When a Man Uses You, Here Are 6 Signs You'll Miss

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Komentáře • 13

  • @melaniecastillo9786
    @melaniecastillo9786 Před rokem +4

    This is the best timed video yet. I feel like you were speaking to me directly. I appreciate your advise and knowing how I feel right now

  • @lindadunn5707
    @lindadunn5707 Před rokem +6

    I have been through this for 2yrs & on mother's day he ended our engagement then I told him I was 12wks pregnant, he still didn't want commitment, so we parted our ways this mother's day after 2yrs of being together, then early hours of the 20th of this month I lost the baby , god I don't think I have the strength to keep going 💔 but with the love of my beautiful daughter Carly who is 33yrs & been there for me since I am slowly coming to terms with everything I have lost , & I will rise again & hopefully meet someone worthy, Everything you have you have said is so true Bern , Thankyou for helping me see him for what he truly was , & now my life will go on & be truly happy 1 day soon I pray 🙏, God bless you , your Vivid fan always Linda x

    • @EndPoliceBrutailty
      @EndPoliceBrutailty Před rokem

      Sending 🙏🍀 and 💞

    • @BernMendez
      @BernMendez  Před rokem +3

      Linda, I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest wish is that you never lose the faith that life can and will get better as you continue making great choices. Many blessings to you.

  • @mariapap8962
    @mariapap8962 Před rokem +5

    Great advice! Thank you!

  • @EndPoliceBrutailty
    @EndPoliceBrutailty Před rokem +2

    Very helpful video, Sir! Thanks to your videos, I have hope my next boyfriend will be way better than the ones I've had thus far. Maybe he'll play the viola like me! 😊

  • @axelashu
    @axelashu Před rokem +3

    Omg.. this is it... Intensity over intimacy... No interest in things about me ... But his mo was that he wants to step up..and eventually he will... He just wouldn't do what was required to be done.. either because he didn't know or he didn't like it.. but he kept saying he wants to and will eventually.. he really really wanted to marry me though... Sadly I do regret saying no (heartbreak is painful and maybe he could have changed)... I wish he was different

    • @BernMendez
      @BernMendez  Před rokem +3

      You want to make sure to be with a guy based on his reality vs his potential : )

  • @nursejen1111
    @nursejen1111 Před rokem +5

    nope I'm using him😂

    • @BernMendez
      @BernMendez  Před rokem +12

      Perhaps you can guide him to my video and he can invite YOU to step up : )

    • @nursejen1111
      @nursejen1111 Před rokem +5

      @@BernMendez 😂