s-2000s cabinets as a base to move to more trendy French Country style. ^_^

    • @karenschrantz2307
      @karenschrantz2307 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@mariannerichard1321 Can you tell me more about painting wood toned cabinets? Updated to what color for Golden Oak?

    • @mariannerichard1321
      @mariannerichard1321 Před 11 měsíci +5

      @@karenschrantz2307 "Stained" seems to be the proper word. You can have done by a professional or you can do it yourself. They says it's cheaper than painting. It seems another method is "bleaching" which gives a lighter, more rustic look.

    • @karenschrantz2307
      @karenschrantz2307 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@mariannerichard1321 Thank you!

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl Před 10 měsíci +1

      If you want a change, that is fine but that "dated" look is so subjective. I am tired with these so called designers pushing to make the illusion that other wood colors are dated or are so horrible they cannot exist, when that is not true. Kitchens can be "updated" to look fresh even with their wood color as is.
      They were there in the first place for a reason.

  • @MmeO
    @MmeO Před 11 měsíci +10

    I still love my cherry bedroom and blue and white jars! Sleighbed - you'd hate it!!!

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl Před 10 měsíci +1

      Same as me. I love cherry wood.

    • @GenXHeart
      @GenXHeart Před 10 měsíci

      Remember the Bombay Company? 😍 I couldn't afford anything in there for my first apartment but I loved the feeling in that store. My taste today is very different but I just thought it was so warm and classy!

    • @cynthiajohnston424
      @cynthiajohnston424 Před měsícem

      Mahogany sleighbed , blue & white ginger jars , etc. - very traditional !

  • @hopecreekranch365
    @hopecreekranch365 Před 11 měsíci +30

    For fellow viewers describing your decor and what you’re keeping/not keeping, I’m enjoying that as much as Valentina’s video!

    • @tinam761
      @tinam761 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Me too! I like to see what people are doing! Hearing their color palettes… that’s why I’m scrolling lol 😁

  • @hopecreekranch365
    @hopecreekranch365 Před 11 měsíci +42

    Heavy wood antique furniture is an obsession! And with family heirlooms and Facebook Marketplace, I’ve been able to furnish my home very inexpensively. I love that no one wants it! A mashup of cottagecore, western ranch (turns out antique saddles are cool design accessories and my cats say they’re the best cat chairs - plus photos of cats on saddles are everything!) and dark academia - heck yes please. Did I mention I have ADHD and get bored easily? I never thought about it until just now, but I wonder if that’s why my design style is “all the things all over the place” :-) BUT in my defense these styles have common elements, and with thoughtful color choices, placement and repetitive textures, I think they actually blend beautifully.

    • @MmeO
      @MmeO Před 11 měsíci +3

      Agreed!!

    • @bitabonita3713
      @bitabonita3713 Před 11 měsíci +1

      It could be charming depending on how you decorate and not to saturate an area.

    • @marleneyanchus4644
      @marleneyanchus4644 Před 11 měsíci

      Much more interesting than all black and white homes ,who to me look cold and boringly cookie cutter

    • @JessSwin214
      @JessSwin214 Před 10 měsíci

      Agreeing ADHD person here!

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl Před 10 měsíci +1

      No, you are just a very chic eclectic person, with an eclectic decor.

  • @rachelstacy1
    @rachelstacy1 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I LOVE round aged brass door knobs and specially sourced these for my home. Sorry V.

  • @karenross3457
    @karenross3457 Před 11 měsíci +6

    I agree with trashing the wall to wall carpet. I love showing off my 60 year old oak hardwood floors that go perfectly with my light oak cabinets. Why would anyone get rid of classic cherry furniture with dove tail drawers made in American to replace it with junk from Home Goods? Do heirlooms and fine craftsmanship become part of your design style. How do you work with clients who wish to keep their Queen Ann or Chippendale ?

