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Bernardo Mendez
United States
Registrace 27. 01. 2011
Learn more about private coaching: bit.ly/call-with-bern
I created this channel to help women navigate their romantic lives, gain confidence and perspective, and ultimately to attract & sustain thriving partnerships.
I've been a high-performance coach for twenty years, and for the past decade, I've privately coached ambitious and high-performing women in how they approach and navigate dating and romantic relationships, resulting in entering fulfilling life partnerships.
If you want to go deeper into the nuances of the content, you find on this channel, sign up and receive my free video series: bit.ly/my-dating-cure-training
I put out new videos here on my channel every Friday.
I created this channel to help women navigate their romantic lives, gain confidence and perspective, and ultimately to attract & sustain thriving partnerships.
I've been a high-performance coach for twenty years, and for the past decade, I've privately coached ambitious and high-performing women in how they approach and navigate dating and romantic relationships, resulting in entering fulfilling life partnerships.
If you want to go deeper into the nuances of the content, you find on this channel, sign up and receive my free video series: bit.ly/my-dating-cure-training
I put out new videos here on my channel every Friday.
The 5 MAJOR Differences in How Men & Women FEEL Attraction
[Take My Free Quiz]: What's the #1 Reason You're Single: bit.ly/youresinglequiz
Work with Bern: bit.ly/speakwithbern
Get My Free Training: bit.ly/my-dating-cure-training
Work with Bern: bit.ly/speakwithbern
Get My Free Training: bit.ly/my-dating-cure-training
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This is true❤💯
I will never have Sex til I'm Married!❤
My tension is not great. If he wanted to spend time. He would make it count.
I think u met one of these great guys!
No sex before marriage. That is God's way. Cheap, loose women? No. Men do not want to be married to a harlot. When they are at work, is she making out with another guy?
Stop picking on women you old wrinkle man, y'all always think is only women getting old
Be yourself, authentic & walking your happy path & you'll click with right man for you. I'm 57 & still believe this. And if not, I'm still walking my happy path.
Thank you for watching : )
Nowadays, there's so much tips techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words od Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.
I don’t know but I’m pretty visual at first. Definitely needs to be a physical attraction first, then I need to see he knows how to treat me.
Thanks for watching : )
Love your presentations! Your sincerity and care are inspiring in each one. Thank you.
Thanks for your kind words : )
Breaking into his mind by expertly knocking down his psychological walls and making him tingle with feelings of pleasure, means you're doing it right. There are many so called "canned phrases" to make it happen, for example go’ogling something like Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire was the perfect formula for me
No self-control..! No discipline..! The urge is Not, Not, Not Natural., it is a self-conditioning over time and looking at Playboy, Penthouse, Porn which is a form of training of the brain...!
These are what I long for too. That’s what makes this all so sad. Men, woman, human. We want the same things. So why do we keep missing each other? No doubt women are missing what a man longs for. And no doubt men are missing what a woman longs for. I think most of us are scared of rejection and aren’t willing to be vulnerable before we can trust. But by holding out, the other person can’t fully trust us because we are holding back. And vice versa. So… Who goes first? Who should be the one to be vulnerable first? I think part of the solution is that every single one of us must be willing to be authentic, vulnerable, and courageous without the other person proving themselves as trustworthy. (I think this is different than someone proving themselves untrustworthy). In order to connect, we must risk being hurt. We must figure out ways to handle the pain and emotional turmoil, and trust ourselves that we will get ourselves through it. Until we do this, we will continue to find saviors in our partners where there aren’t any. Until we do this we will continue to be ships passing in the night. And we will continue to blame each other for missing us.
Yeah, well we all wish we had the “IT” factor.
Merci from South of France
This was so incredibly helpful and inspiring for me. In all honesty, I have been slacking so I deeply appreciate your message here. I’ve got a few ideas to try and I’ll keep working to make these more habitual
Thank you. This is just the video I needed.