    • @princesskkay221
      @princesskkay221 Před 9 měsíci

      cheery wood is just really dark and masculine looking. it’s really hard to lighten it up and make it look light, airy, fresh and feminine. if it’s real wood you can always stain it,
      you don’t necessarily have to throw it away if it’s in good shape. i just moved and someone gave me a solid wood table but the color wood doesn’t go with my floors, but it’s in great shape & a quality piece so i’m just going to stain it

  • @mfernandez4338
    @mfernandez4338 Před 10 měsíci +8

    No one can keep up with the trends all the time unless you have unlimited funds and design smarts. Do what you love whether it’s in or out. Move your stuff around, declutter, and keep updating little by little when you can and how you can. Your home is yours, not anyone else’s to design.

  • @carolyn2249
    @carolyn2249 Před 11 měsíci +46

    I'm getting ready to do a massive whole-house renovation and will be putting wall-to-wall carpet in the den and all of the bedrooms! I've had hardwood floors and they always seem to be dusty...I think carpet is actually much easier to clean. Plus I just love the softness of it. I'll also be doing a 2-tier island (against all my friends' advice) because I've always hated flat islands and counter-height barstools. In the end, who cares? Trends come and go. By choosing my favorite things, I won't have to worry about it going out of style every few years because it'll be MY style, not everyone else's!

    • @foilesfamily508
      @foilesfamily508 Před 11 měsíci +2

      It matters that you love it!

    • @sozod2000
      @sozod2000 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Same here! Just built a new house and doing carpet in the bedrooms and hall and stairs. We lived in houses with all hard wood floors for 20 years and we’re ready to have plush bedrooms. Wood floors are through out the rest of the house. If you vacuum regularly there shouldn’t be dust build up 🤔…The connection hose gets behind furniture. It will help with keeping the rooms warm in winter and as a sound barrier between upstairs and downstairs.
      We have an open floor plan and are doing the 2-tiered island/table set up too! I love a counter height island and do not like climbing onto bar stools to sit for meals…so uncomfortable for me😬. It will be T shape …top of T is the island and bottom of T is the family table. 🙌🏼

    • @amya9597
      @amya9597 Před 11 měsíci

      👏

    • @jollymollyramram9702
      @jollymollyramram9702 Před 11 měsíci +1

      I live in Scandinavia and carpets are rarely seen. I do rugs simply because environmentally friendly/eco carpets are too expensive and that’s what I’d prefer in a carpet. You’re right it does a lot for the acustic in a room - even rugs. I offered to buy my neighbors a big rug for their living room that’s on the opposite side of my bedroom but they didn’t take me up on it, they are much quieter now so it’s fine😅

    • @AP12360
      @AP12360 Před 11 měsíci +3

      You have to vacuum carpet and then use a carpet shampoo machine to get them really clean. That is way more work than vacuuming hardwood floors and mopping real quick.

  • @marleneyanchus4644
    @marleneyanchus4644 Před 11 měsíci +7

    I love your mother ,I will never ever paint wood cabinets , to each his own but I'm sick to my stomach of white kitchens as for wall to wall carpeting I need it in
    Pennsylvania it's cold here 9 months out of the year

  • @04nbod
    @04nbod Před 11 měsíci +12

    LOL. Wall to Wall carpet is very popular in the UK, especially in bedrooms. If pipes run under your floorboards it really is the only option because if that bursts the floor is a goner and will probably mean redoing the entire top floor

  • @amberfreitag42
    @amberfreitag42 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Good attention to detail my Mom bought me new crystal nobs for my dresser and she’s so nice she got me a cherry wood dresser

  • @janeth.3283
    @janeth.3283 Před 11 měsíci +8

    Agree 100% no carpet! Hardwood or tiles so much better, cleaner and dust free living. Rugs are the way to go.

  • @joannvanhorn6928
    @joannvanhorn6928 Před 11 měsíci +3

    I’m 78… have owned my home for 6 yrs & all walls r a very lite gray… no way I can afford to repaint the whole house & frankly I still like it. I have added beige accents.

  • @JJ-to6qu
    @JJ-to6qu Před 11 měsíci +2

    Quality craftsmanship and materials tend to stand the test of them, age gracefully, and be a much better investment than passing trends.

  • @brendamccormick134
    @brendamccormick134 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I think the cherry cabinets look good if you update the countertop super light.

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl Před 10 měsíci

      Yes balancing the darker wood with lighter countertops freshens up the space while keeping beautiful cherry wood there.

  • @Fitzwillyfl
    @Fitzwillyfl Před 10 měsíci +2

    My house in in fact dated. Yup… I bought a 1927 Sears bungalow that had been stripped in the name of “Modern Farmhouse” style. I went right to work putting walls back up…recreating woodwork… hunting vintage fixtures and I even found the original built-in buffet and china hutches that had been ripped out. 😊
    My house looks just like it did in 1935 thanks to a photo that a family member gave me. So… yes… my home is dated and I couldn’t be happier!!!
    ( Just in the interest of total transparency… a bedroom and bathroom were added in the 70s and instead of installing a vintage claw footed tub I did put in a large shower but using vintage tiles and fixtures.)

  • @JoR00ke
    @JoR00ke Před 11 měsíci +6

    The wall to wall carpet one will be controversial here in the UK 😆 x

  • @peggyjohnson4651
    @peggyjohnson4651 Před 11 měsíci +5

    I just love your outlook that if you love it, keep it! I have gotten so many ideas from you about how to update without necessarily doing costly renovations. Keep 'em coming!! Thank you!!

  • @SeaTurtle515
    @SeaTurtle515 Před 11 měsíci +11

    Well, I think the trend now is mixing vintage pieces, be it cherry or something else with a few newer pieces; the effect being more relaxed and cozy and less sterile as too much modern furniture will do to a house. Cherry wood cabinets can be very beautiful and timeless, with maybe updating the countertops and handles. And please, could people start buying couches in something else than white? How about taupe or even darker?

  • @juliemckinnon1480
    @juliemckinnon1480 Před 11 měsíci +6

    V helped me talk hubby into painting the cherry cabinets Greek Villa! Huge difference. 🥰

  • @anne-mariebautista6849
    @anne-mariebautista6849 Před 11 měsíci +4

    OMG! I think this is one of my new fave videos. I love that you keep it real. I watch your videos and add items to my list to elevate my apartment and not break the bank. Thank you for all you do and share.

  • @Jamie_33
    @Jamie_33 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Can you talk about tile throughout the house? What colors and style do you recommend? Living in AZ it’s a must!

    • @jeffbiddle1956
      @jeffbiddle1956 Před 11 měsíci

      Don’t do grey and don’t do wood-like tile. I did and I regret it. I wish I had just done hardwood and then tile in the wet areas.

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl Před 10 měsíci

      Simple solid colors like creams, off whites, neutral beiges with no pink undertones are timeless and go with everything.

  • @evycasanas996
    @evycasanas996 Před 10 měsíci +3

    OMG 😂 literally laughing so hard-you are hilarious! Truthful with a fun delivery. ❤

  • @lynnsalberg5647
    @lynnsalberg5647 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Your mom is my kind of lady !!! She decorates to make her home cozy and her family happy! Love it !

  • @marlenebrunet1119
    @marlenebrunet1119 Před 11 měsíci +14

    Absolutely spot on! We built our house in 2000 and those are the exact things we changed to update it. Changed out all the shiny brass hardware to bronze, painted my oak cabinets cream, got rid of ALL carpet (even in the bedrooms)- went with dark wood laminate floors. I chose classic over trendy (gray) and I think my choices will look amazing for years to come. Did warm gray paint in bedrooms and baths but I actually like it in those rooms and it’s just paint and will be easy to change when I’m over it. Solid advice and I love that you acknowledge that you should do what you love-then it doesn’t really matter if it’s “dated”- if you love it, you love it and that’s what’s most important!

  • @evelyngriggs8356
    @evelyngriggs8356 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Valentina, you have had me laughing out loud with your histrionics about “those cherry cabinets”!! I’m still stuck in the dark wood /warm white and smoked glass cabinetry in the lounge and I love them…!!! Eve😂😂

  • @danab.3531
    @danab.3531 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Love watching your videos - so inspiring!! Have you recorded a short video on area rugs (what's in / what's out)? ❤️

  • @irisscally950
    @irisscally950 Před 11 měsíci +26

    Just did my house in agreeable grey last year, I love it. It's a great neutral. Goes with everything. I am a blue person and it works, with my dark floors and quartzite and antique and pottery barn furniture with black accents.. I live on the lake and have beautiful oil paintings with gold gilt frames and they pop on the wall color. California landscapes and sail boat paintings. White cabinets and blue island, color called imalfi.😊

    • @user-ig9ri5er1c
      @user-ig9ri5er1c Před 11 měsíci +4

      Yes…Agreeable Gray!!