Breaking into his mind by expertly knocking down his psychological walls and making him tingle with feelings of pleasure, means you're doing it right. There are many so called "canned phrases" to make it happen, for example go’ogling something like Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire was the perfect formula for me
Your videos are exceptional to me. Your humility is beautiful & your wisdom is proven. I’m finally free to date again so I would pay for the information & understanding you provide. I’d pay extra for the way you provide it. Thank you. May increase overtake your life🙏🏾
Thank you Jessika for uour kind words and for your support. The videos are a small snapshot of what my coaching practice is, if you're ever interested in getting guidance and support you can reach out here: bit.ly/speakwithbern
[Take My Free Quiz]: What's the #1 Reason You're Single: bit.ly/youresinglequiz
I like the casino example. 3 girls from the my area won a lot in a casino then went shopping in London 😅 they ended up banned from the casino 😊 Yes I agree breadcrumbing is breadcrumbing!
THanks for watching.
I loved this !
Sex is just an icing of a relationship. Respect and trust matters, once these are broken sex is nothing.
Women feel valued when they are seen and desired. Sure a lot of guys carry my luggage but its connection am seeking as a woman.
I actually love this video ❤ thank you for what you do ❤
Good advice everyone wants to feel appreciated ✨
Great video!!
Glad you enjoyed it :)
very, very beautiful! Thank you!
You’re welcome.
After many many many years of trying to be everything to someone by being who they want me to be only to be left behind....i will now focus on being enough for me and anyone who can really love me without all the tapdancing and 3 ring stunts.
Isn’t this what women have known all along? True intimacy is so much more than sex!
This was a great video👍
This was a great video👍
People are single because they haven't met their person. Idiots, horrible/insecure/unaware people are in relationships. Good, bad & indifferent but a vibrational match. Be kind to yourself. Appreciate yourself. Regardless of how much you accomplished.
Thank you
Great advice!!!
Ugh. Mansplainig to tell woman what to do.
Did you even watch the video? :)
Brillant explanation especially point 2
When an emotionally broken man is using a woman, he’ll show these signs: - he avoids truly deep and emotionally vulnerable conversations - he's inconsistent - he only contacts you when he needs/wants something - he doesn't REALLY include you in his life (it's all an illusion/fantasy) - he avoids commitments/labels - he makes you feel guilty/crazy/needy - he doesn't truly support you or your goals (in any real and tangible way) So, 1) Never EVER be afraid of losing him. You are the Divine feminine. Let him fear losing YOU! 2) Have an EXTREMELY low tolerance for ANY bad behavior... AVOIDANT or NARCISSIST? Let's be real. It's irrelevant. They both behave the same. The damage they do is the same. The trauma they cause is the same. FUCK THEM BOTH. So, When there’s a disagreement, an argument, a conflict, some bullying, disrespect, boundaries being crossed etc... someone will inevitably, most likely, be disappointed in me... So, I engage in each and every situation in a way that ensures, that the person disappointed in me, NEVER ENDS UP BEING ME! I aim to never repress, never suppress. I aim to never lose parts of myself. Radical honesty only: 100% of the time. Always, all ways. AND REMEMBER: to test if ANY relationship is healthy - you've got to judge the relationship on its bad days, not on its good ones!
What is the point to be with someone who tell u he love you when you get sick they go away and never ask how you feeling waist time money and love us better to be alone no Metter what u do for a guy they never happy so my only humble opinion is to stay away from people's who doesn't deserve your time
Basically i think everyone must be true and genuine. Be yourself. And respect others. These "rules" or qualities, what ever,don't apply if people use them to manipulate someone. Sooner or later your true colors come up. And that's when problems start. I would reformulate these "rules " to: First, don't lie and don't pretend to be someone you are not. Sooner or later the other person will know who you really are. Second, respect yours and the other person's boundries. Third, be nice and respectful and treat the other person the same way you would like to be treated.
I'm tired of men talking about how if they get all of this specialized attention from women that they will be happy. Sounds kinda codependent to me.
It's all, in the power of the mind and naturally what you both feel, deep down. Inside your heart. ✝️
On the hero archetype thing...one of my favorite hero archetypes in fiction is Aragorn in Lord of the Rings. So kind, so gentle, so vulnerable...and yet absolutely courageous and even a dangerous man when he needs to be, when his loved ones are in danger.
Your face is so expressive 😊
Bern, can a younger man fall in love with an older woman?
Yes... AND like anything in life, not all situations are equal or feasible : )
When will a man admire his female partner? This is soooo important
This happens daily in good relationships. : )
Men want a younger model.
My boyfriend said he fell in love with my positive attitude and my beaming light that lit up all around me
YES! That's awesome.
Beautiful.
Uh, I think you are talking about PEOPLE, not men. Women want those things too.