    • @toosense
      @toosense Před 11 měsíci

      Agreeable gray is a nice neutral with a warm undertone, can look beige in certain lighting. My house is Analytical Gray which has a warm green undertone, not really gray at all due to my house not getting much sunlight. I have old world landscape oil paintings as well. I think the grays that are a bit outdated are cooler toned.

    • @irisscally950
      @irisscally950 Před 11 měsíci +1

      That's why I went for agreeable grey, needed something light with warm undertones, not a lot of light in my space also. Windows on each end with none in-between.

    • @izziegirl6871
      @izziegirl6871 Před 11 měsíci

      Sounds lovely!

    • @denisemcgilvrey3966
      @denisemcgilvrey3966 Před 11 měsíci +1

      I painted my whole home (except the bedrooms) Agreeable Gray when we moved in 7 years ago. I still love it. We have updated our furniture, wall art, etc over the years which keeps it fresh but the paint still works well.

  • @stormomega37
    @stormomega37 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I love these videos and your honesty!! I changed my kitchen decor because of you. No more olive oil are decor. I upgraded with some beautiful pieces from West Elm. Thanks!! ❤❤❤

  • @carencranston5171
    @carencranston5171 Před 11 měsíci +8

    You are so right. Three years ago we moved, and we sold our heavy, expensive old furniture at a consignment shop for peanuts. No one wants it, including us! We love the new lighter, open look of our new house. Makes us feel younger😂

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl Před 10 měsíci

      Not even the modern stuff is selling as fast and it goes for peanuts as well. Antiques do well and only if they are truly rare pieces. I know, I work in the reselling industry.

  • @jennifer1110
    @jennifer1110 Před 10 měsíci +1

    You were spitting facts about cabinets. I can pretty accurately guess when the house was built just by looking at cabinets.

  • @melanieluh2516
    @melanieluh2516 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I paid to have my huge expensive Ethan Allen Cherry bedroom set taken away last year.....as hard as it was to let it go....I couldn't be happier!

  • @jacki6301
    @jacki6301 Před 11 měsíci +5

    I'm with mom. There, I said it!

  • @psyche8187
    @psyche8187 Před 11 měsíci +15

    Don’t you think matte black could be too modern in a traditional home? I like polished nickel because it’s warmer than chrome. So it’s more neutral, in my opinion. Obviously Unlaqured brass is always beautiful.

    • @r-e_mii
      @r-e_mii Před 10 měsíci +1

      I prefer brushed nickel over any other finished. Be careful when choosing non-natural finishes like matte black. Unless the finish is almost baked in to the metal, eventually it'll come off.

  • @mikam8801
    @mikam8801 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I can remember “wall to wall carpeting” being a huge selling point with realtor advertisements.

  • @glowc2911
    @glowc2911 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Minnesota still use carpet in the bedrooms. Makes sense… its so dang cold here. But the more textured carpets for sure.

    • @cynthiajohnston424
      @cynthiajohnston424 Před měsícem

      Exactly ! Illinois has some brutally cold weeks & carpet not only feels physically warmer but also softens the look of a room . 🤗

  • @brenmanock
    @brenmanock Před 9 měsíci +1

    I feel that trends coming and going now have very much accelerated. It's hard to keep up. I was upset that flooring guys couldn't refinish my solid wood floors in a cherry color fifteen years ago. Now I'm glad they are more neutral

  • @lorraine1443
    @lorraine1443 Před 11 měsíci +22

    I have my two cents opinion to add here :-) White looks good in "interesting" rooms (with some architectural interest), but in a box house----the lower-end homes, it can look very "contractor thoughtless" And beige HAS to be the right beige to match the flooring!! I have a pink undertone in my kitchen tiles (that will be GONE soon) and yellow-toned "wood" IKEA cabinet faces (that will also be gone soon). They clash and it looks worse than dated. I believe this is the struggle some people have---seeing the undertones in materials/colors. Sometimes "strong" colors can really give life to a room that is otherwise a BOX and detract from other features that one doesn't have the $$$ to replace---yet. For example, at least in Pinterest photos, an all "almost black" room (ceilings and all) can look good in rooms that are featureless. It makes the household's furniture etc stand out---like an art gallery. White and beige are "safe" but can (much of the time) look quite boring if not done right (in the contractor homes). What do you think?

    • @MizJilly
      @MizJilly Před 11 měsíci +2

      I agree with you 100 percent. Stark whites seem to work best as the backdrop to either good furniture, good architecture, or interesting colors in the room (including black and white like Valentina's home). My kitchen is white (BM Chantilly Lace), because I have green upper cabinets and black lowers, and I wanted the cabinets to pop. Generally, though, I think softer tones are more decor friendly. Dove Wing is one safe bet and has become my favorite no-brainer paint.

    • @lisahershock7682
      @lisahershock7682 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Completely agree.

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl Před 10 měsíci

      Spot on!

    • @tamarastone141
      @tamarastone141 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Yes, i agree. White walls in my home would make it feel like a rental property. Especially since I have low ceilings.

  • @twoteesgee
    @twoteesgee Před 11 měsíci +4

    I recently learned that brass doorknobs are naturally anti-bacterial.

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl Před 10 měsíci +1

      Same as silver and copper.

  • @tgeetoo9451
    @tgeetoo9451 Před 11 měsíci +2

    You are so funny - and your honesty is refreshing😂 Thank you!!

  • @lolasalesmoore236
    @lolasalesmoore236 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you V!!! I love grey/black/beige paint colors… thx for sharing, I don’t care for cherry furniture either… I’m updated in my home! YAY!!! Blessings!!

  • @brenmanock
    @brenmanock Před 11 měsíci +1

    I love hearing what’s dated so I can refresh where needed. Ty

  • @MaryRodriguez-op1zy
    @MaryRodriguez-op1zy Před 11 měsíci +1

    Love this video. Welcome back you have been missed. From New Jersey 👍🏻

  • @millydelaprida2808
    @millydelaprida2808 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Yay been waiting for this ☕️ thank you ❤

  • @CeliaCavalli
    @CeliaCavalli Před 11 měsíci +2

    I’ve been over grey since day one!
    I am so glad it’s on its way out

  • @kathybend797
    @kathybend797 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Hello Valentina, love watching your videos, seeing you looking pretty and enjoying your coffee, and beautifully furnished and styled home! Thank you for updating us on what's now in💃🏽 and what's now out 🏃🏽‍♀️! I agree, do what you want in your home, but when stuff is outdated, 😲 I want to see 👀what's new, 😂 tfs! ❤⚘

  • @teresahenning9911
    @teresahenning9911 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I loved this video! Admittedly, I have a few of these things (ahem, cherry armoire), but am slowly doing updates. I absolutely love your sense of humor, and appreciate your honesty about certain styles. Thanks for the laughs today! 😂

  • @ecatwoman1964
    @ecatwoman1964 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Pets and small children can open the lever style doorknobs very easily, possibly creating a dangerous situation.

  • @anngerald7770
    @anngerald7770 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Valentina! The truth may hurt vomit it ALL. You’re helping and educating us!!

  • @cma9042
    @cma9042 Před 11 měsíci +7

    We bought our current home just a couple of years ago and are the third owners. It was built in the mid 1980s but the interior was painted in very 1970s orange gold, avocado green and brown colors. Within our first months of ownership ALL rooms have been repainted in lighter, fresher colors!!! We also had the stompt ceilings 😝....smoothed, primed and painted.

    • @fionaschiffl8065
      @fionaschiffl8065 Před 11 měsíci

      Congrats on doing straight away. Been in my house for 15yrs and precious little has been done. Now the house is mine I’m doing what I like to it and it’s helping me to recover emotionally.

  • @nnanette
    @nnanette Před 11 měsíci +6

    I wasn’t sure about you, I even unsubscribed, yeah, I was butt hurt about something, I don’t even remember what it was. But I came back, and I have to say I love every one of your videos. I went on a binge the other day, and I’m here to stay. You’re amazing and a great inspiration. I really appreciate your honesty ! Thank you!

    • @janicetribbiani7535
      @janicetribbiani7535 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Lol! We tend to be sensitive about some of our choices, don't we? ☺

    • @nnanette
      @nnanette Před 11 měsíci

      @@janicetribbiani7535 absolutely, but wow, I agree with V 99 percent of the time! Haha!

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl Před 10 měsíci

      Meh, she is alright. I had seen better. I hear her but take everything with a grain of salt. We are very different in our style.

  • @organziedconfusion3699
    @organziedconfusion3699 Před 6 měsíci

    This is so funny! I recently re painted my old bedroom cherry furniture. “My mama was pissed! She loves cherry wood furniture 😂

  • @normapreciado-burton1124
    @normapreciado-burton1124 Před 10 měsíci

    Yay!! I couldn't decide what to do with our kitchen cabinets. They are getting painted. Thank you so much Valentina.

  • @arianapopescu3729
    @arianapopescu3729 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I absolutely love Valentina and her bubbly personality❤
    Totally imagining her right now going around the house, inspection if she missed any other round door knobs 😂❤❤❤

  • @carolynwilliams-gerdes2814
    @carolynwilliams-gerdes2814 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Valentina, totally agree on the aesthetic aspects. With a view to re-using/repurposing/sustainability, would love to have tips/tricks for refinishing cherry wood or painting metals (ie. door handles). 💜

  • @GEOMETRICINK
    @GEOMETRICINK Před 11 měsíci +3

    11:35…those are my cabinets EXACTLY! Oh, they are the worst. So dated! I painted mine as a little refresh until we can do a full renovation. Keep in mind you can do little changes at a time. Change out one light fixture here and there until one day they’re all fresh and new. Same with knobs, faucets, paint. I’ve been doing my entire home over time. It makes the project seem doable and affordable.

    • @baseballmomof8
      @baseballmomof8 Před 11 měsíci

      Mine too! House built in 2001. No funds to re-do…. The hubs bought a boat 😂

  • @ednareid5315
    @ednareid5315 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Great video! I love white cabinets. Great tips, so true👍

  • @lynnpetti3817
    @lynnpetti3817 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I live in the woods, in a log home. Have wall to wall Berber carpet. Don’t want more wood on the floors. It would probably look great but I need some softness. I do have aged bronze lever doorknobs though. 😏. Fun stuff.

  • @stacyhamilton1421
    @stacyhamilton1421 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I'm in the process of painting my walls white. I painted my kitchen cabinets Nantucket blue. I'm changing all my doorknobs tomorrow. I have also painted my dining room table. I haven't even spent 1k yet, and my house looks transformed. All your tips are spot on!!!

  • @monicahartman3013
    @monicahartman3013 Před 11 měsíci

    Your honesty & comments were HILARIOUS! 😂 I totally agree with you tho!

  • @christineterezakis3763
    @christineterezakis3763 Před 10 měsíci

    Great info in this video! I learn so much from your great tips. You're cracking me up with that funny evil laughter today, hahahahaha!

  • @bitabonita3713
    @bitabonita3713 Před 11 měsíci +4

    No worries Valentina 😂, I love that you say the truth, and that is what matters the most. Go ahead and say it 😅

  • @zahiyahassan9068
    @zahiyahassan9068 Před 11 měsíci +1

    We donated our old wood stained cabinets chairs dining set from Ethan Allen and now have Lulu and Georgia dining table and cabinet looks so cool and updated painted my dining living simply white it’s the best white paint color period! Great topic Enjoyed it!❤❤❤

  • @OpalRavenna
    @OpalRavenna Před 10 měsíci +2

    I’ve been looking at homes to purchase in a particular sunny state to become rental property. I cannot tell you how many of these homes were decorated in the 1990’s with dusty blues and mauve, even the carpeting and never updated.

  • @letisiagonzalez5888
    @letisiagonzalez5888 Před 10 měsíci

    Love your high energy!! totally me when I have coffee. 😂 I was certain your number 5 you mentioned to guess would be vertical and horizontal blinds.

  • @AZTucker
    @AZTucker Před 11 měsíci +2

    Painted in 2015; Almond Rocha by Sherwin Williams. Fast forward to 2023 repainted. Same color. It looks like leather. Accented with Sticks and Stones; by Sherwin Williams.

  • @Angel-ng9tq
    @Angel-ng9tq Před 10 měsíci

    Hello Victoria, first timer here....really enjoyed your video! Your laugh is everything!xx💖

  • @ralphkeating7564
    @ralphkeating7564 Před 10 měsíci

    Omg!!! So fun to see this video!!! Your laugh didn't seem mean. It was infectious. I was able to laugh at myself, too!!! Lol...and others!!! 😂 Fun video!!!

  • @danah.8668
    @danah.8668 Před 10 měsíci

    Valentina, let me first say I completely adore her (and her decor)!!! ❤❤
    I agree these are the first areas I updated in my home, and since I’m not a designer, I thoroughly enjoy these types of videos and watch them way too regularly!! I understand not everyone has disposable income or even wants to upgrade their home so do whatever makes you happy! 😊

  • @amreens9987
    @amreens9987 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Lol Valentina you are hilarious I love your videos. I have learnt so much from you. Thank you for everything you do.

  • @tamb7587
    @tamb7587 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Totally agree with u on the carpet, it’s nasty and hard to keep clean..However some young people are seeking to buy homes of a time period that have as much original quality as possible. My son who is 30 is crazy about the American Victorian period , he seeks out and purchases that furniture and all things Victorian ( American). His paint colors , dishes etc. He has a very good female friend he went to high school with , who purposely sought out a home built in the sixties that still had all original tile and plumbing fixtures etc. She bought it has not changed anything and filled it full of original mid century furniture, decor and kitchenware as she could find.. Both homes are a site to see , both of these intentionally procured by people only 30 years old..

  • @selenas1521
    @selenas1521 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I find white walls so boring. No personality to the house especially if your sofa and chairs are white or cream. I feel like everything fades into each other. Your black fire place helps balance it out. However white on white on white is boring and looks like you had no thought for the room.

  • @juliettebobcat704
    @juliettebobcat704 Před 11 měsíci

    Oh. My. God. This is THE best video of yours ever. I won't ruin the suspense, but you're hilarious!! Thanks for the honesty.

  • @tiffanyvaughan
    @tiffanyvaughan Před 10 měsíci +1

    Hahaha my son just gave me an earful for saying I was going to replace all the carpet from our stairs all the way upstairs and every bedroom - he did NOT want to lose his carpet 🤣 An area rug was apparently not a good compromise either 😆🤣

  • @danielle8485
    @danielle8485 Před 10 měsíci +9

    Valentina always makes me happy and smile . The laugh, energy and her advice I love it all ❤

  • @lisatague305
    @lisatague305 Před 11 měsíci +2

    You always make me smile ! I disagree with the door knobs vs levers . Lever doors are easy for young children and animals can also open the lever. The levers also get stuck in my pockets. Therefore in my new build matte black knobs are my choice for safety reasons. 😢

  • @ellegunning
    @ellegunning Před 11 měsíci +2

    Ok!! Yikes&Yes...I have wall to wall carpet and suffer from allergies...I and ready to demo my own carpet - (with a mask on of course 😂😂😂)!!!!

  • @marionallen2222
    @marionallen2222 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Yes! All of those are great tips! All gotta go lol we had carpet too … and in the bathroom LOL so gross !!! that was the first thing to go 🤣🤣🤣 hardwoods and rugs all the way!!! Black matte fixtures!!! Love with white paint 🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤 black and white everything lol I never was happy with the grey now I have the warmer feels of the taupes and beige and camel with cream black and white and I’m in heaven with all my green plants for “color” 🪴🪴🪴🤍🖤💚🤍🖤💚🤍🖤💚🌳🌿🌱🌾

  • @larasoohon207
    @larasoohon207 Před 11 měsíci

    I really love this video, you are so funny and talented, thank you for always sharing great content.

  • @robinh6623
    @robinh6623 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Because we are kinda kooky and gothic/rockers we have black furniture in every room - so happy the world is catching up with us! Never liked carpeting and my kitchen needs to be RAZED! Next year :)

  • @vikkiwebb1424
    @vikkiwebb1424 Před 10 měsíci +2

    In the end, it’s only opinion. Decorate for yourself with what you like.